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  • great vid =]

  • this guy seems gay to me, are they togther or brother/sister

  • just got friend zoned and impossible to get out....o well. Not meant to be

  • does it work if the age is 14 ?

  • I dont mean to be negative but do you think a gay and lesbian can give advice to straight people?

  • @beatzfromchicago There a couple...

  • u can alwayes say to a girl that we are friends only and she will say yes to you no problem ,but if she really wants u the moment u say lets make our friendship a relationship shell say yes ofcurse thats the only way a friendship could turn into a relationship if the girl sees u more than a friend from the beginig ,and dont ever fall in love wth friends trust me it will fuck u up

  • many people are affriad from rejection dont be stupid just think it for a while if the girl says no that would be the best apportunity to make her fall into you.okay if a girl says no to you just tell here politly and with respect am sry i wasted ur time i was stuck between yes and no in my mind i thought we were into each other or something like that

  • bunch of fatasses 

  • but we already "go out" all the time. I got her a rose and have started to make sure to tell her that she looks good. She acts different than most girls, and I'm starting to think some of the body language things people talk about don't apply. I think she's just afraid of dating me because our lives are so intertwined already. It would put our band in jeapardy if it didn't work out and neither of us wants to do that. What are less obvious signals (in adults, I'm sick of all this teen advice) ?

  • Does not work.

    U either got it or U don't !

  • OH MY GOD. YOU'RE HEART WILL STOP BEATING, AND YOU WILL DIE!

  • Even if you love yourself which is good doesn't negate the fact it still doesn't hurt. Especially all you hear is no. Plus because of human limitation you can't totally love yourself, its a process and takes time. Everyone is different and once you get to a certain point you have confidence, then yeah, go approach girls. You get more confidence putting yourself out there. I struggle with shyness but also putting too much expectations on myself and the outcome, if any.

  • screw these guys im going to look up crop sircles now

  • I just watched the shyness one..... it's the same damn things over and over again.

  • this is always easy for them to say. they got eachother. the rest of us have to play emotional chess.

  • @41admello

    sh1t i can so relate to that ... :)

  • @41admello You sir, have won 5 internets! (and my thumbs up)

  • omg cant believe this is a dan and jennifer movie=))

  • @thejackel720 I had the same situation with my gf before we got together. Just be slightly flirty with her but still friendly. Then at a comfortable moment that ur talking with her ask her casually to go see a movie or something like that. Know when u plan on going, and what u plan on doing. Don't say" hey u wanna hang out later" say " I'm Hanna see this movie tomorrow u wanna come with?"

  • ok, I got a date when I said to female friend " hey I got some booze and I'm about to go to town, wanna com"?, and we got drunk

  • i got a 9 inch dick so im ready to go!

  • how to stop acting like  a complete fag and leave the "Friend" zone (without paying money for some stupid DVD set): Manhood101 . com

  • um im14 i dont wanna mess up my frendship with her but i do like her and i just dont know what to do cuz if i ask and see says no then wenever we see each other it will be aqwarid

  • @thejackel720 exactly what i was thinkin :)

  • @thejackel720 sooooooooooooo riggggggght

  • @thejackel720 my god :D my exact sitiuation

  • @thejackel720 lol same here bro...

  • @thejackel720 exact fuckin position tht im stuck in...it sucks balls dont it...just trying not to think about it too much when u try to act...

  • I'm 21 and I try to be nice and shit but it just doesn't work with any girl. I don't think I'm ugly I look like a normal dude but now I'm starting to think I am either ugly or just nice so if I'm 30 and still single and not getting girls I will most likely rape a hot bitch because I have nothing to lose.

  • 69,000 views

  • when your young its not love...it feels like it but love is someone you spend your life with. and a crush is different.

