....REALL|Y I CUD PUT MY FIST THRU THIS COMPUTER SCREEN AND THUMP YOU!!! AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!! when a pretty woman tell a screwed up lonely male that all you have to do is unfold yr hand or change yr perspective? bollocks!! life is a lot more complicated and harder than that... and masturbation is not the answer either!!! what is love then ? without love there is bound to be anger...
@ARDUNNO Precisely,you need love.This is a basic need. Trying to get it from others is simply frustrating you. How do I love myself,how do I learn to consciously experience love within myself? these should be your questions now. When you begin to find your answer then you will find that you are not lonely any more, people will be attracted to the way you feel within yourself.
@satsumamoon ......'How do i learn to consciously experience love withing myself?' HOW indeed? when theyre holding hands and have someone to meet and love... i have 'muscle memory' of REJECTION FRUSTRATION TENSION ANGER TERROR LONELINESS not love.. i do not feel attractive or lovable,im not even sexually interested anymore.. or 'love' feelings.... i dont look in the mirror and love myself. i look in the mirror and think 'fking hell how much more do i have to go thru this shit?'
@ARDUNNO ..the way i feel within myself,,? is years of unwanted sexual love,, turned to hate and disinterest.... rejection making me hate not only myself, but this whole human race! who is gonna be attracted to that? noone..... women are attracted to happy confident men,, whjo have this confidence because they have felt desired wanted and had plenty love sex in the past..... ive had nothing but hell...occasional sex.. very little love or trust...i cant feel love within myself...
@ARDUNNO ....only discontent,,, restless energy anger ... unwanted,, i do not desire sex anymore... i just question why i have lived till im 39 and never really felt fucking wanted....never really felt fucking loved...not for many years... only left to feel bad about my sex.. bad about my body and other people... i have strength speed power and energy sometimes,, but 'STUCK' in this hell... terror tension rejection frustration anger ALL the oppostie of love sex n happiness!
I HAVE 'OPENED UP!!'' healed!!!! and my dick is strong... my ballls are raring to go........ BUT this is percieved as perverted,,, SO I have to smoke drink and do drugs to stop the sexual drive.....!!!! so HOW DO WE GIVE LOVE IF NOONE WANTS US?????
@alkistisTV ...so basically you just call men wankers? masturbation is ok once in a while... but it doesn't stop loneliness or replace a lover..or partner... it in the long run,,, leads to anger... as we realise..there is no love no lovers... and masturbation is not enjoyed,, only seen as a waste or occasion nessecity...a waste of energy and bodily fluids.... self abuse to substitute for genuine human love.... so it is not the answer!
@ARDUNNO I think you are confusing giving love with taking bodily satisfaction (no judgement here). First you need to learn that love is your nature, not something given or taken..and you certainly don't need sex in order to be your natural, relaxed and loving self.
@satsumamoon .......if you dont need sex to be your natural self.... then what do you do with your sex? masturabation is degrading and loss of energy,,, energy that should be used for loving a partner... but there is no partner... you people r obviously different (or youre getting laid) because i do not feel the same as you's... i feel fucking frustrated not relaxed
@ARDUNNO OH PLEASE ! Stop playing the victim: GO OUT AND SHARE LOVE WITH THOSE IN NEED. "It is in giving that you shall receive !" TRY IT FIRST, THEN COME BACK TO ME AFTER 3 MONTHS AND TELL ME HOW YOUR LIFE HAS CHANGED. LOVE HEALS.
@alkistisTV ...you're obiously a woman who could attract 'love' easy..im a man who can't...in life i have tried to and it isnt easy.. mostly met with frowns and rejection..so i do not even try..love doesn not heal... when i have loved a woman it felt good but after a while hurt me in the long run.frustration,,anger...i never want to hurt anyone or get in trouble so anger often turns on myself out of frustration. if i am e-motionaly messed up that way. HOW can i go and share and give love?
@ARDUNNO thank you for your email. I believe that "he who loves" is always a winner, never a loser...Love is not "for keeps", it is like a drop in our palm, if you try to squeeze it, you lose it.
@alkistisTV How do you give Love if noone wants love? How do you have sex if women call men dickheads and perverts? how do you feel good in your body? if youre constantly frustrated and rejected? How do you enjoy life, if you're in so much pain? how do i go out and give love.. if i know from the past i get rejected?
