So you made this a while ago, so you might not even see this. I just wanted to say that I agree.
I used to think it's only about personality, but I've accepted that it just doesn't work that way.
One thing I wanted to point out however was about what you said concerning make-up. I do think that make-up is "the thing" now, but I think that too often, girls put on far too much of it, and they can look very beautiful without it, if they just take good care of themselves.
it would be interesting for you to make another video about love. based on your replies to other comments, your opinions might have changed or evolved. i'd like to hear more about them
My boyfriend broke up with me, and this video kinda made me better. Mostly the last part. I was seriously thinking about changing for him to get him back, :/
So many people are pressured to be accepted socially or in a relationship, but its important to ALWAYS be yourself, even if you feel alone. There will always be someone hating or disproving of you, but what matters is that you accept yourself for who YOU are.
Being accepted by others means nothing if you have no confidence in yourself and don't reflect or express your true personality to them.
Anyone can pretend, but no one can be who you are, and that's what makes you special. :)
I think valentines Day Is a special day to spend time with the one you love it dont matter really what you get like gifts because the biggest gift that u can have on that day is each other.its like a day to look at all the fun times you had with each other and a happy time shared with tear and memorys and happy wishes that your still liveing and that you love is still going still moving that there still a special moment in each others hearts. nice video thumbs up :)
i love valentines day and i think its cute but some people just like freak out when they dont have a valentine and think there horrible in every way and i agree with u on the whole everyone has a person that thinks there atractive even if u dont think u are :D
Wow I like that there's a guy who knows love and to have stumbled across this channel I'm glad I did! And who ever you end up dating or marrying is a very lucky girl
it's wierd. what i've been trying to tell people for so long is what you're telling us about here. i wonder what we'd disagree on. you seem to have all of the same opinions.
you don't need to wear makeup and usually the best looking people wear no to little makeup. they people that don't will be the ones to bring back the more natural look.
I Highly disagree with what people's looks are. Only movies and stories have that special person for them. I never heard any case were someone was mostly known to be un-attractive but then they find some special person. That doesn't happen, theres no way someone can have that special person.
"Awareness is about noticing the moment. It is about stopping, looking, listening, feeling, experiencing fully what is happening. It is a meditation. Awareness turns everything into a meditation." - Neale Donald
i admit, i do find it really hard to be interested in somebody if i'm not physically attracted to them-- i guess that's ok, since i'm still just a teen. but i also agree with the "be yourself" factor NOT just so someone will like u for u, but ALSO so that u won't hurt other people that start to like u by accident. guy did that to me; acted funny and nice (for attention, it turns out), started to like him for that reason alone, crushed when i found out he was kind of a douche. and Valentines= XP
I wanted to comment on the video about age. I've never married or had kids. Most of the people I work with are younger than me. But I am interested in what young people are thinking or doing. Soooo , I liked your tee shirt design and ordered a couple. I watch Luan and others on youtube to find out what young poeople are up to. This may 'creep you out' but I just see myself as a silent observer. I would rather know what young people are thinking about, rather to err on the side of ignoring them.
i am a fellow love guru in my area and u made sum good points, but there were a few things u said that were not totaly right.. and unfortunately, u may have been laughing, but i AM one of those people who feels the NEED 2 nurture tortured souls, thats wat i did with my boyfriend of 8 and 1/2 months, and even tho we broke up, im still nurturing. i know, its bad. but just because we give advice doesnt mean we are immune to broken hearts or always know what the best thing for ourself is!!
I am a girl. I wear makeup. I don't wear it because I feel I have to, I wear it because it is something I like. I don't wear really dark makeup but I do wear makeup. Being a boy I don't really think you should be worrying about it. Sorry I'm not like pissed I'm just trying to explain something I guess...take it or leave it. I really agree with your ideas on judgement.
@IAmRiddikulus I didn't say that every single thing I said applied to every single person, and this is also a video posted 2 years ago, don't even know if I agree with what I said anymore in it anyway.
@dudeneedaeaseonup Yeah I totally get what you're saying. Apologies if I came off as being...I don't know...a jerk. You're a lovely boy and I love your videos. I was just watching some older ones and had that random thought.
Thanks for this vid it made me realize what a fool im making of myself by trying to change myself for someone. Thanks cuz i needed this from a random person lol. Nicely done btw lol
Never had a Valentine. But I still like the thought of Valentines day. Sometimes people can forget how much they love a person. Valentines Day can help a relationship. And I think it would be sweet to get a rose or somethimg from a secret admirer.
fyshical attraction mathers ! i totally agree my friends say like well i only care about the inside but how can you kiss with some one how you dont even find attractive?!?!
1. I totally agree with the long dstance thing. sadly i've gone through it and all it does is lead to heart break nothing good comes out of it, and im never going through that again cause that was a mistake that is not worth going through again.
