@warwolfii It's not assholes, it's just the most important thing for any woman is a man who cam stand up to them. Usually the 'assholes' are better than the non assholes at doing that.
Women hate weak' men they can't help it, they just test a man to see if he can stand u to her, that's how it works, don't be abusive to them but make sure your the man and you'll get any woman you want within reason.
You don't have to be a total asshole to women, you can be nice, just don't dont be a door mat... At the end of the day, just be yourself just don't be a puss... Thats it.
I think people shouldn't classify all women together...women from other countries/cultures are very different from women from the British commonwealth countries and America. Also, they are different not because they are soo oppressed by men. They are different because their cultures taught them different values...like valuing a partner for their personality, kindness and trustworthyness. American women are taught it is all about the money...and are looking for "dangerous animal" men.
Watch out for code words in online profiles: Looking for gentleman, nice guy, real man. These are all code words women use to find men to take care of them where you pay for it all. Stay single, never co-sign, no marriage, don't let them move in, never lend money, be less interested, meet at bookstores/cafe/park instead of dinner & movies, avoid illegal immigrants (google marriage fraud), avoid long distance women, always wear condoms, invest in your education, listen to Tom Leykis.
"I never had money growing up..." The woman says: "ya... yaa." What does that tell you about her mentality? She tried to present the idea that she is above what other women are after.
the caller said herself she is attacted to masculen and confident men, that is something that nice guys usually arnt seen as. so once again another case of a woman claiming to want a "nice guy" but really wanted someone who will treat her like a piece of ass and take care of her finacially.
@jerlstif The interesting thing is that when I was young I WAS masculine and confident. I just didn't strut around making a fool of myself. I'd meet and hook up with lots of women because of my looks and the fact I was captain of the football team, but when they found out later that I didn't put on a big show of "Type-A Personality" I'd lose out to some fuktard asshole. When I went into the service and spent time in Germany, I did great with the German girls. They were much different.
I think it's possible to be a "nice" guy and still pickup women on a regular basis. The issue is when people say "nice" they often refer to the guy that is sub servant and a walking doormat. That of course isn't attractive to most women. Just like being a real "ass" isn't attractive to a woman with any intelligence or any self esteem. There's a happy medium between the two and I think that's where you'll find the most luck with a quality woman. Confidence and some mystery are the key.
Guys, listen...young women want what they think they want at that moment. Let me clarify: Women will justify any action they commit in a relationship as "romantic" in their mind, whether she just got banged in the front seat of a Toyota or she just got knocked up by a total loser.
What they want, REALLY want, is the proverbial "Dangerous Guy". It's to show, to themselves, that they are not like Mom And Dad. He could be of a different race or of a lower/different social class. It doesn't matter.
I have my issues with Tom Leykis, but one thing is for sure: he tells it EXACTLY like it is in this video clip. It's only when their eggs are about to dry up that the vast majority of women start seeing those "wimpy guys" as worthy, all of a sudden. Guys, there's literally no point in being "nice" to women, there just isn't. Listen to this man, he knows his shit.
I agree with his lifestyle and his philosophy. But in my opinion the way he talks about women seems like he is still pissed off and sees the show as a kind of revenge on women.
This woman is so effin' typical. Most women think they want a nice guy, think they want a sensitive guy and will go to the wall claiming that's what they're after. Fact of the matter is, all they want are ASSHOLES! If they had half a brain they'd admit it and stop trying to present this phony image. They WANT ASSHOLES. And in the very next breath they will complain "All I ever meet are ASSHOLES!" What a joke. What morons.
@warwolfii It is their cultural training...women from Asia and other places want a man they can live with and share life with. American women are trained to be animals...I don't know why anyone would want to marry one, unless they were desperate and had a low self-esteem (actually, that's how it works...the losers marry them and then the wives cheat with the guy with a little more money). The bad boys they want, never want to marry them.
@saintgauden A woman married to a cop just cheated on him with another cop near me. The husband found out and shot the other cop then killed himself. But the cop who got shot lived. Now he can live to date the widow with two surviving kids. She'll probably keep fuckin more guys on the side too and create more trouble down the road. But at least the shot cop knows what's in store. Some wives love fuckin behind hubby's back... Just a head's up.
@warwolfii They don't want assholes, you know nothing about women. They want cocky funny guys who have a backbone and wont take their shit, you also need be a good fuck to keep a woman interested in the long run.
There's a major misunderstanding about the jerk mentality.
Unless she has an emotional investment in you and see's potential for a good boyfriend, you'll get nowhere. Most women will disqualify a jerk before he finishes his first sentence.
The key to being a good player is to start out nice, make a girl feel like she's the only girl in the world...and then withdraw the attention and let her chase you. You have to mix it up.
Never co-sign anything with a woman, never date or marry an illegal immigrant/google marriage fraud, avoid long distance relationships, listen to Tom Leykis, women come and go but a good education last forever, avoid single moms with kids still at home/it's a package deal, always use condoms when having sex, the less attachment to women the less suffering, never buy anything on a first meet up with a woman, the person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship, go dutch.
i have decided to be nice, because most men like mean women too, when i was mean because of the people that hurt me, i had way more men flock towards me, but once i developed self esteem and now that im truely happy, guys dont like me, i dont get it, SMH!
THEY SAY WHEN YOU HEAR IT MORE THAN ONCE ITS TRUE!!! MY GOD IT MUST OF BEEN ATLEAST OVER A THOUSAND I'M THE NICE GUY TYPE. GUESS THATS WHY I SLEEP ALONE AT NIGHT!!!! AND THE BAD BOYS GOT SOMETHING SOFT AND WET TO STICK AND SPRAY THEIR TARTER SAUCE ALL OVER!!!! THANKS TOM!! FROM NOW ON I'LL BE AN ASSHOLE JUST TO SEE WHAT TYPE OF REACTION I GET!!
@KillHoffa don't be so taken by what you hear. It might be tempting to think that because women dont like "nice" we must do the opposite of that. This isnt necessarily true. I say this because being a jerk to a woman will not magically work. What this means is that there is something missing you're not hearing, and that is the "HOW" on how to actually treat a woman. You want my advice? It is not about being NICE or a JERK is about being 'STRONG' and 'WEAK'. A woman will always test you on this..
@riicardo5 she will test you on how you respond, on how u act, walk, and talk. stand up straight, and tease her. Don't be to reacting, stay collected. If she tests you by asking you a question such as 'what are u up to?' never lower your value by saying "im bored". Pretend you're always doing something productive. If she asks too many questions just say, "damn, is this an interview?" (in sarcastic way). You see how this puts you in control? you dont do whatever she says. this is a little secret.
i feel the same way about men. i acted like the "man " in my last relationship. he was "the player" thee"stud" who eventually got played. "sluts" or "whores" ARE chics who think like dicks.... we exist. We get tired of ur shit just like you do ours. once we get fucked over enough, we get smarter and get what we want when we want it. we keep it simple enough and complicated enough. almost all men are pretty typical and almost all men cant handle a women that thinks like a man.
HAHA! Just because you say you think like a man doesn't make it so. I will gladly agree that men and women find typical conflicts between each other based upon self interests. However until you grow your own testicles, produce your own testosterone and get given the same variables as men, you will typically appear out of place. No sensible man would want to hear the mouthy, bigoted and self righteous opinions of a woman who stinks of penis envy.
