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  • @mandylovey15 aww that's sweet ^_^ I told my mom about her and that I love her but she told me I don't. Oh, parents don't understand .... lol (:

  • I met a girl in a chat room on an app. Never knew we would fall for each other so quickly. She's absolutely and without a doubt the best thing that has ever happened to me. She lives in Puerto Rico and I live in Texas. I've never been happier. It's been a few days, but it's felt like forever. I really love you Amber Reyes, even though you may never see this comment. I want everyone to know.

  • @mblack1993 WE ARE IN THE SAME BOAT!!! i met my boyfriend in a chat and i defenitly didnt expect to fall in love with him but he's amazing and we've been together a week I know how you feel he lives in Minnesota and I live in Cali

  • thingsaboutLDRs.tumblr.com

  • My fiancé is from New Zealand. We lived together for nearly a whole year till I had to go back to Europe. Now, 3 years later, we are still together and have only seen each other once a year. We are engaged and next summer I will be moving to New Zealand for good. Its the hardest thing I have ever done in my whole life but I can truly say that it was worth it!!!

    Dont give up guys!

  • I could use some LDR advice from some ladies. Well, just one of you really. Feel free to send me a message, and I'll reply with my dilemma. (short story)

  • @AfflictedSmile fuck that bitch...problem solved

  • @isaiah322 haha I wish it was that easy.

  • I've been in one more a year now..it's tough as fuck.

  • I'm in ldr for 3 months and things are pretty romantic and my bf and I are happy as ever we met in the same school one year in texas and we are together since Sept 4,11 but he moved to north carolina last year summer of 2010 cuz his father is in the army and we been IM chat every night and there's no prob and sometimes I wish our time flies cuz we make a plan to see each other till 2014 and we could never forget our promise cuz he wanna marry me and were not gonna rush too cuz education goes fi

  • Im about ready to get into a LDR in a few days and the pain is beyond painful.

  • i was in a ldr for over 2 years...she left me a couple days ago...

  • @GRIDIRONKING115  im sorry to hear that

  • I can't even take this seriously because of the poor acting and script lol.

    that girl sounds soooo dumb.....uuuuggghghhhh XD

  • Me and my gf are only in grade 9, We have been dating for 3 months so far, i really like her and she really likes me. But im moving to a city thats like 2 hours away. We text each day/all day/everday n stuff, i told her to buy a webcam so we can video chat, and i will be visiting about every month. Do you think it will last?

  • @PoptartFail no your in grade 9 stuff like this doesnt last unless your like in university or something of that nature, for example im in one right now me n my gf used to live together but since im in the military i move quite a bit and until she finishes school i cant have her move out to me. but maybe you will be the exception.

  • my boyfriend lives 4000 miles away from me in California and i live in Canada, we're meeting soon and i'm moving with him in a few years

  • this is shitty.

    Ive been in a ldr for 3 years, and this is just mocking them

  • @feelthebeets same here..

  • I am a Thai girl who lives in Thailand but my boyfriend is an American who lives in the US. He was living in Thailand for one year last year but he has to look after his father so he had to go back to the US. We have been away from each other for 7 months now but he came visit me last month for 5 weeks and he will keep doing this until I graduate from university or get a job. It is just VERY hard to accept the distance between us but we just need to be strong and accept the fact.

  • LDR will never work. Don't kid yourself~

    Break-up or call it a stop before getting hurt. If he/she's really your the other half, things will work out by itself, like someday u will wake up and book the 1st flight to the other side of the world, and start ur life again there with him/her .

