It is a journey because once you become isolated you lose your social skills and start to fear social situations meaning potentially years of lonliness, it's a difficult hole to escape from.
@22JaneDoe Thats right, I go out to the pub, but I will admit my social skills r bad, I can talk to people, but Im not exactly being myself, I find Im always trying to be like others and feel they can see through it sumtimes. But Ive tried being just me and it always puts people off, I just feel like I cant win sumtimes, I get sick of people.
this vid actually made me smile truthfully for the first time in a long time, felt like this for so long. this vid helps show that im not the only that feels like this and helps others by showing they are not alone either. whoever made this, great work and thank you.
What an askewed view. Depression, loneliness does this. It magnifies and destorts reality. Videos like this feed it. Why am I here because I'm lookin for positive input on how to overcome loneliness and depression in my senior years. This video is self defeating.
@manuella1940 You're not alone. I agree that this video may feel self defeating but it allows us to feel in company. You're not alone....I'm here for you.
@manuella1940 There are plenty of videos on here about dealing with depression. Condescending, false, feel-good drivel. The sort of thing that doesn't work for people like me. This video helps because it makes me feel there is at least one person in this world who can relate to my feelings. Because it is so easy to believe that you are all alone.
I have not yet come to the place of solitude. The place at peace with the lonely feelings. I had escaped that world but now I feel it coming back. Its the devil at my heals. The wind blowing against my spine...
The memories of the years before seep in. It feels like my blood has dropped a few degrees.
How long untill i reach that place? The place where the solitude licks your wounds? When it no longer burns me?
everybody's got their lives,i just don't see how i fit in all that.i don't see me being normal,and for that im the weird one.the outcasted one.feeling alone i guess is as close as a friend i could ever have.people these days are so shallow and two-faced.being friends with them is just not who i am,i cant lie to myself saying im like them.im just a different person who's looking for whats worth living for these days.kid cudi's the only guy i could relate to.im not strange,just not the same.
For me, I see so many people living a life full of friends and happiness and yet I feel I'm out in a void looking at all this happiness as if I'm only seeing it on a television and there is no penetrating the screen to expereince this happiness.
I used to be happy, having some anxiety-related social problems. Soon enough loneliness sipped in, and i don't even know how. Loneliness and other problems then caused me to experience anhedonia. Feeble attempts to socialize and form hobbies kept being made, but to no avail.. Im guessing its time to see the shrink? I really do hope all of you the best in defeating this illness, especially when its hard to feel understood.
Things change from today, ima look people in the eye when they speak to me or i to them, i'm gonna stop feeling as if i'm not worth knowing, i'm a good person and i'm going to finally get to know people.
ive been feeling like this for three years now
misschocolatepocky 2 weeks ago
;'(
jackrussel999 2 weeks ago
It is a journey because once you become isolated you lose your social skills and start to fear social situations meaning potentially years of lonliness, it's a difficult hole to escape from.
22JaneDoe 1 month ago
@22JaneDoe Thats right, I go out to the pub, but I will admit my social skills r bad, I can talk to people, but Im not exactly being myself, I find Im always trying to be like others and feel they can see through it sumtimes. But Ive tried being just me and it always puts people off, I just feel like I cant win sumtimes, I get sick of people.
RaikenXion 1 week ago
Wow, it is so scary true. Oh my god what an articulate version of my feelings.
jadi707 1 month ago
this video pierced my heart
piwhitfield 1 month ago
i know you,you are sensitive and you hide it because you fear getting steped on one more time...etc.
penelopexD1 1 month ago
this vid actually made me smile truthfully for the first time in a long time, felt like this for so long. this vid helps show that im not the only that feels like this and helps others by showing they are not alone either. whoever made this, great work and thank you.
dobbo19930 2 months ago
oh my gosh...everything he said i can relate to,,,, is this even possible? :'(
britainfan4lyf 2 months ago
This makes me feel better as I can only relate to 9 out of 193 things. Huzzah!
VandalayInds 2 months ago
What an askewed view. Depression, loneliness does this. It magnifies and destorts reality. Videos like this feed it. Why am I here because I'm lookin for positive input on how to overcome loneliness and depression in my senior years. This video is self defeating.
manuella1940 2 months ago
@manuella1940 You're not alone. I agree that this video may feel self defeating but it allows us to feel in company. You're not alone....I'm here for you.
Furkin44 2 months ago
@manuella1940 There are plenty of videos on here about dealing with depression. Condescending, false, feel-good drivel. The sort of thing that doesn't work for people like me. This video helps because it makes me feel there is at least one person in this world who can relate to my feelings. Because it is so easy to believe that you are all alone.
GayGeisha 2 months ago
People know how you feel because they've been through it .
JenniferDeMusic 2 months ago
Made me teary.. :'( and made me realize that my life may not be perfect, I just need to stay very strong and keep that very small fire lit.. :')
Sallyh342 3 months ago
This is true, and this is how I feel sometimes :(
Siden08 5 months ago
It's the nights that are the worst. Always the nights.
GayGeisha 8 months ago
@GayGeisha yes i totally agree, sometimes you just feel REALLY lonely and i hate this feeling.. makes me wanna be alone ..
