The Definition of True Love and Soul Mates

[MrHillbilly888]

Quote: "I would rather be disliked for telling the truth, than loved for telling a lie". Is it love when you are altruistic enough to say what needs to be said regardless of the outcome? It is certainly disappointing when adults who behave like children don't like hearing so!

As for doing everything for them.... hmmmm... if the energy is not returned in a meaningful way, you will fry out...

Hope you are well....

PS - Oxytocin.. the best drug on the planet. Hope you are getting some!!!

[laurenlouisefenton]

@MrHillbilly888 Love that oxytocin- take care:)

[Bigbreak2]

1 Corinthians 13 = nough said...

Cut away the Judaism, and it's still pertinent!

[MrMattpozdol]

Beautiful!

[1HarryH]

Do not talk nonsense. There is so many quality of love, it is unwise to underestimate the importance of good sex in the relationship. It is created by the natural attraction between man and woman. Enjoyment and pleasure of the importance of human mental balance should not be forgotten context of sex. This of course does not prevent any other quality of love in other contexts.

[laurenlouisefenton]

@HeLovesCulture mmmm yes it is a interesting mix- a cocktail of comlication at times

[Vicmarstar]

I love watching your videos here Lauren. And I love you. Yours Vic.

[laurenlouisefenton]

@Vicmarstar Oh Vic what a lovely comment to write- You have brightened my day- thank you Vic

[Vicmarstar]

@laurenlouisefenton Your welcome Lauren sweetheart. My pleasure knowing you.

[Vicmarstar]

@laurenlouisefenton And you brighten my day Lauren.

[onedwr]

@HeLovesCulture I kinda disagree. I never understood married couples who plan everything. Then again it works for some so perhaps I'm biased (hands in air). MY ideal is that things should "evolve" naturally and then "improve' on us or we. That would be too easy. LOL

[onedwr]

"Lauren believes that True Love is more than romantic feeling, the production of Oxytocin and great sex. True love is about benevolence and taking action. True love is about providing an environment in which your partner can develop, find their sense of self, and achieve a sense of peace and well being."

EXACTLY! but unfortunately, most of us don't really know what we want.

The only thing I disagree with is you'd better not wake me up when I'm sleeping or yooolbeeesoooory.

[laurenlouisefenton]

@onedwr You are so wise- and simultaneously yet so very very funny- ah what a balance

[onedwr]

@laurenlouisefenton CORRECTION: I actually meant to bring forth needs vs. wants but....well I think you see where I'm going anyway. We've all gotten them mixed up at one time or another I guess.

[onedwr]

@laurenlouisefenton and thanks for the comp. :)

[youngNsweet1103]

incredible... liked it much .. thanks for sharing :D

[TomCoteMusic]

love is way too complicated.....I prefer Pizza....

[laurenlouisefenton]

@TomCoteMusic Ah for the happy simplicity of pizza

[THEALEXROBBINS]

Your videos are real, relatable, and from obvious life-experience.

[laurenlouisefenton]

@THEALEXROBBINS Alex, both you and Dr Lisa, provide us with energetic, qualified, friendly, and thought-provoking content. Thank you so much to comment.

[laurenlouisefenton]

@THEALEXROBBINS Ah yes the tribulations of life- experience- but with pain and adversity comes oppurtunity from which we may mould and shape our destiny

[THEALEXROBBINS]

Outstanding Lauren! You would make a great compliment as a speaker with Dr. Christiansen, you have great energy.

[HOOD3able]

Wow Lauren that is deep and very true x

[laurenlouisefenton]

@HOOD3able I just love your music

[lifewithckd]

I still think you an amazing woman with a great gift and very good looks to go with it..I'm honoured to have met you via the tube and the few message's I have shared with you has been an absolute pleasure for me .From my way of thinking you Lauren deserve the best and I truly hope it comes your way Best Wishes Danny

[laurenlouisefenton]

@lifewithckd thank you -you tube has been for me both therapy amd a source of friendship for me. I am very grateful for this oppurtunity. Thank you Danny for your most kind words

[komentero]

fantastic video..........KOMENTERO of Brasil ; )

[laurenlouisefenton]

@UJELLYBROTHER Very well said! - thank you- Agreed

[bibbleblab11]

Mature love - that's a great definition.

[laurenlouisefenton]

@bibbleblab11 and if only we could do more than just define it- I would like to learn to master the eternal pull between physical and spiritual love- thank you

[laurenlouisefenton]

@Cynbad1957 Wow Cyn this is an interesting topic- there is so much i could say about this one:) LOL

[MrAmirr76]

Very well described Lauren,thanx a bunch,but i think Love is so complicated subject ,and we all or at least most of us see it the way we are pleased to,well maybe iam wrong.....take care

[laurenlouisefenton]

@MrAmirr76 Thank you so much Mr Amirr as always your comments are wise- love is an infinite topic as it mirrors our pupose in life from so many angles- thank you

[Buchoass]

My loyal canine friend who was truly mans best friend, unconditional love, I could have the best or worse day and he was always happy to greet me. I miss him and as for the Ex-girlfriend, I feel free now that I'm single. Cheers B. Champagne

[laurenlouisefenton]

@Cynbad1957 oh thank you dearest Cyn- bring on mature love- and giving to others

[USA1749NY2SFnSD2Fork]

...but the Ocytocin part sure helps...

[laurenlouisefenton]

@USA1749NY2SFnSD2Fork It would not really work without it- perhaps oxytocin is like the ignition- and then the benevolence is like to petrol

[laurenlouisefenton]

@USA1749NY2SFnSD2Fork Sadly i do agree:)

[lifewithckd]

I could be dead wrong and forgive me if I am........but reading between the lines...I don't think you have been treated in the correct manner...in this video you come across with true feeling ......don't be wild .. relax. now you can really be yourself.....and that's a great journey a new beginning...at last your free..........

[laurenlouisefenton]

@lifewithckd What a most beautiful and prophetic comment- thank you so much for your wisdom

[flypeepshow]

love always helps....

(love love) . .  love is an "element"

[GoraCenter]

Wonderful...we`re about the same :-) (...is this a blue balloon or a frisbee in the background ? How funny...color is near to your outfit :-) ) Framerate is really much better !!! Looking forward to your next vid...

[laurenlouisefenton]

@GoraCenter Thank you- i did get the good camera working but it is not reliable- the blue disk is an exercise balance disk which i use as a door stop- it did look funny there- almost as if i waspointing at it at times- thank you Gora

[GoraCenter]

@laurenlouisefenton an exercise balance disk as a door stop ? Blasphemy :-D

[laurenlouisefenton]

@GoraCenter yes agreed- throw me to the lions

[GoraCenter]

@laurenlouisefenton never...to peaceful, sympathicly and attractive...the lions ;-)

[PierrePieroh]

Brilliant! Thumbs up!!!

[elbrookman]

indeed.......if you love me you would file down this planters wart off my foot