ZJ Q&A: Sexuality (part 5)

[bmxrider222]

male or female

[outraged4U]

I admire this young man for highlighting gender inequality for males with his dress sense and role model for our young boys.

Fashion/clothes and color genderisation through masculine constructs, have repressed boys and men for decades or perhaps centuries.

Girls and women are allowed to cross dress and not to get punished or bullied so why should boys?. I will encourage my son to wear what he damn well pleases!! Go Ryan!

[BETAmosquito]

@outraged4U

Women fought for that right. If you don't like social norms, why not fight too?

[CyberFenix000]

"youtube celebrities r all fucked up..." jaja XD for a moment i thought about jersey shore (although they r not from youtube), jaja

[toastman300]

Fag

[SemiAquaticRhino]

@toastman300 wow. you're mature.

[toastman300]

@SemiAquaticRhino Your welcome bro. Join Misc please.

[SemiAquaticRhino]

@toastman300 Misc?

[toastman300]

@SemiAquaticRhino Yes, Where faggots don't exist.

[SemiAquaticRhino]

@toastman300 i'm fine where i am.  thanks (not really) for the offer though.

[TheGreatHsilgne]

I first saw your videos whenever a friend of mine wanted me to watch just some gay guy spouting a bunch of bullshit, but they ended up being very educational and I don't think I would have otherwise started taking the tame to educate myself on these subjects. Thank you for your time in helping me understand things that a homophobic Texan town wouldn't want me to understand.

[TheCeejReturns]

People like What The Buck and his ilk are what I call Infiltrators. People who pretend to be gay for whatever reason or another. Some people to it for the fame, like the ones on YouTube. Some do it to sleep with the fag hags, like the ones at bars and pubs. If you see someone who fits EVERY gay stereotype, they're probably not gay. Everyone fits SOME of the stereotypes of whatever group they belong to, but nobody fits them all.

[kaiserxdd]

Why?

[Berni263]

I hope you do not mind me asking what are your thoughts on misandry. I am particularly interested in what a gay may think about it, given the increasing hatred of men in the english speaking world.

Thanks

[Dunderhead36]

you're giving me a boner...

[RedheDude]

lol Britney Spears. Bad taste is bad taste whether you're gay or strait.

[woxiedowg]

"Have you ever been in love?" "Yes!" *abrupt ending of topic* Hahaha. Cute.

[Sims2players]

"I'm not gay...no, I'm kidding, get the fuck outta here." - Oh God, I almost died of laughter. I love you <3

[joschmo007]

So where's the next video?

[ianmathwiz7]

So when are you going to make the other four parts of this Q&A (gender expression, religion, politics, and other stuff)?

[TheGarywilliams]

1:08 i wouldnt put it past em lmao (joking)

[Anubbiz]

haha !!! you are so amazing... intellingent and funny... i really enjoy ur videos =)

[NoGodInvolved]

I've watched all 5 videos, and still I'm curious about something :)

You said somewhere that you were never attracted to women, but have you ever wondered how it would be like, or feel like te have sex with a woman? Have you ever been so curious that you considered trying it just to know what it's like?

[sammyanthachick]

"They tend to speak in a voice or accent that's kind of annoying or difficult to listen to"

LMAOOOOOOOOO

[1982mockingbird1982]

Youve actually pulled of being openly effeminate without being annoying. Your look is bold but at the same time I cant imagine it truly offending someones sensibilities and your personality and speech are impresive rather than offputting. Your one of the few effeminates I dont feel sorry for or look down upon

[iiiset]

"Have you ever been in love?" "Yes."

Well played.

[bbmkanata]

On flamboyant accents...Hay hay haay. Ugh. But it beats the hate speech most heteros spew.

[ShadowWolf119]

WHY?! Why didn't you answer! I wanted to know that last question! why! (lol, ok, I'm kidding on the reaction but I did want to know.

[oMisFiTx]

SHEMALE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ShadowWolf119]

@oMisFiTx fail

[123456789Anarchy]

....TO LONG DID NOT LIDTEN xD

i only understood

GAY GAY GAY GAY

[TaBestRadioShow]

I would rather have a conversation with you than WhatTheBuck.