  • @potm2805

    That's not necessarily true. Yeah its true many couples in LDR break up but if they love each other and can see a future with each other, and they're both serious about the relationship, then it can work out! I admit that LDRs are hard but honestly I don't feel like its THAT hard. My boyfriend lives in Japan and regardless of the time difference and the fact that we're both busy with college, we still get to talk for a few hours daily and I still feel close to him. LDRs are do-able :)

  • I am in the same situation you guys . I am in Asia ( Thailand ) and my bf in Europe ( France ) We both doing our dream . I really hate LDR .becoz we both seldom get webcam becoz the time so difference and we both so busy :( that's suck

  • ok so there this girl who i knew last year i kinda liked here, she moved way :( i still talk to to her and stuff but do ytou guys think i could ask her out over like phone and have a LDR with her?

  • @ADieingChipmunk hahaha, yeah man. Same situation here, used to live down here in Florida with me, went to HS with her, we were kinda friends-ish. Then she moved to Canada and we just stayed in contact via facebook and skype, and then got really close and BAM! relationship. I regret nothing; except perhaps, not asking her out sooner. It works out fine as long as you two will talk it out. Peace bro, and good luck ^.^

  • I`m falling in love with this really cute boy. He`s in Virginia and I`m in Massachusetts. I never thought I`d ever find another boy in my state (which is true). We txt and talk on Facebook. We keep in touch the best we can and he may come and visit this summer but I feel that it`s not enough. Could use some advice on how to make more of it. (we`re both 16 and both gay)

  • Why would you do Long Distance Relationships? Just find someone in your area unless it was someone you actually loved and had to go somewhere far. I don't get LDR, how can they survive?

  • So my boyfriend is in the navy, and he finally came home yesterday...but he'll be leaving to Japan for 2 years!!! i love him so much, i never thought ill be able to find a guy like him after all i went through.i dont want to lose him because of this, i just hope will be able to survive this...and to those reading please give me advice!! to all the LDR out there stay strong and i wish you guys the best !!

  • I live in Nevada and he lives in Maryland...we were doing fine until he met this girl Emma..

  • My boyfriend of 4 years live in California and I recently had to move to Colorado. Its so hard living like this :(

  • @cookiesHxC youre lucky!! my lover lives in colorado and im stuck in new york until i graduate :(

  • @lilshontaycandy ya i agree with u ! Im similar to u but its the other way around i moved to Colorado here for school and im stuck here until i graduate also... only a 10 month program but i just started last month and its nov only 1 and a half month , 9 months to go. Boyfriend lives at NY and im all the way out here in the cold:/..sucks huh? xmas is coming soon , hopefully we can see our lovers around that time.. my thanksgiving break isnt long enuff:'(

  • I always thank my god cuz i met the guy of my dreams online..i live in california and my boyfriend is from morocco..i know is really far but we love each other so much..im going next year to meet him and if everything works well we will plan our wedding..my family is surprise about it but i dont care lol..BTW im 21 and he is 27..i love my 7abibi Abdel <3..he is planning to move here to cali with me :D

  • Im 17,

    My boyfriend and I met when we where 16 when I went to America on exchange.

    I never thought love existed until I met him and although its hard and we're so young I feel like our relationship is special

    .

    Long Distance relationships are hard but special. We were chosen because we are strong people.

    I love him with all I have and although we are 18,956 kilometers apart, I pray that oneday we will be together again.

    LDR's are the hardest kind of relationships, but they are more worthwhile.

  • @helloCelesteGreen

    Im in the EXACT same situation like you :) He's in the states and Im in germany :) And Im even the same age as you haha :)

  • same type of deal here i live in canada she lives in germany...its hard and has honestly destroyed my mind

  • I'm in Wisconsin USA and he lives in Italy. We first met when he was an exchange student at my high school (I was a freshman, he a senior). I had a crush on him, but never said anything. I added him on Facebook my Junior year and we've been dating for two years now! It's very difficult sometimes :( To all the other LDR's out there, communication is KEY! Or the fights will start and your relationship will end.

    Giuseppe, amore mio...ti amo tanto! I appreciate all your hard work at school.

  • Believe in young love? we're both 16, i'm in the States and she's in Canada. Both in IB, both busy with senior year and applying to colleges and it is hard. I love her to death though, so much easier to understand and get along with than other girls. Only thing is, we've both been so busy lately, when we do try to make time for each other, either I or she is busy. It's hard, any other tips/advice for a young couple?

