Let's be sincere, when the push comes to shove, the girl with light/bleached skin, long "good" hair/weave, and light eyes/contacts always gets the guy. Black women only conform to what Black men find attractive. Once again, if natural REAL nappy hair, with black skin and broad noses was sexy to Black men, trust black women to stick to it. It's NOT.
It's funny you mention Beyonce as a "beautiful" woman that Jay Z happily has despite his looks, but she's a weave-wearing, light skinned woman.
Bw have insecurity about their hair and their skin(since most sistas are on the darker side of life). Not all bw but some. Thats all. But overall bw dont have low self esteem. Even people with high self esteem has insecuritys its part of being human. MOST of those insecurites of bw it deals with society. Which for the most part holds double standards.
Why shouldn't black women want more? Why shouldn't we feel entitled to a better life? I bet if a white woman asked a black man to give her the finer things in life, he'd bend over backwards trying. Yet, for a sista, he would barely lift a finger. The message I get is that black women who want more are golddiggers. White women who want more are classy, stylish, and elegant. Bruthas are color struck. If she's not white or close to white, bruthas don't want to be bothered.
calliope3rdward, black men don't try to look white? Can you say perm or process? I see a few brothas around the office where I work resort to shaving their heads, not because they're balding but because they're ashamed of their natural hair texture. Those same brothas kiss the asses of anything non-black while dissing their own kind.
calliope3rdward, you just called Beyonce "one of the hottest sistas around." Do you think she was born blonde? Do you think that all that hair flowing halfway down her back is really hers? It's called a lacefront wig, honey. Do the research. By referring to Beyonce as one of the hottest sistas around, you just contradicted yourself. I guess brothas really do want us to look more European.
What about the women who wear kinky weaves/wigs? That's not tryna look white. Lol.
When a woman says she wants are real man I don't think she's referring to the outside but the inside. Someone who's honest, loving, caring, kind. Looks shouldn't not have too much emphasis placed on them. YOu can have a woman whose natural from head to toe with a fu#ked up attitude problem. And you can have a woman who might wear hair extensions and fake nails but she's the kindest most honest woman you know.
Being beautiful is not only limited to black people. Everyone should encompass high self-esteem. Your definition of beautiful is not congruent with a lot of people's definition of beautiful. No two people will 'ever' have the same definition on what it means to be beautiful. Black, White, Asian, Latino, and all women wear contacts, fake hair, and make-up. Not just black women!! Do some research. We should enjoy these things while we are youthful. Because soon enough we will be old and unable
Being beautiful is not only limited to black people. Everyone should encompass high self-esteem. Your definition of beautiful is not congruent with a lot of people's definition of beautiful. No two people will 'ever' have the same definition on what it means to be beautiful. Black, White, Asian, Latino, and all women wear contacts, fake hair, and make-up. Not just black women!! Do some research. We should enjoy these things while we are youthful. Because soon enough we will be old and unable
Being beautiful is not only limited to black people. Everyone should encompass high self-esteem. Your definition of beautiful is not congruent with a lot of people's definition of beautiful. No two people will 'ever' have the same definition on what it means to be beautiful. Black, White, Asian, Latino, and all women wear contacts, fake hair, and make-up. Not just black women!! Do some research. We should enjoy these things while we are youthful. Because soon enough we will be old and unable.
Wow brotha I never thought of the fact that most brothas are comfortable in their own skin and don't go out of their way to look like white guys, excellent point! I am an all natural sista w/locs and I can't understand for the life of me why black women like to color their hair these bizarre colors and wear these fake nails. What's wrong w/the way God naturally made us? Anyway, you have spoken so much truth and yes it's the black women who know you're talking about them that will get mad at this
@MyRootsRoc the burden of beauty is on the female.what is seens as beautiful on a women is different than what is seen as handsome on a man.a dark skin man is seen as handsome a dark skin women, she pretty for a dark skin girl.these brothas that r so comfortable with themselves many of them all they talk about is how they want a red bone with good hair."truth" can be used to demean someone or it can be used to lift someone up.the bm & bw we both have ingrained self hate issues
Since i only have 500 characters, I needed to make an additional comment. When men bash Black Women, you are hindering yourself from reaching prosperity in whatever goal it is you are seeking. I wear a weave, but I am not one who will can a woman hoodrat, hoe, fake, etc. I will nourish. Its the stuff inside that makes us grow, not the weave or the nails. Your criticism is weak in this generation. Stop staring at the old building and learn how to rebuild, get with the program square!
