"Unattached"

[onthemoney90]

In 'Unattached',Judge Lee First (female) states:"in a singles event/meet of a thousand people,"nobody spoke to each other". In the 'Unattached' trailer,she said 'Nobody is Getting Married'. These are untrue quotes by the 'Judge'.1st, re; the singles event, Was the Judge listening to each conversation for the entire event (over 2 hours) & heard no 'tachlis' conversation? That's impossible! 2nd, On the 'Only Simchas' & 'YeshivaWorld' websites,10's of couples get engaged/married each week!

[onthemoney90]

Chaverim - Part 2.

You will be successful with these values (see Part 1). Your guy or girl is NOT: Your Mother, Father, Psychologist, Accountant, Rabbi, teacher, cleaning maid or welcomer of self-centered spoiled or rotten behaviors. Not your close buddy or one who's job in life is to keep things interesting for you. Just someone to build a bayis nehmon with. That's your main goal! Drop your unrealistic expectations and you can find your bashert and be happily married. Good Luck.

[onthemoney90]

Chaverim - Part 1. Two wholes to make another whole (i.e. couple). Not two halves. If you haven't worked out your 'issues', don't look to your spouse. Looks are nice but you don't marry a face or a body but a person and their psyche. . Looks are fleeting - good values remain. You each need to give 150%; to make a marriage work. Do that and you will miss NOTHING and have everything (the reverse is also true). There is no room for selfish behavior as the Torah tells us!

[jewgirl43]

Also, the type of girl he wants can be found in any Toys R Us, we call her Barbie! But she is just what Joe is looking for.

[jewgirl43]

I cant believe the attitudes of some of the young people. It has nothing to do with being a Jew. If hair and eye color and the length of a woman's hair and going to the gym every night is a factor for him, he will be single for a long time. I could not believe that jerk!!!! He seems very controlling in his ways and way to arrogant.

[blueyestar18]

looks really interesting. can this be downloaded on mp4s?

[mmwwjj]

I've read that if a bunch of Netflix subscribers call them (they don't do customer service via email) to request "Unattached", they'll add it to their collection. Otherwise, it's $14 from the Documentary Channel store.

[Michalbasavraham]

Another point is that the people going to the UWS at a young age like 20, makes you wonder if they want to get married.

There's the pickiness factor. Do you hear these people talking... if someone isn't a 10 in the looks dept, they dont' even want to talk to them, especially the guys. As MODERN singles, the messages from the world and not Judaism seem to be what's gettting through.

[Michalbasavraham]

If someone wants to get married the UWS is not the place to live. Everyone knows that that is the land of the tefillin date.

[jvin85]

Interesting perspective. I come from a crowd of people who want the Upper West side experience, we don't have anyone around to socialize with and our local communities provide terrible dating opportunities because there are simply not enough people around to meet.

[Harpross]

I'd be interested in seeing the whole thing because just from seeing the clips, I have NO idea what the producer's aim was.

The singles come across as vapid and spoiled (I have a feeling poor Joe is going to have to move if he ever wants to really get married) and the Shadchanim come across as simply blaming the modern world for this breakdown and being archaic in their seemingly single-mindedness in that marriage is the beat-all and end all for any 'proper' Jewish boy and girl.

[djs239]

Alas, no one is worthy...