The reason there are all these isues is because our anatomy is black or white, male or female (unless you are intersex, which is a whole 'nother story) but our brains are on a huge spectrum of gender. If people would learn, or at least accept this, the world would be a better place.
What I think of myself as a teenage boy inside a girls body controlling her mind to think like him and to basically tell her to be a girl on the outside but on the inside be a man because they are the same people just that are different by facial bones and anything really not just because they have different items between there legs doesn't mean crap it means they are a person made to create and build a better place so for everyone using people just stop and look at them and think me and you ar
I get asked this question so many times a day and it's not about self identification,it's about the clothes i wear..but i can't change them cause i like my clothes and that's my style.An old guy in the bus yelled it out for everyone to hear..it just sucked.the first times it was funny,now it's just annoying,as if that identifies me in any way!As if all i am is what's between my legs! Used to think:no big deal..but now:it's just frustrating and in a way insulting.Does it really matter that much..
It is a mind fuck...to say the least. People see gender and sex as the easiest way to define someone. When they can't tell if you're male or female they psychologically freak out. They cannot define you and they cannot place you in the narrow categories they have created. It is a big thing in our culture. Gender is nothing but an illusion but it is the easiest illusion for the eye to see. At least most people think it is. Go to Breakingbinaries.blogspot.com to read more of my rants :P
Dont let anyone influence you. Your perfect just the way you are, if everyone behaved the way its expected, the world would not be what it is today. 'You all think im weird because im different, i think your clones because your all the same.'
You're a awesome person. That's my opinion. You've got guts to sit and talk in front of a camera and post it to YouTube about your thoughts and your own gender. I would never dare to do so, even though I don't have the same problems as you've got. So you're a very strong girl and you seem to have lots of interesting and intelligent thoughts in your head. Brilliant personality, keep it up! :)
The same is true for gays, lesbians, etc, almost all people have sexualities, have masculine of feminine or both qualities, and many of us have strong sexual urges and it all creates natural gender. Now gender construct, sure, thats made up by society, like women should cook and all that crap. But natural gender is very real regardless of what modern beliefs state.
.........to do this you have to present youself as the best woman or man meaning being the most womanly or masculine. Women who naturally are more beautiful and feminine get the best guy, and vice versa. All of this is natural gender. A mans natual masculinity is gender. Tall, strong, tough body, a natural football players physical status. Deep voice, etc. All gender, and it;s all what naturally attracts many heterosexual women.
......and so what happens is, the men want to be with the women, and the women want to be with the men. Most heterosexual men naturally find femininity in woment o be a sexual turn on, and the opposite goes for heterosexual women. Women want the best man, and men want the best woman, but everyone wants the best of the sexes so there is natural competition. Guess what, the most feminine, sexy, attractive women will get the best man and vice versa. To be this, you have to............
Lastly, gender exists. There are 2 parts to gender. Social construct, which is made up by society, and natural gender that you are born with. The natural part is based on a combination of your physical sex, brain sex, sex drive, and sexuality. For instance, if your a heterosexual guy, who's physicsally a guy, who's brain sex is a guy, with a high sex drive, he will want to have sex with women, badly. Heterosexual women who strongly desire men are the same. and so what happens is.....
No, look it's actaully quite simple. People ask that question because they want to confirn that, 1) yes I was right, this is a girl or no, I was wrong this person isn't a girl. And 2) wow, so it is possible to be born a girl, or boy, and look like the opposite gender. It's not rocket science. Sure people need to be respectful of your feelings, but at the same time, you need to be realistic about reality and understand that people like yourself are rare to most people.
I know how you feel... I'm biologically male but I look very feminine naturally and people often act very rude and hostile to me. Some have even said that I ought to choose, i.e. get a sex change! But I'm happy the way I am! Yeah I think society makes out that gender is black and white, rather I see it a spectrum of colours! :D
you shouldnt really care i mean your gay you wanna be a guy right you wanna take a mans place with being with a girl and thats fine fuck its your life i used to be bi but your pretty my guy friend even said so
One question ive always had (and maybe u can answer) is why do some lesbians try to look and act as close a male as possible when they arent physically attracted to them?
It's not about trying to mimick how you look or act due to the way a person or group of people who is physically male/female, especially if your are or not attracted to them. It's about being and acting how you feel personally regardless of what others think. Simply put, it's just another way of someone being who they are not matter what. AS long as your being who you are, regardless of what people think, that's what counts.
i have been asked that, but it was in elementary school (little kids can be pretty cruel)... i knew i was a girl, i felt like a girl, and from what i could tell i looked like a girl... i couldn't understand how anybody could mistake me for anything else.
Another FUK ( like you say ) In the old day ....Boy didn't look like girl, and vice versa.
Society screw up Kid, it's sex + sex + Idol + Sex and more IDOL.
TOTAL PROGRAMMING
Get more into SPIRITUALITY, you will stop thinking about are a boy or a girl YOUR BE MORE A HUMAN with value, compare to FOLLOW A SOCIETY IN THERE DECLINE...Open your eyes and good luck
Well, do not confuse inborn gender identity with gender role. As for being uncomfortable with your body and changing how you feel, maybe you should find a therapist. You should find which of the 2 sexes you feel the closest and try to conform to that as much as possible. That is the difference between a true TS who must fit into one of the two existing roles and have the body that matches, and a TG person who sees gender apart from biology and themselves somewhere in between.
