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  • Not gonna lie, your face does look kinda girly.

  • u must watch vampire diaries!!!:]

  • This critter xD

  • People tell me that I look like Lea Michele, but I don't know why haha

  • Yeah, my 15yo cousin is more masculine than you...

  • stop trying to talk real talk, you sound mad stupid

  • I get mistaken as a 10 yr old because I'm 5'1 but I'm 16 =_=

  • This is kinda trans*phobic...

  • Before he even up the tumblr link up, I knew it. Lol. Oh, Tyler, it rules our lives.

  • omg ur halarious lool

  • this is my first time watching and definitely not my last you are hilarious!!! everyone says my doppelganger is flo the progressive insurance girl lol I don't see it though

  • I had a flatmate come live with me from America, and she constantly got mistaken for a man whenever she went into the ladies toilets at bars. Girls would either scream or tell her to get out, and she'd be like 'siiiiiigh not again'. She has short hair and wears kinda manly clothes, but there's no way I'd say she looked like a guy. People are strange

  • You definitely have more masculine features but I have a way more masculine personality and I'm biologically a woman. (but still trans ftm) I hate it to when someone calls me a lady when I'm obviously a transman. Esspecially if I look very close to a regular guy and someone still calls me lady... It happens, alot.

  • You definitely give off a strong lezbo vibe bahahaha...

  • adele! and i never get tired of hearing it :)

  • "BITCH, there goes you're motherfucking tip. You stupid ass HOE."

  • Dude, so weird, same exact thing happened to me at an Applebees!

  • I have people mistake me for the singer of My Chemical romance all the time :/

  • A myriad of people have told me that I look like Ginnifer Goodwin, though I fail to see the resemblance :L

  • I have been hit on by gay guys. While WEARING A DRESS!!! I know just how you feel.

  • I'm kinda jealous I think ... I wish I could pass for both a guy and a lesbian =(

  • Sorry this happens to you, but this is hilarious! xD Love it lol

  • story of my life...

  • At least he was polite? I mean how many teenagers say 'excuse me' and 'ma'am'?

  • I get mistaken for a drag queen all the time. GOD it sux

  • lol

    

  • tumblr is some serious shit

  • I constantly get mistaken for a girl only because i sometimes wear a headband and nail varnish im like excuse me but are my headband and nails the only things you see, get a look at my outfit before you open your mouth stupid assed kids not being taught properly ¬¬

  • this always happens to me. hahah

  • i liked the video as soon as i saw ur bowtie

  • People have said I look like Taylor swift, but with straight hair lol

  • ;) great ur not a lesbian cuz i sure am and id hate being a lesbian if u were one 2 XD now get a life dude and stop trying to make people str8 its ain't working Hun

  • i hate being called mam at a fast food drive thru

  • People tell me I look like Demi Lovato, which I personally think is a compliment because she is beautiful and my role model. :)

  • you look so swanky in that bow tie!

  • and he lookth me in the eye tho I know that he theeths me and he goeth, "Exthuth me ma'am would you like to donate to my football league?" lmao.

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  • As usual I live on the wrong side of the continent

    Maybe these people are not that observant and have no idea what a real man looks like, or you dress more fem like.

  • i thought he was a lesbian too. i kept seeing his face on tumblr and was pretty sure i was right until this video lol. there is nothing wrong with it, but he does look very much like a butch lesbian.

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  • flava flav...were pretty much identical twins.

  • your trying to go over the top a bit to much.

  • haha i love this!

  • my design tec teacher thinks i looks like zoey deschenal, which i find absolutely amazing but none of my friends believe me and shoot it down like a goose. :(

  • What about this little Mother Fucker?

    He was a Mother Fucker?

    I think he was a Mother Fucker?

    Punch that Mother Fucker...

  • Charice :)

  • I've seen some butch lesbians that look more masculine than you, Tyler. You're overreacting.

