@Iliketosayfuckalot - I got a FB friend whose 7yr of son was threatened by another with a knife at school. So..sharing this video with her. Hope she likes this and understands.the "knock them the fuck out" bit (and rest of it too)
Yes! Just fucking YES! I wish someone had sat me down and got me watch this when I was like 13-14. I remember first hearing about the whole "It gets better" thing and thinking "Does it bollocks!" Sadly it took me up until the age of 19 to finally decide that "That which does not kill me only makes me stronger" so I really hope as many kids as possible see this video.
I totally agree with your video. I am sick and tired of these sesame street PSAs especially from non-gay celebrities. I understand that they think they are helping, but on the contrary they are quite condescending and treating you to embrace your victim mentality.
This is a BEAUTIFUL video. I too was bullied and I agree with your view of this epidemic. Bullies are nothing but Assclowns with no life and a broken home with no guidance.
We and our kids love this video.It's so true. That's what kids experience every single day in public schools. We agree to your message "Don't be a victim!"
ok i originally came on here to chew your ass out.
i support the it gets better project, for no other reason than it might give someone a little mood boost, and some times that all it takes to prevent another teen suicide.
however
thank you for posting this. the shit you said NEEDED to be said
FYI bullying in the news again - tragic - father of boy who killed himself as a result of the pain of bullying - has killed himself. See Bullying Claims Another Victim... an Unexpected One by Marlo Thomas in the Huffingtonpost. Thank you for this video - it's a relief from those that push sunshine and rainbows.
As a person that's been bullied a good portion of my academic career, it's so refreshing to have someone realistically approach the very real situation. You're a complete stranger to me and you understood my situation better than my closest friends do. And for that, I thank you for existing. Keep spreading truth my friend. :)
I really liked most of this video, but a part of it had me concerned, and that was where you talked about the lack of morality in schools. What morals can be taught that aren't based on religion that wouldn't have either religious people up-in-arms or non-religious up-in arms?
Eh, this is a very popular, 3 month old video, I doubt I'll get a response...
@Iliketosayfukalot Morals don't have to be backed by religion. I have morals, but I am a stout secular humanist. Morals were not instilled by god, they were developed(or not developed) by people. Sorry if I mistook your view on this, that part of the video seemed rushed to me and I'm in a really bad mood right now. Keep on with the good ass fucking(no pun intended) advice!
Well, I may not subscribe to all that was said, but there was a lot of truth in this video. I liked it and I think you give some good advice in here to kids who are victims. . Sometimes you are the only person who can stand up for yourself, but it's quite hard to do when it seems like everyone, including family, church and society, is against you.
@Iliketosayfukalot Not much, really. Someone called me that name on another video of yours. Which I hate, because they're not even the video's creator, but there's nothing I can do about it either.
Once I realize that (over and over I have to) I'm usually okay.
Today was a rough day.
I'm a medic. I get abused for pay ; )
Then I get it for nothing by some You Tube hateful [bleep].
I think I'll enroll my little girl in self defense classes and hope it occurs to her to use it when needed...she's brilliant but clueless how to react to otheres. Thanks again.
By the way, you look really hot dressed like a chick! LOL
@hollyberry997 She probably understands it. I have Asperger's, and, though I appear to be "out of it", I know what's going on most of the time. I just either don't know how or don't see the point to reacting to it.
@TMKristen Thank you. You can probably tell me more than I understand, she is 6, brilliant, musically gifted, and very beautiful (I'm biased) and because of her vocabulary and saying what's on her mind makes it hard for other children to relate to her. I would love to to slap the slobber out of the brats that are mean to her, but I can't. I hope at some point she can stand up for herself.
Thank you, I hope dealing with people gets easier as you get older?
@vickiormindyb I don't envy your job, it's pretty thankless, that makes you a special person...
My daughter seems normal exept for an large vocabulary, and 2 grades ahead, chaos and change can send her spinning, and her inability to deal with some social situations. Bullies by nature I think pick on those they think weak..In the long run she will graduate and become better than any of them. Doing well will be her revenge as such...
@Iliketosayfuckalot you hit the nail on the head hard. I had sort of the reverse situation like Jamie had but in 1985..eas in high school then and this guy I had known since 3rd grade had been bullying me. One day he picked on me, I yelled at him, he sucker punched me and went home that day and shot himself in the head with his dad's pistol.
Kids think they have it bad now? No one then asked me how I felt about it and I turned out pretty OK.
