God showed this analogy a while ago, that in the matter of judging there's a scale. On one side there's understanding and mercy, on the other side there's justice and judgement. What Christians get wrong A LOT and why we are accused of "judging" so much, is because we usually (and I admit myself) do not have enough understanding. Yes, there is justice and judgement, but there's also mercy and forgiveness we need to balance it more. I agree, judge positively without a particular bias.
You have good advice, but please don't mock us and don't judge us. Men and women are just different. We need to understand these differences. It's not just about how to change to make a man happy, but both compromising and understanding so both will be happy.
Mark Gungor is so good. I love this. I think it's important for us wives to hear things like this. Society feeds us such lies about our roles as wives and a lot of times it's hard to see things from the biblical perspective. I probably need to hear this every day.
Sure, lying to yourself may be one effective solution, but to me it sounds like a shortcut. I'd ask myself why I'm assuming the worst of my husbend, and if my own intentions are very different. In most aspects of life we expect something in return from our efforts, isn't relationships one of them?
Yeah... I went on a first date with guy last Saturday. He grabbed my buttocks. I judged his intentions all right. No second date no matter how much that creep earns a month! LOL!
God - The answer to the deep down questions we all face from existence. The solution to the horrible terror that there is either no purpose to life or that there is something beyond our comprehension that can cause us harm (fear of the unknown). God is the key to destroying these fears and people choose to do so without any proof as it is a better way of existing.
Religion - The way in which humans try to clothe the idea of god in reality. Unfortunately it is also manipulated and abused
@zedooncadhz The fact that people aren't aware that religion can be manipulated is the biggest problem on our planet. Attacking the idea of a persons god attacks their very most fundamental beliefs and can cause a huge emotional response. But someones religion isn't their god. It's HUMAN BEINGS writing books and HUMAN BEINGS making assumptions. The church CAN be used to control a large portion of the way people think and if people were just more aware of that and make sure they think for
@zedooncadhz themselves before throwing their complete and utter acceptance into what a religion tells them to do then ironically the world would be a better place.
Religions just create divides and you have to divide to conquer. We are only harming ourselves in a universal desire to find God.
Just because some monks in the 1600's wrote in the bible doesn't mean that what they said is the word of God. Surely religious people would be outraged to assume God's thoughts? Apparently not.
dont judge any ones behavior thoughtful people care abt ideas not how people behave also this will cut most of the dram from our lives and actually gives us a room to think abt what actually matters to change lives also men usually dont have enough brain to think much abt what they do and say and we should trust our selves more and know that they dont have a reason to do what they did we are the master piece of our own lives :)
To all women out there don't judge all the time 08/15/10 7:14 AM
If he dosn't take the trash out you fuss about that or he is to drack or to short or he is no good you don't no that so leave him a lone let god fix that in him what ever it is Jerry
Ok this was actually very helpful for me. Women have a hard time b/c we have a need to be loved by our husbands & we can have a lot of insecurities. We can overthink everything & try to analyze everything. Sometimes my own brain can drive me nuts w/ this, & I just need to tell myself to chill out. Accept security from God and ENJOY your relationships here on earth. Be the best wife and person you can be, and ACCEPT love from your husband. Think the best, not the wost, and don't assume anything.
You CAN Judge his actions though!
Cherubaby 1 month ago
I try to be a good person I really do.
buffyslayer30 3 months ago
God showed this analogy a while ago, that in the matter of judging there's a scale. On one side there's understanding and mercy, on the other side there's justice and judgement. What Christians get wrong A LOT and why we are accused of "judging" so much, is because we usually (and I admit myself) do not have enough understanding. Yes, there is justice and judgement, but there's also mercy and forgiveness we need to balance it more. I agree, judge positively without a particular bias.
Gabbinzola 3 months ago
He has nice teeth
Namewithnoname 6 months ago 2
You have good advice, but please don't mock us and don't judge us. Men and women are just different. We need to understand these differences. It's not just about how to change to make a man happy, but both compromising and understanding so both will be happy.
childsweethearts 6 months ago
Would be even a *LOT* better if you left the bible out of the equation.
kenninast 7 months ago
Mark Gungor is so good. I love this. I think it's important for us wives to hear things like this. Society feeds us such lies about our roles as wives and a lot of times it's hard to see things from the biblical perspective. I probably need to hear this every day.
MJx0413 9 months ago
judge a man by his actions.. .. good advice i suppose...
jkullar87 9 months ago
"Assume the best!"