[arahul1979]

why u cut all ur puse while talking its also kind of wied....

[mysticusa100]

god damn i homosexual talking about sexuality.. :D

[DerpDerpInTheMurph]

I disagrre that we're tired of listening to you talking about your sexuality. I find homosexuality quite interesting, even though im not a homosexual myself.

[RedRainDrop]

y do u wear lipstick?

[iamzhippoppotimus]

The shear cruelty of leaving us hanging at the "have you ever been in love?" response is crippling JZ.

[yoy369]

gay

[craigr13666]

You seem very well spoken and very informed. I admire a person who knows who they are and isn't afraid of what others think. there are a lot of assholes with a lot of narrow minded bullshit to say. I'm straight, and I'm also an a-thiest. keep your head high...

[butterflies1324]

MrRagaRaga, What in the world made you pay attention to something so simple as taking a breath to get air after speaking..So you could insult ZJ. Thats the only reason. So you need to just go away and stop viewing the videos if it irritates you. /end.

[brudswick]

"have you ever been in love?: YES. " but you obviously dont want to talk about it. possibly to punish a poorly phraised question, or possibly just because its uncomfortible. I roomed with a homo before and it was actualy pretty cool cause he'd room hop around campus to stay with his lovers and leave me alone. not that I'm biased against gays: I just like being left alone.

[hugesinker]

Thank you for doing this series, I've found it very enlightening-- though I still do not understand one central thing which I'm not getting into here unless you decide to make more of these sort of videos. Well, take care.

[lovenick2]

why are you gay?

[FriendlyShadow1]

@lovenick2 People don't choose to be gay. Either they are or they aren't. And there's nothing wrong with it.

[kmsoileau]

"YouTube celebrities are fucked up"

Pot, meet kettle.

[2ndsB4]

Question:

why am i instantly stereotyped as an intolerant person if i say i didnt like gay people? am i not allowed to have preferences? do i have to like everything just to fulfill the criteria of a tolerant person?

i dont have any problem with gays, i dont judge a person by sexual intrests.........

you have to love me cause youre tolerant?

you have to like the colour yellow cause youre tolerant?

[GUITAPHIL]

you like being FUCK by a midget dressed in a speedo whit a chrismas hat on ?

[nosson77]

Very interesting set of Q and A videos.

[sheridan12345678]

im just kidding get the FUCK out of here is your choice XD XD XD

[care2goo]

gay people don't bother me as long as they don't flaunt their gayness with extreme flamboyancy. Just like straight people dont bother me as long as they dont overly express their sexuality i.e. by wearing excessively short skirts or acting like a whore. I actually have a really cool gay hairdresser and he doesn't act flamboyant which is awesome, in fact, I believe he thinks most people who do are putting on an act. He has feminine mannerisms but even I cross my legs like a girl at times.

[shane6003PQ]

lol this is funny. I could say "I don't mind straight guys as long as they don't act like 'bros'." "hey man, wanna go play football, an some gears of war? "

[care2goo]

not really but ok.

[SaturnineXTS]

@care2goo

crossing your leg "like a girl" as you called it is not a feminine mannerism. there's just a misconception that sitting in this position crushes your schlong. I align my schlong up the belly so that's out of question :)

[care2goo]

@SaturnineXTS you must have a very nevermind sized nevermind. I've never had a problem with my legs cutting off the circulation or whatever down there.

[SaturnineXTS]

@care2goo

Well neither do I, but that's just what I heard from girls. That guys squeeze their stuff when sitting like this :D

[Yoshemo1]

"have you ever been in love?"

"yes :D ....Im bored. bye!"

XD great ending.

[fizzboy28]

you need to be shot.

[vgmaster831]

Why?

[TonsofFun777]

What an ugly bitch

[DSB0313]

Whats playing in the background?

[angryemos]

woooooah! FUCK

[revan107]

leave fags alone! you don't have to be one who gives a fuck just get on with your lifes

[kmacmuzikmafia27]

It's just human nature I guess, to want someone to like you. I've tried to "be myself" and maybe sometimes it works. But I think deep down, most people just want to be liked- by most people.

