video response to tyra show lesbian vs. barsexual

[SPSimounFan]

I just watched the epsiode os Tyra, I was disgusted at those two attention seeking whores

I feel the same as you do, I'm a lesbian and I really do not see why girls would do that, it's just terrible T_T

Also you're real pretty and I love your cat :3

[asiaaaapanda]

@SPSimounFan RIGHT? I think it's trashy. There is no reason to "pretend" to like girls to get attention from men. It's classless. And thank you. I loveeee my kitty too!

[SPSimounFan]

@asiaaaapanda I have met girls like that, I have also met girls who say their bi to get the attention of guys etc, it's pathetic and gives the real gays and lesbians etc a bad name!

[IndigoTemptress]

I agree. And if a guy is truly interested in a straight girl he will approach her without her having to kiss someone else.

[maraki332]

This cat is amazing.

[asiaaaapanda]

@maraki332 hehehe, isn't she. i love her.

[TahRahJoh]

I know this is out of place but does anyone know how to open a soda if the top won't budge?

[OneTwoThreeBANG]

It's a hard topic to explain but I get you

[Crazysexylady5678]

i feel u

[KeikoYuriChan]

You Go Girl!!!

[HoCuSXPoCuSXMCR]

Personally I don't think it matters. Guys are going to approach you if you're kissing another girl regardless of your motive more than likely anyway. I mean there's a lot of crap you have to deal with in life, I personally don't think being hit on is the worst of them.

[OneTwoThreeBANG]

@HoCuSXPoCuSXMCR I think it isn't that guys hit on her when she is out with a girlfriend just that there is this whole thing of strait girls hooking up with other strait girls for attention, and this has become a thing that guys see so offen that they believe it is that situation.

[asiaaaapanda]

@OneTwoThreeBANG exactly

[RaltsChild]

i agree with you. i think its attention whore-ish. im straight, i have bisexual and gay friends, and i have kissed them, like a peck on the lips or cheek. i dont do it for attention, or drinks, though, and i dont do it to offend. sometimes its for affection, like friendship love or sisterly love.

[asiaaaapanda]

@RaltsChild ahh, i see.

[HaileyMIDNIGHT]

I totally agree with you. I mean, the girls only go to a bar to kiss a girl and to get attention from boys. They do not want to continue with the girl, but with a boy. The girls are not lesbian or bisexual and that's very disrespectful to those who really are, because the boys don't take you seriously, they only want to see girls kissing. If you're not really a lesbian or so and you keep going to bars and stuff, I think that's very disruptive and trashy for those who really are (like me).

[m301296]

Whats wrong with hot guys hitting on you? It doesn't really matter what they think as long as you are comfortable in your relationship

[asiaaaapanda]

@m301296 it's really just kind of annoying. The same way most guys wouldn't want other guys to hit on them. Or other girls wouldn't want girls to hit on them. Straight gay or whatever...it's just kind of disrespectful when someone comes up to you and you're clearly in a relationship. ya know?

[cuitepiecassie]

Yup i so agree with you girl, i am a lesbian too and i agree, its really stupid for girls to protay them selfs like that, personally i think they look like they'd be EASY you know, and thats so NOT attractive.

btw- lol i love your cat in the video :) (side note)

[asiaaaapanda]

@cuitepiecassie hahah everyone seems to love the cat, but thank you :)

she is a doll!

[asiaaaapanda]

wow. i didn't expect this much of a response from people.

[OoANGiEoO1]

im not a lesbian but i totally agree......girls that are "barsexual" just make women look trashy and yeah guys wont take us serious.....girls like that are just attention whores

[highway955]

@OoANGiEoO1 you gotta understand that dudes are in the bar to pick up chicks. we don't give a crap if your bi, les, etc.. we see a chick and make a move. your woman on woman love is irrelevant at that point.

[OoANGiEoO1]

@highway955 actually guys dont necessarily go to a bar to be hitting on chicks. and NO my woman on woman love is not irrelevant because if i were a lesbian and i went to a bar with my girlfriend i would hate for straight guys to be hitting on me or my grilfriend. and u gotta understand that this is my OPINION and if u dont like it i could care less!!!

[ZarakiKenpachi841]

You have cute cat.Is it persian?

[EmoTasticBrownie]

I agree with you, I'm lesbian and I would hate to go to a club or bar with my girlfriend(3 years and going) only to be hit on by straight men. Obviously, I'm here to hang out with my girl and dance/drink; not to harassed and "picked up" on by men. If these "barsexual" women would have respect for lesbians, and not give us a bad name/stereotype as though give us a few drinks and we will WANT to party and get grind-ed on by male genitalia. -eye roll-

[xxRozieexxlucky13]

I fell the same way.I'm bisexual.And guys see me with my girlfriend and think well their hot as hell or whatever Okay I like guys but when I'm with my girl I don't wait some guy to come out of no where and try to talk to me in front of her face.I think its wron so stop doing what your doing.