2. I feel the same way witht he physical attraction, but the thing is if they dont have a good personality i wont bother because if there a jerk Theres nothing good that will happen (but if there good looking I will most likely have a crush on them)
It seems I never have A Valentine. lol I know it sounds shallow but I'm supposed to be the guy who always has a girl by my side. Valentines days are the days that the world is against me.
i agree with everything you just said,the makeup thing i think it makes the woman look flawless but it should be their option and they shouldn't wear it for any guy but in reality they do even though they dont admit to it.but everything girl do like physical its all for you guys wich is real dumb but whatever suits the girl -.-
Ah, John. This is why you're my favourite person on the internet. You speak your mind, and usually I find myself agreeing with you, and feeling good because I'm not the only one with those opinions. I really agree with 'don't change yourself', my friend used to be completely different until she met this guy, and now she drinks and smokes, and all that stuff. Sucks because we don't speak much any more. Still, I'm glad you're still a down to Earth guy. You're a real inspiration John. :)
I feel very indifferent to Valentines Day, I don't usually celebrate it but I will say that my math teacher did say about calling it cardioid day which is a polar function generated from the format of r=a +/- acos(theta)/asin(theta).
valentimes day is pretty sh*ty in my opinon i mean come on to people that are single its just like saying hey i have a love and you dont hahahahah so like whats the point really i mean its kinda of sh*ty so yeah like your vids
I think Valentine's Day is quite stupid, if you love somebody why do you have to wait one day of the year to show it? Why can't you show it when you want to and not when society says you should. Wastes money and puts pressure on people to get a 'perfect' present.
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you are hot and cute i been but i broke with my boyfriend because he was talking to another girl and he didnt ask permission to talk to a another girl and i was mad and he stills likes me and my friend said he got though me and i was happy..........
that's crazy that you broke up with your boyfriend just because he was talking to another girl. he doesn't have to ask for permission from you. i know guys who talk to other girls than their girlfriends. it's quite normal
@justmemai same, to be truthful most of my mates are girls..my girlfriend has got no prob with me talking to the other 60% of my mates. things like that are stupid
i rlly like this. totally agree with alot of things ur saying. its funny cause the guy i like is falling hard on me and im falling hard on him haha.. insanely crazy
I know alot and i help alot of people so just ask me if you need anything. And OI i'm in a long didstance relashonship! And yes you do know who they are if you talk on the phone!! So don't talk ****. Phisical attraction does matter but it's still fine if you meet them on the internet because you will meet them eventually! Just don't let this video put you off you only have one life live it how you want! Not how other people say. xOh and don't be afraid to take risks in your life xoxo
I totally agree! no offense to this one girl she really puts everybody down even me sometimes but I forget about it and iqnore her but I want to show her this video!
yup i think your right for the most part!..i agree you are pretty smart..i struggle to get my thoughts sorted ..especially on paper lol so i dont think i could do this very well.:(
valentines day is great .......on valentines day i give free kisses....on the cheek of course :D any way i think every one should love each other because the world would run waaaaaayyy smoother with love love love . ;D
Online and texting, you don't get the emotion or the way that they're meaning to say it.
Talking on the phone, you kinda get how they are, but you still can't see the way that they act.
And I agree that physical attraction does matter (: it's not everything, but it is something, even if no one else thinks the person is attractive, if you really love the person, you find them attractive in your own way. [[:
I think that Valentines Day is a good thing if someone is thoughtful enough to get you something, not to be greedy and tell them what you want. Its all for the thought, and it just drives people (especially girlfriends) insane if so and so's boyfriend got them something better.
i cant no wear makeup...people (well guys) dont like it when i dont. like i hate it when guys in my class say stuiped stuff. if one day i dont feel good or im tryed n dnt feel like rele doing too much with myself. and wht u said is so true.
I understand the whole different people being together thing. But I have a boyfriend, who was my best friend first, but we totally click. We are so much alike, that we just chill and have a lot of fun together. He can always make me laugh a lot and I love him for it..
but about the Valentine's Day subject, I always have a valentine. She's my best friend, and if I'm dating someone, cool. Then I have two.(:
i agree..& special the make up thing..cause im a girl &yeah we all have bad days so dont judge ppl &this world has changed a lot for the worsest b/c everything is fake now days .like every picture&movie its all fake..they crop them to make them skinnyer&better looking more fake..its a mesed up world .with most things that u see are fake.thats why girls feel like they have too..
Oooh &i think it just depents on the person .on what u do.. i like me i just think its great ones a yr u tell ppl how much they mean to u its great :D!
i think valintine's day is a realy cute idea. but the only thing i don't like about it is the fact that every valentines day all my friends have someone but i'm always on my own so for that reason i don't like valentines day but other than that i think it's a great idea!
and romantic if you have someone to spend it with and you make it an occasion to leave and go somewhere for it. I don't think its a scam at all. I think its a day that you can take you're love somewhere special.. and make it a memory that you'll remember and look back on forever. :)
i needed to hear this!! especially at this time in my life. this guy likes me, but i know looks aren't everything. he's a big guy, not exactly fit but his personality is cool. it's too shy tho and his personality is kinda like mine but reserved. And surprisingly, i am FORCING myself to open myself up to new people. but this just isn't working for me. I'm not attracted emotionally or physically connecting. there has to be a SPARK!
ive noticed that if u start going out with some1 u arent overly attracted to, like they attractive but not like "omg" attractive, tht if they hav a really good personality tht it starts to show, in my eyes at least.
like they start looking more attractie in ur eyes after u got to know them
I love how you knew about the fact that being "big" used to mean you had money. I've said that before, and people look at me like I'm being ridiculous.
