thank you :) I realize some of the past mistakes that I have made now, You have to find ways to make yourself happy.. not always rely on your partner because sometimes they need your help too.
@sleestack808 it amazes me too when really good looking girls stay with a guy who is ..(not that great looking and not even really all that nice and other things ..like being a jerk) ..( looks shouldnt matter too much- or at least that what we all tell ourselves)...but yea..i think all girls hot or not that prettiest traditionally stay with people that are not so good for them..but yea..really pretty girls could just really get anyone. it amazes me. ( not saying her relationship is bad) but yea.
Kasey, I was really touched by this video. You hit the nail on the head. It was really nice to hear such wise advice from someone closer to my age. These are all things that many of us probably already know deep down, but it helps to actually hear it from someone else. Thanks for your honest and helpful tips.
omg this video really makes me want to share this with my boyfriend... You have no idea how many times we break up... It's not healthy because we argue over the smallest things... Listening to this video you made is amazing. Thank you and I will be taking your advice into having a healthy relationship.
Please, I want to ask you a very personal question. If you don't want to say on here then could you inbox me? I'd like to know if your partner has always been faithful to you. You were saying about forgiveness but I've been cheated on by my partner and I don't think I could ever forgive him. I want to know if this has happened in your relationship because if it has and you are now happy and feel as thought you and your partner have a great relationship then that will give me the hope I need :)
i think u should do a blog on how to make an unhealthy relationship healthy again ..bc im in an unhealthy realtionship and there is love there but i been focussin on how to make it healthy insteed on loving so its pure conflicts and no trust
@stillglammom I loved your video! I was just wondering, was there ever a time where joe felt that he was just done with you? im kind of going through that now, thats why im asking. please answer you seem like you know a lot.
Your video is very good for young generation . I am 21 years old I living with my husband I know marriage relation is a very narrow way but as you said respect trust talk spent time together is very important .my husband have all the quality that you said I am very happy with him and now I have baby boy with him but our love is still the same as it was in the first time to be honest your advice was very helpful for me because I get angry at him all the time thank you soo much
Also, I'm only 17, and I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and people might think I'm stupid, but I see him as someone I will spend the rest of my life with.
I respect him so much, but I feel like he doesn't respect me. It's really hard at the moment but next year we're moving in together.
Also what do you do if your partners parents hate you?
@sjaiinee12 dump his ass and move on. he's not worth your time if he doesn't respect you and won't admit his mistakes. respect is the number one thing, if he doesn't even have that fo you then he's not even worth being friends with. no respect = no relationship. also moving in together is a very big mistake, live your life and stop looking for "the one," your whole life is ahead of you and you have no idea if it could end tomorrow. don't waste it chasing love and just enjoy your life.
Umm... okay well firstly, she's been with him for like 7 years or whatever so i don't think that she'll leave him, but i do agree that she deserves better.. if you've seen her labor story video then you'll see that he doesnt even pay attention to her and is on her phone. I would have smacked him one.
but i dont know him personally, so i cant judge him.
and secondly.. I clearly stated that i have a boyfriend :) && i dont date younger.
@sjaiinee12 firstly, im just telling you that you should do whats best for you. secondly, i WAS joing when i said call me. also its just advice. at the end of the day you can do whatever u want. ps: just because youve been through a lot doesn't mean its worth staying together
My boyfriend thinks he's always right and I think that if I can admit when I'm wrong or I stuff up that he should too. Because he's not always right and he doesn't always know what's best for me.
Dont take this the wrong way, But Im just trying to get this straight from watching your videos. So you had Dominic at 15? Then got with Jo at 17? He had his two children before you got together and Then you had Mairiah and Noah and now Bianca?
Hey umm names mario jus here for one questions... me and my girl have bn fightn alot n were taken time of our relation ship is it good or bad? I realy love my babygirl she changed da way I wuz n learn alot from her
i love your advice...i have been a single mom for many yrs now..i lost my first love that i was with for about 7 years and it was really hard for me to recover after that..ever since then i have been single i just concentrate on my three kids..i have lately been thinking about doing the dating thing again and i think that keeping your advice in mind i would b off to a good start..i love all your vids and i hope you continue to make them <3
Good advise it so true... Main thing respect each other n love each other no matter wut!! Im 24 n been w my husband 6 years we have 2 kids & since the beginning we made it clear wut our boundaries were & our likes & dislikes n we've had a very healthy relationship!! Many years 2 come....
you have such good advice!! i have watched literally ALL your videos and have liked them all!!!! please keep it up! :) i am a young mom like you and can relate so much!
You are very wise for your age young lady.....your husband is a very lucky man to have you..your heart and mind are so pure and in the right place...may God bless you and your family!
I used to talk to my girl friend preety non stop... we got exams and things recently, and they are stressful, but were talking less. In a previouse relationship, once things got bad, they just plumeted... how can i stop this from re accuring, and go back to just chatting loads and enjoying eachother company?
@QueenAceKing i bit my nails for my entire life. then i bought this special polish by ECRINAL. I think it was called STOP (something like that) and u will never ever bite your nails again if you put that on it! it tastes sooo nasty & will leave the worst bitter taste if u put it in your mouth. give it a try!
In searching through your videos for recipes when I came across this one that piqued my interest. First, great advice! At 25 you have an impressive understanding of what really is important and necessary in a healthy relationship. Most of us strive to do our best with our significant other but that just isn't enough. Relationships take work and part of that entails seeking a greater knowledge of how to handle your relationship. At your age that just doesn't seem to be the priority. Great job!
So is this baby number 4 for you? I don't know how you have time for these videos with five kids!!! I have tons of respect for you though:). And this is amazing advice.
ALL IN ALL, PEOPLE HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT FOR EXAMPLE ARGUING OVER STUPID LIL THINGS, YES IT WILL HAPPEN BUT LOOK AT YOU AFTER TIME YOU REALIZED IT WAS STUID AND TO CHOOSE THE BATTLES CAREFULLY.
OBVIOUSLY PEOPLE HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT TO FIND OUT FOR THEMSELVES. THATS JUST MY OPINION!