[NUN559]

if u wernt so hot i wouldnt of watch the video

[asiaaaapanda]

@NUN559 well thanks

[JohnAntonyFortune]

damn hello there mis fuckable material...lol jk. btw how long did it take you to put that make up on.. plus there is no such thing as gay you my baby just havent met me yet...but now everything will be fine. I am here now your prince is here go get you stuff on YOUR MAN IS HERE !

[asiaaaapanda]

@JohnAntonyFortune i already have a lady. thank you.

[iiCHiiMAN]

@asiaaaapanda don't listen to this douche... god how I want to smack this idiot.

[normalguyable]

dear daddy i am a fag queer dike, can you please hang youselves befor america is fag nation???

[rockstarjen93]

you're my idol<3

[asiaaaapanda]

@rockstarjen93 well thanks :)

[greencow98]

I feel the same way as you do. I mean im a lesbian to and i believe that, that is terrible. It really hurt. Why would you do that, Imagein how us women feel when you do that :( its terrible.

Btw you very pretty (:

[asiaaaapanda]

@greencow98 right? it is terrible. and thanks :)

[JermzzzyFTW]

As a bisexual male speaking I don't really see why they have to change their lifestyle to suit yours: if horny straight guys are giving you trouble and are ignorant about lesbians, deal with the horny straight guys, not the girls making them horny.

[asiaaaapanda]

@JermzzzyFTW its TRASHY. and directly relates to our lifestyle.

[JermzzzyFTW]

@asiaaaapanda Why is acting trashy something so terrible it would warrant full out hate from the lesbian community? Just because something makes lesbians look bad, doesn't mean they should stop for that sole reason.

You could hate on lesbian drug addicts purely because they make lesbians look like drug addicts. Or hate on lesbian cheaters purely because they make lesbians look like cheaters. But you'd be hating on an awful lot of people mate.

[YamiCassie]

@JermzzzyFTW you have to understand that a LOT of guys are really stupid and ignorant. It's like saying don't be mad at actors who put on blackface and act stupid for the racial stereotypes blacks have to deal with, deal with all the ignorant people who base their opinions on that. They're exploiting another culture for their own personal gain, and they are making others suffer unnecessarily.

[JermzzzyFTW]

@YamiCassie Exploiting? Seriously, all of my female friends have this (admittedly weird) schtick they do where they act openly intimate with each other in front of other people. Sure my friends do it for laughs rather than attention but the motivation is irrelevant. If you see two women acting intimate in public the socially appropriate thing to do is ignore them- men are adults, they are accountable for their own staring and believing of negative stereotypes.

[YamiCassie]

@JermzzzyFTW When I say exploiting, they are doing this in two ways 1- exploiting themselves because they are doing something they actually don't want to do, for the sake of male attention. If they really wanted to kiss girls, they would already be doing this in private, and they wouldn't be barsexuals, they would be some degree of bisexual 2- exploitation of the lesbian community, when they are kissing, they are pretending to be lesbians, the act itself is not a heterosexual act.

[YamiCassie]

@JermzzzyFTW I also ran a bit out of room. But of course I would not go up to a girl kissing another and harass her for what she's doing, it's a free country. But will I feel a certain way towards them? yes. Will I talk about them negatively? yes. Because what they do has a negative impact on so many other people and they don't care enough to realize it. If you want male attention, take off your clothes or wear something slutty. Don't pretend that you are of another orientation and act the fool.

[XEvilSweetHeartX]

Erm.. I noticed one girl said she had a boyfriend.. If she needs attention from other dudes, she gots a problem in her own relationship and needs attention or shes just an attention hog...Which is obnoxious :l XD Sad.

[h666JK]

I am totally in the same boat! I look very girly, but am very gay. Guys don't take me seriously, and some girls don't even take me seriously. Barsexuals are attention seekers.

[LieutenantSparkles]

i hate barsexuals... and this is coming from a straight girl who loves getting boy's attention

but i know i wanna look classy and not some disrespectful twat

[asiaaaapanda]

@LieutenantSparkles see thank you!

[Sileni]

You are seriously hot to look at. damn! Philippina?

[asiaaaapanda]

@Sileni lao thai chinese vietnamse black brazilian and native american.. no fillipino at all

[bell5792]

i hate barsexuals ther just attention whores and its stupid because it makes real lesbians that are actually gay but look like girls seem like one of those whores even though they really arent. its just so wrong...

[krisgallia99]

just sayin im postin this on my facebook because i really like the way you made your points. im just sayin oh and i like your cat. Hands down to you for speakin your mind about this because being barsexual is dumb.

[asiaaaapanda]

@krisgallia99 thanks! i mean it really doesn't matter if you're straight or not, the point is not to do it for the wrong reasons and for the attention. it just makes us look bad.

[krisgallia99]

@asiaaaapanda dude for real i know because they are also toying with some persons emotions. Which is just not cool in my book

[asiaaaapanda]

@krisgallia99 exactly, what if a lesbian approached them ? and got the wrong impression? honestly there are other ways to get attention you know?

[asiaaaapanda]

@krisgallia99 oh and thanks hahah (about my cat)