I agree with pretty much all of your views on these things. It's nice to hear someone else voice their opinion when it's similar to mine. :)
I agree with you somewhat but not totally..yea you have to have some kind of attraction between the two partners but you should also keep an open mind about things and the way they look...Looks aren't everything...Its whats on the inside that counts the most. if your looking for a long lasting relationship then you need to have a connection with that person, not just on looks but with much more
@dudeneedaeaseonup just wondering but are you gay? because all i remember was awhile ago i was watching aubrey's Q/A video and she said something about that... but whatever i dont have ANYTHING against sexual orientation..but just wondering
well... i think Valentines Day is a Walgreens thing, it's a day to sell you over priced stuff and you feel forced to buy them because it is after all, valentines day!!
i think you should give flowers to your love on random days :)
and i pretty much agree with everything you said about relationships. specially about never changing, i strongly believe in that!! never change for anyone!!
ya man no kiddin about the long distense thing lol i was in one of those relationships and it sucks but i do dissagree about waiting for that person cause they may change and like you cause those relations never work out
Wow you really understand things that most guys dont ahaha Thats a good thing :) I agree that physical attraction is important, but i realized that when I start to like someone I find them more attractive ahah I dont know why but I do.
i think valentines day isnt about the presents at all. im someone who hates presents in general. i feel guilty and bad . i just think valentines day is a normal day. cause when you're with someone you love, everyday should be like valentine's day.
I disagree that you have to physically attracted to someone to like them - well, too an extant. What i think is that you need to keep an open mind. When you fall in love with someone, whether they're ugly or attractive, you'll start seeing things in them that you never realized before, such as how beautiful they are. I often feel it's more fun discovering someone's beauty rather than seeing it right away. But i do agree that everyone has someone out there that's right for them.
lol .... you sem so nice ..... your like against most of the things guys would do or like if that makes sence ..... its like you understand every-thing lol .... a true love guru haha =] thank you and bubii xxo0
i totally agree with you!! its so much pressure on single people, and it like makes you feel horrible if you are single, like your missing out on something, when really it isnt much...
I don't wear makeup! but as a result none of the guys like me because I look like a guy... I don't really think very many of them want to look gay... no offense if you are gay...
I like the idea of Valentines Day; but, not really as a holiday. I just dont think people should feel obligated to express their feelings (through gifts) on February 14. I mean- It's just another day.
I have been in a internet relationship and its really hard. I mean you CAN find and fall in love with a person, but its soo hard. the distance is just killing. I dont recommend it too :s
And oh, Valentine's Day lol. I think it might have been created as a commercial thing but however it begun, I do feel great on this day. Even if you're single, you can just sort of feel love in the air lol. Not to mention it just kind of makes you hopeful.
I don't wanna be intimate or something with someone who I'm repulsed by." xD
Well, I think that makes two of us lol.
But either way, well done ! It sounds as though you've done a lot of research, and you made some great points, for example with the overweightness and judgemental people.
ah! when you were talking about like, being yourself and stuff it sounds exactly like the Shakespeare quote : "Men should be what they seem; Or those that be not, would they might seem none." like, if your not yourself then you're not really anybody.
valentines day is a holiday created by guys in order to get laid. :)
i have never had a valentine and well i thought that it was wrong about the make up thing. If a guy loves you then he loves you for not what you loook like but wht you act like if he really loves you he will love you when your on the couch crying after the notebook with mascara running(:
ur video is awesome u r talking about stuff people absolutly need .
for me .. in the past i never celebtrated valantine ... so far am not allowed to have a bf .. in my culture the only thing is marriage so even if i wanted to celebrate it with who ? imaginary bf ?
Yay I'm really happy I watched this video! It's really nice for you to say all these things so, woohoo good for you! Okay I'm being stupid here but I just wanna say I think Valentine's Day is a really nice day even though I've never like 'celebrated' it, sad for me. Okay bye.
yea i dont think its a good idea to have a long term relationship even if your gone a few weeks and you dont know the person too well. i went to cali for 3 weeks and my bf already cheated on me and it was only like 1 week when he started cheating.
Valentines Day, I think love or relationships should be celebrated everyday & theyre going on everyday. we dont exactly need one specific day to celebrate them.i mean if you want to celebrate valentines day you know go ahead but. its really not too important to me. Also i agree with everything you said in the video. and yeah at first when i heard that i you go out with people for their looks your shallow but i think in a way you do need to think they look nicebut dont date someone just for that.
i was watching some of your videos and endedup clicking this one, and it really caught my attention because the first thing you talked about was long-distance realtionships. You siad it was a bad idea and it wasn't something i wanted to hear because my boyfriend and i are starting one this year. I'm moving to a dfferent state and neither one of us want a split, so we wanted to give it a try. As much as I want to believe it can work everyone tells me it wont, what do you think?
I think v-day is always fun when your with someone but it can be kinda lonely when you have know one!! But you should hang out with a friend or something if you don't have someone! =]]
physical attractiveness deff matters,it doesent mean youre shallow,just because you dont want to be with someone because they arent your type doesent mean you think theyre nasty and want to be mean,
the be yourself thing is completely true. lately i've been more me, than i have ever been, and not to sound full of myself, but i've gained more friends, more guys like me, and i'm waaaay happier with myself.
seriously, be yourself, let loose, have fun :)
and as far as the makeup things go, i wear it because i can express myself through it more. and I have some nasties i wanna cover up. but lately i've been wearing way less.
So you made this a while ago, so you might not even see this. I just wanted to say that I agree.
I used to think it's only about personality, but I've accepted that it just doesn't work that way.
One thing I wanted to point out however was about what you said concerning make-up. I do think that make-up is "the thing" now, but I think that too often, girls put on far too much of it, and they can look very beautiful without it, if they just take good care of themselves.
