Reality of a Single Teen Mom- What a Bad Day Looks Like

[mrsjmckenzie11]

I know this video is kinda old, but I just came across it. I'm so sorry that you have this huge weight on your shoulders. But I hope you know that your boy is SO cute and SOOOO smart, because of YOU! NOT because of his slacker dad!! YOU are an AMAZING mom and have a beautiful heart! Caiven is soooo much better off without his slacker dad! You're doing a great job and hope you can keep it up!! :)

[MissSmartyPants2]

Just think of how proud you'll be when Caiven is older and you've made someone so amazing on your own (:

[DontTreadOnHer]

I am 21 years old with a 7 year old & 5 year old. I've been through it all & completely understand! STAY STRONG!! :)

[liz2775]

GOOD DAYS WILL COME . GRAB ON TO WAT U HAVE N WORK FOR UR SON . WEN EVER U FEEL ALON THINK OF UR SON . FUK UR BABY FATHER HE DONT KNOW THE BEUTIFUL N GREAT MOMENTS HE IS MISSIN N ONE DAY . HE WILL REALIZE DOSE MOMENTS R GONE FOR EVER . AM GOIN THREW THE SAME THING . ASWELL INO IS NOT EASY . BUTT U HAVE SOME ONE TO LIVE FOR NOW A REASON TO B BETTER . N STRONG

[AOAOAO1999]

My crushes name is Cody..

[mbriones0000]

keep your head up ans forget that loser... your beautiful and strong. youll be fine..and change that kiddos nake for.the.love...

[blagorjam]

The worst about teens having children is that they name them things like "Caiven"

[Jamgirl2341]

ive never been a teen mom im 20 but i know exactly how u feel to feel alone.. people are so mean saying she need to grow up if they never went through it! what she needs is someone to comfort and be there for her. that guy is an asshole and u seem like ur strong hun. dont give up! When u feel alone know God is always with u. Dont let ur parents let u feel bad about anything.. no one is perfect they made mistakes too. It will Get better. u will be a proud mom.

[xoshadyox]

People DON'T just get over something like this!

We know that she is not the first teen mom, but that doesn't mean that her feelings aren't still valid.

Yes, she does have to find her own way of coping. It's very easy to just tell her what needs to be done. But it will take time, it will take effort and it will take dedication.

It won't just happen after you post a message telling her to move on.

K, THANKS!

[ashleighclancy]

I understand, I am a single teen mum too and I can relate to all of that. -3

[flyingpersiankitten]

hello girl! im sure its tough, but u need to take it bravely. people love bi*ching in public, dont bother! fyi, being in social environment will play a big part in caiven's development of mind. so take him out often. don't get controlled by anyone! do what u think is best for u and caiven. feel proud u could give birth. it will get easier later on. as for cody, chuck him from your life. make him feel unwanted and totally forget about him. its not worth keeping such losers around ur baby!!..<3

[lovevictoriac]

I feel sympathy for you. I get what your parents are saying but yet its almost like they are punishing you with your baby. I kmow they do alot for you and they.probably feel helpless for you becuase they dont know what to say. They cant fix it. I think you are very brave and i wish you the best of luck.

[cloverstar166]

i feel so sorry for you :( if i knew u or lived near you i would baby sit and be your friend :) stay strong

[lizzasexit11]

son. & when you get down plan a weekend out with your friends alone and ask for parents to babysit do that atleast 2 times a month if you can it really does help. Think of him only being your own son and not Cody's. He's only yours'. Your bundle of love.

