black men in America always disgracing black women. your preference is your to decide but why it always black men who always feel they gatta broadcast how black women aint this or that.its a major disrespect, its not like they aint put down,shunned,stereotyped and demoralized by the media or other races enough.brothers you gatta take care and love your sistas cause in the racial battles in America your all they gat
I hear black men say all the time that black women are picking the wrong men that we only date bad guys and then we complain about them. Well they seem to be complaining so they must be dating the wrong type of woman. Not to mention we all have a chip on our shoulders at the gate so we don't even give the Good ones a chance that's why it is so sad.
If you're a BM just go to jail for 4 years instead of college. You will have more BW then you know what to do with. BW love hard luck stories. they go for the under dog BM over the BM with his life together. BW pick men, like teenages pick food. Black females go for the junk food type of men, and when get they sick they complain.
BM did not start behaving violently to impress black women. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. JMO
@kryptondude1 mm Looks are not secondary sorry you can't say that it is actually impossible to say that and here is why, because you don't go up to a girl you have never met and say "oh I knew from across the room you had a great personality" and if you ARE doing that she probably thinks you are a dumbass and rightfully so. So no looks are not secondary it's the first thing that makes you even talk to a woman. Now on that note, not everyone has the same idea of beauty.
@DarthRane113 Now I will say personality has more of an impact than looks because looks may be what brought me over to you, but it will not be what keeps me around if your personality is shit.
Well, she needs to be pleasant looking (dressed appropriately and groomed) and approachable. Not necessarily attractive but also not someone you'd be embarressed walking around with. [looks = secondary]
But most importantly, if she smiles and greets you back when in an elevator or something. Then, you introduce yourself and be friends. Meet up for a coffee and chat. [approachability = primary]
well ur beautiful. any decent attractive bw can get a 'good' bm if she wants one. unfortunately a lot of bw aren't relationship material. bw need to understand that men are naturally drawn to their own women - including bm. it usually takes a lot for a man to marry out.
I don't like white women or hispanics. I'm black and I'm deeply attracted to asians. Its sad cause I attract so many beautiful black women but its a special sexual appeal that people r born with and u can't change that. Make me marry a black women and we'll be divorced.
umm some white women wear weaves, are rude, are violent, overweight & yet I see black men with white women who are all of those things, so it's more than that.
About 80 of black women wear weave. Maybe 20% of white women do. Most black women date thugs. Even the college educated ones. Not many places to meet classy black women.
Black women in fact betrayed themselves when they completely turned their backs on all of their elders, the church, black men and black business and completely dumped their entire support base in exchange for drugs, discos, dog tracks and government assistance programs of every concievable kind in the mid 70's.
There is in fact an extremely informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that very in-depthly covers this exact subject.
I think is sad that black women are really listening to these dumb men and taking this shit in. The majority of black men love black women to death. Its the lame dudes mad because they were rejected or something who make youtube videos hating on black women.
Who Does That Shit? You have to really be a miserable to take time out to hate on a woman.
When I was young, I had a string of Black women tell me, either by action or directly, that it was their way or the highway. And the good Black women that I was considering settleing down with, had mothers or sisters that had too much attitude for me.
why african americans men and women re making things more hard for themself,i mean we have been programe after slavery ended to hate each other and they did this through shows movies music and politics and forcing ourself on other race to accept us,we have to change this is 2012 a 21st century, start with self love and our black women have to go to africa and learn how to appreciate their men with love and respect,greetings from nigeria.
The hardest part about being a black man in America is having to deal with "our" women. If every woman was like you then this wouldn't be a problem, but most aren't like you, are they?
I AM AN EDUCATED BLACK MAN. I HAVE DATED LOTS OF WHITE WOMEN. IF I COULD GET A EDUCATED, SEXY, BEAUTIFUL, BLACK WOMAN LIKE YOU--WHO SPOKE WITH ANY DEGREE OF LITERACY- I'D BE ONE HAPPY CAMPER. IF REAL BLACK WOMEN LIKE YOU WERE AROUND MORE WE'D BE SET FOR LIFE - KEEP THE (GHETTO BITCHES) GIVE ME A REAL WOMEN LIKE YOU
I don't think the KKK needs to exist anymore because women have taken their place. Massive YouTube servers filled with millions of videos made by black women, mostly "African American", dogging black men.
@ArtistBet Your comment made no sense. This video response is to a black man who dogged black women. THE MAN DID IT FIRST. It's not like she chose to speak about black men for no reason. A black man spoke badly of black women. Black people, both men AND women going back and forth, bringing up negative stereotypes on each other is what is ruining our already weakening bond. NOT just black women.
@aGwEENapple No. You'll drawing attention by commenting, going on television, and all forms of public communication is what propels you'll problems. Stop making tons of response videos and going on Barbra Walters, Dateline, 20/20, etc. and you'll would be much better.
@ArtistBet You still can't deny the fact that she was responding to a man's video. Not all BW are going around, saying BM are bad. There are a lot who do, but I think there are reasons for a lot of these BW to complain. There's a lot of misunderstanding and stereotypes against both the BM AND woman and both sexes are supporting them. BM probably won't go on television and broadcast it to the world but they definitely show their ignorance in real life. They'll say disrespectful things in person.
because black women want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! good black men need to date good black women not "hot" or "bad" black or mixed bitch because all these dirty fake whores wants money and ugly pale small dick crackers! MAN UP AND WAKE UP MY NIGGAS BECAUSE WE NEED MORE REAL DARK SKIN BLACK SONS OBAMA IS NOT BLACK. BLACK POWER!
@Nem33 black women can't raise boys to be men, that's where the missing dads are important. so instead of asking who's raising no good black men, you should be asking who's leaving them behind in order to be no good?
@Nem33 actually, it's because they lack the feeling of responsibility. God put men here first, but yet, many men act like they can't take a little pressure. the key is making your woman feel secure, and then she won't nag and get on your damn nerves. but since you're not white, you have no clue as to why they leave, so this isn't your conversation to have.
@Nem33 as if whites don't have problems of your own. how about being on top of seeking help for molesting kids and killing them, or mass shootings at schools. not to mention a divorce rate of 70%. seems as if you have problems of you own to hash out instead of always being fascinated by what blacks do, and offering judgement instead of solutions.
@Nem33 look, i really don't care what you are, but since you've said you're not black, then focus on your own communities problems because they do have them.
@Nem33 check the census reports and you will see that more whites are on welfare than blacks, and always have been. of course you would want to push the republican, white agenda of a black welfare queen, but to those of us who are educated, it's not happening. even a fox news commentator had to admit that more whites are getting food stamps, etc. so please, like i said, go solve the problems in your own community.
@MegaTyte99 The key is NOT "making" anyone FEEL anything. Feelings do NOT make marriages work, and nobody has the power to MAKE anyone feel anything. It is so irresponsible to present this while staying sooooooo quiet about the thousands upon thousands of black men that have the courts slam no-fault divorce, child (alimony) trap, etc. on them, giving the men no say in the matter.
