I dont date darkskinned girls usually either,only a few times in my whole life.I dont see myself settling down with a darkskinned girl..Theres nothing wrong with that.Im light brown myself.
My guess is that lady had been eyeballing your Latino stranger herself and got irritated that he came over to you.
Usually, when someone pokes into your personal business and tries to control your choices, it's really all about them and their own insecurities and has little or nothing to do with you ;)
It's not like good looking dark brothers and sisters are out there starving. Date what you're into. Having a preference isn't being COLOR STRUCK so long as you're don't treat darker and lighter people different in general.
forget the first comment. If a dark skinned man that was attractive came up to you and asked for a date, you'd turn him down just because he's dark skinned? lol
Ms. J...I called and we had a good laugh about this conversation...as we know, we are alike in this area...but I would have gotten real ignorant with that lady...people trying to control/influence people's decision...yeah that sounds "real back in the day"..I'm glad you stood you ground...I hope u see Rafael again!!!
I dont date darkskinned girls usually either,only a few times in my whole life.I dont see myself settling down with a darkskinned girl..Theres nothing wrong with that.Im light brown myself.
julioholderbusiness 4 months ago
yea this aint even an issue back home you can date whatever complexion or race of person you want.American blacks too afro-centric for me..
julioholderbusiness 4 months ago
My guess is that lady had been eyeballing your Latino stranger herself and got irritated that he came over to you.
Usually, when someone pokes into your personal business and tries to control your choices, it's really all about them and their own insecurities and has little or nothing to do with you ;)
CheezInspector 7 months ago
It's not like good looking dark brothers and sisters are out there starving. Date what you're into. Having a preference isn't being COLOR STRUCK so long as you're don't treat darker and lighter people different in general.
funkbrother216 10 months ago
forget the first comment. If a dark skinned man that was attractive came up to you and asked for a date, you'd turn him down just because he's dark skinned? lol
monica24b 1 year ago
@monica24b No,I wouldn't turn him down but there has to be something there between us. A spark or something.That's just me.
blackkatt100 1 year ago
@blackkatt100 good, then that lady was wrong.
monica24b 1 year ago
You're right theres nothing wrong with dating outside your race but you've seriously never seen an attractive dark skinned man? really? c'mon.
monica24b 1 year ago
Ms. J...I called and we had a good laugh about this conversation...as we know, we are alike in this area...but I would have gotten real ignorant with that lady...people trying to control/influence people's decision...yeah that sounds "real back in the day"..I'm glad you stood you ground...I hope u see Rafael again!!!
truegemmie 1 year ago