[lizzasexit11]

(3) Sarting nursing school in september and pretty much took a year off school to raise my daughter ALONE. Something you should be happy about atleast getting is child support. I don't get any child support from him because he does not work legal jobs. Sometimes I think he does that purposely to make my life hard for leaving him. Anyways I only have one kidand I don't need two which is him. Ot feels like you will never change your feelings and the world will end, but time heals all. Enjoy your

[lizzasexit11]

2) irresponsible so I decided to leave him 2 weeks before my daughter was born. I mad the choice not to be with him, but I expected he would fight to get his family back. He was there for the birth and what not, but his true attitude showed when I was at my parents and he had to live on his own. He didn't come around or message me for a good month. It took me 8 months to get over him and today I can say I breath easily and am exctied to meet someone new. I am still going to school

[lizzasexit11]

1)This situation happens. Not just to teens, but to older women too. I am 20 and had my daughter in your mother's age. I was in a common in a law relationship because I was living with her father and we were together for 3 years. In the end when I got pregnant he was excited, but things got progressively worse as he began to go out more with his friends and leave me home and alone and began slacking off in his job. We got an eviction notice under the door and that;s when I knew he was too

[111cartel]

totally understand how your feeling....not many people can do what you do!

[shannonescapethefate]

i feel for you girl <3 god bless you

[Memelisciousxoxox]

1. I love love love love LOVE your make up! How did you do it?

2. This is just sad how a person can do that to another part of them self, meaning his father could just live life like he's a burden. But if it makes you feel better, you know how happy you get when you see his achievements? cody will NEVER feel that joy. His life is going to be miserable if not it already is.

[yardiechick1276]

Caiven's Dad is a douchebag -__-

[SuperVroni80]

Oh sorry i met Caiven's dad....

[SuperVroni80]

I am sorry that you have to go through this stuff at this young age. Forget about Cody's dad...he's not worth the tears. Try to enjoy your life with your cute little boy and make new friends. Good luck !!

[nitroctaylor]

your parents are right you shouldn't of have unprotected sex with a boy and, to top it off who you don't even know.

[blondelilbunny]

I think this is good better than teen mom which glorifys it.. I am a mom and was a single teen mom and I know these days,

[TheAkemiTenshi]

I think u would appreciate my video, it's on my channel titled Sh*t Parents Dont Say!

[NakitaK1]

wow this video really touches me this is my first time watching one of ur vids I hope n pray things get better for u I honestly do!! good luck with everything sweety :-) keep ur head up

[youare4everloved]

i completely understand all of this. trust me. its ok to feel however you feel. i have a million words of support, but just keep your head up, things will work out for you. you will come to love yourself again.

[karah0bug]

God bless you -3

[msliuba]

watch teen mom :) it makes me feel better :)

[TheDramaticAttic]

(5) I’m not going to play the “my life is worse game” but you really just don’t understand how good you have it considering the situation us young moms put ourselves in. And I really hope you don’t have to experience some of the things I have to realize how good you have it.

[TheDramaticAttic]

(4)And the fact you said “I don’t have him for anything but child support” really pissed me off. Because while you are getting support (even if it’s 5 dollars) some single parents are trying to support their child(ren) on one income and be 2 parents emotionally AND financially. You really need to realize what you have before it’s gone...

[TheDramaticAttic]

(3)You are wasting this little person’s childhood if you spend it like you say you are spending it here, depressed. I don’t know you so don’t think I’m saying you’re a bad mom. Because if you are supporting your child like you say you are, it’s obvious you’re a good mom but you are putting too much emphasis on “having someone”. You have your mom and family. Hell, that’s WAY more than some young single parents have...

[TheDramaticAttic]

(2)When you start feeling like this you need to realize that you are sitting in your vehicle (that you have a car) while someone that helps support you watches your child while you get your eyebrows done. I don’t know you and I don’t know your life but I don’t really blame your parents for thinking you are a little ungrateful because if you let this eat you up then you seem like you don’t even notice the good things you have...

[TheDramaticAttic]

(1)First of all I completely understand feeling lonely. I get it. I get that you were having a bad day. I understand it really sucks but I really hope you focus on the good too. I know sometimes it’s really hard and sometimes you have to just get it out, BUT you need to understand that it could be SO much worse...

