I love this song! It's messed up when ur the one that had bin there for someone from the beginning, backed their hopes and dreams, encouraged them to push harder, and just look out for them like I had bin doing. We weren't together as yet but really liked eachother. Cried to me about all the things his ex did that really hurt him. I was there and he turned around and went back with her and it's lik I'm the enemy now. Oh well... If she wasn't a good woman then, she won't be one now.
one of the best songs on her album. It should have been released as a single. It would have done better on the charts compared to the other singles on her album
Mine cheated with the town hoe but I'm over it now I have 1 of the good guys ladies keep ur heads up you r truely blessed with ur kids that's the best ever
The father of my two kids and one on the way did this....but worse it wasn't just an ex situation come to find out he had a wife and was separated, when I got pregnant he coukdnt take the stress and canceled the divorce and went back to his wife.who I didn't know about until or second child. My family was built on a lie. Shit hurts....
@heyjesus22 ..... Wow, Your story is exactually the same as mine! I mean to the tee. I came home and his stuff was gone! He abandoned me and my 2 kids. 1 week later he had moved another woman in with him while still knocking on my door and he is still married to the wife 10 years later.
I was there when nobody else wanted ya busted a***. You'll never be a man if you can't express something as simple as not wanting someone anymore. I was the best you ever had and I'm gone always be the best damn thing you never had.....Good looking out baby.
My ex messed around on mysoace and facebook and exes kept poping up and he was sloppy with it. Thought he was coming back to this had to let em go be a slut with all those sluts. And to this day i still ask why her. Damn, its hard being a good woman.
My boyfriend left me for his ex today. Today on his faceboook relationship status he said he was in a relationship w/ her im so hurt but im trying to keep my head up its jst hard tho... Why do guys leave the goood girls for the no gooood hoez. The girl that he left me for isn't even all that cute either wtf ? He had a goood one Smfh...
My bf hooked up with his slutbag ex, then tried to come back the same night... ill admit it hurt like hell but in the end everyone gets what they deserve... she's gonna get aids for being a slut n he's gonna..... ummmmm..... get aids too!!!! :) MUAHAHAHAHA
Going through this too; my ex and i were in love but he still liked his ex :'( it hurt but we feel at the time its better to be friends. we do and our friends think we will find our way together in a couple of years <3
yo dis song is hard as hell bt it kills u wen u r going thro something lik this cuz u start 2 ask urself these questions and start 2 wonder hw u culd of made it wrk bt if its meant 2 b then it will b, if nt then theres something better u jus have 2 heal and b open 2 it
remind me of mii ex..i luv tha hell outta him and i still do..bt i kno we neva gon get bac 2getha!!..if he readin dis now which i doubt i jus want him 2 kno that i luv him
I love this song! It's messed up when ur the one that had bin there for someone from the beginning, backed their hopes and dreams, encouraged them to push harder, and just look out for them like I had bin doing. We weren't together as yet but really liked eachother. Cried to me about all the things his ex did that really hurt him. I was there and he turned around and went back with her and it's lik I'm the enemy now. Oh well... If she wasn't a good woman then, she won't be one now.
Cookiemontanez 2 weeks ago
one of the best songs on her album. It should have been released as a single. It would have done better on the charts compared to the other singles on her album
Udj808 1 month ago
this is my fav song still ask my boyfriend why her he could do better
QUITANINETEEN 1 month ago
Mine cheated with the town hoe but I'm over it now I have 1 of the good guys ladies keep ur heads up you r truely blessed with ur kids that's the best ever
mztoni0116 1 month ago
i love this songggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
tlovinmy3kids 2 months ago
luv it
singleladiesrockstar 2 months ago
produced by JD.
efonius 2 months ago
The father of my two kids and one on the way did this....but worse it wasn't just an ex situation come to find out he had a wife and was separated, when I got pregnant he coukdnt take the stress and canceled the divorce and went back to his wife.who I didn't know about until or second child. My family was built on a lie. Shit hurts....
heyjesus22 3 months ago
@heyjesus22 ..... Wow, Your story is exactually the same as mine! I mean to the tee. I came home and his stuff was gone! He abandoned me and my 2 kids. 1 week later he had moved another woman in with him while still knocking on my door and he is still married to the wife 10 years later.
jenniferl478 2 months ago
I was there when nobody else wanted ya busted a***. You'll never be a man if you can't express something as simple as not wanting someone anymore. I was the best you ever had and I'm gone always be the best damn thing you never had.....Good looking out baby.
kshkz7 5 months ago
My ex messed around on mysoace and facebook and exes kept poping up and he was sloppy with it. Thought he was coming back to this had to let em go be a slut with all those sluts. And to this day i still ask why her. Damn, its hard being a good woman.
kshkz7 5 months ago
love this songz bring me back to the old dayz
yourself8013 6 months ago
i love this song this song remide me of my boyfriend that was lie that but now we r better and vhave a child a girl !!!!!
alyssajackson827 6 months ago
My boyfriend left me for his ex today. Today on his faceboook relationship status he said he was in a relationship w/ her im so hurt but im trying to keep my head up its jst hard tho... Why do guys leave the goood girls for the no gooood hoez. The girl that he left me for isn't even all that cute either wtf ? He had a goood one Smfh...
