It comes down to a welfare mentality from black women. "Feed me, house me, give me free healthcare, etc." Plus, they have a "fuck you" attitude to life. Ever notice how slowly black women walk at Walmart or when crossing the street? It's like they walk slowly on purpose as a "fuck you" to everyone else. Black women just don't give a fuck about ANYTHING except welfare. And you wonder why no one wants to fuck ya...SMH
The tragic, out of control, soaring obesity rates in the black community with our sistas can be solved overnight beginning with one thing: cutting out this obsession we have with trying to make our hair look like white peoples'. Cut out the weaves and perms, sistas. You're killing yourselves because of it.
I like a woman that is curvy, not fat. A lot of fat women run around saying that they are thick or curvy when in fact they are fat. I like a woman about 5'7 that fits a size 6 to 8 dress size or straight up medium dress size. Dude that go for these fat girls just have limited chooses.
Another reason that black women have this body might perhaps be that they're more sensual and prone to carnal pleasures such as food for example, but I'm not sure about that since I don't know if indeed black women eat more than other races of women. What is your view thereabout?
In the post-war Western Civilization, they try to impose on us the unhealthy skinny model of woman body for commercial reasons and in order to give birth to unhealthy, half, degraded subhumen (as kids born by skinny mothers). But this is the natural and healthy woman body: The thick model that most black women have.
It's not only due to the black men's preference for fleshy women. It's your physique first of all, your construction: You have a more compact muscular system and also a more compact flesh surrounding around it. Not only this is not bad, but this is the healthy thing for women. That's how a fertile woman and a successful mother looks like.
Sister, black women (and men) are FAT (and very chunky) due to lack of restraint from eating and alcohol consumption as well as having a low-to-no exercise mentality. And, like you, they think it looks good until they get around smaller women and see how much better/feminine the smaller women look in their clothes. I love my sisters and feel that they are very beautiful, but this FAT CHUNKY girl mentality is killing them too soon.
Not many fat women care 4 wearing skimping shit.Im sure some of them know it is not made 4dem.however,if they r confident enough&they have a partner that finds it sexy,so be it.Not many ppl survive on just fast foods.It could be the type of food 1is consuming 2 much of.R u saying if I eat Mcdonalds 4 2 days,i'll be fat?Pop/soda & other drinks have a lot of sugar in them as well.It's the appetite that causes ppl to eat more not stress.People need 2 educate themselves more about the subject...
Numerous people, especially men always downgrade black women and the same people will say black women are the most sexiest women in the world. U black men contradict urself big time.
People always want to talk about obesity, they never talk about anorexia, lyk anorexia is better than obesity, like being thin is better than fat and they are both as bad. People always say obesity causes diabetes type 2, heart problems, anorexia causes heart problems, diarrhoea, hyperpigmentation, tooth loss, cavities, hyperkalacemia etc, thus they are both bad.
I don't think it has anything to do with attracting a partner. Fat women are fat and they want to wear undersized skimpy revealing dresses, so obviously they are trying to look sexy. I think it is because of structural inequalities. Blacks living in concentrated urban cities, there's a Mcdonalds, a popeyes, kfc, papa johns, dominoes, burger king on every corner. Stress causes people to eat a lot and when they have unhealthy choices in all directions, that's what they end up consuming.
Lets be serious, black men don't prefer big women. Just because we prefer a nice size ass does not mean FAT!! We brothers like a woman with a phat ass, not a fat body. If black men liked fat women, you could name a rich black man that after he became rich got with a fat black chick. Brothers are with fat chicks because they can do no better. Black women stay fat because there's no incentive to stay thin, white women are just the opposite, they can't get a man if they're fat, ask one.
Obesity is directly related to social class. Lower class blacks are often obese due to a lack of nutritional information and not having time to exercise. However, anyone of any social class or race can be super fat- and due to the crappy processed food it's increasing. There are people who will be chubby no matter what, but no one has to remain severely overweight. Eat food that's actual food, fuck the FDA!
Next some dumb, black, brainwashed, so-called "woman" will log-on and say the KKK was "inspired" by "black female slaves". American women are so far gone its not even funny anymore. And why are black women creating numerous youtube accounts, and/or pretending to be white women. As if that will lull black men into accepting matriarchy? Black women are sambos.
The problem with afrocentric, gynocentrism is it steals everyone else's ideologies, inventions, etc. and applies it to black women. Just like "dumbwithdesire" just tried to do.
@impatientwithdesire: LOL gullible idiot. Gynocentrism/what is now called "Feminism" was around long before "Sojourner Truth" or any other insignificant, copycat black female slave was even thought of. It began in ASIA thousands of years ago. In addition, modern feminism is also connected to the Women's KKK. See WOMEN OF THE KLAN by Kathleen Blee
I think the reason why a lot of people are fat or become one is mainly due to the environment that they are living in. In black families and societies being overweight or fat is considered a little bit ok and due to this people who are fat feel accepted.
there are fat people in all races they just show more fat black women in the media. American Black women actually have more muscle mass and a lower fat ratio than any other group of women. 400 years of breeding like animals the strongest male and smartest female were made to breed and meat wasn't in the diet til recently lead to more red muscle (fast twitch) tissue which is denser and weighs more. just look at the olympics its not even close. Africans aren't even as fast as western blacks
@Nashara23, its genetic becouse Black Americans come from west africa wich is known to be fattest part of africa, not all africans are same, the slimmest part of africa is horn of africa and north africans are in between or medium .. those people in africa are genetically diffrent, its a huge continent with many races.
@keysi07 I am West African, and I am telling you that the women over there are petite. I and my numerous female cousins all have about the same body type. We are 67"-71" and all between 100-120lbs. And we've lived in the US all our lives since our parents came here. That is NOT to say there are no fat women in W Africa. A lot of African men do like a woman with a little weight, but very few like a woman who is overweight to obese and has fat rolls hanging. That is a misconception.
The black man does not copy caucasians he wars with white society. This is why they attack him and jail him. He's against feminized, pc society. The black woman is a house nigger straightening her hair, caking make-up on, mimicking white females, and adopting their views. She's fat because she does not eat right nor does she workout.
Just the other day a fat, ugly black woman complained to me (why I have no idea) that some "dirty boys" were looking at her ugly daughter. Her ugly daughter who is on welfare, with three children, no job, wears a wig, etc.
The black woman is a copycat as well. She actually wants to BE the caucarian woman. She studies her on TV, copies the way the caucasian woman dresses, styles her hair like the caucasian, etc. In addition, the "black woman with an attitue" image is just more proof of how black women adopted caucasian ideology (i.e. Feminism). Matriarchy is Asiatic-European in origin. Which is why it doesn't help blacks as a whole.
@Shehasnomorals The BM is a copycat and wants to be the white man. He copies the way he dresses; he studies him on TV. The BM also wants the Caucasian woman. He does not protect or value his women; he negates his responsibilities; which does not help blacks as a whole. The BW attitude stems from society's hatred for her. She is frustrated which may also cause her to have unhealthy eating practices. But the high fat content foods originated in slavery and black ppl are still mentally enslaved.
Just a theory of mine, but BM don't marry black women (48% of BM never marry at all, higher than BW 45%), studies show BM cheat at a higher % than other races, as you can see with successful BM (rich, educated..) they date non-BW at a very high rate (1 out of 5 BM that do marry, marry non-black). I really think this weight issue plays a huge part in it! If 70% of BW are overweight or obese, that's 70%, you can't tell me that doesn't play even a small part somehow!!! Just a theory I have.
Let's see 70% of our children are born out of wedlock, 1 out of 3 BM will be in trouble with the law by age 29, AIDS is the number one killer among BW ages 25-34, 24% of blacks live below the poverty level, Blacks have 16% unemployment rate (highest), the average income for blacks 25 and older is $32,000 compared to $42K for asians and $40K for whites, in a small study BM/BW admitted to cheating 33%/BW 18% in commited relationship (both the highest) and 40% of BW are obese! DAMN WE GOT ISSUES!
@impatientwithdesire So let me get this straight, you don't know me, but think because I posted statistics that I'm dumb? I got a feeling you are the dumb nigger.
@impatientwithdesire What? You are the one who called me that!!!! You don't know me, don't know anything about me and you called me "A dumb simple nigger" Anyone that reads this can see you are the one with the issue. I have never even said anything to you and you make dumb, crazy statements and then say let's stop using this word, lol! Look at what you wrote! You need help if you get all upset to the point of calling someone names over him posting stats. Stop sending me shit, u sound crazy!
Some races have heavier bones and greater muscle mass to start with. You seem to carry a lot of lean muscle tissue, you don't carry a lot of fat. A woman with smaller bones and less muscle mass weighing the same is fat.
We aren't talking about the "world's fattest woman". We are discussing how the majority of black women are fat. Stop trying to change the issue by focusing on ONE female. Black women are whales.
Many bw are obese because they do not eat properly and exercise on a regular basis. The truth is, anyone can be thin if you simply eat natural foods (i.e. vegetables, fruits, whole grains, and lean meat and/or fish). Eliminating processed foods is the best step towards achieving optimal health.
I'm a size 2 and have never had any weight issues. I exercise regularly, cook healthy organic meals and avoid all processed junk food (i.e. Mcdonalds, burger king, KFC, etc).
well the worlds fattest woman is white...so put that in your pipe and smoke it, haters! but personally i think its about self esteem if you love your self its radiates out and it doesnt matter is you "fat" or not (to some degree). The media's perception of fat does not always reflect unhealthy people
I have heard this said many times (Black Men prefer...etc). The fact of the matter remains that many men like some form of curves, however, the problem isn't "a little extra meat" as you said. It's obesity. Black Men or most males in general do not prefer Obese women (as I am sure women aren't looking for Obese men). Obesity is 30% body fat. That is a minimum of 50 to 60 extra pounds of fat (depending on height). That isn't "a Little extra" or "BW hold their weight differently". Just FYI
@CarvinCole You're right! Yeah, there are exceptions to every rule (and, yes, its true some cats never leave the ghetto mentality no matter how much they come up). But for the most part brothas with any real status, income and options will opt for in-shape females almost every time. NOT two hundred pound-plus obese women. DON'T believe the hype.