@Iliketosayfukalot Fuck jobs. Fuck apple. Can't wait to quit this fucking job so I can start my fucking career. Fuck Jose that bitch can suck a fucking dick. Gee I like to say fuck alot (SPONSER! :3)
That rocked! The It Gets Better Campaign has always bugged me a bit. It's not realistic or proactive enough. This guy gives kids something to work with. I wish he was my big bro when I was a kid. =)
if you can get rid of your bully with some martial arts and defending yourself you had some pussy ass bullies charles St. i was bullied literally my whole life. and ive even bullied some others. and when they pull out the martial arts. i pull out my baseball bat. im glad you have no grasp of the reality we live in as far as students go in america.
Second id like to note that Religion has no positive moral effect on humanity. in fact the opposite has been suggested. mammals bully. this occurs more with overpopulation and lack of nutrition. it is natures way of saying "we have too many. kill the weak or we all go" it is needed. And most bullys i know form High school went onto college. and most the ones that got bullied dropped out. again no grasp on reality if you think otherwise, all the jocks go on to college on mommy and daddy's money
You know what, I was bullied alot in school period. Having Asperger's is like having a target painted on your back. Now during school I found a way to get rid of bullies without lifting a finger. I brought an "Improvised Munitions" book to school everyday and read it. Funny you wouldn't think it would work due to the average intelligence of the bully but guess what, it worked. No energy expended.
@Iliketosayfukalot Outstanding! When I was a child no one gave me a trophy for being average. I had to bust my ass and be better than everyone else to get ahead and earn that little piece of paper saying how great I was. These days all kids in school get recognition or praised for being average. If they get praised for being average why would they want to be any better than average? Our society is teaching our children that lazy unimaginative behavior is acceptable and even rewarded.
My nephew plays the violin and he's never been bullied. That's b/c the bullies ALSO know that my nephew has a black belt in Tae kwon do, which he got when he was 10. His dad's an Instructor - and has a 3rd degree black belt.
So I'd say you're pretty damn right about that kind of violence: self-defense.
Funny, much of this has been stated by Dan Savage for years.
I have issue with your claim at 4:07-4:29 that taking religion out of schools is bad, that morale is created out of religion or that they don't teach morale if they don't teach creation as science&Jesus as lord. Who do you think does the bullying?With gays, it's OVERWHELMINGLY the fucking religious assholes(including their own parents)who spread vindictive,divisive fear&hate for those they are brainwashed into thinking belong in hell.
As a gay man who can barely stand half the 'It Gets Better' stuff, not to mention the horrific prisons that are state schools, I have to say that I LOVED this video.
So empower people! There's more strength in defending yourself than attacking another.
As someone who is gay, my first thought was "How can a straight guy tell ME that it doesn't get better". THEN I watched your video. Thanks! You are correct on so many levels. As a kid I was bullied a lot. Not because I was gay, just because I was the new kid in town and other kids were so cruel. It lasted for many years. The ironic thing is that by my senior year I was voted "Friendliest" of my class. By the way, you sorta look like Rick Springfield. It's a good thing ;)
Amen. On my YouTube page I also made a vid earlier this year saying similar things as you. In short, any bullying victim needs to learn mental and physical self-defense. Not so easy if the parents are bullies too. Regarding LGBT folks, they bully each other too and mental bullying happens a lot in adulthood. Each of us must learn self-love and to move around the jerks that come into our lives. Regarding religion in school, a lot of bullying and hate comes from religious folk though.
Part 2: My aunt told me she went to a summer camp where the girls were vicious to each other. And she turned 100 two years ago. And many of those who bullied were raised by caring parents. In my opinion, it is what happens when there is a flaw in the conscience... and it is not connected to learned activity.
Part 1: This is a great video, however "bullying" is not something new. It is not happening because the teaching of morality was taken out of the schools. It is not happening because students lack a moral compass and think there will be no consequences for their behavior. The students who are perceived to be the weakest have always been picked on. I was "teased" incessantly, and I attended school in the 50s and early 60s. I am now 65.
Not all bullies peak in high school. Some become middle-level managers, and then there are those like Donald Trump who bully their way to the top. Other than that, great rant!
This guy needs to be named Father of the Year. If he doesn't have kids, ladies, you need to get the line started now. This guy is entirely right. Same basic thing I plan on teaching my children when they're old enough. The correct response to a bully is sudden and overwhelming violence. Sure, you'll get suspended, but I'll buy you a video game to pass the time.
