How To Connect With People & Personal Presences Tips For Men & Women, Feminine Rhythm

[Super22762]

using the green screen

[abbazin102]

Does any one want some coconuts?

[TheBashir85]

how about u take up ur cloth?

[Syrues]

1. Hit a bong

2. Eat an south Atlantic sea bass

3. Have a stare contest with a picture of Billy Zane

4. Play a game of twister and take a piss after

You will be cured of all awkwardness/anxiety. Your welcome.

[DTuber100]

No, no.no, i need to do the opposite. How do I disconnect from my body and have NO presence? I cannot turn it off. It has caused too much trouble already.

[Zegstasis]

@DTuber100 When you dont focus on people... Focus on other things like your career or a passion or a hobby... You will be disconnected from ur body when around other people... Thats if you like those other things more than people... It's all about self-control...

[1966jaxx]

Avoidance of unnattractive people is human. Most peoples primitive instinct is to get away and find someone who will benefit their social, financial, physical, intellectual and spiritual class. This is subconscious and instinctual. It is not superficial. It exist in everyone.

[1966jaxx]

Scientific test show the more physically attractive you are the more people are attracted to you. It has been shown they get more praise, especially as children.

Most people will comment it's not all about looks. But that's a catch 22 problem. Without the initial interest it's really tough to break the ice and worse unattractive people make most people nervous if they take an interest in someone. People then get fearful that this person is going to want to hang around.

[1966jaxx]

If you can fake sincerity, you've got it made.

Oh Yeah, be a beautiful woman, be empathetic, and tell people you care.

Then you will be drawn in. You can easily draw people in if you are physically really attractive and you act as though you really care. EVERYONE wants to talk to beautiful people who take an interest in them. Good gawd, REALLY?

Show be a butt ugly person that can accomplish this. People are primitive when it comes to physicality. We like pretty people and we tune out to ugly.

[RedTailedTuna]

How to connect with people 1. Be an attractive woman 2. Allow people to talk to you and pretend to pay attention.

[jessicareneedaniels]

omg, does she have a green outline around her?

[Hnginthere]

I have ADD. Sometimes when I engaged in a conversation, my attention drops. Like you said, my eyes start to glaze over. People probably think I'm being rude but I can't help it. I will try your suggestions

[michealjohnedmondson]

Did you just try to seduce me? 4:50-5:00. I think I liked that lol :-)

[blues9934]

shes cute :3

[iprawiro]

Want to connect without using tricks? Visit my channel I'll give you the truth! even if you are not attractive

[jamesrcollier]

Sorry, but I call BS. The reason you draw people in, is because you are seriously hot. I don't mean that to diminish your other positive attributes (e.g. apparently bubbly, compassionate, and intelligent personality). But you could center yourself in a ham sandwich, and fully believe that is why people are drawn to you.

[caverly]

A terrific passionate articulation of such meaningful intent for closer loving connections - Bravo . May love reign and be our natural over-flowing presents .

i very appreciate and admire your loving presents , intent and gifts , Lauren .

Great work - very resourceful - beautifully focused - crystal clear - lovely intent - fabulous demonstration and explanation of being PRESENT . we thank you -love .

[imsuckingwind]

This is kinda weird how ppl have lost the ability to connect with each other, and have to have someone coach you to connect.The only way you can really connect is to love them.If you lost that loving feeling your in deep trouble.Im guessing with that lost of love for one another you would have to find a generic replacement..Also wondering if this is some kind of divine feminine technique?

[fulanaarvore]

I like these tips and stuff... but it would be more helpful if it made me pretty instantly hahaha. Then this whole thing would work. =p As she said in her website (and anybody with some common sense knows that) physical appearance is important.

[hereforthemusic93]

she kind of look like Eliza Dushku

[ddamyanov]

After watching this I feel grounded in my energy...and maybe a little bit retarded but definitely calmer. This is probably because each time I go through the video, the ever rising rate at which my brain cells are deteriorating is simply astonishing! I personally believe that it would take no more than a dozen of rewinds for a spectator to be inevitably and permanently grounded in the land of the inner energy.