[lovelysacha]

At the end of the day, Cavien is gonna be the "victim" here. The tears you cry, is never gonna do this situation better. I promies u girl. Thats what I´ve learned. Don´t get me wrong here. I dont wanna be rude AT ALL.. Its just for u, and for your family. One day, you will regret EVERYTING u didn´t do with ur son. And guess what, Cody is not gonna be there anyway, and he will never give u and Caiven the time back, to let u guys do the things u wished u did! Stay positive.. I believe in you! <3

[mebigkid]

In other words, she made up the story and then pretended to do the things for the camera.

[leilanibezona]

It is ok to get excited over your childs milestones, my sister has had 2 kids and she still gets excited over each of them.

[gummybear3410]

Girl, dont give up on ur baby girl. ur a brave lassssxxx

[ThickMadame2985]

As much as your situation sucks, you need to stop having a pity party! Forget about the past and what didn't happen cuz EVERYTHING happens for a reason. Enjoy every moment with you child and don't deprive him or take things out on him intentional or not he didn't ask to be born. Maybe you should find someone you can confine(professionally maybe) cuz if mommy is not happy, it does affect baby. Whatever you decide DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF OR BABY.

[NoAhJaYsMaMa]

Aww I think its so brave of you to share your story I'm kind of a teen mom I'm 19 and have a 4 month old son and even though me and my babys father are together I still feel like a single mom he always works and you would think that would be a good thing but he spends all his money on fancy things for his cars, idon't have many friends nemore either but just know your not alone and plenty of people under stand. Just stay positive and tell your self that your son is going to have a strong mother

[ukejuke100]

honey child you need to get over this now! you are not the first girl to be a single teen mom! time to grow up and move on! start getting out and meeting other people!

[leahbbateman]

@ukejuke100 Thank God someone said what we're all thinking!

[chelsea54470]

i love this video! my name is chelsea and i am also a teen mom. i feel exactly the same, word for word and i have times were i feel just like this were i just wanna cry an cry! being a single teen mom is very hard. i have the same situation with my ex/babies dad. i have a 22month old lil gurl named zayla, i got pregnant at the age of 15. and she is my world! an im sure you feel the same about caiven..just keep your chin up hun!

[MyAni1980]

you are amazing and very smart girl:)) Life is not always fair but you are doing the best of it.. Great job!!!

[imabusysinglemom]

Try not to focus on what you don't have (Cody) and focus on what you do have. You have what it takes to move forward on your own - you have a loving supportive family and friends and believe me when I say that is all that matters. Any other relationship will just get in your way. Your son doesn't need two parents but he does need loving family which it seems like you have. If your mom is willing to help then let her-focus on getting an education and one day you will be able to provide for her

[Audiomuse]

You are such an inspiration.. Stay strong Sarah.

[ashleyjackson61993]

Hi, my name is Ashley and I'm also a teen mom. I got pregnant at 17 and had my little boy, Preston, when I was 18. Preston is now 4 months old and things for me are hard, too. Just like you I had unprotected sex with someone I didn't really know. Teens make such stupid mistakes, don't they? However, Preston's dad and I have been able to make things work. We've now been together for a year and counting. I just want to say that this video is very moving! Thank you for posting it and get well hun:)

[AquaPrincess6]

What your going through is just temporal, i believe your a gud mom and you hve been blessed with a wonderful son, one day u will find that special guy that was always meant for you and ur going to be happy. Dont let ur ex ruin ur life or make u feel alone, u are not alone. My mom told me when my dad died and she felt all alone in this world sometimes thought abt killing herself she will always remember theres one person who will always be there(her kids). U hve ur son by ur side.

[MissQueenTheFab]

I'm married,21 and it really hard for me too!

[twoproudmoms]

Have you ever considered extended rear-facing??

[shellymellyful]

I want to tell u how proud I am of u. This video made me cry with u, it showed me how strong of a person u truely are. Life throws some amazing curveballs and we grow and learn from each one.I know you can push through all this and you'll be the best mother ever.No one is perfect, my mother even said, being an adult parent, it was hard.its all normal sweetheart. take a deep breath and do it one day at a time. you'll reflect back when you're older and realize just how amazing you really are.