  • I'm Harry and I live in North Yorkshire, England. My gorgeous girlfriend is called Katie and she lives in West Virginia in the states. We met by YouTube (I know it's not usually how people meet.) we already have plans for the future and living together. I love her to bits though. I wish luck to anyone who is also in an LDR.

  • i'm in Syria and he lives in kuwait , we always had a long distance relationship but we try to see each other every couple of months or whenever its possible , this time we are not going to be able to see each other for 8 months :-( i'm dying inside of me , i want him to be next to me right now and i wish i could just see his face and hold him tight , LDR sux but if you can survive this , it means you got a very strong relationship with ur partner since you already been through the hardest

  • I'm in Texas he's in Virginia he just recently came to visit and it was the best eventhough it was only for 3 days Q.Q but he's planning on flying down again during the holidays. I believe our relationship can work and it makes me so angry when people especially people who have never been in a relationship before have the audacity to tell me how mine is going to end up just keep ur comments to yourself

  • I feel so incredibly lucky. Richerd lives in Tennessee and I live in California. We met online through mutual friends. It's been 6 months. And he's coming down to see me either in December or in March next year. I'm so excited yet nervous! :3 He's my best friend, and I love him. I'm glad to call him mine. (:

    I wish everybody luck, no matter what relationship you're in <3.

  • I'm so lucky to have her a few states away. You guys have it a lot worse than me and i wish the best for all of you! We all live everyday in love with our girls/guys. And I'm 15 and i want to spend the rest of my life with this girl and she's 17. Either way i wish the best for you guys. And I thought going to Delaware from New York is hard. This is my first time in love ever and I'm not going to screw this up! And I have a video game to thank for putting us together in a game of halo :P

  • I'm from New York and He's from England.. and well it's practically been depressing not being able to be with him. So we chat online as much as possible and we even txt, and leave each other tons of messages just to try and cheer each other up. LDR's aren't easy but once you know you want to be with that person enough to decide you want to undergo an LDR then that's when you can officially say you are madly love with someone!

  • I live in the Netherlands, my boyfriend lives in in Chicago... We met on yt actually and I love him a lot! But I can't stand not being able to be with him... I cry about every night just because I know I'm not with him or he's not with me....

  • I was in Washington when I met my girlfriend who lived in New York. I did everything to finally be able to see her. When I met her in person, it was like falling in love all over again. We've been together for about a year, and we now live together. I've never been happier.

  • @1skdude hey man, im in a long distance relationship too and have been about three months now, any tips on how you made it work?

  • @biggames22 Well, from the moment we met, we never stopped talking. We'd text all day, and talk on the phone all night until we both fell asleep. Most of the time, we'd even sleep on the phone :P So if you have a family plan, add him/her to it, and you can talk to them as much as you like. Send her letters in the mail, or buy her things and send it to her. It takes a lot of effort to make these sort of relationships work, but they are so worth it when you finally get to meet in person. Trust me.

  • my gf moved to switzerland and im in the USA.... its so hard not being able to hold her and tell her it will b ok

  • i live in Malaysia. and my boyfriend is in UK. and we met online. realize that we both need each other. but somehow everyday is just getting hard for me and for him. there's no cuddling. hugging. kissing like other people did. we send text. we email. we talk on skype. we see each other thru webcam. and after awhile. we realize. it's not just distance. but everything keep us apart. i' trying to find a way to make it work. but i just don't know how~

  • @Eastian1 it must actually be for only for a time (the distance shit) not forever cuz then it sure that it won't work

  • Hilarious

  • Mine only lives two hours away but i'm too young to drive there. FML

  • My boyfriend moved away for University. God, im so sad and paranoid.

  • ha fuck you, you don't know shit about long distance relationships.

