Zachary's Coming Home

[MrAndythecook]

i am so sorry for your loss we lost our little boy harry on the 28/02/10 i feel your pain i miss him so much our heart is broken xxxx

[imvu08]

awh, im soo sorry for your loss, you are brilliant parents and very brave, i have a baby cousine she is 3 now and she means the world, im really sorry for your loss. <3!

[yougotmalk]

i understand now..ty..so sorry for your loss..i know how this must feel...its so terrible...hugs

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thanks sweetie No matter how much I miss him so many ways I feel like he is a huge part of me Plus I'm trying to do positive things in his memory so I joined a foundation to deliver teddy bears to neo-natal, stillborn and miscarriage losses I really think its going to be healing Once I get started Thank you for your friendship and being there It means the world Ton of hugs ♥Mel

[dancingwithabroom]

What lovely parents. What a bittersweet day. I will never forget Zachary's story.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much, I'm so sorry for the delay in response to everything Right now we are in the middle of a move Thank you again Zachary will always be a part of our life, each day that passes Ton of hugs ♥Mel

[jenjdickinson]

Prayers to you and your family Mel and your beautiful Zachary Angel. Thanks for bravely sharing your story about him. I'm sure you will help some parents who are experiencing similar sadness.

Love,

Jen D

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank You Jen Its amazing that since I have shared my story about our angel It has connected me to so many people and has brought hope to some that have experienced the same loss That alone has given me so much hope and desire to do more especially with further support to other families Tons of hugs ♥Mel®

[robroy02]

Lord God, ever caring and gentle, we commit to Your love this little one, quickened to life for so short a time. Enfold him/her in eternal life. We pray for his parents who are saddened by the loss of their child. Give them courage and help them in their pain and grief. May they all meet one day in the joy and peace of Your kingdom. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you for the beautiful prayer Especially the time you wrote this, William and I received sad news of dear friends of ours They lost their pregnancy yesterday Its so heartbreaking for us Tons of hugs ♥Mel®

[veranichole1981]

Oh my God, Mel. I've got tears streaking down my face. Honey, you guys are such beautiful parents and your parents are absolute angels for coming to pick up Zachary. Love and Big Big Hugs, Rachel

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank You Rachel You are so sweet I am longing to be reunited with Zachary's ashes I know it sounds silly because in many ways I feel his presence in my heart I agree how lucky I am with such amazing parents They have supported us through the loss of our son I will forever be grateful to them Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[NJLILI]

I found your page after being bleesed to seeing MelloMel and Missy's tribute to your son Zachary.This was a very personal experience and I want to thank you for allowing us all to share these deeply moving moments as you all dealt with the unexpected loss of your son. May God continue to bless you with a future household of healthy, happy babies!

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you for finding us and leaving such a beautiful message I am really sorry for your loss as well Its funny how much your eyes open up after such a tragic loss Just know I am here for you and if you ever need anything please let me know Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[dogearedstudios]

Mel - Thank you for sharing your story...I feel we have so much in common, and I'm glad that your parents were able to take him home so that you will be able to visit him. Perhaps our angels are in heaven playing together and helped introduce us as new friends! Thanks again for your story, it touched my heart so much. Crystal~

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Just know if you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here what we both have gone through is one of the hardest things in the world to ever endure and sadly its not something you can really heal from I'm deeply sorry for your loss Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[Haynes1994]

Oh Mel-- this just broke my heart. ((hugs))

[SSGLuceyGirl]

It was a really hard day and to this day I have such a raw emotion towards it I'm just thankful he is home with my parents where he is loved and sheltered I hate that Germany wouldn't allow us to keep him here Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[tekknowgirl]

I'm so glad that your parents, husband and son are such a support to you. Your video was so heartbreaking, I found it hard to watch the paperwork being done, as if it's a Fed-Ex parcel and not a human being. I'm so relieved you have him back and he is safe with your parents, loved and remembered. (HUGS)

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I know I have to tell you I just wanted to run out of the airport with Zachary but with Germany laws it would of been hard to get him back with us Thank you for the comment Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[dimondo]

This was a such a touching video. I am so sorry for your loss. You are truly blessed with such wonderful and loving parents.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much, to be honest my parents have been the most amazing and loving support throughout my life. They have sacrificed so much for us when we were growing up. I don't even know how to express that since Zachary is with them, how much comfort it has brought me. Thank you for the sweet comment. Tons of hugs from Mel!

[umassbluangel]

WHo sings this song?

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Sarah McLaughlin (I believe that is the spelling but I could be wrong). Tons of hugs from Mel!

