I hate to sound negative, and believe be I'm not trying to be... I appreciate what you do, but you really should NOT be doing this while driving, not the smartest idea. Just think about it, is it really that serious? Keep on doing what you do, I really enjoy listening to you and please don't take this personal. You're a young black woman, and I considers you a sister, be safe.
Girl, I feel for you seriously! The same "friends" are never there for you. Be there for you, when you need you. There's times when you so called friends need to check themselves and think about your needs. True friends spend time sharing thoughts and love. True friends..remember that. It will save you loads of tears. God Bless you for this video. Don't get overwhelmed by your problems share them with others who really care OK!! A new start for a new year, you're worth it
Sistah, I hear you. I have has some seasons in my life that are just like you mentioned. My 20s were rough. Turning 30 was a private celebration. Live on. Send me an e-mail. You are such a wonderful human being. I am listening.
i feel you on this one. really feel you. i'm the one who keeps a smile on my face 24/7, just because the ones around me need to see it. at the end of the day not only do i have my loved ones problems to deal with, i have my problems to deal with. sometimes it feels like it is too much because i can't run to anyone and cry on their shoulder. i so understand. i hope everything gets so much better.
I love feeling needed and you sound like you are needed by so many too. Take a day for yourself. Go to the spa and turn your cell phone off... RELAX! We all feel overworked sometimes.
Do you believe in God? Know that he takes notice of what you do. Writing in a journal also helps me vent an answer a lot of my own questions.
yes im going on a cruise this saturday so im looking forward to some me time. and yes i do believe in God...i would have lost my mind a long time ago without Him. i used to write in my journal back in the day but i havent had time to write as much. i decided to do this video journal instead. i get to vent and relieve stress this way. thank you for the kind words of encouragement. i appreciate it! :-D ♥
Aww Ess you know I'm always here for you if you need it. You can aim, text, e-mail or call me anytime I dont mind listening helping my sis out. I hope this will post lol.
I feel what you're saying Essence. I feel so well connected yet completely isolated from everyone at the same time. It's honestly my acne/accutane problem which has made me feel socially awkward even to my closest friends. I hope you continue to make progress on your treatment program as I have been.
It's a really hard time for you and me, and so difficult to weather our problems on our own. We all need saving.
Hey! I've been watching your episodes and noticed that you went on accutane. I just started a couple days ago, and now am on day 7. I thought the symptoms would not hit me hard, but WOW I am already feeling the symptons within couple days! MY FACE IS SO SO SO DRY, and soooo red. People have been asking if I got sunburnt. I feel like ripping my skin off my face. =( How's the accutane for you? In your video, your skin looks pretty healthy! Have you had any breakouts yet?
o definitely. my lips started drying out within the first three days! my face is really dry too...and even my hands and other parts of my body are drying out. my dermatologist says its a mild ezcema that'll go away. now when i upload vids, they become a little distorted so you cant really see my acne...but the acne is definitely clearing up. my dr. gave me moisturizers so im handling it well. just keep your skin moisturized and keep sunscreen handy. be strong! LOL
may i ask what kind of moisturizer are you using? i'm using cetaphil + aquaphor but its not doing anything. my lips have always been chapped, so it doesnt really bother me. i havent really experienced anything else as far as symptons, but the red face is just killlllllllling me. if you saw how red it was, you'd freak out!
yep...that is exactly what i am using, and it is workin fine for me. i have to constantly re-apply it, and that's annoying, but yea that's wat im using also. u may need to talk to somebody about getting something stronger though if it's not working out for ya.
Aw man this brought tears to my eyes ;( i was feelin exactly like this a few weeks ago.. i too am always the person ppl call for help, an open ear or to be there personal "rock" and the 1 week where i felt down and out of course every1 was busy not answerin their phone. and i just couldnt figure out why i HAD to be everyones "rock" and how no1 could return the favor, i was soo frustrasted i just had to cry...alone, felt better after but DAMN!!
I hate to sound negative, and believe be I'm not trying to be... I appreciate what you do, but you really should NOT be doing this while driving, not the smartest idea. Just think about it, is it really that serious? Keep on doing what you do, I really enjoy listening to you and please don't take this personal. You're a young black woman, and I considers you a sister, be safe.