Interesting video though :)
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dudeneedaeaseonup 3 months ago
it would be interesting for you to make another video about love. based on your replies to other comments, your opinions might have changed or evolved. i'd like to hear more about them
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LiberalPRIEST 6 months ago
I think valentines day is really sweet but it's norm a sad day for me
Cinderpelt143 6 months ago
u said alot of true stuff for not knowing much. good job :)
aliciakinz1234567890 7 months ago
single but in love with my guy friend sadly he not in love with me but im happy with that
vampireninja45628 7 months ago
thanks for this.. i get advice from relationshiproblem com
ngky7 8 months ago
My boyfriend broke up with me, and this video kinda made me better. Mostly the last part. I was seriously thinking about changing for him to get him back, :/
Techanamii 9 months ago
Valentines is a day to show love for somebody else and to do something nice for your significant other
27GreyFox 11 months ago
great info nice to see someone young with a good head on their shoulders you are wise beyond your years
relive101 11 months ago
So many people are pressured to be accepted socially or in a relationship, but its important to ALWAYS be yourself, even if you feel alone. There will always be someone hating or disproving of you, but what matters is that you accept yourself for who YOU are.
Being accepted by others means nothing if you have no confidence in yourself and don't reflect or express your true personality to them.
Anyone can pretend, but no one can be who you are, and that's what makes you special. :)
celestenowick 11 months ago 2
I think valentines Day Is a special day to spend time with the one you love it dont matter really what you get like gifts because the biggest gift that u can have on that day is each other.its like a day to look at all the fun times you had with each other and a happy time shared with tear and memorys and happy wishes that your still liveing and that you love is still going still moving that there still a special moment in each others hearts. nice video thumbs up :)
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i'm one of those people who hates valentines day, because they're single. But in general, its cute :) All the flowers and chocolates and gifts :)
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i love valentines day and i think its cute but some people just like freak out when they dont have a valentine and think there horrible in every way and i agree with u on the whole everyone has a person that thinks there atractive even if u dont think u are :D
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MRmakemelol1 1 year ago
Wow I like that there's a guy who knows love and to have stumbled across this channel I'm glad I did! And who ever you end up dating or marrying is a very lucky girl
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I disagree with the long-distance relationship point of view. But I get what you meant.
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I'm sadly one of those people that like to nurture tortured souls. I've learned one too many times most of them do not want to be nurtured.
Wasn't really a big topic in this video that sentence just stuck out at me because I'm so effing DUMB when it comes to getting the big red flag.
xXRetardKoolaidXx 1 year ago
oh john. Your videos are so old and long but they make me so happppy(:
melodious14 1 year ago
ur voice is epic xDD
zackdabeastable 1 year ago
it's wierd. what i've been trying to tell people for so long is what you're telling us about here. i wonder what we'd disagree on. you seem to have all of the same opinions.
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you don't need to wear makeup and usually the best looking people wear no to little makeup. they people that don't will be the ones to bring back the more natural look.
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The URL of this video says "Aaaw". Couldn't agree much more, YouTube!
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I Highly disagree with what people's looks are. Only movies and stories have that special person for them. I never heard any case were someone was mostly known to be un-attractive but then they find some special person. That doesn't happen, theres no way someone can have that special person.
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I'm sorry, but describing someone as "repulsive" seems really insensitive. Maybe I'm reading this the wrong way.
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@TheGreenerItGets I barely remember what I said in this video (it was posted two years ago) but I'm pretty sure I was using an exaggerated example
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i admit, i do find it really hard to be interested in somebody if i'm not physically attracted to them-- i guess that's ok, since i'm still just a teen. but i also agree with the "be yourself" factor NOT just so someone will like u for u, but ALSO so that u won't hurt other people that start to like u by accident. guy did that to me; acted funny and nice (for attention, it turns out), started to like him for that reason alone, crushed when i found out he was kind of a douche. and Valentines= XP
jeannaegirl 1 year ago
I wanted to comment on the video about age. I've never married or had kids. Most of the people I work with are younger than me. But I am interested in what young people are thinking or doing. Soooo , I liked your tee shirt design and ordered a couple. I watch Luan and others on youtube to find out what young poeople are up to. This may 'creep you out' but I just see myself as a silent observer. I would rather know what young people are thinking about, rather to err on the side of ignoring them.
weathersaoysius 1 year ago
i am a fellow love guru in my area and u made sum good points, but there were a few things u said that were not totaly right.. and unfortunately, u may have been laughing, but i AM one of those people who feels the NEED 2 nurture tortured souls, thats wat i did with my boyfriend of 8 and 1/2 months, and even tho we broke up, im still nurturing. i know, its bad. but just because we give advice doesnt mean we are immune to broken hearts or always know what the best thing for ourself is!!
bunnybabe18211 1 year ago
You are like the perfect guy I swear!!!!! Hahaha no but I mean you are smart about these things, and actually have something to say.
mac151247 1 year ago
Disagree with long distance relationship thing...
I am a girl. I wear makeup. I don't wear it because I feel I have to, I wear it because it is something I like. I don't wear really dark makeup but I do wear makeup. Being a boy I don't really think you should be worrying about it. Sorry I'm not like pissed I'm just trying to explain something I guess...take it or leave it. I really agree with your ideas on judgement.