@MyOttoLink and it's irresponsible to believe that a man who fails to care for his kids is "having the court system slammed on him." that's stupid when he has responsibilities. and anyway, no court system or white man should have to come in and tell you to do right by your kids. take some personal responsibility and quit living in a fantasy. relationships are about work, and making your woman feel good and she making you feel the same are very important.
It's worse that irresponsible to answer things that I never said, pretending to actually have addressed what I actually said. Not typical;nonetheless despicable.
In your delusional mind, you believe that this is about the men that walk away, that could care for kids, but chooses not to.
And whoever gave you the Kool-Aid that made you think you get any say in whether or not I take any responsibility in my own life,
@MyOttoLink Those courts are not telling men to "do right by their kids." They are taking away the choice to do right, forcing them into a place of not being able to see them, kicking them out of the house (even if he, EXCLUSIVELY, paid for it), and forcing him to pay sums of money that the ex can spend completely on herself, if she wants. I worked in the courts/legal/detention system; did you? My brother is a warden, and sees this every day. Do you?
@MyOttoLink why should a third party in any circumstance be put in a position to force them to do right by their kids? that should be a person standard. so what do you suggest, just let the deadbeats just live their lives without any responsibility to kids that they have? and furthermore, many of these mothers don't spend the money on themselves, but it they do, then you shouldn't have chosen a hoodrat to mother your kids!
@MyOttoLink as a matter of fact, i take that back. no they shouldn't have chosen a hoodrat to mother their children, but it's not like a black man can't file for custody of their kids. that thought never occurs to them because that would be too much like being responsible. choose a hoodrat, you get hoodrat outcomes..same for women. stop having multiple kids by men who can't commit and are irresponsible! if he has 10 already, he can't do anything for you and yours!
@MegaTyte99 "but it's not like a black man can't file for custody of their kids. that thought never occurs to them because that would be too much like being responsible. "
Again, out of WHAT wisdom did THAT conclusion proceed? Black men file ALL THE TIME--and are told not only "no," but also that they have to INSTEAD just pay and pay into that woman's pocket--even while she goes out and puts another man into position, to do it all over again!! Don't put that on men-Not havin it.
@MegaTyte99 I notice that the ONLY ones you present as being irresponsible are the men. You have presented the hoodrats as the ONLY example of a POSSIBLY irresponsible. Women that are NOT hoodrats lie ALL the time, suck men dry, marry rich as possible with the plan of divorcing and taking half ALL THE TIME.
@MyOttoLink lol, since you don't like women, then date men, like you already do. nobody cares if you inhale dick, just don't sleep with women. but i guess the lying, sucking men dry, marrying as rich as possible is never what happens with white or "other" women, like to kobe, like pippen, like oj, like terrence howard? lol, they show you coons every time! kobe wife got that ass good, that black porch monkey. but you will never learn.
@MegaTyte99 You're so easily amused--or is it just that you resort to laughing and deflecting when you know that you are being successfully called out on slamming men? That 's why you try to tell me whether or not I like women, give out unsolicited advice about dating (which I filed in the "useless, malicious, STUPID BS" category). Since you can't defend the fact that you present women as sinless, you dodge, starting to talk about whites, as though THAT were the subject. Done.
@MegaTyte99 Whose leaving the men that they claim the children need so badly, as they move on to be "strong and independent" (while seeking child support that they FORCED onto the men that didn't want divorce in the first place)? The "who's raising them?" question is quite appropriate, as well.
@MyOttoLink again, you're not black, so you really don't know other than second hand what black men and women are doing. take care of your own community of women who'll fuck any rich black men so they can sit on their asses for the rest of their lives.
Seriously, how many black men are actually dating, marrying, or procreating with women who are not of African descent? Very few! Well over 95% of all black men still date and procreate with black women. Yet, endless complaints from black women persist.
The problem is not "black men dating non-black women"; the problem is the crumbling black family. The crumbling family is the prison recruitment avenue for black men, resulting in shortage of ideal mates for black women when they're ready.
@WTF12715 "Not all" provides little to turn around the discouragement that the brothers now face. It's become more hassle (than it's worth) to sift through all of the women that pretend to "not be like that", only to be emotionally, verbally, spiritually, legally, and financially slammed to the ground.
@FitNaturalista Too late, someone made said video.--------> /watch?v=RG1sG150HDM&feature=related
Point blank, Black community are in civil war mode as far as dating goes. Well, I'm not at least. I've been done wrong but vicarious blame is wrong. Everyone is responsible for their actions only or the lack thereof. I mean really, hating all Black men (women) b/c of your dating history (a small sample size). That's akin to racism. No, I'd argue it's racist + sexist.
Sometime the relationship doesn't work out between black men and women.
Just have to move on and find someone else who have a same commons and physical connection going on. Date whoever you want but just be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
There are very few available black women like you- articulate and natural hair- regardless of which neighborhood a black man seeks a sister. A good feminine black woman is almost always taken already.
That 70% statistic of black women who claim they can't get a man usually do not have the feminine characteristics that real black men require.
A good feminine woman will submit to a good masculine man because she knows she will be in good hands. But this is not the mindset of most black women.
they are loud and rude this is true not all but most.classy black women, and that's the problem think we are all gangstas and drug dealers black women are to damn rude you can't even approach them on some kool shit they are very disrespectful and they are liars.
do not use the word hood-rat its oppressive your no better than anyone you were simply socialized differently! & this mans video your ranting about seems to be engulfed in white-supremacy !
Why do people keep associating themselves with loud and obnoxious people? That's the real question. People don't look for diamonds anymore it takes more than scratching the surface.
@kg062007 SURE there is!! It's just that this sister has it wrong, saying that the problem is that the black men are only describing hood rats. The classy black women do the same things, through different avenues--with the same resulting appeal!
Do we all notice that if you watch Tactics original video he says "some" a lot in the video, he says that this only applies to "some" black women at the beginning and the end of the video and he references other races about the weave and other races about the crazy. But through the entire video he says it only applies to "Some" black women. I think your anger is misplaces Ashley. And in a random note, which Ciera song is that?
@MrBladeCrash said [[Black women should be jumping on other black women who down or degrade black men.....but rare do you see it. They just melt into the pot and quietly say "I'm not like that"]]
Rather than discouraging people sharing their true opinions, feel free to prove them wrong with facts and reasoning. Change their minds, don't belittle them because they have a controversial viewpoint.
Thank You for making this video Ashley. Kevin should use his words carefully and turn it into a more positive direction. Also you point out that his video wasn't meant for all black women just some individuals.
This Sister is so beautiful! Though the "hoodrat" comment is very demeaning. "Hood" women are not violent, but can be very playful especially amongst their friends. But so are all of us. People are people always. What needs to be done is that we adopt our philosophies.
