I really admire you, and you are who you want to be, I would be with you , anytime. About smoking?? QUIT!!! I,m older , a lot older I quit 17 yrs ago, and it,s the best thing I ever did, and don,t get too down, , I don,t know oyu, but I care
Please stop smoking !!!!!!!!!! This is not good for your hormones intake and not good for your facial skin. You are only 28 years old if you keep goning you will have a 70 year old face. You are lucky to have a femenine face don't loose it.
Al my god !!!! Dear with or without the hat You still look like a female. Practices on your voice. Your facial features are looking very good as time goes on.
hey there, hope you are well!! i think you are wonderful, so please, stop putting yourself down!! who cares about what they think as long as you are who you want to be!! remember, you're beautiful no matter what they say, in every single way ;)
we all go through mood swings being on HRT and so do genitic females its part of being a womyn. Get use to unfortunataly thats a womyns world. your voice sounds nice but if you think it dosent buy a few of the videos for voice training they help. the comment you said about everyone wanting your money because your a womyn you are rite the media plays to womyn because they know we like to spend money. Get the the apple shaved down its relative cheep.
wound it be nice too take a smoke more soo when stress is more around but on till now no smoke anymore:D..instead i ride my bike alot and breath more easy ..and i was not a big smoker too 5/6 aday going out 8
and about the smoking;) it,s 1 week fysicall discomfore:( after that. it all in the brain/mind .. i no this too as a former smoker. and still from time too time it pops up like ..
I look like crap, not on HRT yet, but... I'm just Jessica at work. Nobody has said ANYTHING that leads me to think they know what I am. My job app was
Name: Jessica C******
Former Name(s): Legal Name Still - Jeffery C******
There was a little confusion with payroll, but even my name badge (aka, security card) says Jessica. I'm expected to follow the women's dress code, use the women's room...
C'mon, a hat doesn't screw with your ability to be a girl.
no no what i was saying is that i be have like a girl the only thing i do for work is where a hat becouse i have to. so ther for if it is not the ((hat)). then it is becouse tay know me as a man.
Good luck with the job & letter & legal name change. I'm confused, how does a hat make you not a woman at work?
Good luck stopping smoking. I'm trying with another friend, we are reading Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking -- it was recommended by a friend and I know three people who could quit with the book and nothing else. Check it out on Amazon, or your local bookstore.
Girl friend, if I did u can too! I changed my name to Kelli, thr M to F, ss card and all. Then I got a job. Being passable is 99% being exceptable and you will be fine. It is difficult to understand, but be proud when you are made, be proud of yourself and your friends!
Wow, I was just like that when I quit Smoking... It gets so much better after a 2 weeks. Then you start to get all of your sences back, and that is really cool, cause you never even realize that they're gone?
What helped me quit smoking was the patch. It makes it super easy. The thing with the patch is because the patch is worn 24 hours a day and smoking on it would make you sick. Makes the process simple and kills cravings. Good Luck!
All those moments of 'passing' you cite: they're real. More importantly, the only thing any of us can ever 'pass' as, truly, is ourselves. The rest is abstractions and constructions. BE who you ARE. You look and sound fine because you look and sound genuine. The doubts and worries are something you will need to work through - but that IS the work of transition, and continues well past 'passing'. It is the process of becoming completely, wholly, one's 'self'. Do that and the rest will follow.
you sound fine :) you look good even with the hat. The people that work in those places could give too ****s if you buy the stuff there selling or not. lol
YOu have courage, and have a lot going for you, we wish you the best. You are very pretty and pass . Your so lady like, so stay positive. We love you.
There is nothing wrong with being visibly gender variant. One will always possess the psychological and physical vestiges of their gentetic gender, especially for mtfs. The sooner you accept not blending with genetic women, the better you will feel.
another thing to remember is that alot of doctors like Marcy Bowers for one, will not perform srs on a smoker and quitting will drastically increase your body's ability to heal itself and reduce your chances of complications postop during the healing stages
And in any case, referring to the example you gave, I think it's better that someone thinks of you as a transgender rather then a boy in a dress.
