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  • Hi, I am 15, and I am struggling with depression and cutting. I went to my parents for help and they laughed at me so I have been trying to quit for a while at least a year or more. I started when I was seven. Thank you for the video it gave my another push to quitting. I wrote love on my arm and I see it every time I want to cut and it makes me think really do I need this? I still cut though and I am working for my recovery on my own, a seven year habit/addiction is hard to break. Thanks again.

  • im 17 i just got out the mental hospital i burned words on my are "WEAK" and F#$K you" this is befor i found out about this brand ive been to mental hospital 2 times my burns wre so deep it took a week before it even started to scab ive seen my father actualy try to kill himself in front of my eyes when i was 14 i hate my self but with god m getting alil better but im tring my best to help others like myself who r depressed

  • hey. i'm15 years old, and I'm cutting for about two or three years now. I don't know how to get out, I told some of my friends, but they went on pretending that everything is okay, like they dont care. twloha showed me that i'm not alone, and that there are other people outside who know these problemes and who joined the fight against cutting, depression and suicide. maybe someday i will be able to do it like them. and you are all able to do the same!

  • @Alice01704 I don't know what it feels like to be you. I have never been in your situation, but I care! I find a great song is "Light up the sky" by 'The afters'. A great reminder that you are not alone!! x

  • @Alice01704

    VOTE HER COMMENT UP!!!

    i'm also 15 i really felt something when i read ur comment ive been cutting for the same time and twloha helps me alot but i find i need to talk to ppl witch is really hard for me due to an anxiety disorder and ive only talked once, i'm bipolar and depressed aswell. ANYBODY message me or add my to msn britt.lamb@live.ca :] i'm more of a listiner then a talker anybody talk to me, i want to help. TWLOHA <3

  • @7xXMiDiXx7, same here, it's a miracle that I'm alive. I hate my scars, they'll never disapear, but I don't have to hide them anymore.

  • My name is Max. I'm 17. I have been srtuggling with depression since July 12th. I never told my parents. I tried to kill myself three times. I cut (not hard enough to bleed) myself 23 times. My scars are not visible. I found out about TWLOHA yesterday and I love it! they give me hope. Thank you TWLOHA you gave me a reason not to cut.

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  • I love the TWLOHA organisation.

  • Twloha saved my life.. and i am so grateful and i look up to Renee as an idol. thank you soo much <3

  • i didnt cut my self for very long, but told my friend, he talke to me about it and said ''whenever you feel like cutting yourself just get rid of whatever you are using to cut or just simply hide it from yourself.

  • Im 15 and am currently cutting... But twloha is helping me understand that I'm not alone in this... I've told my friends and they just ignore it and say it'll pass... I'm scared outta my friggin mind about this.. But imma try to get through it... And for those of u in my position, kno ur not alone..and rescue is possible

  • I love you all. you all know what i went Through and i KNOW what your going through now!!!!

    love you!!!!

  • coldplay. <3 twloha <3 hm,

  • i cut because my parents and older sister actually don't love me ( they haven't told me that they love me in over a year ) and the thing that sucks is that i wanna tell my friends so that they could help me but i know that if i ever did tell them they would leave me

    i have tried to stop so many times and i usually almost make it and then something happens and it's like im sent back to the start

    and every one i got your back, i know what your going through

    -lesia- 13 years old

  • sometimes you need a friend to just vent to. I have also cut myself but I have worked very very hard to break free from that, and even though you don't feel loved, you are and i know the pain can be almost unberable but you can fight it just work as hard as you can and if you need some help I'll be more than happy to :)

  • @xoxoalexalex

    tell your best friend.. trust me.. i did it.. and i told my best friend and she helped me stop.. they'll understand.. if they walk out on you, they aren't a friend.. i'm 13 too.. i know what ur goin through.

  • i cut because people made fun of me because my father died when i was 7.

  • Same here except my father did not die he left and the reason people make fun of me is because of my weight but im not really that heavy.... just naturally stocky :( oh well....

  • dude thats sick you need support i got your back

  • Hi. My name is Mindee. I'm almost 19. For many years I struggled with depression. I still do at times. I've cut. Some so bad I don't know if the scars will ever disappear. On my left arm, left leg, inner thighs. No one cared. Many times I planned and tried to kill myself. To Write Love On Her Arms and my best friends Joey and Zak are the only reasons I'm breathing today. And it's helped a good friend of mine. This video makes me cry because people do actually care. And want to help. So let them.