Funny how so many brothas claim they "like" or "prefer" these out of shape women. So why is it EVERY TIME you see a brotha come up, whether through a lucrative sports contract or record deal etc, they pick the SAME 5' 6" 135 lb. females everybody else wants?
Its all bullshit.
Self esteem, status, environment etc. causes folks to make the choices they do. When their situations improve, so do their options.
Messin with obese chicks is not a black thing. Its a ghetto/broke/low self esteem thing.
@CarvinCole You're talking about your LIMITED information based on what the Media pumps into your eyeballs. I have BEEN to Award show, and in Hollywood VIP parties, and I have seen these men who have "Come Up" with some bodacious Curvacious Tigresses! I've seen some thighs & booties which seem like Feats of the Almighty!
Men like what men like... and Blk men for some reason seem to LOVE BIG BUTTS. I don't know why.
@TonyaTko Peep this vid, decrying the dating and choosing habits of brothas, once they “come up.” Obviously, the focus is on skin tone here, but let’s count how many fat women we see too. Now, keep in mind, many of these couples have been together for years, even decades. There’s no argument: at the CHOOSING point, dudes are NOT checking for the obese women they claim to “like” when they're broke.
@TonyaTko There is a THICK line between being Curvy and being Precious. Problem is, the black women who are out of control weight-wise want to move the bar so they fit into the Curvy Category. That's where the problems come up. You have too many Fat Black Women calling themselves Curvy and Thick. No, you're fat. If you like the way you are, and don't want to change, that's fine. However, stop trying to Jedi Mind Trick Men into viewing you as Curvy and Thick, because it ain't workin!!!
@TonyaTko Hey Tonya, i think CARVIN COLE is 100% correct and you are KINDa correct as well.. Im a professional athlete in the Atlanta area and i attend the parties/VIP's etc you mentioned as well.. and yes BLK MEN love big butts but the BIG BUTTS BETTER BE CONNECTED TO A THIN BODY OR A VERY SMALL WAIST. A good example of this would be MELISSA FORD, SERENA or TAHIRY. Those girls have BUBBLE BUTTS but small waist lines and THAT is what us MEN prefer.
@CarvinCole WOW... you went to CHURCH on that comment!!! i had to give you PROPS on that one! Preferring THICK or fat women is not a black thing, its a broke/no other options thing. when RUBBER HITS THE ROAD almost all men with go for the thin in shape woman, or no bigger than BEYONCE for example.
ok.....Im trying to understand your topic....I guess I get upset at these topics and images I see. Idk....your asking "why are black woman so damn fat?' But your the same complexion as my father. I carry my weight in my midsection. I gain weight when I am stressed. Lack of exercise as well. The food, even when you buy food from the grocery store, the Preservatives and hormones affect my hormones creating changes in my body. High fructose syrup is my enemy too. Those are the reason for THIS BW.
1. The thing is black women don't care how big they are. WHY??? Simple they hang on to this somewhat fact but not all truth. That black men love fat ass girls. Me myself i love a bit of fat on a girl but. DON'T!!! go overboard with it 2. Their's no good black men. So they don't Work out and take care of themselves???? What a weak ass cop out. Get on a bike take a walk play a sport for fun and. Stop thinking. that the more you eat the bigger yo booty go'n get and that's all you need to get by.
blk women in America are fucked..noone wante you tomarry,your just jump-offs that lay on ya back with a homo-thug. I will say to all good brothas out there..go to africa or brazxil and get a Real sista!!!fuck blk strong american so called women..
I hate to hear people say that black people are meant to be bigger than other races. Okay I understand that races have different physical characteristics but being overweight is not the same thing. Also, I've looked through my parents' yearbook, I could count on two hands the fat people in that book. It's just recently people have started to stretch what thick means. Thick used to mean having an hourglass shape, or having a butt and some hips. Now people stretch it to include obese.
A lot of the problem is plain denial. We refuse to be honest about this very damaging issue. Whenever I hear someone say, "we're not the ONLY fat people..." I know that person's in serious denial.
First, we don't need to be the ONLY fat people to address this serious issue. Secondly, you can't possibly be dumb enough to not see that black women are the most obese group in society (and 46% of our children are now obese). If that alone is not enough to address this issue, I don't know what is.
@KendraDink Black people don't listen! If you try to tell them something you are branded as a "hater". They squeeze the juice out of that word. SMH. So no one takes the time to consider and reason with the message.
@KendraDink Okay. Use common sense here. America is OVERWEIGHT. It is a FACT that most people in America are overweight or obese. Whites make up OVER 70 percent of the US population. Therefore, are more overweight whites, especially white women than any other race. There are more white women in the US than black women. There are also MORE white women then white men. There are more white women than black men. DO the math, use some intelligence, logic, and common sense.
@KendraDink I absolutely agree. I hate when people do that. Just because there are other fat people, does that make it ok for you to be fat? If a rapist was to tell the jury " I'm not the ONLY rapist in the world!" You bet his ass is still gonna go to jail. Not being the only one does not make a legit confirm argument at all. It's just ignorant. It's something a child would say.
@Twwistad PPl dont get fat cuz everyone is fat.that itself is stupid.ppl get fat 4 varies reasons such ass stress(trying to take care of a household w/ not alot of income),quit smoking,health issues,eating the wrong foods or too much,not exercising,etc.Just because you&tim are fat does not mean you got fat cuz of Tim.However,I hate wen others blame one race of ppl wen other races do the same.Why is Blacks mostly targeted.PPl need to mind their business and focus on themselves.
Being too fat and being too skinny are both bad. I live in Continental Europe and instead of buying a big mac, people would go get a salad at a salad shop and drink fizzy water instead of Cola. U can lose weight by changing your eating habits, it's a gradual process, but the benefits will last u a lifetime.
you must mean why are black women living in a pink/white regime so damn fat..just like those fat pink women they fallow after. black people in a pink pewople regime tend to suffer from pink/white people mental an physical illnesses
And yes, I do believe black women are the fattest in America. Well....no...I know they are. But that's besides the point, America's big in general. It's amazing to see how disciplined countries like Japan are and how healthy they eat compared to us. They don't like dying that's why! I'm a 21 year old black man, and I'm trying to cut back early on the fattening food (and I weigh 150 lbs). I don't need to, my blood pressure's perfect, but it's smart for the future.
After hanging out with some overweight black women, I HAVE THE ANSWER!!! They have TOO MANY barbeques! They always cook and invite their friends over for food and cookouts. Nobody's watching their weight, they're watching that last piece of pizza! They don't have good influences, they all eat, but some are better at keeping the weight off, but if they gain it, THEY DON'T MIND because it's TOO NORMAL in their community. Plenty of them buckle down and exercise, but there are too many enablers.
Black women are more likely to be overweight/obese than other races, though it's a problem that is prevalent amongst all races. The reasons are a combination of culture, socio-economic class, and genetics. Africans in general have a slightly slower metabolism due to their original climate. Africans have a slower metabolism because the body evolved to conserve energy and shed body heat in the intense African heat. In contrast, Caucasians and Asians evolved a faster metabolism to keep the body
warmth in the cooler climates. So the metabolism sped up to adapt to these climates. The cultural and socio-economic factors are out of my area of expertise though I've heard some cultural anthropologists comment on them.
I think the comment about there not being enough available black men is probably a bit unfair. There are plenty of good black men out there. And if some black women feel that way, they have the option of dating outside of racial boundaries as well. I'm a
White man who has dated several black women and I"m currently engaged to a beautiful black woman who happens to be the love of my life. Nobody should limit their possibilities/options.
And you are correct in that black women do carry their weight different...but all races carry their fat in different ways. Black women have more muscle in the thighs and butt, and muscle weighs more than fat. Black women carry more weight around the hips, ass, and thighs due to genetics as well.
Carrying weight around the butt and hips allows heat to escape through the midsection due to the warmer climates of Africa. Where as caucasians are more likely to retain fat in the midsection to preserve heat.
Anyway, it doesn't matter how different races of women carry their fat. They are all beautiful. I find African women to be beautiful, and the woman who posted this video says she weighs 185, but she's solid. Very beautiful. Black women have nothing to be ashamed of.
curves does not mean to have roles. you should be fit and healthy. i have three children and am way smaller than friends of mine who have no children. yet i still have my booty, muscular legs, flat stomach, no boobs lol...and my husband loves that i work out everyday and train others to get in better shape. take care of yourselves ladies. and to TONYATKO your skin is beautiful!
How can the girl hosting the video not think she's fat? Look at her droopy arms. Just imagine what they'll turn into once she gets in the comfort/safety of a marriage.
Educated, aware, and good hardworking black men do not want a fat black woman. We do, however, like black women. Trust sister, no man wants a FAT woman (more than size 8), but they will screw her. That's why these fat sisters believe they are ok being fat, even those the same man who will screw her won't EVER, EVER marry her.
as a mixed race person (over 40yrs), i love my nubian sista but i dont get where they're coming from. i love my curvacious black woman but what i get is fat and cellulite.. ignorant minds would eat themselves into early grave. picture this, everytime i pass thru fastfood joints, i always see a black women about 22stones stuffing her face. its not society but the black refusing to understand the basics of nutrition
for me my mom cooked a lot jamaican food for her men and i hate jamaican food so i would save my little bit of money and bought fast food so i won't eat hers.
I think it has alot to do with heritage. This thing that when you were growing up, everything was around food, and eating really well, and gaining weight because 'if I can see ya ribs, you aint cute.' I think it also goes back to our African roots as well. In some parts of Africa skinny is not pretty. Skinny is not attractive. Black men are attracted to voluptuous curves. I feel like it has to do with attracting a mate, and the lost traditions that has been engraved in to our DNA. Fat is good.
