In my opinion, an intelligent woman likes a nice guy who treats her with respect. Many people mistake neediness for being nice. Being needy is when a guy won't take a stand, doesn't have his own opinions and is a jellyfish who lets the woman walk all over him because he fears losing her if he even so much as disagrees with her on anything. A man doesn't have to be a douchebag to impress a woman. He just needs to be confident. Nice guys finish first, Needy guys finish last.
The spirit tells me that there are not many true nice guys or bad boys but just guys attempting to have sex with as many women as possible. She says that at this date and time it is strategically better to prioject an edgy personality. Whatever works. Thanks.
@JHaines57 The best advice for success with women and dating (which works well for me) were told to me not by women, but by other men. Unless a woman is a lesbian, she has no clue about trying to date women. But a lesbian's advice about dating lesbians won't help you though.
@jteruel671 I have to agree with that. Women are generally confused about men and their own feelings, but men who are successful have some clue what the general patterns are, which work.
most women desire the alpha male, it is a biological fact, especially "normal" women like these. There may be some women who like nice guys but those would be real nice girls (think Zooey Deschenel type) girl in this video is not nice and is your typical vain materialistic LA club type, if you want a nice girl you need to find a more artistic hipster type girl. If you are into the types of girls in this video, who hang out in hip hop clubs, then you need to be an asshole
1. cant stand up for himself 2. easy to take advantage of 3. lets ppl walk all over him. believe me, i used to be all 3 of those things until i grew up
Advice for men: Want to know what women want? A: MORE. They wake up everyday of their lives wanting more. Be prepared for nagging, bitching and moaning centred around their constant needs for MORE.
In the western world, this is 100% true. In the foreign world, Nice Guys rule! Nice guys finish FIRST in the foreign world! FUCK Western Women! I have a HUGE rant I have written about this and guys REALLY need to stand up to this ever growing problem. Sure there are work-arounds, but let's face it, there's a REASON girls here are so fucking difficult to get and its their OWN fucking fault! In the foreign world, the "friend zone" doesn't really even exist!
Read between the lines and stop being a bunch of whinebags! Only a mature gentleman would know precisely what she is actually saying and not behave so childish like the way you guys have.
Shes not saying dont be nice, shes saying dont be passive but rather direct (not necessarily aggressive, but direct). Just confident and direct and not a pushover. Women prefer men who are just as mature as they themselves are, if not more.
girl: "can buy me a shot of tequila?". . .guy: "no". . oh my god i wanna suck your cock right here right now! "no" oh my fucking god nikki im goin home with this guy right now....guy:"no"....girl: "im creaming my panties and he hasnt even touched me!!!!.......get the fuck outa here YO BITCHES DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT SO LISTENING TO THEM GIVE DATING ADVICE IS THE WORST THING YOU COULD DO IF YOU WANT HELP........ASK A MACK!! ASK A MAN WHO GETS LAID...NOT A STUPID BITCH....
So it is truly in the womans nature to "walk all over and exploit" a man who treats her nice? And she rewards the emotionally unavaileable knuckledraggers that just uses them for sex? Women are evil, twisted, psychopatic creatures. They have no boundries when it comes to belittling, harrassing and showing contempt for men that treats them with respect. Ever since the Serpent whispered into Eve's ear, men have been ridiculed and manipulated. Woman - Devils spawn.
Here's a novel idea: Let's just kill off all of the nice guys for making the lives of so many women a living hell--and allow the world to be overrun by murderers, rapists and violent criminals.
She's a example of a typical San Dog hoe. Selfish, self centered, materialistic gold diggers, and shallow. They love the bad boy drama that feeds their own insecurities about self. I lived in San Diego and this is the the type of chick I would just pump and dump and move on.
Ok. My friend. You should listen up. The guys you like to date are the "bad guys" right? Also the same guys that fuck you and leave you? Lol. And what do you do? Do it again. Have fun with that. You type of women are the biggest turn off for "nice guys". Why? Because you are shallow as hell and probably pretty used and dirty. You think its a turn off because it is to you and all your hooker friends. To you the biggest turn ons are muscles and douche bags with money. Enjoy your lonely life.
@billyouknow Your so right. I see some women like this one who date the so called bad dudes over and over and never really have a good LTR. Then when they are in or near middle age they are used up bitter and tainted and the good guys stay way clear. Justice for women who are ignorant.LOL
Hey everyone, sometimes nice guys and good guys are basically the same kind of men. There are hundreds of websites on the net about nice guy and jerk debate. One website synonymously refer nice guys as good guys while another website classify nice guys and good guys as two different types of men. When you guys refer to good guys, you are referring to masculine men with some nice guys traits.
Ok so a lot of American women think nice guys are weak. It is called respecting oneself and respecting others. Why should a guy put on a false attitude to appease women? Any guy that has respect for his self won’t demean himself to that standard. A lot of women are insecure and emotionally screwed up. This is why women find bad boy’s free spirit sexy and exciting. Well I got news for you women it isn’t strength these bad boys have.
A lot of this is these bad boys have no respect for themselves so they respect nothing else including women. That isn’t strength that is being a coward. They just haven’t reached the point in their life where they can face themselves in a mirror. So they usually end up destroying their lives and dragging women down with them.
They end up reverting to substance abuse to dull the pain. By the time you women finally start to look for emotional security your damaged goods with children as baggage. You’ve been used and abused so much you decide to look for the different guy. Some women go for the successful guy looking for financial security for her and her children, only to screw them over later with alimony.
Others go for the nice guy that has respects for his self. Now we as a nice guy could let you in our life then use you and kick you curb for all the crap you put us through. But, any nice guy with respect for his self wouldn’t do that. What I’m saying is by the time you American women finally start to get it together us nice guys have realized we can look for foreign women or just don’t need a woman in our lives and found other things to fulfill it.
So a lot of you women are going to be bitter lonely women trying to support your kids. In other words you American women better change your game and teach the new generations of women to be more emotionally secure from the earlier age. Otherwise you’re just dooming yourselves and future generations of women to miserable lives.
LOL Women giving advice about women. When has that ever worked? I am so happy I'm a loner. I don't have to deal with princess drama queens like this one.
Women have a very warped view of things, and this is proof of that.
Just because a man is "nice" to you, doesn't mean he can't stand up for himself. Furthermore, how would you even KNOW he can't stand up for himself, unless you're trying to test him by playing games?
Are you doing shit INTENTIONALLY that you, as a "good woman" shouldn't be doing, JUST to see how he'll react? If so, you're likely too immature for a relationship anyway.
Women have a very warped view of things, and this is proof of that.
Just because a man is "nice" to you, doesn't mean he can't stand up for himself. Furthermore, how would you even KNOW he can't stand up for himself, unless you're trying to test him by playing games?
Are you doing shit INTENTIONALLY that you, as a "good woman" shouldn't be doing, JUST to see how he'll react? If so, you're likely too immature for a relationship anyway.
Women have a very warped view of things, and this is proof of that.
Just because a man is "nice" to you, doesn't mean he can't stand up for himself. Furthermore, how would you even KNOW he can't stand up for himself, unless you're trying to test him by playing games?
Are you doing shit INTENTIONALLY that you, as a "good woman" shouldn't be doing, JUST to see how he'll react? If so, you're likely too immature for a relationship anyway.
I'll say it again: I'll buy her a drink....if she buys me one first.
As a man, you don't OWE a woman ANYTHING if you don't know her. Fuck buying her a drink. What has she done to earn it? You don't trade drinks for conversation. If you're a decent guy, you should be able to engage in conversation WITHOUT having to "do" something for her first. If you can't, it means she has no real interest in you beyond the drink, or she wants you to jump through hoops for her. Either way, she can fuck off.
Women like this are the ones who are setting themselves up for misery, so let them. So don't be even a shoulder to cry on. In the kindest way you know how, let them know they deserve assholes, because they honestly do.
Jamie, thanks for the "friendly advice". But it comes of little surprise to alot of us men out there who know of your kind. Now I'm going to give you some "friendly advice". Guys are visual and the first thing that catches our attention are your looks. You don't care for nice guys. Well Jamie, us dudes don't really care for fat chics. And Jamie, you've got at least 30-40 pounds to drop before you can actually become picky about the guys you get.
well I am married to a nice guy and it is the one thing I am still married to him because of as he has screwed up financially big time and he is not all that great to look at any more either not saying I am we are in our 40's now still good looking for our age...but if I had to say anything at all after being bankrupt with the guy 3 times I would say it is his nice and kind attributes that I can tollerate the rest of the crap I lived through over him!
