The reason for women being brought up with being ashamed about sex is about male dominance & control of women's sexuality, by men for men, not for the woman. Even women have been brainwashed into this male ideology, it comes from history, and from men in power of the times and the shocker is, it is the psychopaths mentality. You're spot on Onision promotes rape culture & he has the mentality of a rapist with that voice.
I disagree with what @Ray77063, I think you did an excellent job presenting the facts and I agree with your video 110% We have a right to say no at anytime and not feel pressures. I myself was in a situation last week where the guy continued to pressure me several times after I had told him no not happening.
I am not impressed by your presentation. You are taking your subject's words out of context and you are comparing verbal sexual harassment by the girlfriend to wearing short skirts and dancing. Repeatedly telling a guy that you want to do him sexual favors is not the same as dancing. Apples and oranges.
@Ray77063 So telling a man she wants to do sexual things with him at some point means that she should be ready and willing whenever he deems appropriate? Consent is not something that, once given, it is always there. It's not something that one should assume is there just because a person will want to do something in the future. It has to be given at the time of the act in order to be valid. And sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual comment. Onision makes no claim of not wanting her to say it.
@jessaymack It takes two to tango. She could have gotten out of the bed, dressed, and gone home, any time she wants to. From the story, it looks as though BOTH were willing to knock boots! You know the truth. SHE TAUNTED HIM with suggestive language! The young woman (and I use the term lightly) is not innocent in this! No one spread her legs for her. Just like no one took O's penis and inserted it into her for him. Get real! It was consensual sex, not rape.
@Ray77063 She could have? Clearly you know nothing of the dynamics that a man's power can play in a relationship. She very clearly stated in the letter that she said "no no no" and that he IGNORED this and kept going, so, knowing that he wasn't going to stop, she gave up. That is not consent, not even close.
I feel bad for any woman you encounter, because you clearly do not understand consent and think you have a right to a woman's body. Please educate yourself.
@jessaymack She did? I stand corrected! There is no excuse for any person to force him/herself on any other person. I believe I was in the fifth grade when I learned that "no" means "no". Remember those shirts that read , "What part of "no" don't you understand?" I have responded in ignorance. I am *truly* sorry. The fact that she withdrew consent really does change everything.
oh shit, he said he hasn't read a fucking book in like, EIGHT YEARS? and he wants to be regarded as some beacon of wisdom? wayyy too busy on the internet. 3:56, people should be as up-in-arms about that as they are the "funny she wants to claim the right to say no" comment. that people are defending this nimrod... oh fuck... brain is... shutting... down... ..................
Well said!, particularly the warning to him at the end, which one can only hope he will see & take heed of, unfortunately I don't think it's in his nature to listen to anyone other than the egotistical voice in his own head, personally I think the guy is genuinely twisted, totally irresponsible & potentially dangerous ( hate to sound dramatic ) but to some of his younger viewers.
He knows his subs, mostly comprising of 13 to 17 year old girls, half his age many of them.
@infidel1978 I believe that the crisis of unwanted pregnancies is directly related to slut shaming. If men and women are too ashamed to buy contraceptives and learn how to use them correctly, they wind up pregnant. If they're not being taught this stuff in schools and by their parents thanks to abstinence only education, they're not being protected. Honest and non-judgmental dialogue and education is the first step in preventing pregnancies. Shame only makes people act irrationally.
@jessaymack Common example: A girl doesn't bring a condom because the guy will think she's a slut. She's not on birth control because she's afraid to ask her mom. After sex she's too ashamed to get the morning after pill. She freaks out when she becomes pregnant and tries to hide it instead of seeking an abortion in time. Then it's too late, she winds up with an unwanted baby. All of this could've been prevented had she not been raised ashamed of natural sexual urges and taught what to do.
But really thank you so much for creating this level headed educated video, you're education and eloquence are clearly shown in this footage and I can only hope that people will educate themselves and take a stand like you have. You're a prime example of why a good education is essential in this country and something Onision is clearly in need of.
Awesome! This is such a huge issue that I see and experience all too often. Too many men look at women as objects for their sexual pleasure and they are all so afraid to admit it because, they either legitimately don't realize the error in their ways, or it would hurt their sense of pride. Sad.