  • dolores park is perfect. always there when you have a weed emergency or need to buy some edibles

  • TYLER OAKLEY IS A LESBIAN

  • i was always told i looked like Oliver Sykes, Mitchell Davis or Mason Musso >_>

  • With my glasses on, everyone saays i look like Tina Fey. Dont base your opinion off of that picture <--- becauses its old. \

  • Won't lie, I'm a pretty manly lesbian. And since I moved to Florida, not once has someone who didn't know me referred to me as female.

  • Emma Watson. Though I've been compared to Daria (don't ask. I don't get it either.)

  • you get so ghetto when you get angry ♥

  • @irishdude69 maybe his ghetto femmine gay LOL

  • jackie kennedy

    

  • I've been tol that I look a little like Zac Effron, I dont see it lol

  • The bowtie does not help your argument. If it helps at all, you look like a lesbian who looks like a cute guy.

  • This is sort of irrelevant...but I just went through 56 pages of your tumblr. I think that level of creepiness warrants some award.

  • love the bow tie dude

  • Will Ferrel. I don't see it.

  • @jayOHcomedy um what

  • Digging the bowtie.

  • Haha. When I first saw the video where What the Buck was pimping out your channel I initially thought it was a lesbian. :)

  • I mean, why is it okay to be like "Hey guys" when the group is comprised of males and females but not okay to say "Hey ladies" when it's the same group?

  • I was at the nursing home and some 50-odd year old woman asked me if I was in the fifth or sixth grade. I'm a junior in high school. So, apparently, I seem to be at the height of my awkward stage. Fantastic.

  • okay so it will not let me post the link to my petition but if you do want to help then go to change. org and search Katy Butler or Gay rights, make it better

  • Hey my name is Katy I'm 17, gay, and i live in michigan. I changed the anti bullying bill in michigan to help protect LGBTQ students. i would really appreciate it if you could help me spread the word about this petition to help gay rights in michigan.

    Thank you,

    katy

    follow me on tumblr ... prideforchange

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  • @lln9 are you serious?

  • @TompyCan I am guessing you quit right after that?

  • @volnessj I have a mangina! It needs to be popped! LOL

  • @mrsupreme45 Yes he and Davy are hot but too fem for my tastes

  • @stellar211344 maybe your a wannabe black girl? HAHA

  • @jamiebellwolf well i've been known to be called lil mama

  • I AM NOT A LESBIAN? What? You are a man... If things get any more convoluted… gosh…

    I may not make it out the bloody front door. I have never understood all this labelling. You fuck who you like and get on with life… phew!

  • @TheWisemonkey8 Well dont people need bias so we know who is who?

  • Dude your like a queen sorry to say. yep I am gay too but I dont swish around like you do.

  • ppl say I look like Ellen Page..

  • people say i look like Michelle Williams, and i'm okay with that:)

  • people said i look like Justin Bieber ... and im a girl, and im straight...

    -_-

  • scary spice :(

  • So...since you have seen Ellen Degeneres...are you going to die?

  • KILL HIM LOL

  • you do look lez tho.

  • everyone use to say i look like hayley williams but then i dyed my hair blue and got it cut now all my friends call me their lesbian anime chick xD

  • HAHAHAHA.. go for it girl! :p lol jk.. but you do look a little feminine, but i wouldn't think you were a girl/lady tho :p

  • not all men have penises. c'mon you're cooler than to adhere to that cissexist b.s.

  • @wiggitywackk Yeah, I was going to mention that... It's unfortunate that the T gets tuned out of the LGBT so much that even people in the community continue to perpetuate gender assumptions.

  • @NickSparkss How are we from the same community? Gays dont want to be woman

  • @jamiebellwolf LGBT stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender.

    Transgender people are part of the LGBT community. It's sad to see that some members of the LGBT community try to push us out. We all have strength in numbers, if we start fragmenting into smaller groups, we'll never gain equality.