[umassbluangel]

This is so bitter sweet> it is one of the most moving videos I have ever watched. I am so sorry for all you had to go through.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you.. It was one of those videos that I had to make to continue his memory for the world to see. It really meant a lot to me for your comment. Tons of hugs from Mel!

[bwings]

This video brought a tear to my eye. I can only imagine how hard it must have been to know that your loved one was in such a small box to be treated as a parcel. I know it is the only way to truly get him home but I can only imagine how much that must have torn you to watch.

I hope you are doing well.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

To be honest, I was just relieve to get him back. He was taken to another city, far away from us and held for over 2 months. We had no access to him at all. He is still in a temporary urn until we get back to the states. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!

[babybearsmommy]

what a bittersweet video. I'm so glad Zachary will be home when you return. ((HUGS))

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you .. it was a very somber day but also one that gave us hope to. Tons of hugs from Mel!

[houndsrule]

Loved your video made me think of my mom she had died

seven month ago(March 11 06) and seeing helped me to deal better with my mom death.

thank-you so very much. I'm truely glad your little boy is home

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I am so sorry about your loss, losing someone is very difficult and something I learn is that pain will ease with time but they will always remain in your heart and your every day life. I really believe Zachary is with us @ all the moments we have, watching from above. Just like I believe your mother is as well. Tons of hugs and thx for the comment - Mel!

[Jinxie228]

Wow, thank you for sharing your little Zachary with us. I am so glad you have your little angel with your parents, that will give you a little peace of mind. It looked like grandma and grandpa were taking Zackary for a walk, holding hands. On the up and down days, I am glad you can find comfort in each other. God Bless you, ~Martha

[SSGLuceyGirl]

You are sooo sweet for this beautiful comment, Thank You so much. It does in so many ways felt like Zachary was walking with his grandparents. I am really blessed to have amazing parents, another beautiful son Jared and supportive husband. As well to find people like you. Tons of hugs - Mel!

[Mellomel]

It was something about knowing Zachary's story....witnessing what took place, and hearing that beautiful song that just made this a heart~felt video. Thanx so much for posting it. When your parents walked away in the airport...I couldn't help but picture little Zachary walking between them with both of their hands. I swear...I appreciate each moment in a day a little more thanks to him!

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I am so grateful you enjoyed this video.. I deeply miss him so many days, its funny when I'm okay, my husband isn't. We go back and fourth on this. Time will heal all wounds as they say. Its such a beautiful sentiment of you seeing Zachary walking between my parents holding their hands. Thank you so for writing that. Tons of hugs from Mel!

[jfiorello68]

I am so glad that Zachary could come back to the US so that you may handle his remains as YOU want to. I'm sorry the German laws are so strict. Hopefully you can come home soon and be reunited with sweet Zachary. (((HUGS)))

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you for sweet comment. Its a huge comfort knowing Zachary is with my parents. I'm not sure when we are returning back to the states yet.. but I'm looking forward to being reunited with him again. Tons of hugs - Mel

[whatthef3]

Sorry for your loss. You are a very strong woman.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you for being so supportive, it means so much! But as to being strong, I wouldn't say that. It is just something I have to do, try to move forward but always keep Zachary spirit alive in me! Tons of hugs and thanks from Mel!

[grandmafor4]

I am glad your parents came to pick up Zachary . You will all have peace now you have him back .Love & Prayers.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thanks Nina .. Jared, William and I are still moving forward its just a slow process. Tons of hugs and love - Mel!

[katkoota]

I'm happy you got him baclo =)

[SSGLuceyGirl]

We are to .. it was so difficult him being somewhere else. Right now he is in a temporary urn until we move back to the states .. We are going to do a little ceremony for him then. Returning is really up in to the air du2 facing a possibility of another deployment. Tons of hugs - Mel

[Njordx]

I liked your story about the rain and Im happy you got him back :)

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you .. the rain has actually given me so much hope with Zachary being gone. I will always remember that story from my grandmother and when it rained that day, its something that I now really believe in. Tons of hugs - Mel!

[xgobobeanx]

wow, ty for sharing- but it must feel great to have him closer to you and have some closure

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much .. its giving us closure. We are slowly getting closure, but it really does help. Tons of hugs - Mel!

[pi314too]

This is very sweet. I hope it gives you some peace about your angel. Please say hello to your big boy, Jared, for me. I loved the way he read the story. He is a really cool kid. Tell him I said hi. Peace and Love to you and yours, Patti pi

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you .. in so many ways its has brought some peace to my heart knowing that now he is home .. a place that he is cherished and loved.

Tons of hugs - Mel!