Ladies don't listen to this bullshit she saying!!! This is how a lot of women loose out on a good men like myself..Since when being nice is a sign of being weak!!! Get the fuck out of here!!! If you ladies follow her advice your going to be single for the rest of your life with a bunch of kids and then your going to realize you mess up in the beginning!!! Real Talk!!! Don't let nobody brainwash you into this bullshit!!!!
Since when is being nice equivalent to being weak? This dumb bitch hasn't been around long enough to know the difference. She'll end up a lonely old crone with 32 cats someday.
Sorry, troll, nice try but you dont know a thing about me. And do not be calling others a moron when you do not know the difference between your and you're. Carry on acting tough, fag.
So, if i've learned anything from this video its that i must show alpha behavior at all times? ok, instead of opening a door for a woman I'll slam it shut behind me and if she ever expects me to pick up the tab or go halfs i'll say "bitch, pay the man, i aint got all day".
dam she sexy.....but thats sum bulll shit honey bun chicks dont respect dudes regardless nice or meeen dont matter what a mann will do cant nuffin satisfy your ungrate full assss.....girls aint nuffin but problems even eve was the one that ate the fruit first and fuck up everything.....
And am I really supposed to take you seriously dressed in your little dress and top? No one is ever going to until you stop using your sexuality in this way. If we're trying to be nice, you make the 'help me eyes' to other females in the bar. If we totally ignore you (what I do now when I'm in the bar watching hockey) the "I have a pussy, he doesn't want it" alarm goes off and you immediately become a fucking pest and I can't hear the play by play over your wretched voice.
You fucking bitch. Total contradiction of what you want. You want a nice guy? Oh really? But being nice is a red flag? If you date said nice guy you just want to control him or change him because when he does tell you 'fuck you I'm not doing that' you leave because how dare he not do what you say? This society is fucked. Politeness, manners and generally being nice are red flags? What the fuck? You bitches want total control or total submissiveness. There is no middle ground.
@sinnersaintstudios She's not telling the truth, nor is she trying to help. This is just another dumb cunt giving horse shit advice. Would you ask a fish how to catch it?
Now go out to your douche bag club and beg for pussy.
@sinnersaintstudios I never said anything else. What I am saying is that whores are trying to rationalise and excuse walking over guys. OK so you're not attracted to them: you have to treat them like shit? You're either a fellow whore or a white knight.
@theright1allthetime Fantastic approach, to put someone down for being nice right? Because of niceness dudes get all these negative qualities attributed to them. I have been punished one too many times for my kindness. Consider me out of the game, and if you want to complain about your asshole boyfriend, I will only assume you deserve it because of your contempt for decency.
@theright1allthetime LOL brotha i agree with you..!!! OMG these IN-BRED woman like these ^ i use upper arrow because she is !! ahhhhhh but neways agreed!! HEY ladie's try using the "GOOD GIRL" see where that takes you ya foookn fake!!
the problem is that women cannot help but be players, they are genetically coded to shit test the hell out of every man. The more you understand about the female psyche, the less respect you have for women.
@Ilike2tubeittubeit the less respect you have for women eh? oh wow.... I can say it certainly goes BOTH ways. You carry some genetically deficient asshole's retarded fetus around for 9 months, squeeze that shit out your blown out cunt then feed it for the next 18 years and see if you don't think shit testing is a GOOD FUCKING IDEA! ;) Too bad so many don't pass....
@Ilike2tubeittubeit you' re right, if you put a woman in a corner and talk about there real nature she run away from you like the devil run from the cross. Woman's don't like a man with a sense or intuition to decode all there signs, look in there eyes not to there mouth, they saying one thing but there eyes say another in question what they like in a relationship, that is one thing that many man's don't see
btw! those of you who are tired of sean021122, click on his profile and go down to the page and click on "report a bug" to have goggle take a look on his/her troll account and get rid of it. Thanks!
lol So women do not want any respect or politeness in a relationship? Also sorry but men have to change who they are for women to like them, we must become less sincere and more artificial just to get a basic level of attraction!
@Mrarmageddon8 Wrong. You have to change who you are and become less sincere. Because you are insecure and are looking for approval. Do you honestly think that comes off attrcative to a woman? Be yourself, but be the best self you can be. Actually matter of fact there are so many thing syou can do to make yourself more attrcative that don't even involve your appearance or th eobvious. Be more aware and listen more to women. They are alway giving clues to things...learn their p.o.v
@Sean021122 : are you going to talk now about the dynamic females have and how to control that dynamic to learn that attraction towards oneself, you controlling alpha male??
@Mrarmageddon8 : don't listen to sean, he is gonna try to sell you something via PM, that is! if you can PM him ( his account is non existent on youtube)- he is a troll account. Thing is, women want that... but only after you are with her and are "the special guy" in their life. Before that! you have to have an edge you have to get all of your good characteristics and show them to her. Sad thing is, being friends is not part of it, in some cases it could be, but is rare.
con: it is a 50/50 thing, either a woman likes you or she does not. There is no "dynamic" or anything you can do to lean a woman's attraction towards you, only controlling ignorant people believe that. Males were meant to be hunters by nature and society..so as ones! we have to go out and "hunt" for women, we may get our egos broken and hurt, but it is a learning process. JUst dont give up and don't listen to clueless people like Sean or controlling women/men
Sean021122 said: "Has nothing to do with p.u.a. anything. I am not pickup artist. I simply know the female heart, mind, soul. You are not getting tips from a book, but from me. What I just know. and with my personality type, we are very good at 'what we just know'. And it is easier than you think to change a few dynamics in how they see you from friend to more."
and again!! he points out the "dynamic word", and hints on the idea that there is a way to change a woman's view of you if she sees you as a friend or something more. My POV is...either a women sees you as just a friend or something more, you are put in either of those 2 groups automatically, there is nothing you can do to change that. There is no "dynamic" or "forcing" it out of a woman, like sean stated. There is just the 50/50 chance , she either likes you or not
if a woman likes you as a friend, F her! her lost and you move on( you do keep her friendship but you go and do your own thing). You move to another woman and try your luck again. If you seem to have a lot of shallow women friends, you get away from them and go hunt for more "fishes". Sean, likes to call guys who do not agree with his view "egocentric ignorant males" who hate women and are anti-feminist. He is not a feminist, he is just trying to be politically correct and does not follow it
look at his replies women, intelligent women, and you will clearly see the words of a egocentric, egotistical, controlling, sad male. Who is trying to put rose color glasses on women. And hates that this "ignorant egocentric" man, can see him for what he really is. I rest my case, with his insulting replies and trolling around "nice guy" videos and replying to other male members on youtube and insulting them with the same negative gender slang terms. Sad excuse of a man.
@rgchrono <<< Keep it up. Keep slandering me because I rejected your man crush on me. I told you to fuck off. I am not helping you. So go try and turn everyone on here aga9inst me like th eimmature lonely baffoon you really are. Every girl I talk to on here and in real life for that matter knows me to be exactly how I represent myself. And that is wanting no parts of your pathetic male gender. And that I am one of few males that actually do get it/them. So please go away. Your ignored!
@Sean021122 : I need not to do a thing to have others go against you. YOUR words and posts one here is enough to have other members turn against you. It is so easy to notice who you really are by the posts.
@Sean021122 "I rejected your man crush on me. I told you to fuck off. I am not helping you. " --- I missed that one! you talk about being full of hate...and this sentence alone shows that not only are you annoyed, but to go so low and to use a homosexual insult towards me. Shows the level of maturity that you have. "man crush" ?? you say that you stand for feminism, and here you are stating a homophobic type of insult.I have a few gay friends, and your insult is just wrong.
@rgchrono <<< You are no different than any of the other lonely pathetic hate filled anti-female sexist male morons disgracing this forum everyday. You can play the nerd role, and you probably are. But you still have that ale cluelessness coarsing through your veins like poison. Go crawl back under your sexist rock because I already forgot about your incessant questions, stalking me, and your preocupation with trying to judge people based on their ethnicity. Buh-bye.
@Sean021122 : heh, you are more of an anti female sexist than I am, you are just trying to be too "politically correct" to notice how anti female you are. Heck! I am not spewing the idea that " a man can force the attraction of a woman by using the dynamics of her emotions" to lean her attraction towards you, that is control. No matter how nice you want to make it sounds like with a Feminism cover.
@rgchrono <<< Heed my words and stop harrassing me on here! If you continue I will have you removed form youtube forever. That means IP banned. Don't believe me, try me. I am going to spread love and the feminist message whether you like it or not. I wonder what your so called gf might think of you disgracing her with such hateful anti-female tone on here. You exist only to annoy I see. But you will be removed. That will be service to all the females on here who click x at seeing you.
