Just finished reading Meredith's book "Untied" last night which I totally recommend. I loved, loved, loved it! Kudos to her for having the courage to come out and be who she was meant to be... I wish her the best of luck. I grew up as a young child in the 80's watching her on "Family Ties" and now I'm so pleased to see her true to life character. Meredith, from one lesbian to another, congrats! ;)
"... a kind of awakening ... difficulty in connecting with men in relationships... I assumed I was a bad picker ... it never occurred to me that it was me ... ok, ok, I see, I get it, fine... I think I'm gay / I knew (eldest son) ... I want it to be in my own words...thanks Matt, thanks for being the guy..."
Samc023, I managed to find a bit of info on Loulan. I know of women, who once have fallen in love with a woman, but are straight and keep being straight in their attractions and this is different than being bisexual. Loulan has the right to define herself. I understand what she's saying.
Samc023, Heche isnt a douchebag because she is bisexual, she is a douchebag regardless of that. You cant decide for Baxter what she feels, you can only go by what she says about herself and from there draw a conclusion. You have to listen to what she says, her OWN words, not what you think she says or feels. I dont know Joanna Loulan, and each person is unique, so you cant compare people.
Anne heche is just a douche bag... She's fuckin physco. U don't remember when she went crazy n said she was "abducted by aliens" but still she can be consider bi because she is both attracted to women (Ellen) and men (whatever poor bastered that is with her now)
Just because she was married to a man and now she is seeing women doesn't mean she's bi, yea she was atracted to men before, but she found herSelf and she had relized she is no longer attracted to men anymore which means she's a lesbian
Does it really matter what she labels herself, that is her choice to call herself a lesbian. She would know who and what she really is. Though I don't agree you just turn gay, she wasn't attracted to them, she never said she was.
But who are you to say what she should label herself, you say it doesn't matter but definitely seem to have an issue with it. If she says lesbian then just except it. I honestly don't she why you even care.
Samc023, please Google these exact words 'Why Women Like Meredith Baxter Come Out at Midlife' to find an article on more(.)com. You might understand better after reading it, why she (and other women) calls herself a lesbian and is one. After her knowing for 7 years she prefers women, I doubt applying the word 'experimental' to herself is in any sense logical.
Samc023. Heche is obviously a douchebag (something psychologically not right with her), but apart from that she is bisexual because she is obviously still attracted to men after Ellen. Baxter is not (for as far as we know), hence she is gay. She calls herself a lesbian which means she is not attracted to men. Its all very simple really.
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she's not gay she's bisexual. you dont just wake up and go from straight to gay or gay to straight. she said she was attracted to men after being married three times. you dont just lose attraction to one gender. you can gain attraction but you dont lose attraction.
She's not bisexual... she's a lesbian. She was married with children because that's what she thought she was supposed to do. She said she had difficulty connecting with men, but it never occurred to her that she was gay.
She is not bisexual, being bisexual is not about being with/marrying a man, it's about being attracted to them. She wasn't attracted to them, therefore she is a lesbian. Not that it matters, I'm bisexual and there's nothing wrong with that. But Meredith is a lesbian, as she never said she was attracted to her husbands.
yes I am going to say that as she herself said she felt no connection to them. As she never said she was attracted to any of them, by connection she means attraction.
It does make sense if your in denial. Some people are so in denial, that they consciously won't admit their gay till their forced to by a powerful attraction or something similar. She's in her 60's, so for her marrying a man was the done thing, she probably didn't really think about the reason she wasn't attracted to them and may have assumed that was normal, if she didn't know any different. Being married to someone don't make you straight or bi. If she says she;s gay, then she is.
If you think that's never happened then your being naive. Ever thought why she's been married so many times, is because she couldn't find what she was looking for with those men. And what she was looking for was a connection and an attraction.
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I LOVE Meredith Baxter & wish her ALL the BEST; but you have to wonder whether the change in her sexual orientation came about after being on "Jenny Craig" too long OR eating one too many "Little Debbie" late night snacks!
It took you 2 months to construct that reply. Man I don't give a rats that you're gay dude, as long as you're happy. But if you wanna find yourself a fella, you might need to get a bit quicker on the uptake.
PS Don't forget the SP30+, because you won't be wearing too much - or so I hear ;)
All I could think of was, how insensitive of Matt Lauer to mention the B-movie thing to the most obvious B-movie actress in the whole wide world. But good for Meredith though, I mean better late than never right?
