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  • This is my first see this video, I very happy have have somebody support us. I can understand people feel puzzled and fear, but fall in love with someone isn't wrong, love is no distinction as to gender. We are eager have one day can above board stand outside, and nobody use the discrimination vision to look at our love.

  • de music make me wanna cry uuhhhh

  • I watched it several times but I still I love watching this video. Thank's for making me believed that they are still people who care about gays. SG is great. :))

  • So who's going to this years pink dot? ;)

  • Great video... love not hate, right?

  • For those who think that being gay is "unnatural" or "wrong", consider this. Homosexuality is very likely evolution's way of controlling the world's population. Nothing unnatural or wrong. Support love!

  • This is beautiful. Support!

  • I'm not GLBT phobic. I just choose life.

  • Beautiful. I teared up watching this. If only the world was more accepting.

  • This made me cry.

  • I cried. This is a very well done radical rethink of the way to move modern LGBTQ human rights debates. A video ABOUT straight family members, FOR straight family members, who offer support to us gay folk? Couldn't be more appropriate

  • Very nice and well done video...

  • this vid made me tear up....it's weird...despite the fact that my mom, sister and brother in law know, along with 2 cousins, and a aunt...i still feel like i'm in the closet..i wish my mom or sister would just say it's okay...

  • @vikvik16 I know how you feel, my mother keeps asking if it was something she did or if there had been more boys at my school, and that hurt it was frustrating. The most important thing is that you are okay with yourself. I know that's hard when others aren't okay with you, but be true to who you are.

  • I love this video, good luck to all my LGBT family in Singapore. And to all the straight Allies there, Thank you.

  • Such a meaningful video,

    If there are more singaporeans who aren't narrow minded, the LGBT wouldn't feel guilty of themselves for who they are and more of them would be able to come out of the closet, not afraid of discrimination by the community. Pink dot have my full support! <3

    To those immature, egocentric ppl who openly discriminate the LGBT, you should be ashamed of yourself and your life. Grow up and start accepting people who have the rights to be who they are.

  • 希望在臺灣也可以看到這樣正面的宣導

  • i sure people will be more open and considerate if the TV channels spread the video, it' like an educational video and u guys made a good job for homosexuality!

  • still get emotional watching this...

  • @harendhrenra

    "Homosexuality is a sexuality just like heterosexuality." "Bestiality and incest is NOT a sexuality."←Actually that is incorrect, homosexuality, heterosexuality, incest and bestiality all those 4 are sexual preferences.

    Homosexuals have a preference for the same sex, heterosexuals have a preference for the opposite sex, incestuous people have a preference for blood relatives and people who does bestiality has a preference for non-human animals.

    All those 4 are sexualities. :)

  • @DogsneedpIeasuretoo Incest and bestiality are not sexual orientations, they are sexual activities. There is a difference. Heterosexuality and Homosexuality are behaviors and are orientations.

  • @harendhrenra

    Homosexuals: Have a sexual orientation for humans with a sexual preference for the same sex.

    Heterosexuals: Have a sexual orientation for humans with a sexual preference for the opposite sex.

    Incestuous humans: Have a sexual orientation for humans with a sexual preference for blood relatives (males, females or both)

    Zoosexuals: Have a sexual orientation for animals with a sexual preference for the opposite sex or the same sex or both.

    All of them have a sexual orientation.

  • @DogsneedpIeasuretoo Preference and orientation are two different terms. When you say preference, there is a degree of choice. Orientation is regarded as innate--something you can't choose. Hetero, homo, asexual and bisexuality are considered orientations.

    People who engage in Bestiality/Zoophilia, pedophilia and incest acts are fixated on such a practice.

    I suggest you read up on sexual orientation.

  • @harendhrenra

    "When you say preference, there is a degree of choice."←NO, I didn't mean to say that is a choice, maybe that word is not the best word to express what I tried to say.

    What I mean to say is HUMANS is the main sexual orientation in homosexual, heterosexuals and even in pedophiles, the rest are details humans have (age, genitals, skin color, etc)

    "Orientation is regarded as innate something you can't choose."←Do you think people chose to be zoophiles or pedophiles or incestophiles?