@Sean021122 : again...using a thread , fear, to try to control my option to either reply to you or not. I also find it surprising how you included my gf on this post. hmmm..and saying how i am "disgracing" her...and then you point out how i am "spreading anti female tone " on here. when you were the one who is stating how "there is a dynamic" that one can use to get out of the "friend zone" or that we have to PM you to get your help. You are that word you keep on using towards me
Sean021122 said: "Yu want to know why you fall into the firend zone? Because you are being too nice. And a few other key dynamics that put you there. You want her to change to liking you romantically, there are some really easy thing syou can do to force her to... If you want to talk about any of this stuff just pm me. You don't have to be that ignorant egocentric arrogant idiot to succeed. I'm the antithesis of all that and I yet girls always seem to be attrcated to me. Too much so I think."
He seems to point out "dynamics" like there is some form of action one can make to use that "dynamic" to lean a women towards you. "key Dynamics" and a way to change a lady to like you romantically?? and there are some really easy things one can do to force it out of her into liking you?? but! i have to PM him to find out more..and women seem to be attracted to him, even if it is too much. LOL and here is is! saying that i put words in his mouth, this is a quote from one of his replies.
Sean is a "male feminist" aka "guy who's never been laid." Im sure he never masturbates, either. Because he wants to "save himself for marriage". Grow a fucking pair.
@YouGotWoodRolled And strangely enough when I hear a hypocritical defensive troll attack like this it makes me feel good inside. You think you know me don't you and what I SHOULD want? Lmao!! Don't you get it? Your opion of me is irrelevant. You are the one going on these videos because you are so pathetic and cluelesswith women. I just watch to get a laugh out of them, and of you! You don't want my help, cool. Back to ignore you go with the other lonely sexist male idiots...
I've read more misguided clueless sexist bitter male oriented talk on this video to last a lifetime. I'm not even going to read any further. ....... ... ... . ... ..
I can't stop looking at those legs, she has a nice body; :) anyways! she is being honest. One thing I've learned is that looks matter to women, like it does for men, the fact is! most of the time the jerks are of the attractive male kind. Just that women don't really like to state that fact. IN other words!! if you are nerdy, like myself, you have to give yourself an edge. If you are fat/obese, work your ass off, I did! i was both fat/nerdy, I am still a nerdy, but i care enough about myself
@rgchrono You got that right, you are nerdy and stuck so much on a girl's looks she will see through you and trample your low self esteem in a moment. It's really as simple as you get what you give... gl.
@Sean021122 exactly, i think me being overweight was a major attraction killer. I used to be turned into "just a friend" in a matter of minutes just being that, and now being at an average weight (from 254 to 202- and trying to get down to 190) It showed women that i have confidence in what a set my mind set to, in losing weight and working hard to get it. i do believe that dating is superficial. That the "book cover" does matter in order for the "pages" to be read. I have a gf now.
@rgchrono Well being overweight is nothing to be ashamed of. You made the effort and lost some right. But it is not just assumed you are going to get a girl who is too superfical to see past it. I'm glad you have a gf now. But i'm sure she sees you for the person you are inside and is willing to overlook other things because of this. many girls will actually be that way if they are mature enough. good luck.
@Sean021122 : oh right, its been hard to "burn off the fat", and looking at the gym I have seen some really lazy people not willing to work their bodies enough to force it to burn the fat (which you have to if you want to lose the fat). I agree about the superficiality point, more and more i have seen people make that mistake. And from experience, most women i've met never blame themselves for picking attractive ass holes. They always ask the same question "where are all the nicemen?
con: while there might be a not so attractive guy friend of theirs willing to listen to them, they ignore these guys. Heh, I used to be that guy, to be honest. I never had the ego of "being so good that i can get any woman i want", but for some reason women seem to always fall for those type of guys, even if they are egotistical controlling ass holes, most not all. I just ignored that and continued on going for my BA, and now working on getting into grad school.
con: i do agree with you that a women has to be mature enough to see pass the superficial....but ! not a lot of women are that mature, my gf is BUT! she did reject a guy due to him being over 400 pounds and not doing anything to make himself healthier, but also! the one thing she disliked about him is that...he had no future plans, even at his 40s! he was still living at home with no good career or a job. I will let those immature women have their man whores,but most women are immature
@rgchrono Also, stop using those sexist slang terms. Stop disrespecting them. They will get turned off. You think they see it as you are a bad boy for treating htem with no respect, sorry they don't. They see you as a loser. So eliminate the b word, w word, s word all that. I have never used those words in my life. I have too much love, admiration, connection, and respect for females to say those things to them.
@Sean021122 : I never treated women with disrespect, in fact I used to hear them out. You know what changed me? losing my virginity out of pity, from a stupid lady friend. That made me realized the realities of dating and "respecting" a woman and "being there for them.: see, I learned to let go of hypocritical women in my life and let in more honest good women. That created a better me and let me to attract my current gf, who is educated and comes from 2 parents who are teachers
@rgchrono Yu want to know why you fall into the firend zone? Because you are being too nice. And a few other key dynamics that put you there. You want her to change to liking you romantically, there are some really easy thing syou can do to force her to... If you want to talk about any of this stuff just pm me. You don't have to be that ignorant egocentric arrogant idiot to succeed. I'm the antithesis of all that and I yet girls always seem to be attrcated to me. Too much so I think.
@Sean021122 : i do not believe in PUA points or there being a way to get out of a certain zone or any of that. I just know what i saw and what i' went through in my society and social surroundings, grew up and born in Los Angeles, California. I know how it works now, cause i had to take baby steps at it. heh, difference is, I know what the realities of dating is and i am not as clueless as i was in the past, when i was friended by a lot of women.
@rgchrono Has nothing to do with p.u.a. anything. I am not pickup artist. I simply know the female heart, mind, soul. You are not getting tips from a book, but from me. What I just know. and with my personality type, we are very good at 'what we just know'. And it is easier than you think to change a few dynamics in how they see you from friend to more.
@rgchrono Forget about the whole 'nice' thing. Forget it. Girls mostly want a balance. Someone who is in th emiddle between nice guy and asshole. Really they do. And you will amp up their feelings/attrcation just being genuine, authentic, and being in that vein. Don't be one exterme or another. There are so many thing you can do to make any girl be attrcated to you. No matter what your appearance. Because it is essentially what she feels for you, emotions! Nothing else, not even money
@Sean021122 : one question..will tell me if you know where i am coming from?? what ethnicity are you?? if you are white, then! you already have status added to you, reason why you seem to "attract" women. Listen, it is different when you are a man of ethnicity and are in a society where a white man is put in an upper level in status than a man of color, as a latino I know this. I have seen women of my own race fall for "White" looking latinos. I agree with your balance point
con: a real good man can not be a rug or a "gay guy friend" who happens not to be gay, a good man has to care and love himself more. He should never let himself get control by the other sex and always have goals set up and work on them, and accomplish them. I am almost done with my weight goal for this year, of 200 pounds by 2012, will soon set up another goal of 185 by my 30th bday. One major goal i want to reach next year is to get into Loyola marymount to work on my MA in MFT.
@rgchrono Yu think being white gets women attrcated to oyu? Lmao!!! man I think I just lost all sight of why i was helping you. No matter what color, race, whatever you are you can get a girl to like you. After all this you are going to thik that your ethnicity means something here. It only means something if you behave in a stereotypical way that is negative of your race and th eother person dislikes you for it. As with any person.atus sucks! ... I have a developmental disability....
@Sean021122 you didn't reply to my question..what ethnicity are you?? you can say no matter what race you are...but you are not wearing shoes from any of those races...so what race are you??
@Sean021122 : that is because...you don't see it. I still ask...what is your race?? this is like asking a whiter person if they are republican or not LOL, They always try to change the topic. hehehe
@rgchrono do you think that puts me in a good social status position when I have to constantly compensate for my weaknesses with other things? I have never even made a male friend in my life. If it weren't for my extremely rare personality type i'd probbably be totally clueless like most aspies are. But i am very different because of it and maybe the way I have always been inside....And I know women, infinitely better than i ever knew my own gender...
@Sean021122 : i am not, you are ignoring a topic that has even been pointed out in sociological studies and classes. I think you are afraid to reply to my simple question, because you do not want to be put on the spot and being proven wrong.
con: i've a lot since getting a gf, of course there are some women who will not judge base on looks. But those are rare, only have seen one really attractive woman with a chubby goofy looking guy. The rest have been attractive women with really good looking men. Like you said! you get what you give. Get a good education, a good fitness, and confidence, and you will get a lot back.