This is why I encourage our people to search and subscribe to "African Blood Siblings."
Speaking of the video she's referring to, you can attribute some of those characteristics to many but not ALL, Black women. Many of us are not "ghetto", and do have long REAL growing hair, lol; My hair is past shoulder length, and I've been natural since 2002. It's not fair to generalize a whole group of women (or PEOPLE for that matter) based on what some of them do, but those few make it bad for us good ones.
Off topic, I luv her bedroom, with so much light and the terrace she can sit out on!
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
did any of you watch the video b4 you say she is right?? he defended most of the stenotype's and he was just trying to make the video funny. me myself as a black woman and proud laughed through this video quite happily and the ways she defended the stenotype's were more or less the same way he defended them....
@ankokugaiBOSS I live in Japan right now and you will see just as many Japanese women wearing weaves AND wigs as black women. so apparently you don't know what you are talking about.
@bookieboo1024 CRAZY! That percentage would have to be 1 girl per every 100,000. If I don't know what I'm talking about...fine. Make a video and show "just as many Japanese women wearing weaves"...especially in comparison to Black women. If you do, I promise to shut the fuck up and apologize. If not, I'm going to make a video that cuts your statement to shreds (btw I live in Japan too)
OK, you just shown there that you're not to be taken seriously. Black women have trouble growing long hair. Asian women have NO problem growing their hair long, and most of them do have long natural hair. I stopped listening after that comment because you're not interested in being fair minded. (And no, I'm not a black man.)
@LucisFerre1 black women dont have trouble growing long hair if they know go back to their roots to learn how to take care of it...the temperature in these countries are not like what our hairs are used to. neither are the styling products. hence why many of us get locks and twists and go natural now. american products for black hair is garbage. and its what destroys us....and this false beauty standard of white women beingmost beautiful but apparently not without tans, makeup and surgery. irony
@impatientwithdesire said [[black women dont have trouble growing long hair if they know go back to their roots to learn how to take care of it...hence why many of us get locks and twists and go natural now. american products for black hair is garbage. and its what destroys us.]]
IWD, thanks for the info. Lately, I've watched a few videos where black women give advice on naturally growing their hair long. I think it looks lovely.
@LucisFerre1 It CERTAINLY does look good!!!! Still doesn't make it worth the trouble of approaching, though, with women acting/thinking/living the way they do, today.
@LucisFerre1 Sweetheart not everyone wears weave because they are "having trouble" growing their hair. Some just want a different hair style that can't be achieved with their current length or they just want to change it up.....I have natural hair past my shoulders right now and do not wear a weave. Lastly....I have lived in Japan for the last two years and guess what....... Japanese women wear weaves and wigs. it's a shame to be so ignorant about different races.
@bookieboo1024, Congratulations on growing the natural hair. I'm sure that other races also wear weaves, but not at the rate enjoyed by Blacks, especially in America. Of course you know that the care of the hair of black people takes special care, moisturizing etc, to prevent breakage. As a white man, I have to wash my hair at least once a day, twice on gym days, that's 12 times a week. That's a bit of trouble and I never moisturize. Weaves are neither good nor bad IMO. I think they look nice.
"I dont get the sheer hatred that bm have for a whole race of women"
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You don't get it? Black women declared war on black men: Oprah in the 80s was the 1st to announce "Broaden your horizons"; the male-bashing movies came later. But, instead of the dating scene shrinking for black men, it actually exploded
Discovering that other races of men didn't want them like Oprah said they would, black women now want to come back home waving a white flag. It doesn't work that way!
I just told you that, too. Back in the 1980s, your leader Oprah Winfrey (a woman who has written in her autobiography that she wanted to be a white female and has laid on her back as a black sex toy to white men) declared war on Black men. Today, she has trouble getting quite a few black men on her show. Every black male bashing movie of the 90s were sponsored by her: Waiting To Exhale; Color Purple, etc.. If you want to get mad at somebody, start with yourself
"peace. gonna go see my man. ooo and he got blue eyes too! you mad 2x? hahaha"
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If I had a penny for every time a black girl/ woman told me she was dating or marrying a white man, I would be rich. I wish there was a feasible way to liquidate your sentences.
@impatientwithdesire He couldn't answer that with a date, anymore than you could accurately answer when women went independent. The question, itself, assumes that there was only one event that marks the start--when we all know that many events merged to launch it.
@mikedav9O said [[Discovering that other races of men didn't want them like Oprah said..black women now want to come back home waving a white flag.]]
BM/BW marriage rates are now shockingly low and while divorce rates have decreased for everyone else since 2000, except for BM/BW marriages, it's the same. While BM/WW divorce rates are twice as high as W/W D.rates in the past 10 years, WM/BW divorce rates are 42% LOWER that W/Ws and way lower than BM/WW
People interpret statistics to validate their personal agenda. It was Mark Twain who stated , "there are lies, damn lies and statistics". With that being said, let us now examine your data. First of all, BM/ WW divorce rates are high, because they are the #1 interracial coupling. Therefore, subsequently, WM/ BW divorce rates are lower, because white men (or any other race of man) are not marrying black women at the rate that black men are marrying white women. Duh!
1. A "RATE" is a percentage. It has nothing to do with absolute numbers, you innumerate, uneducated fool.
2. It doesn't necessarily follow that BM/WW are less successful than ANY other pairing simply by definition, just as it doesn't necessarily follow that WM/BW pairings are MORE successful than any other pairing mentioned. I used W/W marriages as a comparative standard, I could use any standard and the results are the same.
3. With all "bad" stats, BM are the common denominator.
1. I never debated on what a percentage was. However, since my FIRST degree is attached to a minor in mathematics (1 semester of calculus and 1 year of classical physics), you will be the last to interpret numbers for me, because everything you say is considered bias in my opinion.
2. Now like a fool, you are on a tangent. In my statement to you, ,I never discussed the success stories of black males.
3. That is entirely your opinion to which I disagree!
If I wanted to be evil and vindictive as you are-- the typical black and disgruntled female-- I would first start by actually thanking you. Because, your statistics only proves that no race of man is rushing to marry black women.
2. It just so happens that although BM/WW marriages outnumbered WM/BW marriages by a ratio of greater than 3.6 to one in 1980, it's now a ratio of about 1.8 to 1 now, despite the fact that black women are BERATED, blamed, disenfranchised and made to feel guilty BY HER OWN PEOPLE for giving up on men who objectively prove to be failures by all standards of modern civility.
@AuNaturale100 I think black women in america need to completely remove black men off their dating list. You can get sick internally from the things I have heard and seen black men say about black women. You would think they were satan himself by all the hatred black men have for black women.
It is amazing that black american women havent picked up on it yet. Black men are the most hateful and vile things on earth when it comes to black women- the majority ofthem anyway.