IAmRiddikulus 1 year ago
@IAmRiddikulus I didn't say that every single thing I said applied to every single person, and this is also a video posted 2 years ago, don't even know if I agree with what I said anymore in it anyway.
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@dudeneedaeaseonup Yeah I totally get what you're saying. Apologies if I came off as being...I don't know...a jerk. You're a lovely boy and I love your videos. I was just watching some older ones and had that random thought.
IAmRiddikulus 1 year ago
Thanks for this vid it made me realize what a fool im making of myself by trying to change myself for someone. Thanks cuz i needed this from a random person lol. Nicely done btw lol
Jaywisker96 1 year ago
Never had a Valentine. But I still like the thought of Valentines day. Sometimes people can forget how much they love a person. Valentines Day can help a relationship. And I think it would be sweet to get a rose or somethimg from a secret admirer.
Kyliegirl33 1 year ago
Nicely done.
crazysweetflower 1 year ago
fyshical attraction mathers ! i totally agree my friends say like well i only care about the inside but how can you kiss with some one how you dont even find attractive?!?!
Pascalliej 1 year ago
I don't understand valentines day. Why can't you just love eachother every day? why set one day aside for it?
allthelonelypeoplex 1 year ago
i dont wear make up i hate it, and i hate it when girls wear so much make up its like bleh how do u do that?
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RandomFailer 1 year ago
1. I totally agree with the long dstance thing. sadly i've gone through it and all it does is lead to heart break nothing good comes out of it, and im never going through that again cause that was a mistake that is not worth going through again.
2. I feel the same way witht he physical attraction, but the thing is if they dont have a good personality i wont bother because if there a jerk Theres nothing good that will happen (but if there good looking I will most likely have a crush on them)
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aneeva30083 1 year ago
I'm shy... I wish I could change it sometimes, but it's part of my personality, sadly. :(
GhostsandDontCries 1 year ago
It seems I never have A Valentine. lol I know it sounds shallow but I'm supposed to be the guy who always has a girl by my side. Valentines days are the days that the world is against me.
gtargabe 1 year ago
You. are. awesome. John!!
alubadubdub 1 year ago
I like your voice when you say "hey everybody"
bonboncape 1 year ago
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Autumngrace98 1 year ago
Wow. You have some incredible insight into these topics.
You're a very smart guy :)
Thatsillyginger 1 year ago
i thought the exact same thing about physical attraction.
lalalablair 1 year ago
I agree, physical attraction is important., but personality does over-rule it. You have pretty eyes and teeth... Sorry, a bit random.
alexisblack94 1 year ago 2
i agree with everything you just said,the makeup thing i think it makes the woman look flawless but it should be their option and they shouldn't wear it for any guy but in reality they do even though they dont admit to it.but everything girl do like physical its all for you guys wich is real dumb but whatever suits the girl -.-
lazy101kl 1 year ago
I don't think there has to be ONE day for someone to to buy you chocolate or flowers, or even show they care. I think why NOT do that any day?
Jazzy704280 1 year ago
Ah, John. This is why you're my favourite person on the internet. You speak your mind, and usually I find myself agreeing with you, and feeling good because I'm not the only one with those opinions. I really agree with 'don't change yourself', my friend used to be completely different until she met this guy, and now she drinks and smokes, and all that stuff. Sucks because we don't speak much any more. Still, I'm glad you're still a down to Earth guy. You're a real inspiration John. :)
Stephbob15 1 year ago
I feel very indifferent to Valentines Day, I don't usually celebrate it but I will say that my math teacher did say about calling it cardioid day which is a polar function generated from the format of r=a +/- acos(theta)/asin(theta).
calculusnoob 1 year ago
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calculusnoob 1 year ago
valentines day....is not a day i like... -.-" btw nice videos
wolfgirl4520 1 year ago
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wolfgirl4520 1 year ago
I totally agree w/ the make-up part, I tend to not wear make-up probably 99.9% of the time, and like all my friends wear make-up 100% of the time
eeyorerocks0224 1 year ago
valentimes day is pretty sh*ty in my opinon i mean come on to people that are single its just like saying hey i have a love and you dont hahahahah so like whats the point really i mean its kinda of sh*ty so yeah like your vids
thezombieshow1 1 year ago
I think Valentine's Day is quite stupid, if you love somebody why do you have to wait one day of the year to show it? Why can't you show it when you want to and not when society says you should. Wastes money and puts pressure on people to get a 'perfect' present.
zaynabxx 2 years ago
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you are hot and cute i been but i broke with my boyfriend because he was talking to another girl and he didnt ask permission to talk to a another girl and i was mad and he stills likes me and my friend said he got though me and i was happy..........
ashley134399 2 years ago
that's crazy that you broke up with your boyfriend just because he was talking to another girl. he doesn't have to ask for permission from you. i know guys who talk to other girls than their girlfriends. it's quite normal
justmemai 2 years ago 3
@justmemai same, to be truthful most of my mates are girls..my girlfriend has got no prob with me talking to the other 60% of my mates. things like that are stupid
pinksparrow13 1 year ago
Wowzers. Amen to that. :3
You definitly seem like an awesome guy to hang out with.
