Wow, it's too bad to not see a single positive comment on this video. I happened to like this analogy as I understood it to refere more to the soul than the body. Sex is a physical, emotional, and spiritual act. Engaging in sex with multiple partners WILL leave you with baggage (for guys as well as girls) possibly even after forgivness and repentence.
I may not have agreed with everything in the video, but I did agree with the message.
Being virgins on your wedding night does not ensure that you will be together forever. Having sex before marriage does not mean you are being used. Deciding to have sex before marriage is not always and absolutely a negative decision.
If you're abstinent it's your business, and yours alone. Please don't get into our sex lives and we won't get into yours until you come running to us saying you had sex and it was 'a mistake' and you had no condoms because 'you're abstinent'.
I like how the duct tape stuck to the GARBAGE CAN gets a lot of screen time. Oh, and also to the sign by the BATHROOM. Way to subtly imply that having sex makes you TRASH and is DIRTY.
Jesus. What an incredibly shitty attempt at "education."
This makes me sick. What a disgusting analogy for something that has absolutely nothing to do with duct tape. Why are we purposefully teaching young girls and boys (but especially girls) to be ashamed of themselves and their natural feelings by comparing parts of their bodies with something as silly and pointless as a piece of duct tape?
Instead of telling them their bodies are made of tape, why not teach kids that sex has consequences, and then teach them how to minimize the risks?!
Well, I guess it's a good thing that human reproductive organs (and sexuality in general for that matter) aren't remotely like a piece of duct tape. Analogy fail.
They should get a F- just for the horrible video editing job. LETS USE 30 THOUSAND WINDOWS MOVIE MAKER TRANSITIONS THAT WILL MAKE THIS MOVIE BETTER!!!11
I felt sick after watching this video, but cheered up immensely after seeing the comments. It's great that people are seeing this bullshit for what it really is. Spread the truth!
For the record, I don't appreciate the implication that my vagina is made of duct tape. What next, penises made of saran wrap? Get some better analogies.
Well, each time you stick tape to something, you don't just leave some of it, you take some of what it was stuck to with you as well. Sooo, that means you give some of yourself to another person, they a give part of themselves to you...and that's a BAD thing?
so what about people who engage in Serial monogamy? They are with one partner at at a time. Or what about people who go through multiple marriages and divorces? This is religious propoganda that is trying to make us shameful of our bodies and our sexual nature. This kind of ignorance and close mindedness is what allows things like circumcision (male genital mutilation) to be done to innocent baby boys in the USA.
Am I really supposed to believe that? What is being put in the water to make people think that something like this is anything other than outright misinformation?
p.s. I'm not still with the person I first touched duct tape with, how does that work?
There are like... what? four or five shots that you mixed up to cheesy music with some special iMovie dissolves and filters. It was painful. I couldn't even follow the tape. And what was with the trash can? The analogy is terrible, too. Past sexual experience has nothing to do with how well you stick with someone when you get married. That all has to do with compatibility, not your lack of reference.
This video does a better job at teaching kids how to be poor critical thinkers than it teaches abstinence. Because, duh, if my body were a piece of duct tape, then I guess I shouldn't use it to hug anyone or kiss the bible or go to school or watch YouTube, lest it be contaminated with stuff that makes it unsticky.
The bit that makes me sick and angry - didn't the girl in the pink sweater get "raped" in the video, by the analogy that's being used? Everyone else in the video freely consented to move the duct tape, but as far as we can tell, she just got it forced onto her. What kind of an image is that to have with your caption "make positive choices"!?
The thing that makes me curious about this video is how taking a little bit of someone else with you is supposed to bad? After the first few seconds the distinction between your body and your self is totally lost in this video, so it seemed to be saying that sharing and exchanging emotions, ideas, and hugs, was a bad thing too!
This would be the logical fallacy of arguing by analogy. People are not duct tape, so they do not have "stickiness" which can be lost through sex/being stuck to a trash can.
Message here: A virgin with the brains and personality of a pile of rocks will STILL be better than that dirty slut with a PhD who went on to save many lives in Africa. Oh wait, I forgot - women don't HAVE to be smart or have souls, right? Noo, we're supposed to be miserable baby-poppers. Jerks.