Why are black men so bitter? what is wrong with you guys?? If you have such problems with black women then why not provide solutions? Why do yall keep bitchin about the same things if you really wanted things differently?
I swear white people dont have to do anything! Black men are the biggest enemies and most hurtful towards black women than any white person!
No wonder no one from the carribean wants their daughters dating a black american man -you guys are disgusting / self hating idiots!
80% are rude bitches that give you attitude soon as you walk up to them you can say hi my name is or what ever they dont know how to act and you cant get a word in what so ever so all hope is lost
she real for dat but heyyy. i dont wanna date a hoodrat but i dont wanna date a uppaty ass black girl who thinks shes better then everyone kuz she went to yale or ect, sooo someone in between would be good
Well again with black women you go lose either way..
Because you either go run into a hoodrat or the arrogant prideful ass bitches who are far worse than any hoodrat... So the best thing to do is just get you a good white woman and avoid the headaches all together...
there are only two types of black women in this world & i would rather date a hood rat than date a pretentious, superficial, useing black woman that is too full of herself & call herself classy. there are exseptions to every rule & i hope i'm proven wrong one day soon.
@AuNaturale100 Deflection and strawman argument! I already explained how you contradicted yourself. Your deflections won't work on here. There was no rebuttal to what I said.
@AuNaturale100 You completely contradicted yourself. First you said that these guys are the guys that BW don't want. Then you said that these guys made bad choices. Those two statments oppose eachother. You tried to make it seem like these guys could not get BW and then you admitted that they were getting them. Which is it? Simpleton ass BW!
black men in America always disgracing black women. your preference is your to decide but why it always black men who always feel they gatta broadcast how black women aint this or that.its a major disrespect, its not like they aint put down,shunned,stereotyped and demoralized by the media or other races enough.brothers you gatta take care and love your sistas cause in the racial battles in America your all they gat
wertyland 9 hours ago
I hear black men say all the time that black women are picking the wrong men that we only date bad guys and then we complain about them. Well they seem to be complaining so they must be dating the wrong type of woman. Not to mention we all have a chip on our shoulders at the gate so we don't even give the Good ones a chance that's why it is so sad.
nonelikememe 2 days ago
She is really cute. (a black guy)
1234IZM 2 days ago
All woman wear weaves....but black woman NEED weaves cause without them they look like men.
prttyboyswagnyc2 3 days ago
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@prttyboyswagnyc2 But...I don't wear weave...My hair is natural and long. I like colored wigs occasionally though :)
fmadiva 2 days ago
Let black men go. That's fewer trips to the ER for us.
BigBlaqueKat 4 days ago
the black woman that date a white man is a sell out bitch
blkmun86 4 days ago
If you're a BM just go to jail for 4 years instead of college. You will have more BW then you know what to do with. BW love hard luck stories. they go for the under dog BM over the BM with his life together. BW pick men, like teenages pick food. Black females go for the junk food type of men, and when get they sick they complain.
BM did not start behaving violently to impress black women. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. JMO
TimAmerica1000 5 days ago
Sweety, pls don't listen to any of the stereotypes that 'beserious1' brought up.
- All women are actually the same (aspirations, dreams, desires, needs or ambitions), only that they come in different shades.
- To a matured guy, looks are secondary. Personality, character, spirit and compassion is important for a woman and black women have lots of spirit.
- All a lady needs to be is to look pleasant.
btw i'm a singaporean guy of indian origin and black women are charming to me. =)
kryptondude1 1 week ago
@kryptondude1 mm Looks are not secondary sorry you can't say that it is actually impossible to say that and here is why, because you don't go up to a girl you have never met and say "oh I knew from across the room you had a great personality" and if you ARE doing that she probably thinks you are a dumbass and rightfully so. So no looks are not secondary it's the first thing that makes you even talk to a woman. Now on that note, not everyone has the same idea of beauty.
DarthRane113 6 days ago
@DarthRane113 Now I will say personality has more of an impact than looks because looks may be what brought me over to you, but it will not be what keeps me around if your personality is shit.
DarthRane113 6 days ago
@DarthRane113
Well, she needs to be pleasant looking (dressed appropriately and groomed) and approachable. Not necessarily attractive but also not someone you'd be embarressed walking around with. [looks = secondary]
But most importantly, if she smiles and greets you back when in an elevator or something. Then, you introduce yourself and be friends. Meet up for a coffee and chat. [approachability = primary]
kryptondude1 6 days ago
well ur beautiful. any decent attractive bw can get a 'good' bm if she wants one. unfortunately a lot of bw aren't relationship material. bw need to understand that men are naturally drawn to their own women - including bm. it usually takes a lot for a man to marry out.
Chas0x01 1 week ago
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@Chas0x01 That's only in this stupid country. People actually don't care about skin color as much in other places.
fmadiva 2 days ago
black men don't date black girls because they like big fat white girls
larrygrumbles 1 week ago
Well said.
Halayn2010 1 week ago
Nicely said!!
CeoDancers 1 week ago
I don't like white women or hispanics. I'm black and I'm deeply attracted to asians. Its sad cause I attract so many beautiful black women but its a special sexual appeal that people r born with and u can't change that. Make me marry a black women and we'll be divorced.
Rightoeusjustice 1 week ago
@Rightoeusjustice People aren't "born" with fetishes. People's attractions to other races (solely) are fetishes, not natural urges.
leston4life 6 days ago
im a black man and i think your pretty as fuck!
TheBigdaddypickle 1 week ago
umm some white women wear weaves, are rude, are violent, overweight & yet I see black men with white women who are all of those things, so it's more than that.
luvslife04 1 week ago
@ Ashley,I have to give you thumbs up for wearing your hair natural, it looks good.
blac2black 2 weeks ago
I find it ironic that black women are always telling black men what their experience is like dating black women, how would they know.
It's a bit like white people telling black men, what racism is like for black men, when they have no experience of it.
Development can't happen without people willing to listen, and understand what peoples concerns are.
blac2black 2 weeks ago
Having a degree doesn't make you classy, every issue black men from all different walks of life voice about black women, is always dismissed.
The media doesn't let anybody forget the transgressions of black men, I as a black man is willing to accept the short comings of black men.
Now, my question to black women, how much of the failures of the black community, are you willing to accept?
blac2black 2 weeks ago
99.9% of white women do not wear a weaves that looks like Afro hair.
98% of black women who wear weaves, wear weaves that look like white Indian. that's the difference.
blac2black 2 weeks ago
About 80 of black women wear weave. Maybe 20% of white women do. Most black women date thugs. Even the college educated ones. Not many places to meet classy black women.
DJGENOTYPE 2 weeks ago
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The woman in the video is pretty. Thats really all I had to type.
JRP21ification 2 weeks ago
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Black women in fact betrayed themselves when they completely turned their backs on all of their elders, the church, black men and black business and completely dumped their entire support base in exchange for drugs, discos, dog tracks and government assistance programs of every concievable kind in the mid 70's.