  • HOW DO U DO ALL THIS IF YOUR ONLY 15!?! They are talking as if only adults are in love with ther best friends

    WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

  • @PrunyOldToe I am guessing that you are a guy. Since you are 15, you are probably asking out girls who are between 14 and 16 or so. Consider the very real possibility that she may not be allowed to date anyone yet. Her parents might not be letting her date boys/young men. By definition this is nothing to do with you.

  • ok so i like a girl and my friend thinks she likes me to but i'm not so sure we hav a lot in common (and i mean ALOT) but there's 1 problem she has a bf so wut should i do

  • @VGcats97 nothing, shes taken, lol, what did you think??

  • @gr8jox screw u we r actually dating now

  • I have i diagnosis that does that i get stressed out faster than others( A kiss could stress me out just as much as sex for you guys).

    And im in love with a girl, we are good friends and i can tell her almost anything. And ask her out isn't going to happen. I know that since i don't speak so much(Because of the diagnosis, nothing i can do about it).

    How do i confess my feelings? I have never loved anyone as much as her, please help me out.

  • @Samihobbit write a letter.

  • You can't start out as just friends and wait for a whole year to be dating material it don't work that way it's almost instant with women. How you start off with women is how you end with them. Never ever follow the friends first policy only 2% to 5% maybe get out of the friends zone that's rare

  • @therater2008 ur helpful like this video is xD

  • Are you guys still together? You seem to be disagreeing a lot in the video...

  • this is what people dont get... 33% of married couples were good friends for 1 year or more before they got married and 79% of those married couples stay together... so the friend zone is not bad at all.... unless u are just looking to hit it and quit it haha. but if you want to be happly married a friend is the way to go... becuase u want a life partner that you will have a good time around

  • these people are useless...there just a lame couple who sit around chattin shit, contradicting themselves, jokin around: pathetic

  • well i have been reading about this all day

    and i realize that i care too much about feelings so imma just break it that listening shizz and get my mollie

  • dont these two supposed love experts have anything else to do with there fucking time then give bad dating advice and waste peoples time?

  • the friend zone is a jamed zone.

    if your in there i dnt think you'll get out but my soloution is when you first meet someone you think would be a good partner then come off as a potential partner not a friend

  • @kodyandkara your absolutely right. You have to be up front with a woman you like from the very beginning. If shes not with it, and leaves it may be disappointing then you've lost nothing. The worst thing you can do is get caught in the "friend zone" because if she sees you as a "friend" you will never be anything more to her.

  • @ZionofDreamz23

    Oh you mean walk up to a girl and say. Hi, im interested, we should go out? Sure, try it, see if it works. There is one thing worse than being in the friend zone, and that's being in a relationship with a HORRIBLE person that you are too in love with to break up with or will kill you if you try because you are NOT in love with them.

  • Friend zone isnt Jammed i have a other solution that is 1st make less contact and when u start growing out of each other remake contact but then in an other way i just tried it recently and it worked out

  • im 16 and i have a beautiful baby girl, but some guys think it's a turnoff how do I make it so they don't runaway ?

  • @captainurmom You're going to find a lot of guys who are not ready to be full-family men. Being a husband may be one thing, but a father? It gets even more labor-intensive. These other guys know that they'll have to take care of you and your daughter, and that's a very tall order(more than they could take).

    Your best bet is to find a proper, well-established mature man who has the gear to be a good husband, and good stepfather for your child. I would start looking 25 yrs and up for starters.

  • lol this advice got my ass kicked

  • @blackman2462 really??

  • yeah nigga

  • This is bullshit didnt help at all, Shove this dr. phil bullshit up your ass and give some advice for real situations, not this candland disney shit!!!

  • This guy is retarded, and lady, don't think im not talking to you either, this advice caused my date to dump me!!!! WTF is your problem?!?!?

  • ok i ice skate free style and i have the most amazeing partner and i love her she said she loves me to and doesent in a way but she 13 and im 11 so-.- yea we kinda kissed that meen any thing?