Wow, someone NOT trying to blow smoke up you ass! Follow the video's advice and it will get better. Or get rich and pay people to beat up your bullies for ya ;-)
You may want to google the "Make It Better Project"...
"GSA Network launched the Make It Better Project to let students, parents, teachers, school administrators, and adult allies know that there are concrete actions they can take right now to make schools safer for all students."
Awesome video, man. In regards to bullies, I was taught at a very early age to defend myself. I once had a bully that was taking my lunch money everyday. I came home in tears and told my father what was happening. He said "If you don't go to that school tomorrow and kick this bullies ass...I"m gonna kick YOURS." Unfortunately for the bully, I was more scared of my fathers wrath than I was of him...so the bully got his ass kicked...lol. That ended my bully problems for good...lol
Its a little different with girls. I found out my rich female abuser is an actress in NY and a philanthropist. I can only hope it is out of a sense of guilt and that her entire acting career is really only supported by her parent's money.
"Violence has resolved more conflicts than anything else. The contrary opinion that violence doesn't solve anything is merely wishful thinking at its worst." - Starship Troopers
I got rid of bullies using my brains and had not gotten into a single fight in high school. It taught me how to spot somebody's weakness if personality and hit them where it hurts. It also taught me how to bond with the meanest kids in the matter minutes. I learned how to be charismatic and funny. These things helped a lot in my life.
@UncleRed1234567 There are reasons why he recommended Aikido. One of them is that the main point of it is to defend yourself WITHOUT killing anyone. Better choice, since that way, you protect yourself from LIABILITY as well as injury.
Violence solves everything...haha. You are SO right on the money. The school systems policies actually protect bullies. Zero tolerance for fighting means the good kid who is being picked on doesn't have the ability to defend himself or sock a verbal bully in the nose... The Christmas Story is a perfect example. That kid would have gone to juvie and been prosecuted today.
A friend of mine posted a link to this on Facebook. So, I thought I would check it out. YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!! It's not gonna get better if you just sit there............You Have To Take Control!!
I got beat up everyday of my life ofr being skinny...
Until I discover the act of defensive violence. It works because it's legal. I say beat down the bad man. Terrorists don't get away with it either, so fight back.
Your so absolutely right!!! I loved this video and agree with everything you said! I was bullied growing up too and you have to own up and stand up for yourself! And I agree with your comments above about religion and how it doesn't teach morality! Good morals should be taught without religion getting involved! Keep the videos coming we need more people like you in the world:)
the part about bullies peaking in high school and no further...they are at work and gov't. you don't need to be religious to not be an asshole. just common sense-and that's what the world is lacking...just my opinion. but people do need to stand up for themselves.
@Iliketosayfuckalot - I got a FB friend whose 7yr of son was threatened by another with a knife at school. So..sharing this video with her. Hope she likes this and understands.the "knock them the fuck out" bit (and rest of it too)
JonInCorpus 2 days ago
Im in Aikido! Aikido of Denton ftw.
CesarRVAL 3 days ago
Yes! Just fucking YES! I wish someone had sat me down and got me watch this when I was like 13-14. I remember first hearing about the whole "It gets better" thing and thinking "Does it bollocks!" Sadly it took me up until the age of 19 to finally decide that "That which does not kill me only makes me stronger" so I really hope as many kids as possible see this video.
kurtjarram 6 days ago
@kurtjarram Thanks, Kurt!
Iliketosayfukalot 6 days ago
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rayofsunshine210 1 week ago
I totally agree with your video. I am sick and tired of these sesame street PSAs especially from non-gay celebrities. I understand that they think they are helping, but on the contrary they are quite condescending and treating you to embrace your victim mentality.
lucasboden 1 week ago
I love this, "SO TRUE" <3
rayofsunshine210 1 week ago 3
@rayofsunshine210 Thank you, Sunshine. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 week ago
@Iliketosayfukalot Of course :)
rayofsunshine210 1 week ago
This is a BEAUTIFUL video. I too was bullied and I agree with your view of this epidemic. Bullies are nothing but Assclowns with no life and a broken home with no guidance.
BigDaddyChis 1 week ago
@BigDaddyChis Thanks, Big Daddy!
Iliketosayfukalot 1 week ago
I want to have your baby....or at least give it one helluva try. Keep telling it like it is....xxx
divaelaine 2 weeks ago
@divaelaine HA! Awesome. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 week ago
I like this guy's approach! He knows what -really- goes on and what -really- needs to be done. Voice of Reason!