@rgchrono Whatever you think girls are looking for it is still as simple as if you elicit the right emotions/feelings in them tocreate that spark or chemistry. That's all you need. But if you don't know how to relate to them, empathize, understand, feel what they do, you are going to have it tough like most guys. But I have always felt so similar to them and knew them almost as well as myself. And it comes form inside me. You would have to work at it!!! pm me if u need. gl.
@Sean021122 : PUA points?? the whole idea of controlling the attraction of a lady to you?? the mystery method does not work, those who created it have psychological problems, Mystery even wanted to commit suicide a few years ago. Styles got left by his model type wife. heh, no thanks, but what you are saying points to basic communication skills, something i lacked ( and most nice guys do), when i was friended by women. I know better now.
con: I know how attraction works now. It is not controlling chemistry and what not.It is bettering yourself , both in career and body and mind. My mind has always been good ( education, wanting to get an MA, working in education, respecting people) My body always came last, at 6'0 i was 254-260 pounds. NOW! being at 202 pounds, I notice that all is coming together and creating a better me, a good man. I know who I am, and know that i can attract any woman, any good woman.
@rgchrono Again, forget about p.u.a. Because for me it's a waste. YI already know enough from the female p.o.v. I don't need some egocentric big headed male who gets famous on tv and thinks he's god's gift to women to tell me what to do from the still flawed male point of view. All they want is sex anyway. I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about getting a girl in a monogamous relatinship and keeping her. That's all I'm interested in, not sure about you...
@Sean021122 : i am interested in that as well, i have no plans to cheat on my gf, she is too great of a person to do that to. tell me...do you have a gf now?? if you know so much and are telling us to "pm you to know more" do you have that special somebody to talk to? are you even gonna go to an xmas girlfriend's family reunion tonight?? I know i am, what are you going to do tonight??
@rgchrono Glad to see that a long term monogamous relationship is what you want from a girl and not just sex. Yes I have a gf, but again I don't have to go into my race or any of my personal life with you. If you don't want the help and instead want to just play the annoying cynic who throws race, someone's life experience, and opinions under the bus who is trying to genuinely help you then just fuck off. And you seem awfully stalker...ish in asking me those other questions also. bye.
@Sean021122 : so...what is your race then?? you seem to be trying to ignore the question...why is that?? I am glad you have gf, good for you!! and yet...you are here showing off your huge ego and trying to "help" people. It is laughable
@rgchrono You areen't controlling anything about the girl. Do you honestly think I would want to do that when I am a male feminist? man some people just don't get it. get your head out of your ass man. If you truly want just sex and want to listen to typical logical scientific male methods that fail , forget about what I said. But if you truly want to know how to fulfill a girl's emotional needs and make her want you for the right reasons, then I can help on that. good luck.
@Sean021122 : when you talk about chemistry and doing things to lean it towards oneself, it is control. You are just confusing the point and trying to make it seem like it is not. tell me..are you in a relationship now? you talk about 'fulfilling a girl's emotional needs' but are you in a relationship?? results matter, if you are proving a point and trying to tell a person he is wrong online. (This guy, me, has been in a relationship for 2 years and a half )
@rgchrono Again same old schtick, run down my opinions and put words in my mouth I never even said. Draw all the worst results without even hearing what i had to say. When you are the one continuing this conversation with your nvasive annoying questions... Don't tell me I have any desire to control females. I treat them as 100% equals and always will idiot. I am going by their point of view not the retarded male one (yours). And again, please fuck off and don't msg me anymore.
@Sean021122 : you do want to control them, more than I. Who is the one getting all bend out of shape and insulting me and my gender?? not me, I am not insulting you. BUT! I am pointing out what you are saying, not in a politically correct way like you are, but in a real way. You are just trying to make it sound positive and nice. I do not need to put words in your mouth, when your past posts are crystal clear. Any smart women and men can see that.
Society has brainwashed men into acting like tools towards women. Men need to go back to their primitive instincts. Be the alpha male, the confident (not arrogant) man who displays leadership qualities while naturally taking the lead in any situation. Alpha males are never predictable, they do not seek approval, they don't ask a lot of questions and they NEVER wait for the woman to make the first move. Women get turned on by a man who is challenge to them so tease them a bit and take the lead.
@torsion12003 All she really wound up saying is be honest. Don't agree with her because you're a lying sack of kiss ass shit. Tell her no if you feel like it, instead of being a cowering fuckface ass kisser to hopefully score a point. All she said was be honest.
I have no issues telling a girl to get the fuck out if she crosses any lines with me. Sorry if i'm being too straight forward, but if im being treated well by a woman, i am very nice and very romantic. Otherwise, I cant be nice to somebody who isnt nice to me.
@Euro7star You want a cookie? I get the feeling this is more you trying to convince yourself you won't be a kiss ass, and not reflective of reality... You didn't fool me or that little voice inside of you that will screw you over when you want it to keep quiet ;)
I think this trick ate my sperm a few times.
Intelxx01 3 days ago
Is a myth
XxXWickedSharkXxX 4 days ago
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In my opinion, an intelligent woman likes a nice guy who treats her with respect. Many people mistake neediness for being nice. Being needy is when a guy won't take a stand, doesn't have his own opinions and is a jellyfish who lets the woman walk all over him because he fears losing her if he even so much as disagrees with her on anything. A man doesn't have to be a douchebag to impress a woman. He just needs to be confident. Nice guys finish first, Needy guys finish last.
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SurfAlien2 4 days ago
What helps me out with woman is having money and being significantly smarter than everyone they know. Done.
matrixate 4 days ago
what this puta motherfucker needs is big foot ding dong
MegaAk1972 4 days ago
bitch buy your own damn drank. Ima get my dick sucked by these whores out back.
elitestar 1 week ago
It's not about being nice or not, it's about having and projecting confidence. The real turn off is the passive agressive crap.
mersk100 1 week ago
the people disliking this are disgruntled confused super nice guys..learn your shit
makinbacon855 1 week ago
ur ugly as fuck i wouldnt want to date u
brucelee7150 1 week ago
The spirit tells me that there are not many true nice guys or bad boys but just guys attempting to have sex with as many women as possible. She says that at this date and time it is strategically better to prioject an edgy personality. Whatever works. Thanks.
qlindsay 1 week ago
All these women giving advice as if they had any idea what women, overall, really want.
Women don't know themselves. They just know how they rationalize their irrational behaviors and ideas about men.
JHaines57 1 week ago 2
@JHaines57 The best advice for success with women and dating (which works well for me) were told to me not by women, but by other men. Unless a woman is a lesbian, she has no clue about trying to date women. But a lesbian's advice about dating lesbians won't help you though.
jteruel671 5 days ago
@jteruel671 I have to agree with that. Women are generally confused about men and their own feelings, but men who are successful have some clue what the general patterns are, which work.
JHaines57 5 days ago
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most women desire the alpha male, it is a biological fact, especially "normal" women like these. There may be some women who like nice guys but those would be real nice girls (think Zooey Deschenel type) girl in this video is not nice and is your typical vain materialistic LA club type, if you want a nice girl you need to find a more artistic hipster type girl. If you are into the types of girls in this video, who hang out in hip hop clubs, then you need to be an asshole
severevoid 2 weeks ago
1. cant stand up for himself 2. easy to take advantage of 3. lets ppl walk all over him. believe me, i used to be all 3 of those things until i grew up
pyramidhead138 2 weeks ago
no wonder why women like men slapping them around
Omac713 2 weeks ago 4
TREAT THAT BITCH LIKE THE SLUT SHE IS HER FELINGS DO NOT MEAN A FUCKING THING.
MrMichael396 2 weeks ago 6
Advice for men: Want to know what women want? A: MORE. They wake up everyday of their lives wanting more. Be prepared for nagging, bitching and moaning centred around their constant needs for MORE.
TMac473 2 weeks ago
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In the western world, this is 100% true. In the foreign world, Nice Guys rule! Nice guys finish FIRST in the foreign world! FUCK Western Women! I have a HUGE rant I have written about this and guys REALLY need to stand up to this ever growing problem. Sure there are work-arounds, but let's face it, there's a REASON girls here are so fucking difficult to get and its their OWN fucking fault! In the foreign world, the "friend zone" doesn't really even exist!
