'Journey to Half Your Deen'. Register NOW via as-suffa.org before it is too late. A unique chance to learn the best way in which to approach half of your deen. Certainly not to be missed.
Date: 9th & 10th of July.
An event based on a guide to a healthy and a God Pleasing marriage.
Whether you are married or not, it is recommended for all!!!
The fact that a student studied with a madhhab does not mean that he cannot go beyond it if he finds sound evidence elsewhere; the only one who stubbornly clings to a particular madhhab (regardless of the evidence) is one who lacking in religious commitment and intellect, or he is doing that because of partisan attachment to his madhhab.
Bissmilah Baba Ali. I was talking to a woman from Pakistan (Islamabad) We had one dis agreement and she said that, If I didn't come back to her that she would kill herself. Now I want to get away from her, I am afraid that she'll hurt herself. What do I do?
@EnnCamp Awww don't you worry. A guy like you is not worth it. Who cannot take a small argument and comes to conclusions so fast....Don't worry, she will not kill herself, cos if you want to get away from her after promising her taking name of "Allah" and swearing to "Allah" that you won't leave her, then why should she kill herself.
great! and yes exactly, some people do think of marriage as a fairytale kind of love and once the truth comes out, they're too shocked to work through it! May Allah swt guide us to the right choices and grant each muslim a strong and loving relation with their spouse :)
@possession2 And they're are a lot of unhappy non muslim marrages, the reason is clear to any muslim. It's because they're to drunk to know who they're having sex with and end up paying child support. I feel sorry for non-muslims,there so stupid and they can't see it.
@possession2 oh come on it's the same thing with non-muslim marriages. When the girl is obsessed with landing a man that she doesn't care who. She's just planning the wedding. So, don't try to say that. If a muslim couple doesn't know each other that well, it's their responsibility to get to know one another before the wedding with a maharam present. You don't need to be living together and having kids for 5 year before getting married. So stop with the attitude!!!!!!
i just have one question bro, i hope u dnt mind.in islam ppl BEFORE marriage are considered non -mehrams and when they are using the site ,wudnt it b possible for them to talk in the absence of a mehram?do clarify me this point INSHALLAH .i do understand the vids though :) .JAZAKALLUKHAIRAN
welcome back! Can't wait ffor ur new videos to come out inshallah and i just got married a few months ago lol so i guess these videos will be very useful for me since im pretty new at this...
Baba Ali, when will you be making more funny and informative videos like you used to? The ones with the different distractions in salat, and also the one with your different types of friends. Those were awesoeme.
Hey Baba Ali good video and good idea to help people manage their marriage problems. May Allah reward you; Also please watch my videos because you speak Farsi
I AM confused with his new site it is very good i admit but all the women seem to be from america and none from uk i know it is knew but i am thinking of leaving due to none in uk i guess it i new i dunno realy but the site is still great
@salps3 maybe some ofem are willing to relocate move to uk or maybe destiny is hiding smthing for you in da usa ;) u neva know good luck anyways and also you can forward the site to few friends in da uk this way they get to know about it so just give it time
@morokiyana agreed if it came to it i will eithe relocate to america or she can come here i actualy got a message from a beautifull sister of half of your deen i am jut worried that most of em have phd and degree and i dont want too look dumb but there is one that i realy like she i asked her will you relocate to uk she replied yes after 1 year i will wait if she interested
@salps3: Salam,brother..one important thins.. although both men & women are materialistic etc, but....even if a woman is more educated than her husband (i.e. in terms of degrees/college/University), if the HUSBAND is good, kind, responsible towards the marriage (i.e. he is economically responsible), honorable,respectful to her.. then all these materialistic things don't matter to the wife! Not at all!
Islam is clear on the kind of wife you should be seeking. The Prophet (s.a.w) said: "A woman may be married for four reasons:
1. for her property,
2. her status,
3. her beauty, and
4. her religion;
so try to get one who is religious, may you be blessed." This specifically defines just what kind of a companion we are seeking, for if we marry her for anything other than her religious piety, our marriage is bound to fall into misery.
@sabashsabash obviously i would like her practiseing but the character is the most important anyway i hope to get a wife of half of our deen seems like the only true site online no wait it is the best marriage site cos the rest are fake i here you though and you are correct i but the one i like of hod i am phsically attracted too so wish me look
@salps3: May Allah will make it easy for you.However you missed my point.You are writing what "YOU" want & what "YOU" like in your future wife.My question is what can YOU OFFER in marriage?Can you fulfill the responsibilities of a pious Muslim husband?Are YOU yourself practicing? Please don't mind..my reasons for asking these questions is because almost 100% of the time in a marriage we mention what WE want,but never once do we do our own self-analysis..( my thoughts,apologies if I've hurt you).
@sabashsabash fair play well my main reason is protection from shaitan being single aint easy as for her well she is a garment for me and vice versa so i beleive the firt step to progress is to get protection obviously all husband and wife argue and will be stressfull that is part of the package also it works both ways well what can i offer the same question goes to the wife there always too side to a coin
The ideal Muslim husband will base his behavior on Islam, not on his Arab, American, or Pakistani/Indian culture. Separate our non-Islamic cultures from Islam.
@salps3 well for the phd part dont forget that each one of us has a phd in somthing they do the best its just that some of us get it from universties and the others from the big Life school you just need to be confident about it know exactly what it is and never take it for Granted then you atract the persone that wants that part of you you dont wana atract the wrong persone so FIND YOUR OWN PHD cos i am sure you have one salam and ps ur prophet Mohammad never went to school and yet ...