...to host a lot more muscle than the white--or any other race's--variations. Here in the modern world, where we don't need to involve ourselves in as much activity nor play host to as much muscle, the empty space fills with another substance: fat.
It's the same with black guys usually able to build their bodies MUCH more than white guys. The biggest white guy is nothing in comparison to the biggest black guy. Again: your bodies are made to play host to A LOT of muscle.
It's because your bodies haven't evolved as much as white peoples' have. White people have lived in what we "DEEM" civilized society longer than black people have (which I must disagree with, as I feel the community-based feeling from having a purpose and a place in a tribe is much more civilized than those that sit on thrones and make others do all the work).
Long story short, your bodies are made to be constantly active, as they've not evolved into modern day laziness. They're also built...
Wow! Black folks love to fool themselves. Its not about being the ONLY fat people. Nobody said that.
Its about being the fattest group in America. The statistics don't lie. Know what else doesn't lie? Your eyes. Look around. If you can be honest you'll see that 8 out of every 10 black women you are at least overweight, if not obese.
Black children are being stricken with what were previously adult-only diseases, all relating to obesity. So keep fooling yourselves if it makes you feel better.
@SlikRicc1 Bullshit "stats" do lie. The MAJORITY of the US is overweight. Whites make up the majority!! I've seen MORE overweight white girls then black girls and thats the truth! Your argument is the same argument racist people use when discussing bogus FBI "stats". More whites commit crimes but a disproportionate amount of blacks are represented in comparison to their population numbers. You need to stop scapegoating blacks for a problem that the entire (white race) US has.
People are obese because a) not enough exercise b) eat food that is fattening/too greasy c) don't adapt the diet to suit climate. In a hotter climate, people tend to sweat and work off the excess calories a lot quicker than colder climate.
Smaller statured ladies need to watch food intake as it is easier to gain weight.
Yes, there are obese people in all races actually. Americans tend to eat huge portions of food and do not get enough active exercise.
fianancail , economical ..black women taking care oof business , no breaks , or vacations , most of them , you know the answer , when you have money, no stressfull situation like we go through and have , the time all day or through out the day to studied beauty , fitness, and exercise LIKE WHITE WOMEN
black women are no fatter than white women on average blacks weigh more than whites across the board not due to being fat . black women weigh more but have a lesser percentage of fat than their white counterparts the oppposite is true for whites . density of bones , muscle ,tendons , account for your weight not just concentration of fat the bmi is not a true accurate indicator of health for black women
I wish to express something that some people might not think about. Even Chris Rock talks about FAT BW. He said in one of his routines that they aren't ashamed to go out in public because they are fat. They wear things that most obese people wouldn't dare wear in public. I think BW in general are more bold about being seen as sexy in public. When you see a fat woman doing the same things it surprises people.
OK, this is aimed at no one here in particular, more towards celebrity role models. Please, someone tell all these women (especially BW) what the real meaning of the word Diva is. Diva is NOT necessarily a FAT LADY at the opera, despite the old sayings. I don't care if you think that you can sing your butt off (pun intended), do not kill yourself by getting huge and using the words, "I'm a Diva!" as an excuse. E.G. Amber Riley .
I love how black women are spoken about as if we are some strange alien, different from all other race of women. Like any other group, there is no one reason for why some black women are over weight. There are many and it can range from emotional over eating as a result of depression, to thyroid conditions to lack of "access" to healthier foods. And yes, like any other human being, black women too can succumb to over eating.
@Ebonyhime2 Well, let's see. Could diet be a problem? I am going to risk being called a stereotyper here, but I dated a lot of BW and I see a pattern. Not just the women, the men, also like certain types of food. Let me ask you BW, are you constantly BEING OFFERED barbecue, fried chicken wings, and parts of a pig that most people don't want to know about? Lots of cornbread, potatoes with gravy, etc. ?????? I eat that stuff too, at times but a steady diet of those things would kill anyone.
@Ebonyhime2 My point is coming from being a white man who LOVES black women. I don't want any of you to die early because of bad diet and eating habits. It has already been proven that African Americans have the highest rate of heart attacks and hypertension. I was dating a woman who wouldn't think about stopping smoking or stopping eating greasy, salty French Fries while still in the hospital during her recovery from her third bypass surgery. And, big black women are culturally more accepted.
Tonya, I wish I would have seen this question years ago. I have an answer. There are a lot of things that are bad for you that are advertised towards minorities. Tobacco, alcohol, and all the most fattening foods. Look at the commercials. Do you think the guy who invented hamburger helper eats that stuff everyday? The owners of Seagrams and Phillip Morris barely use alcohol and don't use tobacco themselves, they just get rich killing others who believe their advertising.
@azmildman If they were targeting minorities, then they would have minorities in almost every ad. They target anybody who can be influenced into buying their products. It's an individuals own personal responsibility to take care of their own health, not the media or society. People who actually let society affect them that strongly are too weak to do anything for themselves, even if it is for the better. Commercial ads is not a good excuse to why anybody is overweight.
I don't spend money on expensive foods. Instead, I go to the local market, buy loads of vegetables and fresh meat and make fresh, healthy tasty food. The black people seem to have different traditional meals, which include a lot of carbs, yam, fried plantin, white rice..because cooking tasty food is a big part of thier culture. When I have been to the gym, I notice that most off the black people there are concentrating on weights, so they don't burn it off.
you seem like a very honest, self respecting woman. If I was in your position, i would never have the guts to go on the internet and rant about me being fat. I give you props for that, and you seem well on your way to losing the weight that you want to lose. Just keep it up. You, in a way, are a great role model for women and you are amazing in many ways. Keep it up.
@justified1975 I am a white man who prefers black women and I like a woman a little thicker. But there is a limit to that, health wise, also. A nice round butt and good breasts are nice but not necessary. I think black women hold their age better, their bodies, even when larger, are more shapely, and their hair is nice. I think BW are even sexy when bald, e.g. Erykah Badu.
Its sad that, seemingly, the only group in America who doesn't understand the correlation between being overweight and dire health consequences is black America. WhenI hear a brotha proclaiming he "like 'em thick" or I hear a sista recounting tired ass excuses for not working out, I have to shake my head. Our children are in the worst shape in our history. For the first time they are on track for having a shorter life expentancy than their parents due to obesity. And we STILL DON'T GET IT.
@emergencyexit16 lol so true on the last part i have been to africa (mom was botn there i have family there) and i didn't see ONE fat black woman. (the country i went to was Nigeria, Lagos) and anyway, there a lot of people in many races who r fat...... :3
Some of you guys are idiots that don't know how to listen. Not once did she say anything about black women being the only fat girls out there. She KNOWS that there are fat women of every race, but she's not worried about every other race right now, she's asking about BLACK women. And this is obviously a legitimate observation if women of any other particular race aren't asking this questions. When the topic is brought outside of blacks, it turns into "Americans", not any other particular race.
@Baikou African Americans have a higher rate of heart attack and hypertension than any other for several reasons. At one time black Americans were bred like cattle for work. Today the lack of physical labor means that most black people should exercise more and most of them don't do it like they should. Also, black women are more accepted when getting fatter. No one says anything when her butt gets bigger than her chair because they don't realize it is a health problem.
@azmildman I'm not trying to say that is wrong, but I personally never believed race affects a person's health. I believe they can be hereditary, but I believe a person's personal diet and overall health affects their chances of heart condition or high blood pressure. Like, high blood pressure runs in my dad's side of the family. He got it when he was 21, and my sister got it at 25. I'm 24 with the worst diet ever, and still don't have it. AND I'm not nearly overweight.
@Baikou WebMD states: Some scientists believe that high blood pressure in African-Americans is due to factors unique to the experience of blacks in the U.S. Blacks worldwide have rates of high blood pressure that are similar to whites. In the U.S., however, the difference is dramatic: 41% of blacks have high blood pressure, as compared to 27% of whites. In addition, black people in the U.S are more likely to be overweight than blacks in other countries.
@azmildman That just says that more blacks in America actually have high blood pressure more than whites do, not that blacks are more at risk of it. And the fact that the percentage is SIMILAR to whites in other countries just proves how spoiled America is when it comes to food. More whites prolly just have a better diet than most blacks. And since only SOME scientists only BELIEVE that, it means that it hasn't be fully scientifically proven yet. It's just simply what they believe.
@Baikou So, if only Richard Pryor and a few other people catch themselves on fire smoking crack, it is still OK in your eyes, right? Because only a few did it? ONLY A FEW SCIENTISTS DID THE RESEARCH. The operative word here is RESEARCH. The surgeon general's staff are only a few, does that mean that it would be OK for me to start smoking and ignoring their warning labels on each package?
@azmildman Actually, if you think you can smoke crack without catching yourself on fire, then have it. Besides, you can't compare stats with logic. Logic and be proved wrong, stats can't. However, stats is what can prove logic wrong. What you put before only said that more blacks in AMERICA ACTUALLY HAVE high blood pressure. It did not say that blacks are at higher risk. Scientist used to believe the Earth was flat and was the center of the universe, but were either of those true? No.
Why are people so focused on our weight. Its like they are blind of other races who are in wheel chairs and huge as what! But see us...oh theres another blk fat women when I see all races, faiths, genders ect who are fat.
@BrownAugust1987 Way to convolute the discussion with bullshit dude. Black woman have a 55 percent higher prevalence of obesity compared to white women. This number is even higher when compared to Asians. While Asians have a higher rates of the type of fat which protects from certain infections and help insulate against the cold, Black woman have higher percentage of triglycerides fatty acids.
Pointing out that fat woman exist in other races simply distracts from the discussion.
@BrownAugust1987 yes I agree. Even though there are more overweight white girls then black girls, self-hating racists and self-hating black people, single out the black woman who happens to be overweight and rides on that. Its like they choose to only see what they want to see and base all of their ignorance(usually learned from media and other outlets) on that.