He sounds right.If women want go around sleeping about remember they get pregnant and we the taxpayer is being left with the bill.In the UK we're CUTTING child benefit so women keep your knickers on.
@infidel1978 there is this thing called birth control, and both parties in a sexual relationship have the right to think with the brains and not their genitals and protect themselves. it takes two to tango, buddy.
As a woman who loves sex, I so hate the double standard.
KateyCatastrophe 2 weeks ago in playlist The Case About Onision
The reason for women being brought up with being ashamed about sex is about male dominance & control of women's sexuality, by men for men, not for the woman. Even women have been brainwashed into this male ideology, it comes from history, and from men in power of the times and the shocker is, it is the psychopaths mentality. You're spot on Onision promotes rape culture & he has the mentality of a rapist with that voice.
66Shellz 2 weeks ago in playlist The Case About Onision
Thank you, you put this in all of the best words. Your video is full of clarity, very well spoken.
ClaudiaSwann 3 weeks ago
Onision is a disgusting turd, I personally never understood what would attract anyone to his mindless yammering.
jdf088 3 weeks ago in playlist The Case About Onision
Thanks for the video! From a guy...
PlutoPowered 3 weeks ago in playlist The Case About Onision
Added to the playlist The Case About Onision
allianceofdemons 3 weeks ago
You are amazing. Seriously, everyone who thinks Onision is such a good person should watch this video.
amandapearl2books 3 weeks ago
I disagree with what @Ray77063, I think you did an excellent job presenting the facts and I agree with your video 110% We have a right to say no at anytime and not feel pressures. I myself was in a situation last week where the guy continued to pressure me several times after I had told him no not happening.
hyperchick051988 3 weeks ago
I am not impressed by your presentation. You are taking your subject's words out of context and you are comparing verbal sexual harassment by the girlfriend to wearing short skirts and dancing. Repeatedly telling a guy that you want to do him sexual favors is not the same as dancing. Apples and oranges.
Ray77063 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@Ray77063 So telling a man she wants to do sexual things with him at some point means that she should be ready and willing whenever he deems appropriate? Consent is not something that, once given, it is always there. It's not something that one should assume is there just because a person will want to do something in the future. It has to be given at the time of the act in order to be valid. And sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual comment. Onision makes no claim of not wanting her to say it.
jessaymack 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos 3
@jessaymack It takes two to tango. She could have gotten out of the bed, dressed, and gone home, any time she wants to. From the story, it looks as though BOTH were willing to knock boots! You know the truth. SHE TAUNTED HIM with suggestive language! The young woman (and I use the term lightly) is not innocent in this! No one spread her legs for her. Just like no one took O's penis and inserted it into her for him. Get real! It was consensual sex, not rape.
Ray77063 1 month ago
@Ray77063 She could have? Clearly you know nothing of the dynamics that a man's power can play in a relationship. She very clearly stated in the letter that she said "no no no" and that he IGNORED this and kept going, so, knowing that he wasn't going to stop, she gave up. That is not consent, not even close.
I feel bad for any woman you encounter, because you clearly do not understand consent and think you have a right to a woman's body. Please educate yourself.
jessaymack 1 month ago 7
@jessaymack She did? I stand corrected! There is no excuse for any person to force him/herself on any other person. I believe I was in the fifth grade when I learned that "no" means "no". Remember those shirts that read , "What part of "no" don't you understand?" I have responded in ignorance. I am *truly* sorry. The fact that she withdrew consent really does change everything.
Ray77063 1 month ago
@jessaymack No, ma'am, it's NOT consent by a long shot! I apoligize. Please see my longer apology on your profile page. I have been an idiot!
Ray77063 1 month ago
you tube will flag his videos and they will not ban his account because he makes youtube a ted bit richer
youngrelleus19 1 month ago
Preach, Girl! :D
RavenTiger13 1 month ago
Thank you. *claps*
Cassandrabellex 1 month ago
oh shit, he said he hasn't read a fucking book in like, EIGHT YEARS? and he wants to be regarded as some beacon of wisdom? wayyy too busy on the internet. 3:56, people should be as up-in-arms about that as they are the "funny she wants to claim the right to say no" comment. that people are defending this nimrod... oh fuck... brain is... shutting... down... ..................