I mean, seriously- if you don't know wtf you're talking about (which is CLEARLY the case here if you think that vaginas get "worn out" or if you think that duct tape "leaves part of itself behind") then stfu and keep your crucifix OFF MY BODY.
" Basically, what they're saying in this PSA, is that your naughty bits are a lot like a piece of used duct tape that has been stuck to a trash can, a men's room, and a portly gal in a pink sweater. Oh, and also, you're a whore. And no one will ever love you. Except the portly gal in the pink sweater. And maybe not even her."
Oww your vagina is a piece of duct tape? You know that's really not healthy. You should consider seeing a doctor for that and perhaps sterilization too on account of being too ignorant & misogynistic to pass on your illogical metaphors.
And I could not help but notice that most of the people ruining their TAPE in the video were girls. Are you guys taught that too much sex will make your vagina looser & less sticky or what? Because I've got news for you. The vagina is a muscle & with the exception of childbirth it does not stretch out (and then only on account of TEARING) & become loose. Nor should it under any circumstances be STICKY. Just say NO to abstinence only propaganda.
your point, is lost. Lost because of the bad quality of the video itself. You will never get any ideas across with a video like this because it looks completely and utterly thrown together last minute and less than armature quality. People are LAUGHING at the video....before even considering any message you might care about. put a little more effort into these things if you really want to be taken seriously. not that I care about your message either..
Every time you have sex, a little bit of you dies inside. Your boyfriend is stealing your soul, ladies.
This is the silliest analogy I have ever heard. How exactly does not having sex make you more likely to stick together later? Why do the 'abstinent' states in the South have the worst divorce rates in the US? Better sex? Totally, like how the first time you play basketball you're the best on the court.
Not that I want facts to get in the way of a good ideology.
Oh, and may I add, as a teenage girl -- nothing does a number on my self-esteem quite like being told that my worth as a human rides on saving my virginity as a gift for some lucky man -- commodifying women, much? And obviously I don't even get to be the one who owns my body in the meantime, or it'd be MY choice who to have sex with and when, wouldn't it? And NO ONE would have the right to tell me different.
Abstinence-only sex ed has no connection to reality. And the nonsensical "Your body is like a piece of tape/gum/candy" analogy is a great example. People do NOT have a finite capacity for love or number of sexual partners. They're not depleting a resource or being used by having lots of sex -- they're CHOOSING WHAT TO DO WITH THEIR BODIES.
Wow, it's too bad to not see a single positive comment on this video. I happened to like this analogy as I understood it to refere more to the soul than the body. Sex is a physical, emotional, and spiritual act. Engaging in sex with multiple partners WILL leave you with baggage (for guys as well as girls) possibly even after forgivness and repentence.
I may not have agreed with everything in the video, but I did agree with the message.
SilverLeaf116 3 months ago
Being virgins on your wedding night does not ensure that you will be together forever. Having sex before marriage does not mean you are being used. Deciding to have sex before marriage is not always and absolutely a negative decision.
If you're abstinent it's your business, and yours alone. Please don't get into our sex lives and we won't get into yours until you come running to us saying you had sex and it was 'a mistake' and you had no condoms because 'you're abstinent'.
gearsable 8 months ago
well. never has my duct tape been so insulted. comparing it to the dirty disgusting sexual human body? i am outraged.
aislingone 1 year ago
Oh. My. God.
I like how the duct tape stuck to the GARBAGE CAN gets a lot of screen time. Oh, and also to the sign by the BATHROOM. Way to subtly imply that having sex makes you TRASH and is DIRTY.
Jesus. What an incredibly shitty attempt at "education."
bitchphd 1 year ago
This makes me sick. What a disgusting analogy for something that has absolutely nothing to do with duct tape. Why are we purposefully teaching young girls and boys (but especially girls) to be ashamed of themselves and their natural feelings by comparing parts of their bodies with something as silly and pointless as a piece of duct tape?