EmoMexNerd 2 years ago
i rlly like this. totally agree with alot of things ur saying. its funny cause the guy i like is falling hard on me and im falling hard on him haha.. insanely crazy
xdisatisfiedbeautyx 2 years ago
☮ツ♫☂ღi belive in everything pretty much☮ツ♫☂ღ
HAYLEYxHEARTLESS 2 years ago
youre so damn smart.
powerrangerskillx 2 years ago
I know alot and i help alot of people so just ask me if you need anything. And OI i'm in a long didstance relashonship! And yes you do know who they are if you talk on the phone!! So don't talk ****. Phisical attraction does matter but it's still fine if you meet them on the internet because you will meet them eventually! Just don't let this video put you off you only have one life live it how you want! Not how other people say. xOh and don't be afraid to take risks in your life xoxo
heathbicknell 2 years ago
nurture tortured souls HAHAHAHAAA THAT MADE ME LAUGH :)))))
randomturtle73 2 years ago
you gay!lol
Akirojun 2 years ago
Iv been told that im one of those people who is attractive who don't know it...but i don't get why.
BLOODBATHDOLANBATH 2 years ago
I totally agree! no offense to this one girl she really puts everybody down even me sometimes but I forget about it and iqnore her but I want to show her this video!
SmileProductions26 2 years ago
Dude you make a very good point! Awsome vid!
TheMissladyrose 2 years ago
wow your so right great vid
thecrowrip 2 years ago
yup i think your right for the most part!..i agree you are pretty smart..i struggle to get my thoughts sorted ..especially on paper lol so i dont think i could do this very well.:(
kswizzle7 2 years ago
valentines day is great .......on valentines day i give free kisses....on the cheek of course :D any way i think every one should love each other because the world would run waaaaaayyy smoother with love love love . ;D
XOXOrossellinaXOXO 2 years ago
I agree with the long distance thing.
Online and texting, you don't get the emotion or the way that they're meaning to say it.
Talking on the phone, you kinda get how they are, but you still can't see the way that they act.
And I agree that physical attraction does matter (: it's not everything, but it is something, even if no one else thinks the person is attractive, if you really love the person, you find them attractive in your own way. [[:
<3
KylieCheanne1994 2 years ago
I totally agree.
Long distance relationships are pointless.
Heyyyllooo 2 years ago
I think that Valentines Day is a good thing if someone is thoughtful enough to get you something, not to be greedy and tell them what you want. Its all for the thought, and it just drives people (especially girlfriends) insane if so and so's boyfriend got them something better.
Christinetheawesome1 2 years ago
BRILLIANT!!!
I love your pov and that you've achieved so much harmony within yourself.
helenread25 2 years ago
i cant no wear makeup...people (well guys) dont like it when i dont. like i hate it when guys in my class say stuiped stuff. if one day i dont feel good or im tryed n dnt feel like rele doing too much with myself. and wht u said is so true.
TheErinTristanShow 2 years ago
you are so smart!
Sundancelover1 2 years ago
I like girls better with no makeup!!!!!
javiis777 2 years ago 3
I understand the whole different people being together thing. But I have a boyfriend, who was my best friend first, but we totally click. We are so much alike, that we just chill and have a lot of fun together. He can always make me laugh a lot and I love him for it..
but about the Valentine's Day subject, I always have a valentine. She's my best friend, and if I'm dating someone, cool. Then I have two.(:
bakedpotato789 2 years ago
you remind me of eric from gossip girl XD in a good way XD but i know youre not an upper east sider lol
Pixeldoodle 2 years ago
i agree..& special the make up thing..cause im a girl &yeah we all have bad days so dont judge ppl &this world has changed a lot for the worsest b/c everything is fake now days .like every picture&movie its all fake..they crop them to make them skinnyer&better looking more fake..its a mesed up world .with most things that u see are fake.thats why girls feel like they have too..
hvann1 2 years ago 2
Oooh &i think it just depents on the person .on what u do.. i like me i just think its great ones a yr u tell ppl how much they mean to u its great :D!
hvann1 2 years ago
i think valintine's day is a realy cute idea. but the only thing i don't like about it is the fact that every valentines day all my friends have someone but i'm always on my own so for that reason i don't like valentines day but other than that i think it's a great idea!
LilMissJiggleMuffin 2 years ago 2
what happened to natural beauty heyyy :)
iamsmellie 2 years ago 2
wow, you are very correct
you are now a relationship guru =)
teatothetime 2 years ago
Everything you said was SO true.
you really helped alot..
I love Valentines Day. i think its cute
and romantic if you have someone to spend it with and you make it an occasion to leave and go somewhere for it. I don't think its a scam at all. I think its a day that you can take you're love somewhere special.. and make it a memory that you'll remember and look back on forever. :)
MsTamaraAnne 2 years ago 8
you know.. when you started talking about the shy beauty-thingys you sounded alot like my teacher at counseling xD hehe^^,
BillieJean4all 2 years ago
i needed to hear this!! especially at this time in my life. this guy likes me, but i know looks aren't everything. he's a big guy, not exactly fit but his personality is cool. it's too shy tho and his personality is kinda like mine but reserved. And surprisingly, i am FORCING myself to open myself up to new people. but this just isn't working for me. I'm not attracted emotionally or physically connecting. there has to be a SPARK!
starrsel 2 years ago
I TOTALLY AGREE, you said EXACTLY what i was thinking! ur awesome!