[TheAzureusShinobi]

I don't think most people want to be liked as much as they want their existence to be acknowledge, in whatever way they can. The "everlasting" impressions and memories you leave behind you are in fact the closest thing we've got to immortality right now, nou?

[musicmeanslife65]

I watched the whole Q&A thing, and I think I learned a thing or two.

In time I will watch all your videos, because as I said previously, I learned a couple of things from you, so maybe I can learn some more.

Keep up the good stuff.

Me ^^

[donutmaster]

Q: Have you ever been in love?

A : YES!

LMAO, no follow-up.

[antonersulten]

I got a question. Do you wear libstick & set your hair like that normally or just for the vids?

No offense

[gagnashdiak]

From the other videos it seems the hair stays (what's the matter with the hair?), the lipstick don't. Smaller earrings too.

[mwboyer1]

If only you could be judged solely on your words and wisdom!

[flclpk]

couldent agree more

[pure3d3fownz]

The face you make after your mouth stops moveing pisses me off 3:46

[ronyboy40]

straight is the new gay

[McKinney1500]

sooo your telling everyone not to change the way they act, then why in Gods existing name do you dress the way you do. why did you change? turn into a goofy looking fucking queerbate mother fucker desperate for attention on youtube. dont lie you love drama and all that pussy faggot queer shiit to watch seriously quit trying to act like you know shit just go sit in a room and suck a few fucking cocks and cut yourself, and soon enough you will be rotting in hell where you can be as weird as u want

[AntiChristAntiFail]

mckinney, you are a retard.

do less methamphetamine.

[mwboyer1]

You must be a Crystal Methodist

[junior17111rswoot]

3:10 because i don't want a dick shuved up my ass in the middle of the night

[flclpk]

so you think every gay guy wants to *shuv a up your ass* i see.. your either an idiot or you have an ego larger than a skyscraper......

[amandarocksyoursocks]

You think every gay guy you meet is not only going to be attracted to you, but also a rapist?

[Shikabang]

Have you ever been in love?

Yes.

[MrRagaRaga]

You say "completely fucked up" as if it doesnt apply do you...And acting a certain way gets you attention but you dont do that , then why are you dressed up like a girl ? Ive seen your other videos , the little gasp you take after you state something is kind of anoying. Hmmm

[ZJemptv]

Completely fucked up people are typically so completely fucked up they're unable to recognize how completely fucked up they are.

Also, that's just when I edit out the breath sounds. (I move away from the mic to breathe in)

[jadlerhalofan]

@ZJemptv did you write a haiku based on the statement "completely fucked up"? It looks like one.

[azzy314159]

@ZJemptv Rosie Jones This is amazing, The more I know about you the more I like you. nay, even love you. And I will be forthright and honest, and I know, considering your intellectual level that you will understand and not be judgemental like your everyday bigots that I find you mildly sexually attractive. I was never interested in the whole business of gender, being a simple starght guy who has done raised a family and a grand father now. So if you ever need a grand dad just say so. < 3+PEACE

[SandPaperCookies]

@MrRagaRaga No, you must not understand ZJ's point, so I don't quite understand your viewing of this video, but he dresses up because he WANTS to, not to cause commotion or gain attention...

[1982mockingbird1982]

@MrRagaRaga He acknowleges thats only his perception and that it may be incorrect and he also acknowleges others may have a similair perception of him so he's not being hypocritical.  Hypocritical would be telling Chris Crocker not to act like that while keeping his current style.

[Liiammm3]

Gay youtubers have annoying voices?

Take a listen to your own voice.

[yarrum96]

u still sound like a man

[HotelUnderSeige]

wait wait wai. You are gay... But you think your a women, so your not gay, your a transvestite!

[MrJastin]

i'm fairly sure he's aware he's a guy...It's not like he's never taken off his pants.

[HotelUnderSeige]

explain the clothes?

[BlazingToxin2]

Cross dresser retard. Just because someone dresses like a woman doesn't mean they think they are.