  • i have suffered form depresstion and suidal thougts since i can rember and i cut my slef and drank and no one helped me but i got over all that shit and im good in school and everything -sharon-15 years old

  • I could tell you my story if you want.

  • Everyone is unmotivated and no one cares; inevitably, we are falling away and apart.

  • great job with the video.

  • amazing

  • Makes me wanna cry..

  • i want someone to tell me their story

  • if you still want a story, i can tell you mine.

  • yes, i want to know...please tell

  • its about a girl named renee. she battled depression and she cut her self 50 times on both arms. she has been raped and abused. she was an alcoholic.

    her friends tried to help her get into a facility where she could help and then the nurse found the cuts on her arms and said she was too great at risk of suicide and they made her wait 5 days until she could come to the facility in those 5 days, and aqaintance name Jamie asked her if he could publish her story (of pain)

  • I could tell you mine,

  • this is freaking amazing

  • ok. thank you lajkinka.

  • what is this song called?

  • coldplay - fix you

  • Wow... this was a really good video.

    I added it to my favorites.

    I completely support TWLOHA.

  • great song

  • Good song.

  • 1:40 IS STEPH FROM ALL SAINTS!.. I like the old allsaints. But Steph died :(

    I fully support this video. Not because of what I just said lol.. but because I know how they feel.. and I want to help.

  • I fully support this.

    I've cut. But I've grown from it. I realized that some people really do tend to have things going on in their lives and I just have a couple things that made me like this. I realized the importance in life is to make a differenence. Anybody can give up, its the easiest thing in the world to do. But when you stay together when everybody else would understand uf you fell apart, thats tru strength.

    :]]

  • excuse me but seriously , is there anyway possible i can download this onto my ipod and watch it from there?

  • love it

  • Wow, this was very well put together.(:

  • amazing!!!

    whats the song called?

  • I do believe the songs is called

    Fix You

    by

    Coldplay

  • ya cause thats what it says in tags

  • i love this cause

    i have a shirtt

    and i hope to get wayy more things to support itt

  • where can I get a shirt?

  • their website

  • i know hottopic carries them in every color of the rainbow. lol. i have a pink, blue, purple, and white one and there are tons more.

  • Hot topic sells the to write love on her shirts.

  • hot topic

  • hot topic tooo

  • great organization! Does anybody know where i can get a "To Write Love On Her Arms" shirt at? Plz an Thks! God bless!!

  • hot topic sells the shirts

  • this touched my heart

  • life is not a gift it is curse...

  • I joined this organization, on social vibe

    I was in depression, so badly till it ruined my whole life, but now it has change, I am happy there are causes like this

    =D

  • awesome video good job perfect song

  • i don't need any help from this organization, but my friend used to cut herself and she was thinking about suicide. i told her about twloha and she said it helped her. i'm all for this organization and i love what it does for people

  • beautiful.

    <3 =D

  • i kno alot of ppl who has posers and the shit i have the shirt

  • they sped up the tempo of this song...

    just wrong man

    just wrong!

  • thers a guy at my school who wears a sweatshirt that says To Write Love On Her Arms

  • thankz Sw1ft4

  • coldplay.

    amazing song.

    amazing organization.

    just amazing everything

    Tnk twloha!!

    <3

    God Bless

  • i almost killed myself before i was put in the crazy house with all the crazy people it wasnt fun now i have to take some dum ass pill everyday for my depresion

  • o im sorry...good luck wit your battle...hope u win

  • so so true

  • coldplay.

    amazing song.

    amazing organization.

  • someone tell me plz what this is about and i guess i sound stupid but oh well. so what is the point of twloha is it like a group reach out thing? srry im just confused

  • Hey Guys, TWLOHA is a great organization. They have great products, and your money goes to help fight suicide.  GOD BLESS

  • i have the tshirt that says to write love on her arms

  • you do!?

    do you know anything about it?

    no.

    stupid hot topic.

  • actually.

    it says the reason.

    on it.

    on the tag.

    you dont have to say shit about hot topic.

    kay?

  • so?

    having the reason on the tag and actually knowing about twloha are two completely different things.

    not to get involved,

    but yeah i agree with cody(:

  • people, i am here to help and to try and understand people's problems. leave a comment on my page and ill get bak to u asap. luv u all

  • yeah i know dude...its just hard to lose someone :\ you dont know where to turn really..