  • I have a girl i love who live in wales and i live in america we do love each other but neither of us can't leave our home and i rlly want the both of us to be together and idk wut to do any advice?

  • my girlfriend lives in michigan and i live in texas, its so hard not to see her :( fuck man

  • dude i tried this!!! doesnt work :(

  • this helped, I live in Canada and my girlfriend lives in the US, and we probably won't be seeing each other any time soon... at least this video could help a bit.

  • im in the use, he is in Canada. i love you !

  • ldr's are lame. sure u click w ea other but thats because online anyone can be anyone. so fuck you all you fucking losers hahaha btw i'm here in indiana usa and shes right next to me in person haha

  • I'm in Cali....he's in Russia.

  • I met this girl in Serbia, where I'm from and where I go to every summer for a week or 5. We non stop chatted for a week, kissed and i RLY like her. She lives there though, and we both have school (I'm 17, she's 15). The thing is that I've never been in love with a girl like this. Now I'm in Holland and I'm trying to make up my mind:

    Try to keep the love going, or keep her as a friend? I'm able to see er in a month, and again with new year. What do you think, should i do? :(((

  • LDR..Im from romania...hes in the US....This time zone difference and distance are so annoying ....but this vid kinda cheered me up..:3

  • @yggra31 Never thought I'd see someone else from Romania involved in a LDR, honestly... hope it works out eventually :)

  • Heh, this pretty much helps a lot. My girlfriend lives in Canada and I live in England.

    Fuckin' distance.

  • @ACOGTurkey My BF is from Canada ! its so hard!!! 

  • I though to be a couple you have to be physical...not just virtual shit.

  • @stoplolingatme Fuck you.

  • @ACOGTurkey I'm just right, dude. That's why you're angry.

    It's all right guy. Cheer up.

    I was in a long distance relationship. It totally sucked. But i was dating him before I moved out of state.

    Most people can't do it.

    Why try? Besides, I hear when you meet them in person it is SO awkward.

    But whatever. I'm glad I have a boyfriend who lives 2 miles away who I can touch and have the sexy time with whenever.

  • I met my bf online, and i live in norway, he was here atm, and i fell inlove with him, and after one and a half month he moved back to the states! i miss him and thinking about him every single day!!

  • Im In Las Vegas , Hes in Guatemala , ive gone to visit him when i go visit family over there.. but its real hard . because you miss them so much . but i know its worth it , im 15 and we met wen we were 10 . Best 5 Years of My Life <3 i love you Erick ! (:

  • i Have a Long Distance relation ship with my BF Monis ... He is from Pakistan & i m From Morocco ... i know him from FB ... & we Start Talking , & we are So Deeply Fall in Love with Each other ... he Mean the world for me & i m the same for Him .. i Use to date PPL i see every Day .. but i Never Loved someone as i do Love the one i Never met ... i wanna Cry Now Talking about Him .... i Love U Monis <3

  • I live in ny and a girl i meet lives in va. we tried going out for 2 month and nothing worked out i wish i could be with her.

  • this girl i just met is SO perfect! we get acquinted really well and if its possible, we can be together. Problem is, she lives at New York and Im in Florida LOL!

  • Hey any advice for a 14 year old like me?? My girl lives in PA and I live in New Jersey!!! Just 90 miles away!! anyway we just started are LDR like 4 days ago but we've been talkin for 2 months before this and well I think she's the 1(: any advice would be helpful!!

  • i li in canada and my boyfriends lives in colombia....

  • worst thing to ever happen to me she moved to texas

  • HOLY FUCK,

    I MET THIS GUY WHOS A TOTAL SEX GOD

    AND HE LIVES IN THE MOTHERFUCKING UKRAINE.

    THE FUCKING UKRAINE

    AND I LIVE IN FUCKING TEXAS

    RRAAAAAGGGGGGEEE!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I live in Canada, my boyfriend lives in Japan. He's moving to Canada for me! 