The biggest difference between men and women is women are emotional thinking creatures and men are logical thinking creatures. That's what all this shit is about!!!
women brain wash little boys into "respecting them".
but women dont respect men, or teach little girls to respect men.
women are pethetic!.... and as the weaker sex they dont deserve mens respect in the slighty.... women hate "nice guys".... and will use them for emotional valadation and then go fuck the hot bad boy, or even if he is not a bad boy, they wull go fuck the guy who does not give them special treatment or respect.
women are sexist by nature.... they beg for special treatment
women do regect nice guys, by nature.... its evolution.... women brain little boys into "respecting them".... also know as "giving them special treatment"
but the fact is, not respecting women gets you laid 10 x's faster.... and 10x as much.
women enjoy being treated like crap... even when they hate it!..... women are screwed up ceatures..... they are desperate to feel better about them slves.... women cant even realize they lie more then men, automacitly, thats what makes them so foolish.
you cant be nice to women.... its simple evolution.
when your nice to women, they tend to treat you like crap.
the secret to women is, treating them like crap works.
the fact is, women have a major gender flaw....they dont know what the hell they are talkimg about.
taking womens advice, about women , is just foolish.... women dont undersand them selves.... respecting women is counter productive on all acounts.... treat women like crap gets you more girls, better looking ones. fact
WOMEN ARE JUST PLAIN STUPID AND NEEDS A FEW KNOCKS IN THE HEAD, WHY WOULD ANYONE WANNA BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE THAT TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP. STUPID, WOMEN NEED LOTS OF HELP AND MOST NEED REHAB. AS ME BEING A GUY I SURE DON'T WANT SOME GIRL TREATING ME LIKE CRAP OR WALKING OVER ME. TOM IS RITE ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME, THEY ALL SAY THE SAME SHIT. I'M 30 AND I ALREADY SEE SOME OF THE OLD HAGS CHASING ME DOWN WHEN I;'M OUT A BAR AND IT'S FUNNY BECAUSE I WONDER HOW THEY USE TO BE WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER!
As I have aged I've become more of self-centered prick with women. Coincidentally, my getting-laid quotient has risen as well. I thank women for educating me on the utility of being a prick; it's a lot less energy-intensive than be nice, caring chump.
It sucks that once the guy truly figures it out, he is no longer the young buck he used to be, and for the most part he aint getting spring chickens either. Wisdom is so wasted on the old!
@ibmsony101 I actually went back to college to fill up some free time, and despite being ancient, one-eyed, and hideous I seemed to be like catnip to the younger women. I could be wrong, but I believe continuous societal feminisation has created a whole generation of girly men than women find unappealing. I suppose the wisdom of not taking them seriously and having absolutely no need for their approval helps. It's weird that the path of least resistence is the correct one.
@thepotatovagina What they call confident women is oftentimes arrogant women. Women who are arrogant because they think that they are a hot thing (even if they are 300 lbs tub of lard) or because they have career success and money are not what most men really want. Then gain, feminism have brainwashed so many young men that you do hear young guys say that they are looking for confident women more often these days.
@thepotatovagina More accurately, confidence appeals to confident people. You don't speak for 'men', you speak for men of the sort who like shy women, probably because you're intimidated by women.
in all the talks i've had with friends, or any men for that matter, i've never once heard any of them say they liked a girl because she was confident. now i come here and see 13 people have given my comment thumbs up. from that we can deduce one of the following:
1) generally, men don't care whether a woman is confident or not
2) generally, men don't like confident women
i think it is no.1., but it is definitely one of the two.
Wtf does a man need a confident woman for, especially if he has his own shit?
Think about it, confidence is a largely (I stress largely) SELF-SERVING attribute. Its not a vocational asset to a relationship. However, trustworthiness, demeanor and overall attractiveness are, simply because they have DIRECT influence over how a relationship begins, progresses and ends.
@WalterLiddy I wouldn't insinuate that. Having a confident partner to some is like a $20 bill you lost in your pocket...cool if its there but you wont miss it if its not. As long as I have my OWN confidence, why do I NEED someone else's? Given I've seen what a partner who lacks confidence is like and it can be annoying as well. However, Im at a stage where I'm solid enough that if someone's lack or abundance of confidence is distracting to the relationship, I end it and start a new one elsewhere
I say whatever a woman wants is fine. If she interprets my kindness as being a wimp and the behavior of an a-hole as being the masculinity she is attracted to, that's her deal. All I can say is that I won't be around to take care of the bad boy's children in a few years when she becomes tired,worn out and dumped on. I have my preferences too, and my preference do not include mentally deranged people who like bad people. Or people who HAVE TO LEARN not to like bad people!That's a big turn off.
Common nice guy fallacy is that they think just because they are being nice you have to reward them with your time and interest. What women like about "bad boys" is that they are themselves they don't try to over please in hope of your love and affection. They just come as they are and most women dig that. They go after what they want and they appear more confident and overwhelming. Nice guys just aren't like that they step too lightly with women at the wrong times.
@TiffyBear I know what you're saying but I see another angle to this. When I go in for a job interview and a job is very important to me, I'm going to make a really good impression. I'm going to dress and act in the best ways I know how. If I don't give a crap about the job or the world around me, I'll act the opposite. Sure, being nice doesn't automatically obligate a woman to reward a guy with interest but if she's always going after jerks, we don't have to think she all too bright either.
@troydeancarpenter How many people go out for jobs do perfect interviews and are shitty workers? That is whats wrong with the making too good of an impression and it leaves little room for mistakes in character. Women start to think what is really wrong with this guy? When ever I do approach dating I'm polite and I just be myself. You can be a nice person and not come off as too nice or a push over. And women who go after jerks might just be bitches who cares who they date?
@TiffyBear I need to address your question. If you are hiring someone for the job, are you going to hire the person who at least tries to make a good impression, or will you take a chance on someone who comes in unshaven, wearing jeans and acting rude?
@troydeancarpenter For the sake of the question I choose the good impression. But, when approaching dating I don't think of it in those terms. I like things to be more natural than that, I don't want being in a relationship with me to feel like a job for someone. And bad boy doesn't necessarily mean they're rude they could be smooth operators and thats why chicks dig them. People forget that a big part of being a bad boy is having charm thats what women fall for, charmers.
@TiffyBear Using a job interview is only an example.Of course you don't want to treat a relationship like a business.I don't think women are stupid though.Charmers can fool you for maybe a few days but not long enough to get into a meaningful relationship. You can generally tell just by his friends or lack of.If being nice and respectful isn't charming, I see that as a mental problem.I could pretend to be a bad boy to spark a woman's interest,but who wants a woman interested in that?
@troydeancarpenter Well yeah, if someone is being too chummy,you can't help but to wonder.Being polite and making a good impression is one thing but being completely fake a pretentious is another thing entirely.As I said before I can totally see and understand what you're saying. I still say there is something wrong when a person doesn't understand that it's common sense when meeting a new person, to be polite and place your best foot forward.
Respect, kindness, sincerity....HA! I have found out for real women DO NOT like these qualities in a man. Yes I am secure. Yes I am confident in who I am as a man and STILL women reject me out-of-hand. Maybe because I live in Florida and am relatively closer to the south end that I'm finding so many self-centered, gold digging and CRASS women! Looks don't matter much, its MONEY, MONEY, MONEY, MONEY! A nice car and a big house as well, love to most women is a myth, sadly.
@BluTrilobite Women seem to be mostly about image.More times than not it seems like men are more like the way they claim they are than women are themselvesFor example,I do believe that men are actually looking for love.I don't think most men have the wam bam thank you ma'am attitude yet it's very common for women to lose interest in a guy after a month or two.Also ironically, a man can get a woman easier if he does pretty much the opposite of what society tells him he's supposed to do!
please... PLEASE MORE MEN NEED TOM LEYKIS BRING HIM BACK IF WOMEN CAN MAKE BOOKS ON HOW TO CONTROL MEN (wtf O.o ignorant much but if a man does the opposite OMFG U SEXIST U TREAT WOMEN LIKE ANIMALS UR A MONSTER as i was saying PLEASE HE IS REVEALING THE TRUTH i think his show ONLY git cancelled because of WOMEN they cant handle the truth and they twist the words he says most women they think ALL -_-*
I swear, when I was younger, I used to think...he's GOTTA be paying people to call in and give these half hearted attempts at debate to make him look right...but you grow a few years and FUCK....Women really are pure emotional idiots..rats...they'll do anything to survive...'looks dont matter to women as much as they do to men' yeah I'm sure they dont-especially when 80 percent of the game for women is just jumping and leeching from man to man til they hit paydirt..and I do mean PAYdirt.
