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It's amazing how you can listen to a song when you're a kid and like it but not understand why; then once you're older the meaning comes into play because now you can relate to it.
For the tears that make a woman look weak, The years you spend holding on because you try and prove that you are strong, Holding on and Holding in the Pain putting your life on hold for somebody that is not worth it. What is the worth of shedding your tears? What does shredding letters and pictures do? When you cry ask yourself why the situation brings tears to your eyes? Why feel pain for the pain the love gave? Why give your heart double jeopardy?
BABYFACE was on his shit back when he wrote this and that ENTIRE "EXHALE" soundtack, I wish he had STUCK to his RnB guns which made him and NOT trapped into being "an INDUSTRY NIGGA" trying to change and keep up with these LAZY ASS SOUNDING "NeoSoul" youngsters, this new shit is just a COPY of REAL shit, they REALLY don't know what's up with emotional REAL RnB music of the past...
ma ex, he was so damn selfish, rude, and disrespectful towards me. He believed my emenies and best friend over me, and when they said that he was wrong he would apologize just to put me thru the same shit the next day. He dumped me because he had just gotten surgery and and didn't call him right away because the doctors didn't answer the phone. Now Im heartbroken when in reality I should have never been with him from get go. I feel so stupid
I hear that a lot of you want answers....I'm an older man and have been through Ich. Its always the sex. And once we're hooked, thats it, Cock takes over .And for good right, he wants to nestle his head back into the whore's pussy whom he's so whipped over.When you don't understand, and it doesn't make sense, its what you don't see.her pussy asshole, and mouth that has your man whipped to no return.
@juice887 I was born in the early 90's and as a matter of fact I could remember every song including this one. Loved all the different varieties and genres.. R&B being the best of all during that time. You can't really say stop being fake. If it's going threw the 50's to 80's Definitely wasn't living.. still enjoy the music. The 90's, Early 00's and the present are my times, But anyone could still like any genre and the classics nothing wrong with this at all.. Sorry to burst your bubble.
If you ladies out there aint feelin this song then you aint a lady better yet you have not gone through what this song represent because not all men but some will make you feel the way she does
I love this song . I was with my ex-husband for 15 years and married for 11 years and had 5 children for him and he cheated on me with another married woman. I was so hurt but with Gods' help WE made it through. I love this song. Now their getting divorced.
Mary just sings this in a way that is so REAL. Like she really means it! That's the difference between her and these cookie cutter singers out there right now. Sing it for us all Mary!
"i know there r no guarantees n love u chances but somehow its seems unfair to me look at the circumstances" i feel u mary it is so hurtful to know u cared for a person and they didnt care for u.
I guess we haven't paid enough money to the record companies yet. I'm 31 years old and I've spent A GRIP in my lifetime buying and re-buying albums. I own this song too, but I guess they would rather EVERYONE buy it so that way we could ALL enjoy it. So stupid!
We love music! We can't stand by silently while the music industry continues its decades-long effort to lock up our culture! If you think that it sucks that audio had to be disabled here BOYCOTT MUSIC INDUSTRY!
- Only buy audio-cds second-hand from now on (Use amazon's second-hand section or ebay from apparently private persons)
- Don't download from online music stores anymore
- Support self-marketing bands
- Spread this message here on every muted video you encounter
Bring Back 70's 80's & 90's music back
SOULJATWIN 4 months ago
I love this song Mary got a beautiful voice been loving her music
zahmiya5 6 months ago
i can listen to this allday and NEVER get tired of listening to it 90s music was thee besttt ! =)
Daimetra1 6 months ago
Is it a talk box or auto tune in the background vocals im curious?
ShinjiIkari66 6 months ago
i think i broke the replay button on dis
youngmaverick100 6 months ago
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38106chick 6 months ago
It's amazing how you can listen to a song when you're a kid and like it but not understand why; then once you're older the meaning comes into play because now you can relate to it.
divalizzous 6 months ago 2
fuck me for mot leavin his ass the first time he cheated!!!!!!
ladyjay560 7 months ago
@ladyjay560 yeah same here i understand
youngmaverick100 6 months ago
For the tears that make a woman look weak, The years you spend holding on because you try and prove that you are strong, Holding on and Holding in the Pain putting your life on hold for somebody that is not worth it. What is the worth of shedding your tears? What does shredding letters and pictures do? When you cry ask yourself why the situation brings tears to your eyes? Why feel pain for the pain the love gave? Why give your heart double jeopardy?
thewrittenfaceTV 8 months ago
for some reson when ever im sad i listen to this song and i always cry
jackie9847 8 months ago
i love this song so much
KrissyLuvsJackie 8 months ago
I should have left ur ass a thousand times.....it is what it fricking is.....