@PlumGurly Maybe instead of picking a standard gender that isn't right and conforming to it to get treatment, one ought to, you know just find a better therapist who can accept and help one with being genderqueer.
@thewhatsit104 Then again, he could be a boy saying that for shock value. If he wants to be accepted as a boy, he needs to cut his hair and not wear earrings, and if she wants to be seen as a girl, then she needs to wear her hair long, wear jewelry, etc. They want to talk about culture. Hey, this is the US, and if you don't like US gender rules, move.
I feel as if I am watching a more confident version of myself. Your opinions are almost exactly like my own and I really appreciate what you have to say.
Honestly, I think your body is perfect the way it is and you shouldn't change it no matter what, whoever loves you should love you for who you are, I'd say people like that are hard to find but I've realized that if my boyfriend was biologically a girl I'd still accept him. If you like boys or both, your body is perfect, and if you like girls, there are easy to get around the body issues. Just make sure you know, you're not alone.
very good. You should check out some of the recent studies on testosterone and the huge influence on human behavior it has. obviously more with male than female. its primal. war, reproduction ext....build them up just to knock them down. i wouldn't worry to much about how soeciety deems you. i can see how the questions could get old. do your thing human
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
— Dr. Seuss
You have great insight into this issue of gender classification!! I was reminded every day that I was a girl and could not be like my 4 brothers. As for your mum,she needs her own rhythm to accept..Imagine circles around us like a pebble dropped in a pond.Those closest are the ones who resist change in loved ones.(see 5 stages of dealing with change/loss by Dr Kubler-Ross)
People have this fervent, insatiable need to categorize EVERYTHING and everyone. Most people's anatomical sex is apparent because their gender expression is in "accordance" with their anatomical sex, based on societal norms. When someone deviates from this societal norm and their sex isn't immediately apparent, people freak out a bit.
@FM897 I don't think this natural curiosity and desire for understanding is inherently bad (it's actually a good thing and I wish people were this inquisitive about more topics). The problem is that people don't have any f*cking tact.
@FM897 I know I'm cutting the questioners a lot of slack here, and it's partly because I don't get asked "Are you a boy or a girl?" on anything close to a daily basis. I know it must be annoying as hell and I empathize with you greatly.
@scifimom then it would be a lot politer to just ask what pronouns they prefer. or, if that feels too formal, people at my GSA have taken to asking each other, "how are you queering today?"
U look like a young man 2 me. But dont u find it weird when ur a guy, then u see som other guy, but they're hot to u, but ur not gay? And then ur like o wtf, am i gay, or? I dont undrstand it. And yea, sometimes i DO get called a chick sometimes, but i just say no, im a guy (which i am) and i just make a joke out of it. I think we get called girls cuz the hair. I hav the same hair as u so.....
No matter how awful it is, genders do exist not only in our culture but, obviously, biologically. It does change something, but it is true our sociaty is too gender considered and limits our lives because of our bodies. This is why being an androgyne rocks, people cant recognize your gender and start drawing conclusions because of that! Lets live freely!
if someones attracted to you and find out your a girl instead of the sex they imagined having sex with, they get mad because they feel fooled, hoodwinked, cozened, all of that. angels dont have a gender. think about that.
To all the ass fucks saying shit like you're a fag or get a hair cut or some bullshit like that, why are you wasting your time on this video? Are you really that frivolous? Fuck off for real.
I really enjoyed listening to you. Just out of curiosity, do you personally identify as a male then? Which gender are you attracted to? Just some questions I would like answers too. (:
I would look them straight in the eye and tell them it's not okay for them to ask you that. And plus they probably don't know you well enough to ask such a personal question. Plus it's none of their f_____ bussiness.
i think it matters what u feel on the inside and people who think other wise are selfish because his right its not u so dont care its not u if u had a son or a girl but dressed like the opset sex or wants to be will you not love ur own child or try and hide them.... i know i wouldent i would try and make my kid happy not sad or thinking his diffrent whatever makes ur kid most comfortable you should do so
are you gay? no .. are you bisexual? no.. are you transgender? no.. are you crossdresser? no.. ok .. last question? are you a boy or a girl? yes.. kinky .. what does that mean? your'e a retarded ... ok bye..
You are talking about two different things though. Sex and gender. Sex is clear cut and biological. Gender is a cultural construct. Progressives and other "enlightened" people can recognize your gender identity all day long, you are still going to encounter resistance from American cultural norms.
@AmeniphusX Actually I wrote that comment before I watched the whole video, I really thought it was a young boy. Anyway, an "e tard", as in someone who uses ecstasy? What is the logic there?
@kamikazeboy87 I actually am 15!!!(: lol but you really need to read the first msg I posted.. Telling this person that possative things.. And it turned into this. I'm stating my opinion. And I wasn't saying anything to hurt this person. Bur then you changed my words and confuzzled me >.< troll...
@RittreRooney You're telling me you weren't saying anything to hurt this person and that you were being positive, yet you describe this person and me as being "sick" when you don't even know us. You sound pretty hypocritical yourself.
@RittreRooney The only "sick" person here in this debate is YOU, finding videos about gender-confused individuals to criticize and preach to. You have as much credibility as a box of hair. I don't see any videos on your channel that show you opening up about personal struggles, baring your soul. It took tremendous courage for the person on this video to do that, in spite of assholes like you who think it's their divine right to take jabs. You're 15 and clearly have some growing up to do.