Solvandus 2 weeks ago
@Solvandus Thanks for that! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 weeks ago
We and our kids love this video.It's so true. That's what kids experience every single day in public schools. We agree to your message "Don't be a victim!"
Brabra1970 3 weeks ago 2
@Brabra1970 Thank you, Brabra! Best to you and your family! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 3 weeks ago
ok i originally came on here to chew your ass out.
i support the it gets better project, for no other reason than it might give someone a little mood boost, and some times that all it takes to prevent another teen suicide.
however
thank you for posting this. the shit you said NEEDED to be said
drake3058 3 weeks ago 6
@drake3058 I was hoping we'd be friends. ;) Thanks, Drake!
Iliketosayfukalot 3 weeks ago
@princ3platinum Wisdom.
Iliketosayfukalot 4 weeks ago
i signed into my account just to say THIS VIDEO IS THE BEST! i was never bullied but i hate bullies. they suck!
zeldamelt8 4 weeks ago
@zeldamelt8 You rule. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 4 weeks ago
Very powerful Message, thanks 4 creating this video! ~ will Continue to SMILE --- as my amo!!
SLSwriter 1 month ago
@SLSwriter Blinded by the awesome. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
Totally unrelated comment,
I dont know if you've ever seen Jekyll, the new tv series?
But you remind me of the main character - its the eerie, sexy, nonchalant, brutal even humorous image. I mean all that in a good way though :)
devochkadee 1 month ago
@devochkadee I'll have to check it out. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
I can't even think of a better vid for people to see.
This is great.
I am gay, and I wish someone had talked to me like this when I was a kid.
yvr36 1 month ago
@yvr36 Thanks, Tom. That means a lot to me, dude. :)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
LOL, you look like Rocky Balboa <3
Good video <3
ChavaAyanna 1 month ago
@ChavaAyanna Yo, Adrian! ;) Thanks!
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
I REALLY love your posts!!
dcdmarks 1 month ago
@dcdmarks Thank you!
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
You remind me of Colonel Graff from Ender's Game.
laifalbert 1 month ago
FYI bullying in the news again - tragic - father of boy who killed himself as a result of the pain of bullying - has killed himself. See Bullying Claims Another Victim... an Unexpected One by Marlo Thomas in the Huffingtonpost. Thank you for this video - it's a relief from those that push sunshine and rainbows.
iymamum 1 month ago
Lmao you make my day I swear.
holyfuxxxx 1 month ago
im not being bullyed but I really want to learn those fight moves...
potctk 1 month ago
As a person that's been bullied a good portion of my academic career, it's so refreshing to have someone realistically approach the very real situation. You're a complete stranger to me and you understood my situation better than my closest friends do. And for that, I thank you for existing. Keep spreading truth my friend. :)
alisonnn83 1 month ago 8
@alisonnn83 Thanks, Alison. I'll try to exist as best as I can. ;) (And now we're friends.)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
"and to all of the parents to all of the bullies in the world.. FUCK YOU."
haha, you're awesome.
h0ldmyweav3 1 month ago
@h0ldmyweav3 I have my moments. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
I really liked most of this video, but a part of it had me concerned, and that was where you talked about the lack of morality in schools. What morals can be taught that aren't based on religion that wouldn't have either religious people up-in-arms or non-religious up-in arms?
Eh, this is a very popular, 3 month old video, I doubt I'll get a response...
kizzume 1 month ago
@kizzume That's the problem: What morals CAN be taught without having people up in arms?
(And ye of little faith!) ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot Ok, so we agree on that. Cool :) Great video!
kizzume 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot Morals don't have to be backed by religion. I have morals, but I am a stout secular humanist. Morals were not instilled by god, they were developed(or not developed) by people. Sorry if I mistook your view on this, that part of the video seemed rushed to me and I'm in a really bad mood right now. Keep on with the good ass fucking(no pun intended) advice!
Gordonovski 1 month ago
Well, I may not subscribe to all that was said, but there was a lot of truth in this video. I liked it and I think you give some good advice in here to kids who are victims. . Sometimes you are the only person who can stand up for yourself, but it's quite hard to do when it seems like everyone, including family, church and society, is against you.
Matthewgreen7779311 1 month ago
@Matthewgreen7779311 Wisdom.