JrRenesca 5 months ago
Girl, I feel for you seriously! The same "friends" are never there for you. Be there for you, when you need you. There's times when you so called friends need to check themselves and think about your needs. True friends spend time sharing thoughts and love. True friends..remember that. It will save you loads of tears. God Bless you for this video. Don't get overwhelmed by your problems share them with others who really care OK!! A new start for a new year, you're worth it
Peace and love.
evealexsis 2 years ago
Sistah, I hear you. I have has some seasons in my life that are just like you mentioned. My 20s were rough. Turning 30 was a private celebration. Live on. Send me an e-mail. You are such a wonderful human being. I am listening.
hustlediva4life 2 years ago
Powerful, Just keep walking in love and sharing ur heart one day your super man will come along "quote: Ess God don't make mistakes!"
dportis47 2 years ago
hope you're better now.
whitemenaresexy 3 years ago
i feel you on this one. really feel you. i'm the one who keeps a smile on my face 24/7, just because the ones around me need to see it. at the end of the day not only do i have my loved ones problems to deal with, i have my problems to deal with. sometimes it feels like it is too much because i can't run to anyone and cry on their shoulder. i so understand. i hope everything gets so much better.
nicgotitpic 3 years ago
IT LOOKED LIKE YOU WANTED TO CRY!!
yatta4788 3 years ago
You rock! =D
Gourgeous2008 3 years ago
aww oneday that person will come lilessence.
chamise9 3 years ago
hope u have fun at the cruise 2morrow!!
Bryjag09 3 years ago
woooooo thanks i intend to! LOL :-D ♥
LilEssence03 3 years ago
I love feeling needed and you sound like you are needed by so many too. Take a day for yourself. Go to the spa and turn your cell phone off... RELAX! We all feel overworked sometimes.
Do you believe in God? Know that he takes notice of what you do. Writing in a journal also helps me vent an answer a lot of my own questions.
Lots of Love
02kristen04 3 years ago
yes im going on a cruise this saturday so im looking forward to some me time. and yes i do believe in God...i would have lost my mind a long time ago without Him. i used to write in my journal back in the day but i havent had time to write as much. i decided to do this video journal instead. i get to vent and relieve stress this way. thank you for the kind words of encouragement. i appreciate it! :-D ♥
LilEssence03 3 years ago
ive taken accutane 3 times each for 4 plus months so i know what your going threw hang in there
lfbr07 3 years ago
thank you! :-D
LilEssence03 3 years ago
Hey I u told you on several occasions that I got ya back. Phone or myspace, you know how to get at me but rarely do. ???
CypherDivine 3 years ago
Aww Ess you know I'm always here for you if you need it. You can aim, text, e-mail or call me anytime I dont mind listening helping my sis out. I hope this will post lol.
ADDCTD2CANDY 3 years ago
YAY! it posted finally! LOL and i definitely appreciate it, homie. :-) ♥
LilEssence03 3 years ago
I feel what you're saying Essence. I feel so well connected yet completely isolated from everyone at the same time. It's honestly my acne/accutane problem which has made me feel socially awkward even to my closest friends. I hope you continue to make progress on your treatment program as I have been.
It's a really hard time for you and me, and so difficult to weather our problems on our own. We all need saving.
God Bless.
mindbodylightsound10 3 years ago
thank you! godbless and good luck to you also. im hanging in there. hope you are doing the same. :-D ♥
LilEssence03 3 years ago
Hey! I've been watching your episodes and noticed that you went on accutane. I just started a couple days ago, and now am on day 7. I thought the symptoms would not hit me hard, but WOW I am already feeling the symptons within couple days! MY FACE IS SO SO SO DRY, and soooo red. People have been asking if I got sunburnt. I feel like ripping my skin off my face. =( How's the accutane for you? In your video, your skin looks pretty healthy! Have you had any breakouts yet?
MADElNH0NGK0NG 3 years ago
o definitely. my lips started drying out within the first three days! my face is really dry too...and even my hands and other parts of my body are drying out. my dermatologist says its a mild ezcema that'll go away. now when i upload vids, they become a little distorted so you cant really see my acne...but the acne is definitely clearing up. my dr. gave me moisturizers so im handling it well. just keep your skin moisturized and keep sunscreen handy. be strong! LOL
LilEssence03 3 years ago
may i ask what kind of moisturizer are you using? i'm using cetaphil + aquaphor but its not doing anything. my lips have always been chapped, so it doesnt really bother me. i havent really experienced anything else as far as symptons, but the red face is just killlllllllling me. if you saw how red it was, you'd freak out!
MADElNH0NGK0NG 3 years ago
yep...that is exactly what i am using, and it is workin fine for me. i have to constantly re-apply it, and that's annoying, but yea that's wat im using also. u may need to talk to somebody about getting something stronger though if it's not working out for ya.
LilEssence03 3 years ago
Aw man this brought tears to my eyes ;( i was feelin exactly like this a few weeks ago.. i too am always the person ppl call for help, an open ear or to be there personal "rock" and the 1 week where i felt down and out of course every1 was busy not answerin their phone. and i just couldnt figure out why i HAD to be everyones "rock" and how no1 could return the favor, i was soo frustrasted i just had to cry...alone, felt better after but DAMN!!
like you said Superwoman needs saving TOO lol
WonderSharZen21 3 years ago
Amen!
LilEssence03 3 years ago