**Warning Explicit Language** My son in a rage February 2009

[PAM2167]

I see in the background you have a dog in a cage. If I had behaved that way. My father would have taken the dog out of the cage and put me in the cage! Lady your too tolerant! If you don't put your foot down your kids are going to grow up being bullies! Your video shows your kids blatantly disrespecting you. And that's wrong!

[kejorafall]

is he mad because he doesnt have a/any cloth on?

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@kejorafall children in the Autistic Spectrum don't like to wear clothing, it hurts their skin. This is a video from a year ago he has gotten better with Occupational Therapy, Behavior Therapy, Med management through a psychiatrist and in home help through a program Youth Villages called Intercept.

[DJTerrorest]

Good mom. But i would hate to miss you slap him from time to time.

[hotlips013]

@lazerlight2010 actually you know what that is my brother you are talking about he isnt retarded you fucking moron who the fuck do you think you are? and iam not awesome to you mother fucker cause if i ever met you it would not be awesome stupid fat ass you must not have a life

[H2Zman]

jesus christ, watching this made me realize that I used to be like this too. And lately I've really wanted to break stuff when I get angry.

[tekubus]

Why dont you choke the shit out of him and calm him down...

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@tekubus Because that is called child abuse.

[naturegirl12ish]

how old is jacob and how could ur daughter be so calm i would slap him if i were her



[mom2fivemonkeys]

@naturegirl12ish Jacob is 5 in this video and she is 16, we have delt with this for years. She has three brothers with an Autistic Spectrum Disorder, Alexis is a good kid but it wears at any family especially the kind hearted.

[stewart3245]

lol at 0:05

[SilasHorrocks]

Autistic child today = MASS rapist tomorrow!

[shirleygibson]

This Video Contains Swearing. This Is Unsuitable For Children.

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@shirleygibson Don't watch it, it's educational purpose only Shirley Gibson. Are you one of those people that turn an eye to a man that beats his wife and children? What happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors? Whatever, people have the right to know what it is like to live a real life with children that have Autistic Spectrum Disorders.

[SacridiaDarque]

Oh, my. I admire your patience, Mom.

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@SacridiaDarque Thank you very much, although this is old he has had much worse rages since this but we are getting help in school and at home for the 'entire' family.

[RobDeManc]

When I was a kid I got a slap, or water thrown over me whenever I behaved like that.

[CJAproductionsINC]

How old was he?

I feel sad for the dogs having to be caged when he gets like that <:(

[multisnootyreturns]

he is such a dangerous retard!!! He should be euthanized before he hurts someone. NO THREAT INTENDED!

[CAPNMRVL]

As soon as "bitch" came out of his mouth, he should have gotten the mother of all spankings. And have him put his clothes on for gods sake.

[RieBJ]

poor dog!

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@RieBJ this is a video about a child with behavioral issues not a canine rights video, they were in the kennel for their safety. What is wrong with you people, no life absolutely no life...

[gabofhearts]

He Is A Demon Child!

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@gabofhearts I think you Obsessive Compulsive Disorder... you posted the same immature context TWICE.

[gabofhearts]

He Is A Demon Child!

[kdubowik]

Looks like my son's meltdowns. Your teen did great at staying calm. Calm doesn't come easily to teens. I hope she is rewarded for her understanding.

[UNSCcaptin]

1. i would be pissed to if u taped me in my underwear and put it on youtube

2. that dog is way to big for that cage dammit let him out D:<

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@UNSCcaptin #1 your a moron and #2 who gives a shit about the dog #3 obviously you have NO LIFE to post some shit like this on my page

[speedbuddy]

has anyone tried Meds on their child?

[mom2fivemonkeys]

@speedbuddy Jacob is on medicine now. If you would take the time to read my profile you would know the challenge it has taken 5 years to get someone to listen. These videos I post are to help other families that are treated with disrespect and made fun of. It is to educate. Jacob now takes Depakote, Cogentin, Tenex and Respidol all of which have side affects, but it is a loaded gun either way you choose to go.

[demediator]

does he go in time-out by himself or do you need to place him in time-out yourself? if he doesn't you need to place him there yourself... otherwise it looses the effect a time-out...

an other good thing is not talk about the throwing and stuff (aslong as it doesn't become dangerous) and the moment he starts a tantrum try to offer some distraction from the reason from the tantrum in this case the tv...

succes, your're doing a good job at being a good mom... ;o)

(sorry for the bad english)

[QuietAutumn1438]

Wow, you have got a ton of patience. My 4 year old has PDD-NOS and he only hits out of frustration when some moves his lined toy cars or takes something from him. His tantrums consist of him throwing himself into furniture and walls, screaming crying, kicking. The only time he'll try to hurt someone (not meaning to, he can't help it) is if you come near him. You keep up the great work with your boys! They are beautiful!

