The cure for all heart ache - get over break ups and broken hearts

[TheCuteMinna]

I swear! you really helped me up with a recent breakup. He broke my angel heart, and left me like i never been there. We sometimes connect to the wrong person, but still chances show up. A question: Who you think I choose?

1- a person loves me more than i do

Or ?

2- a person i love him more than he do

[carolinlovecoach]

@TheCuteMinna Love as in "respect" should be equal, but passion might vary?

[strokesfan1107]

I was in a relationship for 4 years, and we broke up over 2 years ago. I've gotten in touch with myself, and figured out exactly what I want from myself, yet not a single day has gone by where I haven't thought of her.

I'm almost at the end of my tether. I can't speak to her, yet she lives in the same city as me, and Im always so paranoid I'm going to run into her.

I've dated lots of other people. She was The One. And this has gotten to the point where I can't bear it anymore... help..

[carolinlovecoach]

@strokesfan1107 I suggest you tell her. Meet her. Talk to her. Sometimes those obsessive thoughts of another person´s perfection are wiped away by reality... Watch one of my videos called "When you can´t stop thinking of Him"...

[strokesfan1107]

I was actually hoping for a cocktail recipe.. but this will do.

[carolinlovecoach]

@strokesfan1107 Lol

[66ott7]

Didn't fuckin help. Im fucked.

[carolinlovecoach]

@66ott7 Sweet, please relax. What did you learn from what you just went through? Focus on the future you wish to have. When we are in heart ache it´s easy to be low, but it will pass. I promise

[strokesfan1107]

@carolinlovecoach wow, quick response, I'm impressed, thanks!

should I respond to you here or on private message?

[carolinlovecoach]

@strokesfan1107 Hi, this is my job so please check out my website thelovecoach dot info for details. Email from there

[MSH300L]

love sucks

[carolinlovecoach]

@MSH300L Yeah,sometimes it feels that way.But it´s not until we meet The One we realise why it never worked out with the other ones...

[MSH300L]

@carolinlovecoach

i got dumped on valentines, one night ago i was working on a gift for her and when i woke up i found a massage from her saying that its not gonna work out i mean WTF! i was The Perfect BF i was their when she needed me when she cry's i told her that i loved her every day, where did i go wrong i really loved her </3

[1SVAV]

Я думал она потреплется 5 сек. и покажет сиськи-письки-селикон---неси машенька гандон. А она трындит и граблями машет. Вот чухна.

[siliel09]

hi caroline! ive been in and out in a relationship, ive gone watching this before, in and out again with the relationship over and over again, and i feel worthless for for the past weeks that i spent thinking of what exactly you just said, and fighting for the love that will never be mine. Thank you! you are the saver of my lost heart! Yes you are right, this is not who I need to become..

[carolinlovecoach]

@siliel09 Sit in silence for a while and find the right you... :) Thanks for your words. Bless

[themillieblog]

Amazingly helpful and beautiful video. I think once we realize how much the other person doesn't even care about your heartache...it makes you realize it's not worth crying for. Easier said than done but just keep remembering this. It helps a little bit.

[behaPPii810]

when i heard your accent i automatically knew it was something mixed with the aussie one :) aussie aussie aussie OI OI OI ! :)

[furiousjuffowup]

Great video I didn't have anything against your videobut this is the reason why I want to remain single otherwise I'll waste my time..never been in a relationship, still a virgin, I feel pure..angry and torn inside but pure...i have replaced relationships with hobbies and college which I begin in a month...omg....urgh..it feels great to be pure from people but hurts just a tad bit....

[furiousjuffowup]

How can I forget about 5 years of friendship about to become a relationsgip when he has someone else ...fml...just because I thought he wanted to get in my pants I kept it a friendship for 5 years and when im about to make it a relationship he finds someone...screw lovey dovey emotions...

[ndoumos]

i like your red hair carolyn

[911ffegment]

I think God Sent her down to help us :D..thnx alot

[Animegirlface518]

I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago and I told him that I wasn't ready :c I feel like I'm over him but this pain in my chest like longing him or something just won't go away. I've been like this for days moping and feeling all bad and depressed. Especially right after I broke up with him, he told me that he had hope before and now he says that his hopes were crushed years ago. Then he told me other sad things about him and his life which made me feel really bad. Please help me.