There is a difference you dillhead. First off.. They are born with a normal mind!! Unlike sick people like you and th GIRL in this video. You arent saticfied with who you were that's why you changed and you can't hide it. Unless you just wanted attention.. It wouldn't suprise me!
@RittreRooney What about people born with ambiguous genitalia? People born with deformities? Don't they have the right to change their bodies to feel more in sync with how they feel inside? Expand that little naive head of yours, will ya? Let people be whoever the hell they want to be.
@kamikazeboy87 I don't think you understand what I was saying hun. I'm saying.. Obviously she wasn't happy with herself. She most likely felt that changing would make things better.. And you know it doesnt. Ppl don't just except that. Wich is sad :( but .. I agree.. You be who you were born to be. Just believe in yourself
@RittreRooney Well, I changed my body to match my mind and I'm happier with myself than I ever was. So you can't relate.. big deal. But please don't make assumptions about people you don't know.
I don't have s problem with it.. I just think you are being s hypocrite. You talk about how people shouldn't make fun of you for being who you want. Then why would you change who you actually are? Everyone will love you either way. You changed for some reason.. You act like nothing bothers you, and you just set aside rude comments and bullying? Obviously that isn't what you do. Otherwise you wouldn't be trying to be something your not
@RittreRooney Every day in every part of the world people alter their bodies in an attempt to feel more physically congruent with their sense of self. (Plastic surgery, liposuction, tattoos, breast implants, the list goes on.) We will have our bodies for the rest of our lives. As long as it’s not harming us or other people, why not take steps towards altering what cheats us out of having a comfortable self-image? Changing your outer shell doesn't change your CORE. Remember that.
I like your video and your view point about things you said. Gender shouldn't matter nor if a person is FTM or MTF or GLBT. People are afraid of what they dont know or understand and are simply closed minded because they fear to break away from society and Dare 2 Be different.
Lol I thought this was a dude. It's pretty annoying when people mistake your gender. I've never actually been asked in person if I was a girl but quite a freaking few times people noticed my long hair before my somewhat broad shoulders and my face. Alot of the time when talking with people online they think I'm a girl and I'm not even one of those gay guys that talks like that or anything. I hate how close minded society is thinking people have to like certain things and look a certain way.
interviewer : are you a boy or a girl? me: did you watched my video ? interviewer: yes !! me: i answer it in my video !! interviewer: (pause) nope .. you didn't me: i explain expletive in details and very simply terms so everyone can understand what i meant.. interviewer: I'm still confuse .. why can you tell me here and now ? me:its a long process .. just watch my video.. interviewer: i did .. i'm more confused and you didn't answer anything... me: you're retarded.. bye..(walked off the set )
you are who you are.your personality is your personality.i accept people even if i cant tell their gender.if they want to tell me thats their business. im happy someones knoladgable about this
@iPhoneMan7 okay, you're fucking dumb. the point in life it to be happy. if being with another woman, makes someone happt then don't fucking judge that. it's his choice. get some perspective. one person not reproducing doesnt end the life cycle so fuck off
Pagan thinking...I love it. And people misread the intentions of the Bible, using only parts to shape their way of thinking...As a whole the Bible has some great lessons in it, and their were great people whose stories were passed on only as example. It's too bad some people are to literal!! You (liberated) & Them (Literated) the balance of life....lol
You are beautiful and smart! Mostly you are humane enough to post this for the education of humanity. Someone out there needed to hear this and it gave them the courage to be themselves...thank you!!
@ghtyvn why do i have to feel trapped and restricted for all my life??just because there're people out there who can't accept somethin not written in the bible? i mean, it's all about making ourselves happy and satisfied, right?of course without hurting others..so i don't see where's the problem...
have you read the book gender trouble: feminism and the subversion of identity by judith butler? my gender studies teacher recommended it to me. i think you will like it.
I hate it when a person get's mad when they find out that a person is ether the oposite of what they though. You are who you are so the next time someone ask you that ask them if they bleed. Than stab them in the neck and say are you human.
You are beautiful inside and out. Don't ever let anyone tell you differently. You speak your mind and you speak the truth. There are very few people like you left in the world and I admire you for that. You are one of my role models and I think that you are truly amazing. I love you Sam!
Of course the reality is I like both penises and vaginas and lucky me I also like surprises and I have been pleasantly surprised more than once. I seem to not have much skill in guessing genders or sexes. I just see a pretty face and I'm hooked. I think many people are equally unskilled but do have a preference and they are part of society as well and their feeliings count as well.
And who says a little glance between the legs should define someone's WHOLE FRIGGIN' LIFE?
1122ares 2 weeks ago
The reason there are all these isues is because our anatomy is black or white, male or female (unless you are intersex, which is a whole 'nother story) but our brains are on a huge spectrum of gender. If people would learn, or at least accept this, the world would be a better place.
1122ares 2 weeks ago
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You have the cutest voice... :3
Brikachu69 1 month ago
You have the cutest voice... :3
Brikachu69 1 month ago
What I think of myself as a teenage boy inside a girls body controlling her mind to think like him and to basically tell her to be a girl on the outside but on the inside be a man because they are the same people just that are different by facial bones and anything really not just because they have different items between there legs doesn't mean crap it means they are a person made to create and build a better place so for everyone using people just stop and look at them and think me and you ar
fatbuyit 1 month ago
I get asked this question so many times a day and it's not about self identification,it's about the clothes i wear..but i can't change them cause i like my clothes and that's my style.An old guy in the bus yelled it out for everyone to hear..it just sucked.the first times it was funny,now it's just annoying,as if that identifies me in any way!As if all i am is what's between my legs! Used to think:no big deal..but now:it's just frustrating and in a way insulting.Does it really matter that much..