[mom2fivemonkeys]

Thank you, my patience run thin at times I am no where near perfect trust me. But I am hoping that if enough of us share our stories we will not feel so alone and isolated in this world. Jacob is the same but now Aidan is doing the same thing as in this video. It breaks my heart, Aidan can't talk much and that makes it even harder so much more sad.  Keep your head up and I"ll try and do the same :)

[TrishG72]

You are such a wonderful mom. It's not easy to care for kids on the spectrum. My almost 3-year-old also has PDD-NOS and he'll start slapping me if he doesn't get his way. He also throws himself hard against me and starts opening and slamming doors when a meltdown is about to start.

Love and hugs to your and your wonderful family.

[mom2fivemonkeys]

Thank you Trish, I wish you the best of luck in your journies. What started out as their bedroom (I painted an awesome mural) turned into a timeout room and now back to a bedroom... has been completely destroyed. I just spackled and painted the room and nailed the door frame back into place. Yes my sweet Jacob is so strong as you already know I'm sure, he actually broke the door frame out of the wall. Aidan has started biting severely, as a matter of fact he got me two days ago and drew blood.

[waarce]

Hi I have a three year old autistic son that has the language of a sailor. He is aggressive, throw things, pinch and screams. He goes around saying ego for no reason.  He is suppose to have HFA because he is verbal and has improved social skills (thanks to ABA, OT and Speech), but I wonder. His behaviors put him in the moderate range in the autism spectrum.

[mom2fivemonkeys]

Hi Waarce, yeah whew the mouth is amazing isn't it. I haven't been on responding to my comments that I approve and I'm sorry. Jacob and Aidan FINALLY got their neuro-psych results in May, Aidan falls in the Autistic catagory and Jacob falls on the line. It is rough on paper he is PDD NOS but the Dr. personally thinks he has Aspergers and we agree. Both are supposed to be getting ABA, OT and Aidan Speech. I'm worried about school that starts in 2 weeks.... keep in touch.

[waarce]

Well my baby is now on MEDS. He was all over the place at the Doctor's. He maybe bipolar, but to early to tell. He is now waiting for a feeding assessment and therapy and probably he might need toilet training therapy. He has low registration and can tell when he needs to go. Take care

[fromwkfsmouth]

I'm sorry that your son has an episode like that. There are several options to prevent further episodes - use the Tantrum911 blend, which is all-natural. I heard about your son calling your sis "B___h," so I'll post you a link to a social story on "bad words." (I might find one on tantrums - lemme see...)

Oh, and check out "The Chameleon Kid" - it's the next best thing to a quality social story on the subject of tantrums!

[mom2fivemonkeys]

Thank you for the information, I am going to check it out! I have slacked off a little, things have been rough to say the least.

[JenVlogsBPandAutism]

Familiar sorry! Also I wanted to tell you that we did just what you're doing now, when Zane was still small and wasn't hurting others or himself. He is now taking abilify, prozac and depakote. He's doing better than ever!

[JenVlogsBPandAutism]

That looks so firmiliar. Zane was like that when he was 4 and again at 8 and now at 12. It's not his autism alone, it's Bipolar disorder. Have you talked with your doc. about this possibility? Keep up the good work!

[mom2fivemonkeys]

I'm starting to feel like he is bipolar also. He switches so fast it's like a lightswitch and it is very scary for us and it will be over the simplest things.

[gara1212]

Why on earth would someone call a disabled child gay? That is just rediculous! I hope you reported that person.

[mom2fivemonkeys]

As far as I am concerned only stupid people would call a four year old gay. It shows you the ignorance of today's times. We are above that and our focus is on helping the boys :) ILY Lex

[choccovrdcherry]

Good video =). IF SOMEONE CALLS MY AUTISTIC BROTHER GAY AGAIN, THEY WILL HEAR FROM ME. Nothing pisses me off more. stUPID PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN

[GIJOEUSAF]

I can't wait until they get his meds right I know it is hard on you and our daughter. I love you and you're a great wife and mother.

[hotlips013]

You are a wonderful mom. Not many people care for their children like you do. Lucky kids =)