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
HAHAHAHA Stop beating these kids over the head with rainbows and sunshine.
thank youuuu
GreysonChanceFanatic 1 month ago
@GreysonChanceFanatic ;) You're welcome.
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot OMG YOU RESPONDED NO WAY AAAAAAH SCREAM
GreysonChanceFanatic 1 month ago
@GreysonChanceFanatic Now just wait till you hear me sing "Paparazzi". ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
This was really great! Thank you for putting out an honest yet hopeful and encouraging message out there!
yasminevine4 1 month ago
@yasminevine4 Thank you! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
Do you know that people call OTHER people pussies, and they do it on your channel?
It happened on another video, but I can't remember the name.
That name-calling crap, to someone you've never freakin met, is bullying bullshit too.
vickiormindyb 1 month ago
@vickiormindyb What did I miss?
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot Not much, really. Someone called me that name on another video of yours. Which I hate, because they're not even the video's creator, but there's nothing I can do about it either.
Once I realize that (over and over I have to) I'm usually okay.
Today was a rough day.
I'm a medic. I get abused for pay ; )
Then I get it for nothing by some You Tube hateful [bleep].
vickiormindyb 1 month ago
I couldn't have said it better myself, My 6 yr old daughter with Aspergers I only wish could understand this....
Thanks!
hollyberry997 1 month ago
@hollyberry997 You're welcome, Holly. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot
I think I'll enroll my little girl in self defense classes and hope it occurs to her to use it when needed...she's brilliant but clueless how to react to otheres. Thanks again.
By the way, you look really hot dressed like a chick! LOL
(but WAY better as a man! ;0)
hollyberry997 1 month ago
@hollyberry997 Thanks for noticing. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@hollyberry997 She probably understands it. I have Asperger's, and, though I appear to be "out of it", I know what's going on most of the time. I just either don't know how or don't see the point to reacting to it.
TMKristen 1 month ago
@TMKristen Thank you. You can probably tell me more than I understand, she is 6, brilliant, musically gifted, and very beautiful (I'm biased) and because of her vocabulary and saying what's on her mind makes it hard for other children to relate to her. I would love to to slap the slobber out of the brats that are mean to her, but I can't. I hope at some point she can stand up for herself.
Thank you, I hope dealing with people gets easier as you get older?
hollyberry997 1 month ago
@hollyberry997 My nephew has that, and I can barely recognize that there's even anything wrong with him...and I'M a paramedic.
That's how high-functioning most patients who have Asperger's are. But it figures a dang bully would find a way to turn that negative too.
They're real downers, bullies are.
vickiormindyb 1 month ago
@vickiormindyb I don't envy your job, it's pretty thankless, that makes you a special person...
My daughter seems normal exept for an large vocabulary, and 2 grades ahead, chaos and change can send her spinning, and her inability to deal with some social situations. Bullies by nature I think pick on those they think weak..In the long run she will graduate and become better than any of them. Doing well will be her revenge as such...
hollyberry997 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfuckalot you hit the nail on the head hard. I had sort of the reverse situation like Jamie had but in 1985..eas in high school then and this guy I had known since 3rd grade had been bullying me. One day he picked on me, I yelled at him, he sucker punched me and went home that day and shot himself in the head with his dad's pistol.
Kids think they have it bad now? No one then asked me how I felt about it and I turned out pretty OK.
JonInCorpus 1 month ago
"Oh, oh, violence doesn't solve anything!"
Violence.
Solves.
-Everything-
Best fucking line.
MarkJohansen123 1 month ago
@MarkJohansen123 You're gonna like it here in The Pleasure Dome, Mark. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot Fuck jobs. Fuck apple. Can't wait to quit this fucking job so I can start my fucking career. Fuck Jose that bitch can suck a fucking dick. Gee I like to say fuck alot (SPONSER! :3)
MarkJohansen123 1 month ago
@thnewfrontEAR ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
That rocked! The It Gets Better Campaign has always bugged me a bit. It's not realistic or proactive enough. This guy gives kids something to work with. I wish he was my big bro when I was a kid. =)
eraserdxl 1 month ago
@eraserdxl You guys rule. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
You're my new Youtube hero.
blueheidi 1 month ago
@blueheidi Thanks, Heidi. I needed to hear that. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot I hope you are someone's dad or at least a role model in some kids life.
blueheidi 1 month ago
@blueheidi That's what youtube is for. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
You said it perfectly.Love it.And if people don't like it fuck them..I swear a lot too!LOL
doormatt2000 1 month ago
@doormatt2000 Thanks, Doormatt. I needed to hear that, too. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
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lasoogneypubes 1 month ago
EricJames Borges killed himself yesterday. Feh. "Teach yourself ju-jitsu?" Guess he never had to take on six at once. Just get a fucking gun.