    Also, there are transmen and transwomen, not all trans people are women. Your ignorance is frankly offensive, and I encourage you to educate yourself more before passing judgment.

  • @NickSparkss Not trying to pus you out but there is a vast difference between gay lesbian and Trans. Trans can pass as the sex they want too.

  • @jamiebellwolf Do you know what transgender means? The, "Trans can pass as the sex they want too." line makes me think otherwise. That's not how it works.

    Transitioning is a HUGE process that takes years and years. It's not something that just happens easily like you're implying it does.

    Yeah, there's a big difference between sexual orientation and gender identity, but we're still all in this together.

  • @NickSparkss YEP! and the suicides of gay youth continue while the trans gets more benefits! Tell me do trans kill themselves over being trans?

  • @jamiebellwolf Transgender teenagers have the highest instance of suicide out of any group in the wold. The suicide attempt rate is 50% for trans people. It is only 12% for gay youth. We kill ourselves over being trapped in the wrong body. It's hard to get out of bed in the morning and hate our own bodies to the point that many of us mutilate our own genitals because they repulse us so much.

    Transpeople do not have more benefits. I still don't think you know what trans means.

  • @NickSparkss statistics can change you know that? Oh yeah lets just discount Gay youths since there life is so perfect. Yeah and then when its removed you regret you decison. and I dont you really understand what GAY means.

  • @jamiebellwolf What are you talking about? 12% is still a huge number, and I'm not discounting that number, or the struggle of gay youth. I literally said we all need to work together to attain equality, as in ALL of the LGBT community, gays, lesbians, bisexuals, asexuals, queer, questioning, intersex, all of us.

    But 50% is a huge percentage. Statistics don't just change. People have to change for the stats to change. Clearly trans kids need help.

    I understand gay. I am gay...

  • @NickSparkss Now there is intersex? Of course! gays get marginalized but whats new! Yeah stastics change since it can go up and down. Trans kids need to understand god gave the gift of the dick or boobs. 

  • @jamiebellwolf Intersex was always a part of the LGBT community, it's not new.

    ALL of the groups that I mentioned get marginalized, that's what I'm saying. We all need to be strong TOGETHER to gain equality.

    What YOU need to understand is that you don't have the right to decide someone's gender. Only that person themself has the right to choose their gender, and you need to be okay with the fact that some people are trans.

    Statistics don't just change on their own...

  • @jamiebellwolf Actually in recent studies that I did trans are more likely to kill themselves they there gay peers the only reason you know about gay youth taking their life is because the media will disclose that, because being gay is becoming more accepting in society now a days. But we are missing the point here, anyone in the LGBT commuinty can have a hard time. we already have enough bigots has it is, no need to turn on each other.

  • @ZirDinoGrey Of course they have it worse! Oh the media is not disclousing the trans killing themselves bullshit! Yeah there is! I was not surprised about the gay teens killing themselves and it doesnt help to have idiotic shit heads like this idiots in the media now in days

  • @ZirDinoGrey Thank you. That's all I'm trying to say. It's ridiculous for people within the LGBT community to try to exclude certain groups within it. We all need to band together, we have safety and strength in numbers.

    United we stand, separated we fall.

  • @NickSparkss No problem being trans I have come in contact with people from LGB, that don't respect me because I am trans, I really don't get how someone can turn on there own. There is a lot of hatred in this world. It makes me sick that people want to stop crime yet have no problem with exclude trans people. 

  • @ZirDinoGrey No I just dont get you. How are you my own when I am gay and your its in your head? How can you be trans yet if you want to remove your bra when you identify as female when you were born a male and want to expose your boobs now?

  • @jamiebellwolf First off, please try to make sense I have no idea what you are talking about also please have facts to back yourself up, obviously you need to be educated on this subject. I'm not like you in the slightest I am actually accepting to everyone unlike you. Also I never said I was born male... There are two trans MTF which I am not and FTM, which I am, if you actually did some research you would know this. Please to assume you know what it's like to be trans.