Being gay is not a disease. Hate and bigotry are the worst of all diseases. I am not surprised or shocked that Ms. Baxter is gay. I hope her career is not adversely affected by her honesty.
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20 year later you tell us that you are Lesbian...Who f**king cares thes days. I say if are waht you are keep it to your self, why I have to hear this Bull shit on my TV,,,She's Aa lesbian! You want that much attention go where all the lesbians go and tell that to them. If i was a former actor and told the world I had sex with over 20 thousands women and used a condom every time and I 'm married, do you think anyone would care. "KEEP IT TO YOURSELF, I DON'T WANT TO NOW IF YOUR GAY"
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I don't mean to be mean, but I have to wonder if she did this because lesbians are much less picky about looks than straight men. At this woman's age, I think it would have been hard for her to find a lot of admirers.
I love her acting. =:)
gordogreat74 7 months ago
she went to dark side..and now my sex dreams are even better with her......
martti1 7 months ago
This explains a lot.
schroeder8911 9 months ago
Just finished reading Meredith's book "Untied" last night which I totally recommend. I loved, loved, loved it! Kudos to her for having the courage to come out and be who she was meant to be... I wish her the best of luck. I grew up as a young child in the 80's watching her on "Family Ties" and now I'm so pleased to see her true to life character. Meredith, from one lesbian to another, congrats! ;)
Fandemonium100 9 months ago
r there any lesbo tapes with her?
CumInAsses 10 months ago
@CumInAsses you're a loser.
Odette321 9 months ago
@Odette321 i wouldn't be if i could find lesbo tapes with her in it!!! haha
CumInAsses 9 months ago
Michael Gross and her share the exact same birthday, June 21, 1947 wow;)
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Her anxiety is born from a nagging fear that we give a shit....
We don't.
thepheoniix 1 year ago
meh. in my opinion, i dont regard this as a big deal.
conradxu 1 year ago
Jeesh.. haven't seen her in anything since 'Family Ties'.
When'd she get her hair cut?
oelergodt 1 year ago
yay for her
firewolf222 1 year ago
oh no oh god no she is a lesbian!
as if i would care....
Who is she again?
Skorpi00007 2 years ago
Did you watch TV in the 80's?
NukeIt2Bdone 2 years ago
80's? No, but i watch tv about the 80's but what does it matter?
Skorpi00007 2 years ago
@Skorpi00007 You asked who Meredith was. Anybody who watched television in the 1980's knows who she is.
NukeIt2Bdone 2 years ago
A kind of awakening ........
Her struggle with her comfort level and disclosing is clear and even something greater to admire.
A wonderful and joyous sense of humour from a very honest woman.
Thanks Meredith.
tippngthevelvet 2 years ago 5
I agree, its not like she is deciding to be lesbian, she is now realizing that she is a lesbian. Like you said, and awakening
tibettetheridgefan 2 years ago 4
Dammitt Meredith, why oh why could you have found out 30 years earlier!!! Would have been so hot
Sonovox01 2 years ago 2
no it wouldn't...then FT would have flopped and MJF would not have been able to go back to the future
corrupt200 2 years ago
Congratulations Meredith, eloquently spoken.
"... a kind of awakening ... difficulty in connecting with men in relationships... I assumed I was a bad picker ... it never occurred to me that it was me ... ok, ok, I see, I get it, fine... I think I'm gay / I knew (eldest son) ... I want it to be in my own words...thanks Matt, thanks for being the guy..."
A respectful and insightful interview from Matt.
wadjela 2 years ago 7
Samc023, I managed to find a bit of info on Loulan. I know of women, who once have fallen in love with a woman, but are straight and keep being straight in their attractions and this is different than being bisexual. Loulan has the right to define herself. I understand what she's saying.
summersonset 2 years ago
Samc023, Heche isnt a douchebag because she is bisexual, she is a douchebag regardless of that. You cant decide for Baxter what she feels, you can only go by what she says about herself and from there draw a conclusion. You have to listen to what she says, her OWN words, not what you think she says or feels. I dont know Joanna Loulan, and each person is unique, so you cant compare people.
summersonset 2 years ago
I'm for equal rights for ALL as I believe in liberty & justice for all in a FREE Country.