@heavenseek I agree with you. The woman he had on the phone seemed to be genuine, and genuinely disappointed that men were learning to behave in generally antisocial ways because women treat nice guys like shit. I found myself wishing that I could meet her!
It is not just Tom's past, it is the trend with women these days. For the most part, women do not respect men. They said they see men as equal but as soon as the conversation starts, they would blame men and complain about men. We must work on our educational system. This is where women are cookie cut into thinking women have more morals than men and everything from then on is "if men can do this, women can do this better" attitude!
Women are deranged. Just get what you want and leave. Oh, and never sign a birth certificate, never give her your number and never show her where you live and PLEASE wear a condom, women are dirty.
As sad as this may sound, young men need this kind of role model. In doing so, men may regain their self-respect once more and not allow themselves to be clouded over or beguiled by a piece of pu-tang.
No this is the world over every woman is out for them selves, and any Man that thinks differently is a fool. The only way for a man to be themselves is to be indifferent, this woman makes it sound like some taboo to go against chivalry, no but it is against her best interest . There is nothing that should ingratiate a man so that he should pay eternal homage to the female species. I have as much respect for a woman as I would for any wild animal outside My own species. Hunt it, Pop it, Gut it.
90% of what we deem 'normal feminine women' view 'kindness' as weakness, and are more apt to feel unsafe around males who look up to them & kiss their ass.
In a womans irrational reptile mind, she equates a man who delivers the perfect balance of 'kindness' with a tough, mean streak as someone who is capable of protecting / providing for her.
This is hardwired into the female psyche, to ensure she is well protected during her vulnerable child rearing years.
Women are children in adult bodies who value safety & security overall else, thus attaching to men who are stronger & smarter & thus able to protect & provide for them especially during years of child bearing.
A man who is kind yet firm & harsh with a woman is interpreted by a woman as strong & somebody she would look up to (like a strong male school teacher) thus making him a more desirable mate vs his more effeminate male counterpart.
@luckyvet Agreed. However, the younger more attractive women are less likely to care about the kind/good part or being a responsible man. They want someone 'bad'. Think the so called 'players', 'rappers', bikers' e.t.c. These are the guys who do really well with women. They really don't care about them and they exude a sense of danger. That's what they view as 'fun' guys.
@luckyvet said [[Women are children in adult bodies]]
Almost all women are, and so are most men. Kiss a woman's ass and she's disrespect you. Likewise, men want what he doesn't have, other people's pussy. But I think the divide between the conscious and unconscious mind is much wider in women. What a woman says and thinks consciously has NOTHING to do with what she responds to and is attracted to.
this girl was so turned on by tom leykis continually refuting her points it wasn't even funny. listen to her giggle. tom is a bit on the extreme side, but this, all you guys out there, is a fantastic example of how to talk to women to get them attracted to you. do not give them an inch, be a man, use logic to refute their points, and watch their panties drop. simple formula.
Women are such morons because they THINK that we get into relationships for the same reasons that they do and that men are the same as them. Women think that the whole world is made up of proper grammar, polite conversation, pretty things, correct opinions, have lively debates/arguing, conflict and the like. To them, conversation gets them off and going because they're "bonding" with you via worlds. Men could CARE LESS about that crap and this broad thinks she's "Intelligent". LOL. fool.
Then when a man IS like Tom or such, they claim that you got that way from one or two bad women. They think we're like them, who when a woman has one bad heartache because SHE fell for some fucking bad boy asshole, that she is now traumatized forever. I've told women.. NO, it wasn't 1,2, 5, or even 10 bad relationships with women, it was like 15-20 or more, and countless bad dates and such and what was the common denominator.. BEING TOO NICE to them. Now that I'm not, I have several calling me!
Stupid women, they all come up with this pathetic CLICHE bullSHIT!! about being nice to women, yet what they almost never realize is that almost all men who are at the same place as Tom have become the jerk/asshole precisely BECAUSE of how fucked up women are and because they go on and on about wanting to be treated nice, yet when you do that, you just get fucked over time and time and time again. And DUMB women just CAN'T FATHOM just how screwed up, hypocritical, backwards and DUMB they are!
So if you're nice, they see you as WEAK and SUBMISSIVE.
Thats how animalistic that women are-- seriously. They see things like mercy, compassion, manners, decency, and respect as flaws and weaknesses to be exploited; likewise they see arrogance, hostility, hate, cruelty and selfishness as some sort of greatness to be adored and worshipped.
They also test you to see if they can use you; so don't let them- give them what they want, and you'll get it
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This guys a fucken idiot...he's just hurt psychologically because he encountered the wrong girls.....you dont stomp on eachother.....its fucken shared.....you should take turns being dominant....this guy is starting something that is bad for people and how we see relationships....PLEASE if your smart dont believe a word this traumatized guy says....
@JohnLeguizamo1 lol, did you read some of the posts for this video? All they are are angry men bashing women and blaming them for just about everything. And Tom's followers are like trained dogs, they believe every word he says without ever questioning if he is right.
Believe me, you won't change their minds. However, when they get dumped over and over again, life just might change their mind.
@phirephate Lol, you're so full of shit. The men who follow Dad's advice are the ones DOING the dumping because women can't live up to their standards. Funny how everything turns around when a man grasps his own self-worth instead of catering to bitches.
@phirephate Lucky me. I'm with a girl who has this miraculous gift called rationality. Granted, she isn't as good at it as myself or other awakened men, but she does about as good as any female can do. She actively supports the Men's Rights Movement, and even posts links to sites like AVoiceForMen on her Facebook page. She believes in true equality, and recognizes that everyone was happier when traditional family units and gender roles were intact. Don't believe me? Message 814kitty on here.
I like Tom and find him amusing, but you have to take what he says with a grain of salt. I'm a nice guy and have an amazing gf. I open the doors for her, give her compliments, and take her out dancing all the time. She brings me food all the time and treats me like a prince. And at the end of the night, we have amazing sex.
I tried being the asshole before and failed, badly.
Does being a nice guy work? It certainly does for me...
Atomic Particle Theory? Cosmology? Human Physiology? General and Special Theory of Relativity? How Time Slows Down The Further You Get From The Center of The Earth? What exactly would we have a "deep conversation" about? You are a mental retard and don't even know it, that's the funny part. And it's easy to play your own game a 100 times better than you can, because I can manipulate you like a child and get you into bed. "If you need a quart of milk, you don't buy the whole cow"..Warren Beatty
This women in the video is funny, "deep conversation"? ROTFLOL, deep conversation about what? What this women doesn't understand, like all women, is how mind boggling stupid they are. They think they're intelligent, when just the exact 100% opposite is the truth. Tell me dumb broad, are you going to have a deep conversation with me about Quantum Chaos? Quantum Consciousness? Quantum Mechanics? Quantum Theory? Neuro Science? World History? Biology? Physics? Computer Science? What?
I say give women exactly what they want. Take them out, open up the door, say nice things to them, take them to bed and give them a few orgasms, and then dumb them like a bad habit. And ironically she love you. In contrast you do the same thing and then be nice to them further, and they will be the one to use you and play games with you. So they don't want you to be nice, they want you to be a jerk, so by all means, be one, and go after her friends, and her mother, and everybody she knows.