  • aww how sweet =)

  • carefull with love at a young age it can scar you for life make sure first

  • @KieRendan1337  exactly, some people will have sex at such a young age that will cause them to have such a bad life ahead of them, it will leave a scar in your life. DON'T DO IT!!!

  • Yeah be careful, use discretion with things like that.

  • oh stfu with this "Love" bullshit.

    Your 11 ffs

  • You guys are only thirteen and eleven. I promise you that it doesn't mean anything.

  • but you cant go up to her and say "hey people from the internet said we cant be soo..... bye" K? no retard shit like that, stick with it first, see where it goes,

  • they don't know what the fuck they're talking about. that guy looks whooped by that fuken suckiebiss next to him.

  • so all i have to do is love myself.

    i've been doing that already.

  • that's one hell of an nice comment :P

  • @fantastopotomus

    I do that everyday.

  • this is some decent advice, but what does this have to do with getting out of the friendzone and in the relationship zone? guys, your seriously off topic

  • that bitch should stfu

  • W H A T T H E F U C K if i like this girl and she says no im not gona be like o well i still love myself in the inside

  • LMAO!

  • Bald spot! Sorry sorry.

  • Choose? Wait till she's comfortable? What is this stuff??? Guys, don't listen to these people, google PUA (pick up artist). The only real info you can online about get about getting women is from the pua community.. And on the topic of getting out of the friend zone: don't see her for about 3 weeks then start acting differently with her.. Tease her in a funny way, touch her, build tension!!!!!, you don't want to be FRIENDS, you want ATTRACTION..

    Ok, anyway.. Don't listen to these two.

  • absolutely rite!!!

  • Win

  • hmm...I've been talking to this one girl for about a year now. We're pretty good friends, but I'm not sure if she actually likes me back. We usually hang out in a group of people though, so I don't really want to draw too much attention to myself by asking to talk to her alone. How should I ask her out?

  • It's to late, your already in the friend zone, what you gotta do is, completly stop talking to her for about a month, then you gotta start talking to her and try and show her that you look her, and it may help if you work out in that time and become more attractive, good luck homeboy

  • ok there is this guy that i like and he stares at me al the time somtimes he tryies to show off but he has never talked to me i try to talk to him but i dont know how...:( im so scared to talk to him ... can anyone help me?

  • Just smile at him and say hi. Then flick your hair.

  • he might like u- first what type of guy is he if you had to put him in a category. what is he good at and how does he show off

  • find something in common like music, listen to a new song together or if he's into sports...well that's a no brainer

  • I was talking to this girl on the phone the other day, and she started talking about how much she hates being single. After she said that there was this long period of silence as if she was expecting me to ask her! And she knows that i like her like that and everything. Should I go for it?

  • DERRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrr.....lol..­. of course

  • FAIL!!! u may have lost her better talk to her!

  • ok i need advice ive been friends wit her for a year and she like really hints that she likes me i already told her i like her i even asked her if i have a chance to do anything wit her she sayd yea probobly and her friends told me to ask her out ... do u think i shuld or not

  • Go for it, definitely. But like that guys says↑

    Keep it simple.

  • okay, what if we are freinds for like a year, and i wanna date her this whole time, and then she pulls the best freind card, and goes out with guys way older than her, but she doesnt see me that way? any chance?

  • ok here what you do go up to her and say "a (whatever her name is) i want to ask you somthing"

    and if she reacts or has a look on her face thats good say "could i borrow a pensil" thats the test if she looks stuned wait fuck it just ask if she says no the answers never going to change

  • Bullshit, why bother to avoid it? You don't need to test anything. Just asked (maybe lead up to it) and like they said, accept that rejection is possible.

  • none

    women know just like men if you had a chance you would have known it within the first half hour .

    she's basically telling you know please don't ask .

  • What do i do if shes been my friend for quite a while (in this case about a year) and you still want to go out with her?