ReturnToAus 1 month ago 2
i really wanna slap him in the face!
caseyb889 1 month ago
Damn ...i relly dislike Greg now
Aneuecinema 1 month ago
*Standing ovation*
OiseauBleuism 1 month ago
Well said!, particularly the warning to him at the end, which one can only hope he will see & take heed of, unfortunately I don't think it's in his nature to listen to anyone other than the egotistical voice in his own head, personally I think the guy is genuinely twisted, totally irresponsible & potentially dangerous ( hate to sound dramatic ) but to some of his younger viewers.
He knows his subs, mostly comprising of 13 to 17 year old girls, half his age many of them.
The guy is an idiot.
PiskieBenWa 1 month ago
Max Hardcore is a rapist.
Hugo Schwyzer is a rapist.
sWeepingsAnd 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
He is a dick.
Cammie1999 1 month ago
@infidel1978 I believe that the crisis of unwanted pregnancies is directly related to slut shaming. If men and women are too ashamed to buy contraceptives and learn how to use them correctly, they wind up pregnant. If they're not being taught this stuff in schools and by their parents thanks to abstinence only education, they're not being protected. Honest and non-judgmental dialogue and education is the first step in preventing pregnancies. Shame only makes people act irrationally.
jessaymack 1 month ago
@jessaymack Common example: A girl doesn't bring a condom because the guy will think she's a slut. She's not on birth control because she's afraid to ask her mom. After sex she's too ashamed to get the morning after pill. She freaks out when she becomes pregnant and tries to hide it instead of seeking an abortion in time. Then it's too late, she winds up with an unwanted baby. All of this could've been prevented had she not been raised ashamed of natural sexual urges and taught what to do.
jessaymack 1 month ago 8
Perfect!
cosmosspring 1 month ago
But really thank you so much for creating this level headed educated video, you're education and eloquence are clearly shown in this footage and I can only hope that people will educate themselves and take a stand like you have. You're a prime example of why a good education is essential in this country and something Onision is clearly in need of.
buddhachicxo 1 month ago 4
amazing and very well spoken!
SpiderKittin 1 month ago
Preach!
buddhachicxo 1 month ago
Awesome! This is such a huge issue that I see and experience all too often. Too many men look at women as objects for their sexual pleasure and they are all so afraid to admit it because, they either legitimately don't realize the error in their ways, or it would hurt their sense of pride. Sad.
haleyjwilson91 1 month ago
A+ Posted this on tumblr♥
xRavenxRiotx 1 month ago
This is ALL SO RIGHT ON THE DOUBLE STANDARD, Comment from A MAN.
This guy is a stupid punk ass.
february17able 1 month ago 14
Good video and Onision is a fucking douche.
Jimb0can 1 month ago
Excellent video!
kelliko70 1 month ago
Slut shaming, victim blaming, and rape apology = Feminist nonsense.
leostomicek 1 month ago
@infidel1978 sounds like you and onision should go trolling together, that would be so adorable.
jacpizza36 1 month ago 5
He sounds right.If women want go around sleeping about remember they get pregnant and we the taxpayer is being left with the bill.In the UK we're CUTTING child benefit so women keep your knickers on.
infidel1978 1 month ago
@infidel1978 there is this thing called birth control, and both parties in a sexual relationship have the right to think with the brains and not their genitals and protect themselves. it takes two to tango, buddy.
SpiderKittin 1 month ago
@SpiderKittin Yeah well the message is not getting through
infidel1978 1 month ago
beautifully said
alefaye 1 month ago
Incredibly well said.
BunnyHeadWounds 1 month ago
Solid deconstruction. Thank you for this video response and pleased to meet you.
@~>~~
Divinity33372 1 month ago
I find it hard to believe that anything Onision does is real, especially when I see him doing things like his latest slut shame video.
endthedisease 1 month ago
this is my concern as well. i hope he can see this and why he is wrong.
defusedplanet 1 month ago