I have two friends who I'm quite upset with. I am owed lots of money by both of them and they won't respond to my calls or my requests to have them help me with chores I need done. I get so mad thinking about it that I lay awake at night feeling miserable. I know that Eckhart and Kim would be able to find the stillness, the forgiveness and peace that I'm not allowing to come in to my life. I'm trying really hard to forgive and forget. This is helping. Thanks for posting.
@jbjindra Well, don't try to forget, otherwise you will stay thinking on it and will suffer. When people try to forgot something or someone, they do not forget, they keep remembering. What you must do, is accept anything about YOU. Because when you accept it, you free it to move. When you resist it, it's like a prison, you don't let it move.
@jbjindra As soon you start to think about it, you feel like you're resisting what's arising right? Let it come, let it be. There has to be an inner sense in you that understands, isn't there?
a good way to begin is to let go of yourself completely, practice this as a meditation and for every breath, let go of "it", "it" being awareness, the life, the being essence, as if you were dying and giving the pressence back to the universe.
awareness doesnt judge good or bad, were trained to think sad or hurt feelings are intrinsically bad and should be fought or ignored, when thats the very thing that feeds them to grow larger and louder, manifesting into sickness be it physical or mental... allowing it to happen, knowing that its ok to not be ok and forgive it for being there, it will naturally find its own way out. "what we resist persists!"
black people leading the world. yea! like that is ever gonna happen.there are some bright ones, like Barack and especialy Oprah. she is realy smarth. but it will never happen
When we push against, that is the ego, taking charge. When we accept and love, that is our Inner Being...we are being who we truly are only when we open to "all that is".
Definitely need to read The Power of Now to understand what she's talking about but that's a great way of putting it. It's so easy to look at the pain body and the ego in a negative light but in order to transmute them into light they Need to be accepted for what they are, they need to be Loved. Otherwise there's inner resistance. :)
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@11010646 It's not as robotic as saying that it's just automatic, and neither is it unconscious (it is SUB-conscious, which is a big difference, because nobody is able to do anything unconsciously).
Your mind is exclusively made for creating abstractions of that which is in front of you, for the sole purpose of subsequently enabling you to experience the next layer of reality.
All the actions you ever do, is still going to be dictated by your nature. So why not trust it?
@DrMadolite I have definitely changed my mind since the time I posted that comment. Yes, I agree that there is NO WAY of doing a so-called "wrong action", for example... there is no such thing. Whatever you do, that's exactly what you should have done, simply because we are not separate from the rest of existence. How could we be?
On your comment about the mind, I don't think it is so complex like you've put it. Reality made of "layers"? Nonsense complexity! For me, there's no "unconscious".
@11010646 By layers, I mean that there are things that you realize, know and do today that you didn't realize, know or do yesterday. So figuratively speaking, you're peeling off layers to understand things from a more complete level.
I have two friends who I'm quite upset with. I am owed lots of money by both of them and they won't respond to my calls or my requests to have them help me with chores I need done. I get so mad thinking about it that I lay awake at night feeling miserable. I know that Eckhart and Kim would be able to find the stillness, the forgiveness and peace that I'm not allowing to come in to my life. I'm trying really hard to forgive and forget. This is helping. Thanks for posting.
jbjindra 2 weeks ago
@jbjindra Well, don't try to forget, otherwise you will stay thinking on it and will suffer. When people try to forgot something or someone, they do not forget, they keep remembering. What you must do, is accept anything about YOU. Because when you accept it, you free it to move. When you resist it, it's like a prison, you don't let it move.
MarlonFSAviz 1 week ago
@jbjindra As soon you start to think about it, you feel like you're resisting what's arising right? Let it come, let it be. There has to be an inner sense in you that understands, isn't there?
jonoce633 6 days ago
a good way to begin is to let go of yourself completely, practice this as a meditation and for every breath, let go of "it", "it" being awareness, the life, the being essence, as if you were dying and giving the pressence back to the universe.
jonoce633 3 weeks ago
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11010646 1 month ago
awareness doesnt judge good or bad, were trained to think sad or hurt feelings are intrinsically bad and should be fought or ignored, when thats the very thing that feeds them to grow larger and louder, manifesting into sickness be it physical or mental... allowing it to happen, knowing that its ok to not be ok and forgive it for being there, it will naturally find its own way out. "what we resist persists!"
BleednEden 1 month ago
black people leading the world. yea! like that is ever gonna happen.there are some bright ones, like Barack and especialy Oprah. she is realy smarth. but it will never happen
smallpotatoes989 1 month ago
I love her so much
KegPatcha 2 months ago
the hell is this shit?
iAREanthonyyy 2 months ago
@iAREanthonyyy you are a sleep an people like her are trying t wake people up
smallpotatoes989 1 month ago
@smallpotatoes989 LOL yea.. okay..
iAREanthonyyy 1 month ago
I wish I could 'know' this.
JagoRisin 2 months ago
Beautiful.
bsadancer 2 months ago
I really like Ekhart Tolle, but I'm tired of the phoney baloney shitbirds who try to emulate his halting, breathy mode of speech.
Kwimalo 3 months ago 3
I dont know much but this stuff seems too commercialized for me--- I prefer Vernon Howard-- I like the rawness and impactness of his message
sickasso72 3 months ago
semantically arrogant
artregeous 3 months ago
When we push against, that is the ego, taking charge. When we accept and love, that is our Inner Being...we are being who we truly are only when we open to "all that is".
amazinggrace5478 3 months ago 3
@amazinggrace5478 agreed (-:
Hectorjohn73 2 months ago
@iamaphuneyVEVO why so hostile?
SerapisBei 3 months ago
nice. simple
cspace1234nz 3 months ago
wow.
MrGziss 4 months ago
Definitely need to read The Power of Now to understand what she's talking about but that's a great way of putting it. It's so easy to look at the pain body and the ego in a negative light but in order to transmute them into light they Need to be accepted for what they are, they need to be Loved. Otherwise there's inner resistance. :)
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anapanasati1970 5 months ago
Great teaching if you want to be a robot that accepts everything.
PeekyBooo 5 months ago
@PeekyBooo To react automatically to any given situation unconsciously is to be a robot, don't you think? :)
11010646 5 months ago 6
@11010646 Unconsciousness is equal to being an extension of your past programming or your past selfs. This may seem as you were a robot.
TheWayshowerTube 1 month ago
@11010646 een tho I do not agree with most of echart works your statement makes a lot of sence
smallpotatoes989 1 month ago
@11010646 It's not as robotic as saying that it's just automatic, and neither is it unconscious (it is SUB-conscious, which is a big difference, because nobody is able to do anything unconsciously).
Your mind is exclusively made for creating abstractions of that which is in front of you, for the sole purpose of subsequently enabling you to experience the next layer of reality.
All the actions you ever do, is still going to be dictated by your nature. So why not trust it?
DrMadolite 1 month ago
@DrMadolite I have definitely changed my mind since the time I posted that comment. Yes, I agree that there is NO WAY of doing a so-called "wrong action", for example... there is no such thing. Whatever you do, that's exactly what you should have done, simply because we are not separate from the rest of existence. How could we be?
On your comment about the mind, I don't think it is so complex like you've put it. Reality made of "layers"? Nonsense complexity! For me, there's no "unconscious".
11010646 3 weeks ago
@11010646 By layers, I mean that there are things that you realize, know and do today that you didn't realize, know or do yesterday. So figuratively speaking, you're peeling off layers to understand things from a more complete level.
DrMadolite 3 weeks ago
Thank you Shojman !!!
gorelnik 8 months ago