@ARDUNNO You need to go back to basics. Only when you have figured out how to take care of yourself will you be a fit and loving partner for another. Learn what your basics needs are,and how to give yourself the nurturing that you so deeply crave. You've got to do something that will help you sort your real self out. How about starting with martial arts,Tai chi or yoga?
@satsumamoon ...Basic needs? food water shelter clothing and excercise.... i already do ju jitsu..... anger is there because of rejection. frustration tension,, and a feeling of worthlessness in my body.... women do not give love and sex, like in the movies or magazines or tv.. in reality.... i am always alone.... they do not give, but they would recieve,,, and after giving in the past ,,, im stil left wondering what it would be like for me to be loved n wanted,,,?
@satsumamoon ...and releasing anger... i have a punchbag,,,, but its not enough... i still break things as the it feels pressure of rejection is telling me im unattractive unwanted loveless, no sexual release just tension..frustration, no loving company to make me feel this love that people talk about? fitness leads to more frustration!!! as i realise NOONE WANTS my love or sex ...to much sexual energy... so then i have to turn to drink drugs or meditation.....?
im sorry this is all wrong...you can never fully let go of anything (anger, sadness etc) unless you just give it up to God and let him deal with that....your looking for answeres from the wrong person
I am hideous I can never release my anger shame and depression. I am in a dead end job which I have been stuck in for 5 years have acne all over my chest and genitals, I am balding always poor live with parents unindependant, unmotivated and too lazy to change I want to get hit by a fucking bus or cancer and die instantly because I am too cowardly to commit suicide.
it makes so much sense but when you have been thinking and feeling like this for years its so hard to justchange your perspective. i cried through the exercise, its a very powerful way of describing how i feel. I lon for the day when i can just let everything go, i can't wait to see through those new eyes. Thank you for your powerful words.
"you can heal your life" by Louise Hay. It will change your whole perspective on life. If you are skeptical, fine, but try it anyway. what do you have to lose, right?
she is a motivational speaker. i spent a lot of years really really angry; fighting with my whole family, going thru a ton of personal hell and being very much alone. I finally found the right person, one of my instructors, to help me. she told me about the book and i did some research. she shows you how changing your thinking can change your whole life - and its true -my whole life has changed since i learned that i had the power all along to change my life and create my own happiness.try it
it took me so long to see the young lady haha. Your advice isn't bad, but its so hard to accomplish. When im alone for a long time i start to see things very positivly and notice the beauty in the world, but everyone and everything that circles me in day to day life feed me so much fury and i feel asthough it would be easier to just end it all. In some cases, perspective is not the problem. then again i could be wrong
Presario 123 - i hope you are not serious about hurting yourself or killing. if you are, please find someone you can talk to. there is no reason you should have to walk around with all that built up anger and pain.
i give, i do favors and i get into a lot of trouble for most people. I have found a "creative outtlet" for my anger but i just feel so empty like something is missing in my life. I have had thoughts of ending it all(if you know what i mean). I find myself unable to function during the day. i cant rely on my parents they are really stuborn and approach most situations in a way thats bad for me. i love them as my parents but not who they are as people.
I think my perspective is good but i feel so destructive i want to just brake things. I hate the society we live in and the system that controls us and everybody just tells me to sit there quietly and it makes me angry.I feel like i dont exsist life just feels so empty and the only way i feel i can release my anger is through physical destruction but i always find myself unable to realese anything and it all builds up.
@Munchays dude true this.i always wanna hit someone as hard as i can..i dont know if you watch like ufc or mma but vior belfort has a highlight reel knockout of wanderlei silva.thats what u envision myself doing to someone..just dropping someone.
@Munchays ...i have similar thoughts, my suggestion is that you do need a change in perspective...
.../ when i feel upset, i try anger mngement techniques, meditation, and prayer also...[i also read religious text]...for me when i believe "in love"[as lofty as that sounds]...i start to like society. but i only let people in my life who love me. even if it is one or two people.when my inputs are mostly positive. my view on life and society are also.
@Munchays ...i would also vent in healthy ways...go into a room where you can make noise...and throw stuff...take a bat and pillows, or a punching bag, starting hitting inanimate things, swear,scream,and scream at who you are angry with. i ve done this, it helps me a lot. after twenty minutes of "venting", its amazing how good you feel.