As for sales clerks and waiters wanting your money, well it's like that for everybody. It's called costumer service. They're hoping for commission and tips. LOL! Although some people just don't care. This taxi driver kept calling me sir while I was dressed. However, I've had the opposite with a driver hitting on me. ^-^
Poor girl! You still have one week to go of fighting the cravings. Your half way there so keep a it. ( Ganbate ne! ^-^ )
As for passing, well I heard somewhere that is 50% looks and 50% feeling. ( Not sure about the percentage though. ) If you feel completely like a woman inside, then it will show and help you with your passing. But somehow I think you knew that already.
the main thing that helped me quit is a meditation tape "Super Stop Smoking" its part of the Love Tapes series. You can find them at Barnes and Noble and Borders. They are also on CD. Meditation is good for an overall body, mind and soul boost.
I truly don't remember the last day i quit, I think it was around two years ago. think of all the money you'll both save.
Also, I suggest trying to drink Ginger Tea, and other teas..LOts of it...Ginger has many benefits..It helps with stomach upset and digestion..Also, an analgesic..I used to smoke and have a drinking porblem, but Ive been clean for a couple of months now..Its not easy but you can do it..I still crave a cigg when from time to time..Thats normal..
Congrats on quitting smoking. Also, I have heard you talk about that job enough to know that you can and will do better! I understand your being nervous about the next big step, but I can't help but be optimistic and think you are ready. Go Aire!
hey no worries u sound good an you are very passable i wld nvr be able to tell if i had have heard u explain who you are when i started watching your videos so good luck an cheer up
Surely the measure of living full time in work isn't that you have to wear a skirt or anything in particular. It is that you dress as a woman, and women wear trousers, and baseball hats for uniform. The name change and functioning in your job as a woman are about it, or am I missing something?
aw aire, i always love watching ur vlogs! it's great to know that im not alone (well, ok, im not transgendered, but my gf is <3) i really hope u feel better soon. as u know, ur not alone in your struggles.
oh and congrats on quitting smoking - srsly, it's a good move!
I really admire you, and you are who you want to be, I would be with you , anytime. About smoking?? QUIT!!! I,m older , a lot older I quit 17 yrs ago, and it,s the best thing I ever did, and don,t get too down, , I don,t know oyu, but I care
singleguy1946 1 year ago
hy arianna what is the flavour of the lolli
soepkip666 2 years ago
you are very beauitful
Hollowman1985 3 years ago
o.o
sorry I'm confused..
are you a guy or a girl?
Nightmare60x 3 years ago
Stay strong, hun! Having the strength to post the true you on Youtube you can quit. Ride that bike you have behind you, sweetie.
Estrodile 3 years ago
aaahh yeah quitting is gonna be hard T_T
DionMcSomebody 4 years ago
Please stop smoking !!!!!!!!!! This is not good for your hormones intake and not good for your facial skin. You are only 28 years old if you keep goning you will have a 70 year old face. You are lucky to have a femenine face don't loose it.
rosietransy 4 years ago
Al my god !!!! Dear with or without the hat You still look like a female. Practices on your voice. Your facial features are looking very good as time goes on.
rosietransy 4 years ago
hey there, hope you are well!! i think you are wonderful, so please, stop putting yourself down!! who cares about what they think as long as you are who you want to be!! remember, you're beautiful no matter what they say, in every single way ;)
xx
emiliasgonestrange 4 years ago
Hello Aire,
we all go through mood swings being on HRT and so do genitic females its part of being a womyn. Get use to unfortunataly thats a womyns world. your voice sounds nice but if you think it dosent buy a few of the videos for voice training they help. the comment you said about everyone wanting your money because your a womyn you are rite the media plays to womyn because they know we like to spend money. Get the the apple shaved down its relative cheep.