I believe that you are weird because you are only looking at 1 perspective. You are only depicting the outside of the women and don't understand the inside of a woman. It's a trip that a pimp beat you to the finish line in studying the psychology of a woman since you are stuck on the appearance of a woman. Its ironic that you keep saying "Black Women", what about Black Men? It is a shame that women look to impress their men, then you say that they don't love themselves, damn, do you love us?
hmmm. i never thought of hair weaves, color, and fake nails as articles of self hatred. i always looked at it as a fun way to change a look and experiment with style. i embrace individuality and admire when someone is able to be bold with themselves and creative without a thought to the opinions of others. i have an eclectic style and i love it. i have a rule of thumb where i refuse to sacrifice my natural skin and hair to chemicals in the name of style. otherwise, everyone should do themself.
The reason blackmen don't make as much money as whitemen is because this is the whiteman/whitewoman EVIL kingdom.America was built for the so-called whiteman/whitewoman life style,not for negroes,west indians,north american,mexican,puerto rican etc.Stop following the unrighteous,bad living,homosexuallity,STOP EATING PORK,SHRIMP,OYSTERS,CLAMS,LOBSTER,CRAB,CATFISH,SHARK,COONS,STOP WASTING MONEY ON ARTIFICAL HAIR,NAILS,EXPENSIVE SHOES,CLOTHES,BAGS.ALL THAT COLLEGE DEGREE AND STILL DON'T KNOW SHIT.
The exhausted stereotypes you utilize to support your theories are applicable to other races. Majority of WW also wear extensions, acrylic nails, or contacts. Your need to degrade a group in which your mother is included may stem from a bad childhood or diguised/unrecognized self hate. It's not necessary to validate your preference for WW and/or men. Your limited experiences don't allow you to accurately assess all BW & your views are biased & therefore lack substance.
Stop talking about other races this is some classsic blk woman bullsh*t. You know what im saying is true. I speak of good blk women as well. You should do more research before u display your ignorance. I also speak of good and bad blk men. Peace!!!
Profanity is the symptom of an ignorant and limited mind attempting to express itself.
The fact that you can't communicate with others that have opposing views without getting catty says you are not able to effectly converse- isn't that behavior that's suppose to be typical of BW??
Like I said, the things you are saying are applicable to other races, does that upset you because you know it's true?
Women don't want to hear the truth... They have taking on this Independent attitude and to busy trying to be in control of everything spending too much time in the Television fantasy life.. They expect there life to be just like that are close to it... They have unrealistic goals!!!! Most of them not all...
Umm.. You must have missed the outcry of black men who insist that they are overlooked by black women for being too "nerdy" or not "thuggish" enough.. The tears that come from the "nice guy" contingent could fill an ocean.
i said plenty things in this video. Yet you still find it to be offensive. Why is that? You speak as if i don't speak the truth. Be honest bear witness to the truth. Peace!!!
First of all - I never mentioned anything about stats so get your facts straight. Furthermore, if you really want the truth (which I highly doubt you do - that's just how the average black woman is) then you will look for it yourself. So, don't try to turn this on me - it's YOU who is wasting YOUR OWN TIME, not me, not the host of this video, but YOU. Got it? Good. Now go in search of the truth you dare search for it.
Nobody is attacking nobody - why can't people speak their mind without being accused of being a self hater or a sell out? Only black women have this double standard way of thinking.
Black women do need to love themselves more and stop playing into the mainstream European standard of beauty. Furthermore, they need to stop comparing themselves with white women or other none black women. Confidence does play a part as to why some black women are single in addition to appearances, attitudes and self hate issues.
that's all im trying to say is love yourself first. Nobody should determine how good ou feel about yourself. This is just another attempt to blame blk men for something. Peace!!!