  • @cheremushki

    Aw I live in the US and my boyfriend lives in Japan too :P he's hoping to come here to the US for graduate school! Best of luck for u guys!

  • Oh and this is my first ldr... But I skype with him everyday day when we both are free and I downloaded an app on my iPhone so I can have an American number and txt when :) it's amazing :)

  • @DonnaAndBek77 what app is that? I need it...

  • @Etep8999 its called HeyWire :)

  • I met my bf online and I instantly fell for him. I didn't care where he was from. I believe we are meant for each other. Don't get me wrong it is hard.. But it's worth it. I live in Australia and he is from the states but currently in japan because he is a marine :/

  • Meet my gf online.. Its hard but shes all i want, I just know it will all be worth it (: Currently saving up to go see her x3 I love you Maddii <3

  • This is my first long distance relationship and I find it very hard. She lives in the Philippines and I live back here in California. It is driving me crazy because I really wanna be with her as soon as possible and have a normal relationship! I promise to go to her someday...

  • Well, you guys are actually lucky. I live in Romania, she lives in UK...London...We actually met online, and it was so terrible when I went there last winter and that was EXACTLY when she had to go to Paris with her family. I'm doing the best I can to visit her again, but it's just so damn hard it makes me wanna cry. :/ She's my angel and she means everything to me... and always will.

  • @Cristian182005 hol on . u re not alone.

  • @Cristian182005 La fel pentru mine! Prietena mea traieste in Romania si eu traiesc in Canada (romana mea nu e foarte buna, dar eu incerc sa invat)

  • @AL3Xmotodude That's awesome! How did you guys meet?

  • @Cristian182005 Christian, said very gently.....think - she had to leave when you were coming ??

  • @loai050 yeah...

  • @loai050 Oh Christian, you poor innocent darling...........

  • I've been with my boyfriend long distance now for near enough two years.

    We love each other so much. We've had our troubles, but none of them mattered when we saw each other in the airport.

    Love can work no matter how far away they are, you just need to put in the work.

  • @papilow202 u better get strong emotionally....cuz ur n 4 a big downfall....itz not gonna last...i speak from experience...just keep ur guard up...

  • @MegaERIC2003 It does last if BOTH sides are willing. And I'm speaking from experience too, And a lot of the comments on here also prove that. Sorry, if it didn't work out for you. :(

  • I didnt look @ dis vid...but FUK long distance relationships...they never last....been there done that....

  • I'm scared, my partner is leaving for Mexico maybe in the next year, and I live here in Houston. I'm afraid, I mean if something happens to him how would i even know. When would I find time to visit, with college and all. There's a lot of factors in this realationship, theres age, legal stuff, distance. We're been seeing each other for 3 years, now so we are really close. There's just a lot of things going through my mind.

  • Im going to be united with my love in 2 weeks.  Im soo happy :D

    7months apart has been torture.

  • @Smile85000 only have been away from my love for one month so far and i just feel like flying back immediately to hold him!! But I'm here to visit my family....cant just leave like that...anywaysss,,still got one more month to go until i can see his handsome face in person...

  • @Smile85000 ~ omygosh! Congratulations, I miss my man soooooo much.

    It's been 6 going on 7 months and I'm going BONKERS..Lol, but I have about another

    month or so to go.

  • @GreenCures Thank you :D 9 days to go.

    Remember 'absence make the heart grow fonder' ;)

    Hope time goes quick for you.

  • @zest4lyfe just to let you know, you are mentally ill in the relationships department. And I'm going to prescribe you some pills that will poison you so you can stop insulting the efforts of people like me who are in London distance relationships because it works out if you do it right, but you must remember, you're a faggot so it's different.

  • @tonymooo don't complain. You are lucky. I'm in central Cali and my Gf is in central Ohio. We are both around 13-16 (I'd prefer not to say publically). So dmstop whining, at least you can see her at all

  • My gf lives about 100km away, i know it's not too much but im 14 and only way i can see her is if my parents drive me there, wish she just lived across the street

  • i live in indonesia ant maybe next month my gf will go to german , she will college on there , and i think i already for ldr , please pray for us ^^

  • for me long distance is from the bathroom to the kitchen.