There is in fact an extremely informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that very in-depthly covers this exact subject.
pc0p1mp 3 weeks ago
She's a date-able Black woman. Sexy.
kevin1278 3 weeks ago
Gorgeous
TheGatesOfFire 3 weeks ago
I think is sad that black women are really listening to these dumb men and taking this shit in. The majority of black men love black women to death. Its the lame dudes mad because they were rejected or something who make youtube videos hating on black women.
Who Does That Shit? You have to really be a miserable to take time out to hate on a woman.
Women are so easy to like hell they live off love
Amerikaten 3 weeks ago
Awesome; great job!!!!!
tbleslie 4 weeks ago
Yeh them hood rats keep me up at night with all their squeaking well said
shanest22 4 weeks ago
When I was young, I had a string of Black women tell me, either by action or directly, that it was their way or the highway. And the good Black women that I was considering settleing down with, had mothers or sisters that had too much attitude for me.
mantronikk 4 weeks ago
If you want to understand what is going on you should talk to Asian men ;)
ontoreable 1 month ago
why african americans men and women re making things more hard for themself,i mean we have been programe after slavery ended to hate each other and they did this through shows movies music and politics and forcing ourself on other race to accept us,we have to change this is 2012 a 21st century, start with self love and our black women have to go to africa and learn how to appreciate their men with love and respect,greetings from nigeria.
mamodu29 1 month ago
The hardest part about being a black man in America is having to deal with "our" women. If every woman was like you then this wouldn't be a problem, but most aren't like you, are they?
rfrantzt 1 month ago
@rfrantzt I agree it is not the white man.
mrblackalchemist 4 weeks ago
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I AM AN EDUCATED BLACK MAN. I HAVE DATED LOTS OF WHITE WOMEN. IF I COULD GET A EDUCATED, SEXY, BEAUTIFUL, BLACK WOMAN LIKE YOU--WHO SPOKE WITH ANY DEGREE OF LITERACY- I'D BE ONE HAPPY CAMPER. IF REAL BLACK WOMEN LIKE YOU WERE AROUND MORE WE'D BE SET FOR LIFE - KEEP THE (GHETTO BITCHES) GIVE ME A REAL WOMEN LIKE YOU
TheShel8777 1 month ago
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TheShel8777 1 month ago
you have beautiful skin.
Chas0x01 1 month ago
church!!!!!
louisvanarsdale 1 month ago
I don't think the KKK needs to exist anymore because women have taken their place. Massive YouTube servers filled with millions of videos made by black women, mostly "African American", dogging black men.
ArtistBet 1 month ago
@ArtistBet Your comment made no sense. This video response is to a black man who dogged black women. THE MAN DID IT FIRST. It's not like she chose to speak about black men for no reason. A black man spoke badly of black women. Black people, both men AND women going back and forth, bringing up negative stereotypes on each other is what is ruining our already weakening bond. NOT just black women.
aGwEENapple 1 month ago
@aGwEENapple No. You'll drawing attention by commenting, going on television, and all forms of public communication is what propels you'll problems. Stop making tons of response videos and going on Barbra Walters, Dateline, 20/20, etc. and you'll would be much better.
ArtistBet 1 month ago
@ArtistBet You still can't deny the fact that she was responding to a man's video. Not all BW are going around, saying BM are bad. There are a lot who do, but I think there are reasons for a lot of these BW to complain. There's a lot of misunderstanding and stereotypes against both the BM AND woman and both sexes are supporting them. BM probably won't go on television and broadcast it to the world but they definitely show their ignorance in real life. They'll say disrespectful things in person.
aGwEENapple 1 month ago
this chick is pretty no doubt. she could pass as a South African
H2T 1 month ago
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because black women want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! good black men need to date good black women not "hot" or "bad" black or mixed bitch because all these dirty fake whores wants money and ugly pale small dick crackers! MAN UP AND WAKE UP MY NIGGAS BECAUSE WE NEED MORE REAL DARK SKIN BLACK SONS OBAMA IS NOT BLACK. BLACK POWER!
swagboi7 1 month ago
you're beautiful!
OumouDee 1 month ago
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Nem33 1 month ago 8
sure your right well said
genefury75 1 month ago
@Nem33 black women can't raise boys to be men, that's where the missing dads are important. so instead of asking who's raising no good black men, you should be asking who's leaving them behind in order to be no good?
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
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Nem33 1 month ago
@Nem33 actually, it's because they lack the feeling of responsibility. God put men here first, but yet, many men act like they can't take a little pressure. the key is making your woman feel secure, and then she won't nag and get on your damn nerves. but since you're not white, you have no clue as to why they leave, so this isn't your conversation to have.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
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Nem33 1 month ago
@Nem33 as if whites don't have problems of your own. how about being on top of seeking help for molesting kids and killing them, or mass shootings at schools. not to mention a divorce rate of 70%. seems as if you have problems of you own to hash out instead of always being fascinated by what blacks do, and offering judgement instead of solutions.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
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Nem33 1 month ago
@Nem33 look, i really don't care what you are, but since you've said you're not black, then focus on your own communities problems because they do have them.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
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Nem33 1 month ago
@Nem33 check the census reports and you will see that more whites are on welfare than blacks, and always have been. of course you would want to push the republican, white agenda of a black welfare queen, but to those of us who are educated, it's not happening. even a fox news commentator had to admit that more whites are getting food stamps, etc. so please, like i said, go solve the problems in your own community.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
@MegaTyte99
Nice racism bro, you proved you hate white or "crackers". Thank you.
As a side note, I like to fuck good looking black women. UMAD NOW CUZ I PICK YA WIFE?
Xecutionner2K 3 weeks ago
@MegaTyte99 The key is NOT "making" anyone FEEL anything. Feelings do NOT make marriages work, and nobody has the power to MAKE anyone feel anything. It is so irresponsible to present this while staying sooooooo quiet about the thousands upon thousands of black men that have the courts slam no-fault divorce, child (alimony) trap, etc. on them, giving the men no say in the matter.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@MyOttoLink and it's irresponsible to believe that a man who fails to care for his kids is "having the court system slammed on him." that's stupid when he has responsibilities. and anyway, no court system or white man should have to come in and tell you to do right by your kids. take some personal responsibility and quit living in a fantasy. relationships are about work, and making your woman feel good and she making you feel the same are very important.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
@MegaTyte99
It's worse that irresponsible to answer things that I never said, pretending to actually have addressed what I actually said. Not typical;nonetheless despicable.
In your delusional mind, you believe that this is about the men that walk away, that could care for kids, but chooses not to.
And whoever gave you the Kool-Aid that made you think you get any say in whether or not I take any responsibility in my own life,
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@MyOttoLink Those courts are not telling men to "do right by their kids." They are taking away the choice to do right, forcing them into a place of not being able to see them, kicking them out of the house (even if he, EXCLUSIVELY, paid for it), and forcing him to pay sums of money that the ex can spend completely on herself, if she wants. I worked in the courts/legal/detention system; did you? My brother is a warden, and sees this every day. Do you?