  • maybe she's flirting cauz she likes him ya fuckin retard maybe you should pull the dick out ur arse and get a girlfriend ur self

  • a girl wants me to ask her outbut herparentsdont no what do i say

  • DO IT ANYWAY. it'll make it HELLA EXCITING!!! I wish i did that when i had the chance!

  • yeah do it!

  • How can you tell if a girl is just being friendly to you because she is a nice person? she could be friendly and nice to me because she is like that, nice to everyone.

  • what?

    you: im addicted to you... (tell her how u feel etc and it should hopefully go well).

    give her a rose or chocolate or sumthing :P

  • well, what if i hate myself?

  • CHANGE that

  • why? wait what? lol what did i post? its been like a month.

  • The worst answer would be a no!

    If she just said "no" politely, you can say" o ok" to make it less awkward. If she bitch about it and say eww eww, your too ugly..something like that. Just say"isn't someone bitchy today?" or "wait nvm your kinda betchy.. sorry not my type" to save your face.

    To make your self feel better from a rejection.

    Have a second point of view. If a random girl like you and ask you out. And your not interest and said no. You don't feel that its a big deal so why would she?

  • This is only as helpful as the person watching it is helpful to themselves. You gotta have courage. But it's kind of good and it helps, not much, but it helps.

  • lots of fake smiles and fake laughts...

  • this guy is domesticated......

  • i like this girl idk if she likes me wat should i do (give advice)

  • pick her up, duh

  • smash her face and see the answer

  • Im 14 and I like this girl and I think she likes me because ive seen her stare at me. And also last time she and her friend asked who was francisco but she was actually trying to ask my name and i told her and she said ok and left looking at me and smiling. I dont know her name but i'm gonna find out,but should i ask her out or wait a bit .what should i do?

  • i dont know if this girl likes me or not like i really like her but like sometimes shes with a bunch of guys and then she gets out of that group and talks to me and like im sitting down and she just comes over and talks to me and we end up talking for like half or an hour ive asked her to hang out with me and she has said no b/c they didnt let her or w/e but there r some other times that i just get this huge connection but sometimes i dont what should i do should i just tell her how i feel?

  • Why does Florida sell "California Oranges" and California sell "Florida Oranges"?

  • well theres this girl. im 15. we used to be best friends but she barely talks to me now. ive always liked her since the begining and now im building the confidence to tell her i like her. so i told her that she may thought i was addicted to drugs but im addicted to her. i know, bad move but i just really didnt know what to do. please help me out.

  • try saying sumthin like ... im addicted to sumthing , plz help me... girl: addicted to what?

    you: im addicted to you... (tell her how u feel etc and it should hopefully go well).

    give her a rose or chocolate or sumthing :P

  • there is this girl i like and i dont know if she likes me or not but, im afraid that she might tell her friends around the school and i'll might be humilated ...and all hat junk...but i'll leave another comment in the next couple of month because i am really stuck in the friend zone right nowso i'll wait till the friend zone dies down then i'll make my move ......iight pce

  • im 16 and i want to go out with my bestfriend and fo real i dont give a damn about the rejection so im gonna tell her how i really feel with the upmost confidence so should i do it or not

  • dont come out right away and tell her that you really like her. just hint at it. a thing that worked for me is that i told her that i was having trouble meeeting girls that i felt i had a connection with and that i would really like to find a girl that i could get along with as well as i got along with her. guess what...were now dating because she got the hint.

  • I was planning on doing the same thing. The girl I like ended up having two other guys tell her that they liked her and prior to that, I was planning on doing something for Valentine's Day. She rejected them though. But I think I'll hint at it like you did.

  • Well, i'm almost 14, and there's this girl, she's one of my best friends, I asked her out befor, but she said no, she said she'l only date a guy if she really likes him, but about two to three weeks ago, she looks at me differently....she has like a glazed look in her eye, does she like me?

  • if she said no before, it doesn't mean no today. ASK HER AGAIN! Be persistent! But don't be a stalker, stalkers are something women despise!

  • i am 15, and i like this girl but im in the friend zone and i have no idea what to do from here.