AisuTatsuro 2 years ago 2
everything you said, was a massive breath of fresh air. thank you!
apo47 2 years ago
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can you tell me your name so i can talk to you
sweetheart2234 2 years ago
omg everything you said is so true....thanks a lot for the help i need to hear .what you just said ...
but valentine never good anything from any body....i hate v-day ....
maggie1990able 2 years ago
hell yeah I think that valentines day is scam who needs one day to show someone that you love them when you can do it all year round
rockcandy30 2 years ago
ive noticed that if u start going out with some1 u arent overly attracted to, like they attractive but not like "omg" attractive, tht if they hav a really good personality tht it starts to show, in my eyes at least.
like they start looking more attractie in ur eyes after u got to know them
LaffyTaffy379 2 years ago 3
I love how you knew about the fact that being "big" used to mean you had money. I've said that before, and people look at me like I'm being ridiculous.
I agree with pretty much all of your views on these things. It's nice to hear someone else voice their opinion when it's similar to mine. :)
reesesandpanther 2 years ago
You said comment so i am,
I agree with you somewhat but not totally..yea you have to have some kind of attraction between the two partners but you should also keep an open mind about things and the way they look...Looks aren't everything...Its whats on the inside that counts the most. if your looking for a long lasting relationship then you need to have a connection with that person, not just on looks but with much more
wildfairy109 2 years ago
I agree. A relationship shouldn't be based entirely on looks, but looks can be an important piece to the puzzle.
dudeneedaeaseonup 2 years ago 4
@dudeneedaeaseonup just wondering but are you gay? because all i remember was awhile ago i was watching aubrey's Q/A video and she said something about that... but whatever i dont have ANYTHING against sexual orientation..but just wondering
CherThinksPink 1 year ago
@wildfairy109 dont judge a book by it's cover but yet the cover is the important part whether to look at :S
hellohulohalolalo 1 year ago
well... i think Valentines Day is a Walgreens thing, it's a day to sell you over priced stuff and you feel forced to buy them because it is after all, valentines day!!
i think you should give flowers to your love on random days :)
and i pretty much agree with everything you said about relationships. specially about never changing, i strongly believe in that!! never change for anyone!!
beatriz0607 2 years ago
u r sooo right :)
brittaneyUSA 2 years ago
Why oh why isn't there other guys like you!
Marry Me.
Just Kidding. :D
LosezDAUGHTER 2 years ago 4
ya man no kiddin about the long distense thing lol i was in one of those relationships and it sucks but i do dissagree about waiting for that person cause they may change and like you cause those relations never work out
cryallyoucan 2 years ago
I love listening to your voice. Sounds creepy but hey, you're just so awesome :-----)
nooramarja 2 years ago
Wow you really understand things that most guys dont ahaha Thats a good thing :) I agree that physical attraction is important, but i realized that when I start to like someone I find them more attractive ahah I dont know why but I do.
saleakim95 2 years ago 18
i think valentines day isnt about the presents at all. im someone who hates presents in general. i feel guilty and bad . i just think valentines day is a normal day. cause when you're with someone you love, everyday should be like valentine's day.
xmarksthespot33 2 years ago
I disagree that you have to physically attracted to someone to like them - well, too an extant. What i think is that you need to keep an open mind. When you fall in love with someone, whether they're ugly or attractive, you'll start seeing things in them that you never realized before, such as how beautiful they are. I often feel it's more fun discovering someone's beauty rather than seeing it right away. But i do agree that everyone has someone out there that's right for them.
justskylove 2 years ago
That's great advice. =]
CarlitastiC 2 years ago
lol .... you sem so nice ..... your like against most of the things guys would do or like if that makes sence ..... its like you understand every-thing lol .... a true love guru haha =] thank you and bubii xxo0
imsxi123 2 years ago
i think Valentine's Day was made with good intentions, but for me, it kinda sucks. i dont really like it.
smiilexlexii 2 years ago
i think valentines day is ok.
but i think sometimes it pressures single people to like... not be single.
and it makes them feel bad if they are single.
but apart from that valentines day is good for just spending time with the people you love :)
Jaaaaazziiee 2 years ago
i totally agree with you!! its so much pressure on single people, and it like makes you feel horrible if you are single, like your missing out on something, when really it isnt much...
xxXCagedBirdXxx 2 years ago
i love how you talked about these things because they actually make me feel better about myself.. weirdly awesome! so thanx :)
EmilyJoAnnaMays 2 years ago
I don't wear makeup! but as a result none of the guys like me because I look like a guy... I don't really think very many of them want to look gay... no offense if you are gay...
Switchfootrox4ever 2 years ago
I like the idea of Valentines Day; but, not really as a holiday. I just dont think people should feel obligated to express their feelings (through gifts) on February 14. I mean- It's just another day.
BloodRockerSuka 2 years ago
I Say Yes To Everything My Boyfriend Says , And If He Doesn't Hang Out For Two Weeks , I Don't Complain To Him ,
And I Don't Text Him Unless He Texts Me First , And I Never Ask Him To Hang Out ..
I Wait Till He Asks And Texts ... Is That Bad ? =S
CYR3N4nJ3NNnM3L 2 years ago
i did that too.. and it workd out for almost 5 months : ) but then he brokeup with me so.. idkk if its good or bad.. jus sayin ha
dagaroos1513 2 years ago
Lol , Yea , I Might Be Breaking Up With Him ! Lawlz !! He Never Talks To Me Anymore = /
CYR3N4nJ3NNnM3L 2 years ago
wow. ur like...right on target dude =)
bitterkid93 2 years ago
For long distant relationships - What if you saw each other through webcam and talked through mic?
