Working on yourself is so important - I think a lot of people get scared by what they might find when they delve deeply. I'm proud of you Mara - you're a very brave woman to actively engage yourself and the people in your life to be better people. You're also brave to put yourself out there to all of us. I appreciate it and send you big hugs. PS: are you going to SD Pride? If you are, I would scream like a little girl. xoxoxo
Have you given her time to process what happened that night? It seems like its been a bit. Have you tried calling again? If shes a good person she will let you explain yourself about your emotional state when you answered her call. Explain that you didnt mean to take it out on her and you sincerely apologize. Communication is the key to ANY kind of relationship and in the end you guys will probably look back and laugh. live and learn. Good luck!
Genuine connects with other people definitely give us less a place to hide from ourselves and the things we need to change about our lives. The vulnerability is embarrassing, but it's exactly the catalyst to growth.
oh babe!! this happened to ME last week! omg did it create chaos. but that chaos is totally under control...but wow for a hot second things were hairy!! way to go with eating well. thats really great. keep up with the positive changes. ; ) id would be so great to see you on the west coast.
Oh Mara, don't regret that night. I have a feeling that the things said that night and what happened will bring you two closer. Its a possibility that it could have been the best thing to happen. It gives us a chance to reevaluate everything and grow from that. In the long run it'll make the relationship stronger. Your goo people miss mara
wow, i'm sorry.have you let her know that whatever you said to her that night had nothing to do with her? i've had the issue where i have unintentionally taken out my frustration on people who were close to me, but i think if this girl is meant to be in you life she'll probably want to discuss whatever happened between you two and resolve it. i hope it works out for you.
i have ruined many relationships with this word vomit you speak of, hopefully soon some medication will become avaliable to help alleviate said disease
I totally know where you're coming from. There was this girl...who was like liked...and insert foot in mouth...and then she became distant. Now she's a friend...and my little heart breaks a little.
On another note, I'm feeling the band. Have fun with finals, or papers, or whatever it is you have coming up. Gotta love college. :)
You actually come off stronger in this video for putting yourself on the line. I respect you, even though you were very vague. Maybe you didn't really lose this important person, maybe you need to really put yourself out there to her. Take care!
Oof, I get you Mara. Watching this I got a feeling in my tummy 'cause I just GET what you're talking about. Great that you're making moves to sort stuff out..that's all you can do sometimes eh - move forward and learn from it.
I appreciate you allowing all of us in to what you're going through. I have been in the very same spot you're in right now. I think it's a good thing that we get wake up calls in our friendships, because is reminds us just how special certain people are to us. I read a book called "You can heal your life" by Louise Hay and it really helped me to understand more about myself and the people I surround myself with. It's really a great read if you have the time..... (Hugs)
I've definitely done some "word vomiting" of my own. Even though right now you may feel like you made a mistake or changed something in a way that you didn't intend, it just illustrates that you are human. Anyone who truly cares about you will realize that in the end. Try not to be so hard on yourself!
And even that you have this all going on, I think you look really good today :D
And I do understand.. I hope everything will get better or good for you soon... How do you say that in english.. that is will sort out or something? anyway... =) keep smiling girl
Oh yes - long week. interesting to see you in a different mood; it's easy to forget that QueerFaqtor people have aspects to their personalities that are not shown on camera. Anyway, I def. appreciate hearing this - I say things I don't mean to all the time and then I get flashbacks and scream FUCK when I'm in the shower or something.
I am the same way when I am upset. So, I understand, to a degree, what you are saying. I checked out the band, and they are pretty good. I love your videos.
Working on yourself is so important - I think a lot of people get scared by what they might find when they delve deeply. I'm proud of you Mara - you're a very brave woman to actively engage yourself and the people in your life to be better people. You're also brave to put yourself out there to all of us. I appreciate it and send you big hugs. PS: are you going to SD Pride? If you are, I would scream like a little girl. xoxoxo
malloryspiderwick 2 years ago
Have you given her time to process what happened that night? It seems like its been a bit. Have you tried calling again? If shes a good person she will let you explain yourself about your emotional state when you answered her call. Explain that you didnt mean to take it out on her and you sincerely apologize. Communication is the key to ANY kind of relationship and in the end you guys will probably look back and laugh. live and learn. Good luck!
