Graham I have said earlier about your viseos that you were an inspiration to me and to many people.I had no idea what you have been through in losing members of your family and Alex.
I lost my only sister with a brain tumor in March this year and I am still struggling with her loss.
Thankyou again for being such an inspiration to myseld and others with this video and sharing your story :)
I don't understand friend. All these bad things have been brought upon you but yet you were able to function and move on, even bringing Youtube amazing videos. How do you do these things? If only a certain person in my life were able to hear your story.......
sorry for the loss of your loved ones. My Aunt Which I was really close too died thanksgiving morning from cancer i really do miss her. Hope your family is doing well! God Bless
yep.. it's kinda hard but i understand... the pain, my aunt died couple days ago, still kinda hard to get over it... but wounds will heal over time, but they scar you aswell...
Thanks for sharing, especially after experiencing so much loss in such a short time. Your decision to honour those who loved you by living life to the full is the best possible tribute to them. Life is fragile and short. Go for it! All the best.
Allow me to speculate if I may, perhaps this was a challenge set by God to test your strength and will to rise against all odds. The problem is this theory implies God is a perculiar and cruel figure by singling you out. But by doing so has evoked new life into your spirit, no doubt the perished are proud and cheer you on for your adaption to this terrible set of events. I apologize for putting vivid description into my comments, but as you said death is a part of life to triumph over.
You Sir are incredible not only did face the torment of having your loved ones vanish from this world, but I find it outstounding seeing the short space between each of their deaths. Where others would have surely crumbled into a pool of anguish and traumatic depression, possibly sparking feelings of suicide. You soared upwards like the Phoenix, flourishing powerful hope out of this morbid series of events. My heart felt stabbed and I was smiling with joy and clapping by the end. Remarkable.
I've suffered a lot of loss as well. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. Alex was a special friend, and I miss him too. I'm now facing the imminent deaths of two other very good friends, including my best friend for many many years... it's always very difficult, and I feel completely torn by it all. Hang in there. I'm glad you're finally moving on.
It sure is hard hey. The important thing is not to allow ourselves to be destroyed by the deaths of the people we care about. It sure does suck going through this process. That is the price we pay when we care about people, that is the pain we feel when they depart this world. When best friends die it is hard on us. But remember honour them by not allowing this process to destroy us. Take care.
hey im sorry but let me tell you this im very glad that we talk on skype and i appreciate you talking to me so yeah thanks and talk to you later and im so sorry R.I.P to all of your missed ones im very sorry but please live on so those who appreciate your life will not miss you and we can talk to you and have fun but talk to you later and have a great day man please for all of us that care about you (thats a lot of people
Thanks, hopefully I will be alive for a few more years. I have stopped destroying myself over this now, and I have now started to rebuild my life again, even though it is so very hard. I still cry sometimes for them, especially Alex, he was very special to me and he was very kind to me, we were close friends.
You've been through a lot this past yr, but you have the right attitude and you will experience joy again. You're one of the good ones Graham and you've cheered me up in the past.
Thanks. It is hard to accept death as a part of life, but that is the reality of existence on this planet. The main thing is that we cant allow the deaths of our loved ones to destroy us. Our loved ones would not want us to be destroyed by their deaths.
I'm really sorry.
ManzaWoman 1 year ago
My mom passed on october 6th, i feel for you friend, life does go on. Your heartfelt message is worth hearing Graham.
humblefisherman 1 year ago
@humblefisherman yes life goes on, but it sure does suck going thru the mourning process.
GrahamAndFriends 1 year ago
Dont worry graham im sure youll pull through
youtube is lucky to still have you
BarrsLimeade 1 year ago
Ya I hear you, Im 11 years old and my Aunt Belinda died Janurary 14 2010
Then again my Uncle Joey had died May 21 2010. It sad man (-_-)
NoKiddinDave 1 year ago
At Least your Ok.
WorldCupToday 1 year ago
Hey Graham, thanks for some great vids... Sub'd
michael174 2 years ago
:(.
xXxXJaRRoDXxXx 2 years ago
I found this very moving and very wise. I will watch it again.
streathamitesw16 2 years ago
Graham I have said earlier about your viseos that you were an inspiration to me and to many people.I had no idea what you have been through in losing members of your family and Alex.
I lost my only sister with a brain tumor in March this year and I am still struggling with her loss.