  • Be yourself, body. Accept your own desires, don't place her in your life priority, and don't be addict of her. Women are still more interested by men which assume what they feel like doing than by pets. And then, date her to share a moment (party, movie, concert...)

    And trust in you!

  • i'm 15 and i love this girl who's one of my best friends... sometimes i get signs that she loves me too, coz she always supports me discusses everything with me that she doesn't with ohers, she also keeps making stupid tattoos on my hands with her pen... but i am afraid that if i ask her out, and she says no, then it may ruin our friendship... What should i do?

  • A buddy of mine went through the same thing, but the girl didn't like him in that way. Just be cool, have confidence, and mention it discreetly. Don't rush into it and if she really loves you, then you'll have a good chance.

  • can i get some help here..???deres this girl that likes me and i like her...sound gud rite.BUT!!!she likes this other guy aswell!!!

  • i like this girl and ive asked out other girls so easly but she paralyzes me...

    I talk to her so easly but for the first time i am shy...DAMN IT...

  • i'm in middle school. i'm ugly. right now i'm in the "friend zone". the girl i like is beatiful, humorous, smart. everything i could want. my best friend, ross is a looker. he has the same kind of humor as me. we both like that girl and i probably want her more than he does.

    i want to ask her out but if she says no i dont think shell wanna b friends any more :/

    i wish i could have her :/

  • being is such a harsh way to put yourself as, why not look at your self as "iam am a great person, i always am". then say to your self, "i just have alot of room to improve my self physically". Hey besides, your looks are simply tools to use for attraction so dont say that who you are on the outside is who you are on the inside. Believe in yourself and improve from an "ugly" duckling to a swan. Metaphorically speaking. your only in middle school. Work on yourself and youll be a stud/chick magnet

  • thanks.

    i'm not being sarcastic.

    that helped :)

  • thats how it went for me somewhat, i went from go away from me shy person in middle school to attraction and get me and somewhat still shy person in high school. for me it was all about looking at who you are and improving who you are, that way you feel better about yourself an all. thats why all the attractive guys have all that, even tho they suck. fuck the jocks

  • man!!finally,someone who feels the same way as me...!!!!!!

  • yeah dude. no one will learn to love you unless you learn to love YOURSELF and all you have to offer. sounds corny but it instills confidence

  • well thanks people!

    i asked her out and she said YES!

    :)

  • man thers this hot girl that i had a crush on in yr 9. and i told her i liked her but she kinda cut me down. now in yr 11 she just doesn't stop looking at me, laughin at all my jokes, and sometimes touches my arm. i play it cool, but yea i prob should just ask her out.

  • Cool, i'm 12 and like a girl too. Good luck with her!

  • Lol, I'm 12 too. 3 days after my birthday some random girl said "do you have a girlfriend" I said no. About 2 weeks after that (I forgot how she looked like). She (probably) was sitting next to me while I was having lunch in school. Her friend said that she fancied me (had a crush on me). I wasn't really fealing in the mood. She gave me here phone number and I just said what do you want from me? That made me quite imbarresed. I came out of the dinner hall because I was quite imbarressed...

  • im 13 in 5 days but iv bin rejected by evre1 iv asked out... well one person but she was a bitch but im rly scared to ask out my friend now:S

  • just get her pissed and stick the lips on lol

  • wheres the tips on when some other dude comes literally out of nowhere and she forgets you exist :(

  • What a crock of crap.

    This guy is a fag.

    If she ljbf's you just say yeah and NO CONTACT.

    seriously NO CONTACT

    Just play some Ganji games...

  • help! i asked her if she liked me. i mean like love, like and she said she would never ever tell me but 1 problem.. she likes a couple other guys but she acting like she likes me she puts her hand on my shoulder occasionally, she smiles and laughs whenever she sees me but shes a pretty good rejecter she rejected a lot of boys and dated a lot of boys but also she is a gossiper. she tells everyone about her life though she says she doesnt. shes dating boys right now but she acts like she likes me!