PoMircheva 1 month ago
It is a mind fuck...to say the least. People see gender and sex as the easiest way to define someone. When they can't tell if you're male or female they psychologically freak out. They cannot define you and they cannot place you in the narrow categories they have created. It is a big thing in our culture. Gender is nothing but an illusion but it is the easiest illusion for the eye to see. At least most people think it is. Go to Breakingbinaries.blogspot.com to read more of my rants :P
lesly137 1 month ago
fuck this
fromundachze 2 months ago
Dont let anyone influence you. Your perfect just the way you are, if everyone behaved the way its expected, the world would not be what it is today. 'You all think im weird because im different, i think your clones because your all the same.'
MJJWillLive4Eva 2 months ago
I have a friend who is more or less a clone of you personality-wise. You are an amazing person.
MaggieHaggis 2 months ago
i like your hair :) x
MrCassie2011 2 months ago
You wanna know my opinion?
You're a awesome person. That's my opinion. You've got guts to sit and talk in front of a camera and post it to YouTube about your thoughts and your own gender. I would never dare to do so, even though I don't have the same problems as you've got. So you're a very strong girl and you seem to have lots of interesting and intelligent thoughts in your head. Brilliant personality, keep it up! :)
EcilaQueen 2 months ago 2
dem lips 8E
d0ck47 3 months ago
yess but will it blend?
TheYoface911 3 months ago
so you are a girl who wants to be a fag boy?
Bu3off 3 months ago
@Bu3off That sounds a tad rude...
AVeryPotterFreak 3 months ago
@Bu3off No. "She's" genderqueer. Google it.
kiwistasteyummy 3 months ago
Peace.
DarthYuYevon 4 months ago
The same is true for gays, lesbians, etc, almost all people have sexualities, have masculine of feminine or both qualities, and many of us have strong sexual urges and it all creates natural gender. Now gender construct, sure, thats made up by society, like women should cook and all that crap. But natural gender is very real regardless of what modern beliefs state.
DarthYuYevon 4 months ago 2
.........to do this you have to present youself as the best woman or man meaning being the most womanly or masculine. Women who naturally are more beautiful and feminine get the best guy, and vice versa. All of this is natural gender. A mans natual masculinity is gender. Tall, strong, tough body, a natural football players physical status. Deep voice, etc. All gender, and it;s all what naturally attracts many heterosexual women.
DarthYuYevon 4 months ago
......and so what happens is, the men want to be with the women, and the women want to be with the men. Most heterosexual men naturally find femininity in woment o be a sexual turn on, and the opposite goes for heterosexual women. Women want the best man, and men want the best woman, but everyone wants the best of the sexes so there is natural competition. Guess what, the most feminine, sexy, attractive women will get the best man and vice versa. To be this, you have to............
DarthYuYevon 4 months ago
Lastly, gender exists. There are 2 parts to gender. Social construct, which is made up by society, and natural gender that you are born with. The natural part is based on a combination of your physical sex, brain sex, sex drive, and sexuality. For instance, if your a heterosexual guy, who's physicsally a guy, who's brain sex is a guy, with a high sex drive, he will want to have sex with women, badly. Heterosexual women who strongly desire men are the same. and so what happens is.....
DarthYuYevon 4 months ago
No, look it's actaully quite simple. People ask that question because they want to confirn that, 1) yes I was right, this is a girl or no, I was wrong this person isn't a girl. And 2) wow, so it is possible to be born a girl, or boy, and look like the opposite gender. It's not rocket science. Sure people need to be respectful of your feelings, but at the same time, you need to be realistic about reality and understand that people like yourself are rare to most people.
DarthYuYevon 4 months ago
"I think that you can be biologically female and be whatever the fuck you want to be." I think this is simply fucking amazing and brilliant.
RawrrImaLeprechaun 4 months ago
Wait this is not pokemon?
NYtassu 4 months ago 2
I know how you feel... I'm biologically male but I look very feminine naturally and people often act very rude and hostile to me. Some have even said that I ought to choose, i.e. get a sex change! But I'm happy the way I am! Yeah I think society makes out that gender is black and white, rather I see it a spectrum of colours! :D
GaeilgeSpraoi 5 months ago
@gant972000 3 is same as 2
biaskatergirl 5 months ago
I actually think androgyny is sexy. It...doesn't matter what someone's got in their pants. That doesn't make them any more or less attractive, to me.
XViolentVirtueX 5 months ago
you shouldnt really care i mean your gay you wanna be a guy right you wanna take a mans place with being with a girl and thats fine fuck its your life i used to be bi but your pretty my guy friend even said so
rachbabii1 5 months ago
@10lettername
U don't get it she wants to be a he. And I respect that
Swizzles408 5 months ago
Ok WTF how did ppl not know you were a girl... And you are kind of hot... ;)
16661toby 5 months ago
You're attractive. You can call me.
MorganFreya 5 months ago
ur a girl
DDFFPP8922 5 months ago
She's a chick?
...i thought it was a dude.... I also thought this 'dude' was hot...
