Should you be friends with your ex? by LuvemOrLeavem

[MyHelloDudeMan]

ur right

[deathofangel789]

that's bullshit, i've got my girl and i okeep being friend with my ex, and she has her boyfriend, and we're all happy, she loves her boy and i love my girl, and we both are good friends, so yeah this is bullshit, dislike =D

[86iceblue]

I think you can be friends with your ex, providing you are both ok with each other seeing other people. Not being able to talk to your ex, jealousy, envy and associated feelings are signs of immaturity and lack of communication between your ex and yourself. Everyone deserves to be happy in a relationship, the fact that you and your ex didn't work out is not reflective that you or your ex are incapable of friendship with each other.

[1990banks]

great advice, a girl I really like is close friends with her 3 ex's, I don't mind but its awkward, personally it seems like too much baggage especially after she told me she has been intimate with each one and to make things worse these are guys I know on a meet and great first name basis.

[KeepItFresh02]

could not be friends w/ my ex gf. noooooooooooooooooooooo waayyyyyyy.

[soymiguelalejandro23]

I absolutely agree with you. Once you are done you are done plus no one who has any self respect is going to get seriously involved with someone whose ex sex partner/wife husband etc is hanging around and that relationship was supposed to have been over. If it's over why are they still here calling coming by hanging out? that is very disrespectful to the new partner. I would never tolerate unless he and the ex had children or a business together. Beyond that there's no reason 4 contact.

[christophercstewart]

Thank you I found this the most informative on the subject of being friends with an EX.

[amanai1010]

people that stay friends with their "ex" are stuck in a time capsule !!!! and they make me go mad ....

[jv2785]

i wood never go out with any woman is friends with there ex

[LUIShtRUIZht]

Yes !!! best advice ever

[RedTango]

Don't entirely agree..I am friends with several (male) exes. But what DOES change is the fact that once you cross that line..sexually..they will ALWAYS see you as a potential future sex partner, if the opportunity ever occurs. It changes the dynamics forever, but it doesn't mean you can't communicate and remain friends.

[rollitup1]

how do you move on if you really loved a girl?

BTW your hot, i'd do u

[nando1635]

Oh no...am I doing something wrong? I'm friends with all my EXs. In fact, 3 of them came (along with their current boyfriends) to my birthday party a few weeks ago.

In fact, because I know them SO WELL, I know when they are having problems and because I ALSO know them so well, can be honest with them and tell them to SHAPE UP with their boyfriends.

[moviesman2008]

well that proves her theory wrong, doesnt it. LOL i think its based on the situation, the kind of break up and the kind of person you are and your ex is. i just broke up with someone and they want to stay friends, and im happy with that. i dont have any of the excuses she mention. i loved them alot, there the one that ended with me because they didnt feel that way anymore, ut i think keeping the people who care about you in so way or form in your life a good thing.

[dugieman]

that chair looks comfy as hell

[buster1104]

agreed. no.