Thankyou again for being such an inspiration to myseld and others with this video and sharing your story :)
Suzy xxx
DollyAU 2 years ago
I don't understand friend. All these bad things have been brought upon you but yet you were able to function and move on, even bringing Youtube amazing videos. How do you do these things? If only a certain person in my life were able to hear your story.......
fatboyindustries61 2 years ago
I have seen alot of change from this video to your current videos you seam alot happier now!
KyleThomasBarrett 2 years ago 2
this is a good video graham, i feel sorry for you 4 ppl.... its great that you are moving on
METALHQ 2 years ago 2
I'm sorry for your losses. Good luck in the future
pisadoesvlogs 3 years ago 2
sorry for the loss of your loved ones. My Aunt Which I was really close too died thanksgiving morning from cancer i really do miss her. Hope your family is doing well! God Bless
-Robert
AZDACKSGaming 3 years ago 2
yep.. it's kinda hard but i understand... the pain, my aunt died couple days ago, still kinda hard to get over it... but wounds will heal over time, but they scar you aswell...
thank you for sharing this video
xoni20 3 years ago 2
it is hard living without our loved ones. I find it hard still.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
Yes there is a plan, and it sucks!
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
Same has happened to me. This really helped me to know that I'm not alone in this world with these feelings...... Thank You!
mike40171 3 years ago
I am glad my video has helped you. Take Care.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
Time does help to heal the wounds, but the process sucks!
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing, especially after experiencing so much loss in such a short time. Your decision to honour those who loved you by living life to the full is the best possible tribute to them. Life is fragile and short. Go for it! All the best.
bobsnotthere 3 years ago
Thank you. Life is so short, so we must embrace it! :)
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
Allow me to speculate if I may, perhaps this was a challenge set by God to test your strength and will to rise against all odds. The problem is this theory implies God is a perculiar and cruel figure by singling you out. But by doing so has evoked new life into your spirit, no doubt the perished are proud and cheer you on for your adaption to this terrible set of events. I apologize for putting vivid description into my comments, but as you said death is a part of life to triumph over.
Sindrom11 3 years ago
You Sir are incredible not only did face the torment of having your loved ones vanish from this world, but I find it outstounding seeing the short space between each of their deaths. Where others would have surely crumbled into a pool of anguish and traumatic depression, possibly sparking feelings of suicide. You soared upwards like the Phoenix, flourishing powerful hope out of this morbid series of events. My heart felt stabbed and I was smiling with joy and clapping by the end. Remarkable.
Sindrom11 3 years ago
Very good vid
g4tech 3 years ago
Thanks. It was a very difficult video to make.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
Thanks. This does make me look at life differently. Especially trying to make the most out of life, as we are not here for very long, on this planet.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
I've suffered a lot of loss as well. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. Alex was a special friend, and I miss him too. I'm now facing the imminent deaths of two other very good friends, including my best friend for many many years... it's always very difficult, and I feel completely torn by it all. Hang in there. I'm glad you're finally moving on.
CircaRigeI 3 years ago
It sure is hard hey. The important thing is not to allow ourselves to be destroyed by the deaths of the people we care about. It sure does suck going through this process. That is the price we pay when we care about people, that is the pain we feel when they depart this world. When best friends die it is hard on us. But remember honour them by not allowing this process to destroy us. Take care.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
hey im sorry but let me tell you this im very glad that we talk on skype and i appreciate you talking to me so yeah thanks and talk to you later and im so sorry R.I.P to all of your missed ones im very sorry but please live on so those who appreciate your life will not miss you and we can talk to you and have fun but talk to you later and have a great day man please for all of us that care about you (thats a lot of people
oblivionfreak69 3 years ago
Thanks, hopefully I will be alive for a few more years. I have stopped destroying myself over this now, and I have now started to rebuild my life again, even though it is so very hard. I still cry sometimes for them, especially Alex, he was very special to me and he was very kind to me, we were close friends.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago
You've been through a lot this past yr, but you have the right attitude and you will experience joy again. You're one of the good ones Graham and you've cheered me up in the past.
farnk 3 years ago
Thanks. It is hard to accept death as a part of life, but that is the reality of existence on this planet. The main thing is that we cant allow the deaths of our loved ones to destroy us. Our loved ones would not want us to be destroyed by their deaths.
GrahamAndFriends 3 years ago