CoolGuy64 3 weeks ago
Read between the lines and stop being a bunch of whinebags! Only a mature gentleman would know precisely what she is actually saying and not behave so childish like the way you guys have.
coyclown 3 weeks ago
Shes not saying dont be nice, shes saying dont be passive but rather direct (not necessarily aggressive, but direct). Just confident and direct and not a pushover. Women prefer men who are just as mature as they themselves are, if not more.
coyclown 3 weeks ago
your a fool. Im sure your single
TheHeavensthug 3 weeks ago
girl: "can buy me a shot of tequila?". . .guy: "no". . oh my god i wanna suck your cock right here right now! "no" oh my fucking god nikki im goin home with this guy right now....guy:"no"....girl: "im creaming my panties and he hasnt even touched me!!!!.......get the fuck outa here YO BITCHES DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT SO LISTENING TO THEM GIVE DATING ADVICE IS THE WORST THING YOU COULD DO IF YOU WANT HELP........ASK A MACK!! ASK A MAN WHO GETS LAID...NOT A STUPID BITCH....
ooBACON4BREAKFASToo 3 weeks ago
So it is truly in the womans nature to "walk all over and exploit" a man who treats her nice? And she rewards the emotionally unavaileable knuckledraggers that just uses them for sex? Women are evil, twisted, psychopatic creatures. They have no boundries when it comes to belittling, harrassing and showing contempt for men that treats them with respect. Ever since the Serpent whispered into Eve's ear, men have been ridiculed and manipulated. Woman - Devils spawn.
BT42Crap 3 weeks ago 3
Here's a novel idea: Let's just kill off all of the nice guys for making the lives of so many women a living hell--and allow the world to be overrun by murderers, rapists and violent criminals.
Women would then be in their glory.
mrsolofeo 3 weeks ago 4
It's a fucking tragedy the way so many women misinterpret kindness as weakness. It takes more strength to be kind in this world.
holiness1031 3 weeks ago 2
@holiness1031 That is one of the greatest things I have read in relation to videos like this. Very, very well said.
Cap285 2 weeks ago
She's a example of a typical San Dog hoe. Selfish, self centered, materialistic gold diggers, and shallow. They love the bad boy drama that feeds their own insecurities about self. I lived in San Diego and this is the the type of chick I would just pump and dump and move on.
MrJohnboy006 3 weeks ago
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THE FIRST THING I DO WHEN I SEE A GIRL I LIKE, IS WALK UP TO HER RIGHT AWAY AND START MAKING FUN OF SOMETHING SHES WEARING IT WORKS
roger8654 3 weeks ago
Ok. My friend. You should listen up. The guys you like to date are the "bad guys" right? Also the same guys that fuck you and leave you? Lol. And what do you do? Do it again. Have fun with that. You type of women are the biggest turn off for "nice guys". Why? Because you are shallow as hell and probably pretty used and dirty. You think its a turn off because it is to you and all your hooker friends. To you the biggest turn ons are muscles and douche bags with money. Enjoy your lonely life.
billyouknow 3 weeks ago 2
@billyouknow Your so right. I see some women like this one who date the so called bad dudes over and over and never really have a good LTR. Then when they are in or near middle age they are used up bitter and tainted and the good guys stay way clear. Justice for women who are ignorant.LOL
MrJohnboy006 3 weeks ago 3
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Hey everyone, sometimes nice guys and good guys are basically the same kind of men. There are hundreds of websites on the net about nice guy and jerk debate. One website synonymously refer nice guys as good guys while another website classify nice guys and good guys as two different types of men. When you guys refer to good guys, you are referring to masculine men with some nice guys traits.
Flxiblemetro 3 weeks ago
Ok so a lot of American women think nice guys are weak. It is called respecting oneself and respecting others. Why should a guy put on a false attitude to appease women? Any guy that has respect for his self won’t demean himself to that standard. A lot of women are insecure and emotionally screwed up. This is why women find bad boy’s free spirit sexy and exciting. Well I got news for you women it isn’t strength these bad boys have.
DiZZy8898 3 weeks ago 5
A lot of this is these bad boys have no respect for themselves so they respect nothing else including women. That isn’t strength that is being a coward. They just haven’t reached the point in their life where they can face themselves in a mirror. So they usually end up destroying their lives and dragging women down with them.
DiZZy8898 3 weeks ago
They end up reverting to substance abuse to dull the pain. By the time you women finally start to look for emotional security your damaged goods with children as baggage. You’ve been used and abused so much you decide to look for the different guy. Some women go for the successful guy looking for financial security for her and her children, only to screw them over later with alimony.
DiZZy8898 3 weeks ago
Others go for the nice guy that has respects for his self. Now we as a nice guy could let you in our life then use you and kick you curb for all the crap you put us through. But, any nice guy with respect for his self wouldn’t do that. What I’m saying is by the time you American women finally start to get it together us nice guys have realized we can look for foreign women or just don’t need a woman in our lives and found other things to fulfill it.
DiZZy8898 3 weeks ago 2
So a lot of you women are going to be bitter lonely women trying to support your kids. In other words you American women better change your game and teach the new generations of women to be more emotionally secure from the earlier age. Otherwise you’re just dooming yourselves and future generations of women to miserable lives.
DiZZy8898 3 weeks ago
Women wonder why the men they are with are unfaithful so here is the simplest answer for dummies.
Nice guy Faithful
Not nice guy unfaithful
DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHH!!!
ramaunsmith 1 month ago
wpmen love to be treated like prostitues
SuperAlexrios 1 month ago
LOL Women giving advice about women. When has that ever worked? I am so happy I'm a loner. I don't have to deal with princess drama queens like this one.
bluestars982 1 month ago 3
What a crock of shit.
NegroDeSangue 1 month ago
and then they're surprised why all guys are "assholes" -_-
dumbass cunts ....
whiteraider 1 month ago 20
perhaps she is into thugs?
762ndTB 1 month ago
fuck you whore.
kasumisman 1 month ago
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Who the fuck told this girl that "nice" = weak?
Women have a very warped view of things, and this is proof of that.
Just because a man is "nice" to you, doesn't mean he can't stand up for himself. Furthermore, how would you even KNOW he can't stand up for himself, unless you're trying to test him by playing games?
Are you doing shit INTENTIONALLY that you, as a "good woman" shouldn't be doing, JUST to see how he'll react? If so, you're likely too immature for a relationship anyway.
TrueTalkTV 1 month ago 5
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Who the fuck told this girl that "nice" = weak?
Women have a very warped view of things, and this is proof of that.
Just because a man is "nice" to you, doesn't mean he can't stand up for himself. Furthermore, how would you even KNOW he can't stand up for himself, unless you're trying to test him by playing games?
Are you doing shit INTENTIONALLY that you, as a "good woman" shouldn't be doing, JUST to see how he'll react? If so, you're likely too immature for a relationship anyway.
TrueTalkTV 1 month ago
Who the fuck told this girl that "nice" = weak?
Women have a very warped view of things, and this is proof of that.
Just because a man is "nice" to you, doesn't mean he can't stand up for himself. Furthermore, how would you even KNOW he can't stand up for himself, unless you're trying to test him by playing games?
Are you doing shit INTENTIONALLY that you, as a "good woman" shouldn't be doing, JUST to see how he'll react? If so, you're likely too immature for a relationship anyway.
TrueTalkTV 1 month ago
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I'll say it again: I'll buy her a drink....if she buys me one first.
As a man, you don't OWE a woman ANYTHING if you don't know her. Fuck buying her a drink. What has she done to earn it? You don't trade drinks for conversation. If you're a decent guy, you should be able to engage in conversation WITHOUT having to "do" something for her first. If you can't, it means she has no real interest in you beyond the drink, or she wants you to jump through hoops for her. Either way, she can fuck off.
JayNJayShow 1 month ago 4
Women like this are the ones who are setting themselves up for misery, so let them. So don't be even a shoulder to cry on. In the kindest way you know how, let them know they deserve assholes, because they honestly do.
dayvconsir 1 month ago
The arrogance of these women is unbelivable...
johnsmith4442 1 month ago
Jamie, thanks for the "friendly advice". But it comes of little surprise to alot of us men out there who know of your kind. Now I'm going to give you some "friendly advice". Guys are visual and the first thing that catches our attention are your looks. You don't care for nice guys. Well Jamie, us dudes don't really care for fat chics. And Jamie, you've got at least 30-40 pounds to drop before you can actually become picky about the guys you get.
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YoBravaFrumAnuvaMuva 1 month ago
when a women says she does not date nice guys...it's a.k.a...for i'm a little slut. and her virtuous looks just lost.
whiskeredtuna 1 month ago
well I am married to a nice guy and it is the one thing I am still married to him because of as he has screwed up financially big time and he is not all that great to look at any more either not saying I am we are in our 40's now still good looking for our age...but if I had to say anything at all after being bankrupt with the guy 3 times I would say it is his nice and kind attributes that I can tollerate the rest of the crap I lived through over him!
lucy9359 1 month ago
Ladies don't listen to this bullshit she saying!!! This is how a lot of women loose out on a good men like myself..Since when being nice is a sign of being weak!!! Get the fuck out of here!!! If you ladies follow her advice your going to be single for the rest of your life with a bunch of kids and then your going to realize you mess up in the beginning!!! Real Talk!!! Don't let nobody brainwash you into this bullshit!!!!