....REALL|Y I CUD PUT MY FIST THRU THIS COMPUTER SCREEN AND THUMP YOU!!! AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!! when a pretty woman tell a screwed up lonely male that all you have to do is unfold yr hand or change yr perspective? bollocks!! life is a lot more complicated and harder than that... and masturbation is not the answer either!!! what is love then ? without love there is bound to be anger...
ARDUNNO 3 months ago
@ARDUNNO Precisely,you need love.This is a basic need. Trying to get it from others is simply frustrating you. How do I love myself,how do I learn to consciously experience love within myself? these should be your questions now. When you begin to find your answer then you will find that you are not lonely any more, people will be attracted to the way you feel within yourself.
satsumamoon 2 weeks ago
@satsumamoon ......'How do i learn to consciously experience love withing myself?' HOW indeed? when theyre holding hands and have someone to meet and love... i have 'muscle memory' of REJECTION FRUSTRATION TENSION ANGER TERROR LONELINESS not love.. i do not feel attractive or lovable,im not even sexually interested anymore.. or 'love' feelings.... i dont look in the mirror and love myself. i look in the mirror and think 'fking hell how much more do i have to go thru this shit?'
ARDUNNO 2 weeks ago
@ARDUNNO ..the way i feel within myself,,? is years of unwanted sexual love,, turned to hate and disinterest.... rejection making me hate not only myself, but this whole human race! who is gonna be attracted to that? noone..... women are attracted to happy confident men,, whjo have this confidence because they have felt desired wanted and had plenty love sex in the past..... ive had nothing but hell...occasional sex.. very little love or trust...i cant feel love within myself...
ARDUNNO 2 weeks ago
@ARDUNNO ....only discontent,,, restless energy anger ... unwanted,, i do not desire sex anymore... i just question why i have lived till im 39 and never really felt fucking wanted....never really felt fucking loved...not for many years... only left to feel bad about my sex.. bad about my body and other people... i have strength speed power and energy sometimes,, but 'STUCK' in this hell... terror tension rejection frustration anger ALL the oppostie of love sex n happiness!
ARDUNNO 2 weeks ago
I HAVE 'OPENED UP!!'' healed!!!! and my dick is strong... my ballls are raring to go........ BUT this is percieved as perverted,,, SO I have to smoke drink and do drugs to stop the sexual drive.....!!!! so HOW DO WE GIVE LOVE IF NOONE WANTS US?????
ARDUNNO 3 months ago
@ARDUNNO Masturbation is Nature's Gift to men & women to release & harmonize this energy.
alkistisTV 3 months ago
@alkistisTV ...so basically you just call men wankers? masturbation is ok once in a while... but it doesn't stop loneliness or replace a lover..or partner... it in the long run,,, leads to anger... as we realise..there is no love no lovers... and masturbation is not enjoyed,, only seen as a waste or occasion nessecity...a waste of energy and bodily fluids.... self abuse to substitute for genuine human love.... so it is not the answer!
ARDUNNO 3 months ago
@ARDUNNO I think you are confusing giving love with taking bodily satisfaction (no judgement here). First you need to learn that love is your nature, not something given or taken..and you certainly don't need sex in order to be your natural, relaxed and loving self.
satsumamoon 2 weeks ago
@satsumamoon .......if you dont need sex to be your natural self.... then what do you do with your sex? masturabation is degrading and loss of energy,,, energy that should be used for loving a partner... but there is no partner... you people r obviously different (or youre getting laid) because i do not feel the same as you's... i feel fucking frustrated not relaxed
ARDUNNO 2 weeks ago
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ARDUNNO 3 months ago
@ARDUNNO OH PLEASE ! Stop playing the victim: GO OUT AND SHARE LOVE WITH THOSE IN NEED. "It is in giving that you shall receive !" TRY IT FIRST, THEN COME BACK TO ME AFTER 3 MONTHS AND TELL ME HOW YOUR LIFE HAS CHANGED. LOVE HEALS.
alkistisTV 3 months ago
@alkistisTV ...you're obiously a woman who could attract 'love' easy..im a man who can't...in life i have tried to and it isnt easy.. mostly met with frowns and rejection..so i do not even try..love doesn not heal... when i have loved a woman it felt good but after a while hurt me in the long run.frustration,,anger...i never want to hurt anyone or get in trouble so anger often turns on myself out of frustration. if i am e-motionaly messed up that way. HOW can i go and share and give love?
