This is a sickening throwback to the vile Old Testament where an unchaste woman was considered worthless to her father and unmarryable to her community.
Sex is pretty awesome though. Most Christian churches love sex, hence their obsession with it. They obsess about sex just like n anorexic obsesses about food.
Actually, when it comes to sex before marriage, I'm sure the Bible has some scenarios.
"If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her."(Deut22:28-29 NLT)
I can tell you NOT to confess sexual sins in detail to anyone except a worthy priesthood holder in your church if you seek to find answers. If you are able to have faith in christ, and repent, and sin no more, more power to you , if you need addiction recovery services they are available in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Mormon.org find a free Bible, Book of Mormon, and church near you and get healed, learn the truth about how jesus restored his church on the earth with 14 yo
I don't understand why this video has such a high dislike ratio. She just speaks the truth of the Bible, if you don't like it why watch the video? Shes honest and open and telling her experience. Pretty awesome lady!
I dont like how girls are basically brought up to believe that their virginity is the most important part of them. It objectifies girls bc they are a gift to their husband and if it's "unwrapped too soon" then suddenly shes a damaged good and will have a hard time finding a husband. Like we should teach girls thats their purpose in life? What matters is your heart and mind and sharing it with someone who loves you for you and not your intact hymen. This gives them an unhealthy view of sex
A big problem with Christianity is that WE don't explain the values of sexual purity in absolute terms. We quote scriptures that most dont understand and others don't believe in without truly explaining the risks and damage of having sex too soon. Not just pregnancy/STD, but damage to your name, how men (esp future husband) feel about his woman's sexual past, compromised sexual pleasure in marriage, the list goes on and on. Explaining THESE types of points is the only way to convince the lost.
hahaha X) it's just sex! everyone has to deside for themselves what they will do. If there wasn't a shame and guilt culture around those who had a debute before marriage, thoes people wouldnt be as depressed.
In reference to Rom 3:31, That was from the mouth of paul who we shouldn't forget comes from a STRONG jewish background. Paul said MANY things, many inspired and many Not. women should keep quiet in the church? theres some funny teachings from paul which you probably threw out. ONLY the word of CHRIST is truly flawless. I love paul, but the bible also says he had it rough trying to please the Christians in Jerusalem over throwing out there law.
the Law of christ is a lot harder to live then moses law! eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth is easy compare to turning your cheek, loving your enemy, and doing good to those to hate you!!!! It's not easier overall, no way. but Christs fulfillment of the law did open the door for sexual freedom under the law of love provided the people involved are motivated by love!
Awesome! I want to make sure that my girls know that if they don't save themselves for marriage, theirs going to be a whole lot of pain and suffering in it for them in the end, even if it seems like a good thing at the time. We need to teach little girls and young women that when they dress a certian way they can bring up impure thoughts in the minds of their Christian brothers, and that immodest dress can get tied to impure and immodest behavior!
Christ said "you've heard it said, do not commit adultery. I say to you, If you look with desire you've already committed adultery." Christ is saying it is hopeless to try to be good in the flesh, because it's impossible. no man has not ever wanted sex. Christ said, hey look, that's not important anymore. Love God and others! this is the WHOLE of the law! Christ NEVER said it was wrong ever! show me where! (not the Mormon bible please)
this video would be hillarious if it wasn't so sad.
The NT NEVER says pre-marital sex it wrong, if done in love. Love God and Others. On these 2 commandments hang all the law and prophets. It's mentioned only once my one person, Paul, in the NT. He advises a church having problems to free from fornication. thats the one time in the NT. however at the start of that chapter paul says "these words I speak, not God"
But all the scripture you can find me is in the OLD testament from when men were under the LAW. Jesus Never said it was wrong to have sex before marriage, the only reference to Fornication in the NT is Pauls letter to one of the 7 churches, young people should "flee from fornication". However earlier in the chapter Paul says "these words I speak, not the lord" as if to say "this advice I haven't prayed about, but It;s what I personally think would solve the problems in ur church.
That is not Old Testament. The scripture I quoted-- Hebrews 13:4--is from the New Testament.
Stop perverting scripture. Men are still under the moral law to God anyway, they are just not under ceremonial laws anymore. Do you think it's okay to murder and steal, claiming you are not under the law?
Rom 3:31 Do we then make void the law through faith? God forbid: yea, we ESTABLISH the law.
It says Whore mongerers and Adulterers - People who who have sex in lust or selfishness? not people who have pre-marital sex, and people who cheat on husbands and wives will be judged. Those things are wrong under Christ's law of love. Murdering and stealing are NOT alright under the LAW of love because they are not loving a neighbor as yourself. If something is done in love to the glory of God, It's ok! because that is the ONLY law of christ.
