Argue and Fight: Can The Silent Treatment Go Too Far?

[amborcutie]

the silent treatment is a piece of crap coward work of art. ;Like my boyfriend has been giving me the silent treatment since yesterday and today no response yet, Im thinking about flipping out or calling it quits. Because I blew his phone up all yesterday and begged for a response but now I am completely hurt. What should I do, wait another day, or just let him go????

[ashbotts1]

what if the guy gives you the silent treatment ?

[DiaShanti]

@ashbotts1 I'm with someone who gives me the silent treatment, but he always just says he is "busy". Passive-aggression is for the birds. I'd rather deal with someone aggressive, truthfully. At least they talk to you even though it is yelling.

[bandanamaniac]

I LIKE the "silent treatment"......it means NO BITCHING!!! LMAO!!!

[WAPTek2]

dear "lady's" refusing to communicate to a person you say you care about

is hurting someone out of cowardice , & a need not to be inconvenienced!

no NO you are not right or OK . IT IS ABUSIVE, that's it ,, so do

ANY THING ELSE!

[charkee1]

This was my ex-wife's game. It ruined the marriage with the children suffering the most. It is abuse, just as demeaning if not more so than out right fighting. Any lady that I date that plays this game one time is instantly dumped and told clearly why she is being dumped. It is a way of avoiding real resolutions with the silly hope the problem will go away all by itself. The children also pick up this form of abuse and are set up for future relationship failures.

[anuran2010]

I think Jennifer doesn't like Dan , too much

[LAPSEDCATHOLIC1]

I gave the Silent Treatment to Bill the other day, and it seemed to work.

He has not called, or talked to me, and well, too bad......but I already have a boyfirend, whom I have known and love for a while now, and I will be DAMNED if Bill will break up up!!!

Let's see how long this will last, and if Bill will say hi again.........if he does, I give him the Silent Treatment again.

It is working - the Silent Treatment, and fuck Bill.

[razorvard]

Very simple - Women want to speak to other women - so they think men speak to them in the same way a women does -

1 - Eye contact.

2 - Never raises her voice in defense.

3 - Smile periodically.

It is so funny - women think men are stupid -- hahaha - Just follow the 3 rules and no matter what the conversation- she will never give you the silent treatment. SILLY LITTLE GIRLS>>>>>> Just watch this video..... notice the little things....

[JBthree24]

I told my girlfriend that I don't agree with the "silent treatment" because it breaks "communictation" when in fact the cause of a silent treatment is because of a fight or disagreeemnt. and during those times communication is needed most. so silent treatment is a cop-out

[groovysherrie65]

@JBthree24 I try to communicate with my husband and it ends in a shouting match. The silent treatment is much more peaceful. Why try to talk to someone who is going to yell and then not listen to you. Fuck Them!!!

[changl72]

I have been getting the silent treatment from my big brother for the past 8.5 years and we live in the same house!! I hate that he emotionally cut me out and he wants nothing to do with me.

[janityy]

This is abuse. Guy did this to me cause he's a bar band fame seeker. Phoney fake weirdo. Once he used silent treatment I won. Because I know its a fake form of control cause he don't have real power NEXT

[rose2535]

i hate the silent treatment because my friend did it to me all the time lol and sometimes she wasn't even mad she just did it to piss me off lol

[gnnrdluv]

i do the silent treatment until i calm down enough to talk about it calming

[anasoftmarine]

well that is not silent treatment, that is taking your time to cool down. Silent treatment is a terrible form of abuse, my husband would take over a month giving it to me, didn´t even sleep with me amongst other things. The effects after a long period of time (11 years for me) are devastating, believe me.

[kulusic1]

1:20 LOOOOOLOLOL

[JoeNo33]

My new tune/homevid "Argue" is appropriate if you are in the acoustic/vocal mood...Cheers

[mala265]

I cant stand receiving silent treatment. I cant give the silent treatment either....like I can last about 10minutes and then I explode!lol

[herewatchingutube]

My mom gives me the silent treatment when shes mad @ me, when she doesnt talk to me I just want 2 say 'could u just continue yelling @ me please?!' I think yelling hurts less than the silent treatment. But I use the silent treatment ALOT and it means I dont want to talk to you!!! u obviously said something to piss me off! (it doenst last too long, maybe a day or two). And it works 4 me because I am not 1 that talks about emotions freely, I think that they are no body elses business but mine.