-awkward-
abbyeatworld80 5 months ago 18
@abbyeatworld80 I think he prefers to be addressed as male, asshole.
xkieranmac 2 months ago
One question ive always had (and maybe u can answer) is why do some lesbians try to look and act as close a male as possible when they arent physically attracted to them?
xXkmart95Xx 6 months ago
@xXkmart95Xx
It's not about trying to mimick how you look or act due to the way a person or group of people who is physically male/female, especially if your are or not attracted to them. It's about being and acting how you feel personally regardless of what others think. Simply put, it's just another way of someone being who they are not matter what. AS long as your being who you are, regardless of what people think, that's what counts.
HisakiYuki 5 months ago
@HisakiYuki
I meant to say being who they are no matter what...lol!
HisakiYuki 5 months ago
i get it though
123zyouknowmez 6 months ago
ok imagine this boy:i love you ?: me to boy: :D -kissing- boy: WAIT WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU BOY OR GIRL ?: no?!?
123zyouknowmez 6 months ago
i have been asked that, but it was in elementary school (little kids can be pretty cruel)... i knew i was a girl, i felt like a girl, and from what i could tell i looked like a girl... i couldn't understand how anybody could mistake me for anything else.
1nobodynos 6 months ago 2
Another FUK ( like you say ) In the old day ....Boy didn't look like girl, and vice versa.
Society screw up Kid, it's sex + sex + Idol + Sex and more IDOL.
TOTAL PROGRAMMING
Get more into SPIRITUALITY, you will stop thinking about are a boy or a girl YOUR BE MORE A HUMAN with value, compare to FOLLOW A SOCIETY IN THERE DECLINE...Open your eyes and good luck
varix3d 6 months ago
Of coarse, you're a boy!!!
GUITRISTAO3 6 months ago
Well, do not confuse inborn gender identity with gender role. As for being uncomfortable with your body and changing how you feel, maybe you should find a therapist. You should find which of the 2 sexes you feel the closest and try to conform to that as much as possible. That is the difference between a true TS who must fit into one of the two existing roles and have the body that matches, and a TG person who sees gender apart from biology and themselves somewhere in between.
PlumGurly 6 months ago
@PlumGurly Maybe instead of picking a standard gender that isn't right and conforming to it to get treatment, one ought to, you know just find a better therapist who can accept and help one with being genderqueer.
Smischmal 5 months ago
I'm sorry, at first i actually thought you were a boy. :b but then i heard you say "Im female" so i was like "whaaaaaaaaaaa' ?" :b
BreatheLeslieIn 6 months ago 3
I know how you feel. I've got exactly the same thing going on in my life.
Infrashredder 6 months ago
Holy crud ur a girl? Well then I guess I'm str8 then
thewhatsit104 6 months ago
@thewhatsit104 Then again, he could be a boy saying that for shock value. If he wants to be accepted as a boy, he needs to cut his hair and not wear earrings, and if she wants to be seen as a girl, then she needs to wear her hair long, wear jewelry, etc. They want to talk about culture. Hey, this is the US, and if you don't like US gender rules, move.
PlumGurly 6 months ago
I feel as if I am watching a more confident version of myself. Your opinions are almost exactly like my own and I really appreciate what you have to say.
ninjaroar1 6 months ago
id hit it
bloodysword100 6 months ago
"Not asking for your gender identity"
"Asking whether or not you have a penis or a vagina"
>Implying those aren't exactly the same thing
Look you androgynous faggot, get a haircut and go to the gym, problem solved.
10lettername 7 months ago
@10lettername
HAHA HOLY SHIT YOU'RE A GIRL! AHAHAHAHAAHAH, GROW YOUR HAIR OUT AND STOP SOUNDING LIKE A PREPUBESCENT BOY.
10lettername 7 months ago
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@10lettername Grow up, troll.
Smischmal 5 months ago
Honestly, I think your body is perfect the way it is and you shouldn't change it no matter what, whoever loves you should love you for who you are, I'd say people like that are hard to find but I've realized that if my boyfriend was biologically a girl I'd still accept him. If you like boys or both, your body is perfect, and if you like girls, there are easy to get around the body issues. Just make sure you know, you're not alone.
DaszMakireh 7 months ago
very good. You should check out some of the recent studies on testosterone and the huge influence on human behavior it has. obviously more with male than female. its primal. war, reproduction ext....build them up just to knock them down. i wouldn't worry to much about how soeciety deems you. i can see how the questions could get old. do your thing human
ThePiercepick 7 months ago
You're a hot biological girl.(;
chellcwilkins 7 months ago
do you get a period or did you get some kinda surgery 4 that?
madeleineis13 7 months ago
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
— Dr. Seuss
You have great insight into this issue of gender classification!! I was reminded every day that I was a girl and could not be like my 4 brothers. As for your mum,she needs her own rhythm to accept..Imagine circles around us like a pebble dropped in a pond.Those closest are the ones who resist change in loved ones.(see 5 stages of dealing with change/loss by Dr Kubler-Ross)
GunsNRosesTrans 7 months ago
U sound like your trying not to cry o.o
ICPinkFuzzyBunnies 7 months ago
People have this fervent, insatiable need to categorize EVERYTHING and everyone. Most people's anatomical sex is apparent because their gender expression is in "accordance" with their anatomical sex, based on societal norms. When someone deviates from this societal norm and their sex isn't immediately apparent, people freak out a bit.