@OilTradingAcademy I agreed, I kid you not, I have actually tried it a few times. A relationship would start out good and then she will start saying no to normal things to test how much of a puppy you would make(how long a leash for you). What I would start doing is I would tell her in a firm voice and let her know my alternatives. Next thing you know, she would pretend it was all a joke, she would desperately give you "reasons" why she said no in hopes that you would give her another chance.
Why American women are so stupid, ignorant and not worth it.....
They equate nice with weakness. They equate nice with lack of self confidence. *Ahem* Last time I checked, being nice and confident are two separate adjectives. American women are garbage as a whole. The best relationship I ever had was with a woman I dated oversees while I was in the service. She didn't see me as weak just because I treated her with respect and was kind to her.
@OMGAlf don't feel bad about it. they like the abuse. any kind guys to them they consider effeminized bitches. if u want to be nice to them then they'll consider you gay or a cuckold
@TheBelle1714 I'm sorry ma'am, but I disagree. I've been nice to women all my life and it never got me the wife I always wanted. Honestly, I didn't become a jerk just to get a girlfriend because I have too much self respect to just change like that. They might be nice to you in return, but they will likely feel no attraction to him in the long run. You might be an exception to this rule (and I really hope you are), but rules aren't based on exceptions.
@TheBelle1714 Wrong. If you're nice to women they see you as "clingy" and treat you as an older woman would treat a horny 12 year old boy; she will not even contemplate sex with you and forbid it because you are too "innocent" in their eyes.
@warwolfii It's not assholes, it's just the most important thing for any woman is a man who cam stand up to them. Usually the 'assholes' are better than the non assholes at doing that.
Liam2621 10 hours ago
Women hate weak' men they can't help it, they just test a man to see if he can stand u to her, that's how it works, don't be abusive to them but make sure your the man and you'll get any woman you want within reason.
Liam2621 12 hours ago
Steve Trevor: If the god of dependability was trying to get her...
...she'd be like: "You're really sweet, but I just think of you as a friend."
God of war hits on her, it's all, "Whoo. You're cute."
Kamidake83 1 day ago
You don't have to be a total asshole to women, you can be nice, just don't dont be a door mat... At the end of the day, just be yourself just don't be a puss... Thats it.
CeazeThaBeast 3 days ago
I think people shouldn't classify all women together...women from other countries/cultures are very different from women from the British commonwealth countries and America. Also, they are different not because they are soo oppressed by men. They are different because their cultures taught them different values...like valuing a partner for their personality, kindness and trustworthyness. American women are taught it is all about the money...and are looking for "dangerous animal" men.
saintgauden 5 days ago
Watch out for code words in online profiles: Looking for gentleman, nice guy, real man. These are all code words women use to find men to take care of them where you pay for it all. Stay single, never co-sign, no marriage, don't let them move in, never lend money, be less interested, meet at bookstores/cafe/park instead of dinner & movies, avoid illegal immigrants (google marriage fraud), avoid long distance women, always wear condoms, invest in your education, listen to Tom Leykis.
nevercosigndude 6 days ago 5
"I never had money growing up..." The woman says: "ya... yaa." What does that tell you about her mentality? She tried to present the idea that she is above what other women are after.
fredguy2 1 week ago
the caller said herself she is attacted to masculen and confident men, that is something that nice guys usually arnt seen as. so once again another case of a woman claiming to want a "nice guy" but really wanted someone who will treat her like a piece of ass and take care of her finacially.
jerlstif 1 week ago
@jerlstif The interesting thing is that when I was young I WAS masculine and confident. I just didn't strut around making a fool of myself. I'd meet and hook up with lots of women because of my looks and the fact I was captain of the football team, but when they found out later that I didn't put on a big show of "Type-A Personality" I'd lose out to some fuktard asshole. When I went into the service and spent time in Germany, I did great with the German girls. They were much different.
warwolfii 6 days ago
I think it's possible to be a "nice" guy and still pickup women on a regular basis. The issue is when people say "nice" they often refer to the guy that is sub servant and a walking doormat. That of course isn't attractive to most women. Just like being a real "ass" isn't attractive to a woman with any intelligence or any self esteem. There's a happy medium between the two and I think that's where you'll find the most luck with a quality woman. Confidence and some mystery are the key.
bawniey 1 week ago
Guys, listen...young women want what they think they want at that moment. Let me clarify: Women will justify any action they commit in a relationship as "romantic" in their mind, whether she just got banged in the front seat of a Toyota or she just got knocked up by a total loser.
What they want, REALLY want, is the proverbial "Dangerous Guy". It's to show, to themselves, that they are not like Mom And Dad. He could be of a different race or of a lower/different social class. It doesn't matter.
brasso4u 1 week ago
For women, beauty buys money -
for men, money buys beauty...
DarkStarAZ 1 week ago 3
@DarkStarAZ where is your Nobel peace prize? This phrase is more important than the discovery of the Higgs bosson.
fredguy2 1 week ago
@fredguy2
they sent the prize and the check last week
DarkStarAZ 6 days ago
I have my issues with Tom Leykis, but one thing is for sure: he tells it EXACTLY like it is in this video clip. It's only when their eggs are about to dry up that the vast majority of women start seeing those "wimpy guys" as worthy, all of a sudden. Guys, there's literally no point in being "nice" to women, there just isn't. Listen to this man, he knows his shit.
Atropos06 1 week ago 4
I agree with his lifestyle and his philosophy. But in my opinion the way he talks about women seems like he is still pissed off and sees the show as a kind of revenge on women.
kingofuganda 2 weeks ago
@kingofuganda because he was fed a load of shit from women, he had to learn to hard way...
13stevejohnson 1 week ago
Nice guys don't finish last, we all do. Assholes just have more fun doing it.
1969ChargerRTSE 2 weeks ago
This woman is so effin' typical. Most women think they want a nice guy, think they want a sensitive guy and will go to the wall claiming that's what they're after. Fact of the matter is, all they want are ASSHOLES! If they had half a brain they'd admit it and stop trying to present this phony image. They WANT ASSHOLES. And in the very next breath they will complain "All I ever meet are ASSHOLES!" What a joke. What morons.
warwolfii 2 weeks ago 15
@warwolfii Might get this comment as a tattoo.
Restayvien 6 days ago
@warwolfii It is their cultural training...women from Asia and other places want a man they can live with and share life with. American women are trained to be animals...I don't know why anyone would want to marry one, unless they were desperate and had a low self-esteem (actually, that's how it works...the losers marry them and then the wives cheat with the guy with a little more money). The bad boys they want, never want to marry them.
saintgauden 5 days ago
@saintgauden A woman married to a cop just cheated on him with another cop near me. The husband found out and shot the other cop then killed himself. But the cop who got shot lived. Now he can live to date the widow with two surviving kids. She'll probably keep fuckin more guys on the side too and create more trouble down the road. But at least the shot cop knows what's in store. Some wives love fuckin behind hubby's back... Just a head's up.
DexterHaven49 1 day ago
@warwolfii They don't want assholes, you know nothing about women. They want cocky funny guys who have a backbone and wont take their shit, you also need be a good fuck to keep a woman interested in the long run.
Be4TinGyoU 1 day ago
lol this woman fails to convince me that women are anything more than a place for me to plant my baby seeds
MrROTD 3 weeks ago 5
BS - It is all about LOOKS & MONEY that women desire. DONE DEAL.
mba2ceo 3 weeks ago
He is just fortunate to be RICH. The rest of the slaves HAVE TOO deal with b!tches.
mba2ceo 3 weeks ago
Never ever respect a woman. If U respect a woman U deserve everything U get.
mba2ceo 3 weeks ago 2
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There's a major misunderstanding about the jerk mentality.
Unless she has an emotional investment in you and see's potential for a good boyfriend, you'll get nowhere. Most women will disqualify a jerk before he finishes his first sentence.