  • @DogsneedpIeasuretoo I do not quite understand your point about "humans is the main sexual orientation".Why do you say that? How about animals?

    "Do you think people chose to be zoophiles or pedophiles or incestophiles?" ← Yes, I firmly do believe they unconsciously choose to engage in such activities. But I will not dismiss the fact that the environmental plays a vital role too.

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    @harendhrenra

    "Yes, I firmly do believe they unconsciously choose to engage in such activities"←I ask about the orientation and not about the sexual acts.

    Zoophilia, pedophilia and incestophilia are not activities, they are feelings, people don't chose those feelings of attraction, just like heterosexuals and homosexuals don't chose their feelings of attraction.

    Sexual activities are indeed a conscious choice, but the sexual feelings some one has are not a conscious choice.

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    @harendhrenra

    You said pedophilia is not a sexual orientation, but they are.

    Some people are only attracted to black humans, some to midget humans, some to fat humans, some to blond humans, some to old humans, some to same sex humans, some to same age human. All of them are sexual orientations, all of them have one thing in common, they are attracted to humans, that is their sexual orientation.

    If you don't believe that, pedos are always hete or homo or bisexual, so they have an orientation.

  • @DogsneedpIeasuretoo I get your point about pedophilia being stated as a sexual orientation. There have been studies that show some people really can't help those feelings. I get that now.

    The issue here is when you say: .Heterosexuals: "Have a sexual orientation for humans with a sexual preference for the opposite sex" This statement itself is invalid. In contemporary usage, the term preference implies a choice.There is a difference between orientation and preference.

  • @harendhrenra

    "the term preference implies a choice"←Yes, I toll you that is not what I mean to say, I will look for another word that doesn't mean choice to explain it next time.

    Better yet, what word would you use?

    How would you call an heterosexual male who only likes Asian girls with black hair?

    How would you call an heterosexual male who only likes European girls with blond hair?

    That specific like for X country and X hair color, how would you call that?

    I don't know what absolute truth is.

  • @DogsneedpIeasuretoo And you clearly believe in an absolute truth--there is no need for us to continue this as it will be an exercise in futility.

  • @summersoundtrack

    You don't need to support children rape (which is harmful) to support pedophilia, in the same way you don't need to support homosexual rape (←harmful) to support homosexuality.

    Also, there is no reason to be against incest or zoosexuality that happens between consenting adults.

    Incest, pedophilia and bestiality are NOT synonym of abuse or harm.

    "animals cannot consent"←Adult animals can give their own informed consent.

    You are a hypocrite for discriminating sexual minorities.

  • @iAmShulace

    Actually, pedophilia, incest, bestiality are not aways psychological illness (know as sexual disorders or paraphilic disorders)

    Just like heterosexuality, bisexuality or homosexuality are not always sexual disorders.

    Heterosexuality, bisexuality and homosexuality can become sexual disorder just like pedophilia, incest and bestiality can become sexual disorders. Any sexual preference/orientation can become a sexual disorder.

    You are very uninformed about that topic (go do a research)

  • this made me cry...serious...how i wish i can organize an event like this here in cebu philippines

  • like the video says, "it will not end discrimination and prejudice over night" but at least the world aware that LGBT people are exist. Isn't GOD is the greatest judge on earth? then who are we to judge someone based on their sexual preference?

  • Im crying right now! I do feel guilty sometimes but i can't help the way i was born and i wish people would understand and still accept me.

  • This made me cry :c

  • es un buen comercial que convenceria a todo

  • @dravidianwolf it is okay for me that one of the writings of bible sounds offending to another people or may dismay them, but for me Bible is a story with lesson in life, lesson about the beginnings and the end, lesson about trials or success and lesson that by the end of our time God is always with us, and i also do believe that God Created ADAM and EVE as the first man and not ADAM and STEVE...remember that it is also written in the bible

  • Not believing in Bible is not Believing God itself... You believe bible is only written by a bronze age, people misjudge us being so devoted to the bible and called us a Dark Age but to those don't believe in Bible existence can call a DARK SEEKER!! ok laugh as many as u can, believe what you can believe, if u think you have the right to love go ahead but we only live once and if the judgement comes, eat your words and tell the omnipotent one what you say or believe in his holy book (BIBLE)

  • Thank you for asking on who we are to judge you for citing examples in the bible. We are the children of God, by helping him making this world a better place for all of us, if you think that Bible has absolutely nothing to do with us, our world, or modern times and for you It is just a story, and not even a very good one. hmmmmnnnn? how can you say that you are human? after all these words that you have said about the bible??? Bible is the Greatest Love story that has ever told.