  • @ZirDinoGrey I am sure you are and so perfect. I dont assume anything but I do know when MTF happen they feel sorry for having there male organ removed. Tell me where are you fact Wikipedia?

  • @jamiebellwolf Again please try to make sense, you keep saying MTF are you blind? I am FTM, I don't to be female I am not female, If I had male organs I would be happy. No I don't use Wikeipedia I read books do studies, and just have knowledge from what I am going through. I am a big part of the LGBT community I SUPPORT EVERYONE!!!! I will not judge anyone because of who they are, Like I said I am a FTM pansexual man, even if you are gay, you are still a huge bigot.

  • @ZirDinoGrey Well its good you use books and other source material other then Wikipedia. Well why would you want male organs?  are you ashamed to be female? You do know females can do the same thing as males. pansexual what the hecks that?

  • @jamiebellwolf I want male organs BECAUSE I AM MALE! it has nothing to do with what men/woman can do! again you need to research this, you have no idea what you are talking about. Pansexual is someone that will date anyone Male, Female, FTM, MTF intersex gender doesnt matter love is love.

  • @NickSparkss Because gays commit suicide and the number of trans dont./ since they can hide plus when they finally get the monster off there vaginias they feel the operation shouldnt have happened. even though in childhood they wanted to cut it off

  • @jamiebellwolf Transgendered people commit suicide more often than gay people do. We can't just "hide", because most of us don't pass right away, and that's why there are so many trans murders every year.

    Please educate yourself before making claims. Transpeople often feel relieved when they have genital reassignment surgery, if they choose to. (Some don't have it because the surgeries are fairly crude at this point.)

    You are clearly not educated on the matter.

  • @NickSparkss Yeah you can. and every year there is another suicide in teen gays. Crude you can grow a dick or grow boobs want too

  • @jamiebellwolf No we can't. Transitioning takes years, and we're stuck in a sexually ambiguous stage, sometimes for over a year. 37 transgender people were murdered last year in hate crimes. No less than 50 trans kids committed suicide.

    And we can't just "grow a dick or grow boobs", transpeople who undergo genital surgery often have to wait years, and these surgeries cost us about $50,000-$75,000.

    I'm not marginalizing gay struggles, I'm trying to educate you.

    I'

  • @NickSparkss Yeah you can one person in england had his penis removed and somewhat regrets the decision. Yeah after its done they are so HAPPY to be rid of the disgusting appendage! Yeah they have to wait because thats life altering events. Yeah your marginlizing gays

  • @jamiebellwolf The person you are talking about did not follow the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care. He was not a transsexual, so of course he regretted cutting his dick off. He had a fetish for transsexuals, and tried to become one.

    And the surgeries are extremely complicated, we don't just "grow" new genitals. they are incredibly flawed and expensive.

    I am not marginalizing gays. I recognize and feel the struggle of gay youth because I am a gay youth.

  • @NickSparkss what the heck is Harry Benjamin Standards? Once its gone they cant reattach it! We? Your gay so why are you so focused on trans unless you were born male and turned female or female and now male yeah you are

  • @jamiebellwolf The Harry Benjamin Standards of Care are a set of guidelines laid out that prevent transitioning when someone is not a transsexual. The guy you were talking about didn't follow those guidelines.

    I'm trans and gay. I was born female, I transitioned and identify as male, and I'm in a homosexual relationship with a man.

    I'm focused on transpeople, not only because I am one, but because the entire LGBT community needs to band together and unite.

  • @NickSparkss How can we band together when there people confused like yourself? tell me what is this desire to be gay and be born female? yet identify as gay? when your a lesbian. heck I dont even know what your. Your having sex or love with a guy so why are you not a woman dating a guy? the other guy knows you dont have the male organ

  • @jamiebellwolf I'm not confused at all. I am a man. I have known I was a man since I was a little kid.