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MercedAFBrat77 1 month ago
Dude you rock
kevlax580 1 month ago 13
@kevlax580 Thanks, man! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
bang on dude
rhelkio 1 month ago
this is absolutely incredible!!
xMeAndMyBlackParadex 1 month ago
@xMeAndMyBlackParadex Thanks for that. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
20 people have a small penis....
LoganCunningham2 1 month ago
@LoganCunningham2 That was fucking awesome.
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
dayummmmm this guy tells the truth
aprillono 1 month ago
Omg I want to be just like you when I grow up. <3
gimmeyocheesebro 1 month ago
@gimmeyocheesebro If I would only grow up... ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot When did steve jobs die? i thought it was recently,but this was uplaoded in october:O
12shadowlink 1 month ago
@12shadowlink 10/5/11, dude.
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot i'm way offxD
12shadowlink 1 month ago
@12shadowlink October 5th.
blueheidi 1 month ago
Good, I wish this sort of message were circulated more....
gabsylv 1 month ago
if you can get rid of your bully with some martial arts and defending yourself you had some pussy ass bullies charles St. i was bullied literally my whole life. and ive even bullied some others. and when they pull out the martial arts. i pull out my baseball bat. im glad you have no grasp of the reality we live in as far as students go in america.
vorgoth55 1 month ago
Second id like to note that Religion has no positive moral effect on humanity. in fact the opposite has been suggested. mammals bully. this occurs more with overpopulation and lack of nutrition. it is natures way of saying "we have too many. kill the weak or we all go" it is needed. And most bullys i know form High school went onto college. and most the ones that got bullied dropped out. again no grasp on reality if you think otherwise, all the jocks go on to college on mommy and daddy's money
vorgoth55 1 month ago
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vorgoth55 1 month ago
You know what, I was bullied alot in school period. Having Asperger's is like having a target painted on your back. Now during school I found a way to get rid of bullies without lifting a finger. I brought an "Improvised Munitions" book to school everyday and read it. Funny you wouldn't think it would work due to the average intelligence of the bully but guess what, it worked. No energy expended.
BlackSunUnlimited 1 month ago
f...ing brilliant!!! xoxxo :) xxoxo
Aurarisma 1 month ago
@Aurarisma Thank you, Doll. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
@Iliketosayfukalot Outstanding! When I was a child no one gave me a trophy for being average. I had to bust my ass and be better than everyone else to get ahead and earn that little piece of paper saying how great I was. These days all kids in school get recognition or praised for being average. If they get praised for being average why would they want to be any better than average? Our society is teaching our children that lazy unimaginative behavior is acceptable and even rewarded.
BurbankSlum 1 month ago
My nephew plays the violin and he's never been bullied. That's b/c the bullies ALSO know that my nephew has a black belt in Tae kwon do, which he got when he was 10. His dad's an Instructor - and has a 3rd degree black belt.
So I'd say you're pretty damn right about that kind of violence: self-defense.
vickiormindyb 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos 2
@vickiormindyb Nice. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
Funny, much of this has been stated by Dan Savage for years.
I have issue with your claim at 4:07-4:29 that taking religion out of schools is bad, that morale is created out of religion or that they don't teach morale if they don't teach creation as science&Jesus as lord. Who do you think does the bullying?With gays, it's OVERWHELMINGLY the fucking religious assholes(including their own parents)who spread vindictive,divisive fear&hate for those they are brainwashed into thinking belong in hell.
122172639 1 month ago
Damn 20k views? lets hope its a reverse bell curve
ddvs2012 1 month ago
I appreciate this so much. As a gay kid I was never bullied, and that's exactly why: mental toughness and physical stamina.
virginiaseymour94 1 month ago
@virginiaseymour94 Thanks for that. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 1 month ago
As a gay man who can barely stand half the 'It Gets Better' stuff, not to mention the horrific prisons that are state schools, I have to say that I LOVED this video.