  • I never chose to be gay. I just chose to be honest.

  • @yvonneennovy Yeah. I'm gay and I do hide myself for a while, and that felt so bad for me, I just wished I could tell my parents truthfuly. But I can't.........

  • @doraemon8061 I remember coming out to my younger brother after he so carelessly used the phrase "so gay" for something lame. He's been my biggest supporter since. Siblings are the best. If you have any, you should consider testing the waters with them.

  • @yvonneennovy Well, your brother is good to you, but my elder one isin't. He keeps avoiding me and tease me of being gay.

  • May I just ask, in regards to those that cited the bible etc...in the very first place, WHO are you to judge others? Don't place your moral judgment on others when you do not know the meaning of LOVE!

  • awwww :) . and 59 people are so wrong

  • Stop being guilty for being different !!!! ... i do support the freedom to LOVE

  • I like this~^^

  • In Christian and Islamic traditions, Sodom and Gomorrah have become synonymous with impenitent sin, and their fall with a proverbial manifestation of God's wrath.[Jude 1:7][1] Sodom and Gomorrah have also been used as metaphors for vice and homosexuality viewed as a deviation. The story has therefore given rise to words in several languages, including the English word "sodomy", used in so-called sodomy laws to describe unnatural sexual acts.[2]

  • @nevernotook whoa whoa.. since when we're talking about homosexual LUST. it's the freedom to LOVE. and There is no sayings whatsoever in the Bible or Quran that homosexual LOVE is considered a SIN. and that has nothing to do with this video :) Be open and a little more inclusive :)

  • @rifqi7san it was never mentioned that they hate or love each other @ this article, it is all about immorality, that's they've been vanished by God's wrath . Please observe your environment, as you can see , animals are smart enough to distinguish male or female they want to partner, even though they don't think rationally, they're still innocent and follow God's mission for them.

  • @nevernotook sadly, you are quite the unintelligent donkey-equivalent. that is quite a load of male-cow excrement. pls do this to help yourself;

    1) go up there to your youtube search field,

    2) type in 'animal homosexuality', and

    3) swallow your ignorance.

    let me know how you can come to think God's mission is to be deceitful and bigoted to your fellow man. i believe in God yet i am so ashamed to see people like you claiming the moral high ground with such lies. simply, stop it.

  • @nevernotook The Sin you mention of said that a man should not sleep with another man as he would with a women...back then the Bible was written with the idea that ALL man were heterosexual...that all man love women...the Sin was the act itself..the act of having sex with a man...this case is different as when we talk about LGBT, we are talking about Love...not just Lust...

  • Is the Vatican against LGBT?

  • This is just beautiful. I can't stop myself from smiling while watching this.

  • hi all..thanx for supporting us gay..born and raised here its hard growing up. anyways just add me at fb. Kirayamato GangDing

  • I completely broke down when I saw this video the first time. It reflects all the troubles I'm gna faced in the present and future. Frens asked me why I do not have a gf and I can't answer them properly. Mum gna ask me why I'm Nt married. I can't accept myself, why shld Ppl accept me? I wonder did god forsake me when I was born.. Why can't I experience this world in a normal way.

  • @chemblue91 it will be alright life always has some turbulence u just got to be stronge know youreslf and stick to your morals

  • I cried :(

  • It's very heartwarming to see that most Singaporeans respect each one and other's right to love. Love is a beautiful thing. The LGBT community deserves that right just as anyone else. I see a global movement towards a future of LGBT rights and acceptance; especially from the united states. It is really heartening that Singapore is not lagging behind. Keep up the good work, Pinkdot and supporters!

  • great

  • Its our own happiness, don't force love but follow our love regardless of whether it's same gender.