OF COURSE NONE THE LESS YOUR VIDEO WAS REALLYYY REALLY HELPFUL :D
i am 24 and i have been with my baby for 10 years now :) we dont have kids yet.. we used to argue in the past for so many stupid little things..now i look back and think how could we WASTE some precious time in such dumb thngs..bt yeah..past is past..now we r very happy..now we both want kids.. :) and spend the rest of our lives together! :) thanks for sharing girl :)
lingerie doesnt faze my partner... he doesnt care about it.. which is annoying cos theres nothing i can do to really make him go WOW... cos nothing fazes him like that.. kinda makes me feel sad sometimes cos thats wat would make me feel really sexy... but i cant cos hes just not into that..
Kasey, tnx so much for this video.Watching this made me realize a few things that I am doing wrong&should fix. My husband&I have been married for almost a yr&he is the very calm type,doesn't like to always talk about the past&make a big deal out of stupid things. I've been bringing up the past&blaming him for things.Im still learning alot, its hard sometimes :(. But thanks this video helped! Btw I think you& I are born on the same day. Feb 11/1986 right? Lol. Happy bday to us(tomorrow) Lol!
thanks for the advice Kasey. do you think you have advice for long distance relationships? i know your not a therapist lol but maybe if you had some wise words for me and my boyfriend, that would be great or anyone who comments. long story short, he was supposed to move out here to LA with me in April but now our plan is changing and I am so frustrated! its to the point where idk if i wanna be in a long distance relationship anymore, but I have too much love for him to just throw 4 years away
GIRL..THIS IS A BLESSING ..AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU BABY ..UR FUTURE MARRIAGE..UR RELATIONSHIP..AND MAY THE LORD DRAW U CLOSE TO HIS PURPOSE IN UR LIFE AN D RELATIONSHIP WITH UR PARTNER AS WELL..THANKS FOR POSTING THIS..IT WAS MOOORE THAN HELPFUL! GBU!
I'm still madly in love with my husband after 15 yrs of marriage (in July). We always take time out for each other, which is important. Whenever we are faced w/ a difficult situation, we never blame the other one for the problem but work as a team to get through it together. I believe that our infertility issues brought us closer (we now have 2 kiddos) If not for adversity, we wouldn't have the chance to grow together. Communication, Affection, Respect & Support are key!
This was really helpful and informative. I'm 18 and not in a relationship right now, but I will take these advices to heart and remember them when I have my next relationship. especially the thing with picking ur battles! thanks :)
ive been with my bf since i was `14 and he was 15..we do all these things and when we listen to each other and make time for each other it works realy well..we have broken up before and no ones perfect but you are sooo right!
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@rasmineemaiangowi im def no expert but when you been cheated on i think if you truly love that person i think you should let it go because in the long run you are only hurting yourself by thinking about it you aren't hurting your partner the damage is only being done to you so if you truly love him let it go n believe me i know it can be one of the hardest to do.. bcus after two yrs im bearly trying to let it go because it isn't healthy either to keep something in like that.hope i helped(:
I've been in a relationship for nearly a year now, but he's lied to me and completely broken my trust, this hasn't changed how much i love him, but I how do i know if i can trust him again? Will he ever change?
all your relationship advice is so spot on and im happy for you that you two have such a healthy happy relationship :) i think you will have many blessed years to come
I'm Actually in my first real relationship so this was so helpful,im very very lucky to have my partner in my life and i hope we last as long as you have,your a very inspiring person :) <3 x
I married my son's father when I was 19 years old. We both, grew & changed and at 23yro. I became a divorced, single mother. Which in turn was the path that God chose for me. I have been now married to my husband, Wes for 6 years. Ultimately our relationship with God is our true guideline.
im only 14 and hve had my first boyfriend since april 2009, thats amost 2 years, i cant belive it! i love him so much... hes one of the best thing that has ever happend to me...i got him his christmas present, and i was suprised that we have lasted this long as our realationship is long distance and this shows trust. as he trusts me not to cheat and i trust him to not do the same! so trust and love and everything you said are the best things.
I'm only 15, but me and my first boyfriend broke up 2 months ago, after dating for 7 months. It's not as hard as it was in the beginning, but now looking back I realize so much time was wasted on me nagging about dumb things. I wish I had handled our problems differently cuz' he was so good to me. Sadly, I don't see us getting back together, but I've finally realize it's a lesson learned. In my next relationship I'll handle things differently and have a healthier, longer relationship.
@Dmimima don't worry. everyone does stupid things in their first relationships. :) but you have obviously learned something and taken those mistakes to be a better person and thats what matters. :)
Wow, you offer really really great advice. I'm studying Psychology to become a Marriage and Family Therapist which takes at least a Master's Degree (MFT) and most of, if not all, the things you mentioned are what they teach in the classes I'm taking. What we are taught are all things that have been scientifically proven, not just anyone's personal opinion and you said a lot of really accurate things. (: Thanks for the advice! I'm sure it will help a lot of people! <3
You are soooo right in everything you said! right now i'm having trouble just saying what makes me mad and it makes my boyfriend soooo mad! He wants me to tell him whats bugging me and i alway's hold it in. So right now i'm working on that! But thanks for the advice it really helps:)
Some really good points here. I know most of us kindof already know this stuff deep down, but it's good to be reminded and have it laid out simply as it's easy to forget all this stuff when you're caught up with the daily drudge of life! Thanks xxx
I just found ur videos they're awesome!! U r an amazing person!! I have 2 girls and a boy and I'm having another girl ;) I'm 32 weeks pregnant!!! Please don't stop making videos...
i think the man should make videos like this too! sometimes we just need a guys point of view to help us understand what our man is going through too! cuz seriously we CANNOT read minds!