FM897 7 months ago
@FM897 I don't think this natural curiosity and desire for understanding is inherently bad (it's actually a good thing and I wish people were this inquisitive about more topics). The problem is that people don't have any f*cking tact.
FM897 7 months ago
@FM897 I know I'm cutting the questioners a lot of slack here, and it's partly because I don't get asked "Are you a boy or a girl?" on anything close to a daily basis. I know it must be annoying as hell and I empathize with you greatly.
FM897 7 months ago
sometimes when they ask they only want to know what pronouns you should be addressed with.
scifimom 7 months ago 21
@scifimom then it would be a lot politer to just ask what pronouns they prefer. or, if that feels too formal, people at my GSA have taken to asking each other, "how are you queering today?"
sassyqueer 2 months ago
CUT YOUR HAIR THEN DUMBASS!
Thumbs up!!! b
MrJamieFRESH 7 months ago
U look like a young man 2 me. But dont u find it weird when ur a guy, then u see som other guy, but they're hot to u, but ur not gay? And then ur like o wtf, am i gay, or? I dont undrstand it. And yea, sometimes i DO get called a chick sometimes, but i just say no, im a guy (which i am) and i just make a joke out of it. I think we get called girls cuz the hair. I hav the same hair as u so.....
TheEthanater 7 months ago
Wow you are absolutely right!
I'm not asked too often, people just talk about me, they walk some meters away from me and think I can't hear them. ^^
When I am asked I answer: I am a girl, and you?
TheApfelkern 7 months ago
2:34-2:35. EPIC HAIR FLIP. xD
carlyfoshoo 7 months ago
i'm confused
miamiwax 7 months ago
It's not a boy or a girl. it is a justin beiber LMAO!
krazyforgirlsfeet 7 months ago
No matter how awful it is, genders do exist not only in our culture but, obviously, biologically. It does change something, but it is true our sociaty is too gender considered and limits our lives because of our bodies. This is why being an androgyne rocks, people cant recognize your gender and start drawing conclusions because of that! Lets live freely!
ComeToTheFeastOfWar 7 months ago
I know this is kinda unrelated, but I totally thought of Professor Oak.
TheCoverGirl96 7 months ago
either way, girl or boy, you're cute :D & Seem like a really cool person(:
musicXluvr29 7 months ago
this is so right. i learned it in sociology recently o__o
intergalactasaurus 7 months ago
It's seams to me this has annoyed severely and needs to realize reality
Brentcfunstuff 7 months ago
i think its the way you talk
popcornballs29 7 months ago
if someones attracted to you and find out your a girl instead of the sex they imagined having sex with, they get mad because they feel fooled, hoodwinked, cozened, all of that. angels dont have a gender. think about that.
briannacollins44 7 months ago
i think they ask because they find you attractive and want to know for that reason. u know?
briannacollins44 7 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
i dont care what you are, your hot!!!
slave4glue 7 months ago
You go girl. Also don't be ashamed of what you are. :) People view you how you view yourself. Always remember that :)
thezanyraven 7 months ago
To all the ass fucks saying shit like you're a fag or get a hair cut or some bullshit like that, why are you wasting your time on this video? Are you really that frivolous? Fuck off for real.
On my end, I support who you are. :)
AmeniphusX 7 months ago
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Sammywadman 7 months ago
@Sammywadman Or there could be less ignorant fucks like you. S/he doesn't have to do what you say. It's not your choice, ass hole.
AmeniphusX 7 months ago
Are you a Beatle or a Faggot?
09poolcleaner 8 months ago
virgina = female , penis = male FULLSTOP
oldkrookedman 8 months ago
Bless you (:
I really enjoyed listening to you. Just out of curiosity, do you personally identify as a male then? Which gender are you attracted to? Just some questions I would like answers too. (:
tokiohotelismyworld 8 months ago
I would look them straight in the eye and tell them it's not okay for them to ask you that. And plus they probably don't know you well enough to ask such a personal question. Plus it's none of their f_____ bussiness.
jerickzane 8 months ago
Wait, do you choose to identify as a guy?
thekkl 8 months ago
you would think that faggot
W1F3B34T3R 8 months ago
because, when they check you out, they want to know if you are what they are attracted to?
Arbiter567 8 months ago
I feel the same way.
proudtrans15 8 months ago
i think it matters what u feel on the inside and people who think other wise are selfish because his right its not u so dont care its not u if u had a son or a girl but dressed like the opset sex or wants to be will you not love ur own child or try and hide them.... i know i wouldent i would try and make my kid happy not sad or thinking his diffrent whatever makes ur kid most comfortable you should do so
amber123 8 months ago
there are these things called estrogen and hormones... its what makes you girly or manly, your not taught it
unholypenguin4 8 months ago
@unholypenguin4 that's a particularly misinformed comment you've made there...ignorant, but at least it wasn't malicious :)
anonymousishhh 8 months ago
@anonymousishhh
Not really.. I learned it in health class in 10th grade.
unholypenguin4 8 months ago
They ask you that because you are too pretty to be a boy, and too boyish to be a girl. Who cares?
hulka99 8 months ago
i think your awesome. Just wanted to let you know.