Salam Alaikum brother Ali, and all muslim brothers and sister. I urge you all and invite you to allow some time and patience to watch this ( watch?v=i5WdKnip_uk )
It is very important, its about the reality of this age and Dajjal- it is crucial. After you watch it please spread it- Like I am doing. Peace
yeaaahh!! or marriages fail because one of the spouses had only intentions of what they would gain out of the marriage! (i.e. Green card, mothers approval, quickie marriage just to say that ur married and brag about it on FB!) lol... today people get married for some of the most unimaginable reasons!
my husband and i have our problems in our marriage, and he talked about divorce before, and i told him the reason why we are having so many problems is cuz he doesnt communicate and i want him to, but he still doesnt get it.
If you know any sisters around your area who are married ask them for their help. Ask them to tell their husband the situation your in and have him talk to your husband.
"The believing men and women are helpers for one another." [qur'an]
@ayasalman the problems you are experiencing is quite common. i wish our parents told us what to expect or we heard Khutbas about marriage tips but unfortunately both cases are rare. I have dedicated my entire new season on helping closing the gap of miscommunication between husband and wife and I hope the new videos I'll be releasing with be beneficial inshAllah. As usual, the videos are always free so please feel free to fwd to others. JazakAllah Khair.
@possession2 knowing them it doesnt matter cuz u have a lot of great brothers and sisters out there who are married to each other and they didnt know the person either but they are living together happily
@ayasalman Salam Alaikum, My husband and I used to fight alot in our marriage it was not healthy. The thing we as women need to remember is that men don't automatically know what they did wrong, so the best thing you can do for your marriage and both of your sanity is to be explicitly candid about what exactly happened that you didn't like or that set you off. Even doing this it will take time for changes to be made and you need to be patient.
@ayasalman Encourage your husband to also open up and tell him . .. "I really want to understand where you are coming from because I want this to work." The problem with Today's marriages is that people give up too easily because divorce is so acceptable in these days. Maybe life back in the day was easier - but relationships always have their transition periods where you are getting to know each other more deeply and becoming accustomed to each others ways and even ways of thinking.
@ayasalman never ever give up sister. Maybe try to sit him down and speak to him in another way. Then he won't feel so defensive about the lack of communication. Sometimes it takes a couple of tries, before you can it going. I've been in the same situation, but we are working on it. Try to also look at yourself first. It really helps. Enshallah you'll make it work. We don't want the shaytan to seperate you. Sometimes gaining a little perspective helps, too. Enshallah khair!!!!
Masha'Allah, very good mision you're getting yourself into. I have been marrige for 10 years now, and we have two kids, Mariam and Yusuf. We are still in love, and we are so happy together. We had our ups and downs, but we work it out, and makes it to a good thing. Thanks for the video brother.
ok I'm not criticizing or anything but what does this video have to do with Muslim marriage/marriages like the title says, i mean these problems are common b/w both Muslim and Non-Muslim couples, I'm pretty sure, so yeah is this video somehow related to Islam?
how do you sujest a woman and a man getting to know each other without doing haram? a man has shown interest in a woman because someone sujested her to him. She is 19 and does not quite feel ready for marriage, it's the first time someone is asking her.. he on the other hand is very ready and wants a wife.. but she does not want to turn him down because she is afraid she won't find such a good muslim any where else.. any advice?
This will make for an interesting project, I'm looking forward to it.
But I have to say that imho the awkwardness of communicating with a so far "alien" gender among adults can be dissolved by something as simple as coeducation among children.
We (Muslims) do hate jews, Christians and every other religion other than Islâm. This is our Aqeedah, just like Ebraheem ('alayhi salam) said in the Qur'ân that hate and enmity has appeared between us and them (kuffâr) until they start worshiping Allâh! So stop lying about us not hating them, if you don't hate them then don't, your own Aqeedah, but don't ascribe it unto Islâm!
@easyonetwothree am Proud Muslim and i don't hate Jews or Christians. Prophet Mohammad taught us to us to love them and live with them in peace, but of course you cant trust on your secrets. how can we spread the message of Islam them if we hate them bro!!!
@bashaar1989 "how can we spread the message of Islam them if we hate them bro"
We can try spreading Islâm just like the Prophet ('alayhi salatu wa salam) did, he hated them but still he spread islâm... you love them and keep loving them while we (ahl us sunnah) hate them and will keep hating them in Sha Allâh.
@easyonetwothree Are you a non-muslim trying to make muslims sound bad? Muslims DO NOT hate anyone, rather like we hate the sin but no the sinner. We may hate those who directly insult Islam - but simply believing other than Islam does not mean insutling Islam. You are actually the most stupid muslim i have ever met. And it is because of people like you that non-muslims believe muslims to be some barbarian and hatefull people, when in fact we are not! Muslims live in peace with non-muslims.
@easyonetwothree why would you even say that? you realize we don't hate other religions simply because islam = peace. stop posting comments just for the sake of propaganda.
Salam Alaikum brother Ali, and all muslim brothers and sister. I urge you all and invite you to allow some time and patience to watch this ( watch?v=i5WdKnip_uk )
It is very important, its about the reality of this age and Dajjal- it is crucial. After you watch it please spread it- Like I am doing. Peace
I missed your videos sooo much!!!:'( I know you must be busy and don't have time for videos anymore but I am always happy to see something new from you. ANd this time it would be really helpful as I might be marrying a muslim guy in the future. I myself am christian but...I try to be really open and respectful and interested in his religion and try not to do anything that might be haram for him or for islam. So...I could really use your advices about marriage.
you know what...that is true.. communication..if there is no communication how the heck is the marriage going to work..listen here....you have to communicate..tell each other...grrrr...