debthompson123able 8 months ago
i love mary j. blige 90s songs!!!!!!!!!! everything she sings about is what she went through..... real music man i miss the 90s bad :/
josera161 10 months ago
this take me back i love this song. I love anything that mary do
shawn2544 11 months ago
BABYFACE was on his shit back when he wrote this and that ENTIRE "EXHALE" soundtack, I wish he had STUCK to his RnB guns which made him and NOT trapped into being "an INDUSTRY NIGGA" trying to change and keep up with these LAZY ASS SOUNDING "NeoSoul" youngsters, this new shit is just a COPY of REAL shit, they REALLY don't know what's up with emotional REAL RnB music of the past...
xxxfunk 11 months ago 4
ma ex, he was so damn selfish, rude, and disrespectful towards me. He believed my emenies and best friend over me, and when they said that he was wrong he would apologize just to put me thru the same shit the next day. He dumped me because he had just gotten surgery and and didn't call him right away because the doctors didn't answer the phone. Now Im heartbroken when in reality I should have never been with him from get go. I feel so stupid
mamiizabeast 11 months ago
stop the bull shit this is the bomb and always will be
pitbull4877 11 months ago
i love dis song
harajukubarbie7823 1 year ago
classic im not gone cry wen you leave so get out song
drizzy078 1 year ago 2
classic im not gone cry wen your a** get out sonq luv it
drizzy078 1 year ago
I hear that a lot of you want answers....I'm an older man and have been through Ich. Its always the sex. And once we're hooked, thats it, Cock takes over .And for good right, he wants to nestle his head back into the whore's pussy whom he's so whipped over.When you don't understand, and it doesn't make sense, its what you don't see.her pussy asshole, and mouth that has your man whipped to no return.
soberbob0911 1 year ago
@soberbob0911
No, that made no sense in anyway and never will make any sense.
You failed.. Miserably probably just like your Love life..
Marijuanaxs 10 months ago
well damn.
blackstar201 1 year ago
I like this part : " I was your lover and your secretary
Working every day of the week
Was at the job when no one else was there
Helping you get on your feet
Eleven years of sacrifice
And you can leave me at the drop of a dime
Swallowed my fears, stood by your side
I shoulda left your ass a thousand times"
Probably the best song M, have done...
Madnessaful 1 year ago
kmt 2 people with no ears
danvers213 1 year ago
@danvers213 wat dat mean
iwannacandy24 1 year ago
Born and raised in 1992 and love this song ever since
99thJediWarrior 1 year ago
im never gone cry
19cambria 1 year ago
i was born in the 90s and im inlove with this song
5kenfoks 1 year ago
@5kenfoks who cares if you guys were BORN in 90s.. you wouldnt remember. u must have been like 2!!! sorry to burst ur bubble.. stop being fake
juice887 1 year ago
@juice887 I was born in the early 90's and as a matter of fact I could remember every song including this one. Loved all the different varieties and genres.. R&B being the best of all during that time. You can't really say stop being fake. If it's going threw the 50's to 80's Definitely wasn't living.. still enjoy the music. The 90's, Early 00's and the present are my times, But anyone could still like any genre and the classics nothing wrong with this at all.. Sorry to burst your bubble.
Marijuanaxs 10 months ago
i was born in 1997 and im inlove with this song
5kenfoks 1 year ago
fucking love it
Jade91210j 1 year ago
If you ladies out there aint feelin this song then you aint a lady better yet you have not gone through what this song represent because not all men but some will make you feel the way she does
khiafuckinbaby 1 year ago 6
I love this song . I was with my ex-husband for 15 years and married for 11 years and had 5 children for him and he cheated on me with another married woman. I was so hurt but with Gods' help WE made it through. I love this song. Now their getting divorced.
mrsforgiven714 1 year ago
Great song. I remember my moms playing this song all the time at home. It was around the time she and my dad broke up.
JDogg2482 1 year ago
mary killd it!!!!!
larrymccoy99 1 year ago
Mary just sings this in a way that is so REAL. Like she really means it! That's the difference between her and these cookie cutter singers out there right now. Sing it for us all Mary!
Tigerlily21 1 year ago 2
this and Seven Days are the best Mary J Blige songs!
Tigerlily21 1 year ago
I love this song so much i cnt tp plyn dis........Dis is my shyt sing it MARY sing it!!!! NOT GON CRY!!!!!
SuperLADYLOVE23 1 year ago
this is a real voice!
MJB 4ever
TheDIDIBIA1 1 year ago
Check out my cover of Not Gon Cry and let me know what I did.
NakitaBenjamin2c 1 year ago
love lyrics to this song.!