ARDUNNO 3 months ago
@ARDUNNO thank you for your email. I believe that "he who loves" is always a winner, never a loser...Love is not "for keeps", it is like a drop in our palm, if you try to squeeze it, you lose it.
alkistisTV 3 months ago
@alkistisTV How do you give Love if noone wants love? How do you have sex if women call men dickheads and perverts? how do you feel good in your body? if youre constantly frustrated and rejected? How do you enjoy life, if you're in so much pain? how do i go out and give love.. if i know from the past i get rejected?
ARDUNNO 3 months ago
@ARDUNNO You need to go back to basics. Only when you have figured out how to take care of yourself will you be a fit and loving partner for another. Learn what your basics needs are,and how to give yourself the nurturing that you so deeply crave. You've got to do something that will help you sort your real self out. How about starting with martial arts,Tai chi or yoga?
satsumamoon 2 weeks ago
@satsumamoon ...Basic needs? food water shelter clothing and excercise.... i already do ju jitsu..... anger is there because of rejection. frustration tension,, and a feeling of worthlessness in my body.... women do not give love and sex, like in the movies or magazines or tv.. in reality.... i am always alone.... they do not give, but they would recieve,,, and after giving in the past ,,, im stil left wondering what it would be like for me to be loved n wanted,,,?
ARDUNNO 2 weeks ago
@satsumamoon ...and releasing anger... i have a punchbag,,,, but its not enough... i still break things as the it feels pressure of rejection is telling me im unattractive unwanted loveless, no sexual release just tension..frustration, no loving company to make me feel this love that people talk about? fitness leads to more frustration!!! as i realise NOONE WANTS my love or sex ...to much sexual energy... so then i have to turn to drink drugs or meditation.....?
ARDUNNO 2 weeks ago
thanks
summerstone7 9 months ago
I AM SO PISSED.......JUST BROKE A CAGE, PILL BOTTLE, FLY SWATER, HOCKEY STICK, AND BEAT SOME DAMN BARK OF OF A TREE !!!!
748334 9 months ago
if your angry the best method to release it is just punch the person the who your angry at ! and curse a lot ! and break stuff thats in your way !
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRGGHHH !!!!
gifventje 1 year ago
im sorry this is all wrong...you can never fully let go of anything (anger, sadness etc) unless you just give it up to God and let him deal with that....your looking for answeres from the wrong person
trocha419 1 year ago
politics will never ever change...it has been the same since the first societies came to be way back in teh beginning....
trocha419 1 year ago
aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk yooooouuuuuuuuuuuuuu... i think thats it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1rhy20 1 year ago
THIS DIDNT HELP AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
jackfenderrox 1 year ago
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
liloboy911808 1 year ago
I AM SO PISSED!
palomamoore 1 year ago
Its not us, its the people that pissed us off.
IIEmceeII944 1 year ago
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Excellent, thank you Alkistis!
michellefilby 1 year ago
Excellent, thank you Alkistis!
michellefilby 1 year ago
I am hideous I can never release my anger shame and depression. I am in a dead end job which I have been stuck in for 5 years have acne all over my chest and genitals, I am balding always poor live with parents unindependant, unmotivated and too lazy to change I want to get hit by a fucking bus or cancer and die instantly because I am too cowardly to commit suicide.
aroundtheworlda 1 year ago
What is the NLP that you mentioned in this video
springrobin 1 year ago
@yutubecop Great ! Whatever works for you dude...
alkistisTV 1 year ago
it makes sence i always use my fists to relrase anger but in result someone else gets hurt hmmmm ok
timilievski 1 year ago
sorry, but after what just happened
i still want to hit someone
CtrlAltDaLEET 2 years ago
it makes so much sense but when you have been thinking and feeling like this for years its so hard to justchange your perspective. i cried through the exercise, its a very powerful way of describing how i feel. I lon for the day when i can just let everything go, i can't wait to see through those new eyes. Thank you for your powerful words.
KELLSIBOB 2 years ago
what she said changed my life for good thank you dearley
adambarradell 2 years ago 5
thank you so much you really helped me you really are amazing for what you do
kc9275 2 years ago 3
"you can heal your life" by Louise Hay. It will change your whole perspective on life. If you are skeptical, fine, but try it anyway. what do you have to lose, right?