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@MyOttoLink why should a third party in any circumstance be put in a position to force them to do right by their kids? that should be a person standard. so what do you suggest, just let the deadbeats just live their lives without any responsibility to kids that they have? and furthermore, many of these mothers don't spend the money on themselves, but it they do, then you shouldn't have chosen a hoodrat to mother your kids!
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
@MyOttoLink as a matter of fact, i take that back. no they shouldn't have chosen a hoodrat to mother their children, but it's not like a black man can't file for custody of their kids. that thought never occurs to them because that would be too much like being responsible. choose a hoodrat, you get hoodrat outcomes..same for women. stop having multiple kids by men who can't commit and are irresponsible! if he has 10 already, he can't do anything for you and yours!
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
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@MegaTyte99 "but it's not like a black man can't file for custody of their kids. that thought never occurs to them because that would be too much like being responsible. "
Again, out of WHAT wisdom did THAT conclusion proceed? Black men file ALL THE TIME--and are told not only "no," but also that they have to INSTEAD just pay and pay into that woman's pocket--even while she goes out and puts another man into position, to do it all over again!! Don't put that on men-Not havin it.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@MegaTyte99 I notice that the ONLY ones you present as being irresponsible are the men. You have presented the hoodrats as the ONLY example of a POSSIBLY irresponsible. Women that are NOT hoodrats lie ALL the time, suck men dry, marry rich as possible with the plan of divorcing and taking half ALL THE TIME.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@MyOttoLink lol, since you don't like women, then date men, like you already do. nobody cares if you inhale dick, just don't sleep with women. but i guess the lying, sucking men dry, marrying as rich as possible is never what happens with white or "other" women, like to kobe, like pippen, like oj, like terrence howard? lol, they show you coons every time! kobe wife got that ass good, that black porch monkey. but you will never learn.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
@MegaTyte99 You're so easily amused--or is it just that you resort to laughing and deflecting when you know that you are being successfully called out on slamming men? That 's why you try to tell me whether or not I like women, give out unsolicited advice about dating (which I filed in the "useless, malicious, STUPID BS" category). Since you can't defend the fact that you present women as sinless, you dodge, starting to talk about whites, as though THAT were the subject. Done.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@Nem33 i meant since you're not black. my original was a typo.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
@MegaTyte99 Whose leaving the men that they claim the children need so badly, as they move on to be "strong and independent" (while seeking child support that they FORCED onto the men that didn't want divorce in the first place)? The "who's raising them?" question is quite appropriate, as well.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@MyOttoLink again, you're not black, so you really don't know other than second hand what black men and women are doing. take care of your own community of women who'll fuck any rich black men so they can sit on their asses for the rest of their lives.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
@MegaTyte99 You've got the wrong guy, talking about "You're not black". I never said that.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@Nem33 god i love this comment
LetMeFlyinPeace 4 weeks ago
Seriously, how many black men are actually dating, marrying, or procreating with women who are not of African descent? Very few! Well over 95% of all black men still date and procreate with black women. Yet, endless complaints from black women persist.
The problem is not "black men dating non-black women"; the problem is the crumbling black family. The crumbling family is the prison recruitment avenue for black men, resulting in shortage of ideal mates for black women when they're ready.
leston4life 1 month ago
Obviously you didn't pay any attention to anything tactix said. You're just paying attention to the title of his video.
monikas1991 1 month ago
I like my 10 inch sucked like a straw. ~ I think women should be more aggessive about wanting YOUR man. Passion is sexy. ~ Great Video
caramelking2000 1 month ago
I solute you.
SimplyyBiBi 1 month ago
the classy black women are the same way they all put up this wall don't talk to me you can't handle me i'm to strong it's just gotten crazy.
genefury75 1 month ago
@genefury75 Lol, not all.
WTF12715 1 month ago
@WTF12715 "Not all" provides little to turn around the discouragement that the brothers now face. It's become more hassle (than it's worth) to sift through all of the women that pretend to "not be like that", only to be emotionally, verbally, spiritually, legally, and financially slammed to the ground.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
yummy, black womenn.....
TheWorldcrusher 1 month ago
@FitNaturalista Too late, someone made said video.--------> /watch?v=RG1sG150HDM&feature=related
Point blank, Black community are in civil war mode as far as dating goes. Well, I'm not at least. I've been done wrong but vicarious blame is wrong. Everyone is responsible for their actions only or the lack thereof. I mean really, hating all Black men (women) b/c of your dating history (a small sample size). That's akin to racism. No, I'd argue it's racist + sexist.
tonyGjr2 1 month ago
Every race of woman has has some or all of these characteristics. The movies have made things look awful.
LoveFaithopepatience 1 month ago
She is adorable.
tillallareoneluv 1 month ago
She is cute.
mysticgatherings 1 month ago
You have a good point.
Sometime the relationship doesn't work out between black men and women.
Just have to move on and find someone else who have a same commons and physical connection going on. Date whoever you want but just be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
Missvanna196 1 month ago
she has a good point. black men will hardly find a good woman in the club.
good video
emmanuel43 1 month ago
@emmanuel43 Or in the church, believe it or not.
hotdrumchick 1 month ago
@hotdrumchick SO true!!!!!!! I've even stopped looking there (or even being open to the idea of it "just happening")!
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
There are very few available black women like you- articulate and natural hair- regardless of which neighborhood a black man seeks a sister. A good feminine black woman is almost always taken already.
That 70% statistic of black women who claim they can't get a man usually do not have the feminine characteristics that real black men require.
A good feminine woman will submit to a good masculine man because she knows she will be in good hands. But this is not the mindset of most black women.
vincent15641 1 month ago
Very well said, from a beautiful young sista
dpstuff1 1 month ago
they are loud and rude this is true not all but most.classy black women, and that's the problem think we are all gangstas and drug dealers black women are to damn rude you can't even approach them on some kool shit they are very disrespectful and they are liars.
genefury75 1 month ago
Sadly & honestly most of this is true just......get some home training and know how to act right in public and change the stereotype
trailorfox 1 month ago
you are beautiful
chrisgrinhard 1 month ago
do not use the word hood-rat its oppressive your no better than anyone you were simply socialized differently! & this mans video your ranting about seems to be engulfed in white-supremacy !
jesikathegreat 1 month ago
you are beautiful.
MrNelson231 1 month ago
The more you talked the more attractive you became. You are pretty; your natural beauty is amazing.
dejay1507 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Why do people keep associating themselves with loud and obnoxious people? That's the real question. People don't look for diamonds anymore it takes more than scratching the surface.
91WriterzStatus 1 month ago
i'm a black man and u are sooo right. i could not have said it better.
