BDSM Talk 22

[Shorbtow]

alyssium, getting late on the answers (about half an year os so) just to say I really enjoy hearing from you! :)

[ownsslave]

excellent videos! makes me wish I were much closer to Windsor ;)

[brettkelly17]

you are so beautiful iam asub u explain a lot still hold asub view your lush ;ps are u into heavy

[thekelkel]

i think insecurity is just as prevelent in the non-bdsm community as it is IN the bdsm community, the difference being that in the BDSM lifestyle brings you more in touch with your feelings and opinions of yourself, elements which i feel stay more hidden in vanilla-brand relationships. why have you not made any videos in months? these are fantastic.

[alyssium]

i posted a comment about that today.. my dvd burner ate my soundcard. i haven't forgotten or disappeared. :) thank you for the concern tho.

[Nitzer69]

I like watching your videos. They are nice.

[mengle2004]

Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts. I don't think that someone is submissive because they are insecure. As a Male Dom I want a female sub who is confident and secure. What fun is taring down someone who is already broken. A sub must be tough to take the pain and the humiliation. Subs should take pride in that.

[skindeepRK]

You are a beautiful girl, and that is because you are real. Its amazing how open you are, and I think you are a lot more secure than most people I know.

[alyssium]

thank you very much.

[Cozmikjon2006]

You are beautiful and thoughtful.

[timthecop]

Thanks you for doing what you do, I think you are wonderful. I am a big Boston Legal fan too, great show.

[njbh86]

OMFG Heroes is superb. I NEED MORE :)

Nice to see the series has become so large, I am now subscrbed in order to follow your views!

[alyssium]

thank you. ;)

[nG370]

No practical experience but doms I think must remember that relationships are based on love and push the subs bounderies wisely so the sub surmounts their controlfreakness.If an uninteligent dom wants to just abuse and break down the sub for self gratification constantly then the dom disrespects the sub to much for the relationship to continue(In my mind).This is what I would want in a dom.

[alyssium]

it's a big give & take dynamic.. and respect is something that is the biggest part of it for sure. you got it right! :)

[clockworkhorrorshow]

I can learn things about your past by listening to your voice. I know a little...

[alyssium]

i would like to hear hwat you think in an email... if you care to share.

[puff4]

I've been lurking and watching your vids for quite some time now, but haven't really had much to say.  I just want to say how truly lovely and gentle you are, and how impressed I am with your ability to so beautifully express your candid thoughts. I wish I knew you as a friend, and I hope this makes you smile.

[alyssium]

that was very sweet. thank you. :) more will come soon.

[Zero98c]

canada rocks!

[alyssium]

yea, eh?

[amareelussuria]

22?! really?! i can't believe it! i was there since number 1 and i'll be there til the end girl! i miss talking to you! hope you're doing well.

[alyssium]

*huggles* thank you... email any time. i get to them eventually honest. *Hugs* i'm really glad to have your support and friendship.

[avallez]

love the stuff you have.

[MrSokkie]

Hi alyssium, I'm sorry to hear you've been feeling down. I hope you get things back on track soon, but I have all the confidence you will. You seem to be perking up towards the end of the video already. And you look extra-cute when you smile. Grace us with smiles more often ;-)

[alyssium]

thank you. i hate watching my smile on cam... i notice it's crooked and i try to correct and look like a gimp. lol

[blkslvboy]

male submissives also deal with insecurities

[alyssium]

i dont doubt that at all.. i was more talking from my perspecitve.. sorry if it seemed otherwise

[peanutman10]

i hope you get more space on your harddrive lol !

[alyssium]

so do i :)

[graymama]

I have much to say, but no time. Look for an e-mail later :-)

[alyssium]

i will be counting on that missy :)