Hugs Lynda
lyndagrl 4 years ago
hahahaaa you were sooo funny in the end white the lolly in your mounth and mombeling somthing lol okeee byyy :D
donri07 4 years ago
okeee hope you like my feedback again ;)well and have a nice day..and a lot off luck in getting a new job girl!! peace8love moi:D
donri07 4 years ago
wound it be nice too take a smoke more soo when stress is more around but on till now no smoke anymore:D..instead i ride my bike alot and breath more easy ..and i was not a big smoker too 5/6 aday going out 8
donri07 4 years ago
and about the smoking;) it,s 1 week fysicall discomfore:( after that. it all in the brain/mind .. i no this too as a former smoker. and still from time too time it pops up like ..
donri07 4 years ago
hi there girl .and don,t worry too match it will work out in the end ..and cherisch what you do have right now:) instead off the down point,s
donri07 4 years ago
I look like crap, not on HRT yet, but... I'm just Jessica at work. Nobody has said ANYTHING that leads me to think they know what I am. My job app was
Name: Jessica C******
Former Name(s): Legal Name Still - Jeffery C******
There was a little confusion with payroll, but even my name badge (aka, security card) says Jessica. I'm expected to follow the women's dress code, use the women's room...
C'mon, a hat doesn't screw with your ability to be a girl.
SonicJMC 4 years ago
no no what i was saying is that i be have like a girl the only thing i do for work is where a hat becouse i have to. so ther for if it is not the ((hat)). then it is becouse tay know me as a man.
aire420 4 years ago
Oooohhh... Tell Tay to shut the hell up!
SonicJMC 4 years ago
I'm confused. How's the hat making you not full time?!
SonicJMC 4 years ago
Good luck with the job & letter & legal name change. I'm confused, how does a hat make you not a woman at work?
Good luck stopping smoking. I'm trying with another friend, we are reading Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking -- it was recommended by a friend and I know three people who could quit with the book and nothing else. Check it out on Amazon, or your local bookstore.
gothique11 4 years ago
Girl friend, if I did u can too! I changed my name to Kelli, thr M to F, ss card and all. Then I got a job. Being passable is 99% being exceptable and you will be fine. It is difficult to understand, but be proud when you are made, be proud of yourself and your friends!
kelligirl2007 4 years ago
your realy pretty
i hope everthing goes well
adrienne200 4 years ago
Wow, I was just like that when I quit Smoking... It gets so much better after a 2 weeks. Then you start to get all of your sences back, and that is really cool, cause you never even realize that they're gone?
^_^
Degga1313 4 years ago
What helped me quit smoking was the patch. It makes it super easy. The thing with the patch is because the patch is worn 24 hours a day and smoking on it would make you sick. Makes the process simple and kills cravings. Good Luck!
Charlotte
karmatic1110 4 years ago
All those moments of 'passing' you cite: they're real. More importantly, the only thing any of us can ever 'pass' as, truly, is ourselves. The rest is abstractions and constructions. BE who you ARE. You look and sound fine because you look and sound genuine. The doubts and worries are something you will need to work through - but that IS the work of transition, and continues well past 'passing'. It is the process of becoming completely, wholly, one's 'self'. Do that and the rest will follow.
unmeasuredinstances 4 years ago
you'll be only 4 hours(or less) away! I'm in Des Moines, IA
yurchardonnay 4 years ago
you sound fine :) you look good even with the hat. The people that work in those places could give too ****s if you buy the stuff there selling or not. lol
thesharkof98 4 years ago
Aire :) Hi beautiful! I agree with what pigpen7471 said, I think you look very feminine with the hat on. You're full time at work I'd have to say.