GQbum 1 month ago
Is there any such thing as a classy black woman???
kg062007 1 month ago
@kg062007 Is there a such like as classy people?
91WriterzStatus 1 month ago
@kg062007 Yes. I think you are looking at one in that video. She's cute.
leston4life 1 month ago
@kg062007 SURE there is!! It's just that this sister has it wrong, saying that the problem is that the black men are only describing hood rats. The classy black women do the same things, through different avenues--with the same resulting appeal!
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
i love black women and am latin
youngbayz 1 month ago
@youngbayz let not mix my friend
tazer40 1 month ago
This lady is VERY beautiful...
arelius1971 1 month ago
i agree... this is so true
Bubblez123takeova 1 month ago
Am black and I still won't date black girls, sorry
josefakororua26 2 months ago
@josefakororua26 i'm sure they're not missing much.
MegaTyte99 1 month ago
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TTCreddy 2 months ago
Do we all notice that if you watch Tactics original video he says "some" a lot in the video, he says that this only applies to "some" black women at the beginning and the end of the video and he references other races about the weave and other races about the crazy. But through the entire video he says it only applies to "Some" black women. I think your anger is misplaces Ashley. And in a random note, which Ciera song is that?
megaman01001 2 months ago
@MrBladeCrash said [[Black women should be jumping on other black women who down or degrade black men.....but rare do you see it. They just melt into the pot and quietly say "I'm not like that"]]
Rather than discouraging people sharing their true opinions, feel free to prove them wrong with facts and reasoning. Change their minds, don't belittle them because they have a controversial viewpoint.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
Thank You for making this video Ashley. Kevin should use his words carefully and turn it into a more positive direction. Also you point out that his video wasn't meant for all black women just some individuals.
guyvens2000 2 months ago
your hot
TheBigdaddypickle 2 months ago
LoL ok I had to laugh at this video.
mizflydiva 2 months ago
i jacked to this
nalalag 2 months ago
LOL she's absolutely right , she's putting his ignorance on blast.
jlol109 2 months ago
This Sister is so beautiful! Though the "hoodrat" comment is very demeaning. "Hood" women are not violent, but can be very playful especially amongst their friends. But so are all of us. People are people always. What needs to be done is that we adopt our philosophies.
This is why I encourage our people to search and subscribe to "African Blood Siblings."
ABSiblings 2 months ago
Speaking of the video she's referring to, you can attribute some of those characteristics to many but not ALL, Black women. Many of us are not "ghetto", and do have long REAL growing hair, lol; My hair is past shoulder length, and I've been natural since 2002. It's not fair to generalize a whole group of women (or PEOPLE for that matter) based on what some of them do, but those few make it bad for us good ones.
Off topic, I luv her bedroom, with so much light and the terrace she can sit out on!
hotdrumchick 2 months ago
@hotdrumchick Thank you so much, I could not have said it better.
91WriterzStatus 1 month ago
Straight up, I totally agree
kellynyce 2 months ago
Finally. Girl you said it right
kwilcox1126 2 months ago
I AM IN THE PHILADELPHIA PUBLIC LIBRARY AND ALL6 BLACK WOMEN HAVE FAKE HAIR AND ALL 3 WHITE WOMEN HAVE THEIR OWN HAIR.
CHECKMATE!!!!!!!!!
level242 2 months ago
That girl is cute
dmoneyas24 2 months ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 2 months ago
now shawty u definantly weren't listening to brothamans video, learn to listen carefully
Mademan281 2 months ago
did any of you watch the video b4 you say she is right?? he defended most of the stenotype's and he was just trying to make the video funny. me myself as a black woman and proud laughed through this video quite happily and the ways she defended the stenotype's were more or less the same way he defended them....
mislgrey 2 months ago
"...women from every race wear weave?" she obviously has never been to Asia. Black women just buy their hair from people who come from that region.
ankokugaiBOSS 2 months ago
@ankokugaiBOSS I live in Japan right now and you will see just as many Japanese women wearing weaves AND wigs as black women. so apparently you don't know what you are talking about.
bookieboo1024 2 months ago
@bookieboo1024 CRAZY! That percentage would have to be 1 girl per every 100,000. If I don't know what I'm talking about...fine. Make a video and show "just as many Japanese women wearing weaves"...especially in comparison to Black women. If you do, I promise to shut the fuck up and apologize. If not, I'm going to make a video that cuts your statement to shreds (btw I live in Japan too)
ankokugaiBOSS 2 months ago
"Black women from every race wear weave"
OK, you just shown there that you're not to be taken seriously. Black women have trouble growing long hair. Asian women have NO problem growing their hair long, and most of them do have long natural hair. I stopped listening after that comment because you're not interested in being fair minded. (And no, I'm not a black man.)
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
@LucisFerre1 black women dont have trouble growing long hair if they know go back to their roots to learn how to take care of it...the temperature in these countries are not like what our hairs are used to. neither are the styling products. hence why many of us get locks and twists and go natural now. american products for black hair is garbage. and its what destroys us....and this false beauty standard of white women beingmost beautiful but apparently not without tans, makeup and surgery. irony
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
@impatientwithdesire said [[black women dont have trouble growing long hair if they know go back to their roots to learn how to take care of it...hence why many of us get locks and twists and go natural now. american products for black hair is garbage. and its what destroys us.]]
IWD, thanks for the info. Lately, I've watched a few videos where black women give advice on naturally growing their hair long. I think it looks lovely.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
@LucisFerre1 It CERTAINLY does look good!!!! Still doesn't make it worth the trouble of approaching, though, with women acting/thinking/living the way they do, today.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@LucisFerre1 I stopped reading ur comment when u grouped all black women having trouble growing their hair #fail
TheFashionableChic 2 months ago
@LucisFerre1 Sweetheart not everyone wears weave because they are "having trouble" growing their hair. Some just want a different hair style that can't be achieved with their current length or they just want to change it up.....I have natural hair past my shoulders right now and do not wear a weave. Lastly....I have lived in Japan for the last two years and guess what....... Japanese women wear weaves and wigs. it's a shame to be so ignorant about different races.
bookieboo1024 2 months ago
@bookieboo1024, Congratulations on growing the natural hair. I'm sure that other races also wear weaves, but not at the rate enjoyed by Blacks, especially in America. Of course you know that the care of the hair of black people takes special care, moisturizing etc, to prevent breakage. As a white man, I have to wash my hair at least once a day, twice on gym days, that's 12 times a week. That's a bit of trouble and I never moisturize. Weaves are neither good nor bad IMO. I think they look nice.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
im a black man and i only date black women so ........
legendarygospel 2 months ago
I love you!
WizzoPro9476 2 months ago
Don't deflect and deny! women period are nuts, but u see it more w/ sisters here in America and American women PERIOD!
WizzoPro9476 2 months ago
Jaw dropping beauty!
WizzoPro9476 2 months ago
Dear black men:What is the point of hatingthe only women your sperm can create?