  • this video is really sad. you can buy a shirt at Hot Topic. they are cool shirts too

  • please help with this. I know someone who comitted suiside and it hurts beyond belief. You can't always tell when someone is depressed, so always show the people close to you how much they mean to you.

  • same here. i lost my friend to suicide unexpectedly. he never told anyone he was unhappy. he just put on a fake smile and kept going

  • I can honestly and sincerely say that I know how that feels to lose someone to suicide and it really sucks. And you're right, you can't always tell. But it's hard to show someone how much they mean to you when they're not willing to accept it. If they can't take the time to let you into their life and see that there's people who really do care, then there's no way of getting through to them.

  • I'm gonna sound like a dick.

    But all this To Write Love on Her Arms shit is bullshit. How does it begin to help the clinically depressed?

    Why don't people actually give the depressed what they want. Someone to listen. Someone to look up to. Something to look forward to.

    Anyone can say there is hope. Even the depressed know that. But if you really cared, trying helping someone out instead of relating to this cause you like to cut.

    TWLOHA's is a merchandise scam. They don't car

  • You really have to be careful when you try to help though.

    It's hard. Harder than you think.

  • i agree with you all the way. anyone can say that i think they just caught certain peoples attention because they dealt with a suicide one time in their life. well yeah i talked one of my friends out of suicide..that was one of that hardest days of my life.

    and here you have the TWLOHA kids trying to get points for t-shirts and concert tickets..

    seriously guys. even if it is a scam you should still try to help people.

  • but TWLOHA's is not the answer to to help the depressed.

    Not at all.

    Greenlime is the typical TWLOHA's person.

    Only wants a cool looking t-shirt.

  • Did that even make sense?

  • Ahh i get it now,

    i agree,

    i posted 3 comments

    XD

  • your an idiot.

  • wat?why an idiot?

  • idr why i said it but it must have been for something idiotic....

  • oh.lolz okays

  • jeezz this is soo emotional. i luv it sooo much! indstead of cutting urself wen ur down....jst write love. this is a great thing that ppl r doing.

  • holy crap. kk. no it cant be treated unless u tell ur fricken parents. so thts shit.

  • its not shit its not up to your parents but up to you.. love is the movement

  • w.e. have u ever felt pain? or are u just one of the random people

  • i have felt pain then you could ever think of.

    yiou dont know wat ive been going through

  • ya ur right i dont know

    but i know what i have and am going through too

  • yea my bf was one of those 30,000 ppl...

    he killed himself right before his 13th b-day

    he was with me the night before...and everyone blames it on me! =`[

  • ive seen this vid like 3 times and im still cryin...my friend showed me this and now every day i re-write love on my arms...its so sad how many scuicides there are in this world

  • Brilliant song and video.

    <3

  • I think I'm going to cry. LET IT OUT. I'm will add this for a favorite

  • what song is playing throughout the video?

  • Fix you by Coldplay

  • *to write love on her arms* u did a great job on this video the point of this is amazing thank you.. reach for help if u need it ur not alone dont ever think there is no one out there that cares.. if u do then just think u have a teenage girl here that cares!
  • R.I.P. EM J

    i ddnt know yooh

    but ur story was

    very sad..

  • i agree with you danalynnn92, we do need help. :/

  • ...This is really going to help me with my battle of depression. Thanks so much for making this. <3 to all the people trying to overcome this like I am

  • This video has moved me too..i feel a strange urge to cry.....

  • wow. this moved me.

  • You guys seriously need to learn the meaning of To.Write.Love.On.Her.Arms it speeks to us, the people who actually do this stuff you need to respect it you don't know whats going through our life like achol adiction,suicide,drugs,mental health we don't need Help&Love we cry & crave for it the people who didn't give us that aren't there and the people who weren't there are trying to give the things we crave and cry for,good luck to who thinks they're going to make it i might try to see the light.

  • im soo sick of people making fun of cutters, i cut and i have to stand there hiding my arms when my friends make fun of them. you seriously dont understand what goes through our heads or what we have been through

    we need something to hurt more than what is hurting inside and thats when suicide happens when nothing can take away the mental pain. and it becomes unbearable

    we are crying out for help and love

    =[

  • i'm here for u and everyone out their and dey have my love and support and im here to help soo please feel free to talk to me anytimee

  • anyone who would make fun of something like that isnt really your friend.

    thats like calling an anorexic fat just to make his/her problem worse.

    btw:next time you feel like cutting, why dont you try something like taking a realllly hot shower or poping a rubber band on your write.