Sure, lying to yourself may be one effective solution, but to me it sounds like a shortcut. I'd ask myself why I'm assuming the worst of my husbend, and if my own intentions are very different. In most aspects of life we expect something in return from our efforts, isn't relationships one of them?
TheLivirus 11 months ago
i love delving in my nether regions!
5959512 1 year ago
Yeah... I went on a first date with guy last Saturday. He grabbed my buttocks. I judged his intentions all right. No second date no matter how much that creep earns a month! LOL!
liliokilani 1 year ago 16
@liliokilani you must have a really nice bum.xx
mrboyface 8 months ago
@mrboyface You are too ridiculous for words! LOL!
liliokilani 1 week ago
@liliokilani ;)
mrboyface 1 week ago
@liliokilani i just like any red blooded male love to appreciate a beautiful booty
mrboyface 1 week ago
that was him, nothing i ever did was good enough no matter what it was.
ejplc 1 year ago
God - The answer to the deep down questions we all face from existence. The solution to the horrible terror that there is either no purpose to life or that there is something beyond our comprehension that can cause us harm (fear of the unknown). God is the key to destroying these fears and people choose to do so without any proof as it is a better way of existing.
Religion - The way in which humans try to clothe the idea of god in reality. Unfortunately it is also manipulated and abused
zedooncadhz 1 year ago
@zedooncadhz The fact that people aren't aware that religion can be manipulated is the biggest problem on our planet. Attacking the idea of a persons god attacks their very most fundamental beliefs and can cause a huge emotional response. But someones religion isn't their god. It's HUMAN BEINGS writing books and HUMAN BEINGS making assumptions. The church CAN be used to control a large portion of the way people think and if people were just more aware of that and make sure they think for
zedooncadhz 1 year ago
@zedooncadhz themselves before throwing their complete and utter acceptance into what a religion tells them to do then ironically the world would be a better place.
Religions just create divides and you have to divide to conquer. We are only harming ourselves in a universal desire to find God.
Just because some monks in the 1600's wrote in the bible doesn't mean that what they said is the word of God. Surely religious people would be outraged to assume God's thoughts? Apparently not.
zedooncadhz 1 year ago
dont judge any ones behavior thoughtful people care abt ideas not how people behave also this will cut most of the dram from our lives and actually gives us a room to think abt what actually matters to change lives also men usually dont have enough brain to think much abt what they do and say and we should trust our selves more and know that they dont have a reason to do what they did we are the master piece of our own lives :)
MsGawjussme 1 year ago
why do u keep bringin the bible in to it? wat da fuck is there any proof of a god? huh no and there probably isnt, religion is a total scam lak
chrisbartley88 1 year ago
@chrisbartley88 Hi 'Chris' is derived from 'Christ', or maybe 'Christos'. Jesus loves you... Have a nice day.
heidilow77 11 months ago
this is a wonderful difinsion of Judgement . I was humbled adn blessed at the same time
DodieCoker 1 year ago 2
This man is ALWAYS mocking women
arcpuffin 1 year ago
@arcpuffin while he is mocking women's voices based on his videos I see he is really trying to help women.
I think the high pitched mocking tone is attempt to add humor. I don't think it was malicious.
Yanipooh 1 year ago
@arcpuffin hes not mocking women...
hes just putting out the differences between guys behavior and girls...
i mean.. ffs pay attention and dont try to stir up things
dvirxm 1 year ago
@arcpuffin this is exactly what he's talking about.
Zcrichy 1 year ago
To all women out there don't judge all the time 08/15/10 7:14 AM
If he dosn't take the trash out you fuss about that or he is to drack or to short or he is no good you don't no that so leave him a lone let god fix that in him what ever it is Jerry
watkins49ok 1 year ago
sad to hear these words so late - my husband decided to leave us - I was a judgement because of my fears
ritatoth70 1 year ago
Ok this was actually very helpful for me. Women have a hard time b/c we have a need to be loved by our husbands & we can have a lot of insecurities. We can overthink everything & try to analyze everything. Sometimes my own brain can drive me nuts w/ this, & I just need to tell myself to chill out. Accept security from God and ENJOY your relationships here on earth. Be the best wife and person you can be, and ACCEPT love from your husband. Think the best, not the wost, and don't assume anything.
azgirl777 1 year ago 19
quisiera la traduccion, son demasiado buenos para perder detalles
abdiac 2 years ago