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  • I met this guy 8 months ago... we spent as much time as we can together... on top of that we work together.... suddenly. Its getting to that boiling point with me. And I just cant seem to let it go.... thing is i know what he wants and i know what i want but i cant help my feeelings for him all the time. ITS SO COMPLICATED!!

  • This was my favorite song when I was a kid! And I still Love it. xoxo

  • I remember feeling this way when I fell for my best friend. I was so worried he wouldn't feel the same way. Now years later, I look back on it and smile. I am so happy that I took a chance! We are happily married with our first child on the way. I love this song! It brings back so many memories <3

  • I super duper love this song

  • ya this is very easy to relate to right now. i didnt mean to like her but sometimes you cant choose it just happens. and now i want to talk about it but i dont want her to run cause i still want to see her but i dunno im totally fucked.

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  • Falling for a friend isn't the worst of your problems. What if you fell for your brother's best friend, the one who thinks that you hate each other? Welcome to my world.

  • It's been awhile since i heard this, i needed this.

  • If you hit dislike you never fell for your friend, and with that I say, good for you. It saves you the anguish of potentially ruining a wonderful friendship

  • i've loved one of my best friends for two years, just when i was getting the courage to tell him how i feel, he gets a girlfriend. this song is my anthem right now.

  • I love this song. the lyrics always stay in my head cause I remember how well they explain a situation I've been in too many times.

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  • This song has become my theme song. Fits my situation perfect.

  • I told one of my best friends that i was in love with him.....and i dont regret a minute of telling him. He told me he doesnt like me like that, but it doesnt matter to me, i love him, and we are closer now then we have ever been. <3 KMC

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  • this song gave me chills and hope. i'm going to tell her how i feel tomorrow. i've been planning on it for a while and this song gave me reassurance. just need to let go...

  • JohniiProductions just tell her how you feel let her know...if you lose her theres always someone different for you<3 thats how i got my ex boyfriend i told him how i felt and he felt the same way...just tell her

  • @laceyilyeric Thanks for the encouragement. Im goin to ask tomorrow, and ill give yu an update

  • If only she could take a hint.. It's killin me not knowin how things could be. But, if I were too express my feelings, I might lose her :( Sometimes it's better to be safe than to lose something impoortant

  • This song describes me and this guy perfectly . We're both so shy so we don't talk to each other . It's like I want to "hold him close but push him away" at the same time . It's complicated .

  • I think everyone has been there.......sooner or later it happens......and its hard........but then so is life and every scar we get, every hole in the heart is earned......5 years and my memory still stings, but you learn that a life well lived is filled with those kinds of memories

  • @lovemusicgirl93 That is EXACTLY how I feel, and it sucks. I find him just so perfect, one of the only people I truely trust, he just understands, but I donèt know how he feels about me. Especially when I know of one OTHER girl he does like. It hurts so much but I still like him. Ily C.A.

  • @Canaboy12

    Avril Lavigne is an awesome performer. You are just way too opinionated! quit bashing people you will never live up to.

  • I had a friend.... we were best friends for a whole year. then she started lying uncontrollably. I was going through a hard time when we became friends, and she was my perfect remedy. then she wasnt the same. she dyed her hair and changed her additude. we were zoned for different schools and this song describes our relationship. also another friend who is still in my life.

  • i have the same probelem girl, a lot of girls do, not just girls guys do to...all i can say is give your heart some time to heal before you take on level again, it helps alot. And always be true to yourself, and never dought your self for one min.

  • i love this song, i just got of a realtionship, and this reminds me of a guy, that i like a work, and i dont know if he feels the same way about me. i want to tell him, but then i dont, cause i dont want to get hurt again, so its complicated! lol/

  • This song describes exactly how i feel. I really like my best guy friend, i want him to know but then again i dont. I love him, and he'll never know because it's comlicated. Nobody knows how I feel, but everyone tells us to date and tells me he likes me, but I don't want to ask him out because What if his answer isn't yes. They tell me he talks about me but I just dont know. It's so complicated, I'm so frustrated. <3 ily ca

  • @countrymusicgirli I have the same issue, and I also have no clue what to do and I'm so scared and I can't stop thinking about him. Only no one has told me whether or not he likes me and so I have no clue and my life will suck and be ruined if I tell him and he doesn't feel the same.