I must admit I also thought Ann Heche was BISEXUAL from the start when she showed up with Ellen ON Oprah with one leg shaved.
mavrek47 2 years ago
Just my opinon. She may have thought she loved those men. I think it was more fear to come out then anything.
flashdancebabe 2 years ago
Anne heche is just a douche bag... She's fuckin physco. U don't remember when she went crazy n said she was "abducted by aliens" but still she can be consider bi because she is both attracted to women (Ellen) and men (whatever poor bastered that is with her now)
tibettetheridgefan 2 years ago
Just because she was married to a man and now she is seeing women doesn't mean she's bi, yea she was atracted to men before, but she found herSelf and she had relized she is no longer attracted to men anymore which means she's a lesbian
tibettetheridgefan 2 years ago
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So what does that make Anne Heche? If she's been married
to 3 different men, but jumps into a relationship with a
woman, why wouldn't she qualify as bi-sexual? why do
people consider Anne Heche bi-sexual, but Baxter is
lesbian?
Samc023 2 years ago
Does it really matter what she labels herself, that is her choice to call herself a lesbian. She would know who and what she really is. Though I don't agree you just turn gay, she wasn't attracted to them, she never said she was.
xxRainbow1978xx 2 years ago 2
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"Does it really matter what she labels herself"
I never said it did matter, she can label herself whatever
she likes, but it would have been safer for her to label
herself unsure or experimental. A person isn't going to
purposely get into 3 marriages with men she didn't find
appealing at all, once? sure, twice? maybe, but 3 times?
add this to the fact that she conveniently has a book
coming out too.
Samc023 2 years ago
But who are you to say what she should label herself, you say it doesn't matter but definitely seem to have an issue with it. If she says lesbian then just except it. I honestly don't she why you even care.
xxRainbow1978xx 2 years ago 2
Samc023, please Google these exact words 'Why Women Like Meredith Baxter Come Out at Midlife' to find an article on more(.)com. You might understand better after reading it, why she (and other women) calls herself a lesbian and is one. After her knowing for 7 years she prefers women, I doubt applying the word 'experimental' to herself is in any sense logical.
summersonset 2 years ago
Samc023. Heche is obviously a douchebag (something psychologically not right with her), but apart from that she is bisexual because she is obviously still attracted to men after Ellen. Baxter is not (for as far as we know), hence she is gay. She calls herself a lesbian which means she is not attracted to men. Its all very simple really.
summersonset 2 years ago
Everyone is coming out the closet...now in every family there is either 1 or more gay member...new genaration and let them be....
MixDrinkz21 2 years ago 2
Face it fans she's a full blown lesbian, there is nothin wrong with that just another one to the team right girls
tibettetheridgefan 2 years ago 3
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How is she a full blown lesbian? wouldn't she be
a bi-sexual as oppose to lesbian.
Samc023 2 years ago
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she's not gay she's bisexual. you dont just wake up and go from straight to gay or gay to straight. she said she was attracted to men after being married three times. you dont just lose attraction to one gender. you can gain attraction but you dont lose attraction.
Kahn4 2 years ago
She's not bisexual... she's a lesbian. She was married with children because that's what she thought she was supposed to do. She said she had difficulty connecting with men, but it never occurred to her that she was gay.
chanohack 2 years ago 5
She is not bisexual, being bisexual is not about being with/marrying a man, it's about being attracted to them. She wasn't attracted to them, therefore she is a lesbian. Not that it matters, I'm bisexual and there's nothing wrong with that. But Meredith is a lesbian, as she never said she was attracted to her husbands.
xxRainbow1978xx 2 years ago 4
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She was married 3 times, are you seriously going to
claim she wasn't attracted to NONE of her husbands?
Samc023 2 years ago
yes I am going to say that as she herself said she felt no connection to them. As she never said she was attracted to any of them, by connection she means attraction.
xxRainbow1978xx 2 years ago
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Then why marry 3 different men whom you have no
attraction to whatsoever? That makes no sense.