  • i was badly brainwashed  in protestant churches also

  • LETS ALL RAISED THE IMAGE OF THE GAY PIPOL,BY STARTING TO THEMSELVES,.RESPECT BEGETS RESPECT,.GAYS R NOT SEX OBJETC,WE ALL DESERVED TO BE LOVED AND BE LOVED,.WERE ALL HUMAN!WERE ALL FAIR IN D EYES OF GOD!.WE ADORE GAYS WHO R IN CONTROL,DECENT AND PROFFESIONAL O ROLE MODEL,BEING GAY ISNT A CHOICE NOR A SIN BUT THE ACTIONS U DOING IN IT,INDEED,.WE CANT EXPLAIN EXACTLY BEING GAY ONLY GOD KNOWS,.WE LOVE PRETTY,HOT,SMART AT HAVING A VALUES OR BREEDING GAYS,.ITS NOT ABOUT GENDER,ITS ABOUT U AND GOD,.

  • can m bf and i go and support even if i'm straight? =/

  • Went there and it felt amazing.. :')

  • what is the name of guy in 1.48?

  • is this video accurate - at 0:11 it shows an iPhone. Are these really allowed in camp?

  • @justaboister I think it is allowed if the back and front facing cameras are taken off, which I know there are this kind of serive in Singapore cuz I saw an ad on facebook before.

  • @justaboister well Singapore Army does not allow any form of photographic devices to be brought to camp. I guess this is just a video ;)

  • I'm from Malaysia. A lil' teary when the pastor said "If only gay people would stop feeling guilty for being different." I think I've been a fool, indirectly apologizing to everyone for being who I am. I thought my love for another guy would disgust others, but she said, "It's beautiful, too."

    This video gives me strength to believe in me, and be who I want to be, love who I want to love. :')

  • @ILoveSnsdBigBang THANK YOU =)

    I love SNSD and Big Bang too! lol

  • and treasure ...

  • so all in all , despite my prejudisim it is really not for me to say what is right or wrong esp in terms of love and care to another .... one thing for sure everyone indeed have the right to love , and that is one god gift we have to indeed respect ....

  • funny lor straight can be born straight but gay cant be born gay .... anyway i think the truth is there will always be some prejudisim around in any society ... i am a 28 yo gay singaporean man and swear to god honestly i do deep down inside me have a slight prejudisim against bisexuals .. but i do too realise that this world we living in is extremely complicated; unexplainable penomenons happen every day, animals of same sex and sometimes of even different speciesloving and caring each other

  • same to you 

  • IT DOESNT MEAN,,THE STRAIGHT GUY HAVING AN AFFAIR TO A GAY IT MEANS HES GAY TOO,..NO!!!GAYS ISNT TRANSFERABLE NOR A DESEASE,..ITS A REALITY OF LIFE..I MUST SAY WE HAVE GAYS,LESBIANS,BISEX,..BEING GAY ISNT A SIN FOR GOD ITS THE CHOSEN LIFESTYLE IS THE SIN,..GAY CAN MARRY A LADY,ITS BY CHOICE,.OR STAY SINGLE-BLESSEDNESS OR HAVING AN ADOPTION,OR PARTNER,..ITS HARD TO EXPLAIN TO UNEDUCATED,IMMATURED,STUPID,OL­D PIPOL,CLOSE MINDED-CULTURED,pipol BEING GAYNESS,,.THE RESPECT MUST COMES FROM RSELVES 1ST.

  • LETS ALL RAISED THE IMAGE OF THE GAY PIPOL,ALL OVER THE WORLD,GAYS R NOT JUST SEX OBJECT,WE ALL DESERVED TO BELOVED AND BE LOVED,.WE NEED MORE DECENT,PROFFESIONAL,EDUCATED GAY PIPOL,.NOT THE BITCHY TYPE OF GAYS,,BEING A GAY IS NEVER A CHOICE,ITS THE LIFESTYLE,.WE ADORE GAYS WHO R PRETTY,HOT BUT LIVING IN CONTROL,.WE HATE GAYS WHO R INSECURE,ENVY,,BITCHY,..GAYS R ROLE MODELS,GAYS R BENEFITS IN D WORLD,,GAYS R SPECIAL PIPOL,LIVING IN COMPLICATED LIFE THAT NEED UNDERSTANDING AND RESPECT,.