BENZCLS5 1 month ago 3
hahaha, sinnersaint is a fucking mangina cockless wonder
HeyBuddyGotALight 1 month ago
being nice is being weak, and fake.........
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
@sinnersaintstudios I give you exhibit A of what is wrong with society.
Cap285 1 month ago
Good advice, i have experienced this directly and what she says is true......
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
Since when is being nice equivalent to being weak? This dumb bitch hasn't been around long enough to know the difference. She'll end up a lonely old crone with 32 cats someday.
don417 1 month ago
@don417 your a moron......and you dont get laid, well except by fat bitches
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
@sinnersaintstudios lol
Sorry, troll, nice try but you dont know a thing about me. And do not be calling others a moron when you do not know the difference between your and you're. Carry on acting tough, fag.
don417 1 month ago
You can't be too nice. Being weak and being nice are not the same thing. Not standing up for yourself is being weak.
Kearyjb 1 month ago
Jamie, I dig you! Gimme some more.
myjoyonline 1 month ago
just say bitch open ur fucken mouth and take my cock you hoe
rapid303 1 month ago 10
So, if i've learned anything from this video its that i must show alpha behavior at all times? ok, instead of opening a door for a woman I'll slam it shut behind me and if she ever expects me to pick up the tab or go halfs i'll say "bitch, pay the man, i aint got all day".
HeyBuddyGotALight 1 month ago 4
@HeyBuddyGotALight your stupid, and you dont get it
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
Bottom line - don't make it too easy for her to walk all over you. That way girls like Jamie won't feel too guilty when they DO walk all over you.
mofo76100 1 month ago
@mofo76100 right you said it
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
dam she sexy.....but thats sum bulll shit honey bun chicks dont respect dudes regardless nice or meeen dont matter what a mann will do cant nuffin satisfy your ungrate full assss.....girls aint nuffin but problems even eve was the one that ate the fruit first and fuck up everything.....
wisdom777ification 1 month ago
@wisdom777ification your mother must have dropped you on your head when you were a baby.........
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
And am I really supposed to take you seriously dressed in your little dress and top? No one is ever going to until you stop using your sexuality in this way. If we're trying to be nice, you make the 'help me eyes' to other females in the bar. If we totally ignore you (what I do now when I'm in the bar watching hockey) the "I have a pussy, he doesn't want it" alarm goes off and you immediately become a fucking pest and I can't hear the play by play over your wretched voice.
Cap285 1 month ago
You fucking bitch. Total contradiction of what you want. You want a nice guy? Oh really? But being nice is a red flag? If you date said nice guy you just want to control him or change him because when he does tell you 'fuck you I'm not doing that' you leave because how dare he not do what you say? This society is fucked. Politeness, manners and generally being nice are red flags? What the fuck? You bitches want total control or total submissiveness. There is no middle ground.
Cap285 1 month ago
@Cap285 sounds like you need to get laid brotha
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
@sinnersaintstudios Wow. That's original. Quit encouraging these stupid bitches.
Cap285 1 month ago
You're a hypergamous little whore and it's not OK, it's especially not OK to spread this bullshit to dumb fucking little girls.
Foxx1981 1 month ago
@Foxx1981 shes telling the truth, trying to help but your too stupid to listen
sinnersaintstudios 1 month ago
@sinnersaintstudios She's not telling the truth, nor is she trying to help. This is just another dumb cunt giving horse shit advice. Would you ask a fish how to catch it?
Now go out to your douche bag club and beg for pussy.
Cap285 1 month ago
@sinnersaintstudios I never said anything else. What I am saying is that whores are trying to rationalise and excuse walking over guys. OK so you're not attracted to them: you have to treat them like shit? You're either a fellow whore or a white knight.
Foxx1981 1 month ago
dumb fucking cunt here lets listen to what she thinks she knows about men
omgpuppies0707 1 month ago
I wish to GOD a lot of these women would listen
to themselves talk when they say they don't like someone because they're nice.
Fucking succubus whores!!!
Just because a man is nice doesnt mean you're going to be able to walk all over him.
I think I actually hate women's logic more than I do the prince of darkness's logic..
theright1allthetime 1 month ago 19
@theright1allthetime Fantastic approach, to put someone down for being nice right? Because of niceness dudes get all these negative qualities attributed to them. I have been punished one too many times for my kindness. Consider me out of the game, and if you want to complain about your asshole boyfriend, I will only assume you deserve it because of your contempt for decency.
dayvconsir 1 month ago
@dayvconsir Rock on.
Cap285 1 month ago
@theright1allthetime LOL brotha i agree with you..!!! OMG these IN-BRED woman like these ^ i use upper arrow because she is !! ahhhhhh but neways agreed!! HEY ladie's try using the "GOOD GIRL" see where that takes you ya foookn fake!!
Therealjustice1 1 month ago
@Therealjustice1 Yep! prettymuch nothing more than manipulative whores.
theright1allthetime 1 month ago
@Therealjustice1 haha spoken well bro!! glad you agree!!!!!!!
Therealjustice1 4 weeks ago
@theright1allthetime what shes refering to is a push over a weak man.
joshua246810 4 weeks ago
@theright1allthetime
the problem is that women cannot help but be players, they are genetically coded to shit test the hell out of every man. The more you understand about the female psyche, the less respect you have for women.
Ilike2tubeittubeit 2 weeks ago 10
@Ilike2tubeittubeit I totally agree...
theright1allthetime 2 weeks ago
@Ilike2tubeittubeit the less respect you have for women eh? oh wow.... I can say it certainly goes BOTH ways. You carry some genetically deficient asshole's retarded fetus around for 9 months, squeeze that shit out your blown out cunt then feed it for the next 18 years and see if you don't think shit testing is a GOOD FUCKING IDEA! ;) Too bad so many don't pass....
EuroInvicta 1 day ago
@Ilike2tubeittubeit you' re right, if you put a woman in a corner and talk about there real nature she run away from you like the devil run from the cross. Woman's don't like a man with a sense or intuition to decode all there signs, look in there eyes not to there mouth, they saying one thing but there eyes say another in question what they like in a relationship, that is one thing that many man's don't see
ironic440 14 hours ago
Fact is, i wouldn't date you..the way you dress gives off the wrong vibe totally..and i'm a successful well educated man..
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rgchrono 2 months ago
lol So women do not want any respect or politeness in a relationship? Also sorry but men have to change who they are for women to like them, we must become less sincere and more artificial just to get a basic level of attraction!
Mrarmageddon8 2 months ago
@Mrarmageddon8 Wrong. You have to change who you are and become less sincere. Because you are insecure and are looking for approval. Do you honestly think that comes off attrcative to a woman? Be yourself, but be the best self you can be. Actually matter of fact there are so many thing syou can do to make yourself more attrcative that don't even involve your appearance or th eobvious. Be more aware and listen more to women. They are alway giving clues to things...learn their p.o.v
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : are you going to talk now about the dynamic females have and how to control that dynamic to learn that attraction towards oneself, you controlling alpha male??
rgchrono 2 months ago
@Mrarmageddon8 : don't listen to sean, he is gonna try to sell you something via PM, that is! if you can PM him ( his account is non existent on youtube)- he is a troll account. Thing is, women want that... but only after you are with her and are "the special guy" in their life. Before that! you have to have an edge you have to get all of your good characteristics and show them to her. Sad thing is, being friends is not part of it, in some cases it could be, but is rare.