I like the personal casual advice .. however, i'd very much like 2 know the scientific basis of ur advice. Not that they r bad. In fact most of them r good :) But just 2 increase credibility.
@tawqee3 Ever heard of common sense? I bet not only scientists have what's called common sense. In fact, many probably do not or they wouldn't have came up with some weird theories.
Allah (swt) has given you an audience on youtube, with respected people listening and learning from your videos etc, you decide to create a adult match making website ?? chatting, flirting and all this non-sense talk.
Fear Allah brother, you could of used this opportunity to raise funds to helped the oppressed and the weak or in other means. Your voice would of been wide spread, but no you created such a un-islamic way of meeting one through the internet. Astagfir'Allah.
@TorabistHunter Interesting point, In Islam, chatting with the opposite sex is haram/makrooh. Very conflicted, id actually like to see Baba Ali respond to this.
@TorabistHunter Before accusing your Muslim brother of something, you should first verify if your claim is true. Half Our Deen does NOT have any chat rooms and it is not what you claim it is. When you accuse you brother of something and you are lying, be aware that you will be accountable on the Last Day. You may one day forget about what you post here but rest assured that I will be holding accountable on the Day of Judgment for lying. So I suggest you take your own advise and fear Allah.
@ummahfilms So instead of trying to clear things up with your brother in islam and make me understand what this whole website is truely about, you decide to call myself a liar ?? and want to settle this on the day of judgement ?? lool!! am i talking to a Little Child or a man ?, La Illaha il'Allah, you still didnt answer my QUESTION so how can you call it a lie ?? when i only stated how you could of helped the ummah in a better more logical way. FEAR Allah for replying the way you did!
wow, you need to get over yourself. How are YOU helping the 'ummah' eh? By endorsing war? And Allah should be angry at Baba Ali for what? For making YOU upset? LOL, how arrogant of you
marriage is only for people who want to have headaches and lots and lots of problems. seriously! if i knew then what I know now. marriage wouldn't have been my choice. to each his own i guess.
I just don't understand why people have to get married. I do not want to get married ever or have children. It's all pointless and marriage is so BORING!
@chillyqueen16 If you do not want to get married, then what are you doing on this video? Simply click the "X" and it'll take you out of here. Simple as that.
@halflifeproductionz well, at least they are married to someone who will take care of them.however, in Europe and America teenagers start thinking about sex and having sex with others before 18. then they will continue having sex with other men in order to find "love", but the truth they're trying to fulfill their human desires in a wrong way. and when they're old they will start to find someone to marry. that's disgusting!
@bashaar1989 First of all, every human being male or female should be able to take care of themself and their offspring without having to depend on another person to provide for them. Marrying to have someone to take care of you is demeaning and degrading to the human spirit. It is being a whore for security. That is disgusting. Secondly, there is no wrong way to fulfill sexual desires short of rape and inflicting bodily damage. Thirdly, love can come at any age and it can come more than once.
@bashaar1989 Thank you for respecting my opinion while yet disagreeing with it. It is my further opinion that the only truthful reason that anyone could have for not wanting any other adult human being to be economically independent and self-sufficient is because they want to have power over someone else and enslave them, forcing them into obedience by means of exerting economic coercion. To me, such an arrangement is shameful on both the one in control of the money and the one with no control.
If you must have economic control over your spouse, if they must be financially dependent on you, to have a stable relationship, you have not found love. Love is freely given and freely maintained. If someone stays because they lack the option to simply walk away, they are a bought and paid for servant. That is not love.
We clearly have very divergent opinions on what constitutes shameful social interactions between adult people. Thank you for listening to my take on it. Knowing what each other finds offensive and disgusting and why may not ever bring us to agreement but it may help in understanding.
@SSanf you're way of thinking, you're mind is like the person who lives in 2010. you're thinking in the modern way. but prophet Mohammed lived before 1432 years, so their life is a lot different than our lives now. moreover, we don't enslave the women. in a contrary, we treat them like princess. however, there's some Muslims who treat them wrong, but its not Islam fault.the only reason they treat them wrong is because of ignorance and having a lot of stress and problems.
@bashaar1989 Yes, I live in 2010 and think like as person who lives in 2010. That is both reasonable and appropriate. Many things have changed since 1432. Thinking like a person from that time would be a detriment to both society and myself. It is counterproductive for people to think as if it were some other age than the one they live in. A godly inspired message of an actual prophet should and would fit all times and all peoples. Mohamed’s message clearly does not.
If the women cannot leave for economic or any other reason, they are enslaved regardless of the nature of the man keeping them. I am certain that throughout history many slaves were well treated. That did not make their enslavement morally right. Slavery is degrading and morally corrupting to both the slave and the slaveholder.
Please, allow me to ask you one question. Are you free to NOT be a Muslim? Aside from your belief that you would anger "God" what would happen to you if you renounced Islam? What would be the earthly consequences to you, personally, for making such a choice?
@bashaar1989 so you think marriage with a 10 year old is okay? haha. Its all cool, because Islam permits. No argument needed, islam says, so do. I don't know what's the point in talking about these things, you have it in your head that it's okay, but i find it disgusting that a 50+ year old man can consummate their marriage with an underage girl.
@halflifeproductionz first, their time was different from us. they lived before 1432 years from us. seconds, its scientifically proven that the people who live in desert got mature faster than the people who live in colder places.third, whats the problem if they loved each other. don't you say that love can happen in any age. the real question what r u doing here? attacking Islam and our prophet in our videos. whats the meaning of this? if u hate Islam and our prophet then stay out!!!