[carileann8909]

You are beautiful and a great mommy. Dont let cody affect you like this. Your son will grow up way better with out him. Stay strong(: ur an inspiration!

[go19huskies]

im not a mother, but most of my friends have had babies at a younger age and almost all of them are single parents and ive never had so much respect for younger women or single mothers like you. you are very strong and i hope nothing but the best for you and Caiven!

[deaconsmom2000]

You're not alone Sarah, I've been living this way for 15 years. My daughter turned out great despite her father's abscence. Don't be too hard on yourself! All parents become frustrated at times, and a lot of moms are depressed. I hope you tell your parents about your depression so you can all work together to get your head in a good place. Don't try to be the perfect Mommy, that's a myth - just be the perfect Mommy for Caiven. Best to you sweetie. :D

[Mommy2Alaina]

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I'm sure people have said this to you before but really I do. I'm going through the same exact thing as you. My baby's father is just like yours exactly like him. I know it sucks!! This whole video I was like "me too" "same" lol. If you ever need anyone to talk to girl I'm here!

[TheSmlth]

im a guy and cody sound like the biggest self centered wanker in the world, i cant sympathise with him at all

[xmsxlovelyx]

stay strong honey <3

[marliesas]

@ nflpanthers07: dont forget that it is not just her baby...it is the baby of someone else too...and Sarah's complaint is not about having had the baby, but about not havingthe support of this someone else! ... I'm sorry you're the daft one around nflpanthers07

[marliesas]

you're a great mother

[marliesas]

@ nflpanthers07: ...shame on you to have said such a comment!!!...such a comment shows your lack of humanity!!!

[marliesas]

You are such a strong person and a beautiful soul!!! xxx

[EllaPaigesMommy2011]

We all have our bad days. I am 21 and a mother or a 9 month old little girl and there are days where I just want to stay in bed but then I look at her face and she gives me a big smile and starts to say mama.

[Alleykay1991ily]

Awh hun...I just want to hug you. I kind of relate with my nephew. My sister is bi-polar and lives at home. Well she has a 1 1/2 yr old little boy. I love my nephew to death. I do so much for him. I do things she should be doing. Me and my Nana are raising Cayden. There's days I feel like a single mom and days I don't wanna get up because I know I'll have to take care of him. I feel like he's my son not my nephew. So I kind of relate.

[nflpanthersO7]

maybe you shouldn't of fucked. isnt that hard to wait till marriage. dumb whore.

[BHSGuruLosAngelesHD3]

The guy is an idiot. Your child deserves the best. Raise your child like if that child would be your last. You're an inspiration to EVERYONE.

[ThePadavissie]

You are doing a AMAZING thing to care about him so much.... i do not want to say job becoz looking after them isnt a job (",)... Look on the bright side it could always be worse.... here i am, i live on my own, single, same baby daddy situation and have to work full time... no family and no friends..... and i was at a point of just giving up...... THIS VIDEO GAVE ME A WILL TO BE MORE, TO BE MY LITTLE ONES EVERYTHING... XXXXX

[AlbaAon]

(2) It sounds like finding other moms to talk to might be helpful to you and maybe even helpful to other moms who are in the same sort of situation that you are in.

[AlbaAon]

(1) Are there any "young mom groups" in yr area that you could look into? I dont know where yu live, but I am pregnant & live in Canada & we have "Early Years Centers". It's a free drop in group for moms & babies. They have a library, toy library etc. I know it doesn't replace Caivin's dad. But the things you want to share with Cody and your family are normal things that moms NEED to talk about! (the joys of raising a child, the milestones, the stressors, the alone feeling etc).

[AlbaAon]

You are so sweet and honest and pretty. I enjoy your videos. I am so sorry you are having to go through this alone. It made me feel sad just to watch this. I know it must be hard because you and Cody were so close and he is Caivin's dad. But you are a really such a likable person and can do so much better than what he is putting you through. Good luck to you.