[ddamyanov]

Grounded in that energy...below your belly button

You gotta be in your body...When people are grounded in their energy...Present and grounded in your self...

I want you to get a friend...and I want you to practice the route to your shrink's office. Then talk inside out of your body and see how that feels for the two, three of you /depends on how many of you are present and at their body at the time/.

My voice is projecting from my belly...

WOW, this is great stuff. Keep up the good work

[labobo]

1:35:

2 to 3 inches below the navel...aherm...so why not say the crotch when you mean the crotch ?

So my crotch is my "power center" ?

Didnt need you to tell me that.

She said "the most important "tool" i ever learned"

Sadly many women use sex and sexuality a a tool.

Perhaps because they are too stupid to use their head ?

(To talk, to communicate)

I can tell you she is very good at talking out of her ass, oh my what a load of bullshit

Do people actually think they learn something from this?

[dylan9236]

All of these concepts are so vague! I'm studying to become an occupational therapist and the things we learn about connecting and communicating with clients have nothing to do with "being at home in your body". Use facial expressions and body language that match your intended meaning, use eye contact, be interested, be empathetic, be steady, be unassuming...tips for effective communication are in fact very specific.

[branchingvine]

It has little to nothing to do with a spot 2 or 3 inches below your navel. If you want to really connect with another person, 1. be genuine and 2. learn how to mirror, match, pace and lead. These are scientific methods that work consistantly from the study of Body Language. Master these and you'll be well on your way to deeper more intimate connections with people regardless of your physical beauty or lack thereof.

[labobo]

@branchingvine exactly !

[Theonedue]

Hey Lauren, I would LOVE to connect with you and be present in your body! 

[OmegaRiver]

wow i felt it just looking at the video haha :)

[tombeaudreau]

One side of her hair is cut shorter than the other, is that intentional?

[jimmycrew]

Oh I feel you baby I do !!!

[100LEGIONS]

Tthree inches below my belly bottom? Is she reffering to my......... my wang???

[100LEGIONS]

i am taking a shit while watching this video.

[Myhike3]

I am aware of your pretty dress,eyes and most of all..you are just Nice!

[fahimmurshed]

Awsum Video!! Loved it! Please keep them coming! I did feel a shift from discomfort to more drawn towards you in your little test in the video. Incredible!! Tnx for sharing :)

[aj2010musician]

I think that she's a little soft. Her advice is really really valid, but I don't find her very enigmatic.

[ahBadman]

@Faugh666 I'm with you bro... that girl loves to hear herself talk and make herself important..she doesn't give the slightest fck about truly helping others..she might be IN her body but shes damn sure outta her mind... shut up and get fck girl... a time well spend that would be..

[AhaBach4Life]

Beauty and the Bullsh*t!

[Ramiromasters]

She is cute, too bad she is cookie like cocopops!!

[Zeneternity]

Excellent video! Thank you for sharing. You have definitely mastered being present :)

[granyagami1982]

jajajajajja the only reason I'd pay attention to you it's because you are too beautiful

[baxtar1963]

All the good women in my town are taken. The rest are fat, tattooed, nasty ones. I don't want to connect with them. I want to move to place where the women out number the men 10 to 1 maybe Russia, Australia or Asia. American women are crazy.

[j0hnwi11iams]

There is more to life than a highly attuned limbic system. I like to connect to people and do so very often, specially with those people I love. However, I think it is very important not to engage the limbic system when disagreeing or arguing with others, especially if they are prone to negative emotions and behaviors. A lot of times I will look away simply because the subject matter is complex. Understand what it is you want to do and prioritize.

[briansmobile1]

Being present in your body is visibly evident to others because it increases the eye contact time and intensity.