Samc023 2 years ago
It does make sense if your in denial. Some people are so in denial, that they consciously won't admit their gay till their forced to by a powerful attraction or something similar. She's in her 60's, so for her marrying a man was the done thing, she probably didn't really think about the reason she wasn't attracted to them and may have assumed that was normal, if she didn't know any different. Being married to someone don't make you straight or bi. If she says she;s gay, then she is.
xxRainbow1978xx 2 years ago 4
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No it doesn't, even if one is in denial why would you
commit THREE times to men whom you have no
real interest in, men whom you don't find yourself
attracted to. I never said marriage makes one straight
or bi, I'm merely doubting whether she's completely
lesbian after purposely getting involved romantically
and sexually to 3 different men and producing 5 kids
and she finally comes to the realization she's a lesbian.
Samc023 2 years ago
If you think that's never happened then your being naive. Ever thought why she's been married so many times, is because she couldn't find what she was looking for with those men. And what she was looking for was a connection and an attraction.
xxRainbow1978xx 2 years ago 4
Rainbow, you explain it all very well.
summersonset 2 years ago 3
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I LOVE Meredith Baxter & wish her ALL the BEST; but you have to wonder whether the change in her sexual orientation came about after being on "Jenny Craig" too long OR eating one too many "Little Debbie" late night snacks!
mavrek47 2 years ago
THAT cruise.
How do dudes get in?
i10consulting 2 years ago
@i10consulting
Gay guys have their own cruises, it's ok you aren't left out.
Some cruises are mixed gay/lesbian as well. You'll find all the details in the gay press.
Enjoy it, don't forget to take your sunblock, melanomas are a bitch.
banksiasong 2 years ago 4
I'm DUDE. Not Gay.
i10consulting 2 years ago
@i10consulting
It took you 2 months to construct that reply. Man I don't give a rats that you're gay dude, as long as you're happy. But if you wanna find yourself a fella, you might need to get a bit quicker on the uptake.
PS Don't forget the SP30+, because you won't be wearing too much - or so I hear ;)
banksiasong 2 years ago
LOL!
No fella finding needed. Straight as a razor's edge. A lil slow, but still straight.
i10consulting 2 years ago
@i10consulting
You are trying rather TOO HARD to convince readers you're straight, so you must be as camp as a row of tents.
btw: don't give a rat's arse where you poke your bits.
banksiasong 2 years ago
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"Assumed I was a bad picker."
Yeah. 50/50 there Meredith. LOL!!!
i10consulting 2 years ago
Cameraman drops camera and a has a heart attack at 0:53.
lol
i10consulting 2 years ago
I wonder when Michael Gross is going to come out. LOL
Good for Meredith. She seems like a wonderful person. I loved her in Family Ties.
ladylike1980 2 years ago
Such a beautiful woman she is, this is a lovely interview if more women will be as she is , and stop living in lies. Good for you Meredith :-)
aames666 2 years ago 4
If only ryan seacrest came out...
volt9999 2 years ago 3
All I could think of was, how insensitive of Matt Lauer to mention the B-movie thing to the most obvious B-movie actress in the whole wide world. But good for Meredith though, I mean better late than never right?
suripopje 2 years ago
good for you meredith! FAB!!!!
creekchick1 2 years ago
Being gay is not a disease. Hate and bigotry are the worst of all diseases. I am not surprised or shocked that Ms. Baxter is gay. I hope her career is not adversely affected by her honesty.
larjenn1 2 years ago 5
I just saw this in the last 10 minutes. I aint surprised at this at all.
MrPerfect77 2 years ago
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too bad she's acquired the disease of homosexuality, of course i am hoping that this is just a scam to get her acting career back on track
rockinrondogg 2 years ago
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20 year later you tell us that you are Lesbian...Who f**king cares thes days. I say if are waht you are keep it to your self, why I have to hear this Bull shit on my TV,,,She's Aa lesbian! You want that much attention go where all the lesbians go and tell that to them. If i was a former actor and told the world I had sex with over 20 thousands women and used a condom every time and I 'm married, do you think anyone would care. "KEEP IT TO YOURSELF, I DON'T WANT TO NOW IF YOUR GAY"
harderizbetter 2 years ago
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lol .. who gives a damn about Meredith Baxter anyway?
Throbzilla0 2 years ago
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I don't mean to be mean, but I have to wonder if she did this because lesbians are much less picky about looks than straight men. At this woman's age, I think it would have been hard for her to find a lot of admirers.
dlwke2 2 years ago
go elyse keaton!!!
chesstounette 2 years ago 7
Very sweet and honest interview :)
sugarisgood 2 years ago 9