[darandleny]

P.s if ppl stare say f.u and have a nice day

[darandleny]

Ur a perfect mom , i.would be ur friend too if you lived close to me : )......u r amazing

[branada2010]

ive watched alot of ur videos but i like them i dnt no y but i just wanted to say that ur a good mom n not to be so blunt but forget him u dnt need him ur a great mom honestly jus from a couple of the videos i saw ur great with ur baby

i hope things get better for u ... io have a baby that is 7 mnths n there r days u jus feel like this n it good to jus let it out

[floflallie]

This made me cry.

[bonnieetom]

i feel you sista ! i have an 11 week old and her father bailed on us .. i moved back to tennessee and am living with my father ... my mother is not in our lives due to her drinking .. i totally understand

[SheikhTaqiyyameister]

You're a brave and beautiful woman, Sarah. You'll be fine. Plus, you have Caiven, right? You're fine.

I can't make this video. I still know a couple of guys from back in the day. Guys bust balls mercilessly.

You made one single stupid mistake when you were 16. I made a thousand mistakes, the same damn one, over and over and over.

You'll be fine. Imagine how much more tired you would be if you were 40! 3x more!

You're beautiful. You'll be fine. Trust me.

Prayer can help. Just sayin'.

[Babyfullable]

I understand . I feel the same way to a certain extent because in still pregnant

[teenmommmy2011]

i got a comment talking about how teen mom videos are supporting teens getting pregnant which is insane! being alone is one of the worst things.. my son doesnt have a father like u said it was someone i didnt really know & ended up getting pregnant by. doesnt care about his son at all & has never seen his son never or asks about him he hasnt contacted me since the very moment i got pregnant. i dream of a guy that loves me and carter so carter can have what he truly deserves hang in there(:

[SheikhTaqiyyameister]

@teenmommmy2011 'being alone is one of the worst things.. my son doesnt have a father like u said it was someone i didnt really know & ended up getting pregnant by.'

He will. They say it happens when you least expect it.

Look at older guys. Boys in your own age group have their own stupid shit they think they need to do. Babies are not involved in that scheme of things.

If you are 18 with a baby, that makes you 40 in guy years.

Your high school friends are finished.

Ummm.... Go to church?

[amy1w1]

My Mum was a single Mum and she said the same thing to me about being upset that no-one else appreciates the small achievements that she found so amazing and how lonely that made her feel. It's so sad xx but I promise you you'll get what she got at the end of it, which is a massively thankful daughter! (Though for you it'll be son of course :P)

[Sarahpeluso92]

Talk mama we love you. And love to listen. It feels better to talk. And we understand. I have been there and I know your loss of words. Your a spectacular mom!!!!!! I would love to see another one of thease heart to hearts. I know you have a lot but if you would love a internet bud I have 2 kids 2 baby daddys and im 19. I fully understand.

[Mscocosexi]

F^%$ HIM U HEAR ME F&^%$ him you dont need him at the end of the day your lil man is going to grow up and confront that loser him self

[Stephie3242]

Heey darling, your not alone x

My daughters father wasnt there for me before and after i had Ailey, i know exactly how you feel. But us mothers can be there for eachother, support eachother and learn from eachother. And even though he isnt there for you, you've done an amazing job raising your son x

[Stephie3242]

@Stephie3242 And also, your story nearly matches mine exactly, with little changes.

[tosstobeboss]

watching you on the verge of tears and hearing all this made me cry and im not even going through it :(

[TheMadnessOfLAndM]

Watching this video just made me realize how difficult it must be to be a teen parent I always watch videos and teen mom on tv and I don't know on tv it doesn't seem real but watching this was like wow... I thought it would be great to be a teen mother but you have made me realize that it's not always that easy so thank you ! you're an amazing mother I've seen all your videos :) and Caiven is so lucky to have such a great mom ! :)

[glitterfamous88]

Aww Hun I'm losted for words. If u need someone to talk to I can listen I have watched your video all the time. U r a great mother.