[guywithhair202]

to me

the silent treatment is very creul

its a way of saying im mad

either help fix it or leave

its kinda like a test sometimes an unintentional test

its mostly to see if ur partner is willing to fix the problem with u or to let them know they fucked it up in someway

however u may get way to into it, u dont talk to ur partner because ur mad at them however if ur partner doesnt realize dat n u STILL continue being silent it can lead to break up

imo

[Rubberbandmoviesinc]

I'd tickle my gf until shed talk again.

Idk which is worse! :O

[guoshun2172]

I always do that too. LOL.

Tickle and blow on her neck.

[Rubberbandmoviesinc]

I tickle and PUNCH HER IN THE FACE!

lol jk.

I tickle her and treat her like a baby.

[dethswifey]

lmao hahahahahahaha "clown face" jk

[guywithhair202]

lmao!!!!

me too bro me to

ur not alone in dat category :)

[jdfodio]

I go silent and my ex tried to joke me out of it which I hated. Don't tickle unless it works

[Rubberbandmoviesinc]

it does.

[tlndofa]

great show as always. well i think if one already gives the cold shoulder, then why does that one have the option to make a big deal out of it afterwards,no communication.. ...verbal ,in replying isnt abuse but an opinion,which one is entitled too.finally responding in bad nature will only fuel a situation.sounds like there wasnt one to start with,just a one sided opinion talking to a manican

[o0AGE0o]

I know a few people who killed themselves because of their bf/gf giving them the silent treatment. It is emotional abuse and it does hurt the other person. Because you are trying to talk and making everything alright. Trying to move past the situations so you can both move on with your lives.

Now a days people dont put up with the silent treatment. People like me consider that a form of breaking up. So we just leave them and dont look back.

So i guess you should be careful with that stuff.

[o0AGE0o]

Because maybe the other persopn will think you dont love them anymore then leave you. Do you really wanna lose that person you love because of this "silent treatment"? Not usually. But some people give the silent treatment to tell the other person its over and you're breaking up. But those people are afraid to be honest and say its over. Fact is. Its a stupid treatment. And nobody should have to endure it. It really does hurt.

[LordReserei]

when my fiance gives me the silent treatment, I just keep asking her questions like "so how ya doin?", try and come up with anything and everything so they're is no silence. Eventually, probably not even an hour she talks and tells me what's wrong or says sorry, I tell her it's okay and that I love her, we cuddle and go back to as if nothing happened.

If your bf or gf says they're giving the silent treatment, doesn't mean you have to be silent, just try and get them out of it is what I say.

[pyromaster55]

when my gf gives me the silent treatment i just go play video games till she's ready to talk, if its not a big enough problem for her to talk about it then i don't worry about it, and if its that big of a deal that it bothers her she can talk to me about it.

[thechairmoves]

awhh(:

[SWinger7]

the silent treatment worked when you were in high school.

we're adults. talk things thru. guys don't alway get all the implied signals.

that be it.

[o0AGE0o]

(SWinger7) Exactly. Its a childish thing. It shows others that you're afraid to talk about any of your problems. People need to learn to talk everything through or they might as well kiss their relationship bye.

[photonXspark]

I have a habit of doing giving the silent treatment to people. But it only lasts about a day. I think that I get too mad about things and I know that I'll explode on the next person that crosses me so I have to seperate myself from everyone to protect them from me haha. But I'm working on the whole anger thing =P

[Ji99i3]

the silent treatment nearly cost me my relationship, id advice against doing it for longer than necessary if indeed it is at all

[halo2994]

when i was little, my mom would just stop talking to me when she was mad at me. I was just thankful that she wasn't yelling at me anymore so it never bothered me.

when i got older a girls would try it on me, they always got super pissed off because of the way i simply did not care that they weren't talking to me. In fact, i would me more likely to make fun of them for doing it.

but alas, i used to be an ass.

[sourcemaster]

I freaking HATE the silent treatment

[Loganm87]

Good video, always good useful info. 1st :)

[MorthusProductions]

no1 gives a fuck about u beeing first,,,,,,,, dickhead

[lewisbd123]

mmm atually ur the only dickhead round here m8 ;)

[MorthusProductions]

no u

[SWinger7]

lulz.

[lewisbd123]

no ur mum

[MorthusProductions]

gaylord

[lewisbd123]

ur granny