P.s. The truest friendships are the enduring ones........ they are the people who stand by you through thick and thin, a good friend can be as precious as a lover.
If someone is truly your friend then they will accept you whatever your sexuality, (albeit maybe not instantly, as happened with some of my friends when I did!) those who are true will come back eventually. Whatever, give people time to 'adapt' and try not to be too in their faces about it.
What about your parents? I'm curious about how your father reacted or would react? I have yet to tell my dad that I'm gay and I'm in a quandary similar to yours on how exactly to tell him. He's very traditional Mormon. He's suspected that I was gay before, even to the point of taking me aside and asking me "Son, are you gay." I told him no. I want to tell him the truth but I really don't know how. Good luck with your friends, and if you could give me any advice, I would much appreciate it.
Good luck and stay strong. I just told my best friend about me, and even though he was positive about it, I'm still struggling about telling other people. Here in Portugal there's still a lot of prejudice about homosexuality, so there's this innate fear about coming out of the closet...So, it's been hard to stay strong and to be genuine and sometimes happy....
So when i watch videos like yours i find it refreshing and inspiring :)
P.S. This is a very important and necessary step. Once that you are likely to take over and over (and over). But it does get easier eventually as you come to accept yourself and surround with genuine friends who accept you for who you are...
Awe, Truly the way of life.. for one seems to continuously be coming out to someone, wether it be family, friends, coworkers or the such. Best of luck :-) Quite sure if they be worthwhile friends they shall understand.
I hope you wouldn't try to convince you to not live your life the way you choose. I can tell you wouldn't like that by the way you closed your eyes when you said the words.
First off, I wouldn't wait two days if you want to be the one to tell him. And second, you are an adult. A grown man. Why in the world would you entertain the idea of having someone else "talk you out" of being who you are? I am starting to think you might need professional help. Unbiased, separate from the church help. This sounds like you are playing a silly game with your life.
You are a very handsome boy!!!
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You are truly doing God's work. Thank you.
Tecobelli 1 year ago
I must know. How did it go??? Details!
NousavonsMik00 2 years ago 2
P.s. The truest friendships are the enduring ones........ they are the people who stand by you through thick and thin, a good friend can be as precious as a lover.
Queerkunt 2 years ago 2
If someone is truly your friend then they will accept you whatever your sexuality, (albeit maybe not instantly, as happened with some of my friends when I did!) those who are true will come back eventually. Whatever, give people time to 'adapt' and try not to be too in their faces about it.
Queerkunt 2 years ago
Nice video and good luck.
terrafirmaterrafirma 2 years ago
What about your parents? I'm curious about how your father reacted or would react? I have yet to tell my dad that I'm gay and I'm in a quandary similar to yours on how exactly to tell him. He's very traditional Mormon. He's suspected that I was gay before, even to the point of taking me aside and asking me "Son, are you gay." I told him no. I want to tell him the truth but I really don't know how. Good luck with your friends, and if you could give me any advice, I would much appreciate it.
shaantvis 2 years ago
Good luck and stay strong. I just told my best friend about me, and even though he was positive about it, I'm still struggling about telling other people. Here in Portugal there's still a lot of prejudice about homosexuality, so there's this innate fear about coming out of the closet...So, it's been hard to stay strong and to be genuine and sometimes happy....
So when i watch videos like yours i find it refreshing and inspiring :)
Sory about the english
plasalette 2 years ago
well if they are your friend..they will except ypou for u - if not - its thier loss not yours!
rextrek 2 years ago 2
P.S. This is a very important and necessary step. Once that you are likely to take over and over (and over). But it does get easier eventually as you come to accept yourself and surround with genuine friends who accept you for who you are...
AuntieMamiesBlog 2 years ago
Wow. Such pressure being put on yourself...
If he's a real friend who is that close to you, he will love you for you who truly are. He might need some time to digest the news or he might not.
I do know that telling your very best of friends ups the ante quite a bit. Stay strong and true to yourself.
No one deserves to live a life of lies and depression!
BIG hugs and kisses to you my dear and feel free to reach out if you ever need to talk or just unload a little.
<3 <3
Your Auntie Mamie
AuntieMamiesBlog 2 years ago
Awe, Truly the way of life.. for one seems to continuously be coming out to someone, wether it be family, friends, coworkers or the such. Best of luck :-) Quite sure if they be worthwhile friends they shall understand.
KEN0690 2 years ago
Good luck. Perhaps he already knows or suspected?
I hope you wouldn't try to convince you to not live your life the way you choose. I can tell you wouldn't like that by the way you closed your eyes when you said the words.
Good luck to you once again!
Erik
StraightActingGayGuy 2 years ago
First off, I wouldn't wait two days if you want to be the one to tell him. And second, you are an adult. A grown man. Why in the world would you entertain the idea of having someone else "talk you out" of being who you are? I am starting to think you might need professional help. Unbiased, separate from the church help. This sounds like you are playing a silly game with your life.
yescandles 2 years ago
Wait. Do you like this friend in a way that you wished he was more than a friend? lol.
catylest 2 years ago