  • My boyfriend lives in the USA and I live in Ireland. It has been OK so far (we've been apart around 2 months now) because he's flying over to see me in two weeks, and in two months I fly back to the states for another year. We met when I moved there for a year of college, and i decided to push my graduation here a year back. It's hard but it's worth it.. the time difference is the worst. But Skype is a godsend :)

  • I'm from Italy and my gf is from Thailand, I'm gonna move there next july

  • My boyfriend is leaving for two years.. im scared that we wont last. We have only been together for about a month and a half and barley get to spend time with each other as is.. I really do love him and want this to last for a long time and I need as much advice as possible. please help

  • wow reading some comments here and my girlfriend left for the states not even a week ago and man i miss her. she is going for 3 months and i am already like man ii miss her i wonder what her journey everyday is like. i wonder how some of you stay strong for all trhose years... any one with advice can email me :)

  • My boyfriend and i have been long distance since i was 14 and now im 19. I get to see him for the 2nd time ever tmr.! Has the wait been worth it? Yes! it definitely has. The hard part now is deciding who will make the move. We've been off and on so much but i love him and we'll always end up coming back every time. I cant wait to see you hlub!

  • I'm watching this because my boyfriend is moving to hawaii soon..

    originally l wanted to do the wimpy thing and breakup, but he wanted to be with me, and he means too much to me to let him go.

    Relationship is about soooo much more than distance. Trust, honesty and communication is key. It'll only be for the next two years - then l can see his amazing face in person everyday.

  • @guitarfreakxoxoxo Good luck to you! My bf moved back to hawaii too. I had doubts about LDR before he had to leave, I was so scared that it won't work, but we talked about it and we both love each other so we decided to give it a try. I believe in what you've said! Distance is not a problem, as long as you love each other. I trust him and I hope he trusts in me, cause I'm always going to be faithful to him. I will visit him next yr, but it'll take us 2 yrs too before we get to live together.

  • Long distance relationships can be hard. But with experience, they become much easier. I recently read " Surviving a Breakup: Getting Back Your Ex For Good" by Matthew Mehra. I got the book from Amazon and it helped me get my ex girlfriend back. I would suggest this book to anyone that would like to fix a relationship. It actually worked for me, and I am happy for that.

  • @newfnshow031 ill try and read that...im just sad that my gf is losing interest...she feels so guilty that i love her so much that she cant repay me back with the same amount...idk what to do anymore and seems like she wants to break up...LDR is so hard...telling her that i love her is the only way for me to show my love..theres nothing i can do she feels guilty. i hope one day she will understand me. that we only live once and that we are lucky to even love or be loved by someone. :(

  • @kramallidap Don't force it, just give it some time and she will eventually change her mind. I read the book for the kindle and it helped me a lot.

  • @pdani72

    Things are really working GREAT. Sorry for the late reply. I love my woman to death and beyond, and she feels the same way. We're keep eachother strong and we both have faith that we'll be together in the near future. And I'm doing everything I can to make that come true.

  • @FlexBro great! nice to hear good things from you.

    but... i am also in a LDR but i fell so lonely... how do you overcome that?

  • LDR's are hard. Above all things they make you feel lonely. I had an LDR for 8 months but then when it started making me depressed I broke it off. And This month I went on a date with a guy. But sometimes I feel like there is a whole in my heart only he can fill, there's just the crappy distance :/

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  • I have been into it for two years ...he works in korea and i live here in the philippines waiting and its worthy now weve been marrried for almost three years in the same situation.

  • as long as you live in the state of love :D best line ever!!