[sprintsanyo81]

weather its men or women the world has become far too masculine. as a man i really enjoy this video. we need more

[Theonedue]

"Be present in your body..." "Be home in your belly button..." "Be out of your body..." Shit, why not just cut to the chase and tell people to visit their local drug cartel and buy some LSD or premium pot, cause all that sounded like a bunch of New Age bullshit. "Right now, I can tell your attracted to me." No shit dumby, your a girl and your hot!

[MochizMuM]

i dont have friends so i cant do this

[NoirFelis]

Thank you very much.. I really need that.. I love you

[Shay45]

There really needs to be a LOVE button cause this is my BIGGEST problem.

[Homer92]

or you can go to therapy and deal with the root causes of all the social anxiety you feel. That's what I did :)

[moviedude22]

idk I wanna believe her but I want to observe her in her element, I want to see her sync up with an unlikely candidate...but she has an edge, being drop dead beautiful

[fredzeo]

I think she is cute.

[caverly]

" The essence of great connection = people knowing and feeling cared for = giving that gift of presents ". Awesome , simple , well illustrated and explained !!! :-}

[Drrck11]

Yes, Lauren. I use Jedi mind tricks. lol

[Drrck11]

Are you talkin' to me? ARE YOU TALKIN' TO ME?

[theocrimby]

This is pseudo-science gibberish. Or at least she doesn't really explain this very well.

[slytherin0queen]

She sounds like a nut.. no affence

[FreedomAtRisk]

tits or gtfo.

[IChoseTheRedPill]

i understand... i will occasionally experience anxiety while talking to others... i have a prescription for ativan that i use from time to time when it begins to overwhelm me... i'll try this as soon as i get the chance...

you are exquisite...

[ProfessorMystic]

l liked this. I have social anxiety and other issues and I tend to go into my head and feel self conscious with people -- losing eye contact or getting a hand tremor which makes things very uncomfortable, making me want to avoid people. I know alot about the chakras and other things and I have tried to work on my energy body but I never thought of focusing on the second charkra when interacting with someone. The lower chakras do tend to made you more grounded and calm.

[gerry2345]

@ProfessorMystic .. Why would you not focus on the second chakra when meeting a new person.... The second chakra is all about starting something new.. Once you have grounded yourself with a deep breath and cleared all the crap out of your system, you move forward and form that new relationship..you don't stay stuck at ground level i.e. in the crap..

[ProfessorMystic]

@gerry2345 yes you are right. Perhaps you slightly misunderstood my comment -- the second chakra IS one of the lower chakras which are "grounding" or so I meant when I said that. The lower 3 tend to be more grounding, as opposed to the heart or the 3rd eye, etc., where I might have been inclined to go and thus lose my balance. I hope this makes sense. I just tried the exercise today with the 2nd chakra and it works. It took away that sense of aimless anxiety or "not knowing what to say or do".

[gerry2345]

@ProfessorMystic ... Very good... Sounds like you are doing well.

[deadhardy]

this girl is hot...i would pay to see her body

[Shinobi20000]

I honestly thought at first that this video would be a simple gimmick, but after watching it I think that I may actually apply this to my future practice as a nurse. Great tips and thanks for the insight.

[007HubbaBubba]

It's that sync feeling you get when talking to some one whom you can tell is listening to you and interpreting everything you say and vice versa, you understand and relate to them. Like 2 people totally secure and confident with themselves communicating with 0 distractions.

[syyenergy7]

????? I don't understand this. ,,,not kidding either. The title was catchy.

[Slushplop]

well I'm drawn in towards you but its not your presence thats doing it! 

[gerry2345]

@Slushplop ...She is attractive.. I think that's why your drawn toward her.. I think it's easy for an attractive person to speak from the belly and form a energtic connection with another person.. Try doing it as an ugly person, it's a lot harder to do..

[Slushplop]

@gerry2345 exactly, easy if you're stunningly beautiful, but hard if you have serious acne. Or are ugly. Or are ugly and have acne. Unfortunately I am neither of those so i'll start talking from below my belt, usually gets me into trouble though... we'll see

[TheEidolon7]

@gerry2345 I think you are correct. I've been observing this with people lately. Also the kids that get a lot of attention and encouragement usually end up being more confidant and social. Pranayama and exercise do seem to give a boost for the less social or confidant, though. It takes a lot of time and effort for sure.