[CreamyNcrispy]

you're at least very cute , so u won't have a pb finding a gd looking guy ...

[santarter]

You have a very lovley accent, or is it a dialect.. Where do you talk like that?

[carolinlovecoach]

@santarter Thanks, I´m Swedish living in Australia so it´s a mix :)

[616xMetaL]

I feel like everything is going worse for me now.. She moved on already and likes another guy and I'm totally stuck without her now.. 3 years down the drain.. I can't cope with this.. I have no close friends besides her. No one to talk too.. I am on a verge of suicide.

[carolinlovecoach]

@616xMetaL It hurts, I know, but choosing to be bitter doesn´t make you happier... Feel sorry for yourself for a bit, but try then to be grateful for what you had and look ahead. There is love for you.

[jesuslivesinjoyce]

@616xMetaL hi want to chat im single and looking for serious relationship im honest faithful woman looking for true love chat me blossominthesummer@yahoo.com

[DiSNEYiNSANiTY]

@616xMetaL

goodness, i know this is a bit late, but i hope you're okay now:(

[rawnotion22]

I'd be all right if I had u. Lol, just joking good stuff

[christopherjc]

@rawnotion22 lol

[GoodDay2YouSir]

Orrr just break some shit

[bordmanjr]

Your so smart

[GameMaster432]

Get a bottle of Gin, thats the best way to get over anything

[Criceto32]

Awesome!!!



[MakeupBaybee]

im 12, he dumped me after 2 days, I was gonna see Him, He didnt know, i just looked on my inbox, "sorry its not working out nor to be harsh or anything, but we don't se eachother that much ya dumped." WTF!, 2 days!, i was gonna meet him!, please Reply I need help, im heartbroken...

[Askadria]

@MakeupBaybee omg im 13 and my ex broke up with me for the same stupid reason and i just think that's the most stupidest reason to brake up with someone and i'm heart broken to but look at it this way if he's happy to have you out of his life he's an ass whole you shouldn't be sad over that i know its going to be hard but you'll be ok trust me where teenagers this is going to happen ALOT in our life's you'll date tons of guys who will brake your heart before you find your prince charming.

[Patrickmjett]

Just split with my wife. I have a 4 year old with her. It would be a lot easier if I wasn't going to be tethered to her for forever because of our child/finances/house. I need to figure out how to get over seeing her.

[babyourastar]

I am so very grateful to have found your channel tonight. The grief I have been going through for the past year off and on has been outrageous. Thank you, I feel hope. I am also finally finding the courage to dig into me and start therapy tomorrow.

[tinkerbelle1984]

My boyfriend of 4 years just told me 2 days ago that he doesn't love me like he used to and that he thinks a lot about being with other girls. I can't tell you how much that hurts. I feel dead.

I will try and reapeat that sentence you say in your video : "you dont want the person, you want love".

Thanks you for your advices.

[BAMitzSAM100]

@tinkerbelle1984 omg this is pretty much the story of what happened with me except i was the guy and this is very normal for a 4 year relationship. I had also broke up with my girlfriend after 4 years too. I had still loved her and cared for her & i too said similar things to what you bf said to you.(Us men suck at excuses & hide the real reasons) The reason i ended it was because i was in my mid 20's & this was a stressful time in my life as i had work obligations, thoughts of marriage & babies

[BAMitzSAM100]

@tinkerbelle1984 ...continued....as i had work obligations, thoughts of marriage & babies & if i could live up to my gf expectations, thoughts on how my future will be & basically realizing that i dont know if i was ready to spend the rest of my life with the same person. It just came time in my life i had felt pressured & i wanted to try new things so i broke up with my longtime GF & told her i didnt feel the same way & i want to try new things even though i really still loved & cared for her-

[BAMitzSAM100]

@tinkerbelle1984 ...continued... loved & cared for her. I pretended as though this was the best thing for both of us but really i was just confused at this time of my life & so i thought being single was for me, i was single for a year & was casually dating & even when i was with another girl or seemed happy there wasn't a moment where i didnt think of my ex gf of 4 yrs i broke up with. My love was always & still there for her even if i didnt show it. ....continued...