AmyWayx100 1 month ago
This guy really does know me!
njoyadiatta 8 months ago
whats the audio ?
sugrisk 8 months ago
@sugrisk Nine Inch Nails - A Warm Place
marcobenzo 8 months ago
@sugrisk just to clear things up, this isn't trent rezner from nin. this is henry rollins.
RevisitedTruth 6 months ago
I have not yet come to the place of solitude. The place at peace with the lonely feelings. I had escaped that world but now I feel it coming back. Its the devil at my heals. The wind blowing against my spine...
The memories of the years before seep in. It feels like my blood has dropped a few degrees.
How long untill i reach that place? The place where the solitude licks your wounds? When it no longer burns me?
I wonder...
CatchingElectricCity 8 months ago
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CatchingElectricCity 8 months ago
Made me cry.
Homurakitsune 8 months ago
@Homurakitsune me 2 ! i dunno why ...
AmyWayx100 1 month ago
haha 6 billion people on earth still were so lonely
qmoney000 9 months ago
This is a good site to help some one who need help
monzilla22 10 months ago
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CamillaIsabel96 11 months ago
every single thing said in this video is absolutely true for me. Every single detail. This guy really knows me we're all the same
Vincenthusky 11 months ago
everybody's got their lives,i just don't see how i fit in all that.i don't see me being normal,and for that im the weird one.the outcasted one.feeling alone i guess is as close as a friend i could ever have.people these days are so shallow and two-faced.being friends with them is just not who i am,i cant lie to myself saying im like them.im just a different person who's looking for whats worth living for these days.kid cudi's the only guy i could relate to.im not strange,just not the same.
moocowpunk 1 year ago
I feel lonely most of the time. Small not-so-close family and no friends. Yay pity parties.
GlammerJammer 1 year ago
@GlammerJammer wow thats me too exactly! well probably a lot of people.
CloudWatcherX 1 year ago
For me, I see so many people living a life full of friends and happiness and yet I feel I'm out in a void looking at all this happiness as if I'm only seeing it on a television and there is no penetrating the screen to expereince this happiness.
RB902050 1 year ago 3
I used to be happy, having some anxiety-related social problems. Soon enough loneliness sipped in, and i don't even know how. Loneliness and other problems then caused me to experience anhedonia. Feeble attempts to socialize and form hobbies kept being made, but to no avail.. Im guessing its time to see the shrink? I really do hope all of you the best in defeating this illness, especially when its hard to feel understood.
ShamlanFromQ8 1 year ago 2
Things change from today, ima look people in the eye when they speak to me or i to them, i'm gonna stop feeling as if i'm not worth knowing, i'm a good person and i'm going to finally get to know people.
Aaroniish 1 year ago 6
everyone can relate to this.....
camomclegend 1 year ago
omgosh this guys now like everything i feel and i cried over this video .... i love this video it's on my ipod i love it . keep up the good work
frutie1945 1 year ago
You opened up a window I've Ben trying to open up for years now.. :)
d7oomcm 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Do you need to know me?
Do you need to like me?
no,
but don't make me feel bad
DaTartanSpartan 1 year ago
I wish you weren't the only one who knew me x)
sconeweazel1213 1 year ago 2
Whoever post this video, seems to know a million thing a person can feel!
Van2Dan 1 year ago 2
@Van2Dan that's probably 'cuz he/she must've been pretty lonely...ever thot 'bout it?
AbhishekPanigrahi 1 year ago 2
How can i download the audio???
Does someone know??
Thankyou
nazareno1234 1 year ago
damn :(
can just give everyone a hug please
*hugs*
LostintheWandering 1 year ago 2
@LostintheWandering ((*hugs*)) :)
modeserpent 1 year ago
you know me, man.. you're amazing, indeed!!!
bercintasampemati 1 year ago
This video made me cry
yomamaaz09 1 year ago 3
my goodness....so much truth in this.(for me) Especially the bits about nature and the seasons and such becoming a place of solace.
mujiel 1 year ago
I believe that what is said here is true for the vast majority of people these days
canadiansrule00 1 year ago
To anyone who finds meaning in this - you are my brothers and sisters.
GayGeisha 1 year ago 8
Inspiring.
duvalbit 1 year ago
this made me cry.....
mochababy1990 1 year ago
this guy can see through me...
jazzmanEE 1 year ago 2
wow this guy really freaking knows me :)
Acidfirelols 2 years ago 23
@Acidfirelols It's Henry Rollins
sd62t833 4 months ago
amazing
Dursunbabe 2 years ago
anger from sensitivity??
phone01294 2 years ago
i love this
phone01294 2 years ago
henrry rollands. spelling sorry .wat song is this
phone01294 2 years ago
amazing, i can actually find myself in this video.
what you are saying is absolutly right, and articulated in a good way.
nilssteyaert 2 years ago
awesome....brilliant...most creative ppl are like that...
champako 2 years ago
wow (:
HelloKittyLovex33 2 years ago
The strong are gentle, the weak are cruel.
badattitude77769 2 years ago 25
@badattitude77769 Well i'm fucked cause i'm the biggest pussy/coward weakest human I know and I am not cruel. I hope it stays that way.
Radz117 1 month ago
great
TotallyArielMoore 2 years ago