  • I live in NY and my gf lives in California its hard for us considering I'm 3 hours away from her and our parents are very strict and every-time i see a happy couple together i get sad because i wish i can hold her like they do we are only 15 and a sophomore in high-school everyday i wonder if this is going to work out...i doubt it but she said something that i never heard from a girl...that im worth it :( i dont know what to do ...

  • @alexthesaint29 im in the same deal right now and i'm also 15 and mine gf lives in england and i'm in Spain. I 'll be seeing her in May and I can't wait but no matter the distance this girl is at, i dont care im in love with her and thats whats counts for me. So if you love this girl, don't forget about her and don't doubt because anything can happen and turn that frown upside down. :)

  • Pennsylvania Arizona :( way to far

  • Thank you for the great video. It 's informational as well as intertaining.

  • BF and I are 7000 miles/7 hours apart.

    Gonna meet again in April after a year of not seeing each other...

    :)

  • @zucovy I'm happy for you!

  • I live in Vegas and my bf lives in Hawaii. We met online and we clicked instantly. We so called 'roleplay' on FaceBook: -kisses you softly and holds you to me- We know we love each other a whole lot and someday we know we'll meet. If you read this, I love you Josh!

  • yes… today...

  • Why are you so far away from me?

    I need help and you're way across the sea.

  • Thanks :) glad someone had the advice I was lookin for people say its diffrent but I don't think so

  • What about gay relationships?

  • @92dairyman love between heterosexuals are not any different than the love between homosexuals.

    so to answer your question. The same tips and advice they give in this video apply to gay men/women.

  • im currently in 2 year LDR, i live in Texas and my GF lives about 300 miles away in another country. My LDR been the best thing that has happen to me. We talk mostly everyday through MSN messenger. I visit her about a year and our love grew stronger. I try to do everything for her like give her support, show love and send flowers everytime that i can. But i made a stupid mistake (not cheated) and lie to her, but i call her and told her about and now she is gettn space and im afraid about it.

  • i agree but u need 2 bcareful but i have not been n a long 1 since 2005 bc things always go wrong

  • It's a great vid.

    could you help by showing a video on how to fight DEPRESSION??

    my guy and me, are in a very happy and almost perfect LDR, but sometimes it just get depressing, the fact that we can't see each other.

    i'd LOVE to see ways how to get rid of that depression.

  • @BeleZaVenenozA go n see him

  • I've just got dumped by my partner who lives in another state.im from nyc and my partner is from maryland. we were only 4 hrs away but i left off to school which put us 7 hrs away from each other and my partner coldnt handle the distance so we broke up yesterday after 2 years. i'm crushed and don't know what to do with myself. FML.

  • Im American and live in Florida and the person that holds my heart lives in S. E. London and is British. I think a LDR is possible w/ a great deal of work. Sometimes communication can get lost in translation. However, when that person is meant for you then you have to suck it up and deal with the obstacles. Great things come from LDR like learning the other person culture and traveling. I cant wait until the day we meet! :)

  • @GoldenNaturalNappy Hey I live in Florida too, and I really love this guy In Britain as well. Your comment made me smile. There are some moments where I realize actually being in the same location plays a big role in the way the relationship continues but I try to make past it, such as the communication part. I really just want to continue what I have with him and perhaps let it blossom into more. Can't wait till I meet him as well... long distance I admit is scary but i put all faith in it.

  • @jackumonkey Hi, I have a saying that I hold dear to my heart that was passed down to me by a dear friend when I told her about the LDR and how scared I was. She told me that "space, time and distance has nothing to do with the natural flow of a real connection". If the connection is there let it blossom. Dont allow physical distractions to get in the way of that natural flow. Sometimes one of you may go away for a little while, but thats okay, its normal. Keep your LDR to yourself.

  • I live in ...well i lived in london last semester, next semester i'll live in Forli (near Bologna), and my girlfriend lives in Moscow. We visit each other often, mostly in other cities, like we met in Lisbon in the summer (where i grew up), then Amsterdam, London, Munich, Moscow and next we're going to Vienna and Prague. I love her so much, and she loves me too, so that is what keeps me going. It's hard but in the end our getaways are the best weekends/weeks i've ever had.