[karenrization]

I wish I was closer to you I would help you out....you are so right and you have EVERY right to feel like this, It is hard to be a teen Mom, these are the things that we don't know about when we get pregnant......I was a teen Mom and I know where you are coming from HUGE (((((hugs)))))

[sterotypedfatexo]

I've talked to you on facebook before.. I'm the one who gave my daughter up for adoption. And you were saying you were crying because Cody wouldn't anwser when you were in labor and stuff.. and I just related to that so much.. Cause thats exactly what the father of my baby did to me, said he would be there for her.. and then wasn't.. I'm so sorry hunny <3

[sterotypedfatexo]

I've talked to you on facebook before.. I'm the one who gave my daughter up for adoption. And you were saying you were crying because Cody wouldn't anwser when you were in labor and stuff.. and I just related to that so much.. Cause thats exactly what the father of my baby did to me, said he would be there for her.. and then wasn't.. I'm so sorry hunny <3

[Stephanieexxo]

your beautiful! dont let people get you down xxx

[amnerd]

Btw I'm now 21 & my babies r 5 & 3 :) they're my pride ~& joy and their dad is totally missing out

[amnerd]

Mandjandc STFU!!!! Awe sarah I know what ur talking bout I had my son when I was 15 & my daughter when I was z17 their father is heavily into drugs and I've done it on my own the whole time :"( till this day I sometimes feel I can't do it anymore or they deserve better but I can't change their dad & the only way I get threw it is accepting our lives as it is and continue to do the best I can do for them u learn to be okay with doing it on your own and it does get better chin up ,:) ,

[mandjandc]

Eh you really should of given up caiven for adoption :( I'm sorry. Its not to late.

[ElegantlyBrown]

@mandjandc this coming from a mom? why dont you give your own son up for adoption...its not too late for you!

[kvebe002]

[continued] Your video made me cry along with you because I can relate so strongly with you. It's so hard. It's like we have people "there" but they aren't THERE. Remember feeling like this is completely normal and ok - your SUCH a good mom to be feeling this way because it means you care about your child. I love you and stay strong! Your such an inspiration for me.

[kvebe002]

As hard as it is, I think making these kinds of videos is really beneficial for yourself as well as the people who watch your videos! I , like you, try to not sugar coat anything. Life is not easy - especially when you get pregnant young. I don't even have my little boy yet and I'm struggling. I can relate to you soo much because I know in a few months.. I will be in your shoes. I'm already depend on my mom to be the "person I don't have" just like you! I also have like one or two good friends -

[foxridingchicks]

I can totally relate. Exactly what I'm going through. Thank you for sharing something so personal, helps to know someone else is going through the same thing and I'm not the only one. Xoxo

[20KRISTEN]

I definately relate. Thx for sharing!

[sechurch619]

Sarah, being a teen mom is hard. I had my daughter when I was 15. It was hard being alone. I had my parents and my sister but like you said it is not the same. I also had days where I did not want to do anything. Now I look back at that point in my life and I can not believe that I got trough it. My daughter is going to be 13 in a month, Her father has not seen or talked to her since July. He has his own life and she is not a big of his life. Keep your head up and You are a great mom.

[sballbrat10]

Have you though about going and seeing a someone to sit down and talk about this stuff. Maybe a support group. It help me a lot when my life got rough.

[tosstobeboss]

i love your vids but they are SO LONGGGG! but i still love them:) but they're really long..

[BeingDavidsMommy]

And I go through the being lonely...Sometimes I sit and I am so proud of David and other times I start thinking what if I am not enough?, does he deserve more?, and honestly I start to doubt what I am doing. Its nice to know others have the same feelings. I dont know many people who are honest enough to admit that things can be hard

[BeingDavidsMommy]

I can relate to this on so many levels...its actually kind of crazy. Being a single mom from the start is empowering but tough and I have to live with my parents as well. I love my son so much but some days are really hard all alone....

[Karatekween218]

I thought this was a great video! You showed us what you really feel like sometimes and that helps a lot of people in the same situation. With most teen parent stories, we don't see the bad side.

[ReillyAJ]

i'm sorry you had a bad day. i hope tomorrow is better!