If u looked around u would notice that there are fat women in every race. I been all around the country I see just as many overweight women in the white and hispanic race, and other races. I dont feed into everything the media feeds me because its bullshit most of the time and propaganda. To keep other races down. Dont worry about black women being over weight just worry about your own health and weight.
@CaramelLipz23 You are correct. There are some problems with the traditional foods that are accepted, also. When poor people could only afford some types of food, dating back to the times when slavery was legal, black people ate what ever was available. They ate parts of animals that other people wouldn't touch. (Chitlins) Also, black women specifically can look good when a bit overweight, so excess weight on black women is more socially acceptable.
Because there are no fat white, asian, Filipina, hispanic,etc women, right? Good job joining the shallow, vapid masses with this vile dose of self hate. Silly twat. Just get in some fucking white face already and start calling people who look like you "welfare queens" and the like. But be careful...if you try any harder, you might strain something.
Eating to much process food, not excerising enough or depression, stress; I'm fifty and now I finally have a belly; When I was in my twenties,thirties,forties my metabolism burned alot faster, Then I stopped working out, my metabolism slowed down. I'm five feet and about 120 lbs with a belly now, also had problem with my thyroid, fibroids which impact alot of black women;
Eating to much process food, not excerising enough or depression, stress; I'm fifty and now I finally have a belly; When I was in my twenties,thirties,forties my metabolism burned alot faster, Then I stopped working out, my metabolism slowed down.
White women have access to Adderall and Dexedrine, prescription stimulants that treat ADD, a condition blacks are rarely diagnosed with because mental health is so stigmatized among black people. These white women are being overly credited with "better habits and judgment" when they're actually cheating. those drugs are on the black market and white women pop them like tic tacs--zero appetite=size zero. Black men, you got bamboozled...yet again... and again...and again...and again...
When I was growing up there was always1 fat girl in every group. now every group is full of fatties. I'm observing that close to 100% of the black women in west Los Angeles are fat, not curvy. I've alway been very well proportioned but I had two kids, one at 30 and one at 33 years and went to170lbs. I just couldn't lose. I found out I had a sluggish thyroid, treated it, lost the lbs. Check your thyroids sisters. We're being regarded as trash. do whatever you can to lose that shit. seriously.
one reason is many black women have to much pride to change, most black people have too much pride to change, because to them changing something you do means you were wrong about something.
BTW you are so beautiful do beautiful black women. ck my blog blackpeopletimetowakeup.blogspot.com/
what? That's nonsense Its not a preference I dam sure dont prefer my black women obese/fat...no one WANTS to be fat..its just unhealthy living and the lack good foof in lo income black communities and lack of prioritizing health.. And women dont...or should not uphold...their appearance for a man...that's not healthy.
Black men do NOT like fat. My husband and I are both black and I am a very slim woman. He and every black man I've ever known what curvacious, not fat. There is a BIG difference! Too much fat (obesity) can actually hide curves and all you see is a human lump. Men want their women fit and healthy and the obesity problem among black women (80% are overweight) could be directly related to black women (42%) never being married. Americans in general have an overconsumption problem. SMH
@aurianaserena "Too much fat (obesity) can actually hide curves and all you see is a human lump."
Perfectly stated, sista! Couldn't have put that any better myself. I'm a black man and I couldn't have any less interest in these overweight females black dudes stereotypically "prefer." I'll pass.
Give me a slim, toned, in shape female any day. I've seen enough flab and cellulite to last for the rest of my life. They can keep it!
@theherdmentality One step is to stop the excuses. That's for sure. I eat organic and completely fresh. Mainly raw. My friends always say "That's expensive." So too many excuses first and foremost.
@iroc31407 in other countries, it's the veggies that are cheap and the processed foods that are expensive (because they mostly have to be imported)....I'd be happy if foodstamps and other free food programs covered ONLY the healthiest foods, and THEN there would really be no excuses. Also, we gotta change the culture from thinking that "big is beautiful" ...it's a cover-up for laziness and self-hate...i've also talked to BW who go for months without drinking any water!
@theherdmentality you should visit hebrewbaby page. the family has six kids and the parents made a conscious decision to buy whole foods and not eat processed things. they even know how to make their own milk and toothpaste. they do their own dentistry, and she even births her own babies. and they are black. i used to scream that other foods were cheaper too but then i thought about how i could take money i use for trivial things and invest in myself.
@iroc31407 yes, this is a HUGE shift that has to happen with every black person.....I see it as a shift to long-term thinking versus the short-term, instant gratification thinking that is so prevalent and celebrated as part of black culture.....get what you want, worry about consequences later....a mentality that is killing black people.....
@theherdmentality Exactly. It's a mentality shift and overhaul that has to take place. People need to realize that you would be wealthy if you didn't have preventable diseases to maintain. My friends who are overweight diabetics are always claiming my food and way of life is too expensive to them. So which one is cheaper, a healthy lifestyle or medical expesnses to maintain your illness? If you can pay for drugs you can buy better food. Sick people are very rich because it cost money to be sick.
It comes down to a welfare mentality from black women. "Feed me, house me, give me free healthcare, etc." Plus, they have a "fuck you" attitude to life. Ever notice how slowly black women walk at Walmart or when crossing the street? It's like they walk slowly on purpose as a "fuck you" to everyone else. Black women just don't give a fuck about ANYTHING except welfare. And you wonder why no one wants to fuck ya...SMH
austinguy23 1 month ago
The tragic, out of control, soaring obesity rates in the black community with our sistas can be solved overnight beginning with one thing: cutting out this obsession we have with trying to make our hair look like white peoples'. Cut out the weaves and perms, sistas. You're killing yourselves because of it.
CarvinCole 1 month ago
I like a woman that is curvy, not fat. A lot of fat women run around saying that they are thick or curvy when in fact they are fat. I like a woman about 5'7 that fits a size 6 to 8 dress size or straight up medium dress size. Dude that go for these fat girls just have limited chooses.
datingwomensex 1 month ago
Another reason that black women have this body might perhaps be that they're more sensual and prone to carnal pleasures such as food for example, but I'm not sure about that since I don't know if indeed black women eat more than other races of women. What is your view thereabout?
InfraaVerdaggens 1 month ago
In the post-war Western Civilization, they try to impose on us the unhealthy skinny model of woman body for commercial reasons and in order to give birth to unhealthy, half, degraded subhumen (as kids born by skinny mothers). But this is the natural and healthy woman body: The thick model that most black women have.
InfraaVerdaggens 1 month ago
It's not only due to the black men's preference for fleshy women. It's your physique first of all, your construction: You have a more compact muscular system and also a more compact flesh surrounding around it. Not only this is not bad, but this is the healthy thing for women. That's how a fertile woman and a successful mother looks like.
InfraaVerdaggens 1 month ago
I came before the vid was over
InfraaVerdaggens 1 month ago
blk men are to blame for blk women not puttin' the fork down & hittin the gym? right.....enjoy your flab...
Natsukashii3 1 month ago
Sister, black women (and men) are FAT (and very chunky) due to lack of restraint from eating and alcohol consumption as well as having a low-to-no exercise mentality. And, like you, they think it looks good until they get around smaller women and see how much better/feminine the smaller women look in their clothes. I love my sisters and feel that they are very beautiful, but this FAT CHUNKY girl mentality is killing them too soon.
Nupeteam 1 month ago
@Nupeteam I agree
Natsukashii3 1 month ago
Not many fat women care 4 wearing skimping shit.Im sure some of them know it is not made 4dem.however,if they r confident enough&they have a partner that finds it sexy,so be it.Not many ppl survive on just fast foods.It could be the type of food 1is consuming 2 much of.R u saying if I eat Mcdonalds 4 2 days,i'll be fat?Pop/soda & other drinks have a lot of sugar in them as well.It's the appetite that causes ppl to eat more not stress.People need 2 educate themselves more about the subject...
neanealuvmuzik 2 months ago
Numerous people, especially men always downgrade black women and the same people will say black women are the most sexiest women in the world. U black men contradict urself big time.
njokocha 2 months ago
People always want to talk about obesity, they never talk about anorexia, lyk anorexia is better than obesity, like being thin is better than fat and they are both as bad. People always say obesity causes diabetes type 2, heart problems, anorexia causes heart problems, diarrhoea, hyperpigmentation, tooth loss, cavities, hyperkalacemia etc, thus they are both bad.
njokocha 2 months ago
I live in a part of London with a high black population, and when I go to the gym, I see mainly white women there. Go figure.
It seems like many black sisters don't like to exercise.
You hardly see black sisters jogging and riding bicycles on the streets.
lagosbay 2 months ago
@lagosbay I run all the time. And what about the black women in sports like track?
dearestjen 1 month ago
We like padding in the right places, not rolls swinging from your necks, guts and backs.
TaharkahX 2 months ago
OMG I would have a heart attack if I saw that woman @ 3:48 sitting on my car like that.
MPedroful 3 months ago
I don't think it has anything to do with attracting a partner. Fat women are fat and they want to wear undersized skimpy revealing dresses, so obviously they are trying to look sexy. I think it is because of structural inequalities. Blacks living in concentrated urban cities, there's a Mcdonalds, a popeyes, kfc, papa johns, dominoes, burger king on every corner. Stress causes people to eat a lot and when they have unhealthy choices in all directions, that's what they end up consuming.
Twwistad 3 months ago
Lets be serious, black men don't prefer big women. Just because we prefer a nice size ass does not mean FAT!! We brothers like a woman with a phat ass, not a fat body. If black men liked fat women, you could name a rich black man that after he became rich got with a fat black chick. Brothers are with fat chicks because they can do no better. Black women stay fat because there's no incentive to stay thin, white women are just the opposite, they can't get a man if they're fat, ask one.
68JUSTAMAN 3 months ago
where is ur hair????????????