  • Here in the Philippines, it is much more complicated, so If I really want to be happy I need to go abroad.

  • D: plan to go wif my boy for 3month anniversary but we break up one week before the event. Hopefully by next year before this event I could have found another boy who would able to bring me go and support this meaningful event :D

  • too bad that the true fact is that things arent as beautiful as what this video is.

  • This event changed my life and views :)

  • @Topsage007 I hope you choked on your own vomit.

  • Its not their fault Because they born that way BUT that s not NORMAL ....

  • I can't stand people bringing up the bible when it comes to LGBT rights. The bible also says that we can have slaves (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT) and we can stone people to death for working on a sabbath day (Num. 15:32-36). "If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman..." (Deuteronomy 22:28-29 NLT). These are all disgusting verses written over 2000 years ago you should stop believing

  • @victorscarlet - Good, but you don't go far enough. The bible is just a book, written by bronze age people, that has absolutely nothing to do with us, our world, or modern times. It is just a story, and not even a very good one.

    Human rights derived from humans. Not from an antiquated storybook. Gays are humans and entitled to human rights, the same as everyone else. The bible, koran, torah, etc. have nothing at all to do with it.

  • @hughesjf I totally agree with you. My comment was merely based from my experience in the the country i currently live, which they (the people who act against LGBT rights) use the bible as a compelling evidence to discriminate people based on their sexuality.

  • @hughesjf you're not human!!!after all the things that God did to us! to save the sins of Mankind! You are not the kind of man to be saved, you just laugh at the bible? Satan endeavors your soul...I feel sorry for you T_T. please return to GOD and follow your mission. Be a Man!

  • Hmm... maybe the bible needs some revisions...

  • Ten thousand people. Astounding!

  • 10,000 strong turned up for the event!! :) CONGRADS SINGAPORE!!

  • congrats to a wildly successful event :)

  • well done Singapore!!

  • A very touching video (: I can't say that I am truly open to this, and maybe I never can be 100% okay with this. But hey, all life is precious. Who are we to judge anyone. I respect that.

  • My friend posted this on FB. I'm happy clicked it. Don't need to hide it cos everyone born deserves to live a beautiful life. Every life is equal whether straight or gay.

  • if ppl condoned this gay/lesbian thing... religion wld be crap. am i wrong?

  • The change is UNSTOPPABLE. Whether the elder generation understands or not, they will soon pass. What is more important now is to prevent the beliefs of the elders to pass to present generation by educating them on the universal message of love.

  • 6 hrs more to go... see you all later....

  • remember to go... 记得去... ingat untuk pergi... जाने के लिए याद... تذكر أن يذهب... N'oubliez pas d'aller... tandaan upang pumunta... denken Sie daran, zu gehen... 記得去... Vergeet niet om te gaan... ricordarsi di tornare... 行くことを忘れないでください... 갈 기억... не забыть... Recuerdo ir... จำไป... nhớ để đi... pamiętać o... onthou om te gaan... به یاد داشته باشید به... lembre-se de ir... cuimhin le dul... ire memento... לזכור ללכת... θυμηθείτε να πάτε... Husk at gå... Nezapomeňte jít... Հիշում գնալ...

  • yey!! A better Singapore for everyone, comon! Sporeans!! Never be afraid of who you are =) ~~~ A Pink heart from Vietnam

  • yey!! A better Singapore for everyone =) ~~~ A Pink heart from Vietnam

  • LETS WEAR PINK TOMORROW :) - Philippines...

  • From the Philippines, sending you all my love and good wishes. Hope to be back in Singapore for the 3rd time :)

  • I'm so proud to be attending this tomorrow with my husband and daughter as an out and proud bisexual woman.

  • i love this video... it made me cry for touching my emotions... a good way to let people understand the situation of being different...

  • touched

  • Yay for pink dot!!! LGBT people rock...N straight open minded people rock even more!..........ALL YOU NARROW MINDED FAGGOTS STOP LEAVING HATE COMMENTS GO GET A LIFE...