    I didn't desire to be gay. You didn't desire to be gay did you? Well neither did I, I just am.

    And I'm not a lesbian. Lesbians are women who date women. I am not a woman, and I don't date women.

    And yes, my partner knows that I don't have a penis. We've been dating for over a year and have an active sexual life.

    Just because you don't understand doesn't mean I'm confused.

  • @NickSparkss Then how can you enjoy sex if you dont have the male organ?  Well you maybe man but your sex from birth was a woman. I desired guys thats what I desired. How are you not a woman your dont have a penis and balls. Well good for you about your sex life. But facts are facts you were born a woman not a man

  • @jamiebellwolf People have sex all sorts of different ways, sex doesn't have to include a penis. (Although it would be nice to have one.)

    And yes, I was born female, but I was born into the wrong body. I am a man. My body is different from most other men, but that doesn't make me less of a man.

    Every legitimate scientific organization acknowledges the existence of transsexuals. My brain is more like a male brain than a female brain, I just ended up with the wrong genitals.

  • @NickSparkss How is your brain more like a male then a female? How do you know you were born in the wrong body? why would you want a penis? Your body was born female not male. Did you want to play war cowboys and indians? did you want to to stronger?

  • @jamiebellwolf Researchers have taken brain scans of transsexuals and their brain structure is closer to that of their gender identity, in my case, my brain is structured more like a man's than a woman's.

    I knew I was born into the wrong body because I just knew. It's really hard to explain the feeling of gender dysphoria, but it's something you just know. You wake up and feel like your body isn't the right one. It's like how you know you're gay. You just know.

  • @NickSparkss How can your brain be more structured as a man? did you feel you wanted to be more aggressive in sports? did you feel like you wanted to more manly things? You can still do that.  No its different because I dont want to cut a part of my body to be the sex I want

  • @jamiebellwolf It actually is the same. I'm just talking about intuition. Some things you just KNOW in your heart.

    And it's physically structured like a male's. FtM transsexuals have a hypothalamus (part of the brain) that is shaped like a biological man's.

    Females can be aggressive in sports and do manly things, that's totally fine. But I know I'm not a woman. I was born female, but I was never a girl. I have known that I was a boy since I was a child.

  • @NickSparkss So you want to the docter and he or she checked your brain and it registred as male? How do you know your not a girl? you didnt like wearing dressess and wearing jewelry? did you like playing with action figures instead of dolls. so you had the operation? How did you that make you feel after the operation? If you have gotten it.

  • @jamiebellwolf Not personally, as I was not part of the study, but it's a scientific fact.

    Like I keep saying, I just knew. It has nothing to do with the things I liked, or the sports I played, I just knew I wasn't a girl. I knew that my body was not the body I was supposed to have. Gender dysphoria is really hard to explain to people that are not trans.

    There are several surgeries, there's not just "the operation". I am pre-operative, so I have not undergone surgery yet.

  • @NickSparkss then why would the person I know in England be sad his penis is gone? How is it scientific when you havent had the operation to make you male? why is there several surgeries? Do you think you would be happier without boobs? What if you did have the operation would you miss your boobs?

  • @jamiebellwolf You don't need surgeries to make you male. I have not surgeries, but I am a man.

    And it's a scientific study. I was not one of the subjects, but it's a proven scientific fact that trans people's brains are structurally similar to those of their gender identity.

    I would be happier after getting my breasts removed. I bind them every day and I have rib damage from binding.

    The man you are talking about was not a transsexual, he had a fetish for them.

  • @NickSparkss but doesnt your boyfriend like you as you are? How do you know? once its done it cant be reversed. like your boobs. Have you ever let your boobs hang and does your boyfriend like it?

  • @jamiebellwolf I just know. I have never been comfortable with my chest, and I am giving myself health problems by binding them. When I have them removed, it will be a huge relief. The genital surgeries for FtM's are not very refined, so I won't be getting that done until they make some advancements.