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LifePasserBy 7 months ago
'Journey to Half Your Deen'. Register NOW via as-suffa.org before it is too late. A unique chance to learn the best way in which to approach half of your deen. Certainly not to be missed.
Date: 9th & 10th of July.
An event based on a guide to a healthy and a God Pleasing marriage.
Whether you are married or not, it is recommended for all!!!
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What a beautiful nasheed, and a wonderful project.. I hope a lot of people (incl. myself) will take a lesson out of it..
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The fact that a student studied with a madhhab does not mean that he cannot go beyond it if he finds sound evidence elsewhere; the only one who stubbornly clings to a particular madhhab (regardless of the evidence) is one who lacking in religious commitment and intellect, or he is doing that because of partisan attachment to his madhhab.
TheTableeghisareliar 1 year ago
Bissmilah Baba Ali. I was talking to a woman from Pakistan (Islamabad) We had one dis agreement and she said that, If I didn't come back to her that she would kill herself. Now I want to get away from her, I am afraid that she'll hurt herself. What do I do?
EnnCamp 1 year ago
@EnnCamp Awww don't you worry. A guy like you is not worth it. Who cannot take a small argument and comes to conclusions so fast....Don't worry, she will not kill herself, cos if you want to get away from her after promising her taking name of "Allah" and swearing to "Allah" that you won't leave her, then why should she kill herself.
Blackmagicwoman0626 1 year ago
yur awsom ^_^
Xx7anoonxX 1 year ago
lool you so funny.
jazak for the videos.
QGprincess 1 year ago
right hunny bunny :D
lostlover4815 1 year ago
great! and yes exactly, some people do think of marriage as a fairytale kind of love and once the truth comes out, they're too shocked to work through it! May Allah swt guide us to the right choices and grant each muslim a strong and loving relation with their spouse :)
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possession2 1 year ago
@possession2 I feel sorry for people who use the word "there" incorrectly too many times. They look so stupid and they just can't see it.
1manmafia 1 year ago
@possession2 And they're are a lot of unhappy non muslim marrages, the reason is clear to any muslim. It's because they're to drunk to know who they're having sex with and end up paying child support. I feel sorry for non-muslims,there so stupid and they can't see it.
8o8hawaiii 1 year ago
@possession2 oh come on it's the same thing with non-muslim marriages. When the girl is obsessed with landing a man that she doesn't care who. She's just planning the wedding. So, don't try to say that. If a muslim couple doesn't know each other that well, it's their responsibility to get to know one another before the wedding with a maharam present. You don't need to be living together and having kids for 5 year before getting married. So stop with the attitude!!!!!!
theglife8 1 year ago
@theglife8 I don't really know what i'me talking about, ignore me. ;)
possession2 1 year ago
ur bak!!!!!! ur vids r gr8 obvs
598sapphire895 1 year ago
salaaaammmm and welcomeeeeeee backkkkk brother Ali :)
khan2727 1 year ago
Haha, I watched this,
I am soon going to be married.
But I totally agree with all of this.
We're ready, and this video proves it.
I'm not too young either...
zsabyss13 1 year ago
Baba Aliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii is back
PeaceMakerr0 1 year ago
YEYY!!!! i missed Baba Ali!!! :-D
lethybaby 1 year ago
yay! another season! Jazakallah Khair!
lilmsmuslimah 1 year ago
There are about 130 Registered Muslimah atm (July 21, 2010). I am curious to know how many guys are registered. >_>
Rishu7 1 year ago
Nice work maashaallah.
ChuckCh9 1 year ago
i just have one question bro, i hope u dnt mind.in islam ppl BEFORE marriage are considered non -mehrams and when they are using the site ,wudnt it b possible for them to talk in the absence of a mehram?do clarify me this point INSHALLAH .i do understand the vids though :) .JAZAKALLUKHAIRAN
whattheworldiscomin2 1 year ago
i coulda sworn i saw baba ali in a butter finger commercial.
ArnorvTheMilky 1 year ago
hunni bunny lool!
shima1love 1 year ago
Great Video!!!!!!!!!
sarahtigirl 1 year ago
why do the women on half of your deen.com take forever to reply i susspect something is going on none seem interesting
salps3 1 year ago
السلام عليكم
اخي كلمك وقعي ومفيد
والله يوفقك
وتبع العمل الرئع
والله يعينك
Mryooooosef 1 year ago
Salam alikum brother! Great video !
DrFMM 1 year ago
welcome back! Can't wait ffor ur new videos to come out inshallah and i just got married a few months ago lol so i guess these videos will be very useful for me since im pretty new at this...
AfghanBeBe20 1 year ago
Baba Ali, when will you be making more funny and informative videos like you used to? The ones with the different distractions in salat, and also the one with your different types of friends. Those were awesoeme.
SamKhan95 1 year ago
Finally a new video! Al hamdullilah.
Can't wait to see what's instored!
SooOooS1987 1 year ago
Hey Baba Ali good video and good idea to help people manage their marriage problems. May Allah reward you; Also please watch my videos because you speak Farsi
ThePeacemaker321 1 year ago
Thank you so much for the new videos! I have been waiting for so long!
shiranaiiotoko 1 year ago 2
Congratulations ! You may now punch the bride ! ( closed fist obviously ) !
MrNodzilla 1 year ago
yaay! your back. i missed your videos... always inspiring and insightful
Ilmvm258 1 year ago
isn't this haraam???!!!
it z like the match sits !!!!!
plz do answer back!!