DarkEmily72 1 year ago
"i know there r no guarantees n love u chances but somehow its seems unfair to me look at the circumstances" i feel u mary it is so hurtful to know u cared for a person and they didnt care for u.
thickmiss23 1 year ago
I CAN RELATE TO THIS IN SO MANY WAYS
TRXlove1517 1 year ago 2
i should have left your ass 1000 times!!!!
9deezGirl 1 year ago
words of my life right now
missy83670 1 year ago
When I moved to Arizona, all I could think of whas this song and waiting to exhale
cjgraphics81 1 year ago
no matter how old this song is it still stands for this day n time! i love it it is so much the truth!
gntpaula 1 year ago
i love this song!!!!!!!
BUCK7418 1 year ago
11 years i stuck by ya side.. am not gone cry!!..dats da truth mary sing it girl
butterflygoodness1 1 year ago
4 years i sacrificed
QueenMyRayafy 1 year ago
i was 2 years oldwen dis song came out.. and i lie it!! weeirdd
HUDGIRL 1 year ago
i meant i was 2 years old when dis song came out and i likee it!! weeeirrdd!!
HUDGIRL 1 year ago
throwback fo ur azz!!! i love this song!!!
chocolateflavaful 1 year ago
yu can hear all the heart ache in dis song !! i love Mary's old stuff
DatGirlBreezy 1 year ago
Mary J you are the princess of R & B
tamchapman44 1 year ago
@tamchapman44
she's the Queen of R&B
daggakid90 1 year ago
love it
1234kwami1234 1 year ago 3
i can do bad all by myself, i am a strong person.....VERY STRONG PERSON...
onelove212000 1 year ago 3
never cry over a man they are soo not worth it.
MISSHAPPYFACE2025 1 year ago 2
love thisz sonqqqqqqqqq
alisa32486 2 years ago 3
90s RNB....never the same again...They dont make em like these anymore :(
NiiX83 2 years ago 67
@NiiX83 do u hear me nun like tha 90s
soabnormalthatgurl 2 years ago 5
nope these days they just sample from other songs , originality doesnt exist these days
DJDeNsTeR18 2 years ago 22
@DJDeNsTeR18 Originality Only Exists With Underground Artists...
But Nobody Wants To Promote That Shit ANymore...
I'm Original Tho... That's Just One Thing Ppl Love Bout My Music... But It's Rap...
JeTwanDF 1 year ago 3
@DJDeNsTeR18 u gotta go underground for originality
free00to00ryhme 11 months ago
i love this song
sexyhardcorechick19 2 years ago 3
waiting to exhale OR WHAT A VIDEO JUST LUV IT
0nannette 2 years ago 2
i love dis sonqq so much
neak16 2 years ago 5
Completely BS... great song. any1 no where i can get a good copy/hear it on tha net/
kajequeen 2 years ago
yes you can hear it on myspace i'm pretty sure.
xavier1011 2 years ago
I guess we haven't paid enough money to the record companies yet. I'm 31 years old and I've spent A GRIP in my lifetime buying and re-buying albums. I own this song too, but I guess they would rather EVERYONE buy it so that way we could ALL enjoy it. So stupid!
nickybabs 2 years ago 17
YouTube can disable the sound, but they certainly don't have a problem with plugging the sale for iTunes and Amazon.
38106chick 2 years ago 14
this is bullshit!!!!!!!
2badxyz 2 years ago
WTF!!!!
MissLisaBaby 3 years ago 2
hamburger!
LPeteDave 3 years ago 2
We love music! We can't stand by silently while the music industry continues its decades-long effort to lock up our culture! If you think that it sucks that audio had to be disabled here BOYCOTT MUSIC INDUSTRY!
- Only buy audio-cds second-hand from now on (Use amazon's second-hand section or ebay from apparently private persons)
- Don't download from online music stores anymore
- Support self-marketing bands
- Spread this message here on every muted video you encounter
cea2nes 3 years ago 6
copyrights sucks i hella wanted to see the movie!!! :(
quelindaa 3 years ago 4
I cant believe this!!!!!
honeygoerami 3 years ago 3
I can!!!
I'm keeping it up so everyone will know.
38106chick 3 years ago
Sorry everyone, but one (or more) of the following did not give permission for this song to be posted on YouTube:
1. MJB = vocals
2. Babyface = composers
3. Arista/Sony = record label
4. RCA = Arista/Sony distributor
5. News Corporation = parent company of 20th Century Fox, who owns the rights to the film "Waiting to Exhale"
38106chick 3 years ago 7
Kudos to you for trying. Can you fuckin believe this nonsense!!!
BdaddyKonk 3 years ago