  • @countrymusicgirli I feel the exact same way. But no one has told me whether or not he likes me and his friendship means a lot to me and I'm so scared that he doesn't feel the same, but on the flipside, what if he does and is afraid for the same reason???? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

  • I did told her everything and her answer wasn't yes and now a lost my best friend.

    Think of her everyday since i miss her :(

  • i LOVE this song. and it really relates to me so

  • OMG OMG OMG I USED TO LOVE THIS SONG!!!!!!!! WOW it was another lifetime

  • wow i've never found a song that discribes like your EXACT frustrations! like yu wanna tell him but then yur such great friends and he might like yu but he might not and yu might lose the friendship and then ppl always say "Say what yu need to say" dont miss chances, take a chance but if yu screw up everything? luv this song for tht<3 Oh i want yu to know...but then agian i dont.....

  • she's sexy in a girl next door kind of way....

  • this is me and my friend...well i told her. life is good

  • This is a very good and sweet song. I can totally relate to it. I just wish the video was better tho. I believe it could've been presented in far better way.

  • @lensrose I agree :)..the video is not as good as the song :).

  • @lensrose I was so lucky but my ch/hs sweet heart's sis got in the way

  • Love this song!!

  • I remember trying to find the only country station in ny ( no more) just so I can listen to these ladies from country. She's really good.

  • lol my mom was like what does the music sheets flying all over have to do with the song :D

  • @xXnickjonascrazy16Xx Oh, my mom used to say that to all the music videos!

  • @OutfieldAngel1969 haha mom's are wierd lol

  • @xXnickjonascrazy16Xx lol i think they're suppose to be what she wants to say to the guy, trying to find the right words, which words should i say, then you're stuck and not sure if the words are right then your frustrated ^_^ lol

  • @Amberoura i guess lol my mom was funny though :D

  • @xXnickjonascrazy16Xx lol hehehe yeah true ^_^

  • nice story :) i have met powerpuff girls by the way, Tina [Buttercup], Maddi [Bubbles] and Shelby [Blossom], since then i believe that im a real Mojo Jojo :)

  • i LOVE this song. It's so try to life. Met my fiance when I was 12, and "we used to laugh we used to hug like old friends", and then love blossomed at 18!! I'm 24 now and this song still makes me smile when I think of young love!!!

  • Why and the hell do some people make things so hard?

    What happened to the day when boy meet girl, boy and girl like each other and they start a relationship.

  • i need advice...i always back out of relationships because im scared that what happened too my mom in high school will happen too me..and some guys ive backed out on would never do that too me..i need too stopp..love is a amazing feeling but i run away everytime..

  • Someone has to be the brave one in the starting of the relationship.

    I have recently tried twice and it appears I am going to lose out on both.

    I will keep trying there has to be one lady who is not scared to show what they feel in there heart.

  • My friends always say, "Oh you so love each other." I still deny it. This song says it all.

  • It's always so complicated and nerve recking in the beginning ^^

    but once it's out, the world would be covered with fresh colorful flowers, and skies with sparkly stars and everything would resemble heaven :)

  • I heard this song for the first time in Years! in choir today.

  • Since I was 12 this song has been my #1 song of all time. It just fits so perfectly.

  • This is a good song.

  • I kinda know what you're going through lilmaggie... I've got a friend who I have feelings for but doesn't exactly share the same for me. She's made it clear many times that she doesn't feel that way about me. It still hurts to see her go from boyfriend to boyfriend and get hurt along the way. I'm still there for her though.