WISE2BE 3 months ago
i mean if they ok been fatthat all matter is not no one problem is she ok with it that it if other think we fat then they need ot walk away
cecinia23 3 months ago
Obesity is directly related to social class. Lower class blacks are often obese due to a lack of nutritional information and not having time to exercise. However, anyone of any social class or race can be super fat- and due to the crappy processed food it's increasing. There are people who will be chubby no matter what, but no one has to remain severely overweight. Eat food that's actual food, fuck the FDA!
ubiquitousfacts 4 months ago
BECAUSE THEY"RE IGNORANT THAT"S WHY THEY SOO DAMNED...
theright1allthetime 4 months ago
Im African-European (Germany) and I was so shocked when I was in America and saw that every third black women is fat I thought Its just a rumor
CCareTTaker 4 months ago
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Wow, so I was watching videos about underprivelaged women who have to work in sweatshops, and now an american women who IS THE SWEATSHOP!!!
Anyway plz stop wearing sweatpants american women god damn that is nasty
SUpersaiyajinjerkbag 4 months ago
Next some dumb, black, brainwashed, so-called "woman" will log-on and say the KKK was "inspired" by "black female slaves". American women are so far gone its not even funny anymore. And why are black women creating numerous youtube accounts, and/or pretending to be white women. As if that will lull black men into accepting matriarchy? Black women are sambos.
Shehasnomorals 4 months ago
The problem with afrocentric, gynocentrism is it steals everyone else's ideologies, inventions, etc. and applies it to black women. Just like "dumbwithdesire" just tried to do.
Shehasnomorals 4 months ago
@impatientwithdesire: LOL gullible idiot. Gynocentrism/what is now called "Feminism" was around long before "Sojourner Truth" or any other insignificant, copycat black female slave was even thought of. It began in ASIA thousands of years ago. In addition, modern feminism is also connected to the Women's KKK. See WOMEN OF THE KLAN by Kathleen Blee
Shehasnomorals 4 months ago
arent most americans fat?
Why breaking it down by race?
Is that gonna make anyone thinner?
impatientwithdesire 4 months ago
HAHAHA still laughing at the title of this vid, when I find out I will tell you.
theright1allthetime 4 months ago
I think the reason why a lot of people are fat or become one is mainly due to the environment that they are living in. In black families and societies being overweight or fat is considered a little bit ok and due to this people who are fat feel accepted.
idilali 4 months ago
there are fat people in all races they just show more fat black women in the media. American Black women actually have more muscle mass and a lower fat ratio than any other group of women. 400 years of breeding like animals the strongest male and smartest female were made to breed and meat wasn't in the diet til recently lead to more red muscle (fast twitch) tissue which is denser and weighs more. just look at the olympics its not even close. Africans aren't even as fast as western blacks
billlbixby 4 months ago
@Nashara23, its genetic becouse Black Americans come from west africa wich is known to be fattest part of africa, not all africans are same, the slimmest part of africa is horn of africa and north africans are in between or medium .. those people in africa are genetically diffrent, its a huge continent with many races.
keysi07 4 months ago
@keysi07 I am West African, and I am telling you that the women over there are petite. I and my numerous female cousins all have about the same body type. We are 67"-71" and all between 100-120lbs. And we've lived in the US all our lives since our parents came here. That is NOT to say there are no fat women in W Africa. A lot of African men do like a woman with a little weight, but very few like a woman who is overweight to obese and has fat rolls hanging. That is a misconception.
Nashara23 4 months ago
It's not genetics. Go to Africa. The women there are petite and look nice. It is all food and lifestyle.
Nashara23 4 months ago
The black man does not copy caucasians he wars with white society. This is why they attack him and jail him. He's against feminized, pc society. The black woman is a house nigger straightening her hair, caking make-up on, mimicking white females, and adopting their views. She's fat because she does not eat right nor does she workout.
Shehasnomorals 5 months ago
Does anyone really know the reason why we always seek out white people when we come up?? Is it that they are all we meet up there??
jackmanslightpepper 5 months ago
Just the other day a fat, ugly black woman complained to me (why I have no idea) that some "dirty boys" were looking at her ugly daughter. Her ugly daughter who is on welfare, with three children, no job, wears a wig, etc.
Shehasnomorals 5 months ago
The black woman is a copycat as well. She actually wants to BE the caucarian woman. She studies her on TV, copies the way the caucasian woman dresses, styles her hair like the caucasian, etc. In addition, the "black woman with an attitue" image is just more proof of how black women adopted caucasian ideology (i.e. Feminism). Matriarchy is Asiatic-European in origin. Which is why it doesn't help blacks as a whole.
Shehasnomorals 5 months ago
@Shehasnomorals The BM is a copycat and wants to be the white man. He copies the way he dresses; he studies him on TV. The BM also wants the Caucasian woman. He does not protect or value his women; he negates his responsibilities; which does not help blacks as a whole. The BW attitude stems from society's hatred for her. She is frustrated which may also cause her to have unhealthy eating practices. But the high fat content foods originated in slavery and black ppl are still mentally enslaved.
mn7158 5 months ago
@Shehasnomorals Feminism was inspired by black female slaves like Sojourner Truth
Go take a seat
impatientwithdesire 4 months ago
Just a theory of mine, but BM don't marry black women (48% of BM never marry at all, higher than BW 45%), studies show BM cheat at a higher % than other races, as you can see with successful BM (rich, educated..) they date non-BW at a very high rate (1 out of 5 BM that do marry, marry non-black). I really think this weight issue plays a huge part in it! If 70% of BW are overweight or obese, that's 70%, you can't tell me that doesn't play even a small part somehow!!! Just a theory I have.
lamareaton 5 months ago
Let's see 70% of our children are born out of wedlock, 1 out of 3 BM will be in trouble with the law by age 29, AIDS is the number one killer among BW ages 25-34, 24% of blacks live below the poverty level, Blacks have 16% unemployment rate (highest), the average income for blacks 25 and older is $32,000 compared to $42K for asians and $40K for whites, in a small study BM/BW admitted to cheating 33%/BW 18% in commited relationship (both the highest) and 40% of BW are obese! DAMN WE GOT ISSUES!
lamareaton 5 months ago
@lamareaton And if you believe all of them then yea...YOU GOT ISSUES.
Stop being a dumb simple nigger.
Question shit
impatientwithdesire 4 months ago
@impatientwithdesire So let me get this straight, you don't know me, but think because I posted statistics that I'm dumb? I got a feeling you are the dumb nigger.
lamareaton 4 months ago
@lamareaton
I was telling you to USE your mind.
The fact that you took offense to that, proved my point.
Ps lets stop using the word nigger as if white man is still massa. its embarrassing
impatientwithdesire 4 months ago
@impatientwithdesire What? You are the one who called me that!!!! You don't know me, don't know anything about me and you called me "A dumb simple nigger" Anyone that reads this can see you are the one with the issue. I have never even said anything to you and you make dumb, crazy statements and then say let's stop using this word, lol! Look at what you wrote! You need help if you get all upset to the point of calling someone names over him posting stats. Stop sending me shit, u sound crazy!
lamareaton 4 months ago
@lamareaton thats why i said WE! you illiterate fuck
Ugh. I dont know why I expect much from people who have nothing better to do.
impatientwithdesire 4 months ago
Some races have heavier bones and greater muscle mass to start with. You seem to carry a lot of lean muscle tissue, you don't carry a lot of fat. A woman with smaller bones and less muscle mass weighing the same is fat.
SanamLovesEssie60 5 months ago
We aren't talking about the "world's fattest woman". We are discussing how the majority of black women are fat. Stop trying to change the issue by focusing on ONE female. Black women are whales.
Shehasnomorals 5 months ago
@Shehasnomorals lol
lamareaton 5 months ago
Many bw are obese because they do not eat properly and exercise on a regular basis. The truth is, anyone can be thin if you simply eat natural foods (i.e. vegetables, fruits, whole grains, and lean meat and/or fish). Eliminating processed foods is the best step towards achieving optimal health.
I'm a size 2 and have never had any weight issues. I exercise regularly, cook healthy organic meals and avoid all processed junk food (i.e. Mcdonalds, burger king, KFC, etc).
Mary2020VA 5 months ago
well the worlds fattest woman is white...so put that in your pipe and smoke it, haters! but personally i think its about self esteem if you love your self its radiates out and it doesnt matter is you "fat" or not (to some degree). The media's perception of fat does not always reflect unhealthy people
hmm101alot 5 months ago
I have heard this said many times (Black Men prefer...etc). The fact of the matter remains that many men like some form of curves, however, the problem isn't "a little extra meat" as you said. It's obesity. Black Men or most males in general do not prefer Obese women (as I am sure women aren't looking for Obese men). Obesity is 30% body fat. That is a minimum of 50 to 60 extra pounds of fat (depending on height). That isn't "a Little extra" or "BW hold their weight differently". Just FYI
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago
@TonyaTko, well I could not find my previous comment, but ok, BIB, BIG FAT is not beautiuful, I will agree. But I hate skinny, skinny, skinny too.
I love my woman with big hips, big bootie, big round thighs.mmmmmm.
I have been and admire since I begun to have a desire for women, still is and will always be an admirer of thick women. Cant help it dear.
TheAfricanChief 5 months ago
Black women try to blame everything on black men. black women are fat because they dont like to work out and ruin their hair that's the main reason.
Venus1Star 5 months ago
Jews are annoying
They do not spend much time watching tv or enjoying life
most of their time is annoyance and causing trouble
just look at the admin of youtube and google ceo and their associates
All jews!!!
trophychan14 6 months ago
yeah, even at 185 you look sexy as a muhfucka. Like damn...you knew what you were up to when you stood up out that chair.
ipoundz 6 months ago
@CarvinCole You're right! Yeah, there are exceptions to every rule (and, yes, its true some cats never leave the ghetto mentality no matter how much they come up). But for the most part brothas with any real status, income and options will opt for in-shape females almost every time. NOT two hundred pound-plus obese women. DON'T believe the hype.
rayhend100 7 months ago
Funny how so many brothas claim they "like" or "prefer" these out of shape women. So why is it EVERY TIME you see a brotha come up, whether through a lucrative sports contract or record deal etc, they pick the SAME 5' 6" 135 lb. females everybody else wants?