999hinta 8 months ago
speak up like you have a pair... or not if thats the case, I cant tell
snake109 8 months ago
chauhpham 8 months ago
@anonymouslyfaceless yup!(:
RittreRooney 8 months ago
hey ur hot
TheMegmeg1997 8 months ago
You are talking about two different things though. Sex and gender. Sex is clear cut and biological. Gender is a cultural construct. Progressives and other "enlightened" people can recognize your gender identity all day long, you are still going to encounter resistance from American cultural norms.
mygaffer 8 months ago
Speak up boy, its hard to hear you. Is this a gay thing? You are obviously a 14 year old boy.
mygaffer 8 months ago
@mygaffer And you are obviously an e tard who doesn't really know their shit.
AmeniphusX 7 months ago
@AmeniphusX Actually I wrote that comment before I watched the whole video, I really thought it was a young boy. Anyway, an "e tard", as in someone who uses ecstasy? What is the logic there?
mygaffer 7 months ago
I actually think you're a boy... but i mean... just get over it... it's not about what THEY like to see or hear... it's about what you want to be. :)
McChuy23 8 months ago
@OblivionRaining
RittreRooney 8 months ago
Hey go have sex with yourself..
RittreRooney 8 months ago
Well you are right!(: it's disgusting ! You obviously arent someone people like! Except for your own "kind"
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@RittreRooney And you're a troglodyte. What's your point?
OblivionRaining 9 months ago
@RittreRooney Well, he is 'obviously' someone that wouldn't want to be liked by ignorant fools such as yourself.
AnonymouslyFaceless 8 months ago
@RittreRooney You're an ignorant, not accepting, disgusting terribly misinformed human being. You base opinions upon what grounds?
AmeniphusX 7 months ago
@kamikazeboy87 I actually am 15!!!(: lol but you really need to read the first msg I posted.. Telling this person that possative things.. And it turned into this. I'm stating my opinion. And I wasn't saying anything to hurt this person. Bur then you changed my words and confuzzled me >.< troll...
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@RittreRooney You're telling me you weren't saying anything to hurt this person and that you were being positive, yet you describe this person and me as being "sick" when you don't even know us. You sound pretty hypocritical yourself.
kamikazeboy87 9 months ago
@OblivionRaining vvvvv
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@RittreRooney The only "sick" person here in this debate is YOU, finding videos about gender-confused individuals to criticize and preach to. You have as much credibility as a box of hair. I don't see any videos on your channel that show you opening up about personal struggles, baring your soul. It took tremendous courage for the person on this video to do that, in spite of assholes like you who think it's their divine right to take jabs. You're 15 and clearly have some growing up to do.
kamikazeboy87 9 months ago
There is a difference you dillhead. First off.. They are born with a normal mind!! Unlike sick people like you and th GIRL in this video. You arent saticfied with who you were that's why you changed and you can't hide it. Unless you just wanted attention.. It wouldn't suprise me!
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@kamikazeboy87 omg dude. U were made who you were for a reason.. End of discussion
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@RittreRooney What about people born with ambiguous genitalia? People born with deformities? Don't they have the right to change their bodies to feel more in sync with how they feel inside? Expand that little naive head of yours, will ya? Let people be whoever the hell they want to be.
OblivionRaining 9 months ago
@kamikazeboy87 I don't think you understand what I was saying hun. I'm saying.. Obviously she wasn't happy with herself. She most likely felt that changing would make things better.. And you know it doesnt. Ppl don't just except that. Wich is sad :( but .. I agree.. You be who you were born to be. Just believe in yourself
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@RittreRooney Well, I changed my body to match my mind and I'm happier with myself than I ever was. So you can't relate.. big deal. But please don't make assumptions about people you don't know.
kamikazeboy87 9 months ago
I don't have s problem with it.. I just think you are being s hypocrite. You talk about how people shouldn't make fun of you for being who you want. Then why would you change who you actually are? Everyone will love you either way. You changed for some reason.. You act like nothing bothers you, and you just set aside rude comments and bullying? Obviously that isn't what you do. Otherwise you wouldn't be trying to be something your not
RittreRooney 9 months ago
@RittreRooney Every day in every part of the world people alter their bodies in an attempt to feel more physically congruent with their sense of self. (Plastic surgery, liposuction, tattoos, breast implants, the list goes on.) We will have our bodies for the rest of our lives. As long as it’s not harming us or other people, why not take steps towards altering what cheats us out of having a comfortable self-image? Changing your outer shell doesn't change your CORE. Remember that.
kamikazeboy87 9 months ago
I like your video and your view point about things you said. Gender shouldn't matter nor if a person is FTM or MTF or GLBT. People are afraid of what they dont know or understand and are simply closed minded because they fear to break away from society and Dare 2 Be different.
shortylove015 9 months ago
When someone asks me "Are you a boy or a girl?" i simply reply "No".
pexif 9 months ago 36
@pexif ha lol, i reply yes
iyamarilovegaara 6 months ago
Would you ever want to take T?
strawberryfetish 9 months ago
Lol I thought this was a dude. It's pretty annoying when people mistake your gender. I've never actually been asked in person if I was a girl but quite a freaking few times people noticed my long hair before my somewhat broad shoulders and my face. Alot of the time when talking with people online they think I'm a girl and I'm not even one of those gay guys that talks like that or anything. I hate how close minded society is thinking people have to like certain things and look a certain way.
MrEllisRedding 9 months ago
chauhpham 9 months ago
xD ur cute xD
kylblk3 9 months ago
I thought you were a dude.
