Does no contact work? No contact after a breakup?

[Omnitrix8]

THE NO CONTACT WORKS FOR SOME AND DOES NOT WORK FOR SOME. THERE ARE SOME CIRCUSTANCES WHERE IT IS EFFECTIVE WHILE OTHERS IT IS NOT.

[angelhighify]

I agree. Its been almost a month since mine has called or tex and it pisses me off so bad that I have moved on. I still love him, but now I don't trust him with my heart.

[iamnotcoolandproud]

Just so you all know, I even tried it. For a month and a half. What happened during that time? Well her and my best friend were together for the entire day on February 14th, my friend had no credit because of texting her, and when I finally saw her again she looked better than ever and wouldn't stop talking about my friend.

[iamnotcoolandproud]

I don't give a crap about statistics! No contact is the biggest load of bullshit I've heard. Let's think about it; we be absolute assholes by ignoring our ex and not even trying to reason with them in any way, as well as isolating ourselves from them in order to get them back? Hmmm...I'll do it! Seriously though we need to be smart. This isn't smart this is suicidal. Use your brains people!

[discowhip]

 ignoring never works

[12345ffvii]

this guy looks like demitri martin

[PrincessMideast]

we girls die for the guy who ignores us…seems hard to get..and who’s too busy to talk to us…but once he starts being too pushy and needy and too loving and begging..no no no…we are turned off!

[PrincessMideast]

Believe it or not....no contact is the best way to get your ex back...when my boyfriend broke up with me I thought he would never come back and at first I begged and cried and told him how much I loved him but he seemed to get even farther away from me...so I backed up and IGNORED HIM..no calls,,no msgs..no emails...for a whole month...and he called me begging..I gave him the space and time to missed me......

[bqureshi21]

to the girls talking about how angry they are with their ex for doing no contact: can you blame them? they are your ex! they are individuals, and if u broke up with them, then you should accept the consequences of it too, whether they are trying to get u back or not, give them a break...

[hereltch]

give him/her the "fuck you attitude" meaning ignoring them and it will get her attention but if she/he is truly over you it wont bother him/her also be true to yourself try and get over that person i tried this an it worked and please no hate responses im only trying to help gl

[ohmygoditskim]

Ur cute! Wanna go out?

[AFCscottishNproud]

taking advice from a prebubesent kid iant a great thing to do.

no contact is best! anything else youll look a needy freak who is obbssesed with her. why cll to hear about the new guy etc... fcuk that,you havent a clue lad. thanks for trying though. just wrong on every level

[rosalinda749]

my ex bf is doing the no contact its 1 month now and its hurting me more the fact he is ignoring me !!! just makes you more angry with them,, to the point that when he does decide to contact i will tell him to piss off simple as

[Vercifxx]

@rosalinda749 if you broke up with him then what would you want to be done?

[rosalinda749]

@rosalinda749 the first month was i just wanted to cry ,, its 6 months now ive past the crying stage and then came the anger thats gone to im so glad i dont suffer no more .. my ex was also a friend of 20 yrs .

[MissKilaStarlet]

lol no offense but it didnt work for you because you approached it incorrectly.. if u dumped her and used no contact ur a jerk. if she broke up with u and u just moved on LIKE UR SUPPOSED TO, than she has no reason to get angry with u.. n u probably didnt wait long enough too. you have to be VERY strong to do this. u basically just said no contact will damage ur relationship if u dont follow thru the whole time, which is like a duhh moment. lol that's where ppl mess up, they aren't strong enough

[win356270]

Let me say what I mean: if you think no contact won't work, you are almost always wrong. No contact simply is one of the most powerful ways to get a girl back. And I don't mean wait for her to call you. I mean ignoring the crap outta her. this is a LONG process if you do not start it immediately after a breakup. But it works. It WILL hurt your relationship if done incorrectly, so contact me first, at

[lavvy2585]

@win356270

I had someone do that to me and at the end of the day I realized that I did not want to be with some one that would treat me like that. NC is childish and immature unless the person is violent.

[Lindathemightywitch]

@lavvy2585 right on. Totally agree.

[lavvy2585]

@win356270

you deserve to be left alone if you could trust someone so poorly as to "ignore the crap outta her".

[aftercarecarez]

@win356270 can u elaborate more....If done incorectly how??

[win356270]

@RonJon1183 yo bro. You are totally right. I made the video while half asleep. But I also take it as a compliment. Anyway, I say the same thing everyday, so I am always looking for a new way to say it. Different people have different learning styles. but then again. this vid needs help... you think I should scrap it?