Children don't fear the parent if the spankings are out of love. My children know that that I do and they are not afraid of me. My youngest is very stubborn and I tend to have to do it more than my oldest. The timeouts, taking things away, or punishments don't work for her, they are a joke. So the ones who tell me not to how do you propose disciplining her? I was spanked as a child and was pretty good in school and never was arrested.
I understood and accepted spanking (along with time outs, grounding, and confiscation) as a child. And now as a teenager, I'm known as a good and respectful person.
What a retard! Abusing a child as instructed by a cave man manual. Just cannot begin to comprehend how a person in full suit and tie saying such thing through modern IT media. In other words, no better than the Arabs or Talibans.
Children learn by our example. In kindergarten no child gets beaten and they usually respect their teachers much. I believe it is enough to just hinder your child from doing harmful things without spanking, and to not show the same bad behavior to them. At the same time I wouldn't call the police on a parent who spanks the child, if it doesn't happen out of aggression. I personally don't spank and my little ones develope fine.
I agree, I was spanked as a child, and as a parant who raised 3 kids I also spanked my children. Properly and only when needed. And not one of my children had more than a dozen spankings in their life. They listened when spoken to, because they knew the outcome if they didn't. Proper discipline is appropriate no matter wat the bible says. Not one of my siblings or any of my children did wrong in school. And have never spent a day in jail.
SOMEDAY if i got a kids also i will do the same coz I LOVED THEM.. IF I NEED TO SPANK I WILL..but in a right way not to get my kid angry with me but to love me more like my parents did!yeheyyyy!!LOVE U MUM AND DAD! mwahhhhh
for my experience..im its very rare that my parent spanks me only my bro and sis..coz iam a nice kid they say..ehemmm..but i have experience it and I LOVED MY PARENTS FOR DOING THAT coz all of us learned to be a good kid coz of their disipline 2 us..coz we know were wrong and they tell this 2 us..I LOVE MY PARENTS..
spanking in the right way to teach kids is RIGHT THING TO DO if the kid doesnt listen after ur warnings to them..to give them a good lesson form right and wrong..but a after spanking u should explain 2 ur kid why u do that so that they will knw.. and feel that u do loved them coz u want them to be a good kid! OF COURSE IF THE KID IS NOT DOING BAD AND FOLLWS U..U DONT HAVE TO SPANK..spanking are for those who dont listen..IF U LOVE UR KID DISIPLINED THEM AND A BIT SPANKING IS NOT BAD!
Nowadays, it is very obvious which children (and adults) are/were spanked at a young age. If only this world would see what kind of children they are raising. God gives us His word as tools to live by and we should be using them!
Spanking in love (and not out of anger) is a beautiful tool that God gave us to teach our children right from wrong. We spank our own children, and I have often been complimented in public places on how polite and well-behaved our kids are.
The Bible says God chastens those He loves to build Godly character in us...why would we not do the same to our own children??? I am so grateful for your fine program to help lead those who will listen. Our children do not know right from wrong. Parents are there to show them the way through loving discipline.
I have always beleived in spanking my child. I was rarely spanked as a child and had little respect for my parents. I never spank to hurt, rather to get attention and teach my child to respect my decisions. I have a very well behaved child who respects me a lot, large impart to the decipline she has received.
You present the only key that unlocks how to fulfill having successful families--that is to turn to the God of the Bible. In spite of the nay sayers who reject God and His Word, the challenge remains for those who are willing to apply biblical teachings and witness for themselves the fruit of obedience--we see the product of our societals who now defiantly reject true knowledge!
There is no doubt that spanking your child, when necessary, is only beneficial for the child. Also for the parent. After all the child grows up and you don't want a terror in your house who is ruling you instead you are ruling him. But like with so many other nonsense which our "leadership" in this world comes up with we certainly do reap what we sow.
My husband and I spank our children in love. Because the children know and respect their boundaries they are happy and have more opportunities.
From my personal observation, if you are not consistent, spank too hard (or not hard enough), or in anger, it will have the reverse effect. This could be the reason why some parents say that spanking doesn't work for them.
Loving instruction after discipline is just as important as the punishment itself. You can't have one without the other.
I'm not the one that is afraid of an imaginary magic person that lives in the sky and in the earth. Sounds like your brain is the one that isn't working.
i don't think teens should be spanked ever
LJB85 11 months ago
Children don't fear the parent if the spankings are out of love. My children know that that I do and they are not afraid of me. My youngest is very stubborn and I tend to have to do it more than my oldest. The timeouts, taking things away, or punishments don't work for her, they are a joke. So the ones who tell me not to how do you propose disciplining her? I was spanked as a child and was pretty good in school and never was arrested.
dorianstokes 1 year ago
And beating/hitting/spanking a child follows the Golden Rule taught by Jesus in the New Testament, how?
ReNuriche 1 year ago
i got spanked when i did bad things and i turned out great :P
titoshinigami 1 year ago
I understood and accepted spanking (along with time outs, grounding, and confiscation) as a child. And now as a teenager, I'm known as a good and respectful person.
christchic13 1 year ago
What a retard! Abusing a child as instructed by a cave man manual. Just cannot begin to comprehend how a person in full suit and tie saying such thing through modern IT media. In other words, no better than the Arabs or Talibans.