The key to being a good player is to start out nice, make a girl feel like she's the only girl in the world...and then withdraw the attention and let her chase you. You have to mix it up.
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wadehjb 3 weeks ago
Never co-sign anything with a woman, never date or marry an illegal immigrant/google marriage fraud, avoid long distance relationships, listen to Tom Leykis, women come and go but a good education last forever, avoid single moms with kids still at home/it's a package deal, always use condoms when having sex, the less attachment to women the less suffering, never buy anything on a first meet up with a woman, the person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship, go dutch.
dontgetmarried999 3 weeks ago
@dontgetmarried999 100%
Zac6230 3 weeks ago
i have decided to be nice, because most men like mean women too, when i was mean because of the people that hurt me, i had way more men flock towards me, but once i developed self esteem and now that im truely happy, guys dont like me, i dont get it, SMH!
prosperitywoman4life 3 weeks ago
Tom is so right. Again. As usual.
brianpadrickdrake 3 weeks ago
Emotionally crushed? EMOTIONALLY crushed? HOw about financially? Not just losing your girlfriend, but you son for half his youth?
cheaze69 4 weeks ago
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Best conversation after sex: Get fuck out of my hotel room, ho, I'm not giving you any more money.
steviesbackbitch 4 weeks ago
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steviesbackbitch 4 weeks ago
Jesus loves you
alexandervanwyk 4 weeks ago
THEY SAY WHEN YOU HEAR IT MORE THAN ONCE ITS TRUE!!! MY GOD IT MUST OF BEEN ATLEAST OVER A THOUSAND I'M THE NICE GUY TYPE. GUESS THATS WHY I SLEEP ALONE AT NIGHT!!!! AND THE BAD BOYS GOT SOMETHING SOFT AND WET TO STICK AND SPRAY THEIR TARTER SAUCE ALL OVER!!!! THANKS TOM!! FROM NOW ON I'LL BE AN ASSHOLE JUST TO SEE WHAT TYPE OF REACTION I GET!!
KillHoffa 4 weeks ago
@KillHoffa don't be so taken by what you hear. It might be tempting to think that because women dont like "nice" we must do the opposite of that. This isnt necessarily true. I say this because being a jerk to a woman will not magically work. What this means is that there is something missing you're not hearing, and that is the "HOW" on how to actually treat a woman. You want my advice? It is not about being NICE or a JERK is about being 'STRONG' and 'WEAK'. A woman will always test you on this..
riicardo5 3 weeks ago
@riicardo5 she will test you on how you respond, on how u act, walk, and talk. stand up straight, and tease her. Don't be to reacting, stay collected. If she tests you by asking you a question such as 'what are u up to?' never lower your value by saying "im bored". Pretend you're always doing something productive. If she asks too many questions just say, "damn, is this an interview?" (in sarcastic way). You see how this puts you in control? you dont do whatever she says. this is a little secret.
riicardo5 3 weeks ago
@riicardo5 WELL YOU DO HAVE A HUUUUUGGGE POINT BRO!!!
KillHoffa 3 weeks ago
MAYBE I SHOULD BE A JERK!!
KillHoffa 4 weeks ago
i feel the same way about men. i acted like the "man " in my last relationship. he was "the player" thee"stud" who eventually got played. "sluts" or "whores" ARE chics who think like dicks.... we exist. We get tired of ur shit just like you do ours. once we get fucked over enough, we get smarter and get what we want when we want it. we keep it simple enough and complicated enough. almost all men are pretty typical and almost all men cant handle a women that thinks like a man.
naynay552 1 month ago
@naynay552
HAHA! Just because you say you think like a man doesn't make it so. I will gladly agree that men and women find typical conflicts between each other based upon self interests. However until you grow your own testicles, produce your own testosterone and get given the same variables as men, you will typically appear out of place. No sensible man would want to hear the mouthy, bigoted and self righteous opinions of a woman who stinks of penis envy.
Deimos118 3 weeks ago
The biggest difference between men and women is women are emotional thinking creatures and men are logical thinking creatures. That's what all this shit is about!!!
lockedupabroad1 1 month ago
women brain wash little boys into "respecting them".
but women dont respect men, or teach little girls to respect men.
women are pethetic!.... and as the weaker sex they dont deserve mens respect in the slighty.... women hate "nice guys".... and will use them for emotional valadation and then go fuck the hot bad boy, or even if he is not a bad boy, they wull go fuck the guy who does not give them special treatment or respect.
women are sexist by nature.... they beg for special treatment
fireblazzerx 1 month ago 2
@fireblazzerx You're clearly a virgin. Get over it.
Jezzkuhh 1 month ago
@Jezzkuhh Can't you make your point without attacking virgins?
cero2515 4 weeks ago
@cero2515 I didn't even make a point :L Just saying, he clearly is. Not that it's a bad thing... but he seems a little upset about it ;)
Jezzkuhh 4 weeks ago
women do regect nice guys, by nature.... its evolution.... women brain little boys into "respecting them".... also know as "giving them special treatment"
but the fact is, not respecting women gets you laid 10 x's faster.... and 10x as much.
women enjoy being treated like crap... even when they hate it!..... women are screwed up ceatures..... they are desperate to feel better about them slves.... women cant even realize they lie more then men, automacitly, thats what makes them so foolish.
fireblazzerx 1 month ago
you cant be nice to women.... its simple evolution.
when your nice to women, they tend to treat you like crap.
the secret to women is, treating them like crap works.
the fact is, women have a major gender flaw....they dont know what the hell they are talkimg about.
taking womens advice, about women , is just foolish.... women dont undersand them selves.... respecting women is counter productive on all acounts.... treat women like crap gets you more girls, better looking ones. fact
fireblazzerx 1 month ago 2
Its a shame his fans are all idiots, sometimes his topical humor is actualy correct.
MagnusCattus 1 month ago
i love you tom. this was exactly needed to hear
Areyeful 1 month ago
WOMEN ARE JUST PLAIN STUPID AND NEEDS A FEW KNOCKS IN THE HEAD, WHY WOULD ANYONE WANNA BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE THAT TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP. STUPID, WOMEN NEED LOTS OF HELP AND MOST NEED REHAB. AS ME BEING A GUY I SURE DON'T WANT SOME GIRL TREATING ME LIKE CRAP OR WALKING OVER ME. TOM IS RITE ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME, THEY ALL SAY THE SAME SHIT. I'M 30 AND I ALREADY SEE SOME OF THE OLD HAGS CHASING ME DOWN WHEN I;'M OUT A BAR AND IT'S FUNNY BECAUSE I WONDER HOW THEY USE TO BE WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER!
velocity8900 1 month ago
As I have aged I've become more of self-centered prick with women. Coincidentally, my getting-laid quotient has risen as well. I thank women for educating me on the utility of being a prick; it's a lot less energy-intensive than be nice, caring chump.
Snakepliskinist 1 month ago 2
It sucks that once the guy truly figures it out, he is no longer the young buck he used to be, and for the most part he aint getting spring chickens either. Wisdom is so wasted on the old!
ibmsony101 1 month ago
@ibmsony101 I actually went back to college to fill up some free time, and despite being ancient, one-eyed, and hideous I seemed to be like catnip to the younger women. I could be wrong, but I believe continuous societal feminisation has created a whole generation of girly men than women find unappealing. I suppose the wisdom of not taking them seriously and having absolutely no need for their approval helps. It's weird that the path of least resistence is the correct one.
Snakepliskinist 1 month ago
4-2-2012!!! welcome back dad!
CAPTAINxSAVEAHOE09 1 month ago
Why does this woman say "confidence is appealing to any gender?" I much prefer shy women to confident women. Confident women are a pain in the ass.
