Why Lloyd Dobler?

[shylildude]

lloyd's smiling friend is really pretty

[MrNadiney]

I want a Lloyd Dobler ):

[christenbbb]

Wow beeroosterm you must be a he man woman hater!

[DoctorsGirl123]

If a guy serenaded me with a boombox (and looked like John Cusack) I would fall instantly in love with him... <3

[foodiedave]

i've wanted to make sweet bukkake on Ione Skye for the last 20 yrs..is that wrong?

P.S. Cusack rules...love every movie w/him

[outspokengirl]

I've wanted a lloyd Dobler since I seen this...damnit!! He doesn't have to be John Cusack(Although that would be a plus!)

[MsJessism]

I have always wanted a man like Lloyd Dobler, so unselish. He put her first which is rare with men. The boombox scene is one of the most romantic things ive ever seen.

I didnt see this movie in the 80s. Saw it on cable in the late 90s and it became one of my fave movies of all time

[biterface03]

@MsJessism i saw it on XBOX live 2 months ago,

and once i saw how similar Lloyd and this movie was to me, it put me in a "weird" slump..

what is the purpose of love without the one you want?

idk, but i might be cursed never to find "the one"

my heart hurts

[MsJessism]

@biterface03

Some guys that are really sweet and hopeless romantics come off desperate at times. Not saying you are cause I dunno but When I guy goes after me, I want him to want me more than anything but still not try to overdo it or try and force his way in my life. Just be sweet but laid back about it. Dont tell a girl everything of how you feel off the bat. Feel out the situation first. And just checked out your profile. Your cute and only 24 so you dont have to worry just yet.

[biterface03]

@MsJessism ok, so i made a video of me talking about how i feel.. in a sense. idk, its weird but poetry is most heartfelt when under stress or emotional difficulty. i posted it as a response to this video tho, but its amazing how well this movie captures my thoughts, emotions, & attitude when it comes to women. i think that you would potentially like my verses if you Read the Lyrics in the description. & by the way, i'm 20 =)

[beeroosterm]

@MsJessism This girl's post is a perfect fucking example of why women are cunts and men go crazy! She loves sweet and hopeless guys but thinks they're desperate and a turn-off (cunt!); wants absolute comittment - but don't overdo it, guys or you'll come off as desperate! (cunt!); and be careful to feel her out all the while - otherwise, she feel you're desperate (cunt!) Here's the message: Try as hard as you can without appearing to try hard and look desperate. What do you give in return, cunt?

[MsJessism]

@beeroosterm

Your a perfect example of a bitter insecure men who's been rejected all his life. Human nature is human nature, you cant change what women and men respond to. I was being HONEST in my post about what works.

[beeroosterm]

@MsJessism You're a spoiled, unrealistic little girl who is in for disappointment when the real world comes knocking on your door. Lloyd Dobler is a fictional character, the kind chicks like to be friends with but not fuck; that is to say: their gay male friend. But Lloyd wasn't gay, and should therefore would have been fucking all the chicks who were his "friends" (the guitar chick and her friends).

[Browncoatt22]

@beeroosterm Erm, he's not the kinda guy I'd be friends with. He's exactly the kind of guy I'd date, and it doesn't hurt that he's John Cusack shaped either...

[beeroosterm]

@Browncoatt22 Bullshit. Lloyd Dobler-type men are cursed by design. Only through consistent rejection and suffering do they eventually wise up and play the game that you cunts require. By that time, he's no longer Lloyd Dobler - and then you'd reject him sexually for not being sexy enough. Lloyd is a gay male friend fantasy for immature a nd cruel bitches - and an emergency fuck for the cunts of the world. The only way Lloyd would get laid in the real world is have money or a big cock. Cunts!

[Browncoatt22]

@beeroosterm Wow. You seriously hate women huh? I can only assume that you've been "wronged" and therefor feel it is ok to generalize my entire gender into one beeroosterm-hating machine intent on ruining your life. I was hoping I wouldn't become that jaded till I was at least 40. It's true some women like the bad-boy, but not every woman! I'm sorry for whatever shittythings happened to you to make you so very hateful, but at some point you stop being a victim and start chosing to act that way.

[beeroosterm]

@Browncoatt22 No, I don't hate women. Wait...yes, I hate women. You love them, take care of them, and then they become drug addicts. You still love them, take care of them, see them through their addiction with its cuckolding, lies, theft and disease. And then they stop using and lo and behold, you see them for who they are - and you realize you were on a fool's errand. And then they "accidentally" get pregnant and there's no escape, because you must now support your mentally retarded child...

[Browncoatt22]

@beeroosterm That sounds like one woman to me, not ALL women. Sorry if that's true, sorry for you if it's just a lie. But you can't tar everyone with the same brush, an dlike I said at some point when shitty things happen you stop being a victim and start using it as an excuse to act shitty.

[Wallylex]

@beeroosterm What can I say? Like attracts like. If this is how you treat a woman you don't know, I can't imagine what kind of woman can be attracted to you. Peace.

[beeroosterm]

@Wallylex This is how a woman treated ME - the man who loved her and took care of her despite her terrible drug addiction, with all its awful manifestations (cheating, lying, stealing, hepatitis, and subsequent "accidental" pregnancy when I announced I had had enough). Our daughter was born 2 months early with brain damage as a result. She survived - with many complications to this day. I was very angry 9 months ago; less so these days. Can you see why? Peace yourself...

[sandro28grizz]

Dobler is a funny word

[israelsweety]

my favorite John Cusack movie ever

[syxx510]

I really like the use of "I get weak" by Belinda Carlisle ... however thats spelled LOL... right in the end of the video... why that song wasnt used in more 80's love movie soundtracks is beyond me..

[midnightblackfire]

To become a Lloyd Dobler:

Don't think about sex three minutes into the first date.

Have a little bit of charm

Really care about the girl, don't just act like you do.

[helenbobelennn]

pretty much sums it up. man. i want my own lloyd dobler! <3

[biterface03]

@midnightblackfire whats horrible is that i do all of the above...

it just seems like women go for the opposite.

its incredible how much this movie relates to my life...

[junegemini100]

My names Lloyd:)

[brackster]

It's a heck of a lot harder to find a Diane Court.

[joannaoj]

I want to make another video!

[Wombatsfan666]

i love my Lloyd Dobler.

[CaptaincrayZ09]

Ha ha. I've got my Lloyd Dobler ^.^ I love life, and this movie!!

[nrindock]

I had my Lloyd Dobler for 6 years..even looked like him too...God how I miss him!!

[LylaRox]

I want my Lloyd Dobler!  lol

[vonnyyay]

hahah

[gabrield7]

What's the title of this 80's song playing in the background?

[joannaoj]

"Weak" by Belinda Carlisle

[gabrield7]

Thanks so much joannaoj... I'm an 80's baby, but I'm not good with song titles.

[denisebrown1956]

the quintessential hope of american women: to find a lloyd dobler!

[Mentallyawake568]

What traits would a guy have to have to become a Lloyd Dobler. Let me know.

[piepartyzena]

Just be funny, sweet and lovely. Really care about her. Be there for her. Do anything for her. Earn her and win her over even when you already have her. Don't let her go.

[israelsweety]

that about sums it up

[newsieslvr4ever91]

because lloyd is the person who every other man on this earth should b ... <333 XD

[MissyVintage]

Good answer! I'm still looking for my Lloyd Dobler!!!

[Mentallyawake568]

So what type of characteristics and how should a guy be to become a Lloyd Dobler? I'm curious to find that out.

[Mentallyawake568]

What is the best way to become a Lloyd Dobler in your opinion. What characteristics and how to do it the right way.