Its all bullshit.
Self esteem, status, environment etc. causes folks to make the choices they do. When their situations improve, so do their options.
Messin with obese chicks is not a black thing. Its a ghetto/broke/low self esteem thing.
CarvinCole 7 months ago 2
@CarvinCole You're talking about your LIMITED information based on what the Media pumps into your eyeballs. I have BEEN to Award show, and in Hollywood VIP parties, and I have seen these men who have "Come Up" with some bodacious Curvacious Tigresses! I've seen some thighs & booties which seem like Feats of the Almighty!
Men like what men like... and Blk men for some reason seem to LOVE BIG BUTTS. I don't know why.
-Tko
TonyaTko 7 months ago 2
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@TonyaTko Peep this vid, decrying the dating and choosing habits of brothas, once they “come up.” Obviously, the focus is on skin tone here, but let’s count how many fat women we see too. Now, keep in mind, many of these couples have been together for years, even decades. There’s no argument: at the CHOOSING point, dudes are NOT checking for the obese women they claim to “like” when they're broke.
Check it:
youtube.com/watch?v=VZmXRp07Dhk
Or maybe its the media here, too? LOL!
CarvinCole 6 months ago
@TonyaTko There is a THICK line between being Curvy and being Precious. Problem is, the black women who are out of control weight-wise want to move the bar so they fit into the Curvy Category. That's where the problems come up. You have too many Fat Black Women calling themselves Curvy and Thick. No, you're fat. If you like the way you are, and don't want to change, that's fine. However, stop trying to Jedi Mind Trick Men into viewing you as Curvy and Thick, because it ain't workin!!!
DaDarkProphet2012 5 months ago 4
@TonyaTko Hey Tonya, i think CARVIN COLE is 100% correct and you are KINDa correct as well.. Im a professional athlete in the Atlanta area and i attend the parties/VIP's etc you mentioned as well.. and yes BLK MEN love big butts but the BIG BUTTS BETTER BE CONNECTED TO A THIN BODY OR A VERY SMALL WAIST. A good example of this would be MELISSA FORD, SERENA or TAHIRY. Those girls have BUBBLE BUTTS but small waist lines and THAT is what us MEN prefer.
Mrepifany 4 months ago
@CarvinCole WOW... you went to CHURCH on that comment!!! i had to give you PROPS on that one! Preferring THICK or fat women is not a black thing, its a broke/no other options thing. when RUBBER HITS THE ROAD almost all men with go for the thin in shape woman, or no bigger than BEYONCE for example.
Mrepifany 4 months ago
ok.....Im trying to understand your topic....I guess I get upset at these topics and images I see. Idk....your asking "why are black woman so damn fat?' But your the same complexion as my father. I carry my weight in my midsection. I gain weight when I am stressed. Lack of exercise as well. The food, even when you buy food from the grocery store, the Preservatives and hormones affect my hormones creating changes in my body. High fructose syrup is my enemy too. Those are the reason for THIS BW.
janeblow80 7 months ago
1. The thing is black women don't care how big they are. WHY??? Simple they hang on to this somewhat fact but not all truth. That black men love fat ass girls. Me myself i love a bit of fat on a girl but. DON'T!!! go overboard with it 2. Their's no good black men. So they don't Work out and take care of themselves???? What a weak ass cop out. Get on a bike take a walk play a sport for fun and. Stop thinking. that the more you eat the bigger yo booty go'n get and that's all you need to get by.
chunli12for5 7 months ago
You mean, we now have people who blame black men (or the lack thereof) for black women's obesity?
Maybe if we try hard enough we can link black men to the Kennedy assassination.
Lol!!!
pianoman102670 7 months ago
blk women in America are fucked..noone wante you tomarry,your just jump-offs that lay on ya back with a homo-thug. I will say to all good brothas out there..go to africa or brazxil and get a Real sista!!!fuck blk strong american so called women..
thesouthrapsucks 8 months ago
I hate to hear people say that black people are meant to be bigger than other races. Okay I understand that races have different physical characteristics but being overweight is not the same thing. Also, I've looked through my parents' yearbook, I could count on two hands the fat people in that book. It's just recently people have started to stretch what thick means. Thick used to mean having an hourglass shape, or having a butt and some hips. Now people stretch it to include obese.
angelchild829 8 months ago 7
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Who is this she-ape flapping her lips, ooking and eeking at he camera. even the brothas don't want that. Dat beez nasty en sheeit!
imbluz 8 months ago
A lot of the problem is plain denial. We refuse to be honest about this very damaging issue. Whenever I hear someone say, "we're not the ONLY fat people..." I know that person's in serious denial.
First, we don't need to be the ONLY fat people to address this serious issue. Secondly, you can't possibly be dumb enough to not see that black women are the most obese group in society (and 46% of our children are now obese). If that alone is not enough to address this issue, I don't know what is.
KendraDink 8 months ago 11
@KendraDink Black people don't listen! If you try to tell them something you are branded as a "hater". They squeeze the juice out of that word. SMH. So no one takes the time to consider and reason with the message.
ettisen 8 months ago 13
@KendraDink Wrong - the most obese ethnic group is the Native Americans.
Sociopathics 5 months ago
@KendraDink Okay. Use common sense here. America is OVERWEIGHT. It is a FACT that most people in America are overweight or obese. Whites make up OVER 70 percent of the US population. Therefore, are more overweight whites, especially white women than any other race. There are more white women in the US than black women. There are also MORE white women then white men. There are more white women than black men. DO the math, use some intelligence, logic, and common sense.
purplefashion03 4 months ago
@KendraDink I absolutely agree. I hate when people do that. Just because there are other fat people, does that make it ok for you to be fat? If a rapist was to tell the jury " I'm not the ONLY rapist in the world!" You bet his ass is still gonna go to jail. Not being the only one does not make a legit confirm argument at all. It's just ignorant. It's something a child would say.
Twwistad 3 months ago
@Twwistad PPl dont get fat cuz everyone is fat.that itself is stupid.ppl get fat 4 varies reasons such ass stress(trying to take care of a household w/ not alot of income),quit smoking,health issues,eating the wrong foods or too much,not exercising,etc.Just because you&tim are fat does not mean you got fat cuz of Tim.However,I hate wen others blame one race of ppl wen other races do the same.Why is Blacks mostly targeted.PPl need to mind their business and focus on themselves.
neanealuvmuzik 2 months ago
Being too fat and being too skinny are both bad. I live in Continental Europe and instead of buying a big mac, people would go get a salad at a salad shop and drink fizzy water instead of Cola. U can lose weight by changing your eating habits, it's a gradual process, but the benefits will last u a lifetime.
macron12 9 months ago
you must mean why are black women living in a pink/white regime so damn fat..just like those fat pink women they fallow after. black people in a pink pewople regime tend to suffer from pink/white people mental an physical illnesses
BLaakLyoN 9 months ago
And yes, I do believe black women are the fattest in America. Well....no...I know they are. But that's besides the point, America's big in general. It's amazing to see how disciplined countries like Japan are and how healthy they eat compared to us. They don't like dying that's why! I'm a 21 year old black man, and I'm trying to cut back early on the fattening food (and I weigh 150 lbs). I don't need to, my blood pressure's perfect, but it's smart for the future.
oO0randomzach0Oo 9 months ago 3
After hanging out with some overweight black women, I HAVE THE ANSWER!!! They have TOO MANY barbeques! They always cook and invite their friends over for food and cookouts. Nobody's watching their weight, they're watching that last piece of pizza! They don't have good influences, they all eat, but some are better at keeping the weight off, but if they gain it, THEY DON'T MIND because it's TOO NORMAL in their community. Plenty of them buckle down and exercise, but there are too many enablers.
oO0randomzach0Oo 9 months ago
Black women are more likely to be overweight/obese than other races, though it's a problem that is prevalent amongst all races. The reasons are a combination of culture, socio-economic class, and genetics. Africans in general have a slightly slower metabolism due to their original climate. Africans have a slower metabolism because the body evolved to conserve energy and shed body heat in the intense African heat. In contrast, Caucasians and Asians evolved a faster metabolism to keep the body
turinab 9 months ago
@turinab
warmth in the cooler climates. So the metabolism sped up to adapt to these climates. The cultural and socio-economic factors are out of my area of expertise though I've heard some cultural anthropologists comment on them.
I think the comment about there not being enough available black men is probably a bit unfair. There are plenty of good black men out there. And if some black women feel that way, they have the option of dating outside of racial boundaries as well. I'm a
turinab 9 months ago
@turinab
White man who has dated several black women and I"m currently engaged to a beautiful black woman who happens to be the love of my life. Nobody should limit their possibilities/options.
And you are correct in that black women do carry their weight different...but all races carry their fat in different ways. Black women have more muscle in the thighs and butt, and muscle weighs more than fat. Black women carry more weight around the hips, ass, and thighs due to genetics as well.
turinab 9 months ago
@turinab
Carrying weight around the butt and hips allows heat to escape through the midsection due to the warmer climates of Africa. Where as caucasians are more likely to retain fat in the midsection to preserve heat.
Anyway, it doesn't matter how different races of women carry their fat. They are all beautiful. I find African women to be beautiful, and the woman who posted this video says she weighs 185, but she's solid. Very beautiful. Black women have nothing to be ashamed of.
turinab 9 months ago
curves does not mean to have roles. you should be fit and healthy. i have three children and am way smaller than friends of mine who have no children. yet i still have my booty, muscular legs, flat stomach, no boobs lol...and my husband loves that i work out everyday and train others to get in better shape. take care of yourselves ladies. and to TONYATKO your skin is beautiful!
mrskaylee640 10 months ago
Why is it that we black women think that finess is fat or obese? I don't want a man who thinks that being fat is fine.