Talk to you later,
~Jamie
fiddlejamie 4 years ago
YOu have courage, and have a lot going for you, we wish you the best. You are very pretty and pass . Your so lady like, so stay positive. We love you.
yknip123 4 years ago
There is nothing wrong with being visibly gender variant. One will always possess the psychological and physical vestiges of their gentetic gender, especially for mtfs. The sooner you accept not blending with genetic women, the better you will feel.
cleric8926 4 years ago
Have you thought of a tracheal shave?
Good luck on quitting the habit! Atleast you're over the three-day hump. For the mean time, I recommend ice cream. Lost and lots of ice cream.
I hope things don't get too bumpy for you guys in Omaha.
fugazi0311 4 years ago
i dont think she is after my money if so she could milk it for a nother year if she wonted.
aire420 4 years ago
oh yeah i also read somewhere that nicotine, caffiene, and chocolate all reduce the effects of estrogen, another good reason to quit
apriltg 4 years ago
another thing to remember is that alot of doctors like Marcy Bowers for one, will not perform srs on a smoker and quitting will drastically increase your body's ability to heal itself and reduce your chances of complications postop during the healing stages
apriltg 4 years ago
And in any case, referring to the example you gave, I think it's better that someone thinks of you as a transgender rather then a boy in a dress.
As for sales clerks and waiters wanting your money, well it's like that for everybody. It's called costumer service. They're hoping for commission and tips. LOL! Although some people just don't care. This taxi driver kept calling me sir while I was dressed. However, I've had the opposite with a driver hitting on me. ^-^
PaulPoru 4 years ago
Poor girl! You still have one week to go of fighting the cravings. Your half way there so keep a it. ( Ganbate ne! ^-^ )
As for passing, well I heard somewhere that is 50% looks and 50% feeling. ( Not sure about the percentage though. ) If you feel completely like a woman inside, then it will show and help you with your passing. But somehow I think you knew that already.
PaulPoru 4 years ago
the main thing that helped me quit is a meditation tape "Super Stop Smoking" its part of the Love Tapes series. You can find them at Barnes and Noble and Borders. They are also on CD. Meditation is good for an overall body, mind and soul boost.
I truly don't remember the last day i quit, I think it was around two years ago. think of all the money you'll both save.
podcastbard 4 years ago
Also, I suggest trying to drink Ginger Tea, and other teas..LOts of it...Ginger has many benefits..It helps with stomach upset and digestion..Also, an analgesic..I used to smoke and have a drinking porblem, but Ive been clean for a couple of months now..Its not easy but you can do it..I still crave a cigg when from time to time..Thats normal..
LookingGlassThecure 4 years ago
Good Luck Aire...I love watching your blogs, its inspiring to me..Please keep up the updates..;)Xo M
LookingGlassThecure 4 years ago
Congrats on quitting smoking. Also, I have heard you talk about that job enough to know that you can and will do better! I understand your being nervous about the next big step, but I can't help but be optimistic and think you are ready. Go Aire!
toddspango 4 years ago
hey no worries u sound good an you are very passable i wld nvr be able to tell if i had have heard u explain who you are when i started watching your videos so good luck an cheer up
Scaredmtf 4 years ago
Surely the measure of living full time in work isn't that you have to wear a skirt or anything in particular. It is that you dress as a woman, and women wear trousers, and baseball hats for uniform. The name change and functioning in your job as a woman are about it, or am I missing something?
AndrogyneMichinaga 4 years ago
aw aire, i always love watching ur vlogs! it's great to know that im not alone (well, ok, im not transgendered, but my gf is <3) i really hope u feel better soon. as u know, ur not alone in your struggles.
oh and congrats on quitting smoking - srsly, it's a good move!
MadameMalaise 4 years ago
i don't see y u say u can't be a woman at work? u look and sound totally fem (WAY MORE THEN ME 4 SURE)looks to me like u already r full time at work.
girls wear hats too u know;p
pigpen7471 4 years ago
Thumbs up to you... I wish you the best and who know months from now or even sooner you'll be helping others with the same dilema
micklo1 4 years ago
You're wonderful! :)
manniefaces 4 years ago