LoverStar54 2 years ago
are you gay?
tkurtis20111 2 years ago
omg i agree with everything u sed in this video! ur awesome!
hilaryduffx1234 2 years ago
You are really smart. That video really helped me. I'm having... boy troubles lol. Thanks.
taylorluver4 2 years ago
Im judging u.
ur gorgussssss.
=D
cropcoppers 2 years ago
so true!
pitbullzluv 2 years ago
I have been in a internet relationship and its really hard. I mean you CAN find and fall in love with a person, but its soo hard. the distance is just killing. I dont recommend it too :s
agnessbabe 2 years ago
And oh, Valentine's Day lol. I think it might have been created as a commercial thing but however it begun, I do feel great on this day. Even if you're single, you can just sort of feel love in the air lol. Not to mention it just kind of makes you hopeful.
I reckon in the end, it is about love. x
xPorcelainLolitax 2 years ago
I don't wanna be intimate or something with someone who I'm repulsed by." xD
Well, I think that makes two of us lol.
But either way, well done ! It sounds as though you've done a lot of research, and you made some great points, for example with the overweightness and judgemental people.
Cheers for making this. :)
xPorcelainLolitax 2 years ago
ah! when you were talking about like, being yourself and stuff it sounds exactly like the Shakespeare quote : "Men should be what they seem; Or those that be not, would they might seem none." like, if your not yourself then you're not really anybody.
valentines day is a holiday created by guys in order to get laid. :)
woahstud 2 years ago
why put your age.
thats weird...
ASDvids 2 years ago
lol random indeed
magandi 2 years ago
ur hair is the shmex ;)
<3
jellynlolly 2 years ago
i think valentines days ok....but ur stuff helped
yokochan12345 2 years ago
i have never had a valentine and well i thought that it was wrong about the make up thing. If a guy loves you then he loves you for not what you loook like but wht you act like if he really loves you he will love you when your on the couch crying after the notebook with mascara running(:
espanol01 2 years ago 2
Your really insightful holy cow :)
beautifulpaperflower 2 years ago
Your so cute<3 :D hehe
beautifulpaperflower 2 years ago
i dislike valentines day.
xxspiderman24 2 years ago
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CaNaNeN21 2 years ago
Vlentines day can be the most amazing day of thr year, or it can be your worst nightmare.
Depends.
but overall,
i think its nice :)
HeartOfTheNightmare 2 years ago 2
I think that Valentines day is nice for people in a relashionship, but for the singles, it sucks really bad, and i've never had a valentine =(
OpenDoorsOpenEyes 2 years ago
ur video is awesome u r talking about stuff people absolutly need .
for me .. in the past i never celebtrated valantine ... so far am not allowed to have a bf .. in my culture the only thing is marriage so even if i wanted to celebrate it with who ? imaginary bf ?
but ya 4 the vd 5 stars an fav. and everything
7itha 2 years ago
i see ur channel every place i go on youtube :)
good luck u probebly are having well done job ...
7itha 2 years ago
Yay I'm really happy I watched this video! It's really nice for you to say all these things so, woohoo good for you! Okay I'm being stupid here but I just wanna say I think Valentine's Day is a really nice day even though I've never like 'celebrated' it, sad for me. Okay bye.
rockerlim 2 years ago
I Love Your Hair Loll
hplver09 2 years ago
yea i dont think its a good idea to have a long term relationship even if your gone a few weeks and you dont know the person too well. i went to cali for 3 weeks and my bf already cheated on me and it was only like 1 week when he started cheating.
giraffes1234 2 years ago
Valentines Day, I think love or relationships should be celebrated everyday & theyre going on everyday. we dont exactly need one specific day to celebrate them.i mean if you want to celebrate valentines day you know go ahead but. its really not too important to me. Also i agree with everything you said in the video. and yeah at first when i heard that i you go out with people for their looks your shallow but i think in a way you do need to think they look nicebut dont date someone just for that.
calswimming2015 2 years ago
but yes, i do love valentine's day! <3
AnnaBananaPotato 2 years ago
i was watching some of your videos and endedup clicking this one, and it really caught my attention because the first thing you talked about was long-distance realtionships. You siad it was a bad idea and it wasn't something i wanted to hear because my boyfriend and i are starting one this year. I'm moving to a dfferent state and neither one of us want a split, so we wanted to give it a try. As much as I want to believe it can work everyone tells me it wont, what do you think?
AnnaBananaPotato 2 years ago
I think v-day is always fun when your with someone but it can be kinda lonely when you have know one!! But you should hang out with a friend or something if you don't have someone! =]]
misssavyloo 2 years ago
this is very, very true. great video.
xmissxoashleyx 2 years ago
Very insightful video :)
harkonnen554 2 years ago
physical attractiveness deff matters,it doesent mean youre shallow,just because you dont want to be with someone because they arent your type doesent mean you think theyre nasty and want to be mean,
adoptedbyapopmachine 2 years ago
the be yourself thing is completely true. lately i've been more me, than i have ever been, and not to sound full of myself, but i've gained more friends, more guys like me, and i'm waaaay happier with myself.
seriously, be yourself, let loose, have fun :)
and as far as the makeup things go, i wear it because i can express myself through it more. and I have some nasties i wanna cover up. but lately i've been wearing way less.
aeaeae7 2 years ago
i hate to admit that i judge people but this made me feel better to just go on and realize everyoe does it
WateredEgg 2 years ago
ur amazing lolz...like all the stuff u said was like soo truee
koolflychica14 2 years ago