Just goes to show that women know as little about men as men do women.
thepotatovagina 1 month ago 29
@thepotatovagina What they call confident women is oftentimes arrogant women. Women who are arrogant because they think that they are a hot thing (even if they are 300 lbs tub of lard) or because they have career success and money are not what most men really want. Then gain, feminism have brainwashed so many young men that you do hear young guys say that they are looking for confident women more often these days.
ibmsony101 1 month ago
@thepotatovagina More accurately, confidence appeals to confident people. You don't speak for 'men', you speak for men of the sort who like shy women, probably because you're intimidated by women.
WalterLiddy 1 week ago
@WalterLiddy
in all the talks i've had with friends, or any men for that matter, i've never once heard any of them say they liked a girl because she was confident. now i come here and see 13 people have given my comment thumbs up. from that we can deduce one of the following:
1) generally, men don't care whether a woman is confident or not
2) generally, men don't like confident women
i think it is no.1., but it is definitely one of the two.
thepotatovagina 1 week ago 2
@thepotatovagina Your 2 bullet points are well thought.
Wtf does a man need a confident woman for, especially if he has his own shit?
Think about it, confidence is a largely (I stress largely) SELF-SERVING attribute. Its not a vocational asset to a relationship. However, trustworthiness, demeanor and overall attractiveness are, simply because they have DIRECT influence over how a relationship begins, progresses and ends.
ShivaTheAuspicious 3 days ago
@WalterLiddy I wouldn't insinuate that. Having a confident partner to some is like a $20 bill you lost in your pocket...cool if its there but you wont miss it if its not. As long as I have my OWN confidence, why do I NEED someone else's? Given I've seen what a partner who lacks confidence is like and it can be annoying as well. However, Im at a stage where I'm solid enough that if someone's lack or abundance of confidence is distracting to the relationship, I end it and start a new one elsewhere
ShivaTheAuspicious 3 days ago
Great vid!
g97erry 1 month ago
if being nice to a woman doesnt work, then she's a stuck up moron and doesn't deserve to be treated kindly
Wolfboy183 1 month ago
All women care about 1. LOOKS 2. MONEY ... all else is BS. HIS money & fame gets him laid NOT attitude.
mba2ceo 1 month ago
@mba2ceo *clears throat*
(you got it backwards, it's Money/Status first, Looks second.)
KidWindstorm 1 month ago
@KidWindstorm ... I sit corrected. I still say I rather be GOOD LOOKING than RICH ... get better lovin' if not sex :)
mba2ceo 1 month ago
@mba2ceo Well I suppose looks do offer some appeal to most women.
KidWindstorm 1 month ago
100% RIGHT ... Women sell sex for money. IMO
mba2ceo 1 month ago
THIS IS WHY I DONT TALK TO WOMEN BUT YOU DONT HAVE TO BE A BAD BOY OR THUG TO ATTRACT LADIES EVERYMAN THAT HAS A WOMAN ISNT A BAD BOY
jambrandon531 1 month ago
I say whatever a woman wants is fine. If she interprets my kindness as being a wimp and the behavior of an a-hole as being the masculinity she is attracted to, that's her deal. All I can say is that I won't be around to take care of the bad boy's children in a few years when she becomes tired,worn out and dumped on. I have my preferences too, and my preference do not include mentally deranged people who like bad people. Or people who HAVE TO LEARN not to like bad people!That's a big turn off.
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
women always so they want someone nice.. but ditch them when they meet them and hook up with a total douchebag.
anime1973 1 month ago
Common nice guy fallacy is that they think just because they are being nice you have to reward them with your time and interest. What women like about "bad boys" is that they are themselves they don't try to over please in hope of your love and affection. They just come as they are and most women dig that. They go after what they want and they appear more confident and overwhelming. Nice guys just aren't like that they step too lightly with women at the wrong times.
TiffyBear 1 month ago
@TiffyBear I know what you're saying but I see another angle to this. When I go in for a job interview and a job is very important to me, I'm going to make a really good impression. I'm going to dress and act in the best ways I know how. If I don't give a crap about the job or the world around me, I'll act the opposite. Sure, being nice doesn't automatically obligate a woman to reward a guy with interest but if she's always going after jerks, we don't have to think she all too bright either.
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
@troydeancarpenter How many people go out for jobs do perfect interviews and are shitty workers? That is whats wrong with the making too good of an impression and it leaves little room for mistakes in character. Women start to think what is really wrong with this guy? When ever I do approach dating I'm polite and I just be myself. You can be a nice person and not come off as too nice or a push over. And women who go after jerks might just be bitches who cares who they date?
TiffyBear 1 month ago
@TiffyBear I need to address your question. If you are hiring someone for the job, are you going to hire the person who at least tries to make a good impression, or will you take a chance on someone who comes in unshaven, wearing jeans and acting rude?
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
@troydeancarpenter For the sake of the question I choose the good impression. But, when approaching dating I don't think of it in those terms. I like things to be more natural than that, I don't want being in a relationship with me to feel like a job for someone. And bad boy doesn't necessarily mean they're rude they could be smooth operators and thats why chicks dig them. People forget that a big part of being a bad boy is having charm thats what women fall for, charmers.
TiffyBear 1 month ago
@TiffyBear Using a job interview is only an example.Of course you don't want to treat a relationship like a business.I don't think women are stupid though.Charmers can fool you for maybe a few days but not long enough to get into a meaningful relationship. You can generally tell just by his friends or lack of.If being nice and respectful isn't charming, I see that as a mental problem.I could pretend to be a bad boy to spark a woman's interest,but who wants a woman interested in that?
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
@troydeancarpenter Well yeah, if someone is being too chummy,you can't help but to wonder.Being polite and making a good impression is one thing but being completely fake a pretentious is another thing entirely.As I said before I can totally see and understand what you're saying. I still say there is something wrong when a person doesn't understand that it's common sense when meeting a new person, to be polite and place your best foot forward.
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
why so misogyny?
infraball 1 month ago
Respect, kindness, sincerity....HA! I have found out for real women DO NOT like these qualities in a man. Yes I am secure. Yes I am confident in who I am as a man and STILL women reject me out-of-hand. Maybe because I live in Florida and am relatively closer to the south end that I'm finding so many self-centered, gold digging and CRASS women! Looks don't matter much, its MONEY, MONEY, MONEY, MONEY! A nice car and a big house as well, love to most women is a myth, sadly.
BluTrilobite 1 month ago
@BluTrilobite Women seem to be mostly about image.More times than not it seems like men are more like the way they claim they are than women are themselvesFor example,I do believe that men are actually looking for love.I don't think most men have the wam bam thank you ma'am attitude yet it's very common for women to lose interest in a guy after a month or two.Also ironically, a man can get a woman easier if he does pretty much the opposite of what society tells him he's supposed to do!
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
please... PLEASE MORE MEN NEED TOM LEYKIS BRING HIM BACK IF WOMEN CAN MAKE BOOKS ON HOW TO CONTROL MEN (wtf O.o ignorant much but if a man does the opposite OMFG U SEXIST U TREAT WOMEN LIKE ANIMALS UR A MONSTER as i was saying PLEASE HE IS REVEALING THE TRUTH i think his show ONLY git cancelled because of WOMEN they cant handle the truth and they twist the words he says most women they think ALL -_-*
jsingh98 1 month ago 2
@jsingh98 April 2nd. That is all.
jteruel671 1 week ago
take me out bong hit and don't tace me ! lol
centuian 1 month ago
I swear, when I was younger, I used to think...he's GOTTA be paying people to call in and give these half hearted attempts at debate to make him look right...but you grow a few years and FUCK....Women really are pure emotional idiots..rats...they'll do anything to survive...'looks dont matter to women as much as they do to men' yeah I'm sure they dont-especially when 80 percent of the game for women is just jumping and leeching from man to man til they hit paydirt..and I do mean PAYdirt.
frncsvat 1 month ago
Eyyyyy yoooo take me out Kobe Bryant style
CeazeThaBeast 1 month ago
You can be an easy going nice guy but just remember to rough it up in bed and treat women like the dick/cum hungry creatures many actually are.