Me & my hubby started going out when I was 13 he was 14 I got pregnant at 15 & started living with him since then. I am 22 now I am so happy we have grown a lot & still need to. All girls that I went to school with only me & other friend are still with the same partner & our kids are from the same dad. It's sad how a lot of girls don't stay with their first baby daddy. But I feel that I am going to be with him forever because he was first everything & I love him so much.
good advice! im 23 and that all relates to me and my man.i love your vids for beauty tips and other 'girl' issues, keep em coming! you have helped me with so many little makeup ideas i totally forget about! by the way,your face looks sooo pretty with your hair pulled back too ugh im jealous:) thanks for your advice girly, again!
loved this now i know why everyone always says my hubby and i have an awesome relationship we do all of this except the spending time together part..he in the military so his schedule is always crazy when hes not on deployment which hes leaving in feb for a year :( anyways nice video! :)
I totally agree with everything you said. I been with my husband for 7 years and married for almost 6years and we went through alot but grew from it and our relationship is stronger for it.
I have dated a few guys and did everything the opposite of all your advice. And I'm positive thats why the relationships failed. I was single for two years before I started dating the guy I'm seeing now, and I had a lot of time to think and grow as a person. I kinda realized all the things you're saying, and so far things have been going well with the guy I've been seeing (dec. will be our fifth month dating). At times its hard but not once have I thought it wasn't worth working through.
i have been with my hubby since i was 15 and now married 5 years. we have a beautiful 4 yr old daughter and just found out im pregnant.. i think that our relationship has got stronger as years pass. :) great video..
I just wish more women would appreciate their husbands. I know many that take them for granted and these girls want men that are 100% perfect. I'm happy with the man I have he's 95% perfect. :)
Hi Kasey, thanks for this great advice, me and my hubby have been together for 12 yrs,( since I was 17) and we definitley grew together as well as grew apart for awhile. Just hearing this makes me want to be a better person for him and myself and it really made realize I need to stop and think of his feelings more and not be so controlling or overact on petty things. Thx for this vid!
Me and my husband has been together for 7 years and married for 1 and have a 6 yeard old and has been through alot of tested times. Just because you're together for so long and then decide to get married doesn't mean that nothing changes.....EVERYTHING changes it's weird. We've dealt with alot but started to learn to listen to each other (we are so different) we're good now and expecting another lil angel.
I been with my husband since I was 17 we will be celabrating our 8 year anniversary this month. Our relationship is so amazing. The only thing I would have to say that has put a stran on our relationship is he works alot 13 hour days Mon-Sat . But he is always trying to find time to be with me. We try to go out on date's 2 time's a month and we have movie night with the kid's on friday's . He read's and put them to bed every night. I love hem so much. Thank you for this video. Great couple.
ive ben wit my bf since i was 15 im 19 now... n we r acctually having a rough path at da moment... n dis helpd alot... not dat i didnt already knoe buh like 2 reenforce it sooo thank yu
My husband is a wonderful man that I wouldn't trade for the world. We started off with nothing and together as a family we have what we have today. Our love created two bundles of joy that even though at times there lil rascals lol =) I couldn't see my life with out them. Thumbs up =Happy Homes!!!
Your are right all the key factors that you mention above is what we live by & that is why our relationship has made it this far.
My husband & I are high school sweethearts. September 2010 9 years and our relationship is still very strong. When we go places and even family members say that the way we look @ each other and the way we act as if we were barely a couple. Something like that puppy love. During the duration of our 9 year relationship we have never broken up. Don't get me wrong we had our up & downs but nothing drastic to where it would cause a relationship to end.
Hey honey.. i love all your videos.. and your mommy ones even tho i am not a mom.. but me and my husband will be married for a year in january.. and he is in the military and is deploying in january right before our anniversary & his birthday. :( it is always hard to be apart and i just get so emotional at times like this and this is the first time since we've been together that we actually got to be together.. for 6 months now.. and we've been together for almost 3 years.
great video!! I met my husband when i was 15, dated for 3 yrs. and got married, there has been ups and downs, but thank God we're still together, and we pretty much do everything you said in the video... ;) It feels great, we are going on our 5 yr. together, 2 beautiful kids, and super happy!! <3
this vid is right on for me, except for the expectation part. I seen a vid from this guy named Andy Stanley, and he talks about marriage expectations, and he gets really deep, but he basically helped me and my husband grow as a couple.
You are very "aware" for your age, and although a lot of it sounds like common sense, it got me thinking about my behaviour in my relationship and I will definitely make some changes. Or be more "aware". Thanks, you're a great woman! :)
Great video! Were u getting a little emotional doing this vid? I sensed a bit of tears wanting to burst out... I use to get like that when I was pregnant...
Very great advice! So true!! I'm sure everyone goes into a relationship/marriage having these things in mind, but sometimes we may forget about these things such as appreciation and not to argue over disagreements and whatnot. It's something we need to be reminded of from time to time! =) I'm married of almost two years & we've hit our first bump...but with some of these points mentioned in the video, we;re overcoming it together!
aww! i met my boyfriend now when i was 16..so now im 20 and were almost at 4 years! not married or engaged yet. but i want to have my dream wedding so im willing to wait. plus we still have alot of things we want to do before paying for a wedding lol your so sweet! i loved the advice!
I knew a lot of these things but it was good hearing from someone who has been with their partner for over 5yrs I had a past relasionship where I communicated and he always took things personal which when I told him how I felt I would tell him in a nice way and he use to call me negative and I said no these are my feelings and the things he done that I didnt want to do he didnt respect he called me boring which I am not into drugs I tried to rationalize and he always complained.
what lipcolor are u wearing here?off topic i know lol. i think most couples could benefit from some counseling at some point in their relationship. nobodies perfect. i dont think any couple is perfect. its helpful to have someone on the outside who can be unbiased. do you guys have a date set yet i thought u said u were engaged?
Me and my ex are talking about getting back together, and I see through the info you gave, where we failed before. if it works out his time. I am certainly taking all of your advice :)
This was such a wonderful video! I agree with EVERYTHING you said! This is very helpful! What you said was true! It makes you think about how your relationship is going and how to make it even better!
I am 21 and I have been with my husband since 15. we got married when i was 17 and he was 19. I feel the same way as you Kasey. My husband and I split up 3 times within our first year of marriage. Each time no more than 2 weeks. I feel like we have both grown so much, and I would never leave him again for stupid things like I did before. It's just nice to have someone I can relate to even if I don't know you in person.