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: it is a 50/50 thing, either a woman likes you or she does not. There is no "dynamic" or anything you can do to lean a woman's attraction towards you, only controlling ignorant people believe that. Males were meant to be hunters by nature and society..so as ones! we have to go out and "hunt" for women, we may get our egos broken and hurt, but it is a learning process. JUst dont give up and don't listen to clueless people like Sean or controlling women/men
rgchrono 2 months ago
Sean021122 said: "Has nothing to do with p.u.a. anything. I am not pickup artist. I simply know the female heart, mind, soul. You are not getting tips from a book, but from me. What I just know. and with my personality type, we are very good at 'what we just know'. And it is easier than you think to change a few dynamics in how they see you from friend to more."
rgchrono 2 months ago
and again!! he points out the "dynamic word", and hints on the idea that there is a way to change a woman's view of you if she sees you as a friend or something more. My POV is...either a women sees you as just a friend or something more, you are put in either of those 2 groups automatically, there is nothing you can do to change that. There is no "dynamic" or "forcing" it out of a woman, like sean stated. There is just the 50/50 chance , she either likes you or not
rgchrono 2 months ago
if a woman likes you as a friend, F her! her lost and you move on( you do keep her friendship but you go and do your own thing). You move to another woman and try your luck again. If you seem to have a lot of shallow women friends, you get away from them and go hunt for more "fishes". Sean, likes to call guys who do not agree with his view "egocentric ignorant males" who hate women and are anti-feminist. He is not a feminist, he is just trying to be politically correct and does not follow it
rgchrono 2 months ago
look at his replies women, intelligent women, and you will clearly see the words of a egocentric, egotistical, controlling, sad male. Who is trying to put rose color glasses on women. And hates that this "ignorant egocentric" man, can see him for what he really is. I rest my case, with his insulting replies and trolling around "nice guy" videos and replying to other male members on youtube and insulting them with the same negative gender slang terms. Sad excuse of a man.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono <<< Keep it up. Keep slandering me because I rejected your man crush on me. I told you to fuck off. I am not helping you. So go try and turn everyone on here aga9inst me like th eimmature lonely baffoon you really are. Every girl I talk to on here and in real life for that matter knows me to be exactly how I represent myself. And that is wanting no parts of your pathetic male gender. And that I am one of few males that actually do get it/them. So please go away. Your ignored!
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : I need not to do a thing to have others go against you. YOUR words and posts one here is enough to have other members turn against you. It is so easy to notice who you really are by the posts.
rgchrono 2 months ago
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rgchrono 2 months ago
con: you are far more full of hate than I am.
rgchrono 2 months ago
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@Sean021122 "I rejected your man crush on me. I told you to fuck off. I am not helping you. " --- I missed that one! you talk about being full of hate...and this sentence alone shows that not only are you annoyed, but to go so low and to use a homosexual insult towards me. Shows the level of maturity that you have. "man crush" ?? you say that you stand for feminism, and here you are stating a homophobic type of insult.I have a few gay friends, and your insult is just wrong.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono <<< You are no different than any of the other lonely pathetic hate filled anti-female sexist male morons disgracing this forum everyday. You can play the nerd role, and you probably are. But you still have that ale cluelessness coarsing through your veins like poison. Go crawl back under your sexist rock because I already forgot about your incessant questions, stalking me, and your preocupation with trying to judge people based on their ethnicity. Buh-bye.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : heh, you are more of an anti female sexist than I am, you are just trying to be too "politically correct" to notice how anti female you are. Heck! I am not spewing the idea that " a man can force the attraction of a woman by using the dynamics of her emotions" to lean her attraction towards you, that is control. No matter how nice you want to make it sounds like with a Feminism cover.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono <<< Heed my words and stop harrassing me on here! If you continue I will have you removed form youtube forever. That means IP banned. Don't believe me, try me. I am going to spread love and the feminist message whether you like it or not. I wonder what your so called gf might think of you disgracing her with such hateful anti-female tone on here. You exist only to annoy I see. But you will be removed. That will be service to all the females on here who click x at seeing you.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : again...using a thread , fear, to try to control my option to either reply to you or not. I also find it surprising how you included my gf on this post. hmmm..and saying how i am "disgracing" her...and then you point out how i am "spreading anti female tone " on here. when you were the one who is stating how "there is a dynamic" that one can use to get out of the "friend zone" or that we have to PM you to get your help. You are that word you keep on using towards me
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: you are just too scare to use it towards you.
rgchrono 2 months ago
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Sean021122 said: "Yu want to know why you fall into the firend zone? Because you are being too nice. And a few other key dynamics that put you there. You want her to change to liking you romantically, there are some really easy thing syou can do to force her to... If you want to talk about any of this stuff just pm me. You don't have to be that ignorant egocentric arrogant idiot to succeed. I'm the antithesis of all that and I yet girls always seem to be attrcated to me. Too much so I think."
rgchrono 2 months ago
He seems to point out "dynamics" like there is some form of action one can make to use that "dynamic" to lean a women towards you. "key Dynamics" and a way to change a lady to like you romantically?? and there are some really easy things one can do to force it out of her into liking you?? but! i have to PM him to find out more..and women seem to be attracted to him, even if it is too much. LOL and here is is! saying that i put words in his mouth, this is a quote from one of his replies.
rgchrono 2 months ago
OH its a major turnoff to be nice, you don't know what your saying.
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TookanArrow2myASS 2 months ago
Sean is a "male feminist" aka "guy who's never been laid." Im sure he never masturbates, either. Because he wants to "save himself for marriage". Grow a fucking pair.
YouGotWoodRolled 2 months ago
@YouGotWoodRolled And strangely enough when I hear a hypocritical defensive troll attack like this it makes me feel good inside. You think you know me don't you and what I SHOULD want? Lmao!! Don't you get it? Your opion of me is irrelevant. You are the one going on these videos because you are so pathetic and cluelesswith women. I just watch to get a laugh out of them, and of you! You don't want my help, cool. Back to ignore you go with the other lonely sexist male idiots...
Sean021122 2 months ago
Anyone who wants any real help, pm me. If you don't have the balls to let your ego go, don't even reply to me. love is all around <.<
Sean021122 2 months ago
I've read more misguided clueless sexist bitter male oriented talk on this video to last a lifetime. I'm not even going to read any further. ....... ... ... . ... ..
Sean021122 2 months ago
I can't stop looking at those legs, she has a nice body; :) anyways! she is being honest. One thing I've learned is that looks matter to women, like it does for men, the fact is! most of the time the jerks are of the attractive male kind. Just that women don't really like to state that fact. IN other words!! if you are nerdy, like myself, you have to give yourself an edge. If you are fat/obese, work your ass off, I did! i was both fat/nerdy, I am still a nerdy, but i care enough about myself
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono You got that right, you are nerdy and stuck so much on a girl's looks she will see through you and trample your low self esteem in a moment. It's really as simple as you get what you give... gl.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 exactly, i think me being overweight was a major attraction killer. I used to be turned into "just a friend" in a matter of minutes just being that, and now being at an average weight (from 254 to 202- and trying to get down to 190) It showed women that i have confidence in what a set my mind set to, in losing weight and working hard to get it. i do believe that dating is superficial. That the "book cover" does matter in order for the "pages" to be read. I have a gf now.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Well being overweight is nothing to be ashamed of. You made the effort and lost some right. But it is not just assumed you are going to get a girl who is too superfical to see past it. I'm glad you have a gf now. But i'm sure she sees you for the person you are inside and is willing to overlook other things because of this. many girls will actually be that way if they are mature enough. good luck.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : oh right, its been hard to "burn off the fat", and looking at the gym I have seen some really lazy people not willing to work their bodies enough to force it to burn the fat (which you have to if you want to lose the fat). I agree about the superficiality point, more and more i have seen people make that mistake. And from experience, most women i've met never blame themselves for picking attractive ass holes. They always ask the same question "where are all the nicemen?
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: while there might be a not so attractive guy friend of theirs willing to listen to them, they ignore these guys. Heh, I used to be that guy, to be honest. I never had the ego of "being so good that i can get any woman i want", but for some reason women seem to always fall for those type of guys, even if they are egotistical controlling ass holes, most not all. I just ignored that and continued on going for my BA, and now working on getting into grad school.