MzSiddiqui 10 months ago
How can the girl hosting the video not think she's fat? Look at her droopy arms. Just imagine what they'll turn into once she gets in the comfort/safety of a marriage.
Educated, aware, and good hardworking black men do not want a fat black woman. We do, however, like black women. Trust sister, no man wants a FAT woman (more than size 8), but they will screw her. That's why these fat sisters believe they are ok being fat, even those the same man who will screw her won't EVER, EVER marry her.
Nupeteam 10 months ago
there a lot of fat white women and men that is 600 and up
skyyeblue101 10 months ago
.... it's all the fried chicken...
bobtheplumberable 10 months ago
as a mixed race person (over 40yrs), i love my nubian sista but i dont get where they're coming from. i love my curvacious black woman but what i get is fat and cellulite.. ignorant minds would eat themselves into early grave. picture this, everytime i pass thru fastfood joints, i always see a black women about 22stones stuffing her face. its not society but the black refusing to understand the basics of nutrition
zonta71 11 months ago
for me my mom cooked a lot jamaican food for her men and i hate jamaican food so i would save my little bit of money and bought fast food so i won't eat hers.
skyyeblue101 11 months ago
I think it has alot to do with heritage. This thing that when you were growing up, everything was around food, and eating really well, and gaining weight because 'if I can see ya ribs, you aint cute.' I think it also goes back to our African roots as well. In some parts of Africa skinny is not pretty. Skinny is not attractive. Black men are attracted to voluptuous curves. I feel like it has to do with attracting a mate, and the lost traditions that has been engraved in to our DNA. Fat is good.
Indiegirl007 11 months ago
i think its cause black men like fat women idk
tyboy0735 11 months ago
...to host a lot more muscle than the white--or any other race's--variations. Here in the modern world, where we don't need to involve ourselves in as much activity nor play host to as much muscle, the empty space fills with another substance: fat.
It's the same with black guys usually able to build their bodies MUCH more than white guys. The biggest white guy is nothing in comparison to the biggest black guy. Again: your bodies are made to play host to A LOT of muscle.
satanssecret1369 11 months ago
It's because your bodies haven't evolved as much as white peoples' have. White people have lived in what we "DEEM" civilized society longer than black people have (which I must disagree with, as I feel the community-based feeling from having a purpose and a place in a tribe is much more civilized than those that sit on thrones and make others do all the work).
Long story short, your bodies are made to be constantly active, as they've not evolved into modern day laziness. They're also built...
satanssecret1369 11 months ago
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Wow! Black folks love to fool themselves. Its not about being the ONLY fat people. Nobody said that.
Its about being the fattest group in America. The statistics don't lie. Know what else doesn't lie? Your eyes. Look around. If you can be honest you'll see that 8 out of every 10 black women you are at least overweight, if not obese.
Black children are being stricken with what were previously adult-only diseases, all relating to obesity. So keep fooling yourselves if it makes you feel better.
SlikRicc1 11 months ago
@SlikRicc1 BullShit!
JuanitaPamGrier 11 months ago
@SlikRicc1 Bullshit "stats" do lie. The MAJORITY of the US is overweight. Whites make up the majority!! I've seen MORE overweight white girls then black girls and thats the truth! Your argument is the same argument racist people use when discussing bogus FBI "stats". More whites commit crimes but a disproportionate amount of blacks are represented in comparison to their population numbers. You need to stop scapegoating blacks for a problem that the entire (white race) US has.
told85 10 months ago
@told85 You're obese, huh?
30Roxanne 8 months ago 2
ANYBODY CAN BE FAT NO MATTER WHAT RACE,SEX,OR AGE!
aishwaryamadhurilove 11 months ago 2
People are obese because a) not enough exercise b) eat food that is fattening/too greasy c) don't adapt the diet to suit climate. In a hotter climate, people tend to sweat and work off the excess calories a lot quicker than colder climate.
Smaller statured ladies need to watch food intake as it is easier to gain weight.
Yes, there are obese people in all races actually. Americans tend to eat huge portions of food and do not get enough active exercise.
BeautyHealthZoneBlog 1 year ago
socioeconomics, diet, exercise, discrimination = stress, too many kids.................................btw tonya has a bit extra flubber.
wade2bosh 1 year ago
Hair Hair Hair comes 1st with black women
Hair is a huge part of a black womans esteem so she cant sweat her perm out
most black women actually hate their natural hair and run from rain
black women wont jog workout ride bikes swim or do anything that will get their hair wet...this is known so why you trying to act like its a mystery
DoomCity202 1 year ago
Because black people have a bad diet, don't worry, us white people are catching up to ya.
WorshipInTruth 1 year ago
fianancail , economical ..black women taking care oof business , no breaks , or vacations , most of them , you know the answer , when you have money, no stressfull situation like we go through and have , the time all day or through out the day to studied beauty , fitness, and exercise LIKE WHITE WOMEN
PEB979 1 year ago
You have a nice body.
00579G47 1 year ago
@00579G47 You can't even tell lol
LiixLiixAnixVanity 1 year ago
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ugk200 1 year ago
black women are no fatter than white women on average blacks weigh more than whites across the board not due to being fat . black women weigh more but have a lesser percentage of fat than their white counterparts the oppposite is true for whites . density of bones , muscle ,tendons , account for your weight not just concentration of fat the bmi is not a true accurate indicator of health for black women
mgalore 1 year ago
I wish to express something that some people might not think about. Even Chris Rock talks about FAT BW. He said in one of his routines that they aren't ashamed to go out in public because they are fat. They wear things that most obese people wouldn't dare wear in public. I think BW in general are more bold about being seen as sexy in public. When you see a fat woman doing the same things it surprises people.
azmildman 1 year ago
OK, this is aimed at no one here in particular, more towards celebrity role models. Please, someone tell all these women (especially BW) what the real meaning of the word Diva is. Diva is NOT necessarily a FAT LADY at the opera, despite the old sayings. I don't care if you think that you can sing your butt off (pun intended), do not kill yourself by getting huge and using the words, "I'm a Diva!" as an excuse. E.G. Amber Riley .
azmildman 1 year ago
I love how black women are spoken about as if we are some strange alien, different from all other race of women. Like any other group, there is no one reason for why some black women are over weight. There are many and it can range from emotional over eating as a result of depression, to thyroid conditions to lack of "access" to healthier foods. And yes, like any other human being, black women too can succumb to over eating.
Ebonyhime2 1 year ago
@Ebonyhime2 Well, let's see. Could diet be a problem? I am going to risk being called a stereotyper here, but I dated a lot of BW and I see a pattern. Not just the women, the men, also like certain types of food. Let me ask you BW, are you constantly BEING OFFERED barbecue, fried chicken wings, and parts of a pig that most people don't want to know about? Lots of cornbread, potatoes with gravy, etc. ?????? I eat that stuff too, at times but a steady diet of those things would kill anyone.
azmildman 1 year ago
@azmildman
I think I mentioned over eating and poor eating habits AMONGST other things. So what is your point exactly?
Ebonyhime2 1 year ago
@Ebonyhime2 My point is coming from being a white man who LOVES black women. I don't want any of you to die early because of bad diet and eating habits. It has already been proven that African Americans have the highest rate of heart attacks and hypertension. I was dating a woman who wouldn't think about stopping smoking or stopping eating greasy, salty French Fries while still in the hospital during her recovery from her third bypass surgery. And, big black women are culturally more accepted.
azmildman 1 year ago
Tonya, I wish I would have seen this question years ago. I have an answer. There are a lot of things that are bad for you that are advertised towards minorities. Tobacco, alcohol, and all the most fattening foods. Look at the commercials. Do you think the guy who invented hamburger helper eats that stuff everyday? The owners of Seagrams and Phillip Morris barely use alcohol and don't use tobacco themselves, they just get rich killing others who believe their advertising.
azmildman 1 year ago
@azmildman If they were targeting minorities, then they would have minorities in almost every ad. They target anybody who can be influenced into buying their products. It's an individuals own personal responsibility to take care of their own health, not the media or society. People who actually let society affect them that strongly are too weak to do anything for themselves, even if it is for the better. Commercial ads is not a good excuse to why anybody is overweight.
Baikou 1 year ago
I don't spend money on expensive foods. Instead, I go to the local market, buy loads of vegetables and fresh meat and make fresh, healthy tasty food. The black people seem to have different traditional meals, which include a lot of carbs, yam, fried plantin, white rice..because cooking tasty food is a big part of thier culture. When I have been to the gym, I notice that most off the black people there are concentrating on weights, so they don't burn it off.
rizzlesizzledizzle 1 year ago
you seem like a very honest, self respecting woman. If I was in your position, i would never have the guts to go on the internet and rant about me being fat. I give you props for that, and you seem well on your way to losing the weight that you want to lose. Just keep it up. You, in a way, are a great role model for women and you are amazing in many ways. Keep it up.
anisaLoVeSu 1 year ago
Us black men don't want our black women more "meaty".
RadiantSilverlighter 1 year ago
nice big butt
justified1975 1 year ago
@justified1975 I am a white man who prefers black women and I like a woman a little thicker. But there is a limit to that, health wise, also. A nice round butt and good breasts are nice but not necessary. I think black women hold their age better, their bodies, even when larger, are more shapely, and their hair is nice. I think BW are even sexy when bald, e.g. Erykah Badu.
azmildman 1 year ago
Its sad that, seemingly, the only group in America who doesn't understand the correlation between being overweight and dire health consequences is black America. WhenI hear a brotha proclaiming he "like 'em thick" or I hear a sista recounting tired ass excuses for not working out, I have to shake my head. Our children are in the worst shape in our history. For the first time they are on track for having a shorter life expentancy than their parents due to obesity. And we STILL DON'T GET IT.