I have always looked up to you for many things, including your relationship with Joe. I'm so happy you made this video, because if we were friends in real life I would ask your advice on this topic. :D
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and yeah we have had our hard times like every other relationship but all your tips will strengthen a relationship. I think also being humble is key too! I think some problems that i see with relationships is that women like to be the mothers to their men and not their Gf/wife. In other words boss around..hehehe..but great tips! =)
I am 21 and I have been with my husband since 15. we got married when i was 17 and he was 19. I feel the same way as you Kasey. My husband and I split up 3 times within our first year of marriage. Each time no more than 2 weeks. I feel like we have both grown so much, and I would never leave him again for stupid things like I did before. It's just nice to have someone I can relate to even if I don't know you in person.
it puts a smile on my face to see people in healthy relationships....i am currently pregnant myself (35 weeks). I think you and your hubby are so cute!
I've been with my boyfriend for 7 and a half years too. He's amazing.
LaurenLafaive 1 week ago
im curious are you married?
sweetheart2u96 2 weeks ago
Great advice!! You nailed it momma!! :)
DollEyesByShambron 3 weeks ago
This was really good advice. Best video on this topic.
777lovea777 3 weeks ago
thank you :) I realize some of the past mistakes that I have made now, You have to find ways to make yourself happy.. not always rely on your partner because sometimes they need your help too.
Christina555551 1 month ago
gr8 vid ... u gain that through experience n now r sharing it with us gr8 wrk
0o0miz0o0 1 month ago
Its true, its great. Thanks for sharing:-)
eneth26 1 month ago
you think you are J Lo
mikertones 1 month ago
excellant video...great advice!
hipretty 1 month ago
you probably date an asshole like all hot girls do
sleestack808 1 month ago
@sleestack808 it amazes me too when really good looking girls stay with a guy who is ..(not that great looking and not even really all that nice and other things ..like being a jerk) ..( looks shouldnt matter too much- or at least that what we all tell ourselves)...but yea..i think all girls hot or not that prettiest traditionally stay with people that are not so good for them..but yea..really pretty girls could just really get anyone. it amazes me. ( not saying her relationship is bad) but yea.
MsSMSgirl 3 weeks ago
@MsSMSgirl they confuse cockiness (jerkyness) with confidence. All women love confidence
sleestack808 3 weeks ago
@MsSMSgirl also, a lot of women have low self esteems. they seek out abuse so they can get validation and prove to themselves they are worthy
sleestack808 3 weeks ago
Kasey, I was really touched by this video. You hit the nail on the head. It was really nice to hear such wise advice from someone closer to my age. These are all things that many of us probably already know deep down, but it helps to actually hear it from someone else. Thanks for your honest and helpful tips.
casandrabenzing 2 months ago
You are an inspiration and so mature.
sbgitana1 2 months ago
Hey can u help me on my problem? Or do u have a facebook?
samanthatj124 2 months ago
i really like this video i realize i will follow your advice to make me and my fiance have healthy relationship .because we been argue a lot
i will let him to watch it .
thank you for your nice video
good bless
kaiko931 2 months ago
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kaiko931 2 months ago
this helped me a lot=) i always re-watch it when i hit a rough patch with a man
CharlottaLuv1 3 months ago
omg this video really makes me want to share this with my boyfriend... You have no idea how many times we break up... It's not healthy because we argue over the smallest things... Listening to this video you made is amazing. Thank you and I will be taking your advice into having a healthy relationship.
RealWorldDeltaTauL1 3 months ago
you have FACTS.....seriously, this is very good.
ashirwadbayne 3 months ago
Beautiful..
ashirwadbayne 3 months ago
Please, I want to ask you a very personal question. If you don't want to say on here then could you inbox me? I'd like to know if your partner has always been faithful to you. You were saying about forgiveness but I've been cheated on by my partner and I don't think I could ever forgive him. I want to know if this has happened in your relationship because if it has and you are now happy and feel as thought you and your partner have a great relationship then that will give me the hope I need :)
FrickinChillB 3 months ago
Thank you 4 da awsome advice,
CrazyHawkEyes 3 months ago
Thank you! soo needed. hugs!
KristinaBlue 3 months ago
Very,VERY,good advice...I will definitely follow your advice :)
lillay2doll 3 months ago
what a help! legend! x
perfectLOvEcastsFEAR 3 months ago
@perfectLOvEcastsFEAR i agree, im in the same position :)
ViDMAStR09 3 months ago
i think u should do a blog on how to make an unhealthy relationship healthy again ..bc im in an unhealthy realtionship and there is love there but i been focussin on how to make it healthy insteed on loving so its pure conflicts and no trust
stunnaafghanbarbie 4 months ago
@stillglammom I loved your video! I was just wondering, was there ever a time where joe felt that he was just done with you? im kind of going through that now, thats why im asking. please answer you seem like you know a lot.
montse1771 4 months ago
Your video is very good for young generation . I am 21 years old I living with my husband I know marriage relation is a very narrow way but as you said respect trust talk spent time together is very important .my husband have all the quality that you said I am very happy with him and now I have baby boy with him but our love is still the same as it was in the first time to be honest your advice was very helpful for me because I get angry at him all the time thank you soo much
MrKksubhan 4 months ago
Thanks for making this video! It was imfomative specially coming from someone young. Your so pretty....what is ur ethnicity?
Pinkzzznew 4 months ago
Also, I'm only 17, and I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and people might think I'm stupid, but I see him as someone I will spend the rest of my life with.
I respect him so much, but I feel like he doesn't respect me. It's really hard at the moment but next year we're moving in together.