1981artchick 2 years ago
what kindof technique does that book use?
spooner1957 2 years ago
she is a motivational speaker. i spent a lot of years really really angry; fighting with my whole family, going thru a ton of personal hell and being very much alone. I finally found the right person, one of my instructors, to help me. she told me about the book and i did some research. she shows you how changing your thinking can change your whole life - and its true -my whole life has changed since i learned that i had the power all along to change my life and create my own happiness.try it
1981artchick 2 years ago 2
it took me so long to see the young lady haha. Your advice isn't bad, but its so hard to accomplish. When im alone for a long time i start to see things very positivly and notice the beauty in the world, but everyone and everything that circles me in day to day life feed me so much fury and i feel asthough it would be easier to just end it all. In some cases, perspective is not the problem. then again i could be wrong
Christianbore 2 years ago
I LOVED your advice, i really can feel what you mean by start looking at your problems by difrrent perspective ! that really helps thanks so much
Misho0o1992 2 years ago
i still with anger and pain and i stll feel like hurting and killing.ur lilttle extrecise is not working for me,
presario123presario 2 years ago
Presario 123 - i hope you are not serious about hurting yourself or killing. if you are, please find someone you can talk to. there is no reason you should have to walk around with all that built up anger and pain.
1981artchick 2 years ago
i give, i do favors and i get into a lot of trouble for most people. I have found a "creative outtlet" for my anger but i just feel so empty like something is missing in my life. I have had thoughts of ending it all(if you know what i mean). I find myself unable to function during the day. i cant rely on my parents they are really stuborn and approach most situations in a way thats bad for me. i love them as my parents but not who they are as people.
Munchays 2 years ago
I think my perspective is good but i feel so destructive i want to just brake things. I hate the society we live in and the system that controls us and everybody just tells me to sit there quietly and it makes me angry.I feel like i dont exsist life just feels so empty and the only way i feel i can release my anger is through physical destruction but i always find myself unable to realese anything and it all builds up.
Munchays 3 years ago
Perhaps you can find a positive & creative outlet for your anger. Anger is selfish, try to serve others, thereby healing the negativity.
alkistisTV 2 years ago
@Munchays dude true this.i always wanna hit someone as hard as i can..i dont know if you watch like ufc or mma but vior belfort has a highlight reel knockout of wanderlei silva.thats what u envision myself doing to someone..just dropping someone.
dhowardfacial 1 year ago
@Munchays ...i have similar thoughts, my suggestion is that you do need a change in perspective...
.../ when i feel upset, i try anger mngement techniques, meditation, and prayer also...[i also read religious text]...for me when i believe "in love"[as lofty as that sounds]...i start to like society. but i only let people in my life who love me. even if it is one or two people.when my inputs are mostly positive. my view on life and society are also.
summerstone7 9 months ago
@Munchays ...i would also vent in healthy ways...go into a room where you can make noise...and throw stuff...take a bat and pillows, or a punching bag, starting hitting inanimate things, swear,scream,and scream at who you are angry with. i ve done this, it helps me a lot. after twenty minutes of "venting", its amazing how good you feel.
summerstone7 9 months ago
I love that you know exactly what lesson to teach and how to do it most effectively. Bravo. You are amazing at what you do!
sweetpillz 3 years ago
I enjoyed this.
gerry2345 3 years ago
I'm so glad you're ok - your videos are inspirational. I hope the situation in Greece is resolved soon - for everyone's benefit. x
DeccaQuinne 3 years ago
You look ready for the boxing ring Alkistis, if only you owned a pair of boxing gloves! ( I agree with the ''quick' release method...)
FOSEEBOY 3 years ago
Hi Alkistis,
great timing, at staff development at school our Science Coach just did that last week, and oldie but a goodie...
Smiles,
Charles
charlesn95 3 years ago
This Video Has Worked The Best Out Of The Videos I Have Seen So Far!!
Melville From The UK
Melville183 3 years ago
Hi Alkistis!
Again - I think you are amazing!
Vibeke from Norway
vibekebj 3 years ago
I enjoyed that video session very much. Thanks for sharing your refreshing perspectives.
Capcom
capcom101you 3 years ago
Even though I knew there was an old lady, I could only see the young one! What the hell?
starkid77 3 years ago 2
Hmmm...try to see the mouth instead of the necklace and a big nose instead of the jaw...
Nyool22 3 years ago
great thank u!
PhilosopherFresh 3 years ago 2
From my perspective I see old and young lady at the same time which makes me special:)
4relevants 3 years ago