  • i've been with my bf for 6 months now and we live bout 3 to 6 hundred miles apart i live in Wales him Ireland and although it can be tough and lonely at times i found that we go very strong and are very close as we talk a lot on msn, skype and on our mobiles and i found that the distance has made us both a lot more open than what we would be with anyone else

  • Wow. Ldr's can be difficult and ultimately one person will have to move to the other or they will ultimately break up.

  • Tiffany Smith? Oh yeah, you're the Fios tv girl.

  • My sister want to marry someone **rockmycity.info**

  • I live in Washington state, and my boyfriend lives in Southern California. In reality it isn't allll that far, but it feels like "so close, yet so far away." We talk a lot daily through text/phone, skype voice/video chatting, as well as play online games together. The phone and cam sex is mind-blowing as well. I love him; he is my heart, and he treats me better than I felt I could ever be treated. We stay positive and are proactive about being together in person soon... it just feels right.

  • i live in puerto rico my boyfriend lives in california we met in puerto rico i really love him so much i miss him we vedeo chat every single day and text like every minutes im 4 hours ahead of him and ive been awake like until 5 am but i dont care cause all i wanna do is talk with him and see him..... i wanna visit him but my mom is the problem....... so just wait for him to visit me

  • I live in the UK, the bf lives in Canada. I'm 7 hours ahead so I wait for him to come home from work and we talk on Skype everyday. It destroys my sleeping as I don't go to bed till 5AM but he's totally worth it.

    I've thought about ending it so many times but I love him too damn much, I'm sticking it out until I can move to Canada. He's spending a week here for my birthday in 4 weeks but its tough when he leaves, not knowing when we'll be together again :/ 14 months <3

    Stay strong everyone! <3

  • I have been ~4000miles away from my partner for nearly 2 months it gets harder and harder each day. Miss him so much. We are going to have our first skype video call today, cant wait :D

  • its been four long months. i miss her a lot ! huhuhu.. i will wait for 2 years becoz of her working contract shes in bahrain im in the philippines. i miss her very much. its it seems the longer weve been separated shes getting colder. hhuhuuhu. we chat on skype once a week because she said shes busy. huhuhu. evry single minute i think of her , even in my sleep i dream of her. huhuhu. God help me.. what will i do. 2 years is so long i can wait what about her? huhu..

  • wow after reading all these other peoples LDR's, i feel a lot better.

    me and my gf only live 100 miles apart, and it's still really hard but i know that it's all it's all worth it because i really do love her.

  • im from the philippines. i live in Dumaguete City and my boyfriend lives in Quezon city. we've been texting each other for like almost everyday. and sometimes he would call me. just this afternoon, i received his gift via LBC. yes', i know we're young. and anything can happen. im open with that kind of things since i know what things boys can possibly do and i've had guys friends whose into LDR and i know what their doing.

    but for the meantime, ill take it slowly and enjoy every minute of it

  • im from the philippines. i live in Dumaguete City and my boyfriend lives in Quezon city. we've been texting each other for like almost everyday. and sometimes he would call me. just this afternoon, i received his gift via LBC. yes', i know we're young. and anything can happen. im open with that kind of things since i know what things boys can possibly do and i've had guys friends whose into LDR and i know what their doing.

    but for the meantime, ill take it slowly and enjoy every minute of it

  • I'm so sending this to my boyfriend, He better take notes.

    :T

  • @SarriixArt

    XD i just sent this to mine.

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  • I live in USA and my bf lives in Australia. Our times are so different. His goes faster than me about seven-teen hours. However it doesn't matter. Since we live apart from each other. I have grown a lot of weird hobbies: stay up late to wait for him get home after school, wake up early at 5 am and the first thing I do when I wake up is turn on my laptop and talk on Skype with him.