  • dude im soo with u i hav the same problem let me guess is she rly good looking too? god gotta love girls!

  • yes she is really hot.... very friendly and has a good personality too

  • I'm with you on this, I'm a freshman in high school...

    One of my really good friends is a HOT blonde girl that drinks a bit, has been with a lot guys and is kind of a slut though lol

    She's the nicest, coolest, easiest to talk to person ever. I've known her for about 5 months but I've really only talked to her and been her friend for about 3 but we hit it off.

    Whenever we just see each other, we make eye contact and just smile like there's no one else there (that sounds really gay lol)

  • ....she laughs really hard at whatever I say, way more than he does with anyone else and we always go out of our way to hang out during/after/between classes, even though we only have 2 together (and we don't even get to talk in that one)

    She told me I was cute and that was the day we started kind of being friends I guess. I thought she was hot before and I never really talked to her very much. I didn't like her till about 1 and 1/2 or 2 months ago...does it sound like I'm stuck as a friend?

  • i would say she really like`s you...all you have to do is ask, you never know what will happen in the next 10 minutes and afterwards it`s not a big deal that you asked her out. If she says no, oh well at least you asked and you had the courage to ask her out (which is a pretty daunting task). Just ask her, you never know where you will be in 10 minutes ;)

  • Yeah, that's what I figured would be smart to do

    Thanks for the tips XD

  • no bother....good luck dude :P

  • O shit dude...I just realized I'm in love with this girl...

    I gotta get off the freakin internet and talk to her lol

  • i'm never in the friend zone and if a chicken head tries to put me there it i tell her to take her black ass home and pay for my cheeseburger and i even hit on my aunts friends they always bite the worm.

  • once a female put you in the friends zone thats it

  • ya i asked a girl out 2 days ago and she said she only liked me as a friend, but were still talking and shit so its okay i guess

  • have you asked her yet?

  • i love you

  • GOOD GOD THOSE ARE SOME NICE JUGS

  • that's it i've been waiting since i met her (about 6 weeks ago) to ask her out.... I think it's time for me to ask her with confidence!...i'll do it tomorrow or the next day...oooh i can't wait!!!!

  • how did it go?

  • yes it went great she said yes and now we're going to sadies this saturday, i asked her as "friends" but she knew what i meant, haha just do it with confidence bcuz i was so fukin nervous hahahaaha

  • hahahahaha those 2 are sooooooo right

  • love yourself.. creepy concept.

  • the problem is if he/she says no ther probably not your friend anymore

  • wow, i have known this one girl since she was born. i'm going to ask her out, like, right before i go to college, and if she says no, then OH WELL im going to be moving cross-country or something in the next week or so, and if she says yes, i will hold off going to college for her, unless she is going to the same one as me :P

  • I hope to God you did not go through with this. NEVER hold off your education for a woman.

    This might have come too late though.

  • The guy's an idiot. The chic/woman is hot

  • umm....who the fuck are these people?

  • She likes to come up with excuses to avoid saying your F'UGLY.

    ive been friend zoned for 2 years ad the lass went out with like 7-8 guys while i had to sit on the side lines and comfort her but she would never think of me that way and oh boy she reminded me WOMEN LIKE AN ASSHOLE.

  • Its not the woman's fault. ITS YOURS. The problem is that you dont understand women enough or respect yourself enough. When you first starting giving her attention and she didnt respond until she needed somebody to talk to, you became her emotional tampon. Comforting her once was ok, but by repeatedly doing this, you became her girlfriend. You should have said "look, I like you and all, but I cant help you with these problems". Watch some David Wygant Videos here on youtube. Re-evalute yourself

  • so what your saying is i should just tell her to get back in the kitchen and cry over the onions instead of listening to her thanks .... oh wait im sorry your full of shit cos i have a lass who im going out wit who feels she can tell me anything... know it all