she only wants to hear the good as she believes u are having a go at her if you try to help her. split personality disorder & thus is a robot. she can only filter stuff that will help her & coupled with npd means only self serving her needs. that's all that's important to her. she will be nice if u are going along with her game plan & her narrow view of filtered knowledge to support her narrow view of herself & the world. horse blinkers. u cant reason with b/w thinking or her changing rules.
I can't thank you enough for all of the work you've put into doing this. I'm borderline - have every single symptom. I've been in therapy for 3 years, 2x a week. My boyfriend, who I still adore, just left me a couple of weeks ago and I didn't understand why. Now after hearing what you're reading, I understand. I've been crying my eyes out - I had no idea how hurtful I've been to people. Therapy has helped a lot, but this is really opening my eyes. THANK YOU!!! ♥
Your personal comment "that is so true" leads me to believe you are close to someone who has BPD and has hurt you. I snap easier, but I also LOVE more - or at least it feels like I love more. So much it hurts sometimes. I hope you know you are loved by that person!!! And probably very deeply.....they, if anything like me, would never want to hurt you. It would destroy them to know that they did because they didn't mean to.... =)
Hi, i am from the Philippines. please please continue reading if you can. put identifiers on the chapters for those who really needs to follow. you are doing A LOT OF GOOD to those who needs this to know specially those who are bpd. Cheers
i am just diagnosed i feel so trapped am so grateful to you or reading this out as i cant concentrate long enough to read a book ..... thank you so much ! am so scared x
i feel like am livin in hell at this moment i need to talk with someone else bpd as noone else is gonna understand :( am not all doom n gloom sometimes exstatic but right now so alone please write back lynda
she only wants to hear the good as she believes u are having a go at her if you try to help her. split personality disorder & thus is a robot. she can only filter stuff that will help her & coupled with npd means only self serving her needs. that's all that's important to her. she will be nice if u are going along with her game plan & her narrow view of filtered knowledge to support her narrow view of herself & the world. horse blinkers. u cant reason with b/w thinking or her changing rules.
uncreativeranter 7 months ago
I can't thank you enough for all of the work you've put into doing this. I'm borderline - have every single symptom. I've been in therapy for 3 years, 2x a week. My boyfriend, who I still adore, just left me a couple of weeks ago and I didn't understand why. Now after hearing what you're reading, I understand. I've been crying my eyes out - I had no idea how hurtful I've been to people. Therapy has helped a lot, but this is really opening my eyes. THANK YOU!!! ♥
Rsoto625 10 months ago
I really appreciate the effort you have made. When you come to a word you don't know perhaps you could spell it out?
griffithkevin 10 months ago
I really appreciate the effort you have made. When you come to a word you don't know perhaps you could spell it out?
griffithkevin 10 months ago
Your personal comment "that is so true" leads me to believe you are close to someone who has BPD and has hurt you. I snap easier, but I also LOVE more - or at least it feels like I love more. So much it hurts sometimes. I hope you know you are loved by that person!!! And probably very deeply.....they, if anything like me, would never want to hurt you. It would destroy them to know that they did because they didn't mean to.... =)
CajunsCheri 1 year ago
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CajunsCheri 1 year ago
thank you for this gorgeous xxx
crazyhippy685 1 year ago
sweetsmile, you are doing A LOT OF GOOD. pls continue reading for those who badly need these information. God bless you
lvmarcel 2 years ago
Hi, i am from the Philippines. please please continue reading if you can. put identifiers on the chapters for those who really needs to follow. you are doing A LOT OF GOOD to those who needs this to know specially those who are bpd. Cheers
lvmarcel 2 years ago
i am just diagnosed i feel so trapped am so grateful to you or reading this out as i cant concentrate long enough to read a book ..... thank you so much ! am so scared x
1lindus 2 years ago
Hi there, have you been diagnosed with BPD? If so, please contact me.
producerchristina 2 years ago
iv just been diagnosed bpd 3 weeks ago
i feel like am livin in hell at this moment i need to talk with someone else bpd as noone else is gonna understand :( am not all doom n gloom sometimes exstatic but right now so alone please write back lynda
1lindus 2 years ago
As a Borderline.... [who sadly has not had the time to read this] this is great. Please, please, please.... continue.
peebs201990 3 years ago
well i have the rest of the book to go.
sweetsmile1 3 years ago
Please do me a favour - force me to make the time to listen to ALL of these chapters in one sitting.I need to take it waaaay down :)
citizenX9328g 3 years ago