  • thats good that ur still got her back.its realy nice :)

  • good song=))

  • this so is amazing i have a crush on this boy but we have been best friends for 6 years and out of no were i have this huge crush on him and i want to tell him but i dont want to because i dpont want to ruin are friendship it so complicated.....well give me your advice what shold i do tell him or not????? thank you for all of your help it means a lot

  • That puts you between a rock and a hard place. I would tell him. You can't let opportunities pass you by. Life is short, so don't wait. If it doesn't work out, then it wasn't meant to be. When one door closes another one opens.

  • thanks for ur advice and im gonna tell him

  • i told him and he said no and now that is did tell him he has not talked to me,looked at me,picked up the phone when i called him,or replyed to any of my txts.I dont know what to do.Now i hav no1 to talk to because he was my only bff all my other friends ditched on me.I HATE LIFE :(

  • Sorry to hear that. It's never easy to lose a friendship. Nontheless, if he is acting this way, then he isn't being a good friend at all. If he doesn't feel the same way you do, he should at least give you the respect to at least talk to you. Its one thing to not feel the same way as you do, but to disregard your feelings is not a nice thing. Since he is acting this way....then he doesn't deserve you.

  • Nice little country song. Carolyn is a Canadian by the way.

    We have some great musicians up here.

  • wow this song is the story of my life at the moment...sigh.

  • Agreed...I am in love with my best friend from college...and he loves me...but we can never be together...it's sooo complicated...

  • this song reminds me of a friendship that I so desperately wanted to become MORE....thank God we never took that road. We are the best of friends now and I wouldnt have it any other way.

  • I really relate to this song...

  • wow this is such a good song!

  • I use to love this song when it came out but then I have discovered how evil women can be in relationships. haha. I prefer songs by ACDC now days!

  • This came out when I was in college and I had such a crush in the guy who lived in my hall. We were friends and I think he liked me but he didn't know I liked him too. I never said anything and I always regretted that!

    I've never wanted to be seen as weak or vulnerable in anyway so I never opened up.

    Lesson learned!

  • What lesson did you learn? To open up? Be Expressive of your love?

  • this song is just so peacefully, and understanding

  • love this song! its exactly how i feel right now.

  • So I told my friend how i felt and she turned me away she told me we would always be friends ,but it was too much for me and now we haven't spoken in over a year. I feel bad and at times I hate her but it was better than holding it in all that time. Letting go is not easy but I'm doing it and I'll be ok.

  • @free2scry Sucks dude...other fish in the sea. My other isnt talking to me cause my big mouth said something bout weight. Its not the same without her. Somethings just missing in my life and she completes it.

  • @free2scry I Did The Same Thing..................... Then Everytime I See Her I Runaway.

  • @free2scry yea i'm bisexual and i told my friend i'm bisexual and at first i thought he wouldn't wanna be friends but he does

  • @free2scry I had a similar situation, she left me for some guy who didn't treat her right.. But I waited and was patient, and when the moment was right I asked her for coffee and we've been together for a year in august. Keep your optimism up and look for your chance.

  • @free2scry I just put my friend on the spot this week. I asked her if there was anything she wanted to tell me.

    You know how like you asked me(okay she just said I wanna go see a movie, & told me what time) to go see a movie.

    She hasn't responded to my texts or calls.

    In the past I've told her that we should date.

    I hope you have a wonderful girlfriend, fiancee, wife, who wants to be with you.

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  • you can say that again, this song made her lots of money but the 9/11 thing almost blew it out of the water financially i reckon....

  • Carolyn Dawn Johnson isn't makng alot of music right now! She's taking care of her new baby daughter and Being a mom

  • wow.. I LOVE THIS SONG!!! i just heard it this morning on CMT and i just HAD to look it up!!! it sounds JUST LIKE ME!!! =D

  • this song has a very strong memory of my past love story :)

  • this song beats the crap out of avril lavigne's cynical meanderings..

  • this song is the story of me and my oldest friend it took me years to tell her that i was in love with her of coarse by the time i told her (by giving her the lyrics of this song )it was too late but it was a relief to finally let go of it last time i saw her she was planning her wedding about four/five years ago but what if?

  • any of u single chicks can delight in my essence...... just say so..j/k good song!

  • I have LOVED this song since it first came out....love love love it!!!!!