Also what do you do if your partners parents hate you?
sjaiinee12 4 months ago
@sjaiinee12 dump his ass and move on. he's not worth your time if he doesn't respect you and won't admit his mistakes. respect is the number one thing, if he doesn't even have that fo you then he's not even worth being friends with. no respect = no relationship. also moving in together is a very big mistake, live your life and stop looking for "the one," your whole life is ahead of you and you have no idea if it could end tomorrow. don't waste it chasing love and just enjoy your life.
igotabigEGO81055 4 months ago
@igotabigEGO81055
Thanks, but its kinda hard, because you don't know the situation i'm in... & you don't know what we've been through together..
but thanks for your opinion. xo
sjaiinee12 4 months ago
@sjaiinee12 i'm only 16 by the way. call me :P
but seriously, this fool needs to be nexted and quickly, like a band-aid
igotabigEGO81055 4 months ago
@igotabigEGO81055
Umm... okay well firstly, she's been with him for like 7 years or whatever so i don't think that she'll leave him, but i do agree that she deserves better.. if you've seen her labor story video then you'll see that he doesnt even pay attention to her and is on her phone. I would have smacked him one.
but i dont know him personally, so i cant judge him.
and secondly.. I clearly stated that i have a boyfriend :) && i dont date younger.
sjaiinee12 4 months ago
@sjaiinee12 firstly, im just telling you that you should do whats best for you. secondly, i WAS joing when i said call me. also its just advice. at the end of the day you can do whatever u want. ps: just because youve been through a lot doesn't mean its worth staying together
igotabigEGO81055 4 months ago
@igotabigEGO81055
well i think it is worth staying together :) but thanks
sjaiinee12 4 months ago
My boyfriend thinks he's always right and I think that if I can admit when I'm wrong or I stuff up that he should too. Because he's not always right and he doesn't always know what's best for me.
sjaiinee12 4 months ago
Dont take this the wrong way, But Im just trying to get this straight from watching your videos. So you had Dominic at 15? Then got with Jo at 17? He had his two children before you got together and Then you had Mairiah and Noah and now Bianca?
Sorry if the names are spelled wrong
MissMiriah188 5 months ago 4
Love this
KamilaMakeupART 5 months ago
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Hey umm names mario jus here for one questions... me and my girl have bn fightn alot n were taken time of our relation ship is it good or bad? I realy love my babygirl she changed da way I wuz n learn alot from her
throweYungPlaya 7 months ago
Wow, your husband is soo hot <3
&& im so confused, which kids r yours?!?
dearborn05 7 months ago
u r beatiful :)
andresjdmfull 7 months ago 2
i love your advice...i have been a single mom for many yrs now..i lost my first love that i was with for about 7 years and it was really hard for me to recover after that..ever since then i have been single i just concentrate on my three kids..i have lately been thinking about doing the dating thing again and i think that keeping your advice in mind i would b off to a good start..i love all your vids and i hope you continue to make them <3
makeupmommy7 7 months ago
Good advise it so true... Main thing respect each other n love each other no matter wut!! Im 24 n been w my husband 6 years we have 2 kids & since the beginning we made it clear wut our boundaries were & our likes & dislikes n we've had a very healthy relationship!! Many years 2 come....
lilcherrybomb86 7 months ago
omg you have gorgeous eyes!! and thanks for the advice!! <3
hamdi193 8 months ago
you have such good advice!! i have watched literally ALL your videos and have liked them all!!!! please keep it up! :) i am a young mom like you and can relate so much!
racoonl0ve 8 months ago 3
omg! you nailed it girl!
beautybytk 8 months ago
Wow your my age...lol. I have 3 little ones also..but no hubby. So yea cherish that.
lisa9047 8 months ago
ARE U GUYS STILLL TOGETHER
31209jenny 9 months ago
You are very wise for your age young lady.....your husband is a very lucky man to have you..your heart and mind are so pure and in the right place...may God bless you and your family!
cootercat486 9 months ago
Your an amazing person,Joe is a lucky man!
navygirlist 9 months ago
You have informative reasons and tips to stay in a healthy relationship.
stephkung 9 months ago
I used to talk to my girl friend preety non stop... we got exams and things recently, and they are stressful, but were talking less. In a previouse relationship, once things got bad, they just plumeted... how can i stop this from re accuring, and go back to just chatting loads and enjoying eachother company?
BenRessaFilm 9 months ago
I needed to hear this, especially now that I'm going threw difficult times with my 5 year relationship. Thank you for your thoughts. =)
LadyDee828 10 months ago
Do you bite your nails? I do, and it kinda looks like you do too, but I can't tell because of the lighting...
I've been trying to stop biting my nails ever since I was little,but I just can't... It's like I do it unconsciously... I hate it!
QueenAceKing 11 months ago
@QueenAceKing i bit my nails for my entire life. then i bought this special polish by ECRINAL. I think it was called STOP (something like that) and u will never ever bite your nails again if you put that on it! it tastes sooo nasty & will leave the worst bitter taste if u put it in your mouth. give it a try!
MzJ83 6 months ago
In searching through your videos for recipes when I came across this one that piqued my interest. First, great advice! At 25 you have an impressive understanding of what really is important and necessary in a healthy relationship. Most of us strive to do our best with our significant other but that just isn't enough. Relationships take work and part of that entails seeking a greater knowledge of how to handle your relationship. At your age that just doesn't seem to be the priority. Great job!
scrumps101 11 months ago
U h
phatfaces73 11 months ago
So is this baby number 4 for you? I don't know how you have time for these videos with five kids!!! I have tons of respect for you though:). And this is amazing advice.
cassieceline28 11 months ago
ALL IN ALL, PEOPLE HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT FOR EXAMPLE ARGUING OVER STUPID LIL THINGS, YES IT WILL HAPPEN BUT LOOK AT YOU AFTER TIME YOU REALIZED IT WAS STUID AND TO CHOOSE THE BATTLES CAREFULLY.
OBVIOUSLY PEOPLE HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT TO FIND OUT FOR THEMSELVES. THATS JUST MY OPINION!
OF COURSE NONE THE LESS YOUR VIDEO WAS REALLYYY REALLY HELPFUL :D
onetoughcookiiee 11 months ago
you saved my relationship. i thank you so much.
Makeupaddict96 11 months ago
i am 24 and i have been with my baby for 10 years now :) we dont have kids yet.. we used to argue in the past for so many stupid little things..now i look back and think how could we WASTE some precious time in such dumb thngs..bt yeah..past is past..now we r very happy..now we both want kids.. :) and spend the rest of our lives together! :) thanks for sharing girl :)
iloveupapi07 1 year ago
lingerie doesnt faze my partner... he doesnt care about it.. which is annoying cos theres nothing i can do to really make him go WOW... cos nothing fazes him like that.. kinda makes me feel sad sometimes cos thats wat would make me feel really sexy... but i cant cos hes just not into that..