Debu233 9 months ago
you are who you are.your personality is your personality.i accept people even if i cant tell their gender.if they want to tell me thats their business. im happy someones knoladgable about this
takerumayu 9 months ago
ur hot
AngelikaLuvsJustinB1 9 months ago
u are very wise for someone so young
beavisandbutthead104 9 months ago
You can tell , that your a boy <3
YuliannaProductions 9 months ago
@YuliannaProductions she's a girl, not a boy.
Anthonyk312 9 months ago
well i must say who ever says that to you is a mong as you are clearly a guy
fife951 9 months ago
@fife951 that's the whole point. She's a girl. See even you got it wrong.
Anthonyk312 9 months ago
woahh you're so cool man! I love your insight into this subject!
fafads100 9 months ago
I don't think gender matters as long as you know who you are and can expect yourself. I also think you're quite attractive.
Killyin11 9 months ago
@iPhoneMan7 okay, you're fucking dumb. the point in life it to be happy. if being with another woman, makes someone happt then don't fucking judge that. it's his choice. get some perspective. one person not reproducing doesnt end the life cycle so fuck off
blink1eye 9 months ago
@blink1eye his/her -- i wrote his because i'm not really sure anndd i think you define yourself as male...
blink1eye 9 months ago
Haha wow.....I thought u were like a dude haha
151ilovemonkeyz 9 months ago
Thank you for existing.
SammyFujitsu 9 months ago 10
yuhr cute as hell and boy or girl idc {im pansexal}
RockZombieIAm 9 months ago 2
Pagan thinking...I love it. And people misread the intentions of the Bible, using only parts to shape their way of thinking...As a whole the Bible has some great lessons in it, and their were great people whose stories were passed on only as example. It's too bad some people are to literal!! You (liberated) & Them (Literated) the balance of life....lol
Sarikoon 9 months ago 2
You are beautiful and smart! Mostly you are humane enough to post this for the education of humanity. Someone out there needed to hear this and it gave them the courage to be themselves...thank you!!
Sarikoon 9 months ago
We are all stuck with the bodys we are given at birth.
Try to make the best with what you are given.
ghtyvn 9 months ago
@ghtyvn why do i have to feel trapped and restricted for all my life??just because there're people out there who can't accept somethin not written in the bible? i mean, it's all about making ourselves happy and satisfied, right?of course without hurting others..so i don't see where's the problem...
kcnirvana6794 9 months ago 2
you look like a boy a cute boy (lol)
itsMsTay 9 months ago
have you read the book gender trouble: feminism and the subversion of identity by judith butler? my gender studies teacher recommended it to me. i think you will like it.
XxAnnaTheStrangexX 9 months ago
I hate it when a person get's mad when they find out that a person is ether the oposite of what they though. You are who you are so the next time someone ask you that ask them if they bleed. Than stab them in the neck and say are you human.
lildolly1987 9 months ago
Based on what you are saying in this video, I think you might just be a gay woman.
scardzz 9 months ago
I like the way you think. I wish more people thought like you.
KawaiiVanilla 10 months ago
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ITSGLENN83 10 months ago
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thesoccergal100 10 months ago
@thesoccergal100 ya i clearly see him as male
brandonXdeath 10 months ago
@thesoccergal100 well she isn't. She's a girl.
Anthonyk312 9 months ago
when someone asks me "Are you a boy or a girl?" I just reply with 'Yes'.
RainbowChu16 10 months ago 84
@RainbowChu16 You are awesome
MultitaskFish 8 months ago
You are beautiful inside and out. Don't ever let anyone tell you differently. You speak your mind and you speak the truth. There are very few people like you left in the world and I admire you for that. You are one of my role models and I think that you are truly amazing. I love you Sam!
YourLittleSis97 10 months ago
I also get ask that question if i am a boy or a girl
Mrcanela73 10 months ago
damn had my volumn on my speakers and youtube volumn up still could barely hear
MrGSHOCK13 10 months ago
are you a boy or a girl?
MrGSHOCK13 10 months ago
you're gorgeous! dont listen to anyone who disses you for who you are.
Way to speak your mind.
Respect
0yazy0 10 months ago
Awww. You're cute. (;
PassionatexWhispers 10 months ago
I agree with you wholeheartedly, and wish I knew more people with your views ;/
SprocketTalker 10 months ago
i love this... its straight up...
sturgeonemily 10 months ago
Sam,
I say once again...be who you are... not what other people want you to be.
The body is just a life support machine...it doesn;t define who you are.
You go kid.:)
I feel your anguish and admire your bravery..
batmanmick 10 months ago
@KanineRebelBoi No problem. People can be very ignorant, but at least our kind are not alone.
CygnusMedia 10 months ago
@KanineRebelBoi You are whichever gender you identify as, and anyone who denies that can go rot.
CygnusMedia 10 months ago
your a fag who just wasted 3 mins of my life.
avrilrockz5 10 months ago
SPEAK UP WE CAN'T FUCKING HEAR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
dljc1979 10 months ago
how much pot do you inhale on a daily basis?
peageweage 10 months ago
if i was like u i well Suicide I swear
nemesiskd 10 months ago
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
That is all.
Chewwwee 10 months ago
Of course the reality is I like both penises and vaginas and lucky me I also like surprises and I have been pleasantly surprised more than once. I seem to not have much skill in guessing genders or sexes. I just see a pretty face and I'm hooked. I think many people are equally unskilled but do have a preference and they are part of society as well and their feeliings count as well.
shatros 11 months ago