Emily92mia 1 year ago
I AM confused with his new site it is very good i admit but all the women seem to be from america and none from uk i know it is knew but i am thinking of leaving due to none in uk i guess it i new i dunno realy but the site is still great
salps3 1 year ago
@salps3 maybe some ofem are willing to relocate move to uk or maybe destiny is hiding smthing for you in da usa ;) u neva know good luck anyways and also you can forward the site to few friends in da uk this way they get to know about it so just give it time
morokiyana 1 year ago
@morokiyana yeh true i need to put up a better pick though the site is good i hope it brings me marriage
salps3 1 year ago
@salps3 am sure it will all you need is POSITIVENSSSS good luck brother
morokiyana 1 year ago
@morokiyana agreed if it came to it i will eithe relocate to america or she can come here i actualy got a message from a beautifull sister of half of your deen i am jut worried that most of em have phd and degree and i dont want too look dumb but there is one that i realy like she i asked her will you relocate to uk she replied yes after 1 year i will wait if she interested
salps3 1 year ago
@salps3: Salam,brother..one important thins.. although both men & women are materialistic etc, but....even if a woman is more educated than her husband (i.e. in terms of degrees/college/University), if the HUSBAND is good, kind, responsible towards the marriage (i.e. he is economically responsible), honorable,respectful to her.. then all these materialistic things don't matter to the wife! Not at all!
Assumption:
Both husband & wife are practicing Muslims.
sabashsabash 1 year ago
@salps3:
Islam is clear on the kind of wife you should be seeking. The Prophet (s.a.w) said: "A woman may be married for four reasons:
1. for her property,
2. her status,
3. her beauty, and
4. her religion;
so try to get one who is religious, may you be blessed." This specifically defines just what kind of a companion we are seeking, for if we marry her for anything other than her religious piety, our marriage is bound to fall into misery.
May Allah guide us all. Ameen.
sabashsabash 1 year ago
@sabashsabash obviously i would like her practiseing but the character is the most important anyway i hope to get a wife of half of our deen seems like the only true site online no wait it is the best marriage site cos the rest are fake i here you though and you are correct i but the one i like of hod i am phsically attracted too so wish me look
salps3 1 year ago
@salps3: May Allah will make it easy for you.However you missed my point.You are writing what "YOU" want & what "YOU" like in your future wife.My question is what can YOU OFFER in marriage?Can you fulfill the responsibilities of a pious Muslim husband?Are YOU yourself practicing? Please don't mind..my reasons for asking these questions is because almost 100% of the time in a marriage we mention what WE want,but never once do we do our own self-analysis..( my thoughts,apologies if I've hurt you).
sabashsabash 1 year ago
@sabashsabash fair play well my main reason is protection from shaitan being single aint easy as for her well she is a garment for me and vice versa so i beleive the firt step to progress is to get protection obviously all husband and wife argue and will be stressfull that is part of the package also it works both ways well what can i offer the same question goes to the wife there always too side to a coin
salps3 1 year ago
@salps3 The Ideal Muslim Husban-A Review
The ideal Muslim husband will base his behavior on Islam, not on his Arab, American, or Pakistani/Indian culture. Separate our non-Islamic cultures from Islam.
Reference link Sound Vision (dot) com
sabashsabash 1 year ago
@salps3 well for the phd part dont forget that each one of us has a phd in somthing they do the best its just that some of us get it from universties and the others from the big Life school you just need to be confident about it know exactly what it is and never take it for Granted then you atract the persone that wants that part of you you dont wana atract the wrong persone so FIND YOUR OWN PHD cos i am sure you have one salam and ps ur prophet Mohammad never went to school and yet ...
morokiyana 1 year ago
@morokiyana agreed well you tell most of the universcity girls that most are practiseing culture not islam so i dont realy care tbh
salps3 1 year ago
Good point to be discussed, very important.
Jizakallah Khair.
icriosphinx 1 year ago
great video/project Baba Ali!
pizi87 1 year ago
so true... well said.
jocker244 1 year ago
on point bro.
catnawal 1 year ago
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preach on brother!
Pshadaj 1 year ago
can i join the site if i am Christian? but i do believe Muhammad was a prophet of the god of Abraham
sm4ks2006 1 year ago
@sm4ks2006 i think dats no prob :)
warriorlightangel 1 year ago
lol the music is silly
nvmee8 1 year ago
cool cant wait for the rest inshallah
pirateofthehills 1 year ago
Yaaaaaaaay! Finally - its been sooooo long!
Maan I missed these videos so much :(
But yeah - the topic of marriage is HOT, and its particularly hard to get parents to understand how the younger generation feel about it.
They get culture and Islam all mixed up. Girls thesedays have very little, if any, say in who they want to get married to :( How very sad
May Allah reward you and get the message across to all. Peace x
simi1639 1 year ago
YAY! HE'S BACK!
BABA ALI...........!
uniquelegance 1 year ago
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Salam Alaikum brother Ali, and all muslim brothers and sister. I urge you all and invite you to allow some time and patience to watch this ( watch?v=i5WdKnip_uk )
It is very important, its about the reality of this age and Dajjal- it is crucial. After you watch it please spread it- Like I am doing. Peace
bedaidazak 1 year ago 2
yeaaahh!! or marriages fail because one of the spouses had only intentions of what they would gain out of the marriage! (i.e. Green card, mothers approval, quickie marriage just to say that ur married and brag about it on FB!) lol... today people get married for some of the most unimaginable reasons!
a3eeoosh 1 year ago
waah~ bro salam!!! wen is the second part coming up??
warriorlightangel 1 year ago
@warriorlightangel new video each week inshAllah (at least 10)
ummahfilms 1 year ago
@ummahfilms inshaAllah thank u! barakallah! xcited 4 d movie too salam
warriorlightangel 1 year ago
is that Osama?
wowwow180 1 year ago
@wowwow180 yeaa osama has a utube account genius
nyzarab 1 year ago
welcome back dude :)
englishrosette 1 year ago
Always a pleasure to watch your videos :)
youn177 1 year ago 3
lmao, im youre biggest fan :D
xLelly 1 year ago
Noo! Why is the video so short?! :(((((((((
PolTehPwnage 1 year ago 2
what took you so long?!?! :D
WesEdgar 1 year ago 4
I hope for more videos...