    LOVE,kristi

  • hey we are all there for u im not a cutter or anything like that i dont cry out of no where to let out my emotions, but i care for people who go through this problem...we all can help...drugs, fighting, pain, and suffering are not the answer, its acceptance and talking...and crying is the best thing to do...even get angry...thats good to, but controlably angry...everyone deserves someone to talk to.

  • I'm here for you too. Anyone making fun of what you go through isn't really your friend. They don't take the time to try and understand the pain you feel, or even listen you for that matter.

    Everyone out there has my support and love as well, I just want to help you. So you can talk to me any time you need to, okay?

  • um okay listen i dont do the cutting but learn to shut ur mouth ur such abitch why cant u loser just leave us alone we dont like u stupid prepsand we dont want u guys to keep talking to us we hate u face the fact and if and if ur gonna still stupid slut the bitch if u want trouble u got it bc ur just fucking sad a gay try to be as rad as emoz

  • Okay, so there are a bunch of peopel saying a bunch of different things about cutting and depression and I just wanted to clear a few things up. Depression is caused by a chemical inbalance in ones brain, it's not a choice, truts me. Cutting often happens when a person has this chemical inbalance because it is a way for them to feel something physical. Often times its the only way to feel anything at all. This is a beautiful video, you did an amazing job

  • u aculay have to deal with this situation to know about it ahh i hate it when people think they know all about it but they dont even go through the feeling and wanting to do sucide

  • awh dude this was super sad. ]]]: made me tear up ]]]]:

  • Some People Are Stupidd.... And Selfish Cuz You Dont Get It Hell, Maybe Even I Dont Get It Completely, BUt You Dont Even Try To Understand The Situation All You Assholes Who Think This Is Stupid... Grow Some Balls And Admit That You Feel, Cuz We Know You Do... Dumbasses This Is A Good Cause (: Win The Lottery? Ill Donate(:
  • i love this song

    and this video is so well put together

    if i ever become really rich, this is who i'm donating to, or even not very rich

    =)

  • Fix You

    By Coldplay

  • Does anyone kno the name of this song? is so plz leave a comment!!

  • ive had depression since i was 8 and i used to cut myself. people think that only goth/ emo people cut themselves, but its not true. i had some serious problems. and im glad im better now.

  • If they cut themselves...

    They need | A doctor.

    Lol. No but seriously if you cut yourself go see a doctor because your messed up in the head. "I have nothing to live for!" Bullshit. You have everything to live for. Family, friends, YOUR SAKE. People who actually commit suicide are just pussies and take the easy way out in life. Get help and bear through life, like your parents would have liked you to do. Oh and by the way. IMO the music sucked so badly. Death Metal all the way!

  • you... are a selfish pig. people have some serious problems. be nice.

  • No...I don't think that I am selfish by voicing my opinion. You're right they do have problems... That's why they need to see a doctor. Yeah I have thought about how they felt, and to be honest, I don't get it. It must be a cutter/depression thing. Lol. "Let's mutilate myself so I can feel better!" What kind of logic is that? They do need help.

  • R u seriously tht messed up?

    Dude, Your talking about the people that "need help", Look at yourself.

    Every cruel act is a cry for help.

    btw

    Death Metal is gay.

    Metalcore/experimental/christi­an metalcore is were its at.

    Dont try to act like your so cool.

    These people need help.

    Maybe you should pray for them and do something to help them.They arent pussies, They are lost and need a way back home.

  • loveallanime...

    yeah fuck off.

    you wouldn't have a fucking clue about anything to do with suicide or cutting

    your a fucking wanker who shouldn't be so fucking judgemental

    get over yourself and stop being such a snob

    we know you think that you hard shit so

    just fuck off coz we don't care about how hardcore you really are

    your an asshole and you have no clue

  • hey asshole these people have prblems with there FAMILYS FRIEDNS AND LIFE THERE NOT MESE HESED IN THAD THERE DIEING INSIDE CUZ THEY HAVE NOONE TO SHOW LOVE OR CARE YOU DONT KNOW

  • NOONE ELSE THEN YOU CAN SAY WHERE PUSSIES OR WHERE TAKEN THE EASY WAY OUT SEE IF WE DONT RIPP YOUR FUCKING THROAT OUT DARE YOU BESIDES THIS ASSHOLE this was a very good video if you have depression or anything come tlk to me ill help you threw it

  • wow.