Im not gonna send any stats, have due dilligence and find out on your own. Even if i do send you the stats you still won't be happy. That video you sent me that cat is saying some of the same things. Im gonna stop posting videos trying to teach blk women because some of y'all just isn't getting it. I put this video out and you still say in blk women bashin. Peace!!!
Black women will never accept the truth - not all, but many of them. Why don't black women speak about how other black women tear down the self esteem of other black women - this happens on a daily basis - more so than not.
Let's be sincere, when the push comes to shove, the girl with light/bleached skin, long "good" hair/weave, and light eyes/contacts always gets the guy. Black women only conform to what Black men find attractive. Once again, if natural REAL nappy hair, with black skin and broad noses was sexy to Black men, trust black women to stick to it. It's NOT.
It's funny you mention Beyonce as a "beautiful" woman that Jay Z happily has despite his looks, but she's a weave-wearing, light skinned woman.
lettysef 4 months ago
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Bw have insecurity about their hair and their skin(since most sistas are on the darker side of life). Not all bw but some. Thats all. But overall bw dont have low self esteem. Even people with high self esteem has insecuritys its part of being human. MOST of those insecurites of bw it deals with society. Which for the most part holds double standards.
MsRoyalTreasure 4 months ago
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@Bjohns you got a point.
MsRoyalTreasure 4 months ago
im callin you a liar because you say beyonce is a beautiful women, still yet she wear fake hair fake nails. you contradicted yoself.......
abornpoetress 7 months ago
Black woman is likely to want to look like the white woman, self hate, because they don't know they history.
MrMesu9 1 year ago
Why shouldn't black women want more? Why shouldn't we feel entitled to a better life? I bet if a white woman asked a black man to give her the finer things in life, he'd bend over backwards trying. Yet, for a sista, he would barely lift a finger. The message I get is that black women who want more are golddiggers. White women who want more are classy, stylish, and elegant. Bruthas are color struck. If she's not white or close to white, bruthas don't want to be bothered.
bjohns1975 1 year ago
calliope3rdward, black men don't try to look white? Can you say perm or process? I see a few brothas around the office where I work resort to shaving their heads, not because they're balding but because they're ashamed of their natural hair texture. Those same brothas kiss the asses of anything non-black while dissing their own kind.
bjohns1975 1 year ago
calliope3rdward, you just called Beyonce "one of the hottest sistas around." Do you think she was born blonde? Do you think that all that hair flowing halfway down her back is really hers? It's called a lacefront wig, honey. Do the research. By referring to Beyonce as one of the hottest sistas around, you just contradicted yourself. I guess brothas really do want us to look more European.
bjohns1975 1 year ago
ghetto pass revoked
rafarocket 1 year ago
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rafarocket 1 year ago
you sir are a house nigga.
scarletngold 1 year ago
Niggers are human waste
lletah 1 year ago
What about the women who wear kinky weaves/wigs? That's not tryna look white. Lol.
When a woman says she wants are real man I don't think she's referring to the outside but the inside. Someone who's honest, loving, caring, kind. Looks shouldn't not have too much emphasis placed on them. YOu can have a woman whose natural from head to toe with a fu#ked up attitude problem. And you can have a woman who might wear hair extensions and fake nails but she's the kindest most honest woman you know.
Lynnette1987 1 year ago
White girls get weaves too!
MIZZchula10 1 year ago
Most black women are loud, rude, disrespectful, and violently aggressive. I say this from experience.
MetalBassjunkie420 1 year ago
Black women are fucked up, but black men are far worse.