  • i love this song..... its so beautiful.

  • I love this song....it says exactly what I want to say to one of my ex's.....don't ask why one of my ex's cause it's a long story....if you really want to know then ask and I';ll write a message with the story but I warn you now...it'll be a long e-mail...

  • i feel you just read what i just posted that's my story i'd like to hear/read yours btw her name was erica and she married another old friend of mine she started seeing him a few weeks before i finally told her that i love her d"oh!

  • sure why not... wanna see if there is someone that feels my pain

  • This song is is basically describes my life hahaha i love this song

  • she looks like a blonde version of alexa vega

  • i never heard of her before

  • Very Beautiful song & video !!! Love It !!!

  • It's a nice song Dennis. Thanks for sharing! Hope you have a great weekend! Diane 5*****

  • Its a really weird music video but i love the song!!

  • Fabulas thanks for the share Dennis

    happy weekend Dee

  • thanks friend for this beautiful song!! greetings to you

  • I am sorry to see that she does not have a large following. Are there any plans for another album?

  • hahah country videos are always the same

    This is a great song though!

  • when is her new song coming out bcuz ii am in 1 of her music vidz the ws filmed like november 2007 and it isnt coming out! ive been waiting but still not coming!

  • awesome video i love this video oh well this isnt him this a oyung friend whooo

  • lame lame lame lame video

  • i like the part where shes pulling herself...its like shes telling herself to COME ON LETS TELL HIM!and the other part say NO DONT!

  • pretty much everyone relates to this song, including me. but all i gotta say is be aggressive! i'm going to try...so can you!

  • I WUV YOU!!!!! You give me hope. You ARE forgiven.

  • Forgiven?

  • cool

  • love this song

  • This song reminds me of the guy that I asked to marry me.. He said no... ( I think I might have scared him when popped the ring box out of my pants pocket and got down on my knee ) I still miss him and now even more so now that he is getting married in a few months time to a woman...

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  • i dont get the video, but i love the song

  • It wouldn't do me any good to confess to how i still feel. I'd just get shot down again. Were still friends .....but!

  • This was me. Eventually I told her, and she turned me down... still love her though, but I won't tell her again. So back to square 1.

  • That's good you told her. I've done that, I've told my best friend I liked him, and he just avoids the subject.

  • i love this song i can relate to this like 100% with me and my ex and i really wanna tell him but i just cant find the nerve to say anything :[

  • wow. this song relates to me and my best friend breaking up. we were just friends

  • ok so i completely relate 100% to this song. like being in love wiht your best friend and nobody knowing...eats me alive sometimes. but this video makes so since....

  • I know what you mean, kills me.

  • im not so sure of the vid but i love this song so much i love it love it

  • i think alot of people feel this way.

    I know i do.

  • geez, story of my life.

  • i hear ya.

  • Carolyn Dawn Johnson is my cousin!

  • seriously? or is that just a joke?

  • what does that mean......that this song is a joke. its a story of life......bitch

  • what? i was just asking her if caroyn dawn johnson is her cousin.

    this song isnt a joke, i love this song.

    sorry if that came across the wrong way.

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  • sry you need to be more pacific. :-) SRY

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  • thats alrighttt, i`ll be more specific next time

  • you know this would be a perfect song for a gay guy who likes another guy but doesn't know if they are gay or like them back, also the line" I'd wish you just confess, but think of what I'd be losing if your answer wasn't yes" those lyrics are perfect for this situation.

  • yer an ass!!

  • sadly im goin through this for the first time and she basicly outright told me that i could never be more than a brother figure to her. im heartbroken and never actually asked her out

  • well maybe. but i think that shes not good as actress. because when i listen to her song i imagine much better video. x

  • I think the video is perfect for the song. The room is her mind, the papers are her random thoughts...and she is conflicted about what she wants to do...demonstrated by pulling herself in different directions. It's simple and pretty and I love it :o)

  • Like the song...but the video doesn't really seem to fit it very well.

  • this music is very beautiful!

