Moving on after a break up - how to handle a broken relationship

[orientasmaniandevil]

I just split up with my livingpartenr actually 2 day=(after 4 years 2gether i dun know how 2 manage anymore i have a lot of serious problems so this is the last thing i needed i have lost evrything=(i dun no where 2 move its hes flat which i love..........................­.....but evrythings happening for a reason i suppose i will try 2 take yr advice and listen i cant believe this is happening 2 me i know this sounds silly but i thought that i finally found the one =(

[TheErik092275]

i have a question my girl broke up 3 weeks ago we broke up 5 times but 5th time went bad bc i heard she said stuff about me i got mad so i said bad stuff to her friend and i tryed to get her friend to not like her. so she said never to contact her again .after 2 weeks i appoligaze and she said she dont hate me but it will take time for it to go away .. do u think she will she forgive me so we can be friends and how long is time bc i miss her day after day

[MrOliveira1968]

Carolin, I'm from Brazil. I got your videos by chance and I found them brilliant. You are helping lots of people with your amazing power of bringing us back to life. You are gorgeous young girl!

César.

[SyirahSinatra]

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[biohybridsvt]

Thank you soo much for your help.. Youve really helped me alot!! God bless and you are a very beautiful woman :)

[psychomotif]

Thanks sooo much for your videos... I'm going through a break up and the after effects are just taking the life outta me... but hearing you speak such positive words is really comforting... You energy is just great... also,, u're hair is always sooooooo perfect!!!! :)

[Sco27TTx]

I've just broke with my boyfriend. He lost me I lost nothing. As you said I learnt lots of things from this relationship like trust. We should not trust people who do not deserve. Thank you so much beautiful carolin :) You made my life better. I love you. And watch your all videos. Thank you again. Have a great life.

[carolinlovecoach]

@Sco27TTx Thanks for watching. You are on your life journey, aiming for the best :)

[369asj]

what about if you work with this ex ? what would you do ?

[katsuneshinsengumi]

wish me luck to make it right mam,. thank you for the video,.

[edjmdmr00]

You are truly a wonderful person. Thank you.

[carolinlovecoach]

@edjmdmr00 Thank you :)

[Phospher]

Ive started watching your videos last night and you made me forget a bit of my heartbreak. I love your aura and how you talk to your audience.I am glad to find your videos.I am slowly moving on.Your videos help so much.Im going to watch more so that I can take your advice and heal. Keep up the great work that you do!! :)

[carolinlovecoach]

@Phospher How sweet of you. Thanks for that :)

[goingplaces11]

True. I guess one learns a lot,.....but I want to stop "gaining these experiences." lol

Ok ok ...thinking of my future. think. think.

Ok now gotta go pamper myself. hehe

[freshblast2]

This was so great! Thank you.

[danceislife5225]

I love this video, I think it's really going to help me. My first boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago and at first I almost completely surpressed those feelings of regret and sadness, so I'm just now hitting that "let's get back together" awkward phase. And we've been trying to be friends this whole time, which was going fine at first, but it's not helping with the "i'm still in love with you" thing. I just have to understand that there is probably no chance that we'll get back together.

[ILUVMYSUPERMAN19]

i am so glad that i found your videos. i am currently trying to find a way to be happy and single. im trying to find myself and what makes me happy. it is extremely hard but i know i can do it, i jst dnt know how. ur videos are now a huge motivation. idk whether ur single or not u seem so happy and so accomplished and vibrant and confident and ur so beautiful. i hope that i can be jst like that someday. i hope that i will find what makes me happy enough to bring out the happiness i knw i have

[carolinlovecoach]

@ILUVMYSUPERMAN19 Thank you dear, so happy you feel good :)

[keshasebertorg]

YOU ARE MY HERO! thank god i found you :)

[groovy56]

Hi Carolin ! I really enjoyed this video... I find you such a beauty and a delight! You are such an intelligent, sensitive and light hearted girl. Keep up the great videos!

[glamorousglow]

thank you so much for this lovely vid, it really helps and motivates you, im going through one myself and it's not easy but im feeling excited to be free and live my life :)

[cheekychels12]

Thank you for making this video! It really made me think, I've just recently broke up with my bofriend and before we got together, we both said that we would be best friends if we ever split up, but now he won't be my friend and he's trying to make me guilty :S. So yeah your words are really helping me :D

[kruhlz]

omg thank you so much. ive been hurt after a recent break-up, soo miserable... but your words are helping me :)

[deerfielder11]

my boyfriend was texting me, and i wanted to see him. he said k. after that he avoided me and said nothing. so i said what is your problem? he said nothing so i sent it twice. He aid nothin y do u think i have a problem? i said yea with me... :( he said OMFG. i did not answer him so hes then, 20 mins later said "im dumping u" i said why wat did i do?! he said nothing. I told him to answer me but he didnt. i said talk yo me he said no. im heart broken...this helps a bit and i wish to talk to him

[skycloud21]

Wow , i feel so much better.