@stevenmcnair1897 fornication AKA pre-marital sex IS selfish! why? because ure just having sex w/ no true commitment, just using eachothers body for pleasure, burning urselves up...and then most times u break up cuz it wasnt really love after all! its selfish!
@patriciacarrasco I agree...most of the sex you see in the world today is selfish. But I wouldn't say All pre-marital sex is selfish. Theres is no reason it can't be done in love and mutual respect. God Made sex, and our natural desire for sex. Of course it can be done in love outside of marriage. Love is the LAW. as such, I don't think we should be hung up on the old testament law, which Jesus fulfilled and set us free from.
Love this book it was given to me by my women of tomorow leader. I had already made up my mind about staying celebate until after marrige but this convinced me 100%!!! I've read this more than once. (sry for spelling errors!)
the do have things for teen guys it's just a matter of looking look up Eric Ludy not sure but I think that he has written a book about it for guys. He's the co-author of when god writes your love story and hes written many books on his own in the last 10 years.
how or what does ludy say becuase Im having a hard time seeing it one for teen guys because purity is for teen guys should be just as importent at least it is to god
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KangenKrazy 2 months ago
This is a sickening throwback to the vile Old Testament where an unchaste woman was considered worthless to her father and unmarryable to her community.
sweetsweatyfeet 4 months ago
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Sex is pretty awesome though. Most Christian churches love sex, hence their obsession with it. They obsess about sex just like n anorexic obsesses about food.
Actually, when it comes to sex before marriage, I'm sure the Bible has some scenarios.
"If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her."(Deut22:28-29 NLT)
FionnNaSligeach 4 months ago
I can tell you NOT to confess sexual sins in detail to anyone except a worthy priesthood holder in your church if you seek to find answers. If you are able to have faith in christ, and repent, and sin no more, more power to you , if you need addiction recovery services they are available in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Mormon.org find a free Bible, Book of Mormon, and church near you and get healed, learn the truth about how jesus restored his church on the earth with 14 yo
jkulesha 6 months ago
do you think holding hands etc is already sex? sry for mistakes i'm german.
SittingandDreaming 8 months ago
thumbs up if you like Sexual Purity for Teen & Tween Girls - 1/2 - Dannah Gresh
sexykatie90 8 months ago 5
I don't understand why this video has such a high dislike ratio. She just speaks the truth of the Bible, if you don't like it why watch the video? Shes honest and open and telling her experience. Pretty awesome lady!
2kstinson 10 months ago
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JIX9ISLER1986 9 months ago
I dont like how girls are basically brought up to believe that their virginity is the most important part of them. It objectifies girls bc they are a gift to their husband and if it's "unwrapped too soon" then suddenly shes a damaged good and will have a hard time finding a husband. Like we should teach girls thats their purpose in life? What matters is your heart and mind and sharing it with someone who loves you for you and not your intact hymen. This gives them an unhealthy view of sex
ElMa1788 11 months ago
PROVERBS 31 Woman: "She brings him (her husband) good, not harm, ALL the days of her life." That includes the time b/f they met and got married.
Danybella 1 year ago
i am 19 and a virgin for Jesus
vendagal 1 year ago 2
thanks for this video
vendagal 1 year ago
A big problem with Christianity is that WE don't explain the values of sexual purity in absolute terms. We quote scriptures that most dont understand and others don't believe in without truly explaining the risks and damage of having sex too soon. Not just pregnancy/STD, but damage to your name, how men (esp future husband) feel about his woman's sexual past, compromised sexual pleasure in marriage, the list goes on and on. Explaining THESE types of points is the only way to convince the lost.
TWN321 1 year ago 2
Sexual purity is not just important for tweens but also for everyone else.
BradSSFL 1 year ago 2
hahaha X) it's just sex! everyone has to deside for themselves what they will do. If there wasn't a shame and guilt culture around those who had a debute before marriage, thoes people wouldnt be as depressed.
Lixinim 1 year ago
In reference to Rom 3:31, That was from the mouth of paul who we shouldn't forget comes from a STRONG jewish background. Paul said MANY things, many inspired and many Not. women should keep quiet in the church? theres some funny teachings from paul which you probably threw out. ONLY the word of CHRIST is truly flawless. I love paul, but the bible also says he had it rough trying to please the Christians in Jerusalem over throwing out there law.
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
the Law of christ is a lot harder to live then moses law! eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth is easy compare to turning your cheek, loving your enemy, and doing good to those to hate you!!!! It's not easier overall, no way. but Christs fulfillment of the law did open the door for sexual freedom under the law of love provided the people involved are motivated by love!