[ShadowWolf119]

@MrJastin lol dude, this coment made my day

[FibonaziProductions]

@MrJastin - Luckily for us, he did just that in his last video :3.

[peacetoes]

Hm? whats this about love? you just like jumped away from that, and that isn't ok for the helpless romantics watching the videos. more on that please?

[SteevDragon67]

very good series! as a straight male who is unconventional in his likes and dislikes I am at an age (42) where I am comfortable with who I am, and not going to change it for anybody. As I stated, I am straight, but don't like engaging in "typical" male behavior (sports, tools, cars, outdoorsy activities, etc.).I prefer to be inside (cooking cleaning painting listening to music, etc.) which drives my girlfriend nuts because she's a tomboy and does typically "male" behavior. but we love each other

[knobylob]

"i don't want to stay with you anymore because you are gay"

"but i'm not'

"i'm just kidding, get the fuck out of here"

LMAO

quote of the century

[PhillyKid07]

are you a chick?

[MonkeyOctober]

Watch ZJ's other Q & A videos

[BLINKisBEASt182]

WTF IS IT???@@!!!!

[cantthinkofagoodnme]

wow exactly like you

[CourtneeyOMG]

okay really,

are you a gay man?

a really nerdy feminin man?

or an extremely masculin girl ?

its bugging the fuck out of me and it doesnt say it anywhere in any of your profiles so i've been forced to ask..

[whuhumuch]

ahaa , i think its a guyy !

[tmowlee]

there's a video where he show his nipples,

so dude or soon to be flagged

[AngelDust9666]

LINK

[Juckazz]

dude do you ever breath ?:P why are you so ice cold when talking, I mean you sound like one of my robot friends, smile man, smile

[ZJemptv]

I actually slice up every breath when I edit the video in Vegas, and crossfade it out. Saves time. Only maybe 1/10th or 1/5th of a second, but it adds up. It can cut 30 seconds or so off a 10-minute video.

[timmchap35]

i wanna put you in my pocket

[Juckazz]

this video is like 4 minutes so i don't know if it's worth to edit them out XD

[ZizooMoDaI]

@ZJemptv Is that worth the trade-off? o.o;;... I guess you could see it as weeding out people who can't stay focused on a constant stream of information, but that won't stop those people from commenting on what they -did- manage to take in. xD

[technopagan724]

@ZJemptv I don't think you should've replied with this b/c after I read this comment, I re-watched the video and was able to actually see the clipping that I didn't notice the first time I watched it. I really like your videos and I just wanted to ask; since you said you don't particularly like youtube celebs, but you yourself have so many videos out there, would you consider yourself to be a youtube celeb?

[jpenns]

@ZJemptv

you should consider cutting it a little more obviously, in the style of so many other channels like difranco or whoever. it really is effective, whereas this just ends up looking creepy cause we don't see you breathe

[clintallen123]

@Juckazz You should smile more, really.

[Dpesh7]

your are flamboyant in that your were makeup and odd clothing choice even though u are a man.

[GamersWithPurpouse]

brilliant m8 youve made me comfortable with bieng who i am Thanks :)

[SmileNow2]

ZJ, it takes a strong person to answer these kinds of questions that come with prejudiced assumptions. Its sweet that you can remain so calm answering some of them.

[justinatorator]

your an awesome human zj.

if you played guitar or do play guitar i'd be honored to play with you.

[DisturbedbyDeth356]

This may be taken as a stupid question, but why are you dressed as a woman?

Regardless, interesting comments you put forward.

[saib4u2c]

couldn't you just do one more vid on sex?

I read a lot of interesting comments would love hear from you on them.

[markycapone]

I nominate you "official youtube ambassador" now go forward and spread the good word.

[crypticrimsonkrozz]

can't wait 4 a new show!

gender expressions such a fascinating topic.

[IvoMoelans]

This is beyond good.

*****

[BionicDance]

"Gender" is a funny word, innit? Sounds like a verb to me.

"Carole? Oh, she's a gender. Yup...she gends all the time!"

Just sayin'...

[crypticrimsonkrozz]

wtf,lol your brain wander doesn't it?