So empower people! There's more strength in defending yourself than attacking another.
autopolydidact 2 months ago 4
@autopolydidact Thank you for the compliment. And yeah, they're getting a bit Lord of The Flies-ish. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago 2
As someone who is gay, my first thought was "How can a straight guy tell ME that it doesn't get better". THEN I watched your video. Thanks! You are correct on so many levels. As a kid I was bullied a lot. Not because I was gay, just because I was the new kid in town and other kids were so cruel. It lasted for many years. The ironic thing is that by my senior year I was voted "Friendliest" of my class. By the way, you sorta look like Rick Springfield. It's a good thing ;)
SkaryMoviez 2 months ago
@SkaryMoviez Thanks for that, dude. Yeah, I seem to switch between Stallone, Springfield, Zappa and Paul Stanley. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
After watching about 10 of your videos, I'm having a hard time understanding how anyone even thought they COULD bully you.
I'd never think so, but I wouldn't bully someone anyway, b/c I was bullied every single day of every single year until I left school.
THEN I was bullied in college, which was a REAL trip.
vickiormindyb 2 months ago
@vickiormindyb Sucks being smaller growing up. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Amen. On my YouTube page I also made a vid earlier this year saying similar things as you. In short, any bullying victim needs to learn mental and physical self-defense. Not so easy if the parents are bullies too. Regarding LGBT folks, they bully each other too and mental bullying happens a lot in adulthood. Each of us must learn self-love and to move around the jerks that come into our lives. Regarding religion in school, a lot of bullying and hate comes from religious folk though.
jeff4justice 2 months ago
Part 2: My aunt told me she went to a summer camp where the girls were vicious to each other. And she turned 100 two years ago. And many of those who bullied were raised by caring parents. In my opinion, it is what happens when there is a flaw in the conscience... and it is not connected to learned activity.
Minskgal 2 months ago
@Minskgal Point taken. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
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Minskgal 2 months ago
I tried to punch some little asshole in the face when i was like 9. Lucky for him he moved out the way or ida been wailin on some stupid little fuck
Satega926 2 months ago
Part 1: This is a great video, however "bullying" is not something new. It is not happening because the teaching of morality was taken out of the schools. It is not happening because students lack a moral compass and think there will be no consequences for their behavior. The students who are perceived to be the weakest have always been picked on. I was "teased" incessantly, and I attended school in the 50s and early 60s. I am now 65.
Minskgal 2 months ago
This guy looks like Paul Stanley of Kiss!
kaylarose823 2 months ago 2
@kaylarose823 part Paul Stanley and part hank azaria
lrrlrr 2 months ago
Ok so you are a skinny, big dicked, intellectual, blackbelted, violent, fucker..who creates beauty in the world. LOL I can live with that.. Love it.
Vetiwitch 2 months ago
@Vetiwitch I think I'm stealing that for my bio. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
@Iliketosayfukalot haha... please do use in your bio. LOL :)
Vetiwitch 2 months ago
Not all bullies peak in high school. Some become middle-level managers, and then there are those like Donald Trump who bully their way to the top. Other than that, great rant!
stickman33 2 months ago
This guy needs to be named Father of the Year. If he doesn't have kids, ladies, you need to get the line started now. This guy is entirely right. Same basic thing I plan on teaching my children when they're old enough. The correct response to a bully is sudden and overwhelming violence. Sure, you'll get suspended, but I'll buy you a video game to pass the time.
Edymnion 2 months ago 16
@Edymnion I'll buy you a video game to pass the time. Awesome. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Thanks for your insightful video! I hope a future 'Steve Jobs' out there saw it and started googling some ways to physically defend himself....
keenanawake 2 months ago 2
@keenanawake You and me both. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Wow, someone NOT trying to blow smoke up you ass! Follow the video's advice and it will get better. Or get rich and pay people to beat up your bullies for ya ;-)
altradude 2 months ago
@altradude LOL!
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
i love your eyebrows <3
WalrusMuffins10797 2 months ago
You may want to google the "Make It Better Project"...
"GSA Network launched the Make It Better Project to let students, parents, teachers, school administrators, and adult allies know that there are concrete actions they can take right now to make schools safer for all students."
erikgreen428 2 months ago
Only needed one video to subscribe to you. Great video, I will hope to see your older videos later.