ZilverGalacticon 1 year ago
my husband and i have our problems in our marriage, and he talked about divorce before, and i told him the reason why we are having so many problems is cuz he doesnt communicate and i want him to, but he still doesnt get it.
ayasalman 1 year ago
@ayasalman
ukhti, too much info.
You should tell someone around your area, maybe his father or even your father.
and try to keep personal things personal. No offence
Javeer89 1 year ago
@Javeer89 im a convert, his father is dead and mine i rarely talk to, cuz he is never in my life.
ayasalman 1 year ago
@ayasalman
subhanallah, thats quite the situation.
If you know any sisters around your area who are married ask them for their help. Ask them to tell their husband the situation your in and have him talk to your husband.
"The believing men and women are helpers for one another." [qur'an]
Javeer89 1 year ago
@ayasalman the problems you are experiencing is quite common. i wish our parents told us what to expect or we heard Khutbas about marriage tips but unfortunately both cases are rare. I have dedicated my entire new season on helping closing the gap of miscommunication between husband and wife and I hope the new videos I'll be releasing with be beneficial inshAllah. As usual, the videos are always free so please feel free to fwd to others. JazakAllah Khair.
ummahfilms 1 year ago 13
@ummahfilms I don't know how to explain it, but I think my cat's allergic to you
SCNOUVICEWALZAS 1 year ago
@ayasalman Because you probably didn't know the person before you married them, it's not rocket science.
possession2 1 year ago
@possession2 knowing them it doesnt matter cuz u have a lot of great brothers and sisters out there who are married to each other and they didnt know the person either but they are living together happily
ayasalman 1 year ago
@possession2 Because you probably have nothing better to do but be a racist wanna be.
8o8hawaiii 1 year ago
@ayasalman Salam Alaikum, My husband and I used to fight alot in our marriage it was not healthy. The thing we as women need to remember is that men don't automatically know what they did wrong, so the best thing you can do for your marriage and both of your sanity is to be explicitly candid about what exactly happened that you didn't like or that set you off. Even doing this it will take time for changes to be made and you need to be patient.
Amatullah83 1 year ago
@ayasalman Encourage your husband to also open up and tell him . .. "I really want to understand where you are coming from because I want this to work." The problem with Today's marriages is that people give up too easily because divorce is so acceptable in these days. Maybe life back in the day was easier - but relationships always have their transition periods where you are getting to know each other more deeply and becoming accustomed to each others ways and even ways of thinking.
Amatullah83 1 year ago
@ayasalman never ever give up sister. Maybe try to sit him down and speak to him in another way. Then he won't feel so defensive about the lack of communication. Sometimes it takes a couple of tries, before you can it going. I've been in the same situation, but we are working on it. Try to also look at yourself first. It really helps. Enshallah you'll make it work. We don't want the shaytan to seperate you. Sometimes gaining a little perspective helps, too. Enshallah khair!!!!
theglife8 1 year ago
YEEEEAAAAH! you're back!
bilalhussain190 1 year ago 31
Masha'Allah, very good mision you're getting yourself into. I have been marrige for 10 years now, and we have two kids, Mariam and Yusuf. We are still in love, and we are so happy together. We had our ups and downs, but we work it out, and makes it to a good thing. Thanks for the video brother.
ClasenMovies 1 year ago
omg im soooo excited. ur finaly bak.
sabahmohammed 1 year ago
wow! its been ages since ur last video! yay!
nizzisdebest 1 year ago
omg! finally these videos are back!! thank youu! ~^.^~
nyachankawaii 1 year ago
yaaaaaaaaaaaaay you are back!!! =D
Kittemans 1 year ago
Light on the tongue heavy on the scale "subhan allah wa bihamdih subhan allah alatheem"
lambawanoor 1 year ago 2
Salam,
Bro, whats wrong with ur face skin? are u ok?
khalid85uk 1 year ago
ok I'm not criticizing or anything but what does this video have to do with Muslim marriage/marriages like the title says, i mean these problems are common b/w both Muslim and Non-Muslim couples, I'm pretty sure, so yeah is this video somehow related to Islam?
headbang108 1 year ago
YAY!! your BACK!! i miss you and your videos <3
nUrDreamZ300 1 year ago 43
thanks brother !
DrAbdulmohsen 1 year ago
NEWS FLASH FOR ALL THE MARRIAGE CRITICS.
Firstly the minimum age for half our deen is 18.
Yes we are in a different era and maturity taking longer to kick in and sometimes not kicking in at all.
Now that aside.... Wake up teens below 16 are sexually active with multiple partners. INCLUDING muslim kids.
So as a parent and Muslim i prefer to promote love & marriage than advocate safe sex and promiscuity?
Unity4allhumans 1 year ago
as wr wb nice effects :))))).