  • this song tells my story exactly of the best friend that became so much more to me</3

  • How's it working out? There is a quote that says that love is friendship on fire.....great image, hey?

  • Wow, I really like that. Thanks for sharing:)

    ..And ha, sorry i took months to answer lol. Don't ever really comment on here:P

    But, eh, same old same. Okay, not really. He's changed into someone I don't even know anymore.. gettin' into drugs and alcohol:/ But, I know God's gonna change him && the boy I used to know is gonna come back..I'm never givin' up on him. God is faithful&hearts;

  • damn i know how you feel here...

    my friend (who i just have to like) is a really good person, but he started hanging out with the wrong people, and got into the same things... weed, alcohol.

    he's different when we're with everyone else.

    good luck with your friend <3

  • From 2001. I am a fan of her work and this song!

  • i kinda like this song its pretty good and its really touching (ive never said that about any song)

  • thus sing totally discribes what i'm going through at the moment, every single line of the song i can relate to!

  • hey u guys might not believe this but im in 1 one of her videos tht aint out yet she filmed it like last november and i ws 9 then im 10 now and it wqs suppose 2 come out b4 christmas but irt neva did so i think it will come out pretty soon i hope i think the song ws called i wouldnt rather spend christamas n e otha way i hope it comes out soon

  • i kinda sorta believe it. when the video comes out, make a video pionting u out in the vid for proof cause i don't think ppl will believe u

  • Love this song !

  • Whatever happend to her? I used to love her songs. Now she went POOF.

  • I know. I thought she was going to be really big. I miss her!

  • same thing 4 me except the pathetic part is that the guy i like is not my friend, which makes a little more complicated/hard because OF MY FEELINGS!

    Anyway i love this song

  • Its the same for me. This guy I like isnt even my friend, we are somewhat associates. Im in the fan club for the team he plays for. Yes, he is a pro athelete, but not like they are in the US. They are normal folks here, somewhat, so I see him all the time. But what the heck do I say to let him know how I feel? Even though he is on my facebook too, I just dont know what to say. I have a bf and he has a gf, so this song is perfect, "Think of what Id be losing if your answer wasnt yes."

  • i know what you mean i have him in most of my classes so i see him everyday which makes me more frustrated, because i keep on thinking about how he feels about me and stuff. You know.

    in my opinion u should like be patient. be with your bf and see what happens, u might like ur bf more than him. it will all get better in time. I hope

    good luck!

  • Thanks! Yeah, I decided last night that I was just going to go with the flow. My bf and I are fine right now, so why mess things up right? And if something is meant to be it'll happen. At least thats what everyone tells me! Good Luck to you too!! I know its hard to concentrate in class when the guy you love is right there....and yet so far away. Maybe try to strike up a friendship, you never know from there what it could lead to!!!

  • thanks

    ya i'll try, your right, but one problem i'm shy so i have to work on that.!

    good luck to you too.

  • ...what do you mean "not like in the U.S.?

  • Well in the US, the pro atheletes are unaccessible it seems!! They make a lot of money and arent just normal citizens you know what I mean. Like A-rod or Kobe Bryant. Well the atheletes here are just your guys next door. They hang at the same clubs we do, they buy their food at the same stores and they live in normal little old apts. They dont make alot of money at all!! lol So even thought they are more accessible to talk to, its still hard to talk to them bc they are popular.

  • omg me 2 :@

  • yes... so complicated

    this song is what happening to me...

    love this song much...

  • Wow, this song is perfect right now! Think of what I'd be losing when I already got somebody. And what if this other guy, who I shouldnt be loving anyway says no? Wow, it is so complicated! Thanks for such a great song CDJ! Its great knowing other women are expericing the same things. What do we do???

  • this is so whats happening to me. beautiful song...

  • this is so what im going through?

  • yes it's true !!! this song is my life... I love so much...

  • two words for this song,,,,,love and passion,

  • i liked this guy a year ago, and this song described exactly how i felt. now i like him again, and this song has been stuck in my head the whole time. good thing i love this song, i think i'll be liking him a while!!