MadzGoose 1 year ago
Kasey, tnx so much for this video.Watching this made me realize a few things that I am doing wrong&should fix. My husband&I have been married for almost a yr&he is the very calm type,doesn't like to always talk about the past&make a big deal out of stupid things. I've been bringing up the past&blaming him for things.Im still learning alot, its hard sometimes :(. But thanks this video helped! Btw I think you& I are born on the same day. Feb 11/1986 right? Lol. Happy bday to us(tomorrow) Lol!
MissUniverse86 1 year ago
you look like "MY GIRL" the girl from that movie..
I love your advice.. im having many differences with my bf of 7yrs and i dont kno where its gonna go... =( but maybe this advice will help..
Beloveable925 1 year ago
this was really great advice, thanks kasey! xx
trisha60 1 year ago
i LOVE your accent!!
XxJosielxX 1 year ago
thanks for the advice Kasey. do you think you have advice for long distance relationships? i know your not a therapist lol but maybe if you had some wise words for me and my boyfriend, that would be great or anyone who comments. long story short, he was supposed to move out here to LA with me in April but now our plan is changing and I am so frustrated! its to the point where idk if i wanna be in a long distance relationship anymore, but I have too much love for him to just throw 4 years away
ULTAchic 1 year ago
* YOUR BABY LOL
tru235 1 year ago
GIRL..THIS IS A BLESSING ..AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU BABY ..UR FUTURE MARRIAGE..UR RELATIONSHIP..AND MAY THE LORD DRAW U CLOSE TO HIS PURPOSE IN UR LIFE AN D RELATIONSHIP WITH UR PARTNER AS WELL..THANKS FOR POSTING THIS..IT WAS MOOORE THAN HELPFUL! GBU!
tru235 1 year ago
youve been with him for 7 years and you have 5 kids ? how did you do it ?? :0
massari93 1 year ago 29
@massari93 I have 3 kids :) and 2 step sons :)
StillGlamMom 1 year ago 35
I'm still madly in love with my husband after 15 yrs of marriage (in July). We always take time out for each other, which is important. Whenever we are faced w/ a difficult situation, we never blame the other one for the problem but work as a team to get through it together. I believe that our infertility issues brought us closer (we now have 2 kiddos) If not for adversity, we wouldn't have the chance to grow together. Communication, Affection, Respect & Support are key!
lmmbchampion 1 year ago
This was really helpful and informative. I'm 18 and not in a relationship right now, but I will take these advices to heart and remember them when I have my next relationship. especially the thing with picking ur battles! thanks :)
GlamourHollywood 1 year ago
ive been with my bf since i was `14 and he was 15..we do all these things and when we listen to each other and make time for each other it works realy well..we have broken up before and no ones perfect but you are sooo right!
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PLEASE GIVE US SOME TIPS ON CHEATING ADVISE!!!?!?! HOW CAN WE LET IT GO? OR SHOULD WE LET IT GO?
rasmineemaiangowi 1 year ago 2
@rasmineemaiangowi im def no expert but when you been cheated on i think if you truly love that person i think you should let it go because in the long run you are only hurting yourself by thinking about it you aren't hurting your partner the damage is only being done to you so if you truly love him let it go n believe me i know it can be one of the hardest to do.. bcus after two yrs im bearly trying to let it go because it isn't healthy either to keep something in like that.hope i helped(:
neniizchannel 1 year ago
I've been in a relationship for nearly a year now, but he's lied to me and completely broken my trust, this hasn't changed how much i love him, but I how do i know if i can trust him again? Will he ever change?
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MakeySewn 1 year ago
all your relationship advice is so spot on and im happy for you that you two have such a healthy happy relationship :) i think you will have many blessed years to come
TheSillycricket 1 year ago
I'm Actually in my first real relationship so this was so helpful,im very very lucky to have my partner in my life and i hope we last as long as you have,your a very inspiring person :) <3 x
FrankieRawrr 1 year ago
EXCELLENT ADVICE!
MsLaylaBug 1 year ago
is he the daddy of all your kids?
Kiirahhh 1 year ago
I married my son's father when I was 19 years old. We both, grew & changed and at 23yro. I became a divorced, single mother. Which in turn was the path that God chose for me. I have been now married to my husband, Wes for 6 years. Ultimately our relationship with God is our true guideline.
Shannindhall 1 year ago
im only 14 and hve had my first boyfriend since april 2009, thats amost 2 years, i cant belive it! i love him so much... hes one of the best thing that has ever happend to me...i got him his christmas present, and i was suprised that we have lasted this long as our realationship is long distance and this shows trust. as he trusts me not to cheat and i trust him to not do the same! so trust and love and everything you said are the best things.
I Love my babey forever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ScotlandForever12 1 year ago
I'm only 15, but me and my first boyfriend broke up 2 months ago, after dating for 7 months. It's not as hard as it was in the beginning, but now looking back I realize so much time was wasted on me nagging about dumb things. I wish I had handled our problems differently cuz' he was so good to me. Sadly, I don't see us getting back together, but I've finally realize it's a lesson learned. In my next relationship I'll handle things differently and have a healthier, longer relationship.
Dmimima 1 year ago
@Dmimima don't worry. everyone does stupid things in their first relationships. :) but you have obviously learned something and taken those mistakes to be a better person and thats what matters. :)
TheSillycricket 1 year ago
Wow! You are the most together 24 year old I've ever "met"! Pretty makeup look too :-D
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Wow, you offer really really great advice. I'm studying Psychology to become a Marriage and Family Therapist which takes at least a Master's Degree (MFT) and most of, if not all, the things you mentioned are what they teach in the classes I'm taking. What we are taught are all things that have been scientifically proven, not just anyone's personal opinion and you said a lot of really accurate things. (: Thanks for the advice! I'm sure it will help a lot of people! <3
benevolentxheart 1 year ago
you seem very beautiful not from your looks but from inside, your heart, and i believe that is what makes a person beautiful
mrsmire91 1 year ago
You are soooo right in everything you said! right now i'm having trouble just saying what makes me mad and it makes my boyfriend soooo mad! He wants me to tell him whats bugging me and i alway's hold it in. So right now i'm working on that! But thanks for the advice it really helps:)
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VampiroDeLaFrontera 1 year ago
Some really good points here. I know most of us kindof already know this stuff deep down, but it's good to be reminded and have it laid out simply as it's easy to forget all this stuff when you're caught up with the daily drudge of life! Thanks xxx
violettiger21 1 year ago
I just found ur videos they're awesome!! U r an amazing person!! I have 2 girls and a boy and I'm having another girl ;) I'm 32 weeks pregnant!!! Please don't stop making videos...