    My partner is not interested in the female aspects of my body, and neither am I.

  • @NickSparkss Have you tried it without the binding on? What if they cant make advancements? Have you tried having sex with you looking more female? have you tried wearing a dress and seeing how that goes? Even a kilt? how could screw up on your brain by making you desire to be a male when your a female

  • @jamiebellwolf I wasn't born with a binder on... And I have to take them off when I sleep and shower, so I know how it's like not to bind, and I absolutely hate it.

    And if they can't make any advancements, I'll probably get a metoidioplasty so I can urinate standing up.

    I've worn dresses before when I was younger because I had to (for things like weddings) and I always felt uncomfortable in them. It felt wrong.

    I'm not screwing up, and I'm not a female. I'm a man.

  • @NickSparkss but you have boobs thats a fact. but why? why did the dressess feel wrong some guys wear kilts. have you tried wearing a kilt before? well biologically you are. did you try doing manly things like boxing kick boxing lifting weights?

  • @jamiebellwolf Yes I have breasts. This has already been established.

    Just because someone is a man doesn't mean they have to go out and establish their masculinity by doing stereotypically "manly" things like boxing and weight lifting. I don't need to overcompensate for the fact that I was born female by going out and doing the most manly sports I can possibly find. I played hockey and soccer as a kid. I do things I enjoy because I enjoy them, not because they're "manly".

  • @wiggitywackk real Man have penises! no matter how much a trans person wants to be a man they were not born a man even if its legally changed into a man.

  • People always used to tell me I looked like Johnny Depp. I have also heard Heath Ledger a lot in the past and even Kid Rock a couple of times. But then I came to Thailand and cut off all my hair, so all I get is Harry Potter or even James Potter. I'm not even sure why the say that when he barely shows up in the movies. I think they mean Harry... Johnny Depp was always the most common though.

  • LOL @ the lisping queen talking about how he embodies masculinity.

  • @rainydaze1212 yeah Lance bass Chad Allen and Joe Poletrno from Wiseguy are more masculine. but one black guy said your sister which hello I am a dude

  • hahaha that happens to me all the time like all the time

  • pathetic

  • Now you know what it's like to be FTM...

  • :O This was posted on my birthday

    I'm going to invite myself to pretend that it was your birthday present to me...so thank you.

  • people say i look like lil wayne =\

  • @ResidentJackass

    really? want to fuck?

  • get off tumblr

  • Ok you so sound like Scott Disick!

  • you are a black girl trapped in a small framed white gay man's body

  • @dboom1218 lol - i hear that!

  • u should die your hair black. i think u would look nice and maybe then not look like ellen....

  • people say i look like kate middleton, or some famous young asian golf player. -_- i dont get it. I dont look like either and im not asian. great video!

  • gosh people say i look like Rowan Atkinson, Joe Jonas and Zachary Quinto .. i had to google the last one coz i had no idea who he was. but then i had to slap myself because i realised who he was. true story

  • @MrJamesey92 Zachary Quinto <3 I love that man.

  • i don't think i look like any cleb. And haven't been told otherwise...

  • i wishj i could say ZAC EFRON.. but sadly NO

  • OMG the Applebee's thing happened to me! except we weren't at Applebee's, we were at another restaurant. But the waitress went up to me and my mom & was like "Can I help you ladies?" & I was like "seriously bitch, I'm a dude!" & my mom was trying like crazy to not start laughing hysterically

  • apparently i look like kristen stewart :P

  • lov this vid, lov the bowtie

  • Bowties are cool :)

  • I dunno you do kinda look like a lesbian...

  • BOWTIE! <3

  • your bowtie, good sir <3

  • You're super adorable and I would have paid to see that interaction!

  • I cut my hair (12 inches) this past summer and this past year was teaching children at the nature center where I worked and this little kid comes up to me and says, "Are you a girl or boy?" and I'm like dumbfounded... and I'm like, "A girl, silly!" haha