Keep those great videos coming. Peace!
joseocuevasjr 2 months ago
Awesome video, man. In regards to bullies, I was taught at a very early age to defend myself. I once had a bully that was taking my lunch money everyday. I came home in tears and told my father what was happening. He said "If you don't go to that school tomorrow and kick this bullies ass...I"m gonna kick YOURS." Unfortunately for the bully, I was more scared of my fathers wrath than I was of him...so the bully got his ass kicked...lol. That ended my bully problems for good...lol
sneakypreacher 2 months ago
Wow someone who is tellin the truth..
johnnie11364 2 months ago
Its a little different with girls. I found out my rich female abuser is an actress in NY and a philanthropist. I can only hope it is out of a sense of guilt and that her entire acting career is really only supported by her parent's money.
Aceiatx 2 months ago
@Aceiatx Or that she fucked her way to the top. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
I was bullied as a kid as well, and I agree with EVERYTHING YOU SAY
krwdserfur 2 months ago 3
@krwdserfur Thanks, man! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
"Violence has resolved more conflicts than anything else. The contrary opinion that violence doesn't solve anything is merely wishful thinking at its worst." - Starship Troopers
You rule!
SnakeOilPictures 2 months ago 3
@SnakeOilPictures Awesome...just awesome!
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
I got rid of bullies using my brains and had not gotten into a single fight in high school. It taught me how to spot somebody's weakness if personality and hit them where it hurts. It also taught me how to bond with the meanest kids in the matter minutes. I learned how to be charismatic and funny. These things helped a lot in my life.
carolcheny 2 months ago
If u wanna get real down and dirty, google Krav Maga. Deadlist martial art ever
UncleRed1234567 2 months ago
@UncleRed1234567 There are reasons why he recommended Aikido. One of them is that the main point of it is to defend yourself WITHOUT killing anyone. Better choice, since that way, you protect yourself from LIABILITY as well as injury.
alaras 2 months ago 2
I HAVE THOSE EXACT CUPBOARDS AT MY HOUSE!!!1
UncleRed1234567 2 months ago
Google it.
AnimatedBeauty 2 months ago
I posit that the problem is teaching kids religion instead of morality. Or, failing even that, not teaching them anything at all.
missmollygrue 2 months ago 8
@missmollygrue Truth.
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Violence solves everything...haha. You are SO right on the money. The school systems policies actually protect bullies. Zero tolerance for fighting means the good kid who is being picked on doesn't have the ability to defend himself or sock a verbal bully in the nose... The Christmas Story is a perfect example. That kid would have gone to juvie and been prosecuted today.
DrewDanube 2 months ago
@DrewDanube And had to attend sensitivity training. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Best video on the topic, on youtube. Thanks for putting this out there. Peace.
CAnative64 2 months ago
Thank you! It's about time someone told these kids to defend themselves.....
XNyanko 2 months ago 2
surprisingly inspiring!
josecarreon72 2 months ago
@josecarreon72 ;) Thanks!
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
A friend of mine posted a link to this on Facebook. So, I thought I would check it out. YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!! It's not gonna get better if you just sit there............You Have To Take Control!!
AudredDax 2 months ago
@AudredDax I like your angles. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
I got beat up everyday of my life ofr being skinny...
Until I discover the act of defensive violence. It works because it's legal. I say beat down the bad man. Terrorists don't get away with it either, so fight back.
activemode 2 months ago
@activemode Word. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
the ending song is by crybtobiotic, right?
DevilBoy1870 2 months ago
@DevilBoy1870 I dunno....came with iMovie. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
What Religion equals morality? I was with you up to that point. Most bullies are raised by church going folk.
DouglasF23 2 months ago 16
@DouglasF23 All should but most don't, sadly. And a lot of them, sadly again. ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Bad Ass! Love it!
Thanks for puttin' it out there!
MrBates1 2 months ago
@MrBates1 Thanks for that, bro! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Your so absolutely right!!! I loved this video and agree with everything you said! I was bullied growing up too and you have to own up and stand up for yourself! And I agree with your comments above about religion and how it doesn't teach morality! Good morals should be taught without religion getting involved! Keep the videos coming we need more people like you in the world:)
vkulka0411 2 months ago
@vkulka0411 Thank you, Doll! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
brilliant!
TheThirio 2 months ago
@TheThirio Thank you for that! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
Shaved apes...lmao
vickiormindyb 2 months ago
@vickiormindyb I liked that one, too! ;)
Iliketosayfukalot 2 months ago
the part about bullies peaking in high school and no further...they are at work and gov't. you don't need to be religious to not be an asshole. just common sense-and that's what the world is lacking...just my opinion. but people do need to stand up for themselves.
ferox965 2 months ago