AirForceGirl05 1 year ago
Man you telling the facts, they are totally confused.
shemcity 1 year ago
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Being beautiful is not only limited to black people. Everyone should encompass high self-esteem. Your definition of beautiful is not congruent with a lot of people's definition of beautiful. No two people will 'ever' have the same definition on what it means to be beautiful. Black, White, Asian, Latino, and all women wear contacts, fake hair, and make-up. Not just black women!! Do some research. We should enjoy these things while we are youthful. Because soon enough we will be old and unable
darvonwoodward 1 year ago
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Being beautiful is not only limited to black people. Everyone should encompass high self-esteem. Your definition of beautiful is not congruent with a lot of people's definition of beautiful. No two people will 'ever' have the same definition on what it means to be beautiful. Black, White, Asian, Latino, and all women wear contacts, fake hair, and make-up. Not just black women!! Do some research. We should enjoy these things while we are youthful. Because soon enough we will be old and unable
darvonwoodward 1 year ago
Being beautiful is not only limited to black people. Everyone should encompass high self-esteem. Your definition of beautiful is not congruent with a lot of people's definition of beautiful. No two people will 'ever' have the same definition on what it means to be beautiful. Black, White, Asian, Latino, and all women wear contacts, fake hair, and make-up. Not just black women!! Do some research. We should enjoy these things while we are youthful. Because soon enough we will be old and unable.
darvonwoodward 1 year ago
Wow brotha I never thought of the fact that most brothas are comfortable in their own skin and don't go out of their way to look like white guys, excellent point! I am an all natural sista w/locs and I can't understand for the life of me why black women like to color their hair these bizarre colors and wear these fake nails. What's wrong w/the way God naturally made us? Anyway, you have spoken so much truth and yes it's the black women who know you're talking about them that will get mad at this
MyRootsRoc 2 years ago
@MyRootsRoc the burden of beauty is on the female.what is seens as beautiful on a women is different than what is seen as handsome on a man.a dark skin man is seen as handsome a dark skin women, she pretty for a dark skin girl.these brothas that r so comfortable with themselves many of them all they talk about is how they want a red bone with good hair."truth" can be used to demean someone or it can be used to lift someone up.the bm & bw we both have ingrained self hate issues
theredeemed22 1 year ago
Since i only have 500 characters, I needed to make an additional comment. When men bash Black Women, you are hindering yourself from reaching prosperity in whatever goal it is you are seeking. I wear a weave, but I am not one who will can a woman hoodrat, hoe, fake, etc. I will nourish. Its the stuff inside that makes us grow, not the weave or the nails. Your criticism is weak in this generation. Stop staring at the old building and learn how to rebuild, get with the program square!
stokeslp3 2 years ago
I believe that you are weird because you are only looking at 1 perspective. You are only depicting the outside of the women and don't understand the inside of a woman. It's a trip that a pimp beat you to the finish line in studying the psychology of a woman since you are stuck on the appearance of a woman. Its ironic that you keep saying "Black Women", what about Black Men? It is a shame that women look to impress their men, then you say that they don't love themselves, damn, do you love us?
stokeslp3 2 years ago
hmmm. i never thought of hair weaves, color, and fake nails as articles of self hatred. i always looked at it as a fun way to change a look and experiment with style. i embrace individuality and admire when someone is able to be bold with themselves and creative without a thought to the opinions of others. i have an eclectic style and i love it. i have a rule of thumb where i refuse to sacrifice my natural skin and hair to chemicals in the name of style. otherwise, everyone should do themself.
iroc31407 2 years ago
Thank you this was very enlightening.
themidnitesilence 2 years ago
LOL
reserectcc 2 years ago
nuttin but da truth
rastaruleth 2 years ago
The reason blackmen don't make as much money as whitemen is because this is the whiteman/whitewoman EVIL kingdom.America was built for the so-called whiteman/whitewoman life style,not for negroes,west indians,north american,mexican,puerto rican etc.Stop following the unrighteous,bad living,homosexuallity,STOP EATING PORK,SHRIMP,OYSTERS,CLAMS,LOBSTER,CRAB,CATFISH,SHARK,COONS,STOP WASTING MONEY ON ARTIFICAL HAIR,NAILS,EXPENSIVE SHOES,CLOTHES,BAGS.ALL THAT COLLEGE DEGREE AND STILL DON'T KNOW SHIT.
VIKILLER2 2 years ago
The exhausted stereotypes you utilize to support your theories are applicable to other races. Majority of WW also wear extensions, acrylic nails, or contacts. Your need to degrade a group in which your mother is included may stem from a bad childhood or diguised/unrecognized self hate. It's not necessary to validate your preference for WW and/or men. Your limited experiences don't allow you to accurately assess all BW & your views are biased & therefore lack substance.