Chapis821 1 year ago
Great Advice!!
LuvLuvMAC0929 1 year ago
i think the man should make videos like this too! sometimes we just need a guys point of view to help us understand what our man is going through too! cuz seriously we CANNOT read minds!
rosterthao 1 year ago 3
why dont you guys get married?
4everdaga 1 year ago 39
Me & my hubby started going out when I was 13 he was 14 I got pregnant at 15 & started living with him since then. I am 22 now I am so happy we have grown a lot & still need to. All girls that I went to school with only me & other friend are still with the same partner & our kids are from the same dad. It's sad how a lot of girls don't stay with their first baby daddy. But I feel that I am going to be with him forever because he was first everything & I love him so much.
SuperSanchez21 1 year ago
thanx for this vid, came at exactly the right time, much appreciated xx
mancgyal09 1 year ago
do you think getting married at like 21 or 22 is a good idea?
love you vids <3
bublegumkid 1 year ago
Thank you for reminding me this. I'll keep supporting my boyfriend no matter how busy he is with his career.
eeveeta 1 year ago
good advice! im 23 and that all relates to me and my man.i love your vids for beauty tips and other 'girl' issues, keep em coming! you have helped me with so many little makeup ideas i totally forget about! by the way,your face looks sooo pretty with your hair pulled back too ugh im jealous:) thanks for your advice girly, again!
jayzednconfusedable 1 year ago
loved this now i know why everyone always says my hubby and i have an awesome relationship we do all of this except the spending time together part..he in the military so his schedule is always crazy when hes not on deployment which hes leaving in feb for a year :( anyways nice video! :)
wadsworthc 1 year ago
youre awesome!!!! :)
Mslaura0828 1 year ago
i've been with my husband since i was 17 as well! i'm 23 now. we got married this past may. we're working on having kids now! <3
SinInterrupted 1 year ago
I totally agree with everything you said. I been with my husband for 7 years and married for almost 6years and we went through alot but grew from it and our relationship is stronger for it.
xpinkdollie 1 year ago
Great video!
I love your other channel.....but- this is my favorite!
gcolie 1 year ago
Thanks for the video, it really meant alot, i have a question...
U been with ur hubby since u were 17, did u ever at one point feel bad cause u missed out on ur youth? plz answer.....
Newcombst 1 year ago
I have dated a few guys and did everything the opposite of all your advice. And I'm positive thats why the relationships failed. I was single for two years before I started dating the guy I'm seeing now, and I had a lot of time to think and grow as a person. I kinda realized all the things you're saying, and so far things have been going well with the guy I've been seeing (dec. will be our fifth month dating). At times its hard but not once have I thought it wasn't worth working through.
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lovetwins89 1 year ago
this is all great advice and I think some of it can apply to friendships too. great video!
melodramakid 1 year ago
beautiful video...very true and good advice :) xxx
senoritascouse 1 year ago 3
very true vodeo...
3layerzdeep 1 year ago
i have been with my hubby since i was 15 and now married 5 years. we have a beautiful 4 yr old daughter and just found out im pregnant.. i think that our relationship has got stronger as years pass. :) great video..
lupemende 1 year ago
I just wish more women would appreciate their husbands. I know many that take them for granted and these girls want men that are 100% perfect. I'm happy with the man I have he's 95% perfect. :)
pinkcadillac517 1 year ago
Hi Kasey, thanks for this great advice, me and my hubby have been together for 12 yrs,( since I was 17) and we definitley grew together as well as grew apart for awhile. Just hearing this makes me want to be a better person for him and myself and it really made realize I need to stop and think of his feelings more and not be so controlling or overact on petty things. Thx for this vid!
MelandMakeup 1 year ago
Me and my husband has been together for 7 years and married for 1 and have a 6 yeard old and has been through alot of tested times. Just because you're together for so long and then decide to get married doesn't mean that nothing changes.....EVERYTHING changes it's weird. We've dealt with alot but started to learn to listen to each other (we are so different) we're good now and expecting another lil angel.
axplove03 1 year ago
Dude, added this to my favorites. Thanks girl!
jdeanda7 1 year ago
I been with my husband since I was 17 we will be celabrating our 8 year anniversary this month. Our relationship is so amazing. The only thing I would have to say that has put a stran on our relationship is he works alot 13 hour days Mon-Sat . But he is always trying to find time to be with me. We try to go out on date's 2 time's a month and we have movie night with the kid's on friday's . He read's and put them to bed every night. I love hem so much. Thank you for this video. Great couple.
erubio070707 1 year ago
everything u said is so right, great video!
AmyCuty 1 year ago
ive ben wit my bf since i was 15 im 19 now... n we r acctually having a rough path at da moment... n dis helpd alot... not dat i didnt already knoe buh like 2 reenforce it sooo thank yu
Quantezgirl1017 1 year ago
My husband is a wonderful man that I wouldn't trade for the world. We started off with nothing and together as a family we have what we have today. Our love created two bundles of joy that even though at times there lil rascals lol =) I couldn't see my life with out them. Thumbs up =Happy Homes!!!
Your are right all the key factors that you mention above is what we live by & that is why our relationship has made it this far.
AG78245 1 year ago
My husband & I are high school sweethearts. September 2010 9 years and our relationship is still very strong. When we go places and even family members say that the way we look @ each other and the way we act as if we were barely a couple. Something like that puppy love. During the duration of our 9 year relationship we have never broken up. Don't get me wrong we had our up & downs but nothing drastic to where it would cause a relationship to end.