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: i do agree with you that a women has to be mature enough to see pass the superficial....but ! not a lot of women are that mature, my gf is BUT! she did reject a guy due to him being over 400 pounds and not doing anything to make himself healthier, but also! the one thing she disliked about him is that...he had no future plans, even at his 40s! he was still living at home with no good career or a job. I will let those immature women have their man whores,but most women are immature
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Also, stop using those sexist slang terms. Stop disrespecting them. They will get turned off. You think they see it as you are a bad boy for treating htem with no respect, sorry they don't. They see you as a loser. So eliminate the b word, w word, s word all that. I have never used those words in my life. I have too much love, admiration, connection, and respect for females to say those things to them.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : I never treated women with disrespect, in fact I used to hear them out. You know what changed me? losing my virginity out of pity, from a stupid lady friend. That made me realized the realities of dating and "respecting" a woman and "being there for them.: see, I learned to let go of hypocritical women in my life and let in more honest good women. That created a better me and let me to attract my current gf, who is educated and comes from 2 parents who are teachers
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Yu want to know why you fall into the firend zone? Because you are being too nice. And a few other key dynamics that put you there. You want her to change to liking you romantically, there are some really easy thing syou can do to force her to... If you want to talk about any of this stuff just pm me. You don't have to be that ignorant egocentric arrogant idiot to succeed. I'm the antithesis of all that and I yet girls always seem to be attrcated to me. Too much so I think.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : i do not believe in PUA points or there being a way to get out of a certain zone or any of that. I just know what i saw and what i' went through in my society and social surroundings, grew up and born in Los Angeles, California. I know how it works now, cause i had to take baby steps at it. heh, difference is, I know what the realities of dating is and i am not as clueless as i was in the past, when i was friended by a lot of women.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Has nothing to do with p.u.a. anything. I am not pickup artist. I simply know the female heart, mind, soul. You are not getting tips from a book, but from me. What I just know. and with my personality type, we are very good at 'what we just know'. And it is easier than you think to change a few dynamics in how they see you from friend to more.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@rgchrono Forget about the whole 'nice' thing. Forget it. Girls mostly want a balance. Someone who is in th emiddle between nice guy and asshole. Really they do. And you will amp up their feelings/attrcation just being genuine, authentic, and being in that vein. Don't be one exterme or another. There are so many thing you can do to make any girl be attrcated to you. No matter what your appearance. Because it is essentially what she feels for you, emotions! Nothing else, not even money
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : one question..will tell me if you know where i am coming from?? what ethnicity are you?? if you are white, then! you already have status added to you, reason why you seem to "attract" women. Listen, it is different when you are a man of ethnicity and are in a society where a white man is put in an upper level in status than a man of color, as a latino I know this. I have seen women of my own race fall for "White" looking latinos. I agree with your balance point
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: a real good man can not be a rug or a "gay guy friend" who happens not to be gay, a good man has to care and love himself more. He should never let himself get control by the other sex and always have goals set up and work on them, and accomplish them. I am almost done with my weight goal for this year, of 200 pounds by 2012, will soon set up another goal of 185 by my 30th bday. One major goal i want to reach next year is to get into Loyola marymount to work on my MA in MFT.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Yu think being white gets women attrcated to oyu? Lmao!!! man I think I just lost all sight of why i was helping you. No matter what color, race, whatever you are you can get a girl to like you. After all this you are going to thik that your ethnicity means something here. It only means something if you behave in a stereotypical way that is negative of your race and th eother person dislikes you for it. As with any person.atus sucks! ... I have a developmental disability....
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 you didn't reply to my question..what ethnicity are you?? you can say no matter what race you are...but you are not wearing shoes from any of those races...so what race are you??
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono My ethnicity holds no bearing or importance on this whatsoever...
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : that is because...you don't see it. I still ask...what is your race?? this is like asking a whiter person if they are republican or not LOL, They always try to change the topic. hehehe
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono do you think that puts me in a good social status position when I have to constantly compensate for my weaknesses with other things? I have never even made a male friend in my life. If it weren't for my extremely rare personality type i'd probbably be totally clueless like most aspies are. But i am very different because of it and maybe the way I have always been inside....And I know women, infinitely better than i ever knew my own gender...
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : i know women better too..what gives you the far more experience than an of us?? we own have our own pov's. so what race are you??
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono You don't give up do you, I told you race means nothing here. You are just shooting yourself in the foot in more ways than one...
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : i am not, you are ignoring a topic that has even been pointed out in sociological studies and classes. I think you are afraid to reply to my simple question, because you do not want to be put on the spot and being proven wrong.
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: i've a lot since getting a gf, of course there are some women who will not judge base on looks. But those are rare, only have seen one really attractive woman with a chubby goofy looking guy. The rest have been attractive women with really good looking men. Like you said! you get what you give. Get a good education, a good fitness, and confidence, and you will get a lot back.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Whatever you think girls are looking for it is still as simple as if you elicit the right emotions/feelings in them tocreate that spark or chemistry. That's all you need. But if you don't know how to relate to them, empathize, understand, feel what they do, you are going to have it tough like most guys. But I have always felt so similar to them and knew them almost as well as myself. And it comes form inside me. You would have to work at it!!! pm me if u need. gl.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : PUA points?? the whole idea of controlling the attraction of a lady to you?? the mystery method does not work, those who created it have psychological problems, Mystery even wanted to commit suicide a few years ago. Styles got left by his model type wife. heh, no thanks, but what you are saying points to basic communication skills, something i lacked ( and most nice guys do), when i was friended by women. I know better now.
rgchrono 2 months ago
con: I know how attraction works now. It is not controlling chemistry and what not.It is bettering yourself , both in career and body and mind. My mind has always been good ( education, wanting to get an MA, working in education, respecting people) My body always came last, at 6'0 i was 254-260 pounds. NOW! being at 202 pounds, I notice that all is coming together and creating a better me, a good man. I know who I am, and know that i can attract any woman, any good woman.
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Again, forget about p.u.a. Because for me it's a waste. YI already know enough from the female p.o.v. I don't need some egocentric big headed male who gets famous on tv and thinks he's god's gift to women to tell me what to do from the still flawed male point of view. All they want is sex anyway. I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about getting a girl in a monogamous relatinship and keeping her. That's all I'm interested in, not sure about you...
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : i am interested in that as well, i have no plans to cheat on my gf, she is too great of a person to do that to. tell me...do you have a gf now?? if you know so much and are telling us to "pm you to know more" do you have that special somebody to talk to? are you even gonna go to an xmas girlfriend's family reunion tonight?? I know i am, what are you going to do tonight??
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Glad to see that a long term monogamous relationship is what you want from a girl and not just sex. Yes I have a gf, but again I don't have to go into my race or any of my personal life with you. If you don't want the help and instead want to just play the annoying cynic who throws race, someone's life experience, and opinions under the bus who is trying to genuinely help you then just fuck off. And you seem awfully stalker...ish in asking me those other questions also. bye.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : so...what is your race then?? you seem to be trying to ignore the question...why is that?? I am glad you have gf, good for you!! and yet...you are here showing off your huge ego and trying to "help" people. It is laughable
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono You areen't controlling anything about the girl. Do you honestly think I would want to do that when I am a male feminist? man some people just don't get it. get your head out of your ass man. If you truly want just sex and want to listen to typical logical scientific male methods that fail , forget about what I said. But if you truly want to know how to fulfill a girl's emotional needs and make her want you for the right reasons, then I can help on that. good luck.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : when you talk about chemistry and doing things to lean it towards oneself, it is control. You are just confusing the point and trying to make it seem like it is not. tell me..are you in a relationship now? you talk about 'fulfilling a girl's emotional needs' but are you in a relationship?? results matter, if you are proving a point and trying to tell a person he is wrong online. (This guy, me, has been in a relationship for 2 years and a half )
rgchrono 2 months ago
@rgchrono Again same old schtick, run down my opinions and put words in my mouth I never even said. Draw all the worst results without even hearing what i had to say. When you are the one continuing this conversation with your nvasive annoying questions... Don't tell me I have any desire to control females. I treat them as 100% equals and always will idiot. I am going by their point of view not the retarded male one (yours). And again, please fuck off and don't msg me anymore.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 : you do want to control them, more than I. Who is the one getting all bend out of shape and insulting me and my gender?? not me, I am not insulting you. BUT! I am pointing out what you are saying, not in a politically correct way like you are, but in a real way. You are just trying to make it sound positive and nice. I do not need to put words in your mouth, when your past posts are crystal clear. Any smart women and men can see that.
rgchrono 2 months ago
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Society has brainwashed men into acting like tools towards women. Men need to go back to their primitive instincts. Be the alpha male, the confident (not arrogant) man who displays leadership qualities while naturally taking the lead in any situation. Alpha males are never predictable, they do not seek approval, they don't ask a lot of questions and they NEVER wait for the woman to make the first move. Women get turned on by a man who is challenge to them so tease them a bit and take the lead.
OBXmp9 2 months ago
WOMEN ARE SOO STUPID!!
zachfresh 2 months ago
@zachfresh Obviously you are the stupid one. But tell us more...
Sean021122 2 months ago
So this means, more on the weak wimpy side. Not necessarily like being polite or gentlmen.
torsion12003 2 months ago
@torsion12003 All she really wound up saying is be honest. Don't agree with her because you're a lying sack of kiss ass shit. Tell her no if you feel like it, instead of being a cowering fuckface ass kisser to hopefully score a point. All she said was be honest.
Silicondoc 2 months ago
I have no issues telling a girl to get the fuck out if she crosses any lines with me. Sorry if i'm being too straight forward, but if im being treated well by a woman, i am very nice and very romantic. Otherwise, I cant be nice to somebody who isnt nice to me.
Euro7star 2 months ago
@Euro7star You want a cookie? I get the feeling this is more you trying to convince yourself you won't be a kiss ass, and not reflective of reality... You didn't fool me or that little voice inside of you that will screw you over when you want it to keep quiet ;)
Sean021122 2 months ago