Army Wife 101:Myths and FAQ's: Does Living Onpost=Drama???

[Only1Shelvonte]

Some Army wives have nothing better to do then to be in people's business all day. They need to put that energy into something more positive... Like GETTING A JOB!!! Like some of them are stay at home moms which I can respect that. But, if you're a stay at home mom and your house is dirty then something is wrong with that picture!! Maybe they should stay out of peoples business and clean their house. #imjussaying

[amabelscorner]

Oh yeaa..My bf is stationed at hunter presently..

[Military21Wife]

My aunt use to live on base and she said there was nothing but drama and that alot of caddy girl/ladies whould try to break up marriagies. But once they moved off base her marrige got better. So I dont live on base never have and don't want to. =)))

[dreswifey25]

@Military21Wife Everyone's opinion is different and I honestly rather try it out for myself. In the military everyone has so many different accounts and there is usually more to the story. it might be that specific group of people who were full of drama. I also feel everyone should live onpost once to grasp the full experience. If your marriage is strong to begin with then living onpost will not affect it at all.

[Military21Wife]

@dreswifey25 naw i dont think so i get pissed off quick if another female talks to my husband and i will jump down any bitch who even says hi to him. hahah i only get along with some girls not all . And me and my husband dont like to be in groups like that. =))))

[dreswifey25]

@Military21Wife Lol I totally feel ya. At the same time it's not like that because people will look at your man where ever your at offpost and on and they probably looking at his job when you aren't around so it's no different. My husband and I are older and we don't do the group thing neither. Living onpost doesn't interfere with that at all. I'm not into cliques of females neither but I know how to avoid the drama. Trust me I hear you though :)

[afranklin1985]

im a loner army wife thank for saying its kool to be a loner i havent found friends and it been a year but it sad at times no frends or family you know what i mean he has friends and i dont :(

[dreswifey25]

I agree that alot of wives will start stuff just basically out of boredom and the victim is not guilty or did not even know the women.

In my experience just observing alot of the wives I have come across tend to run there mouths alot causing drama to be brought upon themselves though.

[77MommaBear96]

I'm with cierafe on this....i was the victim of horrid rumors while my husband was overseas and i didnt know those women, i kept to myself.

Drama is everywhere though. I prefer to live far away from bored military wives that spin gossip, off base. i love living off base, it's peaceful.

[ChocolateMommy08]

Great vid! I personally have neighbors who come over, and pretty much bug me, they think they are helping me but I would much rather be left alone. I love making friends, but there are certain people I just dont want to deal with because they are just too much in my biz.

In all honesty, some people like drama. They have nothing better to do and its fun for them But you do have a choice. You dont HAVE to hang out with everyone.

[cierafe]

I agree and disagree. I am a navy wife and we are at Great Lakes right now, and once we moved in, the neighbors across the street(who were women) gave me dirty looks and were talking about me for no reason at all. I am not a confrontational person at all what so ever, but on the other hand on another base, I made a lot of friends of all races and ages. I guess it just depends.

[DivaMonae]

I would say no because if you stay to yourself and mind your own business, then you won't have any drama to deal with except that going on in your own household. I keep to myself, and to me that's the best way to be. :)))))

[dreswifey25]

Diva I agree and thats exactly what I do mind my own lol. Too many ladies onpost wanna sit and monitor and thats annoying to me.