AG78245 1 year ago
Great advice!
msmarch4 1 year ago
Hey honey.. i love all your videos.. and your mommy ones even tho i am not a mom.. but me and my husband will be married for a year in january.. and he is in the military and is deploying in january right before our anniversary & his birthday. :( it is always hard to be apart and i just get so emotional at times like this and this is the first time since we've been together that we actually got to be together.. for 6 months now.. and we've been together for almost 3 years.
mollymander16 1 year ago
Well said... : )
gemsa1987 1 year ago
great video!! I met my husband when i was 15, dated for 3 yrs. and got married, there has been ups and downs, but thank God we're still together, and we pretty much do everything you said in the video... ;) It feels great, we are going on our 5 yr. together, 2 beautiful kids, and super happy!! <3
zikixhacon 1 year ago
this vid is right on for me, except for the expectation part. I seen a vid from this guy named Andy Stanley, and he talks about marriage expectations, and he gets really deep, but he basically helped me and my husband grow as a couple.
rastagirl2007 1 year ago
You are very "aware" for your age, and although a lot of it sounds like common sense, it got me thinking about my behaviour in my relationship and I will definitely make some changes. Or be more "aware". Thanks, you're a great woman! :)
mialovesmusic 1 year ago
Great video! Were u getting a little emotional doing this vid? I sensed a bit of tears wanting to burst out... I use to get like that when I was pregnant...
143Nikks 1 year ago
Great video!!
AutumnMSM 1 year ago
Very great advice! So true!! I'm sure everyone goes into a relationship/marriage having these things in mind, but sometimes we may forget about these things such as appreciation and not to argue over disagreements and whatnot. It's something we need to be reminded of from time to time! =) I'm married of almost two years & we've hit our first bump...but with some of these points mentioned in the video, we;re overcoming it together!
HummingBird1107 1 year ago
Everything is RIGHT! You are great! So good-hearted!
Ingelsi 1 year ago
I meet my hubby at 16 and we've been together for 12 going on 13 yrs, and have been married 7 out of the almost 13 yrs. I can't believe it.
marleeny12 1 year ago
Everything you said is 100% true I've been married 10 years now and that is exactly what me and my hubby do :) great video Hun
nancyvlp 1 year ago
aww! i met my boyfriend now when i was 16..so now im 20 and were almost at 4 years! not married or engaged yet. but i want to have my dream wedding so im willing to wait. plus we still have alot of things we want to do before paying for a wedding lol your so sweet! i loved the advice!
Chelseabug8882 1 year ago
I knew a lot of these things but it was good hearing from someone who has been with their partner for over 5yrs I had a past relasionship where I communicated and he always took things personal which when I told him how I felt I would tell him in a nice way and he use to call me negative and I said no these are my feelings and the things he done that I didnt want to do he didnt respect he called me boring which I am not into drugs I tried to rationalize and he always complained.
BRONXPEPE 1 year ago
yea girl very wise!! everything in this vid is very true & such positive advice!! Hope ur relationship continues to go great.
Esperanza1461 1 year ago
oh also,do you convert ur videos before uploading them?like what format and settings do you use?
PelirrojaXO 1 year ago
what lipcolor are u wearing here?off topic i know lol. i think most couples could benefit from some counseling at some point in their relationship. nobodies perfect. i dont think any couple is perfect. its helpful to have someone on the outside who can be unbiased. do you guys have a date set yet i thought u said u were engaged?
PelirrojaXO 1 year ago
Me and my ex are talking about getting back together, and I see through the info you gave, where we failed before. if it works out his time. I am certainly taking all of your advice :)
StarlitBeauty91 1 year ago
This was such a wonderful video! I agree with EVERYTHING you said! This is very helpful! What you said was true! It makes you think about how your relationship is going and how to make it even better!
LatinaXoXo87 1 year ago
I am 21 and I have been with my husband since 15. we got married when i was 17 and he was 19. I feel the same way as you Kasey. My husband and I split up 3 times within our first year of marriage. Each time no more than 2 weeks. I feel like we have both grown so much, and I would never leave him again for stupid things like I did before. It's just nice to have someone I can relate to even if I don't know you in person.
pinklily07 1 year ago 13
AWESOME VID!!!LOVE IT THANKS :-D
saddyeyes23 1 year ago
I have always looked up to you for many things, including your relationship with Joe. I'm so happy you made this video, because if we were friends in real life I would ask your advice on this topic. :D
DivaVirtual888 1 year ago
Everything you said is right!
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and yeah we have had our hard times like every other relationship but all your tips will strengthen a relationship. I think also being humble is key too! I think some problems that i see with relationships is that women like to be the mothers to their men and not their Gf/wife. In other words boss around..hehehe..but great tips! =)
sweetsusy6 1 year ago
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I am 21 and I have been with my husband since 15. we got married when i was 17 and he was 19. I feel the same way as you Kasey. My husband and I split up 3 times within our first year of marriage. Each time no more than 2 weeks. I feel like we have both grown so much, and I would never leave him again for stupid things like I did before. It's just nice to have someone I can relate to even if I don't know you in person.
pinklily07 1 year ago
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pinklily07 1 year ago
Laughter is important also! And compromise when needed.
:)
RedKitchenWytch 1 year ago 13
Really great advice!
magickspells 1 year ago
you are so mature for your age, thanks for the great advice :)
Nesserz85 1 year ago
it puts a smile on my face to see people in healthy relationships....i am currently pregnant myself (35 weeks). I think you and your hubby are so cute!
by the way do you guys have an age difference?
cus im 18 and my husband is 25 lol
jessicadavydov 1 year ago
iknw right? VVVVV :p
dReALoOvEzYoOh 1 year ago
I needed hear this kind of advise.....thanks Kasey
bipasha74 1 year ago
@graceandraul 17 :)
StillGlamMom 1 year ago 4
frist..... :)
babycaks1 1 year ago
@babycaks1 ha why is it always important to people to be the first
weirdo31854 1 year ago