Keep women OFF of that pedestal, they are not frail, delicate flowers. Grab the hair and spank that ass.
Doggy style increases HER chances of busting a nutt. Just FYI.
And whatever you do, stay the fuck out of the friend zone!
nunayobiz 1 month ago 9
women=parasit
panchooooooo0 1 month ago
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Gotta admit---that woman sounded awesome (fine, bright, soulful)...Total contrast from the usual PrincessTards I'm used to hearing on there.
heavenseek 2 months ago
Gotta admit---that woman sounded awesome (fine, bright, soulful)...Total contrast from the usual PrincessTards I'm used to hearing on there.
heavenseek 2 months ago
@heavenseek I agree with you. The woman he had on the phone seemed to be genuine, and genuinely disappointed that men were learning to behave in generally antisocial ways because women treat nice guys like shit. I found myself wishing that I could meet her!
Ersa1a 4 weeks ago
very good advice
HoodGeekEnt 2 months ago
sweet
kunzy3000 2 months ago 3
It is not just Tom's past, it is the trend with women these days. For the most part, women do not respect men. They said they see men as equal but as soon as the conversation starts, they would blame men and complain about men. We must work on our educational system. This is where women are cookie cut into thinking women have more morals than men and everything from then on is "if men can do this, women can do this better" attitude!
luckybozo1 2 months ago 13
Women are deranged. Just get what you want and leave. Oh, and never sign a birth certificate, never give her your number and never show her where you live and PLEASE wear a condom, women are dirty.
MrManreborn 3 months ago 5
@MrManreborn and you're a fag, just admit it to yourself.
TiffyBear 1 month ago
looool women are insane
Drebln893 3 months ago
That woman sounds like she's coming on to him.
MishuTaste 3 months ago
@MishuTaste ...She is trying to overcome him by being nice with her perception of "rational"
Drebln893 3 months ago
As sad as this may sound, young men need this kind of role model. In doing so, men may regain their self-respect once more and not allow themselves to be clouded over or beguiled by a piece of pu-tang.
twilson11208 4 months ago
No this is the world over every woman is out for them selves, and any Man that thinks differently is a fool. The only way for a man to be themselves is to be indifferent, this woman makes it sound like some taboo to go against chivalry, no but it is against her best interest . There is nothing that should ingratiate a man so that he should pay eternal homage to the female species. I have as much respect for a woman as I would for any wild animal outside My own species. Hunt it, Pop it, Gut it.
TheAetherspeak 4 months ago
After sex, I usually discuss quantum physics and the theory of relativity.
What a stupid bitch.
Cap285 4 months ago
jerkoff.
fukkensully 4 months ago
@thecriminal2334... you're pussy whooped bro. Admit it
TheSphistak 4 months ago
As soon as a woman thinks she owns you and can control you, she loses all respect for you. You are her pet.
ndohrmann8978 4 months ago
@ndohrmann8978 what you say is 210% true...I've had it happen time and time again.
JaesinJei 3 months ago
90% of what we deem 'normal feminine women' view 'kindness' as weakness, and are more apt to feel unsafe around males who look up to them & kiss their ass.
In a womans irrational reptile mind, she equates a man who delivers the perfect balance of 'kindness' with a tough, mean streak as someone who is capable of protecting / providing for her.
This is hardwired into the female psyche, to ensure she is well protected during her vulnerable child rearing years.
luckyvet 4 months ago 2
2 Sentence Answer to Video Title:
Women are children in adult bodies who value safety & security overall else, thus attaching to men who are stronger & smarter & thus able to protect & provide for them especially during years of child bearing.
A man who is kind yet firm & harsh with a woman is interpreted by a woman as strong & somebody she would look up to (like a strong male school teacher) thus making him a more desirable mate vs his more effeminate male counterpart.
luckyvet 4 months ago 34
@luckyvet Exactly. I don't get how going for a strong man makes us children in adult bodies though....
XoJackieLuvsRonniexo 1 month ago
@luckyvet Agreed. However, the younger more attractive women are less likely to care about the kind/good part or being a responsible man. They want someone 'bad'. Think the so called 'players', 'rappers', bikers' e.t.c. These are the guys who do really well with women. They really don't care about them and they exude a sense of danger. That's what they view as 'fun' guys.
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LucisFerre1 1 month ago
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@luckyvet said [[Women are children in adult bodies]]
Almost all women are, and so are most men. Kiss a woman's ass and she's disrespect you. Likewise, men want what he doesn't have, other people's pussy. But I think the divide between the conscious and unconscious mind is much wider in women. What a woman says and thinks consciously has NOTHING to do with what she responds to and is attracted to.
LucisFerre1 1 month ago
@luckyvet That's right. You don't have to be a jerk, just stop giving women your power.
dubified89 1 month ago
WOMEN ARE GETTING OUT OF CONTROL!! WE NEED TOM!!! PAY HIM WHAT HE WANTS!!!
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40.00 AND THREE DATES BITCHES!
dthendon 4 months ago
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dthendon 4 months ago
this girl was so turned on by tom leykis continually refuting her points it wasn't even funny. listen to her giggle. tom is a bit on the extreme side, but this, all you guys out there, is a fantastic example of how to talk to women to get them attracted to you. do not give them an inch, be a man, use logic to refute their points, and watch their panties drop. simple formula.
UltraProle21 4 months ago
@UltraProle21 Lol! I noticed that too!
TheCriminal2334 4 months ago
Women are such morons because they THINK that we get into relationships for the same reasons that they do and that men are the same as them. Women think that the whole world is made up of proper grammar, polite conversation, pretty things, correct opinions, have lively debates/arguing, conflict and the like. To them, conversation gets them off and going because they're "bonding" with you via worlds. Men could CARE LESS about that crap and this broad thinks she's "Intelligent". LOL. fool.
JediWitness2 5 months ago
Then when a man IS like Tom or such, they claim that you got that way from one or two bad women. They think we're like them, who when a woman has one bad heartache because SHE fell for some fucking bad boy asshole, that she is now traumatized forever. I've told women.. NO, it wasn't 1,2, 5, or even 10 bad relationships with women, it was like 15-20 or more, and countless bad dates and such and what was the common denominator.. BEING TOO NICE to them. Now that I'm not, I have several calling me!
JediWitness2 5 months ago
Stupid women, they all come up with this pathetic CLICHE bullSHIT!! about being nice to women, yet what they almost never realize is that almost all men who are at the same place as Tom have become the jerk/asshole precisely BECAUSE of how fucked up women are and because they go on and on about wanting to be treated nice, yet when you do that, you just get fucked over time and time and time again. And DUMB women just CAN'T FATHOM just how screwed up, hypocritical, backwards and DUMB they are!
JediWitness2 5 months ago 4
@JediWitness2 YES YES YES A MILLION TIMES YES!!!!
TheCriminal2334 5 months ago
It's all so clear to me now..... women do not understand cause and effect.
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thanks tom. You are saving us young men heartache
CeazeThaBeast 5 months ago
thanks tom. You are saving us young men heartache
CeazeThaBeast 5 months ago
Here's the difference between men and women. There are plenty of good men, there are a few women who aren't as bad as the others.
AC101666 5 months ago 2
@AC101666 I couldn't have put it better myself, brother.
TheCriminal2334 5 months ago
Women, like any bitches, want a DOMINANT male.
So if you're nice, they see you as WEAK and SUBMISSIVE.