[cami805]

Im 27 with 2 kids and married and still have that lonely feeling I can only imagine how u feel... Ur son is the most important thing and ur doing just fine so keep ur head up dont let life get u too down..

[Meganshamblin]

Your so strong and amazing. Keep it up. Never give up on caiven. You don't need cody, you don't need someone like that in your life. Karma will get him back, be sure of that. It always does. Just keep it up, one day you will find that other someone who will love not only you but caiven too.

[awowk7]

You're amazing. My mom was a single mom, she was my everything, my mom and dad. I'm moved out now and she's still my everything. When I have a problem or when I have something really good happen, she's my first call every time. She's like my best friend that's not a friend haha. Anyway, you're video totally just made me cry cuz I appreciate so much more what my mom had to go through when she was raising me... now I wish I hadn't been such a pain in the ass... anyways thanks for this =).

[ablhugsbugs]

i give u 2 thumbs up ur doing amazing! stay strong pretty girl. i love ur channel. check me out! our little one is here! she is perfect...she is my niece whom we will have custody of :)

[CavyTube]

Sarah you are doing a great job, you are showing the negative sides of being a Teen Mom which most Teen Mom youtubers don't talk about because they are scared people will think they are bad parents, which of course isn't true. Keep your head up <3

[KeyLimePiee14]

I'm not a mother, but I would just like you to know that I think you are so inspiring. I know that if I was a mother at your age (which I am your age, btw) that I don't think I could do it. You inspire me so much. You are so strong and you seem like such a wonderful person.

[NemosPhotography]

Massive hugs Sarah. x

[felishaandjacob]

your a strong girl sarah i hope things get better for you <3

[mommy062010]

sarah...i know how you feel about not wanting to go out because you hate feeling alone...even though you have caiven. i feel stupid all the time. but i wish i could be a really good parent that takes jovi out to really cool fun places...but ugh....im gonna shut up..just call me or text me...

[mellymell0810]

Look at it this way, for all the things your baby's father hasn't done, your son will appreciate and thank YOU twice as much because your the only parent that's been there for him. Keep your head up.

[mizzbgrizzle09]

DO NOT feel stupid about getting excited over caiven doing something new! Those are milestones in his life that you have EVERY rite to be excited about!

[cfpurplestarz]

You're awesome, the fact that you're doing it by yourself is so strong of you. I have a boyfriend and I'm 21 and even I have days like that. Where I don't feel like playing with my son much or I feel like just laying in bed all day. I'm just so exhausted of being a mom and it's tough because I can't just walk away. You're not alone, I promise. I'm friends with you on your fb page(Carmen Frausto) if you ever need anyone to talk to please message me. I love talking to other moms about this kind o

[AndHerNameWasTaylor]

You know what I love about you Sarah? You are so REAL. I watch gabeandjesss and like her but she really only shows the good, fun and happy times. You show the emotions behind closed doors of a single teen mother! I am in pretty much the exact same boat as you. This video made me cry not out of sadness but because I realized I'm not alone in feeling this way. I have days almost EXACTLY like this. In my life, I only have my mom and my son. We just have to stay strong for our little boys :)

[ellie5way]

Stranger, or not, I'm here for you.

You really are strong for enduring this.

I don't even have a child, but I understand what you're saying.

I hope you're having a better day. You have my support.

[aubzxx]

I approve of the title. And text me.

[CrispNoodles]

Aw :( I feel so bad... Jeez :(

[PocketMonsterKawaii]

You are such a strong girl!

[MsNerdyGrad]

just be strong!!

[phanny909]

"god dosent give you anything u cant handle"always remember that. keep up the good work! i understand u completely. just enjoy life even when its hard.

[alexisclaire7]

you should start a makeup channel and become a guru, really!! i always love your makeup so much i'd love to see tutorials and your favorite products

[armyfamily103]

Its always hard having support from people but not someone to rely on. I understand the difference.