[BAMitzSAM100]

@tinkerbelle1984 ..continued.. didn't show it. After about a year we had finally decided to show our true feelings & how we felt about everything, love brought us back again & we had gotten back together.. I am now 35 & happily married to that girl i once broke up with after being together for 4 years & we have 2 children & love each other greatly & couldnt be happier. The break up & bad times we had just made us stronger as a couple. I dnt know the details of your situation but dont give up!

[tinkerbelle1984]

@BAMitzSAM100 Wow.Your story is EXACLY like mine.My ex told me the same things.He is in his late 20s and feels confused about what he wants in his life.He has a lot of pressure from work and doesn't know if I'm the woman of his life.Exacly like what you said.This is scary.I feel like every man will have this kind of crisis in his life at one point.But your story inspired me.I'm happy everything worked well in the end and that you finally came back together.That proves u were meant for each other

[kawaiichie]

i feel like i was hypnotized to feel better LOL. thank you<3

[slayerofthenewbz522]

thanks...

[BernieMak86]

"you dont want the person, you want love" ....thats exactly want i wanted to hear..and it makes sense!! thank you!

[aris9876]

u really helped me thx

[jhillson24]

fuck love

[rachelinou1]

Good day, Just listening to you makes me feel better. You are such a great person. You are beautiful physically, but also in a spiritual way I could say. I just like listening to you. You're so full of joy and love for others, that I can feel it even on my screen.

Also you said something that I had never realised before. You said that it's not the person we loved that we need that much, it's rather love. You are so right Carolin. Have a great day!

[barfridman]

if you was with a girl and she doenst want you anymore*

[fatmanlushi]

Just pray and ask God to help :)

[barfridman]

if some girl doesnt want you , you only need to make her jealous , trust me it works like magic =p

[OreeoShowproductions]

@barfridman If a girl doesn't want you then she doesn't deserve you anyway why waste time when you can find someone better who will want you back?

[sweetpillz]

you are so precious! thank you! You made my heart sing with love and I felt YOUR love through your beautiful face!

[jessica29406]

I need help. My first love left me two days ago I gave him everything...and I DO mean "everything". He left because I accused him of cheating. I asked if we could try to work it out and he didn't even want to try. What should I do? I want him back. I wanna fix it. I don't want anyone else.

[StrawberryRainbowz11]

well my first bf broke up with me after only 6 days and broke my heart, i have nevr been broken hearted b4, i try to get ovr him but he was perfect! i dnt know what to do cuz i evn have nightmares about the breakup almost every night and cry evry night when i thnk of him. i thot i evn started to luv him and i know, im young and it was only 6 days but i felt a connection and the breakup was over 4 wks ago and still cry and dont know what to do. i want him but he doesnt wnt me:'(PLEASE help me!!!

[maria39208]

What should I do with a husband I have been with for 21 years that is still deeply hurt over an ex that deeply scarred him?

[carolinlovecoach]

He needs to deal with that with the help of a psychologist or similar.

[maria39208]

@carolinlovecoach Is that common? 21 years, & still hurt? Should I take it personal?

[Yuki14starz]

@maria39208 you need to let go of him darlin. if he can't get over her how can he love you the same? you can find someone that realyl loves you for you and isn't thinking about an ex. there must be a reason you love him but by doing what you are doing you are putting yourself through pain you don't need. if it has been 21 yrs and he still hasn't moved on then do u expect his heart to change in another 5 or 10 yrs. u shudnt have stayed with him for 21 yrs...

[snakew2r]

What you said about love being within a person was very enlightening, I never saw it that way. New set of glasses for my eyes. Thanks :)

[ipdddd]

thx

totally need that

[jjolove187]

Thank you!

[foolishmistakez]

thanx for the advice, hoe appropraite for me right now! happy new years!

[Lj9219]

You are too cute. Great advice for 2010!