  • i would like to participate in the Pinkdot 2011 with my friends but im gay and not out yet and im afraid that they would discriminate me and leave me D:

    good video btw :D

  • @omgheheho don't be afraid.

  • An amazing video. A great step towards an all-inclusive society in Singapore. Great job!

  • A very beautiful short. I cried <3

  • This is simply beautiful (^_^) We're also working on equality and understanding in our country . (^_^)

  • The 3 army guys who bullied the gay sound more faggot and gay.

  • Fuck, I have chills. And am bawling my eyes out. Beautiful. -3 See you guys there!

  • The right to love is practically a human right. While I'm not pro-gay, I believe the LGBT people have a right to pursue their proper sexuality.

  • This is so much better than the Dim sum Dollies. LOL

  • this is the start! raise our flags! and dont feel guilty at all! i support this! if only im in singapore

  • "If only gay people would stop feeling guilty." :')

  • Thank you for this video. It's so beautiful and it gives me hope. :')

  • it will take time for an asian society like us in SG to mature and accept LGBT... i always wanted t migrate to Taiwan... at least most people still can accept LGBT...

  • :: it gets better!

  • When will Malaysia ever catch up with Singapore?....

    

  • Well done Singapore. You have come a long way......Proud of you.

  • The second scenario in which the mother asked his son when it would be his turn to marry is very familiar to me. I remember having my relatives ask me "Why don't I have a girlfriend?", I would always reply with: "I'm too busy with school/work." I'm happy there's a movement like this in Singapore and rather not some shallow displays found in pride parades.

  • @ziwadee applying the same concept you used in your comment, i can also say that since heterosexual people are ALREADY granted 'freedom', they are ALREADY abusing it. dumb fuck.

  • Too open minded like think about the future guys

  • @ericjam1 you can move to the middle-east then ^^

  • such a lovely, pleasant video, i almost cried :') that baby is soooo cuuuuute

  • The 47 or more people are still staying in their closet.

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  • Oh, this video brings tears to my eyes, and melts my heart.

  • when this freedom is finally granted, gay people will abuse it

  • @ziwadee abuse it? like how? like stop hiding and finally accept who they are?

    gay people are human-beings just like you and i. u seriously need to go out there and get to know some gay people. i am sure u already knew a few. but they won't come out to you simply because this is the reaction they are expecting from you. close-minded bigot.

  • @ziwadee Abuse it? How can you abuse the freedom to love? How to straight people abuse it?

  • if only i had the courage to come out of the closet.

  • wow.....!ok...i m gay

  • I'm fking going to this event.

  • that baby is rockin that mohawk...

  • I'm from London & I also just cried watching this. Even here, after decades since the gay rights movement started, people still feel the need to hide.

    PinkDot is such a different approach to making LGBT lives better. I feel hugely estranged by the hunks-in-boxer floats on gay pride here and think that, if anything, it will make straight people feel more uncomfortable with us. What we need isn't confrontation but loving support and understanding. This is what this campaign here tries to educe.

  • This country has never been more beautiful.

  • @yougoshdarnsuck It's obvious you only look for sex in an relationship. Sorry, but not everyone is as sexually deprived and urgent as you are.

    Pervert.

  • Omg this video is SWEET~

  • @yougoshdarnsuck: must you wait till your children turn gays to show some compassion?

  • Love everyone! No matter gay , les or not, just be who you are. Be happy, be yourself. Nobody is right or wrong. No normal or abnormal. It's being YOU that is the most important. Nobody can judge another by their sexual preference. So be generous and give love to everyone around you :)

  • Support you guys who are going!

    I have another event on the same day thus i can't be there this year!

    Have fun ya?

  • Singapore needs this, I need this. Are gays not people, do they not have feelings? Do they not deserve love? Of course not!

  • @yougoshdarnsuck there's nothing wrong with being a gay or a lesbian. They, just like you and me, can't choose their own sexual orientation. You yourself are being the biggest joke here.

  • I for one respect people who have these kinds of relationships but let's face it, marriage under the Catholic Church isn't possible