  • my friend, Donna, commited suicide on 5/15/08...she left a note to all of her friends

  • i'm very sorry for your lose. it's stories like those and renee's that want me to reach out to those suffering... i just hope they'll listen. God Bless you!

  • thanks : ]

  • one of my friends committed suicide a couple years ago..i think TWLOHA is a great organazation to help people.

  • Love the video. I tried to commit suicide about two weeks ago. It was the biggest mistake of my life. I tried to do it using pills and unfortunately the rents found out and I was sent to the hospital where I had to drink charcoal to make me vomit and then had all this medicine fed through 2 ivs for the next two days then spent the rest of the week in the phyciatric unit. Now I am completely against suicide now that I have partially recovered but still am wishing i died cause of the consequences

  • yall r stupid this is a great thing for someone to try to save a life

  • It's idiots like you charles1o0 that help people motivate themselves to commit suicide. Self harm is horrible and people always have the potential to rise up from the ashes of their depression. Tolerance and understanding will help these people, not blatant elitism.

  • you are right about people able to come out of their depression. i know someone who has done that, and I am very thankful that they are still living here today.

  • charles1o0

    WAT THA HELL IS RONG WITH YOU!!!!

  • have you ever thought about how they felt? you are an asshole.

  • dude what the fuck is your problem. do you have no friends or something. half the kids that do commit suicide arent emo. how would you feel if your best friend was to commit suicide? have a heart man seriously

  • It just really hurts me to think my parents

    won't understand what i'm feeling if i tell them. i feel they will be ashamed. i pray to god to make this pain i sometimes feel to go away. I hope

  • i feel the same. afraid what they'll say to me

  • This is really nicely done.

    Thanks for making this.

    TWLOHA has my heart :)

  • i never knew anyone cared so much

  • wow.

    i had no clue.

    thanks for opening my eyes.

    i appriciate it.

    Ive loved this band ever since they came to Wichita.

    their amazing and obviously can relate to everyone.

  • bravo. :-) *shows you my tattoo of the word "love" on my forearm*

  • People that make fun of self harm are fucking sick and obviously have no conscience, unless they are hiding their own insecurities.

    I have been self harming for about two years.

    I used to do it every day but I haven't done it for about a couple of months.

    So to all the bullies who make fun of self harm and depression.. just shut the fuck up.

    One day, you may not be in a bright and happy place yourself, and you'll realise the pain you've caused when people start to make fun of you.

  • agreed and it will be there fault

  • This video is amazing.

    I think children and teenagers should definitely be educated more about depression, self harm and suicide, as some people don't realise how serious it is and they laugh and make fun of it, whilst others suffering from depression don't realise that they are not alone and it is possible to get better.

  • This is amazing.

  • oh god

  • nice and beautiful.

    love all the facts.

    helps others to get educated about this.

  • that was so sam i cried.........

  • Wow, stupid people do exist.

    Depression is caused by an imbalance of chemicals in the brain, so people TREAT the imbalance by taking medication.

    If you meant CURABLE you are correct, if you meant treatable you are ignorant.

  • HOW DO I GONE TWLOHA I REALY NEED TO

  • what song is this???

  • "Fix You"- Coldplay.

  • wow! each time i see these videos just wow im so glad some1 is trying 2 help and i say and feel like im like those ppl but i no there problems r worse....

  • Guys, this has NOTHING to do with religion.

    Either way, whether you believe in a god or not, Suicide is never an answer, self infliction is never an answer.

    There are people who want to help you heal no matter who you are or what you believe in.

  • this brought tears to my eyes.

    i lost my best friend to suicide two years on april 10th.

    i wish she knew that she couldve been saved...

    i wish she knew.

  • P.S. i'm talking to the person who said people cutting themselves is funny, if it doesn't show that.

  • this vid is osm chezla.

    I <3 it!

  • Wow. LOVE how stupid you are. people are taking their lives and hurting themselves because they aren't happy. they need help. they don't need people thinking it's funny. they need fucking support. why don't you keep your stupid dumbass comments to yourself you little low life, absurd jerk who only cares about putting others down. loser.

    All right I'm done :]

    BY THE WAY i love TWLOHA more than anything.

  • toggafreggin1..

    ok, im really not a mean person, at all. but i want you to understand why people cut themselfs.

    its because of pain. pain from kids like you, who have nothing better to do with there lives then put their pain on other people and the only way they can excape the pain is cutting...