MissCherryLiciousQT 2 years ago
Have a better week this week. Thanks for sharing, you do what I can not do and you do it intensely well.
coattail2 2 years ago
Genuine connects with other people definitely give us less a place to hide from ourselves and the things we need to change about our lives. The vulnerability is embarrassing, but it's exactly the catalyst to growth.
leftylib 2 years ago
oh babe!! this happened to ME last week! omg did it create chaos. but that chaos is totally under control...but wow for a hot second things were hairy!! way to go with eating well. thats really great. keep up with the positive changes. ; ) id would be so great to see you on the west coast.
vixen0995 2 years ago
Would it be Arizona's West coast? lol ;-)
iamakinkychicken 2 years ago
Oh Mara, don't regret that night. I have a feeling that the things said that night and what happened will bring you two closer. Its a possibility that it could have been the best thing to happen. It gives us a chance to reevaluate everything and grow from that. In the long run it'll make the relationship stronger. Your goo people miss mara
NicMarie410 2 years ago
I like how you tried to use 3rd person here, but it didn't really work lol
oh nichol-y. ::hugs::
iamakinkychicken 2 years ago
i tried...but i guess i'm not that sly! oh well the secret is out! ;-)
NicMarie410 2 years ago
i kno wat u mean.. the same thing happened with me and a very close person and i havent talked to that person since probably march of last yr... :(
but w/e.... all we can do is try to move on. and if we can fix it then try to fix it.... :D
robertoi945 2 years ago
wow, i'm sorry.have you let her know that whatever you said to her that night had nothing to do with her? i've had the issue where i have unintentionally taken out my frustration on people who were close to me, but i think if this girl is meant to be in you life she'll probably want to discuss whatever happened between you two and resolve it. i hope it works out for you.
veronicajade20 2 years ago
i have ruined many relationships with this word vomit you speak of, hopefully soon some medication will become avaliable to help alleviate said disease
celnaning 2 years ago
tee hee
sakura2390 2 years ago
I totally know where you're coming from. There was this girl...who was like liked...and insert foot in mouth...and then she became distant. Now she's a friend...and my little heart breaks a little.
On another note, I'm feeling the band. Have fun with finals, or papers, or whatever it is you have coming up. Gotta love college. :)
ryamary 2 years ago
spew away mar mar :) it takes lots of courage to put the raw side of ourselves out there to the world...everyone should do it. 4 stars! -gay man :)
ndevelopment 2 years ago
ily!<3
Rainbowgore 2 years ago
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BloodyHMartini 2 years ago
Your the best!
Neuron1980 2 years ago
I checked out the site you put in the side bar.... wow.... They ARE awesome!! Thanks for recommending them :-D
chantelml 2 years ago
ok i just looked at the band and all i can say is they amazing.
i love her voice.
luvz ya
JUGGALER19 2 years ago
You actually come off stronger in this video for putting yourself on the line. I respect you, even though you were very vague. Maybe you didn't really lose this important person, maybe you need to really put yourself out there to her. Take care!
Bitemeubloodyelf 2 years ago
happends to the best of us. i hope everything works out btwn you two. fill us in!
wankbead 2 years ago
Oof, I get you Mara. Watching this I got a feeling in my tummy 'cause I just GET what you're talking about. Great that you're making moves to sort stuff out..that's all you can do sometimes eh - move forward and learn from it.
nzellen 2 years ago
I appreciate you allowing all of us in to what you're going through. I have been in the very same spot you're in right now. I think it's a good thing that we get wake up calls in our friendships, because is reminds us just how special certain people are to us. I read a book called "You can heal your life" by Louise Hay and it really helped me to understand more about myself and the people I surround myself with. It's really a great read if you have the time..... (Hugs)
shyone4444 2 years ago
I've definitely done some "word vomiting" of my own. Even though right now you may feel like you made a mistake or changed something in a way that you didn't intend, it just illustrates that you are human. Anyone who truly cares about you will realize that in the end. Try not to be so hard on yourself!
DietDrPepperGirl 2 years ago
I like your hair that way though :D
And even that you have this all going on, I think you look really good today :D
And I do understand.. I hope everything will get better or good for you soon... How do you say that in english.. that is will sort out or something? anyway... =) keep smiling girl
zmorganaz 2 years ago
Oh yes - long week. interesting to see you in a different mood; it's easy to forget that QueerFaqtor people have aspects to their personalities that are not shown on camera. Anyway, I def. appreciate hearing this - I say things I don't mean to all the time and then I get flashbacks and scream FUCK when I'm in the shower or something.
DomesticGhost 2 years ago
you are amazing Mara.... you are a great person and its so good that you are conscious of your emotions
letsjustcutthecrap 2 years ago
I am the same way when I am upset. So, I understand, to a degree, what you are saying. I checked out the band, and they are pretty good. I love your videos.
Anerneq 2 years ago
Great vid! You're very brave for getting so personal.....and yes I am one of those people who totally knows what you're talking about.
SoNluver511 2 years ago
You're definitely right about saying things that we really don't mean or want to say, I do it all the time. :(
Kijanawazhere 2 years ago