Instead of telling them their bodies are made of tape, why not teach kids that sex has consequences, and then teach them how to minimize the risks?!
tessniko 1 year ago 7
Well, I guess it's a good thing that human reproductive organs (and sexuality in general for that matter) aren't remotely like a piece of duct tape. Analogy fail.
stonecyphermoon 1 year ago 7
This is the stupidest video I have ever seen.
bodycarebyemylee 1 year ago 7
I wash.
Analogy fail.
VimeC 1 year ago 3
lol this is so bad... I'd give it 0 stars if I could~
ringtailed 2 years ago 3
telling people to put duct tape on their vaginas would have been a more successful abstinence campaign than this crap
plus it seems like they played three clips over and over with different effects! seriously mind blowing shit y'all
jebbles900 2 years ago 10
Reality check - people are going to be having sex.
Next time you make a video, make it about something useful that WORKS - like safe sex.
Deroliebe 2 years ago 6
They should get a F- just for the horrible video editing job. LETS USE 30 THOUSAND WINDOWS MOVIE MAKER TRANSITIONS THAT WILL MAKE THIS MOVIE BETTER!!!11
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RhodeIslandgirl85 3 years ago 3
great! I still have some duct tape over here, somewhere!!1!11111
MARPHHH 3 years ago 3
This is almost as bad as the "chewing gum" analogy.
DaMoTaiShi 3 years ago
I felt sick after watching this video, but cheered up immensely after seeing the comments. It's great that people are seeing this bullshit for what it really is. Spread the truth!
For the record, I don't appreciate the implication that my vagina is made of duct tape. What next, penises made of saran wrap? Get some better analogies.
unionjacklyn 3 years ago
i hate this analogy, it is not relivent to sex at all.
yeps8 3 years ago
Well, each time you stick tape to something, you don't just leave some of it, you take some of what it was stuck to with you as well. Sooo, that means you give some of yourself to another person, they a give part of themselves to you...and that's a BAD thing?
Oh.
muzebl 3 years ago 2
so what about people who engage in Serial monogamy? They are with one partner at at a time. Or what about people who go through multiple marriages and divorces? This is religious propoganda that is trying to make us shameful of our bodies and our sexual nature. This kind of ignorance and close mindedness is what allows things like circumcision (male genital mutilation) to be done to innocent baby boys in the USA.
areseepee 3 years ago 4
Am I really supposed to believe that? What is being put in the water to make people think that something like this is anything other than outright misinformation?
p.s. I'm not still with the person I first touched duct tape with, how does that work?
pharmacopaeia 3 years ago 3
I am VERY relieved on most of the comments here, it made me realize that I am not the only one who noticed all the nonsense and irrelevant analogies.
Oh and by the way, last time I checked, my vagina is in fact, not made out of duct tape nor supposed to be compared to duct tape.
claudzilla 3 years ago 4
This made me giggle. Instead of teaching kids safe sex practices, we give them corny PSA's about how.... your junk is like duct tape?
Yah but no.
xenomorphscholar 3 years ago 3
why don't they just put the puct tape over their cooches?
UglyGirlzArntPPL 3 years ago
haha is this a joke? relationship capabilities based off the stickyness of tape, that kind of logic is just astounding hahaha.
Yuna1881 3 years ago
So if two experimenting 15 year old virgins have sex, they will stick together forever because they are two clean pieces of duct tape, right?
Why does it not usually work out that way? Hmmm, something in this analogy is broke.
Wavicle 3 years ago 3
There are like... what? four or five shots that you mixed up to cheesy music with some special iMovie dissolves and filters. It was painful. I couldn't even follow the tape. And what was with the trash can? The analogy is terrible, too. Past sexual experience has nothing to do with how well you stick with someone when you get married. That all has to do with compatibility, not your lack of reference.
Cola82 4 years ago 2
This video does a better job at teaching kids how to be poor critical thinkers than it teaches abstinence. Because, duh, if my body were a piece of duct tape, then I guess I shouldn't use it to hug anyone or kiss the bible or go to school or watch YouTube, lest it be contaminated with stuff that makes it unsticky.
kangarooelaine 4 years ago 3
People actually believe this? Really, truly?