Thats how animalistic that women are-- seriously. They see things like mercy, compassion, manners, decency, and respect as flaws and weaknesses to be exploited; likewise they see arrogance, hostility, hate, cruelty and selfishness as some sort of greatness to be adored and worshipped.
They also test you to see if they can use you; so don't let them- give them what they want, and you'll get it
SovereignStatesman 5 months ago
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This guys a fucken idiot...he's just hurt psychologically because he encountered the wrong girls.....you dont stomp on eachother.....its fucken shared.....you should take turns being dominant....this guy is starting something that is bad for people and how we see relationships....PLEASE if your smart dont believe a word this traumatized guy says....
JohnLeguizamo1 6 months ago
@JohnLeguizamo1 lol, did you read some of the posts for this video? All they are are angry men bashing women and blaming them for just about everything. And Tom's followers are like trained dogs, they believe every word he says without ever questioning if he is right.
Believe me, you won't change their minds. However, when they get dumped over and over again, life just might change their mind.
phirephate 5 months ago
@phirephate Lol, you're so full of shit. The men who follow Dad's advice are the ones DOING the dumping because women can't live up to their standards. Funny how everything turns around when a man grasps his own self-worth instead of catering to bitches.
TheCriminal2334 5 months ago
@TheCriminal2334 Keep dumping them. And show your opinion to your girlfriend, if you have one. And that's a big if.
phirephate 4 months ago
@phirephate Lucky me. I'm with a girl who has this miraculous gift called rationality. Granted, she isn't as good at it as myself or other awakened men, but she does about as good as any female can do. She actively supports the Men's Rights Movement, and even posts links to sites like AVoiceForMen on her Facebook page. She believes in true equality, and recognizes that everyone was happier when traditional family units and gender roles were intact. Don't believe me? Message 814kitty on here.
TheCriminal2334 4 months ago
Bitches love Bad Boys/Men that's why i have adopted the Pimp name/game motto"Treat Them Like S..."!Now buy a box of my Pimp Scout Cookies,Beeyotch!
Pimpczar2011 6 months ago
I like Tom and find him amusing, but you have to take what he says with a grain of salt. I'm a nice guy and have an amazing gf. I open the doors for her, give her compliments, and take her out dancing all the time. She brings me food all the time and treats me like a prince. And at the end of the night, we have amazing sex.
I tried being the asshole before and failed, badly.
Does being a nice guy work? It certainly does for me...
phirephate 6 months ago
@phirephate @phirephate
Ok, you realize the difference between a rule and an exception? Doesn't seem like it.
SovereignStatesman 5 months ago
@SovereignStatesman For me, it is the rule. But to each his own. If being a asshole gets you what you want, then go for it.
phirephate 5 months ago
@phirephate
Yeah, you clearly DON'T know. That's what happens when you got a vagina down there, you can't use logic.
SovereignStatesman 5 months ago
@SovereignStatesman Just continue to hate woman and keep believing you are hot shit. People really respond well to that.
phirephate 5 months ago
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@phirephate
Another neutered dog LOL
SovereignStatesman 5 months ago
@phirephate To each his own?...then you shouldn't be bitching!
luckybozo1 2 months ago
@phirephate I guarantee you're gf is over 28 years of age. Try being nice to a 19- or 20-year-old and see how far it gets you.
erichollywood2002 4 months ago
women need to shut the fuck up and stop thinking theyre as smart or smarter than men.everything they say is just dumb and retarded
suchafool990 6 months ago
@suchafool990
Women are like dogs: if you give them an inch of slack, they'll take a mile.
They only claim to want "respect and equality" in order to see how much crap you'll take-- FACT.
Anyone who trusts women, is a fool.
SovereignStatesman 5 months ago
Atomic Particle Theory? Cosmology? Human Physiology? General and Special Theory of Relativity? How Time Slows Down The Further You Get From The Center of The Earth? What exactly would we have a "deep conversation" about? You are a mental retard and don't even know it, that's the funny part. And it's easy to play your own game a 100 times better than you can, because I can manipulate you like a child and get you into bed. "If you need a quart of milk, you don't buy the whole cow"..Warren Beatty
OilTradingAcademy 6 months ago
@OilTradingAcademy
The proper saying is "Why buy a cow if you can get the milk for free?"
Also, "never give a sucker an even break--" particularly a FEMALE sucker! LOL
SovereignStatesman 5 months ago
This women in the video is funny, "deep conversation"? ROTFLOL, deep conversation about what? What this women doesn't understand, like all women, is how mind boggling stupid they are. They think they're intelligent, when just the exact 100% opposite is the truth. Tell me dumb broad, are you going to have a deep conversation with me about Quantum Chaos? Quantum Consciousness? Quantum Mechanics? Quantum Theory? Neuro Science? World History? Biology? Physics? Computer Science? What?
OilTradingAcademy 6 months ago 2
I say give women exactly what they want. Take them out, open up the door, say nice things to them, take them to bed and give them a few orgasms, and then dumb them like a bad habit. And ironically she love you. In contrast you do the same thing and then be nice to them further, and they will be the one to use you and play games with you. So they don't want you to be nice, they want you to be a jerk, so by all means, be one, and go after her friends, and her mother, and everybody she knows.
OilTradingAcademy 6 months ago
@OilTradingAcademy I agreed, I kid you not, I have actually tried it a few times. A relationship would start out good and then she will start saying no to normal things to test how much of a puppy you would make(how long a leash for you). What I would start doing is I would tell her in a firm voice and let her know my alternatives. Next thing you know, she would pretend it was all a joke, she would desperately give you "reasons" why she said no in hopes that you would give her another chance.
luckybozo1 2 months ago 3
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StraightOuttaDC 6 months ago
he got her good at the end. dayyuumm lol. some females gonna be heard for real
Homynum 6 months ago
Why American women are so stupid, ignorant and not worth it.....
They equate nice with weakness. They equate nice with lack of self confidence. *Ahem* Last time I checked, being nice and confident are two separate adjectives. American women are garbage as a whole. The best relationship I ever had was with a woman I dated oversees while I was in the service. She didn't see me as weak just because I treated her with respect and was kind to her.
gmccord1970 6 months ago 3
This makes me pissed, are women just built like that? they don't have a choice not to fall for the bad guy? i feel so sexcist atm. :@
OMGAlf 6 months ago
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devaloki 6 months ago
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@OMGAlf don't feel bad about it. they like the abuse. any kind guys to them they consider effeminized bitches. if u want to be nice to them then they'll consider you gay or a cuckold
devaloki 6 months ago
you should not listen to this guy. i have heard his videos. he is wrong about women. you should be nice to women and we will be nice back.
TheBelle1714 6 months ago
@TheBelle1714 I'm sorry ma'am, but I disagree. I've been nice to women all my life and it never got me the wife I always wanted. Honestly, I didn't become a jerk just to get a girlfriend because I have too much self respect to just change like that. They might be nice to you in return, but they will likely feel no attraction to him in the long run. You might be an exception to this rule (and I really hope you are), but rules aren't based on exceptions.
blueshogun96 6 months ago 2
@blueshogun96 indeed. if you're nice they'll reject you because they don't want a wimp just as they say in the video
devaloki 6 months ago
@TheBelle1714 Wrong. If you're nice to women they see you as "clingy" and treat you as an older woman would treat a horny 12 year old boy; she will not even contemplate sex with you and forbid it because you are too "innocent" in their eyes.
lucian000 6 months ago 2
@TheBelle1714 Translation: "If you are nice to women, we will pat you on the head and say 'nice doggie.'"
gmccord1970 6 months ago
She sounded smart in the beginning, then as you listen you realize she sounds like a ditz/phone sex operator..and then towards the end.. WOWW
XoJackieLuvsRonniexo 7 months ago 4