[blacklite911]

@gerry2345 True that its easier for an attractive person to get others drawn in but I want to point out that many less attractive people don't portray confidence so thats an instant turn off toward people who aren't initially interested. Lack of confidence for men or women is the biggest blocker. Even if a less attractive person doesn't get that instant spark, if they push through that with confidence, they can bring others in.

[gerry2345]

@blacklite911 .. I agree, it does take work for a ugly person to push the boundaries into life changing confidence and It can only come from getting help from having postive people around or a suitable mentor...Let's not be fooled that it can come from reading a self help book..It has to be a daily practice.

[MochizMuM]

@gerry2345 so true

[jaybirdjtt]

@gerry2345

I've know very plain, plain people who seem to draw everyone into their huge circle of friends and I've known very attractive looking people who seem to put out rejection vibes and make everyone around uncomfortable.

When I reflect on why that is, the ones who draw others in seem to be able to focus on whatever the other person says, pay attention, make eye contact, reply to their last statement and not talk AT the other. The attractive ones who cannot connect are self focused.

[gerry2345]

@jaybirdjtt .. I somewhat agree.. The successful plain person also has a certain charm about there personality, they know how to listen and respond but they also know how to tell stories and use humour.. The self focused attractive people you describe are just dumb..

[dr3ddy]

@gerry2345 All feelings tend to be instananeous and mutual. So if you think yourself to be ugly, people are going to feel that and judge you by it. Change your self image, work on it and find something that gives you a better platform to work from. Right now you are making yourself out to be a victim of your image and there are predators out there always wanting to take advantage of that weak emotion. Imo there are no ugly people, except the very spiritually wicked.

[gerry2345]

@dr3ddy .. Who said I am not happy with my ugliness.. Just the same way an attractive person can use there attractiveness to 'connect' with people, through there belly of all things ... I can use my ugliness to connect with different people,through my mind..so don't worry it's not a problem... What you have to realise is that in this Society Attractivness is very real and Ugliness is very real to....So get real yourself.

[OnceWasRStrathfield]

@gerry2345 not true. i know a few lonely attractive people that go through their lives frustrating others due to their lack of energy and 'groundedness', whilst also knowing MANY less than attractive people who have got friends, are in relationships and are greatly popular. I agree that attractiveness is the key to grabbing somebody's attention, but keeping a person's interest and connection is a different ball game. Lonely-attractive people tend not to be identified as 'lonely' in society.

[gerry2345]

@OnceWasRStrathfield .... I agree that having long term friendships is born out of somthing more than attractiveness..

[777971]

i know that u r talking about, but unfortunally some ppl dont have any idea, keep doing videos....we love U

[ihatechemtrails]

I ground myself by imagining a pillar of light coming from above as well a blue light that encompasses me and rotates clockwise that severs any negative cords that people might have attached to me during my day (those ethic cords can drain your energy), then I imaging the white light going through me down to the center of Earth's core, wrapping around the core, coming back up wrapping around your heart. Then I imaging a figure 8 horizontal above my head going down to my toes grounding horizontal

[therealcraqerjaq]

green screen

[seyjazz11]

I think this video is to much focused on what is going on in "one's own Body". It doesn't consider the state of the other persons body (in which you can never). Anyone can make a connection to someone who is already connected with them, but just try to make a connection to someone who is not connected with them. Again, you are not concidering the other persons state of mind and even if you do, you only have control of youself knowone else. Why would you even try to convince someone of that.

[EyeSeeV]

@seyjazz11 No negativity spread or anything, you are entitled to your opinion, and I am not trying to judge you but you should be 100% sure of the facts of what you're saying before you post you're opinions. Or else you might accidentally show people how little you know of the subject. She is saying that by having control over your emotions, you can subtly control the emotions of those around you. It's its own branch of psychiatric science that can't be explained in a 9min video.