DarumIslam 1 year ago
Do a video on how to communicate with potential partner !! PLEASEEEE
parsprincess 1 year ago
Honey bunny..haha
islamiaarabia 1 year ago
how do you sujest a woman and a man getting to know each other without doing haram? a man has shown interest in a woman because someone sujested her to him. She is 19 and does not quite feel ready for marriage, it's the first time someone is asking her.. he on the other hand is very ready and wants a wife.. but she does not want to turn him down because she is afraid she won't find such a good muslim any where else.. any advice?
makeupLover187 1 year ago
Love you videos. You do soooo much for the Muslim community that many don't do in their lifetime!
Nazmus1992 1 year ago
This will make for an interesting project, I'm looking forward to it.
But I have to say that imho the awkwardness of communicating with a so far "alien" gender among adults can be dissolved by something as simple as coeducation among children.
42317 1 year ago
We (Muslims) do hate jews, Christians and every other religion other than Islâm. This is our Aqeedah, just like Ebraheem ('alayhi salam) said in the Qur'ân that hate and enmity has appeared between us and them (kuffâr) until they start worshiping Allâh! So stop lying about us not hating them, if you don't hate them then don't, your own Aqeedah, but don't ascribe it unto Islâm!
easyonetwothree 1 year ago
@easyonetwothree am Proud Muslim and i don't hate Jews or Christians. Prophet Mohammad taught us to us to love them and live with them in peace, but of course you cant trust on your secrets. how can we spread the message of Islam them if we hate them bro!!!
bashaar1989 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 "how can we spread the message of Islam them if we hate them bro"
We can try spreading Islâm just like the Prophet ('alayhi salatu wa salam) did, he hated them but still he spread islâm... you love them and keep loving them while we (ahl us sunnah) hate them and will keep hating them in Sha Allâh.
easyonetwothree 1 year ago
@easyonetwothree Are you a non-muslim trying to make muslims sound bad? Muslims DO NOT hate anyone, rather like we hate the sin but no the sinner. We may hate those who directly insult Islam - but simply believing other than Islam does not mean insutling Islam. You are actually the most stupid muslim i have ever met. And it is because of people like you that non-muslims believe muslims to be some barbarian and hatefull people, when in fact we are not! Muslims live in peace with non-muslims.
MrSHSimps 1 year ago
@easyonetwothree why would you even say that? you realize we don't hate other religions simply because islam = peace. stop posting comments just for the sake of propaganda.
sweetimagination 1 year ago
yippe yippee yippee....
SOooooooooooooooo happy to see this video......going to spread this series like virus!
yu hu wa hahaha.
So good to see your video baba Ali....Assalamalaikum and JazakAllahKhair....
And just one a week!
awwwwwwwwwnnnn......
:(
anyway...patience patience
thank u for this HOD project!
thenewmee 1 year ago
Salam Alaikum brother Ali, and all muslim brothers and sister. I urge you all and invite you to allow some time and patience to watch this ( watch?v=i5WdKnip_uk )
It is very important, its about the reality of this age and Dajjal- it is crucial. After you watch it please spread it- Like I am doing. Peace
bedaidazak 1 year ago
BORTHER.. U NEED TO WORK ON THE BILLING SYSTEM...
lushhmushh 1 year ago
I missed your videos sooo much!!!:'( I know you must be busy and don't have time for videos anymore but I am always happy to see something new from you. ANd this time it would be really helpful as I might be marrying a muslim guy in the future. I myself am christian but...I try to be really open and respectful and interested in his religion and try not to do anything that might be haram for him or for islam. So...I could really use your advices about marriage.
xxxAngelikaxxx 1 year ago
@xxxAngelikaxxx You have got .. a beautiful mind. :)
God bless!
islamiaarabia 1 year ago
mash'Allah good to see you back baba ali... :)
TheOrchid21 1 year ago
I think you've already talked about this subject.
its good seeing you doing these videos again.
bahrainisoccer 1 year ago
Mashallah nice one brov !! total respect
speakercornerz 1 year ago
nice video man :D
when the video started i thought im in simba lol
zahershalata 1 year ago
This website will help converts who don't have families to help them find a spouse inshAllah
G00dPrognosis 1 year ago
you know what...that is true.. communication..if there is no communication how the heck is the marriage going to work..listen here....you have to communicate..tell each other...grrrr...
applecinnamonflower 1 year ago
I like the personal casual advice .. however, i'd very much like 2 know the scientific basis of ur advice. Not that they r bad. In fact most of them r good :) But just 2 increase credibility.
tawqee3 1 year ago
@tawqee3 Ever heard of common sense? I bet not only scientists have what's called common sense. In fact, many probably do not or they wouldn't have came up with some weird theories.
TaqwaRoad 1 year ago
Are you married yourself???
wallstreetyoung 1 year ago
FEAR ALLAH!!
Allah (swt) has given you an audience on youtube, with respected people listening and learning from your videos etc, you decide to create a adult match making website ?? chatting, flirting and all this non-sense talk.
Fear Allah brother, you could of used this opportunity to raise funds to helped the oppressed and the weak or in other means. Your voice would of been wide spread, but no you created such a un-islamic way of meeting one through the internet. Astagfir'Allah.
TorabistHunter 1 year ago
@TorabistHunter Interesting point, In Islam, chatting with the opposite sex is haram/makrooh. Very conflicted, id actually like to see Baba Ali respond to this.
UltimateKuber 1 year ago
@TorabistHunter Before accusing your Muslim brother of something, you should first verify if your claim is true. Half Our Deen does NOT have any chat rooms and it is not what you claim it is. When you accuse you brother of something and you are lying, be aware that you will be accountable on the Last Day. You may one day forget about what you post here but rest assured that I will be holding accountable on the Day of Judgment for lying. So I suggest you take your own advise and fear Allah.
ummahfilms 1 year ago
@ummahfilms So instead of trying to clear things up with your brother in islam and make me understand what this whole website is truely about, you decide to call myself a liar ?? and want to settle this on the day of judgement ?? lool!! am i talking to a Little Child or a man ?, La Illaha il'Allah, you still didnt answer my QUESTION so how can you call it a lie ?? when i only stated how you could of helped the ummah in a better more logical way. FEAR Allah for replying the way you did!