Do you know how stupid that makes you look? Dont you get that that means you are SELF HATING!
How can you hate black women when its black women who have died for you, bled for you, raised you , love you??
I dont get the sheer hatred that bm have for a whole race of women based on american CREATED stereotypes from slavery times!
doesnt make sense. why are dead white men's thoughts running your choices of women?
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
@impatientwithdesire
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"I dont get the sheer hatred that bm have for a whole race of women"
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You don't get it? Black women declared war on black men: Oprah in the 80s was the 1st to announce "Broaden your horizons"; the male-bashing movies came later. But, instead of the dating scene shrinking for black men, it actually exploded
Discovering that other races of men didn't want them like Oprah said they would, black women now want to come back home waving a white flag. It doesn't work that way!
mikedav9O 2 months ago
@mikedav9O ok when exactly was this war declared and how much space in your head did it take up?
fuckin lame tap dancin coon.
all you house niggas are the same
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mikedav9O 2 months ago
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I just told you that, too. Back in the 1980s, your leader Oprah Winfrey (a woman who has written in her autobiography that she wanted to be a white female and has laid on her back as a black sex toy to white men) declared war on Black men. Today, she has trouble getting quite a few black men on her show. Every black male bashing movie of the 90s were sponsored by her: Waiting To Exhale; Color Purple, etc.. If you want to get mad at somebody, start with yourself
mikedav9O 2 months ago
@mikedav9O my leader? what??? lol
cut down on that weed babe.
if you want to date nonblack girls go ahead
nobody wanted fat trash becky anyway.
but understand this
BLACK WOMEN DONT GIVE A SHIT. our relationships with nonblack men actually...last.
u mad?
peace. gonna go see my man. ooo and he got blue eyes too! you mad 2x? hahaha
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
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@impatientwithdesire
"peace. gonna go see my man. ooo and he got blue eyes too! you mad 2x? hahaha"
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If I had a penny for every time a black girl/ woman told me she was dating or marrying a white man, I would be rich. I wish there was a feasible way to liquidate your sentences.
mikedav9O 2 months ago
@impatientwithdesire He couldn't answer that with a date, anymore than you could accurately answer when women went independent. The question, itself, assumes that there was only one event that marks the start--when we all know that many events merged to launch it.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@mikedav9O said [[Discovering that other races of men didn't want them like Oprah said..black women now want to come back home waving a white flag.]]
BM/BW marriage rates are now shockingly low and while divorce rates have decreased for everyone else since 2000, except for BM/BW marriages, it's the same. While BM/WW divorce rates are twice as high as W/W D.rates in the past 10 years, WM/BW divorce rates are 42% LOWER that W/Ws and way lower than BM/WW
The common denominator is BM. Facts suck.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
@LucisFerre1
People interpret statistics to validate their personal agenda. It was Mark Twain who stated , "there are lies, damn lies and statistics". With that being said, let us now examine your data. First of all, BM/ WW divorce rates are high, because they are the #1 interracial coupling. Therefore, subsequently, WM/ BW divorce rates are lower, because white men (or any other race of man) are not marrying black women at the rate that black men are marrying white women. Duh!
mikedav9O 2 months ago
@mikedav9O,
1. A "RATE" is a percentage. It has nothing to do with absolute numbers, you innumerate, uneducated fool.
2. It doesn't necessarily follow that BM/WW are less successful than ANY other pairing simply by definition, just as it doesn't necessarily follow that WM/BW pairings are MORE successful than any other pairing mentioned. I used W/W marriages as a comparative standard, I could use any standard and the results are the same.
3. With all "bad" stats, BM are the common denominator.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
@LucisFerre1
1. I never debated on what a percentage was. However, since my FIRST degree is attached to a minor in mathematics (1 semester of calculus and 1 year of classical physics), you will be the last to interpret numbers for me, because everything you say is considered bias in my opinion.
2. Now like a fool, you are on a tangent. In my statement to you, ,I never discussed the success stories of black males.
3. That is entirely your opinion to which I disagree!
mikedav9O 1 month ago
@LucisFerre1
CONTINUE
If I wanted to be evil and vindictive as you are-- the typical black and disgruntled female-- I would first start by actually thanking you. Because, your statistics only proves that no race of man is rushing to marry black women.
mikedav9O 2 months ago
@mikedav9O,
1. Actually, I'm not a black woman.
2. It just so happens that although BM/WW marriages outnumbered WM/BW marriages by a ratio of greater than 3.6 to one in 1980, it's now a ratio of about 1.8 to 1 now, despite the fact that black women are BERATED, blamed, disenfranchised and made to feel guilty BY HER OWN PEOPLE for giving up on men who objectively prove to be failures by all standards of modern civility.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
@impatientwithdesire you're comment is deep, preach! :)
91WriterzStatus 1 month ago
@AuNaturale100 I think black women in america need to completely remove black men off their dating list. You can get sick internally from the things I have heard and seen black men say about black women. You would think they were satan himself by all the hatred black men have for black women.
It is amazing that black american women havent picked up on it yet. Black men are the most hateful and vile things on earth when it comes to black women- the majority ofthem anyway.
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
Why are black men so bitter? what is wrong with you guys?? If you have such problems with black women then why not provide solutions? Why do yall keep bitchin about the same things if you really wanted things differently?
I swear white people dont have to do anything! Black men are the biggest enemies and most hurtful towards black women than any white person!
No wonder no one from the carribean wants their daughters dating a black american man -you guys are disgusting / self hating idiots!
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
80% are rude bitches that give you attitude soon as you walk up to them you can say hi my name is or what ever they dont know how to act and you cant get a word in what so ever so all hope is lost
smith230 2 months ago
she real for dat but heyyy. i dont wanna date a hoodrat but i dont wanna date a uppaty ass black girl who thinks shes better then everyone kuz she went to yale or ect, sooo someone in between would be good
chrismcewing 2 months ago
Well again with black women you go lose either way..
Because you either go run into a hoodrat or the arrogant prideful ass bitches who are far worse than any hoodrat... So the best thing to do is just get you a good white woman and avoid the headaches all together...
theright1allthetime 2 months ago
there are only two types of black women in this world & i would rather date a hood rat than date a pretentious, superficial, useing black woman that is too full of herself & call herself classy. there are exseptions to every rule & i hope i'm proven wrong one day soon.
rikshaw223 2 months ago
@AuNaturale100 Deflection and strawman argument! I already explained how you contradicted yourself. Your deflections won't work on here. There was no rebuttal to what I said.
SSJ1Goku 2 months ago
@AuNaturale100 You completely contradicted yourself. First you said that these guys are the guys that BW don't want. Then you said that these guys made bad choices. Those two statments oppose eachother. You tried to make it seem like these guys could not get BW and then you admitted that they were getting them. Which is it? Simpleton ass BW!
SSJ1Goku 2 months ago