*Is scared*
CaketinHT 4 years ago 2
The bit that makes me sick and angry - didn't the girl in the pink sweater get "raped" in the video, by the analogy that's being used? Everyone else in the video freely consented to move the duct tape, but as far as we can tell, she just got it forced onto her. What kind of an image is that to have with your caption "make positive choices"!?
SnowdropExplodes 4 years ago 3
The thing that makes me curious about this video is how taking a little bit of someone else with you is supposed to bad? After the first few seconds the distinction between your body and your self is totally lost in this video, so it seemed to be saying that sharing and exchanging emotions, ideas, and hugs, was a bad thing too!
SnowdropExplodes 4 years ago
This would be the logical fallacy of arguing by analogy. People are not duct tape, so they do not have "stickiness" which can be lost through sex/being stuck to a trash can.
thjadewolf 4 years ago
Message here: A virgin with the brains and personality of a pile of rocks will STILL be better than that dirty slut with a PhD who went on to save many lives in Africa. Oh wait, I forgot - women don't HAVE to be smart or have souls, right? Noo, we're supposed to be miserable baby-poppers. Jerks.
SylaTNoble 4 years ago 3
I mean, seriously- if you don't know wtf you're talking about (which is CLEARLY the case here if you think that vaginas get "worn out" or if you think that duct tape "leaves part of itself behind") then stfu and keep your crucifix OFF MY BODY.
SylaTNoble 4 years ago
from a friend:
" Basically, what they're saying in this PSA, is that your naughty bits are a lot like a piece of used duct tape that has been stuck to a trash can, a men's room, and a portly gal in a pink sweater. Oh, and also, you're a whore. And no one will ever love you. Except the portly gal in the pink sweater. And maybe not even her."
mancrushonporter 4 years ago 2
false, duct tape does not leave any of itself behind no matter how many times you peel it off the wall.
cardamom7 4 years ago 2
Oww your vagina is a piece of duct tape? You know that's really not healthy. You should consider seeing a doctor for that and perhaps sterilization too on account of being too ignorant & misogynistic to pass on your illogical metaphors.
MrLugubrious 4 years ago
And I could not help but notice that most of the people ruining their TAPE in the video were girls. Are you guys taught that too much sex will make your vagina looser & less sticky or what? Because I've got news for you. The vagina is a muscle & with the exception of childbirth it does not stretch out (and then only on account of TEARING) & become loose. Nor should it under any circumstances be STICKY. Just say NO to abstinence only propaganda.
MrLugubrious 4 years ago 9
your point, is lost. Lost because of the bad quality of the video itself. You will never get any ideas across with a video like this because it looks completely and utterly thrown together last minute and less than armature quality. People are LAUGHING at the video....before even considering any message you might care about. put a little more effort into these things if you really want to be taken seriously. not that I care about your message either..
magicbologna 4 years ago
Anal sex is the best kind.
DrLZRDMN 4 years ago
Every time you have sex, a little bit of you dies inside. Your boyfriend is stealing your soul, ladies.
This is the silliest analogy I have ever heard. How exactly does not having sex make you more likely to stick together later? Why do the 'abstinent' states in the South have the worst divorce rates in the US? Better sex? Totally, like how the first time you play basketball you're the best on the court.
Not that I want facts to get in the way of a good ideology.
Jormungandur 4 years ago 8
Hear-hear!
plasmapuppy 4 years ago
Oh, and may I add, as a teenage girl -- nothing does a number on my self-esteem quite like being told that my worth as a human rides on saving my virginity as a gift for some lucky man -- commodifying women, much? And obviously I don't even get to be the one who owns my body in the meantime, or it'd be MY choice who to have sex with and when, wouldn't it? And NO ONE would have the right to tell me different.
Friscalating 4 years ago 30
Abstinence-only sex ed has no connection to reality. And the nonsensical "Your body is like a piece of tape/gum/candy" analogy is a great example. People do NOT have a finite capacity for love or number of sexual partners. They're not depleting a resource or being used by having lots of sex -- they're CHOOSING WHAT TO DO WITH THEIR BODIES.
Friscalating 4 years ago 26