TorabistHunter 1 year ago
@TorabistHunter
wow, you need to get over yourself. How are YOU helping the 'ummah' eh? By endorsing war? And Allah should be angry at Baba Ali for what? For making YOU upset? LOL, how arrogant of you
Zackerybob 1 year ago
Jazzakallah khair for all your great efforts to help the ummah :)
shaboom812 1 year ago
I think they usually communicate just fine. They just hate what the other person is communicating to them.
SSanf 1 year ago
youshouldput the vedios here
clover0o0o0o 1 year ago
you are awesome brother!!
missfashionista21 1 year ago
marriage is only for people who want to have headaches and lots and lots of problems. seriously! if i knew then what I know now. marriage wouldn't have been my choice. to each his own i guess.
Luv4Music2009 1 year ago
I just don't understand why people have to get married. I do not want to get married ever or have children. It's all pointless and marriage is so BORING!
chillyqueen16 1 year ago
@chillyqueen16 in Islam, its a sunnah of our prophet Muhammad saw.
ikhwanazizie 1 year ago
@chillyqueen16 Maybe you should ask that question to those who aren't married and are in their old age :P
wo403 1 year ago
@chillyqueen16 If you do not want to get married, then what are you doing on this video? Simply click the "X" and it'll take you out of here. Simple as that.
TaqwaRoad 1 year ago
The website is very nicely presented and the clear pricing is a good idea...
FlurryInMakkah 1 year ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
islam allows marriage to girls of ANY age even if they're under 18, that is disgusting!
halflifeproductionz 1 year ago
@halflifeproductionz well, at least they are married to someone who will take care of them.however, in Europe and America teenagers start thinking about sex and having sex with others before 18. then they will continue having sex with other men in order to find "love", but the truth they're trying to fulfill their human desires in a wrong way. and when they're old they will start to find someone to marry. that's disgusting!
bashaar1989 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 First of all, every human being male or female should be able to take care of themself and their offspring without having to depend on another person to provide for them. Marrying to have someone to take care of you is demeaning and degrading to the human spirit. It is being a whore for security. That is disgusting. Secondly, there is no wrong way to fulfill sexual desires short of rape and inflicting bodily damage. Thirdly, love can come at any age and it can come more than once.
SSanf 1 year ago
@SSanf that's your opinion and i respect it, but i don't agree with u at all except in the third point.
thanks
bashaar1989 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 Thank you for respecting my opinion while yet disagreeing with it. It is my further opinion that the only truthful reason that anyone could have for not wanting any other adult human being to be economically independent and self-sufficient is because they want to have power over someone else and enslave them, forcing them into obedience by means of exerting economic coercion. To me, such an arrangement is shameful on both the one in control of the money and the one with no control.
SSanf 1 year ago
If you must have economic control over your spouse, if they must be financially dependent on you, to have a stable relationship, you have not found love. Love is freely given and freely maintained. If someone stays because they lack the option to simply walk away, they are a bought and paid for servant. That is not love.
SSanf 1 year ago
We clearly have very divergent opinions on what constitutes shameful social interactions between adult people. Thank you for listening to my take on it. Knowing what each other finds offensive and disgusting and why may not ever bring us to agreement but it may help in understanding.
SSanf 1 year ago
@SSanf you're way of thinking, you're mind is like the person who lives in 2010. you're thinking in the modern way. but prophet Mohammed lived before 1432 years, so their life is a lot different than our lives now. moreover, we don't enslave the women. in a contrary, we treat them like princess. however, there's some Muslims who treat them wrong, but its not Islam fault.the only reason they treat them wrong is because of ignorance and having a lot of stress and problems.
bashaar1989 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 Yes, I live in 2010 and think like as person who lives in 2010. That is both reasonable and appropriate. Many things have changed since 1432. Thinking like a person from that time would be a detriment to both society and myself. It is counterproductive for people to think as if it were some other age than the one they live in. A godly inspired message of an actual prophet should and would fit all times and all peoples. Mohamed’s message clearly does not.
SSanf 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 cont.
If the women cannot leave for economic or any other reason, they are enslaved regardless of the nature of the man keeping them. I am certain that throughout history many slaves were well treated. That did not make their enslavement morally right. Slavery is degrading and morally corrupting to both the slave and the slaveholder.
SSanf 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 cont.
Please, allow me to ask you one question. Are you free to NOT be a Muslim? Aside from your belief that you would anger "God" what would happen to you if you renounced Islam? What would be the earthly consequences to you, personally, for making such a choice?
SSanf 1 year ago
@bashaar1989 so you think marriage with a 10 year old is okay? haha. Its all cool, because Islam permits. No argument needed, islam says, so do. I don't know what's the point in talking about these things, you have it in your head that it's okay, but i find it disgusting that a 50+ year old man can consummate their marriage with an underage girl.
halflifeproductionz 1 year ago
@halflifeproductionz first, their time was different from us. they lived before 1432 years from us. seconds, its scientifically proven that the people who live in desert got mature faster than the people who live in colder places.third, whats the problem if they loved each other. don't you say that love can happen in any age. the real question what r u doing here? attacking Islam and our prophet in our videos. whats the meaning of this? if u hate Islam and our prophet then stay out!!!
bashaar1989 1 year ago