4EVERjADExoxo 6 months ago 3
@4EVERjADExoxo get over it.! go find you someone better stop cryin.!
21shateema 5 months ago
thumbs up if youve cried and sang along
nesi017 7 months ago
@kay3592 I kno dats real...
TheNisey08 7 months ago
My bf hooked up with his slutbag ex, then tried to come back the same night... ill admit it hurt like hell but in the end everyone gets what they deserve... she's gonna get aids for being a slut n he's gonna..... ummmmm..... get aids too!!!! :) MUAHAHAHAHA
sely1028 8 months ago 27
@sely1028 oh my really @sely1028 lol
shortyrock67 8 months ago
@sely1028 so fuck up... the same shit happen to my ex only with herpes
jazminpryor 7 months ago
@sely1028 amen to that girl!
ccorzo0607 6 months ago
@sely1028 amen to that girl!
ccorzo0607 6 months ago
My bf did da samme to me lol
Boloyoung82 8 months ago
Why her.? Why my cuzin/exbestfriend huh J'Mar
KidYasmin 8 months ago
I love this and I can completely relate to it! Good Job Monica!! =)
kay3592 8 months ago
i love dis song so much my boyfriend did dis to me
ljc1954 9 months ago
3:55 ahhh i'm crazyy about that part!
TRACEYK95 9 months ago
time heals all, so get over it and move on because thier is always someone better and will be there for you and love you!!
awakicaldwell 9 months ago
I'm so in this situation
KidYasmin 9 months ago
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Kendrabeautifuldiva 9 months ago
smh ii can relate to this sooo much ryett bOut nOw....
missingmj25 9 months ago
Going through this too; my ex and i were in love but he still liked his ex :'( it hurt but we feel at the time its better to be friends. we do and our friends think we will find our way together in a couple of years <3
MzSee22 10 months ago
like omg this song is so true why her wtf... thats life we learn
MaccinAzzAngieMims 11 months ago
-iLove dis fuckinq its so real' like why her?? when we spent all these years'' :)
Davidakins86 1 year ago
This album was great..then again most of her material is awesome. She captures pain and joy so beautifully.
adnrich 1 year ago
Damn dis hit da spot im goin thru dis now wit my grl go monica i feel u
cedezbadd 1 year ago
this song says exactly hw im feeling, why her Rj...??
msthick352 1 year ago
I always wondered that too! Why her?
soluvly28 1 year ago
@soluvly28 Lol join tha club.!
ShawtyBaddd100 1 year ago
this song should be a ladies anthem if they ever go thru this........ u can really relate...... i kno i can
ashleebee1993 1 year ago
haha i found this searching "hermonica"...
shadagascavich 2 years ago 7
well wat do u think?
shortyrock67 2 years ago
monica is so sexy
ICANDIGUOUT 2 years ago
@ICANDIGUOUT she's hot and classy
adnrich 1 year ago
@adnrich ;-)
ICANDIGUOUT 1 year ago
i luv dis song
zebblynnj 2 years ago
yo dis song is hard as hell bt it kills u wen u r going thro something lik this cuz u start 2 ask urself these questions and start 2 wonder hw u culd of made it wrk bt if its meant 2 b then it will b, if nt then theres something better u jus have 2 heal and b open 2 it
7TM3 2 years ago 25
yes these lyrics are definetly an wrench in da heart rite...thats why its so relatable
shortyrock67 2 years ago
remind me of mii ex..i luv tha hell outta him and i still do..bt i kno we neva gon get bac 2getha!!..if he readin dis now which i doubt i jus want him 2 kno that i luv him
tytyb12 2 years ago 3
i luv this song it reminds mii of my x
kahnniph 3 years ago 4
i kno me too. i hate that it makes me think of him thouqh. it hurtsz my heart alot :-[
annabriy 2 years ago 4
i just love this song its sooo hawt
queenmikera22 3 years ago 2
da frist one 2 comment dis luv dis song u better say it
lye224 3 years ago 3