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago 4
a new commandment I give unto you that ye love one another.
the first law: Love God with all your heart: second: Love your neighbor as yourself. On these 2 commandments hang all the laws and the prophets.
I have come to fullfill the law.
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
Awesome! I want to make sure that my girls know that if they don't save themselves for marriage, theirs going to be a whole lot of pain and suffering in it for them in the end, even if it seems like a good thing at the time. We need to teach little girls and young women that when they dress a certian way they can bring up impure thoughts in the minds of their Christian brothers, and that immodest dress can get tied to impure and immodest behavior!
mistymiss83 2 years ago
frightening, Statisits, virgin peers, if she felt that way fine write it up, but don't preach. Sex has many forms.
ajaxfilms 2 years ago
Jn.13:34
A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
Mat.7:12
Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
Gal.5:14
For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
Gal.6:2
Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
*Gal.3:13a
Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law.
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
Christ said "you've heard it said, do not commit adultery. I say to you, If you look with desire you've already committed adultery." Christ is saying it is hopeless to try to be good in the flesh, because it's impossible. no man has not ever wanted sex. Christ said, hey look, that's not important anymore. Love God and others! this is the WHOLE of the law! Christ NEVER said it was wrong ever! show me where! (not the Mormon bible please)
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
this video would be hillarious if it wasn't so sad.
The NT NEVER says pre-marital sex it wrong, if done in love. Love God and Others. On these 2 commandments hang all the law and prophets. It's mentioned only once my one person, Paul, in the NT. He advises a church having problems to free from fornication. thats the one time in the NT. however at the start of that chapter paul says "these words I speak, not God"
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
Heb 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Sex outside of marriage is wrong.
sinisachoice 2 years ago 7
But all the scripture you can find me is in the OLD testament from when men were under the LAW. Jesus Never said it was wrong to have sex before marriage, the only reference to Fornication in the NT is Pauls letter to one of the 7 churches, young people should "flee from fornication". However earlier in the chapter Paul says "these words I speak, not the lord" as if to say "this advice I haven't prayed about, but It;s what I personally think would solve the problems in ur church.
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
That is not Old Testament. The scripture I quoted-- Hebrews 13:4--is from the New Testament.
Stop perverting scripture. Men are still under the moral law to God anyway, they are just not under ceremonial laws anymore. Do you think it's okay to murder and steal, claiming you are not under the law?
Rom 3:31 Do we then make void the law through faith? God forbid: yea, we ESTABLISH the law.
sinisachoice 2 years ago 2
That scripture you quoted is from the NT.
It says Whore mongerers and Adulterers - People who who have sex in lust or selfishness? not people who have pre-marital sex, and people who cheat on husbands and wives will be judged. Those things are wrong under Christ's law of love. Murdering and stealing are NOT alright under the LAW of love because they are not loving a neighbor as yourself. If something is done in love to the glory of God, It's ok! because that is the ONLY law of christ.
stevenmcnair1897 2 years ago
@stevenmcnair1897 fornication AKA pre-marital sex IS selfish! why? because ure just having sex w/ no true commitment, just using eachothers body for pleasure, burning urselves up...and then most times u break up cuz it wasnt really love after all! its selfish!
patriciacarrasco 1 year ago
@patriciacarrasco I agree...most of the sex you see in the world today is selfish. But I wouldn't say All pre-marital sex is selfish. Theres is no reason it can't be done in love and mutual respect. God Made sex, and our natural desire for sex. Of course it can be done in love outside of marriage. Love is the LAW. as such, I don't think we should be hung up on the old testament law, which Jesus fulfilled and set us free from.
stevenmcnair1897 1 year ago
or just well anything on purity understanding teen girls ect.. thats a start
DeJay14 2 years ago
Love this book it was given to me by my women of tomorow leader. I had already made up my mind about staying celebate until after marrige but this convinced me 100%!!! I've read this more than once. (sry for spelling errors!)
GlamorGrl00001 2 years ago 2
they need more resources for teen guys
DeJay14 2 years ago 2
the do have things for teen guys it's just a matter of looking look up Eric Ludy not sure but I think that he has written a book about it for guys. He's the co-author of when god writes your love story and hes written many books on his own in the last 10 years.
GlamorGrl00001 2 years ago 2
oh great thanks my friends had a hard time finding one
DeJay14 2 years ago
no prob!!! If I come across anymore that I know for sure are written more for guys I'll message you the names :)
GlamorGrl00001 2 years ago
how or what does ludy say becuase Im having a hard time seeing it one for teen guys because purity is for teen guys should be just as importent at least it is to god
DeJay14 2 years ago