Thank you so much .

I used to feel like i have no hope in my life or in myself.

i used to google up tips and watch videos to move on.

but this one is VERY different. Thank you so much. :)

[MsNato17]

what if i'm still in love with my ex , and i see him everywhere i go because we have mutual friends , any advice on how to move on??

[psguy30]

Im going through a break up now, infact just yesterday my bf broke up with me, u made me feel so much better, I was so depressed and n tears.....thank u

[un33q]

You have a contagious aura of positive energy around you. Thanks for the video

[frankcqIII]

Thank you so much for contributing this video to YouTube. The world needs more people such as yourself who are bright like the sun to help light up a dark room. Reminding viewers to think about how great the future can be is a great way to cheer us up. I definitely can see the future now. Thank you so much for this video and I hope that you will experience your ideal happiness with your significant other for years to come.

Sincerely,

frankcqIII

[carolinlovecoach]

@frankcqIII Thank you for your lovely words. x Carolin

[ZackfanRikkulover]

You are phenomenal. Thank you soo much for this!

[23snwflk]

My boyfriend has completely blocked all my calls and won't respond to my e-mails or text after he moved away to another state. We had an argument after he moved because he claimed that I was calling too much. Right after he moved he put me to a once a week calling restriction in which I followed.

I haven't heard a word from him and I'm taking a job about an hour away where he lives. I'll be there in a few months. Is this a break up?

[23snwflk]

My boyfriend has completely blocked all my calls and won't respond to my e-mails or text after he moved away to another state. We had an argument after he moved because he claimed that I was calling too much. Right after he moved he put me to a once a week calling restriction in which I followed.

I haven't heard a word from him and I'm taking a job about an hour away where he lives. I'll be there in a few months. Is this a break up?

[ImAngryDuringPMS]

@23snwflk no ....you are just stalker

[rathineha82]

Thanks Carolin...i have had this broken relationship for 3 years....I couldn't move on.Bang on....you've actually read my mind,the problems are so similar.

[hachehache]

it's,not very common for someone to advice or remember to be great full for what you had ... LOVED THAT .. I've always believed the same thing, but most people just kill the good memories of past times because of a hard present, and thats just wrong ... Falling in and than out of love are two separate things that always happen in two desperate moments... :)

[andy1x08]

hey i liked your points ... Amazing ! i liked when yuo said we should be seperate from each other ..

i am just going thru a painful and tearful breakup .. i hope i overcome soon

[carolinlovecoach]

@andy1x08 You will, you will choose to see life in a way that makes you happy!

[MrHgregory123]

very positive and inspiring

[Drakula9991]

nc advice its helps me alot

[midz500]

thanks ...you are sweet.

[carolinlovecoach]

@tangerinetgr Feel free to check my website for my services: thelovecoach.info. This is my job :)

[XxDeclinexX]

Thanks so so much for this video, Helped me put the final nails in the coffin of a rough breakup.

[kevinedywhole]

Thanks for making this video. i really appreciate it. it's really hard to forget the moments between me and my girl. but i know i can move on, sooner or later. maybe.

[HoneyPill93]

your video helped me so much!!!

thank you I really needed to hear advice and this is perfect!

:D

[MissOctober22]

Thank you! i can't believe i did not find your channel before..I wish more ppl can see your videos.. They are very inspiring..Thank you..:)

[carolinlovecoach]

@MissOctober22 Thank you, I am glad it was useful. You will feel great soon!!

[Leahloveslostprophet]

I have a question! Me and my ex really want to stay friends because we see eachother every monday in class and during our relationship we were more friends then lovers. So do you have tips on staying friends?

[carolinlovecoach]

@Leahloveslostprophet I think that if you REALLY are just mates and no one is hurt after the breakup or wants to get back, sure... be friends!

[yoliebloop]

it was so hard for me when my first love left..we should of ended the touching while broken up:/

[lolalicious87]

this is a great video :)

[galacticbutterfly1]

After a few break-up's with my now ex we finally decided to move on yesterday. Unlike your vid we have actually agreed to try being what we are which is best friends. My heart hurts alot right now it will heal, but I know we will have better more fulfilling relationships down the line. Thank you for a great vid x

[xoxogossipkadii]

Hey Carolin, thanks for this great video, I just wanted to know something. When you said that after a breakup it's better not to talk with our ex, do you think that avoiding and ignoring them is an option? I see my ex a lot in university since we have common friends and usually hang out at the same places. However, I know that it is not helping me in my process of moving on. What do you suggest?

[carolinlovecoach]

@xoxogossipkadii Sweet, thanks for your question. If you ignore your ex he or she might not be able to get a proper closure, so be nice to them and have a talk to let them go. But avoid hanging out, have sex or keep being best friends. That will stop you from moving on. If you see each other around... if you can deal with that, it´s ok, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable, don´t :)

[shpegel]

Thank you

[fernandogopez]

thank u so much, very helpful

[obdarjeni]

thanks