AnandaOne 1 year ago
@emergencyexit16 lol so true on the last part i have been to africa (mom was botn there i have family there) and i didn't see ONE fat black woman. (the country i went to was Nigeria, Lagos) and anyway, there a lot of people in many races who r fat...... :3
WhiteRose20000 1 year ago
Some of you guys are idiots that don't know how to listen. Not once did she say anything about black women being the only fat girls out there. She KNOWS that there are fat women of every race, but she's not worried about every other race right now, she's asking about BLACK women. And this is obviously a legitimate observation if women of any other particular race aren't asking this questions. When the topic is brought outside of blacks, it turns into "Americans", not any other particular race.
Baikou 1 year ago
@Baikou African Americans have a higher rate of heart attack and hypertension than any other for several reasons. At one time black Americans were bred like cattle for work. Today the lack of physical labor means that most black people should exercise more and most of them don't do it like they should. Also, black women are more accepted when getting fatter. No one says anything when her butt gets bigger than her chair because they don't realize it is a health problem.
azmildman 1 year ago
@azmildman I'm not trying to say that is wrong, but I personally never believed race affects a person's health. I believe they can be hereditary, but I believe a person's personal diet and overall health affects their chances of heart condition or high blood pressure. Like, high blood pressure runs in my dad's side of the family. He got it when he was 21, and my sister got it at 25. I'm 24 with the worst diet ever, and still don't have it. AND I'm not nearly overweight.
Baikou 1 year ago
@Baikou WebMD states: Some scientists believe that high blood pressure in African-Americans is due to factors unique to the experience of blacks in the U.S. Blacks worldwide have rates of high blood pressure that are similar to whites. In the U.S., however, the difference is dramatic: 41% of blacks have high blood pressure, as compared to 27% of whites. In addition, black people in the U.S are more likely to be overweight than blacks in other countries.
azmildman 1 year ago
@azmildman That just says that more blacks in America actually have high blood pressure more than whites do, not that blacks are more at risk of it. And the fact that the percentage is SIMILAR to whites in other countries just proves how spoiled America is when it comes to food. More whites prolly just have a better diet than most blacks. And since only SOME scientists only BELIEVE that, it means that it hasn't be fully scientifically proven yet. It's just simply what they believe.
Baikou 1 year ago
@Baikou So, if only Richard Pryor and a few other people catch themselves on fire smoking crack, it is still OK in your eyes, right? Because only a few did it? ONLY A FEW SCIENTISTS DID THE RESEARCH. The operative word here is RESEARCH. The surgeon general's staff are only a few, does that mean that it would be OK for me to start smoking and ignoring their warning labels on each package?
azmildman 1 year ago
@azmildman Actually, if you think you can smoke crack without catching yourself on fire, then have it. Besides, you can't compare stats with logic. Logic and be proved wrong, stats can't. However, stats is what can prove logic wrong. What you put before only said that more blacks in AMERICA ACTUALLY HAVE high blood pressure. It did not say that blacks are at higher risk. Scientist used to believe the Earth was flat and was the center of the universe, but were either of those true? No.
Baikou 1 year ago
YOU FAT TOO BITCH.
BLKRevolutionHDTV 1 year ago
Why are people so focused on our weight. Its like they are blind of other races who are in wheel chairs and huge as what! But see us...oh theres another blk fat women when I see all races, faiths, genders ect who are fat.
BrownAugust1987 1 year ago 3
@BrownAugust1987 Way to convolute the discussion with bullshit dude. Black woman have a 55 percent higher prevalence of obesity compared to white women. This number is even higher when compared to Asians. While Asians have a higher rates of the type of fat which protects from certain infections and help insulate against the cold, Black woman have higher percentage of triglycerides fatty acids.
Pointing out that fat woman exist in other races simply distracts from the discussion.
alique087 1 year ago
@BrownAugust1987 yes I agree. Even though there are more overweight white girls then black girls, self-hating racists and self-hating black people, single out the black woman who happens to be overweight and rides on that. Its like they choose to only see what they want to see and base all of their ignorance(usually learned from media and other outlets) on that.
purplefashion03 10 months ago
Black men don't like girls to be over-wieght of any race!
black women don't look good with the extra-weight its unhealthy and unattractive
jerryumeh1 1 year ago
If u looked around u would notice that there are fat women in every race. I been all around the country I see just as many overweight women in the white and hispanic race, and other races. I dont feed into everything the media feeds me because its bullshit most of the time and propaganda. To keep other races down. Dont worry about black women being over weight just worry about your own health and weight.
CaramelLipz23 1 year ago 5
@CaramelLipz23 You are correct. There are some problems with the traditional foods that are accepted, also. When poor people could only afford some types of food, dating back to the times when slavery was legal, black people ate what ever was available. They ate parts of animals that other people wouldn't touch. (Chitlins) Also, black women specifically can look good when a bit overweight, so excess weight on black women is more socially acceptable.
azmildman 1 year ago
Because there are no fat white, asian, Filipina, hispanic,etc women, right? Good job joining the shallow, vapid masses with this vile dose of self hate. Silly twat. Just get in some fucking white face already and start calling people who look like you "welfare queens" and the like. But be careful...if you try any harder, you might strain something.
causticstorm 1 year ago
Eating to much process food, not excerising enough or depression, stress; I'm fifty and now I finally have a belly; When I was in my twenties,thirties,forties my metabolism burned alot faster, Then I stopped working out, my metabolism slowed down. I'm five feet and about 120 lbs with a belly now, also had problem with my thyroid, fibroids which impact alot of black women;
challengebytheword 1 year ago
Eating to much process food, not excerising enough or depression, stress; I'm fifty and now I finally have a belly; When I was in my twenties,thirties,forties my metabolism burned alot faster, Then I stopped working out, my metabolism slowed down.
challengebytheword 1 year ago
It isn't 'black women', it's 'some black women'.
AvailabilityNow 1 year ago
White women have access to Adderall and Dexedrine, prescription stimulants that treat ADD, a condition blacks are rarely diagnosed with because mental health is so stigmatized among black people. These white women are being overly credited with "better habits and judgment" when they're actually cheating. those drugs are on the black market and white women pop them like tic tacs--zero appetite=size zero. Black men, you got bamboozled...yet again... and again...and again...and again...
mlynn1231 1 year ago
When I was growing up there was always1 fat girl in every group. now every group is full of fatties. I'm observing that close to 100% of the black women in west Los Angeles are fat, not curvy. I've alway been very well proportioned but I had two kids, one at 30 and one at 33 years and went to170lbs. I just couldn't lose. I found out I had a sluggish thyroid, treated it, lost the lbs. Check your thyroids sisters. We're being regarded as trash. do whatever you can to lose that shit. seriously.
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Pinkilein95 1 year ago
what? That's nonsense Its not a preference I dam sure dont prefer my black women obese/fat...no one WANTS to be fat..its just unhealthy living and the lack good foof in lo income black communities and lack of prioritizing health.. And women dont...or should not uphold...their appearance for a man...that's not healthy.
MrKeepOnMoving 1 year ago
Black men do NOT like fat. My husband and I are both black and I am a very slim woman. He and every black man I've ever known what curvacious, not fat. There is a BIG difference! Too much fat (obesity) can actually hide curves and all you see is a human lump. Men want their women fit and healthy and the obesity problem among black women (80% are overweight) could be directly related to black women (42%) never being married. Americans in general have an overconsumption problem. SMH
aurianaserena 1 year ago 8
@aurianaserena
Thank you, so tired of thick being confused with fat. Most black men mean a woman built like Kenya Moore when they say "thick", not Monique.
bcstylz 1 year ago
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@aurianaserena "Too much fat (obesity) can actually hide curves and all you see is a human lump."
Perfectly stated, sista! Couldn't have put that any better myself. I'm a black man and I couldn't have any less interest in these overweight females black dudes stereotypically "prefer." I'll pass.
Give me a slim, toned, in shape female any day. I've seen enough flab and cellulite to last for the rest of my life. They can keep it!
MrODWms 11 months ago
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@aurianaserena: "Too much fat (obesity) can actually hide curves and all you see is a human lump."
Perfectly stated, sista! Couldn't have put that any better myself.
MrODWms 11 months ago
no dierespect but you have a nice ass :)
YouKnowItzTTime81 1 year ago
so then......black women will have to be the ones to save themselves, and possibly each other......how do we do this?????
theherdmentality 1 year ago
@theherdmentality One step is to stop the excuses. That's for sure. I eat organic and completely fresh. Mainly raw. My friends always say "That's expensive." So too many excuses first and foremost.
iroc31407 1 year ago
@iroc31407 in other countries, it's the veggies that are cheap and the processed foods that are expensive (because they mostly have to be imported)....I'd be happy if foodstamps and other free food programs covered ONLY the healthiest foods, and THEN there would really be no excuses. Also, we gotta change the culture from thinking that "big is beautiful" ...it's a cover-up for laziness and self-hate...i've also talked to BW who go for months without drinking any water!
theherdmentality 1 year ago
@theherdmentality you should visit hebrewbaby page. the family has six kids and the parents made a conscious decision to buy whole foods and not eat processed things. they even know how to make their own milk and toothpaste. they do their own dentistry, and she even births her own babies. and they are black. i used to scream that other foods were cheaper too but then i thought about how i could take money i use for trivial things and invest in myself.
iroc31407 1 year ago
@iroc31407 yes, this is a HUGE shift that has to happen with every black person.....I see it as a shift to long-term thinking versus the short-term, instant gratification thinking that is so prevalent and celebrated as part of black culture.....get what you want, worry about consequences later....a mentality that is killing black people.....
theherdmentality 1 year ago
@theherdmentality Exactly. It's a mentality shift and overhaul that has to take place. People need to realize that you would be wealthy if you didn't have preventable diseases to maintain. My friends who are overweight diabetics are always claiming my food and way of life is too expensive to them. So which one is cheaper, a healthy lifestyle or medical expesnses to maintain your illness? If you can pay for drugs you can buy better food. Sick people are very rich because it cost money to be sick.
iroc31407 1 year ago
also, you are correct about obesity being cute. there is nothing cute nor healthy about it.