WomanInTransition 2 years ago 4
Stop talking about other races this is some classsic blk woman bullsh*t. You know what im saying is true. I speak of good blk women as well. You should do more research before u display your ignorance. I also speak of good and bad blk men. Peace!!!
calliope3rdward 2 years ago
Profanity is the symptom of an ignorant and limited mind attempting to express itself.
The fact that you can't communicate with others that have opposing views without getting catty says you are not able to effectly converse- isn't that behavior that's suppose to be typical of BW??
Like I said, the things you are saying are applicable to other races, does that upset you because you know it's true?
WomanInTransition 2 years ago
I never try to look good for anyone but myself!!!
I have high self esteem I don't care what others think of me.
F.T.W.
lundyncanada 2 years ago
Good points!! thanks for the wake-up call
jidickerson 3 years ago
Well said, C3W
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
WHITE WOMEN WEAR ALL THAT ALOT
Hipznbutt 3 years ago 4
The proof of Black womens failure is all over youtube facing backwards bending over shaking
their butts!
Don't stay up all night trying to count the countless number of videos depicting Black women as whores MADE BY BLACK WOMEN THEMSELVES!
If proof slapped your face you'd be in denial of that.
Just like u dont need any list to prove BM's failures u don't need any proof listed about BW's either. Why so much denial among BW?
Nothing coud be more OBVIOUS!
xXNubianQueenXx 3 years ago 6
Women don't want to hear the truth... They have taking on this Independent attitude and to busy trying to be in control of everything spending too much time in the Television fantasy life.. They expect there life to be just like that are close to it... They have unrealistic goals!!!! Most of them not all...
bellamuerte333 3 years ago 2
haha they love calling us sell outs dont they!! fuck them the truth really hurts!!
Jwriter4 3 years ago 2
Umm.. You must have missed the outcry of black men who insist that they are overlooked by black women for being too "nerdy" or not "thuggish" enough.. The tears that come from the "nice guy" contingent could fill an ocean.
utamutam 3 years ago
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Find your own stats.
Annazayla 3 years ago
i said plenty things in this video. Yet you still find it to be offensive. Why is that? You speak as if i don't speak the truth. Be honest bear witness to the truth. Peace!!!
calliope3rdward 3 years ago
Amen - Amen.
Annazayla 3 years ago
First of all - I never mentioned anything about stats so get your facts straight. Furthermore, if you really want the truth (which I highly doubt you do - that's just how the average black woman is) then you will look for it yourself. So, don't try to turn this on me - it's YOU who is wasting YOUR OWN TIME, not me, not the host of this video, but YOU. Got it? Good. Now go in search of the truth you dare search for it.
Annazayla 3 years ago
Try looking for them yourself - even if he did show them to you, you still wouldnt' believe them. You are not fooling anybody.
Annazayla 3 years ago
Nobody is attacking nobody - why can't people speak their mind without being accused of being a self hater or a sell out? Only black women have this double standard way of thinking.
Annazayla 3 years ago
Black women do need to love themselves more and stop playing into the mainstream European standard of beauty. Furthermore, they need to stop comparing themselves with white women or other none black women. Confidence does play a part as to why some black women are single in addition to appearances, attitudes and self hate issues.
Annazayla 3 years ago 3
that's all im trying to say is love yourself first. Nobody should determine how good ou feel about yourself. This is just another attempt to blame blk men for something. Peace!!!
calliope3rdward 3 years ago
excellent points
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
Find them yourself - or better yet look in the mirror, look at your surroundings. There you will find the stats.
Annazayla 3 years ago
Im not gonna send any stats, have due dilligence and find out on your own. Even if i do send you the stats you still won't be happy. That video you sent me that cat is saying some of the same things. Im gonna stop posting videos trying to teach blk women because some of y'all just isn't getting it. I put this video out and you still say in blk women bashin. Peace!!!
calliope3rdward 3 years ago
Black women will never accept the truth - not all, but many of them. Why don't black women speak about how other black women tear down the self esteem of other black women - this happens on a daily basis - more so than not.
Annazayla 3 years ago 2