0orangepeel0 1 year ago
Children learn by our example. In kindergarten no child gets beaten and they usually respect their teachers much. I believe it is enough to just hinder your child from doing harmful things without spanking, and to not show the same bad behavior to them. At the same time I wouldn't call the police on a parent who spanks the child, if it doesn't happen out of aggression. I personally don't spank and my little ones develope fine.
baum7des7lebens7 1 year ago
no spanking is needed.
konstafan 1 year ago
I agree, I was spanked as a child, and as a parant who raised 3 kids I also spanked my children. Properly and only when needed. And not one of my children had more than a dozen spankings in their life. They listened when spoken to, because they knew the outcome if they didn't. Proper discipline is appropriate no matter wat the bible says. Not one of my siblings or any of my children did wrong in school. And have never spent a day in jail.
tcblin 2 years ago
SOMEDAY if i got a kids also i will do the same coz I LOVED THEM.. IF I NEED TO SPANK I WILL..but in a right way not to get my kid angry with me but to love me more like my parents did!yeheyyyy!!LOVE U MUM AND DAD! mwahhhhh
MrSmallvoice 2 years ago
for my experience..im its very rare that my parent spanks me only my bro and sis..coz iam a nice kid they say..ehemmm..but i have experience it and I LOVED MY PARENTS FOR DOING THAT coz all of us learned to be a good kid coz of their disipline 2 us..coz we know were wrong and they tell this 2 us..I LOVE MY PARENTS..
MrSmallvoice 2 years ago
spanking in the right way to teach kids is RIGHT THING TO DO if the kid doesnt listen after ur warnings to them..to give them a good lesson form right and wrong..but a after spanking u should explain 2 ur kid why u do that so that they will knw.. and feel that u do loved them coz u want them to be a good kid! OF COURSE IF THE KID IS NOT DOING BAD AND FOLLWS U..U DONT HAVE TO SPANK..spanking are for those who dont listen..IF U LOVE UR KID DISIPLINED THEM AND A BIT SPANKING IS NOT BAD!
MrSmallvoice 2 years ago
Nowadays, it is very obvious which children (and adults) are/were spanked at a young age. If only this world would see what kind of children they are raising. God gives us His word as tools to live by and we should be using them!
DodgeGalFC 2 years ago
I'm only eleven, but I really understand
this message. Now I know a lot about
why my parents spank me. And in doing it in love, not in anger.
macbeesh 2 years ago
Spanking in love (and not out of anger) is a beautiful tool that God gave us to teach our children right from wrong. We spank our own children, and I have often been complimented in public places on how polite and well-behaved our kids are.
mbeangarrett 2 years ago
The Bible says God chastens those He loves to build Godly character in us...why would we not do the same to our own children??? I am so grateful for your fine program to help lead those who will listen. Our children do not know right from wrong. Parents are there to show them the way through loving discipline.
jonjonloulou 2 years ago
I have always beleived in spanking my child. I was rarely spanked as a child and had little respect for my parents. I never spank to hurt, rather to get attention and teach my child to respect my decisions. I have a very well behaved child who respects me a lot, large impart to the decipline she has received.
noeljen2008 2 years ago 4
@noeljen2008 spanking dose not give you respect it makes them scared of you....
jannikmt 1 year ago
You present the only key that unlocks how to fulfill having successful families--that is to turn to the God of the Bible. In spite of the nay sayers who reject God and His Word, the challenge remains for those who are willing to apply biblical teachings and witness for themselves the fruit of obedience--we see the product of our societals who now defiantly reject true knowledge!
FORTCOLORADO 2 years ago 3
There is no doubt that spanking your child, when necessary, is only beneficial for the child. Also for the parent. After all the child grows up and you don't want a terror in your house who is ruling you instead you are ruling him. But like with so many other nonsense which our "leadership" in this world comes up with we certainly do reap what we sow.
somefuture 2 years ago 2
My husband and I spank our children in love. Because the children know and respect their boundaries they are happy and have more opportunities.
From my personal observation, if you are not consistent, spank too hard (or not hard enough), or in anger, it will have the reverse effect. This could be the reason why some parents say that spanking doesn't work for them.
Loving instruction after discipline is just as important as the punishment itself. You can't have one without the other.
aussiejulez 2 years ago 3
I'm not the one that is afraid of an imaginary magic person that lives in the sky and in the earth. Sounds like your brain is the one that isn't working.
333333344444 2 years ago
Sorry, I'm not understanding your point.
333333344444 2 years ago
You can assert that the bible stories are true, but it flies in the face of all rationality.
Show me who has "proved it scientifically."
333333344444 2 years ago
Yes, I know. It's still fiction.
333333344444 2 years ago
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333333344444 2 years ago
A spanking on the bottom is often necessary and not harmful. One can't reason with a two year old.
I was spanked (not battered) and turned into a well adjusted adult, if I do say so myself.
jackinla8 2 years ago 2