[XBexxehKitteh]

keep going, you're an amazing mum! you are so strong, and i know it may seem hard now, but it will get better! when caiven grows up, hes going to appreciate everything you done for him and will do for him in future and he will be so happy to have such an amazing mum like you!

[MizMandaa]

Your amazing, seriously. Just because your parents have experienced already having children and seeing them reach their milestones, I don't see why they still don't get happy and excited. He is their grandchild and most grandparents I see are just as excited if not more excited to see all this fun stuff happening. Try to not let it get to you. Your doing an amazing job, a lot better then I could probably do.

[ilianaceballos]

I know exactly what ur going thru im a 21 year old mom to a 15 month old baby boy i have been tru most of what u mentioned im so sorry ur feeling so lonely..ur not alone in this if you need a friend msg me...i hope things get better for you!.u really deserve it..

[StephEricax]

You deserve so much! :(

you have such a beautiful personality,

i know your tired, but its so worth it!

xxx

[kmbrlyu]

I know exactly what you're going through, because I'm going through it, too. I agreed with everything you said. Stay strong! :)

[LindsandBaby]

I love you Sarah. I wish I could make it better. You are an awesome person and don't dare feel guilty for feeling so proud of him. YOUUUUUUU are responsible for every new thing he does. YOU! You are amazing! Someday someone amazing is going to come into your life and they are going to be soooo lucky. I <3 you. We have more in common than you will ever know.

[wierdo120492]

ik u dont know me, but i have been watching your videos for awhile now, and i think you are an amazing mommy :) you give other girls the inspiration to be able to deal with the extremly difficult situations with being a teen mom. it is ok to be depressed sometimes because u are human, nd crying kinda can be a release for your emotions. but overall i think i can speak for most of us here, your a great person and mommy and we believe in you :)

[BianchaColeBabyA]

Me & Aiden are here for you, whenever you need to vent we can hang out, and the boys can again to. I'm sorry youre going through this, but we will be there for you. I promise.

[aprilc0t]

You're so strong, Sarah. I'm sorry that you have to go through this alone. I know you have your parents and your brother, but like you said, it's not the same. Thank God Caiven has you. He has an incredible mom. He knows that now and he always will. I know it's still upsetting. I wish it wasn't. I just hope you realize how brave you are.

[msbeba1992]

You have a right to feel the way u do considering everything uve been through. But even though its difficult try to look at the bright side of things hes urs & at the end of the day the relationship u have with ur son is UNBREAKABLE! And its better that his dad isnt in his life if all hes gonna cause him is pain with his actions. Feel better Im here for u if anything!

[countrymusicfan85]

I think you are an amazing mom. My parents have four grandsons and a granddaughter on the way, they are excited with each accomplishment that each child has. I am so sorry that your parents dont feel that way, just know that you are an amazing mom, being a teen or not.

[michellenn93]

You're going to find a great man who really appreciates you and everything you've done, and everything you've been through. Cody is a BOY. And when this MAN comes along he will realize that this is the type of woman that he wants to be with forever, for so many reasons. You'll find the right guy eventually. =)

[MsCopper89]

Be proud that your so strong going through all this! And it shows your Real! Lifes so far from perfect but your still managing, that's the best anyone can do

[michellenn93]

And I wish we were still together because she deserves the best, both parents loving her. I wish we had atleast tried to be together and I have tried to do that but he wont. But what she doesnt deserve is to have her father going in and out of her life as he pleases not caring about how it effects her. So thats something for you to think about.. And Caiven looks up to you so much and he always will. He'll always know how strong his mother is and thats something to be proud of.

[michellenn93]

Im not even half way through the video, Im at 06:18. And the father of my daughter did the same thing. He wouldnt tell anyone that he had a child. Shes 11 months old now and NO ONE in his family knows.. His friends dont know either. He told his girlfriend but that was only for the "boo whoo"s and "poor me"s.. I dont even know if she actually does know. Hes never seen her. I encourage him to still to this day, and he says he will but he hasnt. Ive even offered to get him a ride over.

[felishaandjacob]

@michellenn93

i feel so bad for you =[

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